Hadith 32 The Callers Proclaiming the Truth

Abu Usamah At-Thahabi


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The speakers discuss issues related to Islam, including the importance of being a Muslim profit advisor, the use of a shoulder as a signal of love, and the use of a shoulder as a signal of satisfaction. They stress the need to acknowledge and find out who is connected to one, and stress the importance of seeking out and finding out who is connected to one. The speakers also emphasize the importance of controlling one's anger and identifying as a strong person when it comes to anger management issues. They also discuss the history of Islam, including the importance of forgiveness, avoiding bad behavior, and the use of sand and mud to indicate weakness and disaster. The importance of avoiding negative emotions and staying true to one's beliefs is emphasized.

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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim and Hamdani that was Salatu was Salam, O Allah rasool Allah He

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bowed will become two Hadith number 32 And is the statement of the Prophet sallallaahu Selim that has three components to it, all of which they're connected to the importance of giving Dawa and the importance of the one who's giving Dawa. To understand these three points. He told us some of the Allahu alayhi wa salam CILL men, Qatar Africa

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was in a min Assa T Lake will cool hack.

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When can I add enough sick will cool hack, while Oh, can I add an F CIG three things as a Muslim profit advisor, some Allah when you send them to everybody here,

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those people who cut you off from your relatives from the community.

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People cut you off, they don't want to deal with you. And you're supposed to deal with them and they're supposed to deal with you. Or so Allah says Allah Almighty was setting them, connect yourself to them.

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They cut you off, you make it your business to connect yourself to them.

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In the salon, a person doesn't want to put his foot next to your foot. Because he doesn't like you. Because of whatever. You try to put your foot next to his foot. If he doesn't want to do that, then don't busy yourself and busy him in the prayer with the issue of the foot. But you may know that that's a person from a different med hat but different Maslak. You may have issues in your head in your heart. He's white, he's black, he's Arab. I don't like him. Me and him has we have beef and

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drama and I just came into the masjid he was there and I get next to him. And I realizes him. I don't want to put my foot next to him.

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The Prophet says Allah Allah, why do you send them those who disconnect from you connect? And then he says Allah, Allah, why are you sending them and give a son to the one who does bad to you? I sin and I mean, like, someone did bad to you, your wife, your mother, your father, your brother, your sister, your brother in law, your neighbor. There's not a person sitting here except that he's been oppressed.

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No doubt about it. And there's not a person sitting here except that he will press others as well. But we're talking about the one who is not receiving his hawk. Everybody he didn't receive your hawk. Well, I sent in a min a sir, you make do good to those who do bad to you. And then the third and the final one. He says some love when he was setting them save the truth. Even if it's against yourself,

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even if it's against yourself is easy to say, Yeah, Funan this and listen this and that, and advising other people as your wife doesn't wear proper hijab, it's easy to say that, hey, you're not doing this, you're not doing that. You acknowledge and you recognize the mistake in other people. But it comes your turn, and you can't say the truth. You can admit the truth. People can bring you the truth and it is as clear as the sun in the sky. And you won't accept it. There's a problem.

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These three issues from the prophets of Allah, why do you send them a very important for the ones given down? Now in looking at this hadith today, I said to myself, I cannot be one of those people who come and I explained these Hadith without looking at myself. I feel like people did me wrong in lsn. I'm trying to give Dawa to the Sunnah by the Lord of Aqaba to the best of my ability. To what? Trying to give Dawa to the Kitab in the Sunnah, according to the understanding of Abu Bakar Marsman,

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I mean, the rest of those companions, that issue which is called a set of fear, is what I'm trying my best. Some people who are not on that, they just reject it. So they say things about you. And then even worse, you have those people who are upon that, and they say no, you're not. And over the years, I feel I've been oppressed. And I'm not trying to come across as the poor bunny rabbit, Woe is me. Woe is me. I'm making a point that when I deliver this kind of talk, can't be one of those

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people who I'm like the candle. I'm giving light and I'm burning myself. No. I have to listen to what the Prophet said to me. So I love what he was saying.

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Those people who cut you off, connect yourself to Him. You have an ex wife. You have a wife, but you guys are estranged. You got to cut it you got to connect. He says Allah Allah who it was sent him the person who did bad to you. Do good to them. Do good to the one who did bad to you. And 30 He mentioned Salah while he was under it.

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send them that you should say the truth even if it's against yourself. So we take the first part of this hadith A lot can be said but we make it you know short version of it Inshallah, there is a concept in Al Islam that is called and mawatha salah, where there's mutual connection, mutual connection. Now no one wants to marry a woman who he loves her and she doesn't love him. No one wants to be in a situation where he embraces people but they don't want him around. Your filter is

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going to say I don't want to deal with that. I don't want to deal with that.

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In this case and Mombasa connected, he says Allah Allah who it was Salam maicel waltzing

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Alevi was so the who was halacha he said the one who connects you know, tie to ties of relationship, and so forth and so on. Lacell Watson, Bill McAfee, when I came in Watson and Levy, a cookie Rahama who was Allah? He said real true connecting ties of relationship, the real winning Islam is not you connecting to your relatives and they connect to you.

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He said the real mawatha is you try to connect to them, and they don't want to connect to you.

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And everybody has issues like that. And they are those people from our relatives. I would pass friends or associates. There's some beef misunderstanding, and you don't want to give him sometimes he doesn't want to give you synonyms. That Prophet says Allah who it was synonymous like synonyms. You don't give synonyms one of the signs of illness. polyamorous people give sedans only to those who they know. There's someone who he doesn't get me set up so I'm not gonna sit on him. No, like

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that. Lady said Watson Ben Kashi. The real one who connects is not the one who you connect to him and he connects to you. But the real one is, you want to connect and they say no. And that's because you're in a level of sand. And a sand means that you know that Allah is watching you. You're not responsible for what he does and what he doesn't do. It sand and toppled Allah can Katara who went into contract with the new Yurok? Prophet Muhammad said a sand and mud sin is for you to worship

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Allah as though you know Allah sees you. You know, it says if you see Allah and although you don't see Allah, you know he sees you. So you won't steal something, although no one's watching. You're going to pray in your house. Although no one knows you're praying except Allah. You're going to fast although no one knows you really fast and you're gonna give sadaqa no one knows that you gave that sadaqa that's a form of sand. So hey, these people don't like you. He doesn't want to put his foot

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next to you for an example. You're still going to do it. Why? Because you know the ayat of the Quran. Yeah, you will live in Amman 1 Aikman first of all you believe you're responsible for your own selves, like your daughter Rockman Bala detune you're not responsible if someone else goes astray if he returns to synapse gives us that that's not your business. If he connects to tech, that's not your business. You're responsible for yourself. So that person he says like the I in my

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neutral Remo calm me which Hilah Laurie domain crunches and what I show Cora the people who feed with a class they say to the people, they feed from the slaves and the captives and people like that who are in need. The believers say we feed you this fool. We don't want any. We don't want anything from you. You don't have to say show crime. You don't have to say disaster. Allah Hey, you don't have to clap for me. You have to tell. I'm doing this because Allah told me to do your piano. I'm

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expecting my reward. That's the meaning of this part of the Hadith. Connect the one who can disconnects from you. Now this is important. You know this hadith that he said it's similar to the Hadith Goddess of Allah who it was suddenly them laces should do the surah when I can, it should be the leather yum the Cunniff so when

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he said the strong one is not the one who can out wrestle and beat everybody up. That's not the strong one in this mess Jay.

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The strong one is not the one who has the most muscles can lift the most weights run the furthest has the most stamina His neck is the big. He said the strong one is the one who can control himself when he becomes angry. Now you got to understand this hadith is like the first one. Now if a person has muscles and he can beat everybody up, he's in mixed martial artists. crack your head open

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your gun ready to fight your five rolls over their hip.

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head off and he's way over here. Because he's an expert in mixed martial arts. It's a mismatch, that guy is strong.

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And for someone to say Rasul Allah says, not strong. That's not the meaning of this hadith. He can really fight. And he's really strong. But also, like I said, that's not the real strength of his that the real strength is the one who can control himself when he gets angry. Now, there are some people unfortunate.

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Unfortunately, he's 50 years old. He's above 5040. He's 30. When he gets upset, when he has one word is something happens with his wife, his children. In the street, row rage, he becomes Majnoon. He can't control himself. And we know people who have these anger management issues. They start in effing people, even their mothers, their wives, say the worst things, cursing like a sailor, a sailor, his children are watching the listening. And then he wants to wonder why when you learn that

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word, his four year old kid comes and says that word to the older kids in the mother and father said why? How did you know that word that starts with an M where you get that from? I got it from you, Abby, you always say it when you got upset. You taught me that word. So there are some people will like that he's not strong. This guy got muscles, I the light coming out of his neck. He got him in his head all over the place. big thighs, big calves, his toes and fingers have muscles. But when it

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comes to controlling himself, he can't.

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He can't. And we see people like that. And that's why one of the signs of a hypocrite is a ha summer Fajr. One of the signs of a hypocrite is when he argues he becomes abusive in his language. How in the world can a man say to his wife that she's a prostitute or something like that? Or to his sister?

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How does he say that? Or to his mother.

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So that's the meaning of the Hadith. He's strong, that guy could beat you up in Russia, he can make you tap out. But he's not the real strong one. And a Haqiqa. The real strong one is the one when he gets angry, he knows how to cook controlling. So we asked Allahu Taala to do away with these anger issue management issues that we have make us have those people control our anger. Now as you get older, the less you're able to control your anger, the more problems you're gonna have with high

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blood pressure and things like that. One of the signs a difference between young people and older people is the young guy, he gets upset about everything. And there's some people who are around us where they wind you up just to get you upset, and you take the bait, and you fall into it. The Imam just now read some is some Surah Furqan and Allah describes the worshipers that he loves. And he said that they are those people, when the ignorant people addressed them. They said, I don't have

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any time to be wasted arguing with you and talking with you.

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So that's the first part of the Hadith.

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Connect people even if they don't want to connect. So it's like, he's not strong, but one who can out wrestle. You look at his muscles like the monastic. Allah said about the monastic whatever eight of whom gebouw, etc, who were in your puluh Tesla, and he told me him and know him who SHABOOM was Neda, when you see the hypocrites, when you see them, you are impressed with their bodies. They have, what's that Gucci, they have this, they got nice clothes, got a lot of muscles. Everything is

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perfect when you see their bodies and whoa, that guy is strong.

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That guy is strong and look nice. But when he gets upset, you say, this guy got mental issues. He has borderline personality issues to get that lad.

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He starts talking to you on the phone, and it can't come down and he starts screaming down the phone. You look at the phone and say This cat is crazy.

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He has mental problems to go this much overboard. And that's some of us. That's some of us. You were a little kid man. 25 years old, and you don't get your way with your mother, your father, your wife or whatever. You start kicking off and kicking things and pushing things and you can't handle yourself. And then you come out with the brothers and you're the Nice's are on the block. You guys know what I don't know is an acronym is a rabbit you know with the brothers up and up. But when you

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go home, you are liking ignited fire. You will like a Tiger Lion. You all of those

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things with your wife and your kids. No, yeah. So this first part of the hadith is important.

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Connect to those, even if they don't want to connect to you, especially from your relatives, your wife, we get into misunderstandings with our wives, we leave, and we stay upset all day. And then when we come home, we don't give us sometimes, what if she doesn't give you sometimes that fed you on that space between you and her, it gets bigger and bigger and wider and wider. And it may lead to problems and Shala. Usually, you come back, but it's easy. The Prophet said about the good woman

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some of the law who it was sending them. The good Muslim woman is the one who, when her husband does wrong, her husband was wrong. He's talking to another lady to get married, and she got found out and she's upset.

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He got married without her knowledge, and she's upset.

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He didn't pay the bill yet, whatever. And she's really upset because of what he did. Or so I said, the best woman is the one who comes at night, puts her hand in her husband's hand and says, I can't go to sleep until you're happy with me. Because by her touching him, it's gonna cool him out. But if you go all in one room in another room, everybody looking you know what screw face, everybody looked like they just ate lemon you look lemon face, lemon face, and you avoid each other problems. And

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Wallah here when even if you don't feel it, even if you're still mad, or you don't feel it, just try it. Just go and say, let me just see how it works. And you just go say, Honey, you will find melt like butter, unless you're married to a tiger, unless you're married to a loved one. Now, if you're married to a loved one, you're in trouble. And some people got wives like that. May Allah give us an idea was set on. That's the first part of the Hadith. The Prophet says of Allah, he was sitting in

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the second part of the Andes. Do good to those who do bad to you. This is really, really important when he really really important,

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really important. The ayat of the Quran looked at kind of the comfy Rasulullah he was what toon Hasina you have in the Messenger of Allah Muhammad a perfect example. Because he lived and a lot of people did bad to him and he forgave them and awful you know in Ramadan a local man in the car food to Hebrews 4510 Allah you pardon you forgive you excuse people make mistakes. I didn't pray on time for budget I didn't do this. I didn't do that. I didn't do that. Oh Allah, you are an eyeful forgive

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me, I made a mistake.

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That's how the Prophet was Salah what he was saying. He used to forgive people. And there's nobody here maybe all of us combined. I don't know how many people we all these people here.

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All of us combined, all of us combined.

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But Soula was all pressed more than all of us combined. And he's to let people go. And we're getting all pressed by someone who does a little thing. She forgot to put his crisp in the bag for lunch with the tuna fish. And when he finds out she didn't put the crisp he goes off. He goes off because she forgot to Chris. It doesn't even worry all of that. So those people who do bad to you do good to them. Listen, throughout the Quran, you are dying. I'm a die throughout the Quran. The Quran is

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replete with the stories of the prophets and the messengers. Salat wa taala. He was set actually him where people did them wrong a lot in the story of fear in our own for an example there was a man who believed in Musa and he was hiding this land and he came out in public and started defending the hawk he started saying that Hawk different home

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and he said to for our own tuck to Luna Raju on your call Robbie Allah are you fighting was Musa you want to kill him? And he just says My Lord is Allah You didn't do anything to you?

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Whoever they are you do good to the one who does bad to you. He's trying to do good to you. That same man said in that story along with from our own God call me Molly drew Kuhn in an object what to do Rooney in a nod. He said, Oh my people from home what's wrong with you? What is wrong with you? I'm giving you guys dollar to success to the Jana and ajet worship Allah Allah, I'm giving you Dawa, and you're asking me to come to the hellfire. So today, and this is no dig it anyone. One of the

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great scholars of Islam. A lot of these scholars is the man you all heard of Muhammad Abdul Rahman.

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To lay I lay, there are Muslims who hate this man, because of the way they were growing up and the way they were orientated about Islam, and they make lies about him.

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This guy is not that this man is not a regular person. He's a scholar. He gave down he helped al Islam he left behind for the Muslims, a lot of hate. But because I'm on some other stuff, Sufi ism, Breakaway ism, dump the Obon wherever I'm on, I don't like Saudi Arabia, whenever I'm on. I come and I make stuff up and lie about him. Man, that guy did good to you. He did good for this community by leaving behind keytab a towhee. That's just an example. And the hatred that you have formed when we

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sit down and we say, Where does it come from? And all it comes from his his beer, the things that you believe are not true. He went over and agree with the British to take the Khilafah from the Ottomans where you get that from, he can prove it. He used to make takfeer of the people wholesale. When you get that from he can't prove it. So the person says well hobby, your hobby. I'm not a Wahhabi. I'm just a Muslim. I'm not making *, I don't want to make *.

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So those people who do do do evil to you, give them a second. That's the second part of the Hadith. But again, I want to bring your attention to this issue about that the prophets and that's the messengers of ALLAH, ALLAH SubhanA wa taala. Listen to this. You also have Salewa to lie, he was so enamored with it, his brothers threw him in the well. Everybody heard that story, man. But can you imagine someone throwing you in the well and just leaving you in the whale? The waiting for somebody

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to come and get you are you going to die in it could have died in a snake down in scorpions down there? Some crazy high Hina comes jumping in you stuck like Chuck, go eat you up. His brothers threw him in the well.

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Staying in a while for one night is one night too many. Some of the scholars said he stayed a week. So I'm saying he said more than that. The point is, your brother threw you in the well, the Arab setting the poetry, they said in the poetry, that those sort of the enemy when they hit you, it hurts. That same sword when it's hit with us by your relative is even worse. The sword is the sword. It's the same sword. It's the same wound, but you didn't expect it. That's your friend stabbed you

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in your back. Stabbed on your back.

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So you didn't expect it. So the point is, you will see what happens if you're giving Dawa. You're practicing. They're not practicing. You are a person who saw a man who is solid is from the solid in what happens if every religious person got revenge for everybody who did something to him. There's a verse of the Quran. We're in our club tomb for our people will be missing me my old crypto, what an insert Bertola who Hiram let's Linda sobbing This is it. If anybody oppresses you, bothers you hurt

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you, then hurt them back, bother them back the way they did to you. The meaning of that is if they want to fight you Muslims and the sacred months, fight them back in a sacred months. If they want to fight you at the cover, fight them back at the Kaaba. If you're fasting, and they come to harm you don't say I'm fasting, I'm fasting like I tried to harm you

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know, the I said you have the right to push them back and deal with him. But you know, he told you many times they describe the prophets of Allah Why do you suddenly set a bottom

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kind of lag and take him long enough? See he he used to not get revenge for himself? You

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know, you're crazy.

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You got a gin

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you are conveyed Rasul Allah can say you are cuz that and it's true. You're crazy for not listening to me. And it's true that he didn't do that. I like ordered them it's viability here acid is a levy bein a carabiner why Dawa push back. People stop stuff with what is best. And the one who you got a problem with if you do that. Deal with him in a nice way. He will become like your bosom buddy. But he's nasty. And you Nancy, the end result is a kimberleigh Envy jar it's going to blow up. So those

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people who do bad, you do good to them yourself. When your self got control over his brothers. His brothers said to him Tulla he We swear

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Allah, Allah has raised you up over us, they realize they were wrong. Use of could have told them make such to bow down and ask for my forgiveness. Put your faces on the earth on the floor because it was permissible for them to make such duck out of respect. That's their religion, not ours. So at the end of the story, Yosef may set up his mother and his father may say that to him

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Oh, my father saw the sun in the moon and living stars making sense to me. His father Jakob said don't tell that dream to your brother's they're gonna make a plan for you in jealous at the end. He makes sense. Yeah.

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It was permissible in the religion. So now I got the upper hand. All I want you to do is make searched up. And I want everybody to see it in public. You didn't do that. He said in the Quran. Last two three by eight coming to Yom yuck federal law. Yes fit Hola. Hola, como. Well, who are Hamra healing. Don't worry, my brothers, you wrongly, don't worry, you won't have any difficulty today.

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Allah is going to forgive you. I ask Allah to forgive you. And he has more Ramadan, anyone who has arrived. He didn't have some put your face. There's not a person here. Except there's someone in our lives who don't. That's how gave us a problem. And we can't get over it. We can't get by it. We're still carrying around that stuff. You may be right not to forgive because of the nature of what they did. But usually that's not the case. We're mad, and we're angry for ourselves. And that's why we

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and I don't want to exclude myself. One of the things that caused me to think about this hadith was I said in public a few times. I don't forgive any of those guys who said what they said, now I gotta calm down. I gotta calm down, wanted to come to them and say I forgive him. I'm not gonna say that though. But I got to work on myself. I have to work on myself. I can't just say that to you people.

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Do good to those people who they dogged you out to good to them, is better for you. That's to me love that part of the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa ala Ali will send them what a bill Nofal when the prophets Allah Allah who it was sending them had Gibreel come to Accra. Bismillah beaconit the hell up and then I issued took him to her cousin was able to know Finn. He told them no, you're not crazy. That was Jabril the non moves he came to you. He's the same one who came to

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Musa and the other prophets and messengers. This man is from Quraysh from Mecca. So he knew about Ibrahim he knew about some of the prophets. That's why for deja, when Mother, may Allah be pleased with her. When the Prophet he knows it. So she took them to him to a cousin. He told them no, you're not crazy. Jabril came to you. And then he told the prophet and this is the point Sal Allah who sent me the old man. He said, I wish I was young. I wish I was younger right now, when your people put

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you out of Mecca, Rasul Allah said they're gonna put me out they're gonna put me out and Mohammed and from Quraysh and from Benny Hashem and from the best house these people know me my relatives, they will put me out clench my people. He said, no body no human being came with what you came with what you have now. A toe he?

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No one came with that dollar to Tauheed dollar to your sunnah. No one, except that people around him, fought against them. They're gonna put you out. He didn't have knowledge of the Unseen he had knowledge of the previous prophets and messengers. So if you're given doubt Allah Allahu Taala told us to make a mess of my roof and make a name and monka. And then he told us was a Saba after you teach and give Dawa. Be patient with what's going to happen to you after that. You're going to have

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some issues. It's coming your way Rest assured, and that's why at he

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we can make our Dawa the pleasure of the people.

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Nor should we think people have to be fighting us and clashing with us as a deal that our dad was working. No, you kept down with hikma and you're trying to prevent unnecessary fitna, but no matter how you try, how intelligent how soft, how easy, how generous, how tolerant you really are, you're going to have problems with people no matter what. So two things number one, connect those people who disconnect from you. And also what you should do is you should as the Prophet says sallallahu

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alayhi wa it was said to them

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Good to those people who did back to you. It was mentioned in the Quran a few times in Nevada, Alec lemon Nazmul or more. So what the prophet heard SallAllahu send them in Nevada Lika let me know as many or more when you are like that. This is from what is difficult. Everybody can do it as a man or more.

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You have to have a class, you have to have southern. Some of us come from backgrounds.

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Where we have this thing, this false sense of pride.

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Meaning of us the way we grew up, don't push me around, don't step on my foot

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that come from that. And then al Islam, we carry that mentality with us where we can't forgive. We think everyone who did something to us it was intentional, and you have to put him in his place as a sign of being a man. No man, that's not true. Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was stronger than everyone here. But again, he is not strong, the one who cannot wrestle everyone and he cannot wrestle everybody. So Allah who said, the one who can control himself when he's angry, that's

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the one who was strong. So the Prophet used to didn't get angry unnecessarily. And when he got angry, some of the love while he was selling me didn't go overboard and expressing that anger and executing it. The last part of the hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa, it was Salam is that he said, Call her

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say the truth, even if it's against yourself. Before that equity, there's something I want to mention it's really important as we did there's a hadith is important because not only in Dawa but it's in everything men Tara cache and Allah He or what Allah will Mangu hydro Minho. Anyone who leaves something for Allah sake, Allah will give you what is better. If you leave Cofer, or you come into a slam, you could have been making money. You could have been really hanging out, do whatever

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you want to do. But when you come into a slam, Allah replaces what is better for that what you left, you make hijra, you leave your house, like the majority in America, they left their homes and money, they left it for Allah sake. They're gonna go to Jana. Their religious spread, they got power. This is a party that in life, if you abandon something for Allah say, that lady, I'm in love, I'm in love. But she's kicking me in my head.

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She's kicking me in my head.

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I climb up to the top of the mountain, and she's sitting on her big chair like the queen.

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And then when I get up to the mountain, and it's tough, getting up to the mountain, with her high heeled shoes, boom, hit me in my head, and I roll down the mountain. I look up I say she loves me, and I do it again. And she no Yashi you better leave that lady alone for loss sake.

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Allah is going to replace that with that which is better. But if you want to stay stuck on stupid and keep the one upset and getting back down, that's your business. That's just an example. Everything in life. Whoever leaves something for Allah, look at this. We're arguing going back and forth. Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa salam, Ana zerene be baked in for you, Robert. Jana lemon, Tara can Mira we're in Cana, Mohit car, he said I will be the guarantor, I will guarantee

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that a person will go into the best part of Janna.

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I guarantee you, I guarantee I'm going to guarantee that you're going to go into the best part of Jana, if you leave off argumentation, even if you are right, even if that happens with you. So some of us were married.

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And now we're married marriages, whenever we have these misunderstandings with our wives. Oh, the husband is interested in is I'm writing you wrong. And so she's into who's right who's wrong? Sometimes it's important who's right or who's wrong? But isn't it more important? A Sakina in the house? peace and tranquility. That's more important. Some people all they do man and the woman husband and the wife. All they do was replay what happened that caused a problem. You said this not

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said that anything you said and they keep going? No, I didn't say that. Yes, you did. And that's all it and this gets gets worse.

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You got to learn how to say as the Prophet said, sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam La Mina is not okay for the husband. I hate his wife. If you see something in her that you don't like, look for a character trait that you do like

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if you keep arguing about the thing she made a mistake on and her upset that you won't be able to live together just leave it. Just leave it for Allah sake. That's a principle

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That is a principle now religion.

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The last point that we want to mention is sha Allah azza wa jal say the truth even if it is against yourself, Prophet Muhammad exemplified this Allah love what he was sending him in many ways.

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There was a Bedouin, and you know the Bedouin is the person who the people look down at him, like you a Bedouin. He can be dirty, you know the Bedouin.

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He's not looked at by the people like this. Although he could be from the block.

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Let's Rasul Allah borrows money from a Bedouin, and the Bedouin came to the Prophet sallallaahu was sending to them, and the bedwin started going off. Where's my money? Give me my money. And he was emphatic and excited. The Companions got agitated. They said, you know you're talking to, they're getting ready to drum him up. Did you know who you is like one of you someone come talk to your father, your mother, your father in law, someone you love. And this guy comes talking out of the

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side of his neck and disrespecting your dad, someone you love you respect. You're gonna get between them and say, Hey, you're gonna say what you have to say. The companions that you know when you're talking to Prophet Muhammad said to them some love while he was salam.

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My Osama bin hack Quinton.

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Hala, Massa and Bill hack Clinton.

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Why is it? Why wouldn't you people stand with the one who the truth is with?

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Yes, he's talking in a bad way. But we don't know his situation. He needs money. You want him? It's his money. And although what he's doing is not nice. You don't know what he's going through. He gotta go and pay that bill. He has, if he doesn't, is jammed up. So let's head to the Companions, our oldest man money, why you don't be on his side and say You're so lucky that man his money.

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Say the truth. Even if it's the case, you say, Hey, listen, some of these organizations and again, I'm saying this not to have a dig at any organization. But you know, this Yaqeen Institute, people like that. We are all for Institute's Margaret Cofer. We all for people who are trying to help Islam to grow and develop the Muslim Shabaab. But we have a problem with progressive people who think crazy, because that's not being progressive. That's the hull of haram Inhofe, you're straight.

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We don't want people, women, men who don't know about the religion, and then they come put in doubt and things about the religion. Is the Quran preserved and not preserved? Can you ask other than Allah, people in the grave, can you make dua is that ship cannot ship this stuff. These people are saying that's against religion.

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We don't want that. So now, if you work with one of those organizations, and one of the members say something crazy, like it came out recently, a white brother with a PhD from Yaqeen, came out and said that the dollar to Senate fear is responsible for creating to cuties to create ease and Jihad ease, because they see everything black and white. So once you see something as white, you're white, black is your enemy. So they became that sniper. And he said that Osama bin Laden, golfer Allah Who

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Lana Willow who may Allah give us in Him have robbed upon him, that Tao of Osama bin Laden is not to crack down, killing people that he said that he was sending me and all that. So now I'm with that Yaqeen Institute. I have to be able to come out in public and say, hey, I can see that I can remain solid.

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I can't be in a place this semester that I can't beat you can't be in a situation where you can say the truth. Say the truth, even if it's against yourself, one of the companions of a version fatty may Allah be pleased with me sad, Amma Rani Khalili and according Huck Willow, kind of Maura, my friend, my alleles on Allah who I knew something He ordered me say the truth, even if it's sour.

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Sometimes the truth is sweet. And sometimes the truth is sour. He says, Say it. Even if it's sour. You have to say it to your chef have to say it to your teacher. You have to say to your mother and father, you have to say to your best friend, you have to say it against yourself. So look at

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The ayat of the Quran life takes you to Conan you know, nebula he will Yeoman if you are doing them and had the Lucha or sullo will Oh can

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I Shirato you will not find a group of people.

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Taken as friends, those people wage war against a man His Messenger, even if they happen to be their fathers, even if they have to be their brothers, even if it happens to be their tribe. You have to take the position of the truth. Yeah, are you Halina? I'm no Kumu Kahua Amina Bill Krista shahada, Allah, Allah, Willow fusi come are well ye then I will Accra been? Oh, you believe stand up as witnesses for the truth. Be a witness for the truth with justice for Allah, even if it's against

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themselves, even if against your mother and your father, even if it's against your closest relative. I'll never forget as long as I live, there was a brother who comes from where some of you brothers come from, who are in front of me many of you, where you come from

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where there was some drama that had happened and he told the people about how much he loves his tribe and how he'll support his tribe. I'll never forget it. He said if my tribe goes to the hellfire, I'm gonna go to Hell fire with them. I'll stand with them and whatever. Meaning

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someone did something to his trim tribesmen and they wanted to move on him in Canada. They wanted to move on him. And this guy wasn't asking what happened who's right who he was. Let's just go get him put them in a grave. Yeah, he you can't do that. You got to find out what I mean. I'm with my tribe. My tribe go to the hellfire. I'm going to hell fie with him. He said if my tribe went to the hellfire and I go to Jana, I don't want to be in gender like that. I want to be my tribe. Now he

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said that from anger I Serbia he was tripping. But where does that come from?

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So the ISA said stand out for truth and justice. Even if it's against yourself. People can't do that. We play Katie each other. We pat each other on the back. We have to say a that thing you said it was over Boy, that thing you said it wasn't fair. That thing you said it wasn't right. So say the truth and beyond the truth. Even if it is against yourself. I want to ask you something. Are you guys aware?

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The scholars of the past contemporary shift Nasr the dean and l Danny Rahmatullah Annie, he has a book called Sal Salah al Hadith, a difference I hear

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about 1516 books, a put those inside Hey, those in dive, he has other books, hey, a chef, Bernie.

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And I'll ban you over the years when he put his book together he will say this hadith is authentic. And then someone from his students will come later and the book is already printed. People are reading and and Danny finish authentic because of this, this this is that that person from his students or person will come say share, I found something and it's this and that and it goes against what you're saying. And then it Benny will come later on in another book and say, and I graded this

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hadith week in a book this and that, but I found this authentic. And I graded this hadith site in this desert, but I'm telling you today it's it's the opposite. That's a sign of loss. Inshallah. That's a sign of a hero for the deem that a person can say like Imam, Abu Hanifa. He said, Woe unto you Yaqoob Abu Yusuf don't write anything I say. I take a position today. I may change it tomorrow. If I change it tomorrow, I'm gonna come out and tell you I was wrong. Hey, a whiny little man.

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That's what I'm saying. There's a man from American African American Muslim man who died 1965 He was assassinated and murdered. And I hope he's Shaheed and he goes, the gentleman's name is Malcolm X. One of the reasons why I have a mammoth amount of respect for Malcolm X is Malcolm X when he was a calf and with the Nation of Islam call into that, Cofer. He was strong, he was courageous. That was a time black people couldn't talk like that.

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Black people can talk like that. Malcolm X got up and told and said of white man is a devil. It's what he said. All your devils and then he was telling black people will be proud of who you are and this and this and that. And then time went on. He was a Katherine what he was saying wasn't right. And then he when he made he he went to make hudge. When he made Hodge, he sat we're brothers like this. People from Bulgaria, Muslims from Hungary, Muslim, Albania, Muslims from Europe.

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He sat in the tent with Pakistanis, white people, people with blue eyes. And then he went to sleep. He heard them snoring. Everybody was snoring. It was no lights. He heard him snoring. He said he had an epiphany. And he realized racism in America is a problem. He said, everybody in that room was snoring. And you can tell who's white, who's black, who's Brown, who's this, you can tell that

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a man gives blood gives blood to his GP, and he leaves. You know, when you come to the capsules of blood, you don't know who's black who's white, you don't know, to look at the bus aid is black prison, sickle cell is in here. You can't tell that can't tell. The problem is with us. And as societies we came from Malcolm X data 180 degree turn and came to the whole world and said, I was wrong.

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I was wrong with what I was calling to.

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And then the people try to get on and like, well, you may be wrong again. He said I was wrong before.

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It takes a lot of nerve and courage to say that. And that's why you have to be careful.

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The best of our ima or an AMA, they retract and Wrekin when they make mistakes. Now, everybody here makes mistakes, everybody. So if you are speaking in public, you're going to make mistakes.

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If you see a person who never retracted his mistake, he never made it clear. I did this I said this it was wrong. Well, they know there's a problem with that. There's a problem with that. So we know people who are on a way that has inherent they are straight, they are a straight, not only they are a straight, a straight,

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clear to see. And yet the person will never ever ever say that I was wrong. So if whiny we stick with that, say the truth, even if it's against yourself, as people will give in doubt as people will Muslims.

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Connect the one who disconnects you give salam so the one who doesn't want to sit and you

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stand next to the one he doesn't want to stand next to you. But in Salah don't spend the whole time bothering that man. Don't Don't spend no, you know, the Sunnah is feet, the feet shoulder to shoulder. But his mouth hat may not support that you and him have beef and drama. He doesn't like you because of a call or whatever. Now I'm gonna put my feet there. If he keeps it handy. laffy moves it away my knee.

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And let's say you have to look at it and shallow. Second of all, second of all, whoever did bad to you do good to them.

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How is the dollar going to spread? If every single person who's practicing won't forgive the next person?

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How would the Prophets the prophets messages how, and when would the Dallas spread if they didn't forget? And lastly, and then lastly, he says hola hola. Why do you say to them, say the truth. Like last week, stay away from the door of the leader. Because if you go to the door of the leader, you can say the truth, you'll be free to say the truth. And in conclusion, I want to say Rahmatullahi to Allah and a chef Salah aloo Hidin, who died a few weeks ago a few days ago he died.

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He was one of the people of knowledge with his ummah. And he's one of those people who

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when people asked him questions about sensitive issues, about what's going on about what's haram and monka. The chef will tell you what he felt

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the singers and this is haram. And we shouldn't allow it. This is not from what we should be doing. But he wouldn't do in a way that would compromise his position and what he's supposed to be doing. Doing something haram but he will say it in a way that left no room for someone to misunderstand.

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We can be like the people who were going to placate the ruler and desensitize the people with what's going on because things are going on. We don't want to make any trouble. No. So we say Rahmatullahi Tala on the chef, Simon. Hello Hey Dan, when Ursula and you can hear and you can hear this ummah with Irma like Kim, and Allah is asleep. So if you guys have any questions you shot like put your questions for real quick. Get out in spot. I'm in the cache

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for the yaki either way at Cameroonian

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Say it again. My brother I couldn't hear you raise your voice Shala

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they try and what?

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The truth

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consequences. So sometimes we see things that are wrong, and we're nervous and uncomfortable to advise the person who's doing wrong because he's an older person, and you're young. You have respect for younger people, you're 20 He's 6070. He's your father, your mother, your auntie, your uncle. He's your teachers, your chef. He's your teacher.

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He's the police man, got a gun and all that kind of stuff like that, and he's doing wrong. And you see him beating people up or treating an innocent person treating him and you saw what happened and what didn't happen. And you say mine in my business, so they don't hit my head and but you say no, hey, listen, that guy didn't do it. It wasn't him. It was the person over here. Why you being so rough with him? So a person finds himself in that situation? The Prophet says of Allah who it was

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salam alaikum Nana Rajala Hey, boo to NAS and your call Huck, we mentioned that last week. None of you shall allow being afraid of anyone. You should never allow that to prevent you from seeing the truth. If you know the truth, you saw the truth. You witness the truth. You heard the truth. Don't let the Haber Heba is that

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here's a person who have a mammoth astronomical amount of respect for

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the girl gets married to her husband. That girl is 20 years old. Her husband is older than her she has a lot of respect. Like how some women how some women,

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the way they grow them up. So when she gets married, she doesn't look at her husband, out of respect, shy, shy, jazz love, but she's like that.

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She looks at her father like that for an example. But she sees that a father smoke cigarettes. She'll say to my dad, or she should say to a dad, because in a culture, she can't say anything to her dad is disrespect.

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Don't say anything. This is an elder. No. She says to her dad, that I really care about your love. And you know, the cigarette smell is going to harm cancer. Don't do it in a nice way. So rest assured that when you give dower to people, you want to give advice to people. Amen. Is that a rat on your head?

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Oh, boy Subhanallah

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Let me see that man.

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a lie I put out a rat on that man's hat the way he was sitting.

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So you try your best shot lies with gel. Don't be afraid, you know that Allah is stronger. Allah's ACWA Allah is awesome. Allah Akbar. Allah says, I that we should eat, whatever that person can do to you. Allah does worse. And I end with that hadith of that sleeve.

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One of the companions had a slave who did something wrong. The Prophet really dealt with the slave that dealt with a slave rough Wait, it was really rough with his slave, rebuking him and all over them from behind the Prophet say, hey, feel love

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to the master, the owner, a fella for verily, Allah's ability and power over you, is much greater than your ability to power over that man, whatever you can do to him. Allah can do that to you worse. And you wouldn't want that. The man who did it who said it? The man looked around and he saw was the prophets of Allah. Why do you suddenly learn the lesson? What do you do? He say you're free. He was regretful the way he dealt with his slave. So you remember that

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To give him Dawa you give advice knowing that

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you have to be answerable to Eliza Jen. So do with hikma okay when we're going to stop here right now in sha Allah bless all you brothers. What's the name of the African American men name Muslim that I may I gave his name I said I respect them and that his first name starts with an M. And his last name has a letter that's at the end of the alphabet. What's his name? I gave you all the clues, bro. What's his name?

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labas nobis what's his name, son?

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We have Michelle was showing me I came with Shadow Boone and Yom yaki.

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Malcolm X. Go back and read that man story. Okay. Subhanak Allahumma. We're behind the cast shadow Allah ilaha illa and stuck out to me. All of you brothers who are here for the first time. Welcome. We haven't seen many of you. There's a guy over here came in. He wasn't praying. I invited him come and pray didn't move. So I figured he's not a Muslim found out. His name is Roberto. Roberto. Roberto