The Prophet SAW in times of Joy & Happiness

Abu Usamah At-Thahabi

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As it was announced today is the third lecture in this series about spending time with the nibi some Allahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam. And we'll be dealing with those times when will sue will lie he's on the line, he was seldom showed happiness, or he showed joy was a really important issue. It's an important issue because some people unfortunately, have this idea and this concept that once you start practicing the religion, you have to look at the dunya with gloom and doom, and everything is negative, the person sees the glass as being half full, or half empty. So he sees in his life things are not perfect. His children are perfect, his wife is not perfect as Miss Jude is not perfect, His

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house is not perfect. And because of that lack of imperfection, the person becomes very negative. So the point that some people, they extinguish the light, and the spirit of the child, or the light spirit of the wife, family members.

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The Nabi sallallahu Sallam was commanding the Koran pole in NEMA. And by showroom if local, you have Ilia tell them Honey, I'm a human being like human beings. But revelation comes to me as a result of being a human being the prophets of Allah what he was sending them is going to go through all of the emotions that human beings gofal that are positive.

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And the emotions that may be considered to be negative for an example. You're going to have to worry as a human being, the person is going to be sad

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person, he has those emotions. Now I don't want anybody to misunderstand the prophets and the messengers Salawat to LA he was said emmalin Jemaine, they never become people who give up hope, as a negative emotion that they don't have.

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They never give up hope to the degree where one of them wants to commit suicide. So there is a narration when the Sora ekra Bismillah kalevi haluk was revealed. They said that the nibio Salalah Why didn't you sell them thought about throwing himself off of the mountain in order to kill himself lavalife

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people who have complete intellect, people have sound minds, they don't consider committing suicide, people who have mental problems and have issues, they are the people who think about committing suicide. So the point here is Rasulullah sallallahu what he was sending them, he had the whole gamut of emotions that people have because he's a human being. He is a human being. Allahu taala mentioned in the Quran and know who our attacker was upca Verily, Allah is the one who makes you people laugh, and Allah makes you cry. And he mentioned both of them. He didn't just mentioned, he makes you cry, or he makes you laugh. He mentioned both of it. The meaning of if Allah makes you laugh, and he

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makes you cry, and the hereafter, the non Muslims are going to cry in because of the coffer. And the ship and the mercy that they used to commit. And in the Hereafter, the believers are going to be laughing and they're going to be happy, because of the tauheed and the singer, and the tartelette obedience of Allah that they used to do me a lot because all the die on this land that's in the hereafter. But also in the dunya. Allah is the one who makes you laugh and allows the one who makes you cry. And both of those characteristics were mentioned polar opposites. So if you are a person who's laughing all the time, there's problem

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laughing all the time and being a joke and cracking jokes and making people laugh. That's a problem. We don't want you in our mejlis

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because the next

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to tell the people cathode to the heck, to me to

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always laughing over laughing will cause your heart to die.

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And also, in contrast, the person who is always upset and serious, we don't want you in our measure. This is either we don't want you visiting us. We don't want you to be our saw him.

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because something's wrong. You can't be like that. And that's why I say, Honey, that the dunion that we're living in, as I mentioned in the Quran will tell I am nuda will have been a net NASS those are the days that we cause people to go through. Sometimes you're up, sometimes you're down, sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. So when those Muslims migrated to a haberdasher in Ethiopia, and the king was asking, Jeff, it'd be nice to be taller than the Muslims about Rasulullah sallallahu. It was setting them or the historical the historical of Rome. He said to the man to the companions, this messenger that you believe in back in Mecca, when he has fights and wars with his enemy, does

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he win all the time, what happens? They said, sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, no one's going to win all the time. No one's going to win all the time is up and is down. So I say, anytime in this life, we have valleys and we have peaks. That's how it goes. You have ups and downs. Anytime you'll find in your life, like right now, there's some people stressed out right now they're in trouble. Someone has issues, financial troubles, social issues, he has mental issues, he's in trouble, he or she is in a fitness, marital problems gonna break down, and they're not feeling very well right now. But all of us not feeling that way. So I say, and this is my advice. Because of the many valleys

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that we have. And it happens all the time. Sooner or later, you're gonna have something you have to deal with. I say, when you're finally at the top and something happens, then I say, ride the wheels off of that until the wheels fall off, right until the wheels fall off. Because Pretty soon, you're going to be in the valley, it's going to be down. Don't be one of them. watershed did people rough tough people who your family can't tolerate you, the family that they can't tolerate you as a mother, as a father, people around you can't tolerate you because you're negative. And then some people use the religion to do that. So you find this with practicing people. You'll find this with

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people practice from all of the groups. Now I don't want to deal with the other groups. But people were really trying to practice a Safia meaning how the companions understood the Quran and Sunnah and practice it may Allah be pleased with them, then you're the last person. You're the last person who should have Hulu and go overboard and people. You're the last person who, when it comes to, you know, living, you're the last person will be rough and tough like that. Because the Navy wasn't like that. So law who it was settler, he used to laugh, as his companion said, Every time I saw the prophet and I met him son in law, when he was setting them, he met me with a smile.

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He met me with a smile. So there's a hadith that people use, and that is the authentic hadith where he told us companions a lot while he was sending me a lobby, please, when he said, If you people knew what I knew, you would live less and cry more.

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That's an authentic hadith. If you knew what I knew you would live a lot less and cry more. So the person is walking around like this all the time. I bet so attala is always like this, like boo hoo, ha Sera,

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Sera. He was a man who came and say, I'm gonna give me some more money. You didn't try to be fair in this distribution of the money, give me some more money. And they describe him. They said he had big eyebrows, big eyebrows. And he had those marks in his head in his forehead. And he was always looking upset. Crazy, to be honest with you. Why are you looking like Danny Abdullah? Mohammed said, If you knew what I knew you will laugh less than cry more. Yeah, but it's contained and nomadic. Those companions said that every time they met him, he met them with a smile. So how do you harmonize that Hadith, your understanding that I did the wrong way.

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So we have to be balanced and that's what I want to show you today. Darling in Ellis lamb Allahu Levy, einzahlung keytab A bellhop what it means and Allah revealed the Quran in truth, and he revealed the skills to met kalama to Rebecca septum or Aguilar.

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The words of your Lord this religion, this religion has been complete with truthfulness and justice. Our religion is a balanced religion. It's not a religion that's to the right like this de la serata, who stuck in the Serato. Mr. Kane is in the middle. So everything that Muslim does, he tries to do it in a balanced way, she tries to do it in a balanced way, that ish, ISIS, those people not balanced. Because when they see people like us, and we're gonna slam, if you don't agree with something, they say they're gonna kill you. What kind of religion is that? That you walk around mad at the whole world, and you believe that's getting close to Allah. Now, Dinesh, ISIS, they don't

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have a monopoly on that I told you practice and people tend to be like that rough and tough with people, judgmental, intolerant, looking down at people with disdain. And no one has the right to do that. Because no one knows his relationship with a law. They don't like accepted, not accepted. So as it relates to this issue of Hawaii, we want to remain balanced because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was a human being. So he's a person who had good times, and he had bad times. The other issue that I want to mention is, I'm not going to deal with all of the times when Rasulullah got happy. But I want to share with you an idea that will help you to understand if

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anything happens to you in your life, and is applicable to this is when you can be happy. And if people are around you and they're not being happy for those things, you have to pull that code in school him and let him know something is wrong with you. You are not balanced man who has more than one wife. If he's giving one wife all of the rights and he's neglecting the other wife, Russell, I said he will come your new piano and one of his size will be dragon because he's not balanced, something's wrong.

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He said, Don't wear one shoe. Either way, or both of them will take both of them off. That's the balance and the justice of Ellis lamb. Don't sit in a place where half of your body is in the shade and half of your body is in the sun. Get all in the shade or get all in the sun. This is the balance that the Prophet used to select love while he was setting them strive to plant in the minds and the hearts of people. This is a statement of a level title. For before the law he will be met he for be balika fell from Whoo hoo Hi, Roman nyege marone tell your people yeah, Mohammed Benny Adam, tell all of them

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because of the trouble of Allah. And because of the Wrath of Allah, then you should be happy. This is better for you and better than what you're doing. Now I don't have time to get deep deep into this. If it's important if people use this is the wrong way. This is one of the main ideas that people use for the molad has nothing to do with the molad is AI It has nothing to do with the Monet because the moment is an innovation is outside of this religion. The Prophet did not bring that mold. So people said by the father love Allah, his father is virtuous and because of his rock not be happy for that, that is better for you than what you do. So they say the Prophet his birthday

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is from the fall of Allah, the prophet his birthday the day he was born, that is a Rama. So because of this is the moment we say Hey, hi, Hey, hi.

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Abu Bakr maarif man, Ali, Rob, the lion whom they didn't understand that is that way, they gave it to see it of the iron and they never came to that conclusion. But this is when he very quickly

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is is telling us anything connected to you in your life, that you can identify something that's from the problem of Allah and is from the Rama of Allah, the ayat is telling you

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be happy because of that.

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So anything you can think about, that is from the Father level law in his Rama, you have a right to be happy. So when a person has a baby, he has every right to be happy and to celebrate. When a person's son memorizes the Koran Jews, Allah has every right to be happy. He gets married, happy, his daughter gets married son gets hot, marry, happy, he gets a job happy. When those things happen, you get a new apartment in New flat, a new house appy is celebrating time, but the end of the is said who hired him in my, my own being happy is better than what they're doing. But happiness is expressed according to the Quran and the Sunnah. So when we have a walima, for an example for the

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Nika we are going we have the Mecca and we're going to be happy, but what happiness the women are going to put makeup online and they don't wear hijab, other men around them. They're going to put

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Music on, we're going to be acting and mixing up not that kind of happiness.

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Not that kind of happiness person gets married, and the man who got married the man and the one, they don't even pray, they go on a honeymoon, they don't even pray that it's not talking about that this is talking about if something is from the rubble of Alon the rock novelized region, then be happy, but be happy within the confines of the religion. So that's the general rule. We're not here to talk about everything that Prophet Muhammad did, where he showed the manifested happiness from something that happened. But there are many things. So Allahu alayhi wa, it was setting them. First one that we want to mention is honey. And I'm putting this out for a reason. Because I want to

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address today, the watershed, the dean, rough and tough people, we don't want you around us like that. We don't want you to sit in our mejlis with that. I'm holier than thou and that intolerant way.

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We don't want that. We have enough valleys that we have to deal with, with the problems that we don't need people bring into us that negativity, and the Navy was a person who bought a religion, where he told us to be optimistic anyway, he asked the lady What's your name?

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The lady said, my name is ousia. Not asiyah. Not as here like some of your daughters sisters? No, I'll see the one who is disobedient and Senate. russula said no. Your name is Jamila. You're not disobedient. You're beautiful. He asked the man Where did you come from? The man came he said I came from a dust bowl. Where I come from no veget this is just a lot of dust. It's always going to be sad. So I said no, no, no, no, you came from a place where there's a lot of greenery.

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He would go down one roll when he goes to there eat and he will come back home through the other way. Why did he do that? He could have went one st King down the same street. Scholars slam said one reason he wants to get people set arms, more people and the two streets. Another reason I'm going down this way after fast in the month of Ramadan and I'm coming back a different role. after praying the Salah of Aden fitter, and it's symbolic of I'm a big change person I'm gonna be a better person when used to make this a lot of this fall. So a lot for the rain special salaat he would take his clothes like his Bishop, he had a cape on he after the salon, he would turn them inside out, take

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his hat, turn them inside out. Why do you do that? To say we hope things are going to change. He was optimistic. We don't want those people around us who are negative. We have enough negativity that we have to deal with. And we know them. We know Auntie's we know mothers we know fathers, we know relatives, we know friends, they just straight up hate us. Go over finance our we have some way and hate on your own and let that negativity, devour you and destroy you as far as we're trying to be on the son of the Prophet sallallahu what he was sending. So there was a Jewish kid that everybody knows someone in msgid is the newest Muslim here. Someone is the youngest Muslim here, and everybody

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in this audience inshallah we know about that Hadith that has not escaped us. It's been handed down to us generation after generation because so important. The Jewish boy was the Hadamard rasulillah his son, the ladies, I'm taking care of them. And then the boy became sick. Because sometimes you're well and sometimes you sick, you born and you're gonna die, have up you have done that boy, he was taken care of the Navy became sick, and it was clear that boy was going to die. Rasulullah went and gave the boy down with some law while he was selling. C'est la ilaha illAllah. The little boy looked at his father. And the father said, obey him. Listen to what he has to say out here. I will listen

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to him. The boy said the Shahada. And then he died. They said that the Prophet came out. So a lot he was setting them in a form of expression of being happy and settled. hamdulillah levy and kado hoomin and na ba all praise due to Allah who saved that boy from the hell fire because of me with my dour. He was a yo who did who alive said about them in the Quran that he didn't shed the nasty a Tao Attila Latina Allah. No, Allahu Allah, Lena ash Rocco. Those people who hate the people of Islam, the most likely who like it hated who hated us the reality. Those people hate the people of Islam the most. You'll find the ones with the most enmity and animosity to

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The people that slam the food and the people who make sure the polytheists, Sikhs, Hindus of India, they have a burning hatred for Islam and the Muslims. And that's why, if they are given the ability to exterminate them, they'll exterminate them, burn them to death.

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That's the book of Allah, this boy was a Yoda. And yet when he came into the religion, the companion said, it made the Prophet happy some of the love when he was settled him that he made that door up. Now I chose that example to be the first thing I'm going to deal with to say to you, how is it possible I want to ask you people, how is it possible? You see people are Muslims, and they came into the religion, and you're not happy for them.

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And you're not happy for them? You hear some really crazy things from the people's understanding.

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If my mother came into this religion, may Allah guide her to wireless LAN. If my mother as I tell her my lesson lesson, my lesson. Just say la ilaha illa mom de la Don't worry about no select now, don't worry about No, he died. Now, don't worry about no Reba mortgage, don't worry about none of that. Just c'est la ilaha illa. Allah, we crossed those other bridges when we get to it. And that's because if my mother died without the deen, she's going to be the hottest from the night of January. But as she came into this religion, she has a chance shala she comes into the religion. Someone says I don't have the right to be happy because she's not on the sooner. Come on, man. She's not on the

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sooner I wanted to be on a Sunday. No, I wanted to blow up. I don't want her to be with the innovators. I don't want them to do that. coming through the door of a slamming jump out of the window. Because of innovation. I don't want that. But being a Muslim is better than not being a Muslim.

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The Prophet was happy. So yes, our children, they are not perfect. But at Hamdulillah, they are Muslims. They may not always say Bismillah. And we have to keep telling them, Hey, did you say Bismillah? Hey, say Bismillah before you eat, you get in the car, they won't give you salaams

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you have to keep Did you give sometimes you have to keep telling your kids that that may be the case. But they're better than

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being in a state where they don't have Islam at all. So if you find that a person is on this religion, I'm not saying to applaud people for the mistakes that they make. In a sense, I'm not saying that. I'm saying look at the bigger picture. Because from the happinesses that came from the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa it was sending them is the fact that he showed to the companions, what it meant to him that his Tao was successful by a lost permission. Another sad situation, during that

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sickness of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was dying.

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And the whole community was affected by the reality that he was sick. And he was sick in a way that they never saw before. They didn't know what was going to happen, but they knew he was sick. And one of the proofs that he was really sick was he stopped praying in the masjid. He stopped praying in the masjid.

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So after staying home for a number of days, he felt a little bit better. And then two of his companions were with him and they went to the masjid. As everyone knows, there was a song the prank call and how gerat the inner partners, the doors of the prophets, wives were connected to the messages and the lady was hitting him so he could just come out of the machine and have come out of his house, go straight to the glove. He had to deal with the people domestic easyaccess. He came out of his house, where his grave is and where he's buried right now. So a lot of what he was saying.

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He was holding on to one man on his side, the other man on his side, when he got to the door and he saw the Muslims praying Salaam in JAMA, they said he smiled. And he showed us pleasure at what was taking place.

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If you knew what I know you will live less and cry more. Why do you mean why did he cry right now? Why did he become angry at that moment? Because that statement is not applicable here. He came out and he saw the condition of the Muslims. They were behind Abu Bakr Siddiq, the most knowledgeable of them in the best one from amongst them. They were in this a lot that he brought to them. The most important pillar of Islam from the actions of Salah Nothing is more important than the Shahada team. Arabs didn't know this a lot before Jay Hillier. So he knows he's going to die sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but he knows as long as these people read the Align home in his community, hold on to this a

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lot and was connected to it. They're going to be okay. They leave this prayer and what's

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connected to it, then you're going to have Syria, you're going to have India, you're going to have Palestine, you're going to have Iraq, you're going to have Somalia and the rest of the Muslim world this was going to happen. It's going to be a direct reflection of where the salaat is in our community in our lives. So I want to say, especially to my students, you young brothers, you guys got to do a better job with praying.

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Maybe you can't pray in the masjid because you got to get ready to go to school. But we all love the prophet of Islam Salah while he was sending them and we know that he was a person who had been inspired by Allah, he gets happy at those things that deserve for you to get happy with. He was happy when you saw the Muslims praying. So again, for our Chabad girls and boys, if you hit the age of 10, you should start praying, you're 13 1415 1620 you have to pray is whadjuk you absolutely have to pray. He told us a lot of what he was sending the difference between us and them is the prayer. Whoever abandons the prayer. He's disbelieved. So that's the second mocha from those things of the

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second situation, where the people became happy. And I want to say this right now. any parent who was here,

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or any older brother or sister you have a sibling, especially you parents, you have a child, who will make will do on his own or her own and they go and pray on their own, you should make such little sugar.

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You should make such did to sugar. Because Allah has blessed you. He blessed you. If your kid can sit there, whatever he's doing homework, on the telephone, Play Station, watching TV reading the book, when they hear the event goes off on the clock or the alarm, and they get up on their own. You didn't say anything, your wife didn't say anything. They got up on their own, and they prayed, you should think a lot for that kid.

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And hold on to that cultivated, because it is not the norm. It is not the norm. I can't speak for anybody here because I don't know your situation is not the norm.

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So once again before moving on, and next thing we want to encourage our community, but this is applicable to everybody, but especially for our youngsters, because you guys have a responsibility to maintain and protect this religion. You're the upcoming generation in Sharla. And these people are trying to change our religion. You're not a Muslim. If you're not praying, You're something else. You're something else. Muslims pray, the way we pray the Salah.

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The next motif of the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam

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is what happened in the seventh year of the Hydra

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yahood they used to create a lot of problems men and Medina and they were three tribes. And one of the places that the who were in control of was a place that's close to Medina call haber, haber.

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sola went, and he conquered that place. So Lola while he was selling them, and in favor, there was a lot of wealth that came from the place and they subdued the hood. So he was hired, there was a lot of good Muslims needed money, but you who would make him trouble for them. So the Prophet effectively sell a lot he was selling by defeating them. He cut off the drama and the fitna and the mashiac. And the problems that those particular yahood were given the community dealt with them.

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And in addition to that, he established the religion of Islam even further in the peninsula.

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And also, in addition to that, all of the hate that was in favor, he was able to take the stuff from the fruit, the dates, all of the animals, and he gave out to the community and it helped the Muslims.

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And the same year after that happened, his cousin Jonathan ebonite, vitalant came from Alabama, because he was one of the people who may hedra twice, he went to Ethiopia, and he was in charge of the Muslims. He's the brother of Ali, Vitali Ravi Alon, Prophet Mohammed says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and Jaffa King. I don't know which of the two make me more happier. makes me more.

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Mia more happy that we can't get haber with all of the good and the benefit that he gave the community or the fact that my cousin is here.

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The relationship that the Prophet had with it similar to the one with

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Jeff Robo Ali is better than Jeff and he was closer. So the Prophet marry his daughter Fatima to Vitaly. Both of them grew up in the house of Naboo. But they were

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paternal cousins and they were close. Darfur, accepted Islam and Mecca. He left with the Muslims and he went to Ethiopia. For seven years he was gone from the Nabi sallallahu Sallam even more than that. He was away from him. 1213 years he was away.

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And then we'll probably went to one Medina Jaffer came in the seventh year. Russell, I said, I don't know which one of these two things makes me more happy. So it goes to show number one, anytime Muslims stay, they are the recipients of something that is beneficial. And Alice lamb is on top. And then the slam wins. Anytime that happens, we should be happy. And anytime something negative happens to Muslims, we shouldn't be happy about that. Even if it's not our country, someone else's country.

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Saudi Arabia, some people don't like Saudi Arabia, for whatever reasons, Wahhabi Arabs, whatever. No, the Muslim is not like that. Muslim, not like that. I just give you an example of Saudi Arabia because that's where the two harms are. Some people don't take Saudi Arabia Side of the Moon. Some people don't want to do the Hajj during the days that Saudi Arabia

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the Muslim says no, I don't care what country it is. Libya, and never been to Libya, my life never. But what's going on in Libya right now? No Muslim in his right mind should say this is something that is celebratory. Now, how can it be when the Muslims as the Quran said you should do bargain Baba or the Prophet said some a lot he was selling them. The Muslims are like one solid semen destruction, they support one another. So when they conquer those people whose benefit to Islam, he was happy. And also when he was happy that his cousin King

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have relatives is from the rock Motherland, the father of Allah, someone coming from a long trip Are you re hooking up with someone that you were not hooking up with before? Maybe you were married to the lady and then you re marry her. Again, whatever the case is, whatever your interpersonal relationship is, this Hadeeth is teaching us Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam used to be protective and used to maintain and take care of his relationships with people, especially his his relatives especially. So when they come from trips, it is from our religion, to show our joy. And it's from our religion as well, to make them the guests of Dennis. That came from Hodge, Amara that came from

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the country, whatever the case is. So that is an example of how the Prophet was just a balanced person. So Lola, what do you send and be honest, when I mentioned it to you, in this example, I think this is a seed that's in everybody's heart and mind anyway, I don't think there's anyone out of all these people watching these sisters who are listening, I don't think there's a single person who says to themselves, I can't be happy when I hook up with my relatives. But there are some people of our own like that because they can't get along with their relatives. They don't get along with their relatives. They don't get along with their family, they wise family and so forth and so on. So

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this is a time when the Prophet showed and express never manifested his happiness, Allahu Allah, He will either either it was said, so what do you think is the case? If that was how we felt about Jaffa whose cousin? What do you think is cases when he has grandchildren? Oh, mama for an example, Hasson and Hussein, he used to sit with those kids sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and rob the lion and used to take water and put it in his mouth and blow the water the the water on them joking and laughing with his kids just to make them happy to spend time if his grandchild died, he cried. He was sad. That's when he cried. And that's when he was sad. But when his grandchild came in, he saw

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him do something he will pick him up, he will be happy.

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So I don't know. I don't know about that. Father. I don't know about that Father who is physically abusive to his kids. You need to be dealt with.

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You need to be dealt with. And I don't endorse what they used to do back in America. I don't endorse it. When the Muslims first started practicing African Americans in America. They had this group called the dar and other brothers who came into al Islam. If an individual would beat up his wife or beat up his kids, you going down in the basement in the mosque

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now in support vigilante justice, I don't, I don't, but some of our children our families are living in fear.

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My father's gonna crack my head open if I live my father's gonna let he's gonna do light me up if I make a mistake No. Am I saying that we can't chastise our children? can we can we deal with them? chastise them for big issues like he said, you can hit them when they hit the age of 10. They reach the age of 10. And they don't pray. You can chastise them.

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Over salaat something insignificant. There's another thing. You show me one person in here one person in here who when he was young, and he was growing up, he didn't make mistakes and he didn't make bonehead moves. That's what kids do. They make bonehead decisions and moves. The mother told her son, the mother told her son, listen to this son is memorizing the Quran.

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He is memorizing the Quran probably memorize more of the Quran, the most of us here.

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The mother said, Go upstairs and bring me those pins that are on the dresser. I have to see him go give me the pins

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ran upstairs. And he came back with a towel.

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A towel. And he gave it to the mother. The mother said What is? What is the towel for? He said I don't know. And it doesn't it doesn't make sense. You can't get your head around. Go and get the pins. And it comes back with a tower.

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Would it be good Tobia And would it be Islamic? And would it be fairing just to beat that kid

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to slap them?

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Someone sent me a video on WhatsApp. They said send this video around and make it go viral so that they can catch this lady. And I remember a long time ago, there was a Muslim guy. He had a little baby girl who cannot stand up yet. She wasn't ready to stand up. Not even holding on to the table. And the guy was slapping the little baby. I'm sure some of you seen that. And they caught that guy from our community. So when they told me do this, send it up. I looked at it. The little girl vomited. And the lady was standing over her towering over her slapping her Why did you vomit and the girl was clean and clean and clean it

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and that was the beginning of the video. I knew there was more to come watch the rest. Because when it comes to kids like that is disturbing.

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So we want to tell our community especially our Shabad you little brothers, if you're being beat up and attacked like that by your mother by your father, you're being bullied in school as always tell you you let us know inshallah we'll try to help to deal with the situation. Your father's mother's anybody who's an abusive parent, Haram, haram Ali, take it easy.

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From the maracas that the Prophet had sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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is that when the Quran was revealed to him, he used to become very happy, especially certain sewers of the Quran. sallallahu it was seldom like so total fat

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and fatahna like a fit for 10 Rubina that I Hadith or that Sora was letting them know he's going to come come Mecca.

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He said a surah came down to me last night. And it has made me happy. That's just one source of the Quran.

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There are other surah of the Quran and other Ayat of the Quran that are greater than so total fat.

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So you look at the whole Quran, that's an issue. It's a function from Allah, so Rama from Allah, something that makes the Nabhi of Islam happy. So the lady was senator. So you want to tell our kids especially the ones who are memorizing the Quran, when you go to the Koran school, the duck see and the Madras of the Quran, and when you're making Mirage, don't look at going over the Quran as being arduous, and it's a task and you don't want to do it. I do understand some of you go to school all day. By the time you get to command school or article article, you're tired, you're tired, but the prophet of Islam sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he never looked at the Quran in that way. Allow to

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mention to him in the Quran. Taha ma Enza, marins olalekan por annalee Tushar, we did not reveal this put onto your helmet to make things difficult as a parent as taking consideration. My daughter is tired.

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She went in school all day and I selling to the school today. I do that once in a while. You have to do that once in a while, give a break. But you can't do that every day or two three times a week. Got to let him know the Quran.

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It requires some commitment. And it's the best a bag that you could be doing at this age. So just get with the program, because you'll appreciate later on. So for our youngsters, you have to know the prophet of Islam sallallahu wasallam. He looked at the Quran, and the Quran was not something that made him angry. It wasn't something that he beat people because of it. You go to the madrasa and your teacher is hitting you in the madrasa. You have to let us know. We don't condone any teacher hitting this kid, the kids in a madrasa. Not at all and don't come and tell me that Mujahid said that Ebner bias used to tie his leg up with a chain and that the companions used to hit the

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youngsters whenever they were swear by law, they would say well, law he they were hit them to teach them Don't swear by law a lot. Don't make that your day in dinner. Don't tell me that, because I believe that. And I know that. But nobody should be touching anybody else's kid. No one should be touching anybody else's kid. It's not your kid, then don't chastise people's children. We're living in a society right now in the day in a time right now. People are stealing our kids things, kidnapping our kids from the masjid molesting your kid? No. Quran is a cause and a reason for happiness. As for the older members of the community, same thing. What is it about the Quran that we

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don't connect with the book of allies with Joe, the way that we could and the way that we should? I'm going to stop here. Why don't you brothers have any questions and shot lines with Joe, I was just trying to show you just a few of the issues. I think this topic, this theme of the series, an important theme, connect our community to the balance at the Prophet had sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and that he used to be sad, and he used to be happy. And he used to become angry. And he used to cry a lot when he was sending them. He used to have bewilderment he Salalah What do you send him? As I said, he has a gamut of emotions that people have except the negative ones. Like those

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emotions, where a person wants to commit suicide, he is disbanded, he's given up hope. Solon had that sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Okay, honey, if you guys have any questions, you can put your questions for an entire country.

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What is the difference between happiness and contentment? contentment in Arabic is alakina.

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Which contentment arena?

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Which contentment? Hmm.

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But which one? which one you're talking about?

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Like we just satisfied with what Allah is giving you and you feel satisfied?

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Yeah.

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You don't necessarily have to be happy when you are content. You don't have to be happy.

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And Muslim as the Heidi said, I jubin min. Min. What are your kundalika lol movement. The Prophet said, I'm amazed at the condition of the believer. And that's only for the believer. If good hits him, he thinks a lot and that's good for him. And if evil hits him, he's patient, and that's good for him. So a person has a job making minimum wage and that's all he can get. He's not going further than that in his life. minimum wage, he put his best foot forward. He tried his best. That's his job. But he is content with that situation. He doesn't look at other people and wish evil on them and have evil eye against them. And he has jealousy towards them and envy. He says this is my cousin

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from Eliza gel. And I live with it doesn't mean he's happy with that situation. Doesn't mean that he's happy. He's a person who's content as the Heidi said, and that's what I was asking. Are you talking about the one who was Vina has enough? Or contentment like the idea of Rasulullah sallallahu he was selling them Lisa Hina and kesef terlato and mahina Jima knifes. It is not being rich being contentment with money that you have a lot of wealth but real being real richness. real wealth is being satisfied with what Allah has given you. And ally knows best Any more questions? One no more questions? Okay, then, McAfee we have covered however, was Salallahu salam wa barik ala nabina wala

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IE he was hobby Jemaine salamati. Come on.

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Give me that pin.

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