Warning!!! Don’t destroy your good deeds of Ramadan

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Abu Bakr Zoud

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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen salatu salam ala rasulillah Radha le or Savi Mayan or praise and thanks belongs to Allah subhanho wa Taala and may the peace and blessing of Allah be upon his servant and final messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as follows my dear respected brothers and sisters in Islam

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unwise even Jabba robley Allahu anhu and this is a hadith that is found in pseudonym tirmidhi. Hadith. So here, why the Punjabi Allahu anhu he narrates and he says that I was with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in one of the troubles. He was with him in one of the travels for NaVi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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He is with him. And while they've been Jebel their loved one. He asked him the vehcile Allahu alayhi wa sallam a question he said to me Allah Salalah beard Nabi Amelie new colonial agenda for you bear. Now how do you this famous I'm just going to run through it and then the focus is at the end. He said to me Rasul Allah, Hadith is huge as well. Ya know, I'm going quick through it but Allah He each word deserves a lesson on its own. He said to me, also Allah inform me of an action that if I was to do it admits me into the paradise and it keeps me far away from the fire. This is all our question. This is everyone's question. While the alojado is asking us on our behalf, for Nabi

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sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam he said to him, before he answers him, he wanted to show him how huge the question was. So he said to him, look at Santa Ana vim. He turned around to him and he said Josh the huge question

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of him, why no Julio sirona Manya sobre la and what I'm about to tell you have an answer is easy upon the one who a lot Zoysia has made easy for him. Why in the Himalaya, Sierra Nevada, Minnesota. Hola. What are these things? Cabo de la weather to Chico v Shea, that you worship Allah How do you do not associate partners with him? What to key masala, you establish the solid zecca you give us a gap? What a sumo Ramadan and you first thought on this is the month that we're fasting. What the herschell bait and you perform the pilgrimage to the house of Allah subhanaw taala from upon and NaVi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam now, he's asking wise a question. And notice everything that also

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masasa Lamb has been speaking about so far our worship deeds that we you and I do. He said to him, and I send them and I do look at a boy being higher. Shall I not inform you of the doors of goodness? can if you want to see goodness, what are the doors? How do you see goodness for me? sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said a somos una and in another narration and I do look at other avoidable agenda, shall I not inform you of the doors of the paradise? Meaning these things that are about to be mentioned are those of the paradise if you were to hold on to one of them be Villa hit you're guaranteed to the paradise. He said to him a sojourner that the first thing is a shield.

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Yeah, and it shields the person from his sins. It shields him from the anger of Allah. It's good for him fasting. He said to Masada two to three on happier karma you feel now now another door of the Paradise is a sort of the charity that you give. And he said to him that the charity you give extinguishes your sins just like fire or water extinguishes fire. Right Yani as though interviews are seldom is telling us that sins, they have a burning sensation. They make someone uncomfortable, like someone's being put on a fire. Imagine someone's on a fire or in the heat. He can't wait until he gets into the a condition. And this is exactly what sins are. They've been described as fire.

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They are all a person is sitting on coal for soda. It turns it off, it cools you down, it turns off the Sims, and then and maybe some Allahu alayhi wa sallam said so so far, he countered from the dose of goodness, fasting, and he counted a sadhaka. And then he said also that Zhu Li fijo filet and the prayer that a person prays in the middle of the night for metalla kolu Tata, Tata Jeffers, unabomb and Mr. Bhatia, yet Ronaldo, Bonhoeffer North Oman Bobby Melrose up now home.

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These are three things he mentioned. Then in the recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam says Allah buka bill Emery ramudu who will want to sin me? Shall I not inform you of the peak of the matter? Jani? What is the biggest Naira in a person's life?

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The peak of the matter while you do and what's the pillar, the pillar, what they want to see now? And what is the peak for them and abuse on Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said after Wilde said yes, informed me What are they? He said that the biggest mother of all is Alicia.

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Islam itself ramudu and the pillar of Islam is a solid yonny without solid there is no Islam. And then he said well they'll want to see them he he, he had to face Avila and the peak of all worships is Al Jihad to feasterville Allah and double sola la sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam asked, and this is towards the end of the Hadith. He says to him, Allah boo can be Vanek evali kakula Shall I not inform you? Of what governs all this? What is the foundation of all this? The Nana, my brothers and sisters in Islam. So far, we just went through a hadith. And you and I realized that all of it is about worship, similar to fasting or halogen give us other fun. And Islam was solid. Well, he had a

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tour worships. The reason I sell them is bringing his attention to a major and a serious question. He said, shall I not inform you of the foundation and what governs all this? Meaning what controls all these deeds of yours? What is the one thing that would control them all? And would dictate whether they're going to be accepted or not? for NaVi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Paul,

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aka Billy Sadie. He did not say anything. He grabbed this town and

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he grabbed his tongue. He said he will call a Kufa

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and he said to him, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said Kufa lake has meaning restrain this, control this

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controller, from words of shift from how long words from backbiting, from cursing, from slandering from speaking foul, filthy language controller, for more other than Java all the alojado he said the nRb Allah we're in the LM O, una semana tequila movie, survivor of the Allahu anhu is surprised. And he said to him, really? Are we going to be held accountable and judged by that which we say, intentionally, unintentionally, whatever we say Are we going to be judged by this? for maybe some Allahu alayhi wa sallam you say team? tequila, mocha.

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Meaning Omar, may your mother lose you. Now, it doesn't mean literally against the mayor mother lose you. But this used to be said back in the days when you wanted to bring attention or you wanted to bring

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the attention of a topic to someone. You treat him like a novice and seldom was surprised that myotherapy Allahu Allah didn't understand how huge the tongue is. So he said to his

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wife, Holly cabin, so scenario Allah,

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Allah, Allah Azza wa, JAL, Sera team, then the resource LMC team,

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and how many people are thrown in jahannam on their face, because that's where the tongue is around their nose, because of what the tongue harvests. Yeah, and what their tongue does and what it speaks. In other words, and maybe some Allahu alayhi wa sallam concludes the Hadith by teaching him that this tongue of yours is going to govern every action you do. All this worship is good, but it's all unfortunately on the side. If this is not controlled, and this is very true, then the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in another Hadith, he was one once approached by certain companions, a few companions. And they said to me out of sumela enough Milena to go because I thought you saw that

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he was sadhaka to see me when

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they came to the solar system and they said to me, Rasulullah there's a woman in the neighborhood. She is known for a lot of salette and a lot of fasting and a lot of sada Gani her worship martial law 100%

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visual on abolition her but she's got one thing. She hums her knee bow with her tongue should not with her hands, let alone nearly without his with her tongue. Maybe she curses them. She says something bad that hurts them to the zerona happiness area for the asking. masala and what's the goal with this lady? What was the judgment on this lady for Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said he or she now she's in the fire. Who she had worship was the problem. The problem was her tongue. Then interviews on the mobile and he was asked about another woman in the felina. He said for him the Fulani, you've got Roman Pilates CME or soda Katia or salata. They came to the sumo seller and

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they said they also love is another woman in the neighborhood. She is not known for a lot of salette for a lot of fasting for a lot of soccer. She's not

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On. Actually they even mentioned what she gives off a sadhaka. She gives like dry yoga, something small of dry yoga, she gives a few sebelah. She's not known for any massive worship, yani obligations and that's it.

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Is your honor Billy said yeah, but she doesn't have her neighbor with her tongue fernery sallallahu alayhi wa sallam upon giving the ruling on this woman. He said, Here, Phil, Jenna, she's in the paradise house is good. She understood how important it is to control and to restrain this town. So even though she didn't have a lot of worship, she was into the paradise and uh, why am I sharing this hadith with you? What's its relevance? Because now in these 10 days and in Ramadan, what do people do? The worship increases and they you will never worship Allah azza wa jal, like you worship Allah in Ramadan. No, that is, you know, that is something that is required for me in Ramadan is

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where the efforts are required. This is when you're fasting in the day, 30 days in a row. You know, people find this sometimes difficult, especially overseas in places where the weather is really hot, and the days are really long, you really feel the fasting. And not only that, you're breaking your fast and you're rushing to the masjid, to come to the front rows, and then one juicy salad. And then if you go back home, Allah azzawajal is giving you ability to go and pray, and then Vicar. And then people want to give our savarkar in every night of the last 10 nights when every day of the shoot, this is very good. She's excellent. But what's all this? What's the use of it all, if this is not

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controlled, and this is not restrained. So the biggest change you're supposed to do in this world, is learn that all of this worship you did during the last 30 days is on edge. It is governed by this. If you don't control this, you lost all this. And if you're able to control all this, and you didn't do much, there is hope for you that inshallah you're from the people of the paradise. If I tell you my brothers and sisters in eastern one law he as much as your under estimate words and your tongue, except the prosumer nurse Allahu alayhi wa sallam made a huge deal out of it. Understand how huge it is the words you speak, control your tongue. And one of the things that I wanted to discuss,

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and that is something that is apparent with people, and that is from the filthy and bad words people speak. I want to focus on one and that is cursing and swearing, cursing and swearing. If we wanted to speak about the filth of the tongue, there's many backbiting there slandering. There's gossiping. There's a million things, but I want to discuss with you in a few minutes. cursing, swearing, swearing, the effort, the swearing in your own language, the swearing in the Arabic language, the land, when you say La La, la, la, for example, when we learn these words, these words in the recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam he says

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London mini kakatiya cutely

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cursing a Muslim is as though you have killed him. What does that mean? When you curse a Muslim you didn't kill him? What does it mean as though you killed him? meaning in the sin It is as though you killed him. What is the sin of killing a Muslim? That's the same scene you learn if you cause a Muslim,

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if you curse a Muslim,

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non Muslim he can apply whenever you some Allahu alayhi wa sallam uses as in a Timothy and this is how the fire in namaha you bubon fair Haitian buddy allows origin hates you behave Allah hates.

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A person with two qualities and very harsh and very she's someone with bad manners and from bad manners, more specifically, anybody

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that manifests in his tongue. Yala social hates the one with bad manners, and more specifically, the one who has bad manners with him when it comes to his tongue. Sound filthy, vulgar, shameless words that come out from his tongue. In the mouth. You believe old fashioned, but he

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hates him.

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For what? Because he spoke words.

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He hurt his brother with words.

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He hurt his family with words.

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He cursed his wife. He cursed his children at home.

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Allah appointed him as a person responsible to look after his family. What is he doing? He's cursing

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discussing his wife, the wife is cursing the husband.

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The children are learning this from their parents, and then they're cursing each other.

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And then you die. And then they live long after and they learned the cursing from you and you're in your grave earnings. Because that's what you taught them. He taught him how to curse well

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has a Muslim how do we curse each other? How does that happen?

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We when we meet each other the obligation is that we give Salaam to each other. You say a Salam aleikum, meaning on la mayor last piece descend upon you. Then after that you curse him. How does it make sense?

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In a flat when we pray five times a day, you know so that is a relationship between us and a lot of social. But it's also a relationship between ourselves you know, there's some way in a solid way we make dua for each other.

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That's at the end of a solid.

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We say a seller Marlena. While there is a delay in every scenario praying, you're saying Oh Allah, bestow and descend your peace upon us and upon the righteous leaves of yours. And then after Salah you want to curse your Muslim brother, how did you learn anything from your solder?

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It looks like you didn't learn anything. If you continue to close

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on it is supposed to teach you and these words are similar Marlena. The lack of solid

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is supposed to teach you that the relationship between you and your brother is a peaceful relationship, a relationship full of peace.

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And enough goddess Saba.

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In the morning supplication in the afternoon supplication, there is a supplication we make for each other as well. Not only for us, there's one we make for each other. And that is when we say

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advocate when we say what an activity for Allah and FC. So

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in a Muslim, you ask a law to protect you from bringing harm upon yourself. Our law protects me from bringing harm upon myself. What? Allah who either Muslim, and protect me from dragging this harm and bringing it onto my Muslim brother, and sister. You're making this Vicar in the morning and in the afternoon. And then you're cursing your brother in the afternoon. How does that work? Is that you didn't understand what

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it was. You didn't understand the concept of a center. You didn't understand what you're saying in your diet. Enough my brothers and sisters in Islam, restraint and control your tongue. Allah azza wa jal, he's the one who created this tongue for you. And he told you what to do with it. Use it for the koala spray, spread a salad with it, read and ran with it. How am the same tongue you curse and you read? How does it work?

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If and we need to understand cursing is something huge. When Nevis Allahu alayhi wa sallam he says to us just listen into how huge this matter is. He says this is the hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam anyway says layer qu la

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shuhada Allah

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Allah

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Allah Allah yourself Sallam is saying those who continuously curse, curse people, curse things. You know, your phone's not responding your cursor. Your car is not turning on your cursor.

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Something at home, your child broke something, you curse it. something's not working the way you cursor. And the reason I said let me saying those who continuously curse, cursing is on their tongue. They cannot be schufa and Shahada on the Day of Judgment, they will not be reaching the rank of A Shahada, no possibility for them. And on top of that, when I schufa, you know, schufa the intersect intersect those who intercede Allah azza wa jal, he gives permission to people on the day of judgment to make an intercession. You see a family member of yours in Jana, Malia who been there and he's a Muslim, but he has many sins. As a believer, if you are right and correct with a large

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version, and Allah give you permission, he allows you to make sure Pharaoh for that surplus or person of yours. So he allows you to go into janome and bring it out. But Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam is saying those who curse won't have this opportunity. You will not have the opportunity to be an intercessor

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for someone you love to bring out of the

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Hellfire that's gone finished. What am I oh man piano. We need to understand my brothers in Islam.

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In recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam was on a journey, he was on a travel. And there was a woman with them on the travel and people on their camels traveling.

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So one of the women on her camel, the camel was slow. It wasn't working as quick as the other camels. So she cursed it.

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She goes to a camel thunderbay sallallahu alayhi wa sallam heard her curse. And he said to her, get off the camel. Take your stuff off the camel. And let us have cotton maluna this camel that you just cast cannot accompany us on the on this journey. Get rid of it. We don't want to anyway. It's

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why?

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He explains in ahaadeeth Abu Dhabi, Allahu anhu. He says, because when someone curses someone, or curses, something, the curse it goes up to the heavens, because the curse is that.

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You've asked, may Allah have mercy upon you. That's what the curse is, when you curse someone, whether it's the F word in English, because that's the equivalent, whether it's in your own language, whether it's in Arabic, whatever it is, the curse means May Allah not bestow His mercy upon you. The curse is that while it goes up to the heavens, because it's a curse, the doors of the heavens are closed, doesn't enter. So it comes back down to the earth, and the doors of the earth are closed, they rejected. Then

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he says the curse goes left and right. until it goes back to the person who made the curse.

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If the one who he cursed deserves the curse, it will fall on him or it will fall on that thing. And if that thing or that person doesn't deserve the curse,

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you guessed it, it goes back to the person who cursed though you cost yourself at the end of the day.

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Head who wants to curse himself? Go ahead, keep cursing. control this tongue of yours. And finally I end and I share with you one Hadith. What do you do?

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If you've cursed and you've cursed so many people? What do you do? What's the solution? Can you make up for it or not? Listen to this howdy

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NaVi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was once in Medina

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and they grabbed the prisoner. There was a prisoner for Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam took him to his house, to the house of Chateau de la Juana. In another narration, it says the house of health saw Amano, who also is the wife of masala sauce, and anyway it doesn't matter. He took this prisoner to the house of eyeshadow lawanna let's say on that opinion,

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and he tied him in the house and he said to Shabaab the Allahu anhu said

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look out for this prisoner make sure he does not escape. She said all right.

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Why don't you wanna her friends came over, and they distracted her. For a few moments went by this prisoner escaped.

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Soon after Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he came home. And he said, he found that the prisoner is not there. He said that he

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was the prisoner. That I told you to make sure you keep an eye on him.

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For she said, they

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are not distracted with some of the woman and I forgot and he took off fernery sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said to her kapa Allahu Yak. May Allah destroy your hands. This is considered a curse.

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And in Nevis, I seldom left the house in search of this prisoner.

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He went for a while searching. Eventually he found the prisoner and they came back when never saw seldom came back to his home. And he entered and he found that he shall be a loved one has standing to Calabria the hair. She's turning her hands like this.

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for NaVi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he surprised his know what she's doing. For he said to her Maliki, what's wrong? Why are you doing this for?

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Fish she said they are also Lola. I'm waiting to see which one will fall off first. And he made the dry. He said Qatar Allah.

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May Allah destroy your hand. Sophia ladies if anything, it teaches you how convinced a Sahaba were with the words of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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Even though there is nothing of tools around her, that would cut the ends off. She's in the room. There is no kitchen knife. There is no cutting tools.

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But she's certain that sinful salasar Salim said, it must be 100% something miraculous is going to happen. This is how they dealt with the words of masala for Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said,

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Allah who may Nima and aversion or Allah. I am just a man from among mankind

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of bubblegum a baboon Basha. I get angry, just like people get angry. Then he said Allahumma for a yummy meanings to fish and they're like Allahu la Omen piano. He said, Oh Allah, any believer in another generation, meaning Amina, any believing man or believing woman I have cursed, then make this curse, a means in which you bring them closer to you on the Day of Judgment. And in none of the narration is Allah has Zakat and wapa hora en la who make my curse against him. Make it a means in which you forgive his sins and you purify him from his sins. Even this is the vicar or a dryer. You should say if you have cursed someone that you say Allahumma hmm meaning sub genre there Lika Allahu

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Kuru button and Docomo piano wave Nila, if that was a curse that you did to your wife, you rush to make this

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if it's a curse you made on your children you rush to make this

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then an abyssal Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said letter to Allah, Allah DICOM do they do not make a drug against your children and cursing your children is advised against them?

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It will be accepted. And then when your child Allahu Allah what happens to him later on and then you start crying? And my child 123 little Did you know because you're

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you cursed him? Maybe that's why he's turned out like this. So rush my brothers and sisters in Islam, to clean the slate between you and people that you have cursed by saying Allahumma Yana meanings for shall delic la Hui betten la ke Omen qiyamah We ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to forgive our sins. We asked him subhanho wa Taala to elevate our ranks in the paradise and we asked him subhanho wa Taala to give us the ability to restrict and restrain our tongues and to control it in the Holy of Ellicott father it was on the lawn was a novella Garden of Eden Mohammed water