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hamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah Leakey Warsaw so happy he adjumani

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brothers and sisters in Islam, as salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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I welcome you to this glorious gathering in sha Allah. And I asked our last panel who had the honor to encompass us with His mercy and blessings, and to grant us the encompassing of his Angel's wings, we ask Allah to save us from Hellfire, to grant us paradise, and to forgive our sins in this wonderful gathering. Today in sha Allah, we have dedicated dedicated this session to speak about the women of paradise. And the women of paradise. I don't mean describing the women who are in paradise. We're not up to that yet, that will be next week in shell in the weeks after on the descriptions of paradise. But here we are describing the types of women in this life that existed and their

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character who they were so that we can copy and imitate both men and women, who were promised Paradise by the prophet of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam and some of them that were promised indirectly through the Quran, and the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam who will enter Paradise. So there are direct and indirect, specific and general but about the women in shallow dial. But before I begin, I would like to recite a verse to start this wonderful gathering about the difference between this world and hereafter and how our last panel data includes both genders the man and the woman in this particular verse describing them as the people of Paradise,

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The meanings of these verse are as follows. Allah says,

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this worldly life has been decorated to the people too much the love

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of desires,

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the love of women in relation to the men, the love of having lots of children,

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the love of wealth, loads and herds of wealth of gold and silver.

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And lovely well groomed horses

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for us today.

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Lovely pieces of transport, machines of transport. So we compete in these things in this world. And we chase after them because of the deceiving decoration

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and also land, loving to take land and purchase land and grow land.

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Allah says this is the temporary enjoyment of this world.

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But whatever is with Allah is more beautiful and is also everlasting. Because the ones here don't last and they can never be anything close to what Allah has in store. Allah then asks a question, say and Mohammed saliva send them Do you want me to inform you of something better than all of this?

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something better than all of it.

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Well, Allah says, For those who stopped themselves or protect themselves from the things which anger Allah Spano died

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with the Lord awaiting them, will be many paradises. jannette plural, not just one garden or two, but many, many gardens, which you will own in paradise.

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Underneath which rivers will flow mean you can control your rivers, you will live in there forever. And you will have spouses in there who are purified and a pleasure from your Lord. And Allah is all seeing of everything His servants are doing.

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The ones now he describes the ones who are going into paradise, the ones who say, oh, our Lord, we are truly believed in you. So forgive us our sins, and save us from hellfire.

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The ones who are patient, the ones who are charitable, the ones who do acts which bring them closer to Allah, the ones who are honest and truthful and loyal, and the ones who seek forgiveness from Allah in the middle of the nights. So in this glorious verse, my brothers and sisters, Allah has brought to us almost basically the whole theme of the Quran, in just a few verses, comparing this world to the next, don't follow it. Don't as in don't grovel over it. And what is in store for you in the Hereafter is much more beautiful and everlasting. Then he describes a little bit of what is there. And then he tells us, the types of people who will enter it. And he gives us numerous

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examples in relation to the, the mentioning of men and women. Specifically, in this verse, Allah has mentioned in general,

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when you talk in the masculine term in the Quran, like masala and you speak in general or in public, in the Arabic language, you refer to both genders. But when you specify the women, then it's only the women. But here in the next verse, Allah spent Allah specifies the men and the women, because a group of people or women used to ask in a time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Or what about the women? So Allah mentioned another verse in a similar meaning, but this time, saying, the men and the women, just to clarify to all of us, that in the Quran, it's referring to both genders, Allah says, and so

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it starts off in relation to the prophets wives, whether the Koran ma utility, booty Deacon, I mean,

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he will come in Allah can Allah please and Javi he speaks about the women of the promises. And I'm saying, and remember, have remembrance of your Lord inside your homes and recite from the verses of your Lord and the knowledge which he has brought through His Messenger, Salah Salem in your homes. Verily, Allah is very patient and compassionate. And all knowing. The prophet SAW said lambs wives are the best example. For the women of all times, Allah is telling them what to do inside their homes to be among the men or women of paradise. He tells them to recite and teach the words of Allah and the message of a law to their children, and make the house atmosphere and atmosphere filled with

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a religious one. So what is shown on television, the mother in the house, who is most often there,

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will show her children, beneficial things that bring them closer to Allah will show them beneficial things. If they are worldly than they are beneficial. She keeps away the how long she teaches her children to avoid the harm in their house. And she doesn't allow anything to enter except things which are pleasing to a lost power dialer. So this is the type of women Allah Subhana Allah recommends to be in a household then Allah goes by explaining the Muslims in general in Muslim ino and was neomed the oil meanie Mina de o con et now and upon eternity. Also the thing you know, Saudi Arabia was savini you know also being on the one clause you know, you know, I don't know

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what to do. You know what to do to

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me, you know

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what have you Lena from Little gentlemen one heavy lot, or that kunena luck, I think you know, as the King

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feel right

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now

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You realize saw the cleaner saw the CT mini in a minute this is to both genders. So Allah says, verily,

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the Muslim men and the Muslim women, the believing men, and the believing women, the ones who concentrate of the men and the ones who concentrate in piety in spirituality among the men and the women, the ones who are given charity of the men and one who are given charity of the women, the ones who first among the men, and the ones who fast among the women, the ones who got their modesty and chastity among the men and the ones among the women, the ones who remember a lot and mentioned him a lot among the men and among the women, Allah has prepared for them a generous forgiveness, and an enormous reward, I'll leave a magnificent reward. So again, we have the descriptions of who will

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enter Paradise among the men and the women. And you see the court and has not singled out the women and made this world agenda just for the men. You are both on that competition, my brothers and sisters, we are both competing men and women. Maybe you have some separate duties, some different roles in some aspects, but we are all in the same test. But probably sitting in different seats. That's all. We're all in the same examination room. Some are sitting at the front, others at the back, some are doing a business test, others are doing a science test. But at the end of the day, you're all after that success. My brothers and sisters in Islam are also sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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spoke of specific women of paradise.

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And he did not speak of them because

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Allah had created them in some, you know, special family where they deserve paradise, just because of the consequences that they were born in. Notice Rasul sassen, and specify these women because they were related

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to a prophet, or to messenger, or to a companion. Or because Allah gave them specific, you know, qualities that he didn't give to anyone else know, are also sellers. Salah send them specified this room because a lot told him number one, and number two, it's because of the work which these women chose to do, and what they choose themselves to be. It was their own effort. They earned it and they struggled.

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There are many of them.

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But I would like to begin with one before these four women, a woman who existed before the time of the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Her name was hedger,

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the wife of Ibrahim alayhi wa sallam.

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And the reason I want to mention her first is because at the end of the verse which I just recited, Allah says, or America and and meanwhile a minute in either a coda la hora, Sulu, Amman, an akuna Allah whom will Hera to meet and marry him. Woman jasola how are Rasulullah who forgot the dollar? Bala lamba Medina, Allah says, and he's never be fitting for any believing man or believing woman, that if Allah and His Messenger have decreed a matter, that they may have their own opinion from their own choice, and whoever this obeys Allah and His Messenger has surely heard a very clear

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in this, there is the example of Hazzard alayhis salaam.

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Ibrahim alayhis salam married her after Asya alayhis salam after sobre la SNM gave her as a gift to her husband Abraham, I set him to marry when she couldn't have any children.

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And Allah gave him a child from this woman. She was a servant of Sarah and she gifted her to him because she was very old, and Hazara Selim was young.

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And Allah gifted him a child from her by the name of his smile, alayhis salaam, another prophet. He was his only child.

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And the Brahma is cinemas over 80 years old. And he was actually very old. He looked old and he was old. And Allah gave him that child after he had longed for him. And he was a boy, and Allah made him a prophet.

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And then suddenly, one day,

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Ibrahim alayhis salam receives a command that he has to take his wife hedger, and his only newborn son is made Allah His Salaam into the middle of a desert, which we now know is

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at those days, there was nothing there. There was no water, no people, nothing, you know the story, to leave them in the middle of the desert and to return without them. Just like that.

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No sources, no people, no food, leave them there and come back.

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And so he went on that journey. Note has earlier said I knew nothing about it.

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All she knew was that they were going on a journey and they're going to come back home. But also notes, my dear sisters, how she was obedient and loyal to her husband. trust between the husband and the wife. He is a prophet of God. And she is obeying Him putting her trust and loyal t in Allah then who is her husband?

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So they went, and when they reached the middle of the desert, they sat down, and Ibrahim alayhis salam stood up, and he started to walk back to Palestine.

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And he did not ask his wife to follow. So she chased after him. Yeah, Abraham elementa tucana who he leaving us to? There's no one with us. What are you doing? And Ibrahim alayhis salam Sallam would not reply to her. Why?

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Because if he replies we'll get into a conversation. And he is afraid that his heart may lose itself. He has to fulfill the command of a Lost Planet. Allah Allah has a plan.

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He just kept walking straight without looking at her. And she kept on following him. Yeah, Ibrahim elementa truckin. Who are you leaving us to?

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And he would not reply, just kept walking? Finally,

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has Aralia Selim stopped for a minute and thought with her piety with a righteousness with a knowledge of a Lost Planet Allah she asked one simple question yeah, Ibrahim

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law Hello, America we had is it Allah who commanded you to do this? And Ibrahim Ali Salaam, still without looking at her, he replied in only one answer.

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He said, nom. Yes. And he kept walking at this point has Aralia Selim stopped and she watched her husband walk away. she calmed down. And she said the following words

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even laying yada yada law.

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Therefore,

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Allah will not let us go

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along will not lose us. Hello, hello, I

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want you to put yourself in that position to assist in imagination. It's just a story.

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But imagine you were really there. And it is you.

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The woman who her husband is commanded to leave her right there, in the middle of nowhere.

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In the middle of nowhere, there are obviously many men who can't even do what has alayhis salaam did, which man can do that. We are talking about women which men can do that. She had the power of 100 minutes that time at heart. She said even lay yada yada and Allah Allah will not lose us such reliance upon Allah subhanahu wa Tada. Why would she not be one of those of Paradise is a perfect example of either a Yoda Yana Allah Allah will not lose us and you know the story.

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She began to run between Safa and Marwa no food ran out and alas pantalla gave them water called medicine

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and a whole village came and lived around them and it's made Isilon grew and hedgerows Sallam lived among these people. And they Allah, Allah will do it for them not only to be looked after, but to also grow a whole city, a whole city, a new tribe, which never existed before. And it lasted out of her honor last night that I honored her in the Quran and honored her till today, millions of Muslims around the world go men and women to carry out the ritual of a woman.

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One woman

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What do we do? We actually hurry between Safa and Marwa What is it? It's working and hurrying between Safa and Marwa.

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Why? Just because of one woman.

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Now who would you want to be honored by

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the fashion industry?

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The media are Allah subhana wa Daad

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are men who do you want to be honored by

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your business at work? be promoted a little bit okay be promoted? But which one do you yearn for mostly compare. Is there any comparison between being honored by a human by a man or being honored by a last panel with that? There is absolutely no comparison. And here is his earliest cell and one of the best examples not only for the women, but for the men before the women

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tells us and this Hadeeth

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came in several versions.

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But I narrate to you one of them.

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Mmm Ahmed Rahmatullah la reported with an authentic chain of neuron

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That the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he wants to drew four lines and said to his companions

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Do you know what these are?

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And they said, Allahu, Allahu Allah, Allah and His Messenger know best. He said,

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the best women of the women of Paradise

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are Khadija been to Hawaii.

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Fatima bint Mohammed Salah Salem, Maria ignitor, Emraan and Asya been to Musa him the wife of Pharaoh,

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Rod the Allahumma Jemaine

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in another Hadith, which is inside Muslim, or Azusa Salim said Kamala mean originally Kathy, Rouen, what a miracle mean and Nisa illa arroba,

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which means in history in the history of the world,

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the past many men

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who are complete in every aspect of good character,

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many men came past who are complete in many aspects of good character in all the aspects of good character. However, only four women in history

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will come absolutely complete in every good aspect of character. What does that mean? Some people they misinterpreted this Hadith, they thought that these women were complete, meaning they didn't have them insists that's what they said they didn't have their menses. That's why these were the only women who were complete. This, my dear brothers and sisters is so far away from the truth as far as the east from the west. In fact, it makes absolutely no logical sense not even any Islamic sense whatsoever.

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The woman therefore is perfect. If it wasn't for her menses No. Four is Allah who created them instance in her and it is not her choice. And if it wasn't for that she cannot bear children.

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In fact, menstruation for a woman is a blessing

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is a blessing for the offspring to come. However,

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what it means is come with lemonade reach, como se la bonne angle completed meaning and character. character has various aspects, patience, loyalty, honesty, integrity, and so on and so forth. There are 1000s of aspects of good character. He said, there were many men who came that fulfilled in completeness, all the aspects of good character that were perfect in loyalty are perfect and honesty perfect and integrity. Perfect in all in bravery, perfect in righteousness, perfect in all these ways, but only for women in history. were perfect in all the aspects of good character. You mentioned piety, they were on top the best. You mentioned righteousness. They were the best.

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Honestly, they were the best loyalty they were the best integrity. They were the best courage and bravery. They were the best.

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They were the best in all the aspects of character.

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And then he said Khadija rhodiola Juana Mariam ignitor Emraan as yet the wife of Pharaoh and fatimata, Zahara, the daughter of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa.

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Let us now have a look just briefly at each one of their lives, to see what is it that made them so important, and the best in character. And I have I can only briefly mentioned a little bit of each one.

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Because words cannot lie cannot do justice for these great women who are the greatest example for men and women to get

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and by the way, Maria mala has salon and Khadija for the Allahu Allah are actually the best among the for the amendment Bahati narrated from Ali Vitali bill the Allahu anhu that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, the best of its women is Miriam and the best of its women. Is Khadija from the Aloha on edge mine.

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Let us begin with Miriam ignitor in Milan.

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alayhis salam

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Maria mala has salon

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is the first lady. That's what Maria means. The best of all women. Otto Bharani, reported from Jabir that the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,

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the leaders

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after Maryam bento Emraan of the women of Paradise will be Fatima, Khadija and Asya, the wife of the Pharaoh, so they come after Maria alayhis salam, even Allahu Akbar, what kind of a woman was she?

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The reason why Maria Malaya Salaam is considered the best of all these women is clearly stated in the Quran. Allah says, Behold, the angel said, Yeah, Maria in Allah has stefanki What are her Aki mostofa kerela Nisa

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inla mean, sort of lm Ron, which means Behold, the angel said, Oh Marian, Allah has chosen you and purified you and preferred you above the women of all nations.

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She had a particular character in her, which you practice to perfection. And so our last panel dialer said, I have chosen you, based on this character, purified you, based on this character, purified her in her heart, in a spiritual form, in her qualities in her character in her mind, in her tongue, purified her in all aspects. And Allah says in the Quran, Fatah cabella Hara Mojave capulin, Hassan.

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Allah said, and so your Lord accepted Maryam Allah has salon

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with a goodly acceptance and made her to grow in a good manner. Her mother,

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when she gave birth to her, she said, Oh my Lord, accept my daughter in a goodly acceptance. And so Allah said, Your Lord therefore accepted her in a goodly acceptance. From the beginning Maryam alayhis salaam was brought up in righteousness. And she was brought up under the guardianship of zecharia alayhis salaam, who was also a messenger of God, he raised her and taught her.

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There were several other religions. She knew them, but she chose not to go by them, for she was a hanifa, meaning one, a monotheists, one who worship Allah alone.

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And Miriam alayhis salam, the daughter of Emraan.

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Allah says, whose body was chased, so we breathe air in something of our spirit. And she put faith in the words of her Lord and His scriptures, and she was of the obedient, you can see now the qualities in her, she was obedient. This is a choice that people make my brothers and sisters Allah doesn't create you obedient. Allah commands us to be obedient and advises us, but it is up to our own whims and desires. To see if we follow them or up to our own conscience to see if we are going to obey Allah Subhana Allah instead, he said she put her faith in the words of Allah. Allah said something, she trusted them. She obeyed him subhana wa Ireland, and in here I'd like to clarify

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something. What does it mean that Allah spent Allah put something of his spirit or our spirit in her?

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The Christians use this as a refutation that we say that all there is no particular Holy Spirit. But here a lost power dialer, in various other verses has defined who the spirit is. He says the spirit of ours is up to Allah His solemn and the soul which Allah created and put into medium Alia Selim was a special soul. Another spirit which is the spirit of most of Elisa Elisa Lam Jesus Christ, peace be upon him.

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As though Allah has created the Salah his Salaam, from a special soul, we all have spirits, we all have souls. Adam alayhis salam had a spirit and Allah refutes any person who says that the spirit of a Salah is Salim is something that is divine. Allah Subhana Allah says if anyone had that special quality, it would have been Adam alayhis salam. He created him from soil and he said to him B and he was and similar thing happened to a Sally's salon. He created for him his soul, and he said B and he was without a father. Maria Malia, Selim, carried him and was pregnant without a father. What happened to her allows pantalla calls and speaks about Medallia's Salim in the Quran saying she was

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a devout woman, an obedient woman, a chaste woman. She stayed away from all impurities, and she was known to be the worshiper of that area, and she used to stay inside of the Messenger of Allah subhanho wa Taala and being taught by Zachary alehissalaam as we said to her as a gun in his guardianship. Last month, Allah tells us about a specific moment of Maria Molly has Salah he says when Zachary Ali Salim entered upon Maria in hermit crab.

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He says cool lemma de la la has a Korean Arab everyday every time Zachary Ali Salim entered the monastery where Maria Malia's Salaam was there worshiping her Lord and remembering him or her his call. He found with her a special provision was that is in the Tafseer it says that she would receive the fruits and vegetables of the winter when it was summer and she would receive the fruits and vegetables of the summer when it was winter. Now nowadays it's it's a bit difficult to understand because we have transportation now. So countries from different seasons can send us their fruits and vegetables. But when you are living in a time where there is no such technology, how is

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it possible that you will receive food of the winter in summer and food of the summer in winter? This is impossible in those days impossible.

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We're talking about decades of 1000s of years.

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And what was her reply?

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Call it, who I am in 19.

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This provision is from Allah.

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Mothers should teach their children, that all the provision they have in their house, that it is from Allah that He provided it, and explain to them how Allah provided it. If it wasn't for Allah creating the rain, we would not have vegetation son or daughter. And so Allah provided us with it. If it wasn't for Allah, Allah to order the earth to grow these crops, we wouldn't have not had these crops in vegetation. So let us thank Allah for what he has provided us and Maria Amalia Salaam is the first among those examples. No one had superseded her among the women to say who I mean. It is from Allah subhanho wa Taala. And so she carried the baby. And she went as far east as you know, and

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she gave birth to a child. At that moment when the pangs of labor came to her.

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What would you do?

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What would a woman do in these days it was noble and chaste. And everybody knows she has a perfect reputation. She is now pregnant, who is going to believe her? Who is going to believe her that she did not commit fornication or adultery? She's not married.

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She comes from a noble family

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who is going to believe they're going to say This is outrageous and imagination? Imagine a woman coming today and says, I'm pregnant because God will do it for me. I'm not married, and I've never fornicated you'd say This is absurd.

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Take yourself to there. That time, what would she going to do?

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A law tested her with something enormous.

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To the point where she said beneath the palm tree, yeah, la attorney Amy Tocopilla Heather, welcome done. So

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I wish that I would have died before this day, and forgotten.

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The scholars say a person is allowed to wish for death. If it is out of piety to Allah Spano. Dada meaning to say, Oh Allah make me die.

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If that is better for me for my religion, she was afraid for her Deen for piety for her religion alayhis salaam and we know the story. A Salah is Salaam called from beneath, saying Don't be sad and my mother.

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Shake the trunk of the palm tree and dates will fall upon you.

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Maria Maria Selim is an example here telling us for the women and the men that Allah will not provide you unless you work towards that a little bit.

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How can a woman giving in labor shake the trunk of a palm tree? Can you shake the pantry and make dates fall down? Not even elephant can do it. She is in labor. And he says to her shake the trunk of the palm tree. Not only that, the tree was dry. Dead.

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How a date is going to fall anyway Howard that's going to be on it. But even in that situation, she had to do some effort. So she touched the trunk of the palm tree and fresh dates fell upon her. He says for Cooley will shrubby will Catarina eat and drink and enjoy. For me. I thought I didn't I mean especially ahead if you see anybody say I have vowed fasting to my Lord. Don't say anything. Don't speak in those days fasting also meant not speaking. So she approached her people. And the baby was in her arms.

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And they said to her, What did they say to? Yeah, Maria?

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Maria locoregional edition. Fairy

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brought something outrageous.

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And then they said, yeah.

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bouquet my

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daughter Oh, oh, the sister of Aaron meaning how do you sell Amazon noblemen?

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Oh, the one who is the likeness of a prophet. So they acknowledge that your father wasn't

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a dirty man.

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And your mother was not unchaste she wasn't also a dirty woman. What are they saying?

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They are saying accusing Madame la has sent him of being a dirty and wicked woman.

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accusation. What are you supposed to do? She was patient for a shout out LA. She pointed to her baby. And he saw alayhis salaam responded while he was a baby Unicredit Allah subhanaw taala protected her. What is the moral here? Maria alayhis salam put her trust in Allah subhanho wa Taala. She could have resorted to an abortion.

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How did they

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Do abortions those days? Yes, then you should have thrown yourself off a tree.

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This was the primitive way of getting an abortion. Some people in primitive countries today still do that today.

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Women who are impregnated, they fought, they throw themselves off a branch and I lose the child. She could have run away. She could have killed herself.

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For a noble woman like that she could have done any of that. But no, she trusted in Allah subhanho wa Taala and returned to face the people. Why? Only because of one thing. It's obvious everyone's gonna say, well, it's obvious Allah was on her side. Exactly. How many of us today have that strong connection with Allah that we can say Allah is on my side. And so we face the truth. How many? When it comes down to the crunch, how many of us will really stand firm?

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This is an example of one who stood in the path of Allah subhanaw taala impiety Maryam alayhis salaam

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Salim said she was among the perfect women and she will be the wife of the Prophet Mohammed Salah send them in paradise.

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The second woman or Susana Selim spoke about was his own beloved wife. His first wife had deja vu,

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deja vu,

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deja de la Juana.

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You will know her story

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at a time

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when this noble man at the age of 25 years old, before it was a prophet.

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She was a woman of absolute nobility.

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The most honorable and wealthy men of the city, asked for her hand in marriage.

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She refused them. She had been married before Yes, so only the most noble of men, and they all died.

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And so she was honored among all them and even before Islam. They used to call her the noble woman, the honest woman, the loyal woman, the pure woman, even in Jay Hillier.

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She was a very successful trades woman as well. And the men respected her because when she traded, she traded with modesty.

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And with chastity, she didn't mix with men even before Islam in a wrong way. So they respected her immensely.

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No one spoke about her badly. And this is almost similar to the way Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was known before he became a prophet,

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a man of nobility and a man of honesty, amount of loyalty, very similar in characteristics of Panama. And no one had this characteristic except for Khadija, the Allahu anhu. Among all the women, how close in resemblance in her character to the prophet SAW Selim, even before Islam, something special about this woman, obviously the mind and the intellect and the choices the human makes, Allah has given us the ability to choose right and wrong, and she was among those

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who also saw Selim came to ask for her hand in marriage.

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He was 25 she was 40.

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age doesn't matter, when noble characteristics are present, are also saw Selim said, and among the best paradises, the meaning of the Hadith, and among among the best living as though you're living in paradise in this life, is a noble woman, a wife, that when you look at her, she pleases you. Meaning her character, her smile, her talk, her living with you pleases you said she's like a paradise. And so her these are the lohana was a paradise of Bahamas, I sell them on this earth.

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When I send them receive the message of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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you know the story.

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People were already thinking what does the mess what is Mohammed Salah, send them do up in the cave of Hara?

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What is he doing up there?

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He would spend weeks after weeks, days after days. And hadisha the Allahu anhu she did not walk away, saying, why don't you give me time? Why don't you spend time with me? you neglect me.

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She knew who her man was. And she knew there was something full of wisdom

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for listen to what she said to him. When he came to her on that day, when gibreel alayhis salaam bestowed himself and everywhere the stars send them would look in the sky he could see gibreel alayhis salam, he covered the sky and no one else could see it.

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Until the prophet SAW Selim thought of himself I am possessed.

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What is wrong with me? Has God will something bad for me? He entered the house of his wife Khadija lorawan Yes, it was her house and also sausage to trade on her behalf as well.

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And he entered her house which

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She shared with him salallahu alayhi wasallam. Yes, she wasn't one of those women who says, This is my house. And I can say to you can leave whenever I say so.

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She said, this is our house. And I'm loyal to you, my husband.

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He entered and he was shaking and shivering, confused.

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He lied down on the ground.

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And he income braced himself

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as though he had no one else to hold on to.

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And he said the following words, he said,

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Sam Maloney, please embrace me with a blanket Cover me cover me up, cold and shivering, pale,

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blond hair raised with a blanket and covered him up. And she embraced him sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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This is usually what a husband does to his wife to protect him, but this time, also saw sin and required protection

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for something that happened to him that no human being can be online.

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she embraced him without the alarm on her. And she's calmed him down. And he said, I feel her deja. She was the only one he can turn to. I feel her deja

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possessed. Something Allah has willed for me. You know what she said to him? There was no one who could say these words out of anyone in the tribe except for her digital deal, in fact, in the whole world. She said infirm words and in strong words, yeah, Mohammed Salah Hall aka Rasul Allah, my husband,

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how can you say this? One la la, la la, la la he by God, Allah will never betray you.

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And toto termina miskeen. You feed the poor people. What that will do what that when you have a team and you are the one who embraces and give shelter to the orphans.

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What a sinner or ham and you are the one who connects between families. And you are the one who reconciles between people. Allah will never betray you. Be patient, my husband, this is a wisdom and a new beginning from your Lord Allahu Akbar. And I want you to live this moment just for a minute over here.

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Here is a man who has entered his house who has come with the most unbelievable thing. He says, I've seen this and I've seen that and I've received this. Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, and even himself. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is thinking what has happened?

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Khadija the long one who makes him firm. Howdy God Allah who believes in him. Khadija radi Allahu Ana. she invites the Prophet sallahu wa sallam himself to accept what has come to him. of message from Allah.

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It was as though Allah spent Allah has sent her the shadow of the Allahu Allah to be the wife of the prophets, I send them 50,000 years before the creation of the universe

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for this moment,

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if our assassin did not have Khadija they're sent by Allah, who would give him that strength.

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He was Allah who gave him that strength.

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And he sent Khadija the laquan as a means

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to make her an example for all of us.

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For the women who come later on her these are the law, one that protected the process and how did she protect him? Not with physical force?

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No. She protected his moral being.

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She protected him in his heart. She protected him by being his moral support by his side, my dear brothers and sisters in Islam. She never law one day, said to anyone or even made it sound to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that look, you know, it seems that we're going to have to go our separate ways. He never called him a madman, a lunatic, one who stepped one lie. She never said this in his life. But rather she said, You are a wise man who has been given an enormous message. And she took him to her uncle,

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who was a wise man who knew the scriptures. And he said, what a covenant ofor he said to him,

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you in no nemos the one whom you are seeing in the sky is Djibouti alayhis salam and now most which was mentioned in the Bible,

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he said, and if I were to live to the day,

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when your people drive you out of your land, I will will he be among the first to support you?

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But he died before the message of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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I also saw Salah mentioned him and our scholars tell us that he was among those who live before Jay Hillier, who would go to Paradise.

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Khadija de la Juana stood by his side all the way my brothers and sisters,

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she went with him under three years of hunger.

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She

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took the beatings, meaning the words of the people, she lived with him and said, I will be

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with you through every heart and through every ease of the Aloha Khadija della Han

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and for that one day Jabra Allah is Salam came to the prophet SAW Selim and said to him,

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a messenger of God.

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Your wife is about to come to you carrying some wood. Soon she's about to come to you.

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I have come to you with a message from your Lord from seven heavens.

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When she comes to you,

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inform inform her the following message from Allah.

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from Allah subhanho wa Taala

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when she comes to you say to her, that Allah her Lord loves her, he is pleased with her.

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Well, but she did have the cost sorry because three min Weber should have the bait infinity genetti min. Kasab layer Olam fee well Anna soap

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and give her good news that Allah has prepared for her a palace in paradise made of pipes of the most precious pearls and stones

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in there in Paradise, where she will have no more hardship.

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And she will have no more hearing of harsh words.

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So Khadija de la Han approached, and the process alum has had a smile from his ear to ear smiling. And he said and she said to me, oh, my dear beloved husband, what is it? He said to her? I have the best news for you, my dear wife. Allah has sent a message to you through the washroom that you that he is pleased with you. And you have a house built specially for you in general. What did Hades or the Allahu anhu reply?

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She said, a messenger of God.

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And I love my Lord.

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I love my Lord.

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My dear brothers and sisters in Islam, Who is this woman? Allahu Akbar. And what was her aim and objective in life? It was Allahu Allah and paradise. I also saw sell and never married another woman in her lifetime, who would possibly do so?

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And her these are the Allahu anhu died at a moment when the prophet SAW send them needed her the most.

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Why?

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Our scholars say, so that you will not think that it is his wife only that gave him the protection, but so that you know that it is a law who is giving him the protection and it is Allah who sent him this noble woman for protection.

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And so Allah protected her.

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The second one, or the third one that the process and I mentioned is Asya been tomasa the wife of Pharaoh alayhis salam,

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Allah mentioned Asya in the Quran, but without saying her name in sorted at the him. Allah says about Asya or the Aloha and Allah Salaam,

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WA God Obama home,

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vena

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cava

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finance Finnegan? Do you wanna Genie? Wanna Genie? phenol? No, I'm anyone a genie? I mean, I know call me avani mean. And Allah says that the ayah and Allah has given an example to those who believe the wife of Farah when she said, oh my lord, build for me. Build for me a house with you in your paradise with you close to you, and save me from fear own

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and his actions and save me from the oppressive people.

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What kind of woman is that for a lot of mentioned in the Quran? Well, I'll tell you what, she is the wife of the most richest king in that day. frown, who had everything under his command, to the point where he said to the people malim Tula Camila Inverurie, I have not known any other God, but myself for you. And this is his wife. She had all the palaces. She had everyone at her at her feet.

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She only had the clicker fingers and who wish was her command.

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She had everything. Jani Allah, Allah is giving us the example of one of the one of the

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Queen of Queens of the world who had everything that you could wish for in her time that if she was here today, she will be the most richest and most powerful woman on the face of the earth today.

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She had everything that one could imagine in those days.

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Why is Allah giving us her as an example, to tell us that you can have everything you want in the world and if allow her to give it to you?

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It is nothing compared to what Allah has installed in paradise. So what did he say? As he Allah salon, she had embraced Islam and followed the religion of Musa alayhis salaam in secret. And when found found out she faced him, and she said, Yes, I follow the religion of mo Sally's center.

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So for onbroad, his own wife, with his soldiers, and he began to torture her, whip her, make her bleed, punish her so that she may renounce the religion of musante his Senate, but she stood firm brothers and sisters.

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There's a hadith that states in narrations that he hung her from the ceiling with chains from her breasts.

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That's how we torture her. And she would cry alayhis salam from the pain.

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But then she said the following words, Oh Allah built for me a palace with you, close to you, with you, my lord. And Allah showed her her palace in general while she was under the torture. In the narration it says that she began to smile under the torture because Allah had shown her palace engender and frown with question confused how can she smile under torture? It is Allah who has comforted her My dear brothers and sisters

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she died under that torture with a smile and a love place during Jenna close to him in a place close in paradise infidels.

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And the final one is faulty. As per the Allah one had the daughter of the Prophet Mohammed Salah was said they called it a Zahara meaning the illuminating one because her face was full of nude. Why? I shadow the Allahu anhu says, By God, I have never met anyone on the face of in my life that resemble the features of the Prophet Muhammad wa sallam more than Fatima, his daughter of their loved one.

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But what she chosen of the people of Paradise just because she looked like the messenger sallallahu sallam, no.

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She was chosen because of her obedience to Allah and her character.

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At the age of only 10 years old, and by the way, she was the first girl to believe in the Prophet Muhammad SAW Center at the age of 10.

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Her struggle with her father Mohammed Salim began and she her mother Khadija Hassan was her mother.

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Her struggle with her father began, and she went through the bitterness, the hardship and the ease with her father Salallahu alaihe was setting them all the way. At the age of 10. She accompanied her father to the message that hold on one time, and he stood in the place known as El hedger, where Ibrahim Ali salams footprints are also saw Selim began to pray in front of the Kaaba and falter Maria Lohan has stood beside him and a group of Quraysh.

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Among them was Abu Jahan,

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abnegation, the prophets uncle, Abu lahab, awkward, no, Abby might or may have no Caliph and shaybah and ultimately the sons of Arabia. They all stood there and what did they do?

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About Jehan, the ringleader asked which of you can bring

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the trails that the intestines of a slaughtered animal and throw it on the head of Mohamed Salah send them why he is making such

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an awkward no more. It is the one that volunteered the vilest of the lot. He brought the intestines in the feces and he threw it on the head of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam while he was prostrating solahart aka Rasul Allah. And he stayed in his frustration unable to get up for tomorrow the alarm on imagine what her feelings would be for tomorrow the alarm on her saw her father being treated in such a fashion. What could she do a girl not only even 10 years old, she went up to her father and remove the offensive stuff off his head. And she stood firmly and angrily before those men and she faced them screaming to them, saying to them How can you do this towards the to my father and not

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one of them.

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Even reply to her

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and the process send them made.

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Oh Lord, may you punish the court ah and then he said may you punish October and October Abuja and shaver shortly afterwards in the Battle of better all of them, all of them were killed.

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another occasion felt the middle galanos or the with the professor send them as he made tawaf around the Kaaba, and a coronation mob gathered around him Salah Salem, they seized him, and they tried to strangle him with his own clothes. sallallahu alayhi wasallam for tomorrow the low one has screamed again and shouted for help. What can a small Gil do? And Abu Bakr radi Allahu anhu he rushed to the scene and managed to free the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam while saying abubaker delana while saying I talked to Luna Raja Nicola Bella, would you kill a man who says my lord is God.

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And far from giving up the mob turn to abubaker the Allahu anhu began to beat him until you could not know the front of his face from the back because of all the blood that seeped out of him for the middle, the lohana trying to protect her father at that time only as a small girl. As far as the middle the alarm on her grew older grew older.

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Often the trials were too much for her. And once about this time,

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when she was a little bit older, a mob heaped dust and dirt on the gracious head of her father, sallallahu alayhi wasallam and he entered his home sold sell him and he was upset and sad. For tomorrow the alarm on her whipped and as she wept and cleaned the dust off her father's head, but also saw Selim said to her Do not cry, my daughter, for God shall protect your father.

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He wants it to fall in one of the lohana

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whoever pleased Fatima has indeed please God, and whoever has caused her to be angry has indeed angered God. Fatima is a part of me. Whatever pleases her pleases me and whatever angers her, angers me. One time It also says enemies to whatever you had a food center Fatima LaWanda and only because she married him for the low one.

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And

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he brought some food to her and to his tribe. And then for the Madonna one use cheese to take food to her father, always. One day she brought food to a father because she was so poor, but once she grabbed hold of some food and she went to a father and when she brought them to him, he said what do you have my daughter she had she said I have enough Father, please take this food. And the process Selim took a few dates and looked at his daughter and he smiled. And he said to her, your father has not eaten in three days my daughter.

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This is the first time your father eats in three days.

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And we are here complaining

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about what

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this is the first food Your father has eaten for three days.

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One subtle salsa Sam returned from a journey outside of Medina. And he went to the mosque

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and used to visit Fatima the Allahu anhu before he visited his wives.

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And at the time of his deathbed,

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he entered I should have the alarm on his house.

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And he was ill. And for the long run he entered. And she said work.

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Oh the pain My father is feeling and he said to her Karbala Abby Kiba Lumia Fatima there will be no harm upon your father after this day.

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And I shut the alarm on her left her father, her husband and his daughter alone. She walked away. And he was the resource I'm used to get up out of his seat. And he used to kiss his daughter Fatima on her forehead and let her sit where he sits. But that day he could not get up because he was so ill.

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So she came up to him and she kissed him the process and then kissed her forehead and she began to cry. Then of course our send them whispered to her two things. The first one made her cry more. And the second one made her smile. I shut the alarm on her said What did she What did he say to you? And she said MacCormack controlli ocea sera rasulillah I will not tell the secret sauce tell him while he is alive. And the day when the prophet SAW Selim died. They insisted on knowing what he had said in secret to Fatima their lohana she said the first news that he said to me was your father will soon depart this world. So I cried. And the second news he said too much made me smile. He said, Liu

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Dickey is not pleasing to you that you will be the first among the women of my family that will follow me

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and it will be among the first that will enter Paradise. So she smiled. She said I was happy that it will not be long before I die so I can meet with my father and be with the last panel with dad.

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It was six months or five

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months after that,

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when she had seen a dream

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when she has seen a dream of her father

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and on that day, she asked for some water and she bathed.

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She then asked her surgeon to help her sentiment to put her bed in the courtyard of the house. With her face looking to the heavens above. She asked for her husband Ali rhodiola Juan, he was taken by surprise in the back he started to cry for his wife, when he saw her lying in the middle of the courtyard and asked her what was wrong. And she smiled and said the following words. I have an appointment today with the Messenger of God. She had seen a dream that her father said to her, I have an appointment with you of our team on my daughter.