The Principle Of Hijab

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Alaa Elsayed

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A talk by Sheikh Alaa titled The Principle Of Hijab: Two Genders, One Divine Injunction, which was delivered at the 2014 ISNA Canada Convention.

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Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah salam aleikum wa rahmatullah Africa to my dear brothers and sisters in Islam.

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This is a sensitive topic indeed.

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So we're going to approach it in two problems.

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So I'm talking to our dear beloved daughters,

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our dear beloved wives, our dear beloved mothers,

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our dear beloved, and

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everyone that means a lot to us.

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Because you do mean a lot to us.

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As you heard the first lecture, you are raised three times higher than men.

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And indeed, you are the soul of the oma. As we mentioned before, the word Omar comes from home mother

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and allows the panel data again honored you in the Quran and prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did indeed,

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you are the measuring stick.

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Heaven, according to us is where you are.

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You mean much more to us than you think.

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As a matter of fact, this poor slave of Allah believes that the state of the oma reflects the state of our women.

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If you're really good and you're nourished you prosper, so will the oma.

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And if not, we will pay the price.

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Who said that?

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prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam on his deathbed

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mentioned something

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and you know what people say

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when you're dying, the say the most important things before you pass on.

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So when he was dying, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said, we'll see convenienza in Hira and he repeated it three times. My advice my Will my recommendation for you is to look after you women look after you woman look after you woman.

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As a matter of fact, Prophet Mohammed, Allah Allah Selim put his eggs in one basket for us men. He says the best amongst us. is the best his wife

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amazing will lie with you think about it. And that's why we care about you so much. Because it is true. You raised the oma, you raise our children, you raise the future of the youth, you are it. ot so you are to us as a treasure.

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You are the treasure that we love so much that we want to protect. Because that's what you do with your treasure.

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If somebody comes up to you and says you know, do you have some gold or treasure or jewelry, will you show them to them, here you go. Can I have your PIN number while at it was chance

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you won't give it to them.

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You have it in a beautiful preserved way.

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So I'm talking to you of the

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behind that

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headbang in music,

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behind the veil,

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behind the headphones that you have in your ear, behind the makeup that you wear

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behind the perfume that you have

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behind the teased up hair that you may do

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behind the tide pants that you may paint on.

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Behind the clothes that you want to show off

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and behind the body that you're dying to be noticed for.

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And behind that beautiful face that you want everybody to recognize. And behind that peer pressure that you want to be known to be beautiful. You want to belong to group you want to walk around and make sure men when they see they go.

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I want her

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You are beautiful of the loss of high note and I mentioned that there is no doubt whatsoever.

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But everyone has his own beauty.

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How to use that beauty could be a play for you or against you.

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And indeed, when you see the fitting outside because they are fit enough for you to the art test. If you live here in Canada indeed you will see people especially in the summer, especially sisters in humanity, when they walk around with Prophet Mohammed Salah Salah mentioned over 1400 years ago, what their attributes are going to be like and now you have to compete with that.

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And you'll understand why the hikma of the hijab comes in the wisdom and the reason behind it.

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You see your husband looking

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and I have to compete with that.

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How do I compete with that when I'm walking around my head is not hair is covered. And I'm wearing loose clothing. And all these other women walk around doing all of that.

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You see before they go outside the look in the mirror to make sure they're the best. They're beautiful. They have everything on just like going on the runway show beautiful models walking around like a hanger that people put the clothes on. And they are now being enslaved into that in doctrine. The idea of this is what the fashion is like today. This year is red. everybody wears red, it's black. Everybody Will's back is. The shirt is custom on the front, the skirt is high above the knee below the knee, cut from the side cut from the left cut from the front cut from the back. The higher the skirt The higher the raise the tighter the clothes, the tighter in your in the crowd. You

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get the job accordingly. It's not what you have outside or inside, is it? No, it's what you have inside. Not the outside is not dimensions. Oh, Tina 3624 36. That's not what we're after. We're after much more than that.

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Because you mean a lot more to us than that. So when they look in the mirror before they leave, they make sure the beautify themselves, you beautify yourself with that job. When they make sure that everything is showing you make sure nothing is showing.

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Indeed as a difficult task. Voila. Here you are the hijab You are a walking pulpit. It has been shot in Islam.

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Anybody could have a beard.

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Anybody you can do different religions are brothers wearing beards.

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You could be even a hippie or you could be a cheapskate you can even afford to shave your beard.

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But you unmistakable you're a walking pulpit. You should be honored welcome proud raising your head. Hi, there is kerama Yes, indeed, you're so high. The angels know you by name. Allah Subhana. Allah to Allah has honored you above all, while la isla de la ilaha illa. Who, if you don't understand the hijab, let us work together on this journey. Hopefully you'll understand why.

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Because most of us, why would Allah subhanaw taala make us do this?

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Are we covering for the sake of these perverts?

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Is this the reason you're doing it? Are you asking me to wear the hijab? So these people here could actually lower their gaze and so on? That's not

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there's a long list of things we get, why don't want to wear the hijab. And they always say convinced me about the job.

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Say No.

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I can convince you about hijab, but I can convince you about Islam.

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Because the error here is not with the hijab, it is with a man.

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So if somebody tells me convinced me about the hijab, I said, Okay, got it all wrong.

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But I'll talk about it. But check your Eman your heart.

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Why?

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Allah Subhana Allah to Allah,

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ordain the hijab, it is best for you.

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Failure you then they will be known so they will not be harmed.

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And if indeed you ask why, Allah Subhana Allah, Allah, Allah, as I mentioned in the earlier ones, is Ella level Hulk. Well, Isn't he the one that actually give the creation, its creation? And he says, indeed, he is one. And he's the one that gives the command. So scholars will tell you, we wear the hijab to what for the reasons for these guys? Nope. is Allah Subhana Allah gave us that command, we wear it. We may not understand the wisdom and indeed, there's lots of wisdom in it. But we do it. Because we are Muslim, we submit what's best for us. And anybody who thinks that Islam is the one that came with the hijab is sadly mistaken.

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hijab was there before Islam.

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And I had this discussion with rabbis and priests and we sit on the multifaith committee, and we discuss these issues, even the schools that come to the center and talk about these issues. And I asked him the same question.

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was his job there before Islam? Indeed, it was in Christianity and Judaism. Islam makes sure that everything else comes back in line ads, what has been deleted correct. What are we mistaken and delete what has been added exactly the same pure going back the primal instinct natural path

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We understand that nuns wear the hijab. And I'll explain the word caja. By the way, it's not what you think.

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And

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I always ask, can you please tell me what the hair color was of Mary May peace be upon her, the mother of Jesus May peace be upon him. Up till now I've heard so many different colors. I'm not going to share it with you. But you can imagine.

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In the end, he told me, I don't know. And I asked him why he says, because she was wearing hijab.

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Amazing.

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So they tell you being oppressed, isn't true, you've been oppressed, while you're being freed.

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You're not enslaved to whims and desires because you're walking around being measured according to your beauty. No, you're being measured according to your intellect, what you have in your hearts, who you are as a person, not who you are as a body, way higher than that you think, you know why? Because if you have what it takes, now you have what it takes you flunked it, you will be a threat to others.

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Other women don't have what you have.

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So he allows of Hana to Allah and the wisdom of Islam that protects everybody else from you.

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But whether you like it or not,

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that time clock ticks.

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And when you look in the mirror, one day, you will see some lines starting to appear.

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You will start seeing some gray hair

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starts to come around, maybe some glasses, maybe some hearing aid.

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You will make noise when you sit and even a higher noise when you get up.

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Gravity starts to work.

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aerobics don't the trick anymore, and you still love chocolate.

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It's a tough battle. But you don't have what it takes anymore. Oh god.

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Now there is a younger girl than you more beautiful than you a better body than yours. Now your husband is going to look at others like you were to others for that fitness. You used to be the arrow of shaitan now allows him I know it's Alice telling you come after Dino to Dan as you do will be done unto you. But if you protect yourself or others allows the panel to Allah protect you from everybody else.

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So when you're young, Islam protects everything, everybody else from you. But when you're old, Islam protects you from everyone else.

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Now think about it.

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You are freed indeed. Why? Because you're not enslaved to a creation. You're enslaved to a creator.

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I share with you

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a story of Dr. Right up there. Habibullah also once said,

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a woman came in the audience that says women in Islam are oppressed awareness hijaab and so on.

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You know, he said great.

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And he offered her chocolates

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in this chocolate.

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He had to just please come.

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So he took the shell off one and kept one without a shell says please choose.

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Which one do you think she chose?

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The one that was covered? He says Get your hand off my hijabi chocolate.

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Yesterday, why did you pick the one that's covered as well you know, it's not seen as not touches. It's not something in the long list. Same same thing of tea. Do you understand now who you are and there's much more the pearl.

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The Pearl is what's inside the shower may not look as pretty, but it's what's inside that looks pretty.

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Indeed, you're a walking pulpit

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and the word hijab By the way, you understand hijab is a veil, or conceal

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or something to ward off. But the actual word in the quiet because they will tell until you know it's not in the Quran. When you write the word hijab is on the planet. So the woman was hijab, meaning as the mother believers behind a curtain, so illness of the heart Even doesn't go there. But the word tomorrow is there.

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And when people say you know what's it for me? Is that per diem for me but if you go back to the plan, you'll find out that a level supine on data stuck into Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam says, Oh Prophet, yeah, you wanna be la SOTA, salaam,

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Poli Sci delphinium say unto them, to your wives, your daughters. One is I mean, and the unbelieving world.

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If you don't want to be among the believing woman of the year, it's your choice. It's a free country.

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You can do the Macarena can raise the roof. You can do the funky chicken, you can do whatever you want. It's up to you.

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But that's a choice you have to make. What you want you want, choice of freedom, or oppression,

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choice of gender, or other way, a place in heaven, or a place in hell.

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When you think about it, when Prophet Mohammed Salam was told, even though women, you need Allah hindlimb Angelababy him. So it's sort of the newer verse 31 and sort of that verse 59, Allah subhanaw taala is talking about one chapter, the lower garment and the other chapter about the upper garment. Amazing. But he says this, homo, Navajo Marina Allah God in

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this, Mr. Do you see? No hijab is word Kumar, there's no that word hijab is not there when it comes to that. It's amazing. You know, by definition, the word Kumar is what you cover your head with.

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It's imagine this is you know, what? Could somebody say, you know, here's a sock.

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They give you socks? Do I have to tell you put the socks on your feet?

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their socks, dude.

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Okay, no, I You see, I don't feel good. today. I'm gonna wear the socks on my head. I'm a sock head today.

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I might notice maybe tomorrow, I missed a potato socks on my ears as to socks are worn on feet. KMR is worn on the head. It's really that simple. It's amazing when people actually don't even know Arabic language don't know the definition of the meaning. And they start giving you a fatwa. And if you are going to go shopping, federal shopping, to make sure that you get out of the hijab, it's up to you. But first of all, are you a Muslim? I don't mean that takes you out of Islam. And I mean, do you submit your will to Allah subhanaw taala

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and that's when I asked you to first check your deen check your Eman. Check your heart. And if not, you know what it is. plant the seed of a man the fruit of a man will take out all Shahada what

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plant the seed of a man in your heart,

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faith in your heart. All that misconceptions of shahadat whims and desires shubo hat gray area about your deen will be alleviated because it's about the between you and shaitan

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It is indeed a battle between you and shaitan.

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So you could be a slave of a man or a slave of a shakedown

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you know of the

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that some of the scholars say you know as you will occur them

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it's a bit scary. Hang in there. We'll finish on the positive Okay, promising.

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But Amanda tell him we're interested to see the good, the bad and ugly both.

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Allah subhanaw taala uses the same methodology.

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If you do this, you go to heaven. If you do this, you go to hell. If you do this, you'll be rewarded if you do this, you'll be punished. Seen we do the same with our children, everybody else in schools, in jobs, you get reviewed, you get rewarded, you get fired, you get promoted, you get raised doesn't matter. Everything is according to consequences. Same thing as you go shopping unless your favorite word, isn't it shopping.

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I want you to think that this world is like a shopping mall.

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You go to different stores. You buy what you want, different colors, different sizes, different shapes, different styles, you name it.

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You get everything you want. But what do you do when you actually leave the shopping mall? Before you do? What do you do?

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You pay

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that's all there is to it. You can do whatever you want.

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You pick the style you want.

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But in the end, be prepared to pay the price.

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So we have seen the different styles. Have you not? Oh yeah. And this by the way, these are not my terminology. These certain laws you actually are now over it's actually a Facebook pages. The Punjabi the whole jabby the stealth the camel hub, the Ninja, the there's so much Oh yeah, the hijab for just a cell phone.

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Have you seen the sisters? It's just what do you wear hijab? It's just so convenient for my cell phone. I just put in here walk around. Hey, how you doing?

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I don't have an iPhone. so ridiculous. Right here.

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Everything and then you get confused What's going on? What is halal haram? What is that all about?

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So let's give you just a quick synopsis what it is to identify it, and then we'll take you home inshallah.

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So among it says La Jolla and CIF.

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You should not describe your figure,

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and it should not see through. And you've seen this, I'm sure.

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And we're lucky I never wanted to spare anyone from the mercy of Allah, never. Maybe some of us are not wearing hijab, that's fine.

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We all love less to give you a string, but at least you hear at least you made the effort, at least you did something to come and listen. And that's the first step of the

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Congratulations, you're on your way job, ah, and don't want you to leave this lecture. And when you go outside to go, oh,

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talking to you know, never, never will lie. What the simple fact is that everyone is different. Every level of a man of faith is different. We don't judge we weren't there all the time. Remember, we all make mistakes and sin, but the best of those who make mistakes and send those who come back. And that's why Allah subhanaw taala finishes the surah of hijab, where to boo Illa Allah He Jamia, he will leave it when Allah subhanaw taala talked about the hijab. He says What to do? I'm going everyone.

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Yeah, you are Latina. armano

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are you among Allah? subhanaw

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taala No, is all those who believed?

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Come back, turn back to Allah subhanaw taala. So first thing, let yourself so it's not too tight. And you understand that sometimes some of the sisters think that as long as you

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were your you're, you cover your head and you can do anything else with the rest of your body. You're covered. Right? That's a job according to them. That's what a job is just to cover your hair. So they put this stylish

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French boonie

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Whoa, whoa, whoa, this big thing that is so so just so trendy. So French, like okay,

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and then the rest of the body yummy. I don't know what to tell you. But I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. It's like being painted on you know when you know the sister. Don't look around. Don't look around. I know. Okay, now somebody's gonna go

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with me.

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They think it's me. Now why don't you walk out of this one.

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Somebody to give me a cover.

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Okay, so you get the painted on? You know same thing that I talked about this before. You know when you wear the pants and your voice changes as you wear the pants? How you do you notice difference like the tight you already noticed it? How do you know sight you know when you want to take your pants off when you go? So you lay on your bed you're on your back and you ask for your two younger daughters to to answer suit.

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So each one has an a foot and you say Bow Bow and you have

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an eternal blue because you can't breathe for a few minutes. Okay, you already know it's a bit too tight right? Okay, so first one is la Yosef doesn't actually show that on tour and the figure your body The second one is layer shift meaning cannot see through. Alright man, I got you covered. You get off my back. Okay, it's loose. So you cool with that? All right, but you can see everything under

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what good is that? So the first one loose second one cannot see through very good. And you cannot imitate men so it is known. I'm not saying don't get me wrong between read between the lines, if it's known in that area that only men wear these type of clothes don't imitate them as such. And it's not the Shura meaning the famous people that are known to be not righteous and so on. And it cannot be in itself to be you know, like, you know, when you walk around like a neon sign, whoo, I'm here we type of thing. Okay, so it kind of goes to the opposite of that means fantastic again, and of course, the perfume. If you go around, right, you wear everything and you put all the makeup on

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and all the perfume now. I'll tell you why a bit later, a bit later, inshallah wouldn't have enough time, but hopefully we'll get to there. Okay. So this is a general idea because it was part of the program just to give you what the principles of that hijab is in,

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in general inshallah, okay. Now you understand that okay, man, I'll get you off my back. Cool. All right. What else do you want?

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I want you to be happy. I want you to go the agenda. So I want you to think the uniform in this school. There is a uniform, believe it or not, when you go to work at McDonald's, they will pay you minimum wage.

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But they will give you a uniform.

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They will tell you if you want the job here, you want to be part of McDonald's.

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I'm not working for McDonald's know that I'm promoting them. I'm not recruiting for anything, but I'm just telling you

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Just any any company doesn't matter. You go and they give you a uniform you know what listen here's an orientation thing here's the rules and regulations you follow this you'll get it not then you're I'm sorry you're not you cannot you cannot come and work here.

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Now similarly Jenna has a uniform

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you know why I'm saying this at

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the start on the negative first and we'll finish on the positive inshallah I mean, this topic is very big by the way.

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Let's talk on the negative and bear with me Please hold on.

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I mentioned the verse earlier there's others

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were allows of Hanauer to either have meaning in the third person, it will be taken

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meaning the Angelus some interpretations to a nasty place you have been now see while after them

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okay, so you've seen the Facebook picture.

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And I've talked about this before you know you have to Facebook's right to Facebook accounts. No. What just others other sisters? Not us. No, no, no, no. Okay, cool. So you are sister Fatima and you invite your mom and dad to your Facebook account Fatima

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and you call them father and mother.

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But then you have another secret Facebook account

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will you call yourself Foxy Mama.

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And again like whether you kiss the air in the corner

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and the hijab is slightly different now where you have this bangs hanging down stylish so beautiful well convenient as your

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check under the hood look I'm not wearing this hedge up thinking because I have a bad hair day. No check this out man.

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Yes And of course if it's not windy that day to make sure that is moving you said

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you know some of the scholars say for every single hair strand that is shown as one evil deed recorded

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multiplied by how many non Muharram men meaning a foreign man sees it. Now I want you to think about that how many hairs Do you have Okay, if you're not wearing Hijab yet but inshallah you will May Allah protect us and guide us and guide you in sha Allah to the straight path I mean

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multiply that by the days you live multiplied day by day how many millions now see you online and multiply that by the day your life ends and how many evil deeds you've got for every hair strength for every man that sees you have judgment day

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how many good deeds

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so Allah says you have been Now see, you know that front air.

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This molossia School no one see

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one of them and some of those courses for them for men normalcy for women, because you use your feet to go different places. Of course us too. But this is a stylish part, just that were hellfire. Some of the opinions is even would be hanged with that chain of fire. If that's what you're looking for it by all means. It's a free country as we mentioned, but the choice is up to you. You should do the right thing. What you want to do in this life in the hereafter.

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Before I take you to the positive

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insha Allah I get one more scary Hadith I'm only used one verse, and I'm only gonna use one heading

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and then we'll finish with the positive inshallah.

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Because you never know some of us are different. They only come with a fear factor and some of us come with the love factor. Whatever it takes, that's my motto.

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So prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said sin van min Elinor llamada Houma.

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There are two types of people that dwellers of Hellfire I did not see why not my time.

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One regarding men, it's not our topic for today and by the way, you have a hijab to a heat come to you in Sharla it's true.

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So in fact, man alan alan arahama two types of the dwellings of the Hellfire I did not see one of them says Nyssa Cassie yet yet Merlot. Merlot. Sharon ohana kesennuma tolbooth latitudinal gender Marie ha winery ha mama Sierra de Vaca

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mazing scary idea for like, two types of people that are dwellers of the Hellfire I did not see it. This is women cast yet their dress but they're not dressed it yet. It's amazing.

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Once the Listen man I'm dressed What are you talking about? The only thing that is shown for me is my neck my ears my head my hair, my legs, my thighs my arms my bosom I'm covered what's up

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no problem This isn't this podcast yet they're dressed are yet undressed. They're not just money that you know what my lattice either my electronic throttle must have been they are actually been straight from the straight path a lot and they are straight from the truth or my elac meaning their body they walk around with the high heels and the

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things are moving all over the place with a click click click click and that sounds men we have no I mean it's very difficult for us and I'll tell you the proof you know what you are number one fitness for us that my words allow someone or that is it that Prophet Mohammed Salim said that you are number one test for men

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allows 100 million alumnus who Bouchard from what the law firm and the Declaration of Human Being shallot what is NASA number one on the list women

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so this is the most difficult for us Robert Mohammed Salah Salaam says the Ahava Maha for alikum the most difficult one that I fear for you is which

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so you understand now man even as I even don't even lower your voice using that file tomorrow Let the vehicle be hamara even though illness of the heart with the voice you know like a high

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doing wow for us like

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people pay money for this stuff.

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Don't go Don't get ideas.

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Now you gotta answer man a lot on hacker strat, you stayed away from the straight path and the truth muamalat to milnor the kuruvilla original elayna that means you will lower the man's heart You

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showed us no matter what you know that the camel humbling that I've seen this before and I've been asked before you know Believe it or not. That's a true story. And you Muslim sister

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and your Muslim sister came to this porch live alone or my wife I can't recall. I think somebody showed me from my family that the sister was given this hijab kit

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guess what they came with the hijab kit

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It's amazing. a sponge, the some kind of loofa

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washing something I don't know what it is, you know what that means? They put it under the hijab to make sure that they have that lovely boost hair looking like amazing styles will light brothers as

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their hair is like that the camera will have the you know that the cheesed up and the booted up and all that stuff. It's among the science of times of the day believe it Do you want to be among the signs of times Panama Ji will live.

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He says they will not enter Jannah nor even come close to gender to smell the aroma of Jana and even Jenna could be smelled by so and so meaning 500 years away you can smell the aroma of gender.

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Do you want to be that ot Do you want to be among those who were Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam sees you on judgment day and you want to intercede for you? yada yada Amati my nation, my nation, my people. And olanzapine altana will say you don't know what they did after you do not intercede for them in nicoleta de baddeck you don't know what they did after you're gone.

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They turned around walked away but deleeuw Yo,

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fool so

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they changed and exchanged so I say Get away from me and forsake I don't I know you're not that I also change and exchanged. Do you want him to intercede for you?

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Prophet Mohammed Salah was around University when you look the way you looked up to act like the way actor talk the way you talk, smell, the way you smell, behave the way you behave. Did you know the levels of analysis while add to Dean What are you Dina? Xena don't don't show your beauty. He actually mentioned it twice in the same verse, you know what that means is Mahara minha is what is apparent because you are beautiful by nature. And then he said it once more

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repeated twice behaves that means your behavior your moral conduct, your etiquettes how you act,

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not just that not the exterior shell of the the hijab is also by the way covers that heart where the man is in.

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On the positive ups the time is up, no positive.

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So you're on your own.

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Alright, I want you to imagine we mentioned something we said that hijab is uniform to gender.

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Raise your hand you want to go to gender? Yes, Allah. May Allah testify. Make that hand for you to stop

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for you on Judgement Day, Amina May Allah give you the book for the right hand side? I mean, now in general

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I know that most sisters like gold.

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I'm getting the hook. Thank you. Two minutes say they are so generous here. It's unbelievable. These people that isn't the kind of the very generous May Allah bless your life hamdulillah it's on sale. Okay.

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In general

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you know the trunk of a tree is made of what?

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Gold? Do you believe it?

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You know there's a shopping mall in Ghana, who knew that? Allah speaks to your language? It's true. There is a shopping mall agenda every Friday you go shopping? Do you have to have the American Express your Visa or MasterCard? You don't? Do you have to have your husband walking around with you going? Europe please, Lord have mercy.

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Do you know the trick where the brothers walk around in the mall with you and they're holding your hands you know why they're holding your hands. You think you're holding they're holding your hands because they love you

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know to hold you back

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in Jannah on Friday, every Friday there's a shopping mall, you can get anything you want anything you want a free

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it's not free.

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There's a uniform that you have to wear in order for you to get the rest of it.

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There's trees and Jenna wear a dress that comes as a fruit. You know that rescue will wearing gender t it will change color every hour and the color you see you'll never see again. And you don't even have to take it off and take it down. It will change on you. You work too hard. You wore the hijab, the the pounds of the seat the tears were coming from the eyes that you actually had to fight even your parents would have told you if you actually wear the hijab, I will disown you and I got that phone call. The sisters calling me said my father says if I wear the hijab you will disown me

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You worked so hard for it. But there's no more tears. There's just joy

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you don't have to work ot

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you get anything you want.

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You don't have to do aerobics you can eat as much chocolate as you want. You know that? Justin Bieber guy

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not even close you get anything you want the agenda, lava Maya una de holiday nemeziz anything you wish for and we have more? who turns this down?

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The invitation that is given which I'll finish with was given by Prophet Mohammed sauce and let me Oh Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam said kulu macif agenda in lemon Abba. My whole own imagine accepted those who refuse Could you imagine refusing the agenda? Could you imagine Okay, having an opportunity to live eternally happily ever after? never get old again. Never gets sick again. Never gets sad again. Sorrow again. Never cry again. Or you can cry watching bollywood movies. It's good news.

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But there's a tears of joy, not sadness. You get anything you wish for?

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Who do you refuse this invitation prophet Mohammed's assessment of the halogen, those who obey me Will intergender those who were

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this will be me they have just refused. So the agenda is offered for u of t and it comes with a uniform of the hijab.

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The honored the distinction, the one that makes you a Muslim man a slave to Allah total man. Now check on your indeed Your Honor, you are our treasure, protect your treasure of the heart, because that's where a man is. That's where the hijab covers. May Allah subhanaw taala make you among those of the Ameen May Allah subhanaw taala god there's an agenda as you go this year today alomost and Loma Mina has come to La alameen wa salam ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Rahmatullahi wa salam aleikum wa