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de kita la, la la la, la la la dia de Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam well in a short one ohmori Masha to her wakulla mo, betta akula dottin banana akula Bala Tim phenol, Ronnie La Jolla, camino, Neri MOBA all praise and thanks belongs to Allah subhanho wa Taala. And may the peace and blessing of Allah be upon his servant and final messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as to all follows my dear respected brothers in Islam. Today, today's COPPA is a message and a sincere advice to many Muslims that commit a crime that is just as bad as secularism. You know, my brothers in Islam secularism is a very bad deed in which the people they want to separate between the country
and the states affairs from religious affairs. So religion is one thing and the worldly affairs in our day to day affairs is a totally other thing. And with the same attitude and mentality, there are many Muslims that separate a Deen they separate the religion, from manners and good character. This is a crime that we want to speak about today, bad manners in Islam, people that separate religion from good character and good manners, and good dealings. This is just as bad as a sin as secularism. My brothers in Islam, many people embraced Islam because of the manners of Muslims. And many people decided to remain upon the kafir and many decided to leave Islam altogether because of manners of
some Muslims Subhana Allah Yani today, what we want to go through is the very quickly we want to go through the Quran from beginning to end very quickly, to see what Allah subhanho wa Taala mentions of character and manners in the Quran, and how to deal with others and morals and etiquette. My brothers in Islam at Deen the religion is not just a there that it's not just worship, prayer and fasting or how you saw the thought that's not only what the deen is. The Deen is also wireman at dealings with others and good manners and behaving towards others and upholding the rights of others. Your manners can either endure up in jahannam, as we'll see with the Hadeeth, or your
manners could either in Europe in general fear those as we'll also see in these Hadith and my brothers in Islam, many Muslims, they display a total different personality. When he's involved in business dealings with business issues. When there's money involved, he's a different person, when he is involved in a divorce is different person when he's involved that God with another Muslim is a different person. And he is not the same person that you know, in university is not the same person that reads the Quran and he cries, he's not the same person you know, in blah, blah, blah. And he's not that same person that is concerned in fasting Mondays and Thursdays, he becomes a totally
different person altogether. You will have never imagined that one day he'll ever become likely as bad manners made him like this. And this is what is this is a serious crime. Let's look at the first step. We'll begin with sort of the bacara and this is enough to terrify us from that manners and what it will do and its consequences in your deen and in your own life. Allah subhanho wa Taala he says, Yeah, you're Latina and no less to boo sada 30 Km bill, many of you who believe do not destroy, do not invalidate your
worship, how are you going to invalidate it? How would you
destroy your soccer bill money when other with bad manners and manual other is when you speak. And when you keep speaking reminding the person you gave him the favor of the favor you did to him so that he feels bad about himself. Also that he feels like he owes you something a lot socially saying, lead to
take home, your soccer your dean, Your Worship is dolphin. It's canceled. It's nullified. It's invalid. It's destroyed. With that manage that you will have with bad manners law to
build menu and other social is warning us in this era. bad manners will destroy your worship. Don't be deceived. And don't be fooled by your worship. If your manners are neglected. If the dealings with others if your responsibility at work, if your financial dealing with others. If you're dealing with your family, with your wife with your children is terrible. Don't be deceived and fooled with your good deed to
Allah subhanho wa Taala at the end of the day, he said when
he began the IRA with Amano, he ended up with carefree, such a person on the Day of Judgment, loses all his good deeds because of bad manners that he had towards the people. So Pamela, for you and my brothers in Islam. Many times, many times we discuss worship, and we speak about worship or salatu salam or soccer. However, Nana's is hardly discussed, and manners is just as important as worship. Rather it's an integral form and part of worship as some of the Salah flymo Humala, they would say liquidly Shane, assess what especially slamming Huisman hollow, that everything has a foundation and the foundation of Islam is good character and good manners. Without this foundation your Islam is
not built and your Eman cannot build up. My brothers in Islam, the first saw that was revealed to the solar muscle Allahu alayhi wa sallam in Almudena, yani after his usual the first word that GPL Allah revealed from seven heavens and came down and gave a tour de la Sol Allahu alayhi wa sallam. As soon as he entered and Medina was way low limit of 15 to 15 was the first suitor to come to la sala la Sol Allahu alayhi wa sallam, as he entered and Medina, we will limit of 15 May the destruction whoa to 15 May the destruction be upon autofeed, who are
the one who has two personalities, when it comes to his rights, he wants everyone to respect him, and everyone to fulfill his rights. And when it comes to the rights of others, you're alone, he violates the rights of others. When it comes to him. He wants to discount that he wants, he wants everything to be easy for him, and all rights fulfilled and give it to him. But when it comes to others, you overcharge them for a service, he cannot even do and he couldn't even deliver her the way.
The first idea that came down is speaking about people that shortchange the people in business, that still the people in business that promised a service they cannot even live to where you live in
the first area that was expected to come down in and Medina, or something about a solid,
solid brother that was in the first. The first I was about manners and dealings our behavior with each other. That was the first. And this if anything, it teaches us the value and importance of manners in Islam. You can eat a few if you have color, and you have toned the predators from your hours and hours of solid, but still, you have cut and you've torn your relationship with your relatives. And you had severed these ties, and you're disrespectful to your parents, and you cheat and you lie. And you keep promising the people and you go against your word and you cannot deliver and you demand a discount for whenever work is done for you. And you consume a lever and you back by
if this is you then a lot of you saying wait for 15 What do you mean the destruction before someone like this? My brothers in Islam, this ayah was revealed to companions, then it's a mother new surah it's not a makan surah it wasn't revealed to the likes of a Buddha and Abu Shahar this ayah came down among
know, it came among these people, and this was revealed to them. These are people just like us that said La ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasulullah it was revealed to people that pray behind the sort of muscle of love while you're in it must be the number we are still alive so Shall we sing. Worship without manners is non beneficial for the person. Just like Allah subhanaw taala set for a lil mousseline and levina home onsala teams who just does a lot of social cause those who neglect their souls
In the same manner, he calls those who do not have any manners where you literally homeless, someone with bad manners goes around and he backed by attorney gossips and he slanders the people where you live. He also in his dealings is terrible rubbish with the people. What are you looking for the one who leaves a dealership? What are you doing? Also for the one who leaves out the manners? My brothers in Islam topic is serious, and it requires a lot of attention they have today, the one who performs harsh and cheats, unacceptable image in Islam, the one who prays and then he brings music and dances to his daughter's wedding unacceptable in Islam, the one who has to be but still attends
the club, and he drinks the alcohol and does the drugs and whatever it is unacceptable image in Islam, these examples such people, they destroy the image of Islam, instead of you being an asset. And in addition to Islam, you became a monster Islam when my brothers in Islam
these are very important topics, the manners in Islam, and what bad manners will do to such people. This is the first solar that came down in the Medina where you live in the first Hadith that also mersal Allahu alayhi wa sallam spoke of in Medina
Allahu anhu. he narrates he said the day that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam entered Medina and he was walking among the people. The first thing he said, Yeah, you had a few Salam. O people spread a Salam spread the peace. What's that worshipper? manners, manners have good manners. Second thing, what?
Feed the people look after the needy and the poor? What's that? That is manners, wash our hands and keep ties with your relatives maintain those bonds. What's that nanners at the end, also looby Laila nursery and pray at night while the people are sleeping, that
you will enter the paradise peacefully, three corners of the road to paradise his manners. This is the first thing that
began his speech upon entering and Medina. First three matters was something to do with manners and dealing with others. And at the end, the worship was mentioned why, because this is what righteousness is. righteousness is good character and good manners allow social, he proved the truthfulness and authenticity of Islam. Allah prove the authenticity of the authenticity of Islam through the character of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in column, a la social, he said, in Naka, Lala Hulu. avi, you're upon great character another's, this this section this area alone was enough to prove the authenticity and truthfulness of Islam. When the same sort of small little
column when Allah subhanho wa Taala warns in the recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam to keep away from certain people. Who are these people that he's supposed to keep away from?
McAfee beam don't follow and don't be deceived. And McAfee in the lie is the compulsive liars. That's bad manners. And then in the wild, I took
him and do not follow and do not follow the one who, hello, he continues to swear he swears a lot. He takes a lot of oaths, and it's worthless for him. He doesn't even realize what he's saying. Don't follow such a person. Keep away from such a person. That is also bad manners. And there's Masha in being a meme. The one who ridicules and mocks and slanderous and backbiting. Don't follow him either. bad manners. A lot of socially sis men naturally hire the one who prevents the good from the people bad manners. Don't follow Him, more transgressor, a theme sinful oppressor, do not follow these people for in the same slaughter. A lot of social teaches us that what will prove to you the
truthfulness of Islam is the character of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the worst threat to Islam is the bad character. This is why Allah azza wa jal tells him do not follow 1234 all of them had bad characters, my brothers in Islam.
solotaroff If you look into solar, once we gave out who the people of Alaska, but there is an opinion among the rule of law that they mentioned that the people of Alaska off of those who performed the Jihad de Sevilla, but they were disrespectful to their parents. So they ended up on a mountain of a lot of shoes. Such a huge deal.
But they failed in their manners and dealings with their parents. As a result they got trapped on a mountain, Allahu Allah, where the ending will be a jihad. It was leading them to should not refute those. It was leading them to that, however, they bad manners forced them to stand on a mountain, between the paradise and the hellfire.
They are awaiting a loss of Hannah who has mercy to descend upon them. And then eventually they would enter the paradise, but the only my brothers in Islam, you see this and are of the people of our love. This is a loss, but it is nowhere near and it is not compared to what is about to come and still to be discussed. And the reason he was selling, he informs us that a woman, she showed bad manners and displayed bad manners to occur. And as a result that led her to
imagine the one who shows that matters to other human beings, to us parents, to his relatives, to his Muslim brothers and sisters, to the scholars of Islam, to their religious and the knowledgeable of Islam. Imagine what his what his ending would be. And the same manner. Allahu alayhi wa sallam, he teaches us that a woman a prostitute, can she earns her money through Xena. She displayed and showed good character and manners to a dog that was thirsty and he gave him some water to drink. A lot of social appreciated her D he forgave her and he had admitted her into the paradise. All of this because bad manners and good manners. Good manners ended up in jail in the paradise bad manners
with a cat and the other one in Jana Malaya Bella, my brothers in Islam, the hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that we discussed the weeks ago, about the three from betting that we're trapped in a cave, the cave closed up three in a cave, hollows dead that's it. They finished no contact to the outside world. No one knows where they are. What are they going to do? They begin to make the first one he says
I was good to my parents. What's that? None. So worship matters. The second one our low. There was a cousin that I love. And I was almost about to fall into Xena with her. So I retrieved and I gave her sonica What is that none as a worship nun as the third person or law. I was responsible and honest in my job, and I gave to the last cent until the last dollar what I owed for my employer and for my worker, and I gave him that. That is his. What's that man is our worship. That was matters. All three of them displayed good manners. As a result, Allah subhanahu wa taala removes the boba. And they walk out free. For this reason. Yeah, nice to Pamela, a lot of social relief them from their
difficulties and from a calamity is because of the good manners. And for this reason, maybe the difficulties and calamities in your life are because of your bad manners. Because of your bad dealings with your workers. Because of your bad dealings with your friends, with your wife, with your children, with your Muslim brothers and sisters, a shock shadow.
he narrates a story on the one of the attorneys that he narrates a story that happened to him. And he said, One day, I employed a teacher to teach at my college. So this teacher, he began to complain to a chef a shout out to the people that were in the school. He's complaining that the wages are low. Life is tough, and I'm barely getting any money. You're going through a lot of difficulty to go from one week to another week in my life. So shadow him Allah. He said one day I saw this man. I saw him carrying papers and pencils and pens and sharpened his school stationery. He carried them and they belong to the office. They don't belong to him. And he took him and he's walking out with him.
For sure for him Allah He said to him, what are you doing? He said, Well, I don't have money. I cannot buy school stationery for my children. So I take from the office and I go, what am I going to do? For chef he said, Tim has a manual. This is how our money. He said to me, what am I going to do? What's the solution? For a chef for him, Allah, He said to him, it's because of this hot money. That the fact that you face these difficulties in calamities in your life. So after a while, this man woke up to himself, and he repented. Allah subhanho wa Taala removed his difficulties and worries from his life, a shallow way under the story. He says Subhana Allah, this person, he did the same,
and he did not even take notice of it. This, this type of bad manners and corrupt character was the reason for his calamities and difficulties in life. So when he made it over, Allah subhanho wa Taala relieved him from all these problems. Most of our problems in life are because of bad manners, but we don't realize it because bad manners became a day to day thing with us. Something that becomes normal. So difficulties in your life. Perhaps it perhaps it's not because of the how long you saw. It is perhaps because of the bad deeds and the bad dealings and the bad character that one carries my brothers in Islam in Surah.
Allah subhanho wa Taala he says, In nama
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on to the Quran.
He said that this is an area that contain the mentioned all good in Islam. And this area is an area that mentioned all that in Islam. It commanded us of all good and it forbids us from all evil in the law.
Allah commands justice, when a certain excellence why even pull back and giving the relatives giving him the rights are inherent in Russia and law so shall he prevents him forbids you from unfair share immorality, Wolf and fascia,
and Moncure, transgression and oppression of men and men.
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was a man that loved good character, and he loved justice. And he said Islam and sovereignty in Islam did not settle and solidify in my heart until Allah revealed this. Then he loved goodness. And he says there's a theme that advocates for good manners. And it calls against that madness. This is the theme and he chose it and he accepted it. And Islam uncertainty settled in his heart because of this.
Are they even had them a follow up Allahu anhu. He was a king from among the kings of the Arabs. And he accepted Islam because of good manners, or the Euro, the Allahu anhu very interesting story as he said that he came to Medina, right, he came from his town, to El Medina, to investigate the authenticity of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he came in, he's wearing a big cross act to provoke the Muslims and to provoke the Sahaba and he walks into the cinema. So Allahu alayhi wa sallam
invites him to walk with him down the streets of El Medina, you know, his companions are walking in front of him some behind on the left on the right when we saw someone's walking
with Him, so they're walking together. And there's a young slave go, she waves down.
So the companions they stop, whenever you eat your salad, he goes through and he attends to her and she begins to complain. Well Rasul Allah, my monster is overworking me and too much and oppressing me.
And when and you solve the issue, while he was waiting, for he says, When law, man, he
No way, this cannot be the manners of kings. Kings Don't do like this. Kings ignore and just keep walking. He says in a whole lot of pseudo love. He must be a messenger of Allah. He broke the cross that is around his neck. And he accepted Islam. Because of the good character of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, my brothers in eastern Nigeria, she and
he also accepted Islam, because of the Tao of Jaffa.
When he taught him of the good manners that Islam preaches, or case of the Roman Empire, when he heard the good manners of Islam, from Abu sufian, Allahu anhu. He said, If I was with your prophet right now, I would wash his foot qingzi accepted Islam, because of the good manners of the Muslims. Now, let's ask the question. Don't ask yourself the question, how many accepted Islam and embraced Islam because of our good manners? Rather than let's ask the question and be serious. How many people left Islam? And how many people neglected as well? How many people left? And how many people don't want to associate with the Muslim community? Because of our bad manners? Is that the question
and how many people refuse and want to remain cofell because of the bad manners of the Muslims, my brothers in Islam serious deal. And this is a serious topic that we're supposed to speak about. On the day of judgment. There is a hadith that mentions that the people have come out of their grave resurrection has finished a solo amnesia.
The major events of the day of judgment finally, at last There are over and the believers the cross or slow house janam is behind and the Paradise is in front. It's only a few steps in we until all of a sudden stuff when How do you mentioned Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam he says, Your meaning millenary for you. But sooner Allah Kampala Allahu Akbar, that the people are caged and trapped, and they're allowed to enter the paradise. They have stopped right between the paradise and the whole fire. All of a sudden, there's one more event that we still haven't finished. It is known as Kampala
Kampala is a place in where now, the judgment of your manners is going to happen. The dealing between others now it's going to be judged. You oppressed others, you shortchanged others, you display God character to others. Now it's going to be judged before that it was only a worship that is judged. Now, the dealings between others and in the same howdy it's upon Allah yelling my brothers in Islam, Allah azza wa jal, he choose an interesting place for this type of judgment in front of you the paradise behind you, Shannon, in agenda to another Hadith. In other words, your manners, your manners might be the one that would push you into the paradise. All your manners would
be the one that would retract you back into Santa Monica villa. It is this moment in which Allahu alayhi wa sallam once he asked his companions at that room and in morphus el mal kiama Do you know who the bankrupt is on the day of judgment? This is the moment it'll happen. Who's the bankrupt for they said the rule of law. And Morpheus, the one that's bankrupt is the one that has no sense.
For he said,
this is Morpheus of the dunya, the Morpheus the bankrupt of the hereafter Manya T.
He comes with solid works on it has been at the end
It was amazing. It was incredible. 10 out of 10 for us. So that
was his second 10 out of 1010 out of 10 worship spouse, but that's why you see he's passed to Surat because of his worship, then. And he says, Yeah, to catch whatever. However, however, he's caused such a person
walk over for Heather, and he slammed it such a person. Why can't Amanda Heather and he's shortchange this person. He stole him in his business.
And he struck and he hit this person aggressively was suffering.
And he spilled the blood of this person oppressively. So what happens
is the people around give us give us hazard we don't do those anymore. Today we work with hasedera give us so he gives and he gives and he gives the Infineon pasado mahatva did the word su Panama is enough in the wait as the mountain of war How can you how much
all his has gone? What happened to this person, but life they live? What kind of God knows did he have every single hustler is clean time clock finish. And still the people on writes from him. So what happens? The person says give me a certain
The CEO is going to lead me to take it and take my car and take my car.
Now the car the scenes of people would begin to accumulate on him and then they have access for my boy happy now. He is thrown in jail and Amalia to be led all these
long nights in solid.
So all of this is gone. Because of bad manners. Unacceptable. It is not that nanners change your manners. change your attitude towards the people. It's not half of it is manners. Manners comes before your worship and analysis what's going to keep your worship steadfast and firm. My brothers in Islam and Nevis Allahu alayhi wa sallam once in Mecca, walking past are so heavy Abu Massoud not even Masood
And he was lashing. He was beating a sleeve of his. Now this companion obviously, he's not oppressing the slave, there must be a good reason for why he's giving him a good beating. But anyway,
so Obama sued, and he said he was rude. And namaha
was rude. He said, he was rude. Make sure and be aware that Allah is more capable upon you. Then you have upon the servant and upon the slave among social is capable. If you're able to oppress others, if you're able to oppress the wife, if you're able to neglect the rights of the children and oppress them among is capable to do whatever he wants with you. So Ivan was rude. He was terrified and he freed the slave. He didn't even say hello Soloway. Let me explain to you the story. And I'm feeding him because 123 He didn't even say that, no matter what the boy did. It doesn't give you the right to show that manage to people. So I was rude. He said
I free him for the sake of Allah hos I have nothing to do with him. And in this generation that terms, blossom Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said to him, and
Lana for haka. Now, on another generation, let me set
And now, if you did not free him, you would have been burned by the fire
that would have led to Obama being burned in the fire. That man is never justified your bad manners never justified. The Muslim is always a degree above and he always carries his responsibility and he always carries good manners with him. Also Pamela Jani I end with this one last final passage in the Quran in surah. Allah subhanho wa Taala he says, The law is
a man about the tokita waka JAL tamala aleikum, Kavita La Ilaha Illa, Allah azza wa jal, he says, fulfill the covenant of Allah. So when you have taken it, and when you given a word to someone, then uphold your word. Don't break your promise. Don't break your word. How do you do that? And the ayah says, waka JAL, Toma Alaykum calf ILA, and you're the one that made Allah witness over your word. You say, Aloha, I'm going to deliver such and such service on such and such date. And it will cost you such and such. And then you neglect your word, and you overturn it, and you don't give and you don't care as well. Then why did you make a lot of social as a witness of your case? And you said,
well, law, and you took an agreement and a covenant and you shook hands on it. Allah azza wa jal, he says, in the law,
and at the end of the earth, He says, look at the seriousness of it.
Do not take the oaths and the covenants between each other as the holidays.
Don't use the oath to deceive and cheat each other. Don't use a last name to your advantage. That's bad manners, with the law and bad manners with the people. Because if you do that, you know what happens. If the if how serious they get one at a time.
What's the result?
People will be misled from Islam, the
meaning afford a person he was about to come in. He saw the goodness of Islam because of your bad dealings, because you violated your own Oh put up and then he will slip and he will go away for
one person. Then the law social is telling us if one person was misled because of your bad deeds, that's a disaster and a calamity. How are you going to face a lot of social on the Day of Judgment, knowing that one person one person lost his Deen lost to Islam and His righteousness because of your bad manners. Not only there two more parts for the water, or sewer be now soldered to Mansa Vila, and because you did that, because of bad manners, you will taste the evil of the punishment, you will taste the punishment. Because you live people from the deen of Allah, Allah What about, you might argue, and you might say that and I love Islam. I love you, sir. I love
a lot of socialists telling you that if you have bad manners, you're actually turning people away from them. But those who pursue
you will taste the punishment in this life because you misled people from Islam. Why not kumada Navin and in the Hereafter, there is a serious torment for punishment that will come to such people, my brothers in Islam, rectify the character before it's too late. and solve your issues and your problems with people before it's too late. And give up whatever problem you have in your life for the sake of Allah, so that you can be closer to the sort of loss on the mahana usnm on the Day of Judgment, as he is
that the people that are close to me on the Day of Judgment are those who had good manners and this hadith in its opposite meaning it's also true. Those who are far away from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam on the Day of Judgment of those with bad manners. Allah Maha sin Akana mahalo kana. Me in a
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