Contentment, Self esteem And Avoidance Of Begging
Channel: Shady Alsuleiman
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except for the Mohammed is the Prophet of the Messenger of Allah brothers and sisters.
But I think
this beautiful gathering will get together for the sake of a loss of Parliament
to know more about life.
And we'll continue with the book,
which is I want to speak about one of the greatest scholars in Islam a moment no way they can pound this book with different
narrations on the problem hundreds on the long
end, he put them in different chapters, a categorize them in different chapters, speaking about your everyday life as a Muslim, what do you need to know as a Muslim? And in the 57 chapters of bamboo are now what?
contentment and self esteem and avoidance of unnecessary begging of people. So
tonight's topic or lecture will be addressing the quality of a believer wanting quality what's your because I love to be the face of
to make sure that people are the best that the latest of the best of the best in the world
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anticipates and expects from me not the average person to sign on to be the best in society to be the Mexican soil. That's what Islam is about. You're a Muslim, you're a believer, you must be the business side, you must be the leader when it comes to the side a lot
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the generations that will hold responsible
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whose apology again is different than the call and refer to them. The most common ones are either tea or spirits or ghosts. A guy really that some people might refer to them as salts because the meaning of
To promote provision
anything from the human beings a lot of power doesn't seek anything from the genie. It is the human beings. And the genius seeks something from a loss of balance and given them from
anything from a loss
from anyone, but everyone needs a loss of Paragon
as a strong sense of the attribute all a sudden, we just resolved
some of the main
from them to be able to sustain
that was happening in this chapter.
And have you read
learning Yunus in this heading,
says then that
the true rich person is not the one with a lot of wealth.
The true rich person is not the one or not in the literal form, when you say somebody is rich, in a literal form, when he says someone is reached, the first thing that crosses your mind is someone that has a lot of money, abundance of money is rich money.
Which person is the one the self sufficient?
self sufficient, it doesn't mean someone who's just independent, it doesn't mean someone who just depends on himself. It doesn't ask anyone for money.
This self sufficiently means that someone doesn't
refers to as the true rich.
richest person in the favelas.
The truly rich person
is the one.
He couldn't be poor.
He had he
have enough money to bring to bring the bread and butter. It doesn't have enough money to
he doesn't have enough money
to buy other things.
He's someone that is rich within himself.
That it doesn't ask him.
So he's got the integrity. It's got the dignity, they don't need to ask him for anything. That's
they continue asking for other things.
the concept of dependence on almost
to the crisis. So the first one that resulted in which he
knows comes like our biggest problem is
not responding. That's when we're asked
to move on the roads Rosa Parks
is not the one that have the lone wolf. Not
is the most efficient
from a number of companions
songs or sugar and then
even though the very trivial things, very small things about many things, what salt and sugar
it's not like something that's gonna you're going to ask an officer especially talking about an environment or
how successful those embraces them
with sustenance which is sufficient for them
brothers and sisters in
contentment is a great
to be content with what
because if you're not content
then you've got Britney she
is a great
they are satisfied
you're satisfied, you're happy and pleased with what was provided
as opposed to someone who gets millions of
is a great treasure
we can tell
at the end of the day
when it comes to collusion
to create the presence of a rich and a homeless person to be poor.
Well, I want this person to be very rich.
because you got millions of dollars
and you'll continue to live
but if you
we are getting a lot more better than the one.
Will you continue
because a lot of money does not bring you happiness. This is the biggest problem that
we as human beings, we're always connected to money, your
happiness doesn't come from Money, money
is never gonna bring you happiness.
What's really gonna bring you happiness is number one.
But number two,
we always come to money.
a beautiful car, a big house,
all the things that you want.
so disconnected from this, that
the two together
somebody doesn't purchase happiness, what really purchase Happiness is your pleasure and replacing the loss of
the pleasure maligns you please
give me a quality happiness
give them contentment
really pleased with joy.
contentment, that means you're happy and pleased with what
was provided for you.
of the things that you see from
choices, it was given the choice between being a company and a problem.
And the problem
in which to break
if you want the entire little Mecca to be granted.
a rather, ate one day
have mentioned for the sake of a lot. That's why
it's not just about being cashed up.
It's not having a lot of money. It's
a number of digits in your bank account. It's about you being contented.
contentment, systems is the key to happiness. So how long will you content
gives you satisfaction in the
Their main concern is that their main concern is that
will give him satisfaction and
we'll make this video
give me satisfaction.
You'll have control of this.
And the thing
giving you control,
you control you.
You control you.
You control your business.
it means that you have control of
Morning the main concern is the duty of
care that is money, money, money, money.
Money money money,
money money money
loves water Allah will break up into what in between
will make you lose control of
households by controlling
a small fraction of
what because a lot of Hamilton is giving me satisfaction,
satisfaction because of
you see that character
or men yesterday, you have
the upper hand
which means for you to earn income
system is not begging
to be pool, yeah, Vegas
with what Las
Vegas because it's not
The upper head is
for you to be self sufficient
for you to be contented.
Which means it was
given to someone who's close to someone as far away from me that
is close to you.
It's a choice between spending on someone who's far away from being someone who's close to you, then it's a choice that you should be spending on the one that's costing because now I'm the UK The only responsibility
the best of the best of charity is a charity that you get.
And you know, when you when you've got a lot more money, it's a lot more than I for the sake of Allah knows.
Why? Because when you've got For example, 100 bucks, even $50 that's 50% of people only 100 million
See the difference? Is 100 bucks 100 bucks, you know what $50 for the sake of argument,
if you want to move for example.
So, see the difference
a charity of charities is a charity that he gave when you are rich, and you get more because against your will.
A bigger percentage of your wage.
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a big percentage.
And then the problem of
He says, and he wishes
And when we say, we just kept back from housing without referring to those people come to your face, please, I've been in miskeen getting him give me that. That's, that's one form of begging.
And that's one of the ironies forms of begging.
But we're talking about even asking people for money.
it's got a bit
of help and support and he got on someone for money or asking someone for a loan.
it does lower your integrity.
It does lower your respect. And that's why people don't want to ask for money.
It's a scary thing, it's them, they can ask for money.
Especially when you ask people to give you money to loan them money.
is a lot more easier than asking someone for money.
But when you say someone to lend me 100 bucks, it's a lot more easy. And it's a lot more rewarding for you to lend someone money then
when the problem
went on the general
he saw someone written
somewhere written in the paradise one
night and Jerry was the one that gives a lot.
why is it
such a great thing because the one that asks for money, you can be asked
when someone asks for
ask for a loan when you are illegal.
Ask for money
and free information. Our biggest biggest on the street, Phil's the beach. So we don't have them in Australia.
filthy rich man's just became a customer.
It became a habit in their lives for them to make
a lot of integrity of money.
It's a big, and it's how long were you to look down at the biggest
looking down and about to say
if someone gets a bit
a good character,
it's not a good character, it's not something that is encouraging
play for the face of
people going around Kennedy
during this time, the majority
not necessarily 100% or
50%. And some calculations that say in 20% 20% of Muslims are
those in which second it becomes obligatory if 20% of
eligible to pay
a mandatory dependence again
20% have read some studies and findings. If you don't
systems in my system
What am I instantly you
is self sufficient, that doesn't ask people for money doesn't beg for money
for them to respond back to
wait for them to get 90.
They someone who is self sufficient, someone with integrity, someone with dignity, someone with respect. And the reality is when you see someone asking for money for themselves, you lose respect to them, that's a reality.
When someone gets around their house money is not the top person that you want to hang out with.
And you shouldn't be looking down at them or degrading them.
Keep the mega even if it comes on a mountain, it becomes in the back of a horse. So in other words, even if someone's driving a car, ask for money, even
if the alarm
and Donna says hello
the brutal or cruel towards the beggar. But at the end of the day, it is not a good thing.
Even though it's the middle.
But it's not something that's encouraged.
And you know, my brothers and sisters
have done I haven't seen the
bombings in other countries like in the UK.
It's one of the worst scenes when you see a system
asking for money, especially from
sitting in one of the in one of the stations
and asking for money. And she's worried what
it's a very understatement to say a Muslim system we're gonna run out of money
or you see someone for example, asking for money.
Is there integrity, about respect and
What is not what the city
believes to be strong? The upper hand is the problem homosassa mentioned someone who's independent, someone is self sufficient, someone that knows
that first and foremost they
for something that benefits you have
been read to be strong, be respectful,
successful business Muslims, successful
intellectual Muslims and
We need to save
the image that we want to have
satisfaction and sufficiency in your life. The more happiness that you want in your life than someone else's is
his servants. They eat one more for my food and it takes a lot
and he drinks once and it takes
and use rich advantages
in this book, Rich Dad Poor Dad
look at the advantages of
advantage in the studio,
binary, how can you
I'm gonna stick to being cool.
But being strong,
they are strong originals of the toys that was the
from the greatest
performing often they will be performing
richest men ever exist on the face of the earth.
there's nothing wrong with me being rich, as long as they please.
As long as you're so sufficient, you're on content, as long as you keep
coming before this,
wants to see the believers to be the best of people inside. And for you to be the one with the upper hand.
We can have that respect. But, again, brothers and sisters is not just about having a walk, it's about what you can do with this world.
Before 70 times, this one that you have in your hands, it could be that
could be a blessing from Allah subhanaw taala. Or it could be a cruise,
it could be a cruise. This is sort of
I'm talking about.
the most wealthiest people on Facebook, one of the sons of Libra is to live in his
he felt with everything that surrounds him more than one day you have something to
say every morning,
every single morning.
And promises to be on the shores of a river. So the policy's 2 million situated on the shore of a river.
Voice of someone reading the Quran again.
And you start to monitor this person. So this person every single day comes
and works as someone carrying things for people who are coming on the shop, the ribbon, like you know, someone who carries things and somebody just moves things like a removalist, if you want to call them his days, from festivals and all the way to vote, and then gets every single day, some sort of paper
every single day is monitoring this person, privacy statement truth about helping out here and then removing things from him. When you put this person in that person, and then come to find out he was
Some of the things and one of the soldiers is
talking about a young teenage
So this man that reads the
voices and waking the whole day.
The following day starts all over again. So some of
the problems and the some of the colleague asked him What's your story? What exactly every single day but the same customer the same routine? Isn't that common press a lot of work. I will become I go back and look after my mother and my sister
looking up things every single day
from person to low
income, thanks and my car
takes care of the system.
And he asked him if he said
so he was very enthusiastic tonight exactly what he was.
It was very curious to not
it scary belt
it went live
it wasn't live
for someone that is
working as a laborer in a bakery in the bakery.
He's lost. And this is where we're gonna live in in the bank and the bank of
So he used to come, the sun
became very good. And plus boy, when he was on his deathbed, he told his boss
he told them listen,
the last few years have been the most happiest person on the face of Islam.
I wished I was in this position.
But the point is
anything that anyone can drink, but he didn't text happiness until they were in
coming to the house of
mixing with your brothers, and
that will bring me happiness.
in the water and
it will bring you contempt.
the biggest problem that humanity and human beings in general have is the
difference. Let's see.
What will really bring happiness to you is that you have satisfied self sufficiency, self contentment
will give you an answer. Be pleased with what wasn't.
And see what lots of great
content and ask lots of
those that are self sufficient. Last, the last panel
announced the most