Taimiyyah Zubair – Taleem al Quran 2021 J02-031C Word Analysis Al-Baqarah 231-233

			What either by luck to Manisa what either and when the luck to Nyssa you will divorce the women,
meaning when a husband pronounces the luck to his wife, and this is referring to the revocable
divorce. Okay, the first two then Ferber Laguna Agila Hoonah. Then they reach their term for Bella
Hoonah. This is from the root letters bad lamb line. Okay, bear, lamb line Bulu is to reach now they
reach agita. Hoonah their term, agile is from the root letters Hamza Jeem, lamb and the word Agile
is used in two ways. First of all, it applies to a time period. Okay, agile a duration of time. And
secondly, the term agile also applies to a specific point in time, okay, so it refers to a term and
		

			also a certain point in time. So for example, the end of a term. So here what is meant is for
Bulaga, Adela Hoonah that they have nearly reached the end of their term, which term the waiting
period selesa the Kuru, okay, the three menstrual cycles, they're about to reach the end of that
waiting period. So, now, the husband has to make up his mind for MC Cohoon, Nabi Maroof, then you
will retain them in a recognized way meme scene calf Oh suddenly, who will not be my roof or you
release them in a recognized way seen Raha meaning in the first two divorces, the husband has the
choice to keep her or to let the waiting period end and send her okay send her as in Let the
		

			marriage come to an end, let the divorce come in complete effect. So, for M SQL will not be more
often oh sorry, who will not be Maroof wala Tom Seco Hoonah now, a clarification is made over here
will atom see Kahuna and you do not retain them and how would the husband retain her by taking her
back for which he does not need her consent? Right. So do not retain them the raw run causing harm.
The Ra is from the root letters BOD ra ra. Remember the word other or that is also harm, but the RA
is more than other. Okay? It is major difficulty. And the RA is to cause harm to cause major
difficulty. So do not retain her do not keep her do not take her back with the intention to cause
		

			her harm. Okay. So for example, the man gives a first divorce. And then he realizes that, oh, if the
waiting period comes to an end, and she goes away, she keeps the house or she keeps the car because
I technically put the house in her name, or I put the car in her name. And it's her property. So
she's going to take it and I can't take it back. So what does he do? He says, okay, you know what?
I'm going to take her back, I'm going to do to June, all right, and then I'm going to make her life
so difficult. I'm going to beat her every day, or I'm going to threaten her, I am going to be
verbally abusive to her. I'm not going to treat her well. I'm just going to disappear on her. Why so
		

			that now she is going to be desperate to get out of the marriage and she's going to seek holer. So,
while Adam Seco will not there are and with intention of causing major difficulty Lita do so that
you all transgress Okay, so that you all commit injustice, that you make her life a living *, and
she is desperate to get out so she gives anything in order to get out of that marriage. Well, my EF
are valleca and whoever does that does what that equal referring to taking his wife back in order to
cause her harm? So that he can legalize, write abuse basically for himself, so that he can take back
the money, whoever does that Faqad Allah Manasa then he has wronged himself okay. He is only
		

			wronging himself without a tuxedo then it is said Do not take Hamza Hodel, do not take i Atilla he
verses of Allah. Which verses these verses who's what in mockery. Okay, who's Allah? Remember, in
the manner, most Desi own? Right? Who's Allah? This is to make fun to mock at someone. So do not
make a mockery of the verses of Allah. How would a person do that? This could be in a number of
ways. This could be first of all, like a man says, Oh, I divorced you. Oh, no, no, I'm just joking.
No, this is making fun of the verses of Allah. Okay, a person cannot say that. I was only joking
when he gave divorce. If he says that the divorce is still effective, it's still going to take
		

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			Only do not make a mockery of the verses of Allah how by opposing them okay by using the law to take
advantage of other people, all right or by choosing only those laws which serve you better, okay?
which enable you to gain benefit at the cost of other people suffering well as a W i Atilla user,
and also some orlimar say that for example, you know some people will issue three divorces at once.
Right? They will issue three divorces at once. So for example, in one setting a man says Dr. Lotta
luck, all right. And this is literally making fun of the verses of Allah because when Allah says
mandala tan, it means two occasions for him palapa then the third divorce comes at a third occasion.
		

			This is not three divorces in one sitting, it's three divorces at three separate occasions. So we
learned in Hadees that a man pronounced divorce three times in one sitting to his wife. And when the
Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam found out about it he said is the book of Allah being played with
while I am still among you a yulara Boo Boo ki tabula. Are you all playing with the book of Allah?
Okay, so while at the view I Atilla who's who and who's always from the root letters have ze Hamza.
Okay, has a word Kuru and he will remember now the word vicar means to mention, okay, it means to
bear in mind, okay? And it also gives the meaning of observing. Okay, so what Kuru Nero mattala Here
		

			Alikum the blessing of Allah upon you, which blessing, the blessing of marriage, the blessing of
finding a spouse, the blessing of the rights that Allah's Panthro has given you within the marriage.
All right, and also the blessing of Islam these laws that Allah subhanaw taala has given you Wama
nzlr Lee coming also remember, ma nzlr Ali Khan, what Allah has sent down to you, mineral Kitabi
will take note of the book and the Wisdom Kitab is referring to the Quran and hikma is referring to
the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Okay, so basically at the time of divorce,
don't forget these rules which the Quran and Sunnah teach you, okay, you should remember these
		

			rules, you should observe them, you should review them so you can follow them properly. And you
should also remind one another of them. Okay, and this verse also shows us that the source of law is
the Kitab and the hikma Okay, so, there are a lot of rules related to divorce mentioned in these
verses. And we see that there are more clarifications in the Sunnah, which inshallah we'll talk
about in the next session. So we have to look at both what the Quran says and what the Sunnah says,
Your ELO Combi he admonishes you all with it by it er illud, this is from well reign law world is
admonition instruction. So Allah admonishes you by it. All right, by what Allah has revealed. What
		

			the Kula and you will fear Allah wirelend Whoo, and you all should know and Allah because Alicia in
our lane that Allah is Knowing of everything. All right, Allah knows what you're going through.
Allah knows what you are doing. Nothing is hidden from Allah. What eat Alpha luck to Nyssa and when
you divorce the women for the Lagna Adela Hoonah and then they have reached their term. What does it
mean by this? This means that they have reached the end of their term, meaning the ADA came to an
end, and there was no real jewelry that took place. Okay. So for example, the husband gave the
divorce to his wife, okay. And she waited for a duration of the length of the Kuru and he did not
		

			take her back. So now what happens? The two have been separated. She is no longer married to him.
She is free to marry anyone else. Okay. filata Aluna. So now, you all do not hamper them from now
lateral Bulu Hana. First of all, what is the meaning of our Lulu? Tara Lulu is from rain, bod lamb.
Okay, and our goal is to prevent someone from something very harshly very strongly. Okay, to hinder
them to prevent them from doing something. Okay, from the same root is the word or Algol Algol with
a foothold on the board. Alden, and this is used to refer to a man who was very muscular, okay, so
sometimes people use their muscles their power to interfere in other people's lives and hinder them
		

			from making their own decisions. Okay, from the same root is the word
		

			really, really same spelling. Alright, bought lamb but with a customer under the line. And they're
evil is used for a man who is very cunning like very any smart, intelligent but good in manipulating
other people and you know taking advantage of them. So filata Aluna when a woman's waiting period is
over, then you all do not hinder them. Okay, now who is you all referring to you all is referring to
first of all the men that they were previously married to the ex husband. Okay, so now that ex
husband should not interfere in her life anymore. Why? Because he's no longer her husband. Okay, he
has no say in her decisions. And her choices for that are Luna, especially a and Karina as well,
		

			Jonah, that they marry their intended spouses. So for example, a woman is divorced by her husband.
All right, waiting period comes to an end, the two are separated. Now a year later, she wants to
marry someone else. The ex husband finds out and he's very jealous. He's very angry. He's like, no
way she cannot marry him. And he calls her and he threatens her Don't you dare marry him and this is
none of your business. Okay. So letter of Alumina here who is being addressed the ex husband? Okay.
Secondly, and as why Jonah is referring to their intended spouses meaning the men that now they want
to marry Secondly, letter DeLuna you all is referring to the family, okay, the family of the woman.
		

			So like, for example, her father, her brother, okay. Now, they should not hinder her from marrying
who as well jahana their spouses, meaning her ex, okay. So, for example, the divorce happens a year
later, the ex husband, what does he do? He called her he apologizes, he says this was a mistake, we
should get back together. And she says yes, now the two want to marry again he has a new Nikka will
take place all right. But here the family should not come in the way okay, the family should not
come in the way and prevent the woman from marrying her ex husband. All right, especially either
taught although when they have agreed with one another thought although from raw god, yeah, probably
		

			is to be pleased. Right that although both parties are pleased with one another, they have agreed
with one another Boehner home amongst themselves bit of moral rules in the recognized way. Meaning,
they have openly discussed how they're going to change things, they have made adjustments, so that
they can live together peacefully. So when they have agreed with one another, then you should not
interfere. That is a you are a little behave that he is admonished by it. Meaning this admonition is
for who men can men call whoever he truly among you you may know Billa he will Yeoman he believes in
Allah and the Last Day so whoever among you believes in Allah and the Last Day truly is given this
		

			admonition he should take this admonition seriously and valley con that are you all what led him to
to marry okay that is as that is pure luck calm we're up to her okay as gala como Otto her now the
word as care means two things ze Caf well is the root first of all as K means more pure okay because
the cat means purification does Kia purification so as gala como Otto her Ultra taharah also means
purity. So, basically two words have been used over here to emphasize that this is very very pure,
this is very very good. This is excellent. This is good for everyone involved okay. Because
sometimes you know the eagle prevents people from letting you know their daughter marry her ex. So
		

			it is said this is very very pure. Okay and Eska Secondly, the cat also means growth and increase.
So as it is better for increasing in good. Meaning when you allow this to happen. good will happen.
Okay, more good will happen for all of you. So for example, if a woman got divorced, all right, and
now a year later, she wants to get married again. Whether to her ex or to someone else. Don't
prevent her from marrying. This is good for her. Let her move on. Let her settle let her do what she
wants. The valley come escala como Otto her Wala? We are Allah Musa and Tom Latta Ala Moana and
ALLAH knows and you do not know. Well while he that now after the matters of divorce, what about the
		

			Children that are involved Well, Wiley, that and mothers, Wiley, that is the plural of the word
Walidah. Okay, and while EDA is who the woman who well other from wild Lambdin and what are they is
to give birth. So the woman who gives birth, so this is referring to the birth mothers. So the
mothers who have given birth, what are they going to do? You'll they're gonna they may breastfeed
hola the Hoonah their children, you'll learn up from raw blood, I QRadar QRadar is to breastfeed,
okay? And you'll they're not the noon at the end again, is sine of feminine plural. And the word
you'll learn over here is being used as a command. Okay, it's an imperative, but remember that
		

			sometimes a command is used even for the purpose of permissibility Okay, so this can be understood
as the mothers should breastfeed their children or the mothers may breastfeed their children okay
meaning this is something permissible and allowed is applauded of the word welland Okay, well it is
child Oh lad children this includes male child female child so mothers may breastfeed their children
for how long how old lady CAMI lane for two complete years whole lane is the dual of the word whole
and how is a year one complete year because whole how learn basically means to encircle or surround
okay. So the year begins at one point and end when you reach that same point after full circle
		

			meaning after a complete year, right so how Laney Cameleon to complete yours CAMI Lane dual of the
word Kameel from the root letters calf meme lamb. So mothers may breastfeed their children for two
complete years. Now this is while they're married, okay? And it can also be after they have been
given divorce. Okay, so for example, a woman is given divorced by her husband, and she has a baby.
All right, whom she is breastfeeding at the time and the baby now is going to be with the mother.
Okay, and she is going to breastfeed the baby she's going to continue to do so, it is her right to
do so, it is the child's right to be nursed by the mother and this has for how long two complete
		

			yours okay, this is the right of the child some say how Lanie kami Lane this is the maximum duration
of nursing meaning a child should not be nursed beyond two years okay. And some say that this is not
the maximum duration but the right of the child the right of the child is that he or she should be
nursed for a minimum of two years or this is what the child should be given even if the parents are
divorced. Okay, hold any counseling, Lehman for who are other He intends on that you Tima he
completes the Meme Meme. Hola, Laura, the breastfeeding meaning the duration of breastfeeding is how
long two years were a little mo Lu de la who and upon el modo de the who and Mo Lord LA who is the
		

			father from the root letter as well lambda and look at the wording that has been used over here the
term while it could also have been used right but mo Lu dilla. Who may elude is one who has been
given birth to okay child and law who for him because the Father Himself cannot bear children. So
the mother gives birth to the child. All right for the Father, and he she does him a favor. Okay, so
mo Lu de la who over here is the Father.
		

			So on the father is the duty to risco Hoonah Kiswa Tahuna is the risk of the women and also the kids
were of the women, meaning the man has to provide to the mother of his child, what two things
provision food and also clothing when for the duration that she is nursing his child. All right. Of
course, if they're married, if they're together, this is understood, but he should pay special
attention to giving her good food, the food that she needs, and also provide her clothing, okay,
that she needs while nursing. And if they're separated with divorce, then still, the father has to
pay for her food and her clothing, even though they're no longer married, but he has to provide to
		

			the mother of his child. Okay, now this provision and Kiswa clothing. Now why is clothing mentioned
specifically for do we understand? When a woman is nursing? You know, she has to pay attention to
what she's eating. She has to eat well, consistently. Sometimes she gets really
		

			Are you hungry? Sometimes she gets really thirsty, she has to eat well in order to nurse her child.
And you know, when a woman does not eat properly it affects the milk supply. So the father has to
provide the food, and Kiswa Why do you think clothing has been mentioned? Think about this and
inshallah we'll talk about it in the next session. But this has to be given been borrowed in the
recognized way, meaning what is acceptable? So for example, the husband cannot just give a loaf of
bread every day and say, Well, you know what, I'm giving you food. No, he has to give her what is
recognized as food. Okay, and maruf any what is within his capacity? Okay. Love to colorful nevsun
		

			Illa was our her law not too colorful, it is charged calf, lamb fat, okay. And two, colorful,
colorful, you can live with a cliff the cliff is to burden someone with a responsibility to impose a
task on someone. Okay, so basically when someone is burdened with compulsory work, and it could be
inconvenient, it could be hard but they don't have a choice. So allowed to California Epson, no soul
is charged in Laos or her except within its capacity was while scenery capacity, loud to borrow a
leader to be Willa De ha, the mother should not harm through her child. Now the word to Barbara is
from Bhadra okay.or harm and tada can be understood as both to harm and also be harmed. Okay, the
		

			verb can be used in both ways. So the mother should neither harm the Father through her child, nor
she should be harmed through her child. Okay, so for example, a woman should not use her child to
get more money out of the father of the child, okay, nor should she be harmed. So for example, the
father just disappears doesn't provide anything and he says, You know what, it's her child also and
whether I support her or not, she's going to nurse the child anyway, so she's being harmed so led to
Laura Wellington volunteer while mo Lulu hooby quality nor the father be harmed through the child
wireless Qwerty theory and upon the air, what it is from Well, sir, to inherit, so, what is is the
		

			air the inheritor inheritor of who of the Father, okay. So on the air of the Father is myth through
that click same as that same as what? Same as the duty on the Father. So for example, a woman was
married to a man she was pregnant, he divorced her, her waiting period came to an end and he did not
take her back during the waiting period. Now what happens? She nurses the baby, the two are
separated the Father the ex husband is supporting her. All right for the duration of nursing, which
is supposed to be two years now one year later, the father dies. Okay, so now who is his heir? Let's
say it is his brother. The brother has to continue to support the woman okay. The woman is not going
		

			to be left to fend for herself the heir of the men have to now support the mother okay the woman who
is nursing that man's child for in Arada fiscal Ireland if they to intend fiscal who is the two
referring to the man and the woman the mother and the father. Both intend fiscal weaning for soil is
from the root letters for solid land for Salah is to separate, okay? For Salah is to separate. And
facade means weaning because what is weaning? Do it causes separation between the mother and the
child? Okay, it doesn't mean that now the child is going to be forever separated from the mother.
No, they just means that now because the child does not depend on her for food. He's going to be
		

			spending more time away from her. All right. So if they both intend weaning and this weaning of the
child weaning off of breast milk, this has to be untrodden resulting from mutual agreement that all
then blah, blah, dia, okay, meaning both agree to wean the child. So a woman cannot just win the
child herself. And then tell the father, you know, a year later that oh, by the way, I don't nurse
him anymore. Okay. No, he has to know he has a say in this decision. Okay, so for Selena and Dalton
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			The showering and consultation the shower Shinhwa era, which is to consult one another. So both have
to discuss what is in the best interest of the child, whether they're married or they're divorced
for large and are highly human, there is no sin on them to. And here, this is mentioned that there
is no sin in weaning the child, okay? Because if it is done before two years, that is permissible,
it's not sinful. Okay, we're in Aurora dome, and if you intend, and the sterile the row ladder
column that you seek breastfeeding of your children, the sterile Darrow is still largely the same
route, although the brain meaning you want someone other than the mother to nurse the child, and
		

			that is sometimes needed. And sometimes it's just better because for example, if the woman you know,
wants to marry someone else, all right, and her prospective husband, you know, he does not want her
to nurse that child. All right, and she agrees to do that. So now they need someone else to nurse
the child. So if you seek breastfeeding of your children, is that permissible? Yes, for LoadRunner
horological there is no blame on you. Okay, either so Lampton but there is a condition what is that
condition? Either when Salam Tom you all have handed over in texts and Lampton from seen lamb mean
the Slim is to hand over surrender something fully to the other. So you have to not just agree to
		

			pay but you have to actually hand over the payment okay my it too much you all give Bill my roof in
the recognized way. You have to give the payment to who to the wet nurse what the cola and fear
Allah Warrnambool and Allah Habima Dharma Dona bossy and you should know that indeed Allah of what
you all do is ever seen he's watching whatever you do So be conscious of him All right, let's listen
to the recitation of these verses
		

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