Hadith 32 The Callers Proclaiming the Truth

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Samina Mata Rahim and hum Dooney that was Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah he am Babu we come to Hadith number 32

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And is the statement of the Prophet Solomon it was sent him that has three components to it, all of which they're connected to the importance of given data. And the importance of the one who's giving Dawa. To understand these three points. He told us some of the law while he was setting it, still, men Kataka

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was in a men Assa e Lake will call in half.

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When can I earn enough sick will pool hack, while Ocana Lnf sick. Three things as a Muslim, a profit advisor sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told everybody here.

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Those people who cut you off from your relatives from the community,

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people cut you off, they don't want to deal with you. And you're supposed to deal with them. And they're supposed to deal with you. Or so like I said, some of it was setting them, connect yourself to them.

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They cut you off, you make it your business to connect yourself to them.

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In the salon, a person doesn't want to put his foot next to your foot. Because he doesn't like you. Because wherever you try to put your foot next to his foot, if he doesn't want to do that. They don't busy yourself and busy him in the prayer with the issue of the foot. But you may know that that's a person from a different method but different Muslim. You may have issues in your head and your heart is white. He's black, he's Arab. I don't like him. Me and him has we have beef and drama and I just came into the Masjid. He was there and I get next to him. And I realized it's him. I don't want to put my foot next to him.

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The Prophet says Allah, why did you send them those who disconnect from you connect? And then he says Allah who it was sending them and give a son to the one who does bad to you. I sent in a men Assa EMIC. Someone did bad to you, your wife, your mother, your father, your brother, your sister, your brother in law, your neighbor. There's not a person sitting here except that he's been oppressed.

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No doubt about it. And there is not a person sitting here except that he will press others as well. But we're talking about the one who is not receiving his hock, everybody here receive your Huck? Well, acid Amen. A sir Eric, do good to those who do bad to you. Then the third and the final one, he says someone loved when he was setting them save the truth. Even if it's against yourself,

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even if it's against yourself is easy to say yeah, Funan this and this and this and that. And advising other people as your wife doesn't wear proper he Jad is easy to say that, hey, you're not doing this, you're not doing that. You acknowledge and you recognize the mistake and other people, but it comes your turn, and you can't say the truth. You can admit the truth. People can bring you the truth and it is as clear as the sun in the sky. And you won't accept it is a problem. These three issues from the Prophet sallallahu I do send them a very important for the ones given down. Now in looking at this hadith today, I said to myself, I cannot be one of those people who come and

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I explained these Hadith without looking at myself. I feel like people did me wrong in Ellis land. I'm trying to give Dawa to the Sunnah by the Lord of Aqaba to the best of my ability to what? Trying to give Dawa to the Kitab in the Sunnah. According to the understanding of Abu Bakar marksmen, I mean the rest of those companions, that issue which is called a setup here is what I'm trying my best. Some people who are not on that, they just reject it. So they say things about you. And then even worse, you have those people who are upon that, and they say no, you're not. And over the years, I feel I've been oppressed. And I'm not trying to come across as the poor bunny rabbit, Woe

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is me. Woe is me. I'm making a point that when I deliver this kind of talk can be one of those people who I'm like the candle. I'm giving light and I'm burning myself. No. I have to listen to what the Prophet said to me. So love while he was said

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those people who cut you off, connect yourself to Him. You have an ex wife. You have a wife but you guys are estranged. You got to cut it you gotta connect. He says Allah why do you send the person who did bad to you? Do good to them? Do good to the one who did bad to you? And 30 He mentioned so while he was on it

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Tell them that you should say the truth even if it's against yourself. So we take the first part of this hadith A lot can be said but we make it you know, short version of Inshallah, there is a concept in Islam that is called an Marois, Salah, where there's mutual connection, mutual connection. Now no one wants to marry a woman who he loves her and she doesn't love him. No one wants to be in a situation where he embraces people but they don't want him around. Your fitrah is going to say I don't want to deal with that. I want to deal with that.

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In this case, and mawatha connected, he says Allah who he was a mason whilst

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and levy was CELTA, who was halacha he said the one who connects you know tied to ties of relationship and so forth and so on. Lacell Watson been McAfee when acumen Watson and levy Eva pootie Rama who was Allaha he said real true connecting ties of relationship, the real winning Islam is not you connect into your relatives and they connect to you.

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He said the real mawatha is you try to connect to them and they don't want to connect to you.

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And everybody has issues like that. Are there those people from our relatives I will pass friends are associates. There's some beef misunderstanding, and you don't want to give them Sam's. He doesn't want to give you Sam's. That Prophet says Allah who it was send them it's like Sam's. You don't give Sam's one of the signs of illness. Yamas people give Sam's only to those who they know. There's someone who he doesn't give me Salam so I'm not gonna slam him. No, not like that. Lay son Wasson been mu Kashi. The real one who connects is not the one who you connect to him and he connects to you. But the real one is, you want to connect and they say no. And that's because you're

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in a level of sand. And a sand means that you know that Allah is watching you. You're not responsible for what he does and what he doesn't do. A sand and toppled Allah can Nakata Rahu in them to Contao Vinu yuroke. Prophet Muhammad said a sand and Mutsun is for you to worship Allah as low Juno, Allah sees you. You know, it says if you see Allah and although you don't see a lie, you know he sees you. So you won't steal something, although no one's watching. You're going to pray in your house. Although no one knows you're praying except Allah. You're going too fast. Although no one knows you're really fast and you've got to give sadaqa no one knows that you gave that sadaqa

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that's a form of sand. So hey, these people don't like he doesn't want to put his foot next to you. For example, you're still going to do it why? Because you know the idea of the Quran Yeah, you're living in Ireland why Lakeman first of all, you believe you're responsible for your own cells laghi aduro, cumin bola event day two, you're not responsible if someone else goes astray. If he returns the synapse gives us that that's not your business. If he connects to tack that's not your business. You're responsible for yourself. So that person he says like the IA in NEMA, Mo calm me which he La La nori domain crunches and what I show Cora, the people who feed with a class they say to the

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people, they feed from the slaves and the captives and people like that who are in need. The believers say, We feed you this fool. We don't want any. We don't want anything from you. You don't have to say show crime. You don't have to say disaster la hadal at the classroom, you'll have to tell I'm doing this because a lot told me to do yo Qiyamah I'm expecting my reward. That's the meaning of this part of the Hadith. Connect the one who can disconnects from you. Now this is important. You know, this hadith that he said is similar to the Hadith goddess of the Lavoie, he was suddenly LEM Lisa shiddhi Bishara when I can is shiddhi the levy young the Quran so when the rather,

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he said the strong one is not the one who can out wrestle and beat everybody up. That's not the strong one in this mess Jade. The strong one is not the one who has the most muscles can lift the most weights run the furthest has the most stamina His neck is the bit. He said the strong one is the one who can control himself when he becomes angry. Now you got to understand this hadith is like the first one. Now if a person has muscles and he can beat everybody up, he's a Mixed Martial Artist. crack your head open.

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You're ready to fight your five rolls over their hips.

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head off and he's way over here. Because he's an expert in mixed martial arts. It's a mismatch. That guy is strong.

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And for someone to say Rasul Allah say he's not strong. That's not the meaning of this hadith. He can really fight. And he's really strong. But Rasul Allah said, that's not the real strength of Islam. The real strength is the one who can control himself when he gets angry. Now, there are some people unfortunate.

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Unfortunately, he's 50 years old. He's above 5040 30. When he gets upset when he has one word is something happens with his wife, his children. In the street, row rage, he becomes Majnoon. He can't control himself. And we know people who have these anger management issues. They start in effing people, even their mothers, their wives, say the worst things, cursing like the Celia, a sailor, his children are watching the listening. And they want to wonder why when you learn that word, his four year old kid comes and says that word to the older kids in a mother and father say what? How did you know that word that starts with an M, we get that from? I got it from you, Abby, you always say it

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when you got upset. You taught me that word. So there are some people will like that. He's not strong. This guy got muscles I the light coming out of his neck. He got them in his head all over the place. big thighs, big calves, his toes and fingers have muscles. But when it comes to controlling himself, he can't. He can't. And we see people like that. And that's why one of the signs of a hypocrite is a ha sama Fajr. One of the signs of a hypocrite is when he argues he becomes abusive in his language. How in the world can a man say to his wife that she's a prostitute or something like that? Or to his sister?

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How does he say that? Or to his mother.

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So that's the meaning of the Hadith. He's strong, that guy could beat you up in Russia, he could make you tap out. But he's not the real strong one. And a Haqiqa. The real strong one is the one when he gets angry, he knows how to cook controlling. So we ask Allahu Taala to do away with these anger, issue management issues that we have make us have those people control our anger. Now as you get older, the less you're able to control your anger, the more problems you're going to have with high blood pressure and things like that. It's one of the signs a difference between young people and older people is the young guy, he gets upset about everything. And there's some people who are

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around us where they wind you up just to get you upset, and you take the bait, and you fall into it. The Imam just now read some is some Surah Furqan and Allah describe the worshipers that he loves. And he said that they are those people when the ignorant people addressed them. They said I don't have any time to be wasting arguing with you and talking with you.

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So that's the first part of the Hadith. connected people, even if they don't want to connect, so it's like he's not strong, but one who can wrestle. You look at his muscles like the munafo Unless said about the monastic we're either at home to Rebekah and Sam. Were in your pool, Tesla Nikoli can no home hashable must NEDA when you see the hypocrites when you see them, you are impressed with their bodies. They have, what's that Gucci, they have this they got nice clothes, got a lot of muscles. Everything is perfect. When you see their body you say whoa, that guy is strong.

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That guy is strong and look nice. But when he gets upset, you say this guy got mental issues. He has borderline personality issues to get that lad.

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He starts talking to you on the phone and it can't come down and he starts screaming down the phone. You look at the phone and say This cat is crazy.

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He has mental problems to go this much overboard. And that's some of us that some of us you will little kid man 25 years old, and we don't get your way with your mother, your father, your wife or whatever. You start kicking off and kicking things and pushing things you can't handle yourself. And then you come out with the brothers and you're the Nice's are never on the block. You guys know what autumnal is? An art is a rabbit. You know with the brothers you're out and up. But when you go home, you are liking ignited fire. You're like a tiger, lion. You're all of those

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things with your wife and your kids. No, yeah. So this first part of the hadith is important.

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Connect to those, even if they don't want to connect to you, especially from your relatives, your wife, we get into misunderstandings with our wives, we leave, and we stay upset all day. And then we'd come home, we don't give a salons. What if she doesn't give you sometimes that fed you up that space between you and her, it gets bigger and bigger and wider and wider. And it may lead to problems and Sharla usually you come back, but it's easy. The Prophet said about the good woman's Allahu Allah, he was sending them. The good Muslim woman is the one who, when her husband does wrong, her husband was wrong. He's talking to another lady to get married, and she got found out

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she's upset.

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He got married without her knowledge and she's upset.

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He didn't pay the bill, whatever. And she's really upset because of what he did. Right? So like I said, the best woman is the one who comes at night, puts her hand in her husband's hand and says, I can't go to sleep until you're happy with me. Because by her touching him, it's gonna cool him out. But if you go all in one room in another room, everybody looking at you know what screw face, everybody looked like they just ate lemon you look lemon face, lemon face, and you avoid each other problems. And will lie here when even if you don't feel it, even if you're still mad, you don't feel it. Just try. Just go and say let me just see how it works. And you just go say Honey, I'm you'll

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find melt like butter unless you're married to a tiger. Unless you're married to a loved one. Now if you're married to a loved one you in trouble. And some people got wives like that. May Allah give us an idea was set on. That's the first part of the Hadith. The Prophet says SallAllahu said in the second part of the Andes, do good to those who do bad to you is really, really important when he really really important.

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Really important. The ayat of the Quran looked at kind of the comfy Rasulillah he was what toon Hasina you have in the Messenger of Allah Mohammed a perfect example. Because he lived and a lot of people did bad to him. And he forgave him an awful you know, in Ramadan Allahumma iNACOL foon to Hezbollah for 510 Allah you pardon you forgive you excuse people make mistakes. I didn't pray on time. Fajr I didn't do this. I didn't do that. I didn't do that. Oh Allah, you are an awful forgive me. I made a mistake.

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That's how the Prophet was. So the law what he was saying. He used to forgive people. And he has nobody here. Maybe all of us combined. I don't know how many people all these people here.

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All of us combined, all of us combined.

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But Sula was oppressed more than all of us combined. And he's to let people go. And we're good. Oh pressed by someone who doesn't little thing. She forgot to put his crisp in the bag for lunch with the tuna fish. And when he finds out she didn't put the crisp he goes off. He goes off because she forgot that Chris. It doesn't even worry all of that. So those people do bad to you. Do good to them. Listen, throughout the Quran, you will die I'm a die throughout the Quran. The Quran is replete with the stories of the prophets and the messengers Salawat Allah He was salam ala him where people did them wrong a lot in the story of Fairmount for an example there was a man who believed in

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Musa and he was hiding this Islam and you came out in public and started defending the hack. He started saying that hack different out

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and he said to for our own attack to Luna Raju in your call Robbie Allah are you fighting was Musa you want to kill him? And he just says My Lord is Allah He didn't do anything to you.

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Whoever they are you do good to the one who does bad to you. He's trying to do good to you. That same man sending that story along with from our God call me Miley a drool Kume in a jack what Ted Rooney in a nod? He said, Oh my people from home what's wrong with you? What is wrong with you? I'm giving you guys dollar to success to the agenda. And netjet worship Allah Allah, I'm giving you data and you're asking me to come to the hellfire. So today, and this is no dig anyone. One of the great scholars of Islam ladder these scholars is the man you all heard of Muhammad Abdul Rahman

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To lie I lay he, there are Muslims who hate this man, because of the way they were growing up in the way they were orientated about Islam. And they make lies about him.

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This guy is not this man is not a regular person. He's a scholar. He gave Dawa. He helped al Islam he left behind for the Muslims, a lot of hair. But because I'm on some other stuff, Sufi ism, Breakaway ism, dump the open wherever I'm on, I don't like Saudi Arabia, whatever I'm on. I come and I make stuff up and lie about them. Man, that guy did good to you. He did good for this community by leaving behind kitasato. He is just an example. And the hatred that you have formed when we sit down and we say where does it come from? And all it comes from is his be the things that you believe are not true. He went over and agreed with the British to take the Khilafah from the Ottomans where you

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get that from? He can't prove it. He used to make takfeer of the people who sell we get that from he can't prove it. So the person says we're hobby, your hobby. I'm not a hobby. I'm just a Muslim. I'm not making [???]. I don't want to make [???].

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So those people who do do do evil to you, give them a second. That's the second part of the Hadith. But again, I want to bring your attention to this issue about that the prophets and that's the messengers of ALLAH SubhanA wa taala. Listen to this. Yosef Salawat to lie he was sent it his brothers threw him in the well. Everybody heard that story, man. But can you imagine someone throwing you in the whale and just leaving you want to well, to wait for somebody to come and get you are you going to die in a could have died in snake down in scorpions down there? Some crazy hyena comes jumping in you stuck like Chuck, go eat you. His brothers threw him in the well.

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Staying in the wild for one night is one night to me. Some of the scholars said he stayed a week some Sadie's that morning that the point is your brother flew to in the well, the Arab setting the poetry, they said in the poetry, that those sort of the enemy when it hits you it hurts that same sword, when it's hit with us by your relative is even worse. The sword is the sword. It's the same sword. It's the same room. But you didn't expect it. That's your friend stabbed you in your back. stabbed you in your back.

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So you didn't expect it. So the point is you also what happens if you're giving down your practice and they're not practicing? You are a person who saw a man who is solid is from the solid in what happens if every religious person got revenge for everybody who did something to him. There's a verse of the Quran. We're in our captain, for our cable be mystery, my crypto, we're in cybercom Lahu

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let's let's RBD this this is if anybody oppresses you, bothers you hurt shoo. Then hurt them back, bother them back the way they did to you. The meaning of that is if they want to fight you Muslims in the sacred months, fight them back in a sacred months. If they want to fight you at the Kaaba, fight them back at the cobbler. If you're fasting, and they come to harm, you don't say I'm fasting. I'm fasting that guy trying to harm you

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know, the I said you have the right to push him back and deal with him. But you know, he told you many times they describe the prophets of Allah. Why do you suddenly said a bottom

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kind of lie and lunacy he used to not get revenge for himself. You

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know, you're crazy. Unless you got a gin. Yeah, me you will converge. I was so lucky to say you can zap and it's true. You're crazy for not listening to me. And it's true that he didn't do that. I ordered them it's five Binetti here asking for either levy Beynac our baignoire dour, push back people's stuff with what is best. And the one who you got a problem with if you do that. Deal with him in a nice way. He will become like your bosom buddy. But he's nasty. And you Nancy, the end result is a Kumala envy jar is going to blow up. So those people who do bad you do good to them yourself. When your self got control over his brothers. His brother said to him to law he We swear

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Allah, Allah has raised you up over us, they realize they were wrong. Use of could have told them make saija Bow down and acts for my forgiveness. Put your faces on the earth on the floor, because it was permissible for them to make such duck out of respect. That's their religion, not ours. So at the end of the story, Yosef May says that his mother and his father may said that to him.

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Oh, my father saw that sun in the moon and 11 stars making suggested to me his father Jacobi said, don't tell that dream to your brothers. They're gonna make a plan for you in jealous at the end, he made sense.

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It was permissible in the religion. So now I got the upper hand. All I want you to do is make such and I want everybody to see it in public. He didn't do that. He said in the Quran. Last two, three, free by nakooma Yome. Yet federal law yet for the law? Who local? Well, who are hammer Rohini? Don't worry my brothers. You wronged me? Don't worry. You won't have any difficulty today.

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Oh, Allah is going to forgive you. I ask Allah to forgive you. And he has more Rottler than anyone who has arrived. He didn't have some put your face. There's not a person here. Except there is someone in our lives who don't. That's how gave us a problem. And we can't get over it. We can't get by it. We're still carrying around that stuff. You may be right not to forget because of the nature of what they did. But usually that's not the case. We're mad, and we're angry for ourselves. And that's why we and I don't exclude myself. One of the things that caused me to think about this hadith was I said in public a few times. I don't forgive any of those guys who said what they said,

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now I got to calm down, calm down, wanted to come today and say I forgive him. I'm not gonna say that though. But I got to work on myself. I have to work on myself. I can't just say that to you people.

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Do good to those people who they dogged you out. To good to that is better for you. That's the mean love that part of the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa ala Ali was sending them what utter Eben Nofal when the prophets Allah Allah who it was sending them had Gibreel come to Accra, this Mira beacon, Nellie Sal up, and then I Isha took him to her cousin. What a blue Nofal he told them. No, you're not crazy. That was Jabril the NA moose. He came to you. He's the same one who came to Musa and the other prophets and messengers. This man is from Quraysh from Mecca. So he knew about Ibrahim he knew about some of the prophets. That's why for deja our mother, may Allah be pleased

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with her. When the Prophet knows it. So she took him to him to a cousin. He told me no, you're not crazy Jabril came to you. And then he told the prophet in this the points Allah who sent me the old man. He said I wish I was young. I wish I was younger right now. When your people put you out of Mecca Rasul Allah said they're gonna put me out they're gonna put me out

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and from Quraysh and from Benny Hashem and from the best house these people know me my relatives. They will put me out crazy my people he said no body no human being came with what you came with what you have now. A toe he?

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No one came with that dollar to toe heat that were to your suna no one except that people around him fought against them. They're gonna put you out. He didn't have knowledge of the Unseen he had knowledge of the previous prophets and messengers. So if you're giving doubt Allah Allah Tada told us to make me to my roof and make a Nana Mancha. And then he told us what spirit Anna Saba, after you teach and give Dawa. Be patient with what's going to happen to you after that. You're gonna have some issues coming your way, rest assured, and that's why he

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we can't make our dollar the pleasure of the people.

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Nor should we think people have to be fighting us and clashing with us as a delille that our Dow was working? No, you kept down with hikma and you tried to prevent unnecessary fitna, but no matter how you try, how intelligent how soft, how easy, how generous, how tolerant you really are, you're going to have problems with people no matter what. So two things number one, connect those people who disconnect from you. And also what you should do is you should as the Prophet says, sallallahu alayhi wa Ana it was sending them

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duke

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To those people who did back to you, it was mentioned in the Quran a few times in Nevada column in azmin are more. So what the prophet heard sallallaahu send them in Nevada Lika lemme Nazmul are more when you are like that. This is from what is difficult, everybody can do it as more.

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You have to have a class, you have to have suffer. Some of us come from backgrounds,

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where we have this thing, this false sense of pride.

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Meaning of us the way we grew up, don't push me around, don't step on my foot.

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It come from that. And then Ellis lamb we carry that mentality with us, where we can't forget. We think everyone who did something to us it was intentional. And you have to put him in his place as a sign of being a man. No, man, that's not true. From Muhammad Sallallahu it was so much stronger than everyone here. But again, he is not strong, the one who can wrestle everyone and he could out wrestle everybody, so a lot of so the one who can control himself when he's angry, that's the one who was strong. So the proper use didn't get angry unnecessarily. And when he got angry, so love while he was selling me didn't go overboard and expressing that anger and executing it. The last

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part of the hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu. It was, it was solemn is that he said call her up.

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Say the truth, even if it is against yourself. Before that 20 There's something I want to mention it's really important as we did there's a hadith is important because not only in doubt, but it's in everything. Mantella cache in the lahaie are what the hula hoop men who hate women who, anyone who leaves something for Allah sake, Allah will give you what is better. If you leave Cofer or you come into a slab, you could have been making money. You could have been really hanging out, do whatever you want to do. But when you come into a slam alive, replaces what is better for that which you let you make Hijra. You leave your house like the majority in America, they left their homes and money.

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They left it for Allah sake. They're gonna go to Jenna, their religious spread, they got power. This is a copy that in life. If you abandon something for Laci, that lady, I'm in love, I'm in love. Where she's kicking me in my head.

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She's kicking me in my head.

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I climb up to the top of the mountain, and she's sitting on her big chair like the queen.

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And then when I get up to the mountain, and it's tough getting up to the mountain, with her high heeled shoes, boom, hit me in my head, and I roll down the mountain. I look up I say she loves me, and I do it again. And she keeps you know, yeah, she better leave that lady alone for love's sake.

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Allah is going to replace that with that which is better. But if you want to stay stuck on stupid and keep the one upset and getting back down, that's your business. That's just an example everything in life. Whoever leaves something for Allah, look at this. We're arguing going back and forth. Prophet Muhammad says Allah Allahu Allah he was sending them Anna Zareen be bathe in fear rather than Jana lemon Tara can Mira were Encana, Mohit Ka. He said I will be the guarantor, I will guarantee that a person will go into the best part of Janna.

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I guarantee you, I guarantee I'm going to guarantee that you're going to go in the best part of Jana, if you leave off argumentation, even if you're right. Even if the hackers with you. So some of us who are married.

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And our marriages, whenever we have these misunderstandings without wives, or the husband is interested in is I'm writing you wrong. And that's all she's into who's right who's wrong? Sometimes it's important who's right or who's wrong? But isn't it more important? A Sakina in the house peace and tranquility. That's more important. Some people all they do man in the woman husband and the wife all they do is replay what happened that caused the problem. You said this and then I said that anything you said and they keep going? No, I didn't say that. Yes, you did. And that's all and this gets gets worse.

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You got to learn how to say as the Prophet says Allah what He was sending them La Mina is not okay for the husband. I hate his wife. If you see something in her that you don't like, look for a character trait that you do like

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if you keep arguing about the thing she made a mistake on and her upset that you won't be able to live together just leave it just leave it for Allah sake. That's the principle

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That is a principal now religion.

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The last point that we want to mention is sha Allah azza wa jal say the truth even if it is against yourself. Prophet Muhammad exemplify this Allah love what he was sending them in many ways.

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There was a Bedouin, and you know the Bedouin is the person who the people look down at him. Like you're a Bedouin. He could be dirty, you know the Bedouin.

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He's not looked at by the people like this. Although he could be from the luck.

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Rasul Allah borrow money from a Bedouin and the Bedouin came to the Prophet sallallaahu was sending them and the bedwin started going off. Where's my money? Give me my money. And he was in fatik and excited. The companions that agitated they sit you know, you talking to they getting ready to drum him up. Did you know who you is like one of you someone come talk to your father, your mother, your father in law, someone you love. And this guy comes talking out on the side of his neck and disrespecting your dad. Someone you love you respect. You're gonna keep between them and say, Hey, you're gonna say what you have to say. The companion said you know you're talking to Prophet

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Muhammad said to them some love while he was selling them.

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Hello Halla Ma has been hacked quantum

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Hala Massa, it will have quantum

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Why is it? Why wouldn't you people stand with the one who the truth is with

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us he's talking in a bad way. But we don't know his situation. He needs money. He wanted his money. And although what he's doing is not nice. You don't know what he's going through. He got to go and pay that bill. He had if he doesn't, is jammed up. So recently, I said to the Companions, our oldest man money, why you don't be on his side and say your money.

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Say the truth. Even if it's a gift. Hey, listen, some of these organizations and again, I'm saying this not to have a dig at any organization. But you know, this Yaqeen Institute, people like that. We are all for Institute's Margaret Cofer. We all for people who are trying to help Islam to grow and develop the Muslim Chabad. We have a problem with progressive people who think crazy, because that's not being progressive. That's the hell of haram. And rah, you're straight.

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We don't want people, women, men who don't know about the religion, and then they come put in doubt and things about the religion. Is the Quran preserved and not preserved? Can you ask other than Allah, people in the grave? Can you make Doc is that ship cannot ship this stuff. These people are saying that's against religion.

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We don't want that. So now, if you work with one of those organizations, and one of the members say something crazy, like it came out recently, a white brother with a PhD from your team came out and said that the data center FIA is responsible for creating to cuties to create ease and Jihad ease, because they see everything black and white. So once you see something as white, you're white, black is your enemy. So they became that sniper. And he said that sama bin Laden? Gruffalo Allah Who Lana Willow who may Allah give us some him have wrought upon him. That Tao of Osama bin Laden is not Craig doubt, killing people all that he said that he was selling, and all that. So now I'm with that

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Yaqeen Institute, I have to be able to come out in public and say, hey, I can see that. I can't remain solid.

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I can't be in a place this semester that I can't beat. You can't be in a situation where you can say the truth. Say the truth, even if it's against yourself, one of the companions of a version of fatty may Allah be pleased with me said Mr. Ronnie Khalili and a cold heart will Cana Maura, my friend, my alleles on Allah while you son, he ordered me say the truth, even if it's sour.

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Sometimes the truth is sweet. And sometimes the truth is sour. He said, Say it. Even if it's salah. You have to say it to your chef. I have to say to your teacher, you have to say to your mother and father, you have to say to your best friend, you have to say it against yourself. So look at

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ayat of the Quran led you to call me Nona. Billa he will Yeoman if you are doing them and had de la hora sullo Willow can abena whom I share to you will not find a group of people

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taken as friends, those people wage war against Allah and His Messenger, even if they happen to be their fathers, even if they have to be their brothers, even if it has to be their tribe. You have to take the position of the truth. Yeah, you have levena aminu cool new co Amina Bill festa shahada, Allah, Allah, wallow Allah and fusi come away worry then our Accra been, oh, you believe stand up as witnesses for the truth. Be a witness for the truth with justice for Allah. Even if it's against your own selves, even if against your mother and your father, even if it's against your closest relative. I'll never forget as long as I live, there was a brother who comes from where some of you

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brothers come from, who are in front of me many of you, where you come from

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where there was some drama that had happened and he told the people about how much he loves his tribe and how he'll support his tribe. I'll never forget it. He said, If my tribe goes to the hellfire, I'm going to go to hell fire with them. I'm staying with them and whatever. Meaning

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someone did something to his trim tribesmen and they wanted to move on him in Canada. They wanted to move on him. And this guy wasn't asking what happened who's right who he was. Let's let's go get them put them in a grave. Yeah, he you can't do that. You got to find out what I mean. I'm with my tribe, my tribe go to the hellfire. I'm going to hell fi with him. He said if my tribe went to the hellfire and I go to Jen, I don't want to be in general like that. I want to be my tribe. Now he said that from anger. I Subbiah he was tripping. But where does that come from?

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So the is said stand out for truth and justice. Even if it's against yourself. People can't do that. We play Katie each other we pat each other on the back. We have to say a that thing. You said it was overboard. That thing you said it wasn't fit that thing you said it wasn't right.

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So save the truth and be on the truth. Even if it is against yourself. I want to ask you something. Are you guys aware?

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The scholars of the past contemporary ship NASA Diem, ll Danny Ratna to La Jolla and he he has a book called Cell Salah al Hadith, a Dyson Saha

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about 1516 bucks. He put those in Sahih those indict he has other books he a chef Rabbani

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and I'll ban you over the years when he put his book together he will say this hadith is authentic and then someone from a student will come later and the book is already printed people are reading and then Danny finish authentic because of this this this that that person from his students or person will come say share I found something and it's this and that and it goes against what you're saying. And then Danny will come later on in another book and say and I graded this hadith week in a book this and that, but I found this authentic and I graded this hadith sahih in this desert, but I'm telling you today it's it's the opposite. That's a sign of loss, inshallah. That's a sign of a

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hero for the deen that a person can say like Imam Abu Hanifa he said Woe unto you. Yeah, cool. Abu Yosef, don't write everything. I would say. I take a position today. I may change it tomorrow. If I change it to mom's gonna come out and tell you I was wrong. Hey, a whiny little man. This too. I'm saying there's a man from American African American Muslim men who died 1965 He was assassinated and murdered. And I hope he's Shaheed and he goes to Jenny's name is Malcolm X. One of the reasons why I have a mammoth amount of respect for Malcolm X is Malcolm X when he was a cafe with a nation of Islam call into that, Cofer. He was strong, he was courageous. That was a time black people couldn't

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talk like that.

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Black people can talk like that. Malcolm X got up and told and said of white man is a devil. It's what he said, all your devils and then he was telling black people what be proud of who you are and this and this and that. And then time went on. He was a Catholic what he was saying wasn't right. And then he when he Mihai, he went to make Hajj we may Hodge, he said, We're brothers like this. People from Bulgaria, Muslims from Hungary, Muslims from Albania, Muslims from Europe.

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He sat in the tent with Pakistanis, white people, people with blue eyes. And then he went to sleep. He heard them snoring. Everybody was snoring. It was no lights. He heard him snoring. He said he had an epiphany and he realized racism in America is a problem. He said, everybody in that room was snoring. And you can tell who's white who's black, who's Brown, who's this, you can tell that

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a man gives blood gives blood to his GP, and he leaves you know, you come to the capsules of blood, you don't know who's black who's white, you don't know, to look at the bus aid is black for sickle cell is in here. You can't tell that can't tell. The problem is with us in a society is we came from Malcolm X data 180 degree turn and came to the whole world and said, I was wrong.

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I was wrong with what I was calling to.

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And then the people try to get on him like, well, you may be wrong again. He said I was wrong before.

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It takes a lot of nerve and courage to say that. And that's why you have to be careful.

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The best of our Ummah, Ranima, they retract and recant. When they make mistakes. Now, everybody here makes mistakes, everybody. So if you are speaking in public, you're going to make mistakes.

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If you see a person who never retracted his mistake, he never made it clear. I did this, I said this, it was wrong. They know there's a problem with that. There's a problem with that. So we know people who are on a way that has in here off, they are straight, they are a strain. Not only they are a strain, a strain,

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clear to see. And yet the person will never ever, ever say that I was wrong. So when we stick with that, say the truth, even if it's against yourself, as people will give in doubt, as people will Muslims.

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Connect the one who disconnects you give Salam to the one who doesn't want to sin and you

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stand next to the one he doesn't want to stand next to you. But in Salah, don't spend the whole time bothering that man. Don't Don't spend no, you know, the sooner his feet, the feet shoulder to shoulder. But his mishap may not support that you and him have beef and drama. He doesn't like you because of a color, whatever. Now I'm gonna put my feet there. If he keeps it handy laugh he moves it away my knee.

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And that's how you have to look at it in Sharla. Second of all, second of all, whoever did bad to you do good to them?

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How was the dollar going to spread? If every single person who's practicing won't forgive the next person?

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How would the Prophets the prophets messages, how and when would the data spread if they didn't forget? And lastly, and then lastly, he says Allah, why do you sell them? Say the truth? Like last week, stay away from the door of the leader. Because if you go to the door of the leader, you can say the truth, you'll be free to say the truth. And in concluding I want to say Rahmatullahi to Allah and a chef sila aloo Hidin, who died a few weeks ago, a few days ago he died.

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He was one of the people of knowledge for this ummah. And he's one of those people who

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when people asked him questions about sensitive issues, about what's going on about what's haram and Moncure. The chef will tell you what he felt.

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These singers and this is haram. And we shouldn't allow it. There's not from what we should be doing. But he went through in a way that would compromise his position and what he's supposed to be doing, doing something haram but he will say in a way that left no room for someone to misunderstand.

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We can be like the people who were going to placate the ruler and desensitize the people with what's going on because things are going on. We don't want to make any trouble. No, shall we say Rama Tula he Tala on the chef side. Lu Hey Don, when a sola and you kefir and you Cafe this OMA with an AMA like him, and Allah is Hasib. So if you guys have any questions shot like put your questions for real quick, get out in spot and in the cache

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for the yaki either way, at Cameroon

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Say it again. My brother, I couldn't hear you raise your voice, mashallah

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you're trying what?

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The truth

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the consequences. So sometimes we see things that are wrong. And we're nervous and uncomfortable to advise the person who's doing wrong because he's an older person, and you're young. You have respect for younger people, you're 20. He's 6070. He's your father, your mother, your auntie, your uncle. He's your teachers, your chef, he's a teacher.

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He's the police man, got a gun and all that kind of stuff like that, and he's doing wrong. And you see him beating people up or treating an innocent person treating him and you saw what happened and what didn't happen. And you say, minding my business, so they don't hit my head and but you say no, hey, listen, that guy didn't do it. It wasn't him. It was that person over there. Why you being so rough with him? So a person finds himself in a situation. The Prophet says Allah who it was said lamb, lamb, Nana, radula, Hebrew to NAS and your colon. We mentioned that last week. None of you should allow being afraid of anyone. You should never allow that to prevent you from seeing the

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truth. If you know the truth, you saw the truth. You witness the truth. You heard the truth. Don't let the Haber haber is that

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here's a person who have a mammoth astronomical amount of respect for

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the girl gets married to her husband. The girl is 20 years old. Her husband is older than her she has a lot of respect. Like how so women how some women,

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the way they grow up. So when she gets married, she doesn't look at her husband. Out of respect. Shy, shy. She has love but she's like that.

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She looks at her father like that, for example. But she sees that a father smoke cigarettes. She'll say to my Dad Oh, she should say to a dad. Because in a culture, she can't say anything to her dad. Is disrespect.

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Don't say anything is an elder. No. She says to her dad, that I really care about your love. You know, the cigarette smell is gonna harm cancer. Don't do it in a nice way. So rest assured that when you give Dawa to people you want to give advice to people. Amen. Is that a rat on your head?

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Oh, boy Subhanallah

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Let me see that man.

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Rather

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rather,

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so

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Well, I put a rat on that man's hat the way it was sitting.

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So you try your best and shall Eliza gel. Don't be afraid, you know that Allah is stronger. Allah has acqua Allah's album, Allah Akbar. Allah has AI that we should eat, whatever that person can do to you. Allah does worse. And I am with that hadith of that sleeve.

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One of the companions had a slave who did something wrong, who the Prophet really dealt with the slave that dealt with a slave rough Wait, he was really rough with his slave, rebuking him all over from behind the Prophet saying, Hey, fella,

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to the master, the owner, a fella for verily, Allah's ability and power over you, is much greater than your ability in the power over that man, whatever you can do to him. A lot can do that to you worse. And you wouldn't want that. The man in know did it who said it? The man looked around and he saw was the prophets of Allah. Why do you suddenly learn the lesson? What did he do? He said, You're free. He was regretful the way you dealt with the slave. So you remember that

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Give them Dawa. You give advice knowing that

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you have to be answerable to Elijah. So do it with hikma. Okay when we're gonna stop here right now in sha Allah. That's all you brothers. What's the name of the African American man named Muslim that I may I gave his name I said I respect them enough. His first name starts with an M. And his last name has a letter that's at the end of the alphabet. What's his name? I gave you all the clues bro. What's his name?

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Robert snubbers what's his name son?

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Ah.

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We have Michelle was shown Yakima Chateau Boone and Naomi Aki

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Malcolm X. Go back and read that man story. Okay. Subhanak Allahumma. We're behind because Shatta Wale Illa Illa and stuff will come to me. All of you brothers who are here for the first time welcome. We haven't seen many of you. There's a guy over here. I came in. He wasn't praying. I invited him come in prayed it move. So I figured he's not a Muslim found that his name is Roberto. Roberto. Roberto