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An Ideal Father

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Ahmed Hamed

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hamdulillah

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every time when I'm awake, oh thing that I see

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hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah Karim? Allah Allah He was happy Germaine Aldo Billahi min ash shaytani r rajim Bismillah R Rahman Rahim were in Nicola Allah Hakuna abeam Bismillah R Rahman Rahim, rubbish rally sorry, we are silly Omri aka determinedly Sani Yahoo. Only the viewers, I greet all of you with the greetings of Islam. Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh meaning made a peace, mercy and the blessings of Allah the Most High be upon all of you.

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Welcome to another episode of the role model. In the last episode, we have mentioned how Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him was

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a great Ideal Husband.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala has made Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him as an example for us to follow in on issues of life in all departments of life. As there is no prophet or messenger who is going to come after Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. He has made Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam as a practical example, for us to follow till the last day.

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In this episode, we should look at the role model Muhammad's Islam as a father and educator.

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Muhammad peace be upon him, himself was an ideal father. He was an ideal Muslim father.

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It is very important, my brothers and sisters, that we need to be an ideal Father, we need to live we need to reflect as an ideal Muslim father. Because these days, the children, you don't have to teach them. They will learn looking at you.

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They will be your reflection, and most of the children. They don't do what parents say they do what parents do. So if you do good, your parents will follow you. And Mohammed's Islam was exactly like this. He was an ideal

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Muslim father, who lived and reflected to his children, that he is the best father, as an example for all the people to follow.

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As a father,

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we, the people,

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following Mohammed Islam, also understand that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he always focused on

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both the education of the world,

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the world, which is now in this world, as well as in the hereafter. Muhammad peace be upon him, he focused the education of his children, for both the woods, in this world and in the hereafter. But unfortunately, we the Muslims, and the current time, although we say that we follow Muhammad, peace be upon him. Look at your insight, let us look at our own selves, as fathers, how are we, with our children? Are we really concerned about them, for this world and hereafter? Or are we concerned about their life only in this world, and we see, which is very obvious in our lives, that we are so much focus, we are so

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importantly, involved in the education of the children only for this world. But prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam, he taught the education of both the worlds he taught his children, the spiritual excellence, as well as moral and conduct behavior.

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Prophet Muhammad peace be one as an example for us to follow. He was focused on both the woods, we as his followers, as who say a shadow

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Muhammad Rasulullah we need to make sure that we follow his footsteps and focus and focus on the education of our children, both Spiritual Education as well as the education of this world.

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We always have to look at the spiritual excellence of our children.

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As I said, unfortunately, our objective, our goal for making our children as best as they can, for only this world, it is a need for us, again, to look at the life of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam, in terms of he being the best father, and learn the lessons from the life of Muhammad peace be upon him, so that we can practice and make our children spiritually high, as well as in the various departments of this world, the worldly education, as well as on a high ranks

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as an ideal Muslim father, Hamad sallallahu sallam, he was the best in performing his roles, he would guide them and help them emotionally, psychologically, spiritually, and physically. Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was the best guide for them imagine the home in which they had the Prophet, the Messenger of Allah who is guided by Allah subhanaw taala. And he in turn, guided the people guided his children to the right path. When was the last time that you sat with your children and guided them? Help them advise them? When was it you know, focus on how much are they studying in their schools? How much are they eating? How much are they traveling? How much are they

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earning, but your focus in terms of their guidance? Are they going in the principles set by Allah subhanaw taala or not? Are their living is in accordance with the Quran and the teachings of Muhammad peace be upon him or not? We don't have to leave their moral and behave that is a part of our Deen. But then the spiritual knowledge getting closer

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to the Quran is also the most important objective that we have. It is a duty of our that we need to help them. It is our duty to help them and to guide them to bring them closer to the Quran to connect them with Allah subhanaw taala and will law or law if you connect them to a law they will always be beautiful to you. They will never ever disobey you if you connect to them to Allah subhanaw taala if they connected if they become a turkey, if they become the person who has got piety, who is pious, who is with good manners, they would follow the commands of Allah as Allah subhanaw taala says will bill Worley Dini as an end to your parents beautiful. So if you had them,

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advise them and guide them spiritually as well, they will be your obedient children and that is how were the children of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam Muhammad peace be upon him was the best an ideal father for us to look at. So that we learn and we do the same inshallah in our lives in a practical sense. Muhammad peace be upon him was also an excellent educate an excellent educator and educator, who is the role model for all the educators to follow. Primarily, his education was divine, Allah subhanaw taala he says in the Quran, Mama Yun Tico Anil Hawa in who Allah What are you, huh? He does not say anything from himself. But whatsoever, Allah subhanaw taala revealed to him sent down to

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him, guided him. So every step of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam Alhamdulillah was a guidance from Allah subhanaw taala

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is magic method of teaching as an educator was unique. And we get so many learnings and hamdulillah as an educator, he would teach them in the most wise manner. As an educator, when he used to speak, he was simple and clear. As an educator, when he used to speak, he used to speak with absolute wisdom. As an educator, he would not make people's life difficult. Rather, he would make it easy and he would not educate them in a continuous way. Rather, he would give them breaks, he would give them intervals, he would give them enough time so that they should not be bold.

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Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him as an educator. He used to give

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The analytical examples used to teach his Sahaba he used to teach his children he used to teach all the people in the manner which is which demands illustrious examples, which is very clear and people they understood that Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him as an educator, he used to draw lines in a mathematical manner, in a clear manner so that people can understand, as an educator, Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, he used to narrate stories, so that people give interest to him. And the Quran is the book of stories of factual stories, which records in the most authentic manner, in the most dignified manner and represented the stories of all the prophets. As the law says, Susilo

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passes law law whom you

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relate the stories of the prophets, perhaps, they may reflect, they may understand. So Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him as an excellent educator. He used to teach people in different manners used to teach them by giving examples used to teach them in intervals in breaks. He used to teach them with an analytical ways by drawing lines he used to teach people by narrating stories and used to teach them in a practical way. By doing it people used to learn from him. When Pete when Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him used to do anything. They used to ask your Rasul Allah, this is the command of Allah, we need to do this. And they used to do so as a practical demonstrator. As an

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excellent educator. He also gave us an example for following following to the last day, so prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was an excellent father,

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as VC in the life of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, what do we need to do my brothers and sisters, we don't have to cry later on on our children that they are not taking care of us. We don't have to worry. later on. When they disobey us, we don't have to regret later on when they leave us. We need to take care of them now, by giving them excellent teachings by imbibing yourself, we need to learn to be an ideal father. We need to be a Muslim father, who teaches his children, the education of this world and the Hereafter, who makes them understand who Pantera is so that they may understand the rights of Allah and those who understand the rights of Allah will obey Allah, those who obey

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Allah will obey will respect will be dutiful to his parents. We need to have that characteristics with which was given in the life of Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. So we asked a las panatela to help us emulate, copy, imitate and follow the way Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was in terms of his fatherhood. And in terms of his being an educator, aka Donna. Anil hamdu, lillahi Rabbil aalameen

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every time when I'm awake, oh thing that I see. I know it's hard to believe.

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The Almighty mighty when they fall from the tree every plan

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when the waves flow in the sea