Shadee Elmasry – NBF 198 Beauty of the Prophet
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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala
Rasulillah Ernie was the woman who Allah, ladies, gentlemen, sit down
with a comb and welcome to the Safina society nothing but facts
live stream, on a day in which it is Tuesday today, which is a day
in which
we're going to read some of the Shemitah the prophets of Allah
what He was selling them, we're gonna usually read that Mondays
but yesterday I wanted to read from a Zadie stuff, see it a
little bit just to open the door on that. We're gonna go on to
chapter two now, have said Muhammad Ali WinMagic, his book on
the perfection of the Prophet salallahu Salam, the title of the
book is called Muhammad the perfect, or the complete human
being. Of all the attributes, the best attributes that you can give
somebody the best one is to say that they're complete, which means
there are no flaws in this person. Everything about them hits the
mark, and everything about them is right. So you could say that
someone is handsome, but that doesn't mean that they're smart.
You could say someone's smart, but that doesn't mean that you want
them around. Right? If you think about if I like I said yesterday,
if I tell you that the strongest guy is going to walk in this room,
chances are this is not a guy that you like,
chances are there's not a guy that you would imagine
will be compassionate, right? He's just just the strongest guy. Now
if I tell you the most compassionate man is coming in.
It's not someone that you imagine can protect you. Okay? So every
every quality has a natural, there's a natural inclination that
it's, it's not something else, right? The natural inclination and
a person that if you have a great quality, then you probably don't
have the opposite of that quality. You see, that's usually how it
works.
If I tell you that the smartest guy is going to walk in the room,
you probably are not thinking that he's the handsomest guy, right? If
I tell you the handsome guy is gonna walk in the room right now
you probably not thinking that he's the smartest guy. So that's
where most human beings lie in these opposites, these polar
opposites. So what we see with the Messenger of Peace be upon them
and the greatest
compliment to give a person is that they are complete. They have
no flaws, there is no gap in in the quality of this human being of
this person. So
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use of address and I'm was given all half of beauty. Okay.
Prophets I send them was given all of beauty and this but this was it
crowned with two things. l Haber. Allah Jalla Alia he had a haber.
The prophet had a Heba Heba. It's like an aura of power that makes
people think twice before they
be informal with this person. Like you almost like a lion has a Heba
Okay, a lion has a haven. So you think twice before
the province say naughty said about the Prophet, if you see him
from far away, you fear him. But when you see him close up, you
love him.
So that's what a haven is. And if you want to Haven talk less, you
want to quick route to Haven Talk less laugh less. You're always
laughing with everybody, then
people just they get comfortable with you, right? So I think that's
a good thing in many situations. But if you want to be in a
situation where people don't treat you like a friend, we're not
friends here, right? I'm here for a different purpose. I don't want
people to think I'm there buddy or something. If that's the case,
then keep a straight face, rather than laughing. So sometimes you
need to do that. Because you need to be in a situation where people
taking you seriously you just don't smile. That's it. That's how
simple it is, is really not that hard.
If you're in the opposite, if you want to be in a situation where
people are at ease with you smile, right? That's how simple it is or
and make them smile.
That's what send a job for the Saddam was was called muzza. A
Mezuzah is somebody who used to always make other people smile,
because in his Mejlis when he was in his prejudice with his
disciples and his students, and the people that you love them and
they loved him.
He was informed. That's in the draft. It's sad.
When medic came around and said that Imam Malik was surrounded by
these elites, and he felt that they need to be, they need to know
their place, he just would never smile
was very rarely seen to smile because he was surrounded with
people who need
they need to know the line of respect. That's the rule.
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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says was then surrounded by this
beauty was covered, it was crowned and covered by something else
which was a divine light, that light calm the neffs. So
the women when they saw the prophets, I saw them, they didn't
get physically tempted. Because you can't be a prophet. You can't
he couldn't fulfill his function. Of course, you can be a prophet
with that, but because then the use of was but he could not
fulfill the function Allah wanted for him.
If women were tempted, is not only would that bother the women, that
would bother the men. Right? The men will be bothered by that.
The men themselves will be bothered that our our wives are
attracted to the Prophet. Right, they will keep their women away.
So the province I sell him to fulfill his function. He had a
beauty by which the the light that came from him, calm the hearts of
the women so that they were not tempted. Okay, and that it's
extremely important that the beauty of the Prophet was never
conflated with a type of sensual attraction
for a male Jalil Wahiba varkala Hindusthan. Abby hella, remember
who Hindi oven Ebihara was, that's the son of Khadija from another
husband from the previous husband.
Got he said about the prophets I send them you see could see Hindi
here is a unisex name it has and the wife of Abu Abu Sufian is hint
and also this man is hint. Canis Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam
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He was Grant prophesy, sedums appearance was never Meek
spirituals grant. And that's what gave him the Haber. Wherever
whichever whomever he was with he appear taller than them. If you're
taller than anyone he was with.
We'll call Ali Raja La Mara hooba de Hatton Hab. If you saw the
Prophet quickly, you became afraid of him. Like Buddy hits on like
really quick. But if you came near him, good then you loved him.
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I lake the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the most
dignified person in any measureless dignified for example,
you can see people that they they're just informal, there and
they unwind quick. Like some people they just they're quick to
unwind, all of a sudden he seems slouching, putting his feet up.
Don't talking about his personal life.
That's the opposite of this workout. What God is like a very
respectful almost sitting like a judge is sitting or like a kink.
Okay. So he had wakad in his Mejlis. So much so that a Bedouin
came, had never seen such wakad Again, what God is his dignity and
Haibo that this Bedouin started to shake. That's how much he was.
This Bedouin started to shake literally. And the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, calm yourself. I'm the son of a
woman who used to eat jerky and jerky. It's the fruit of the pork
jerky is when you take an old animal
that which has, you know, the meats not going to be good. Then
you slaughter that animal. But you don't cook the meat.
You you bury the meat. You put the meat in some container and you
bury it
or you just keep it on the side and you cover it with salt. You
come back a couple months later and and you have jerky. Okay, so
the meat actually never cooked. It's just salted. That's what
jerky is jerky today you eat it you're just basically eating.
Yeah. So it's just dry meat. You just, they just take it. It's like
a it becomes so dry.
I was like a piece of leather. You take it, you chew on it, you suck
the nutrients from it. And then it dissolves little by little blade
little in your mouth and that's how you get new nutrients. That's
what jerky is. The prophets of Allah when he was seven said his
wife used his mother. I am the son of a woman who's the jerky so it
means my mom is probably just like your mom in that sense. Simple.
We're simple people basically, way cooler, I'm revenue loss, and
hundreds and most of us will Allahu alayhi wa sallam Welcome to
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also will join us if OMA adopt, adopt early and Neelam Hakuna
amla, whiny Minho. How many of us saw the Prophet was such had such
a haber
that he said I never felt filled my eyes with with his look glance
out meaning I never stared looked at him such a way that was full
only way I could look at him was this glances up and down, just
glances.
And he said, I can't even describe him for you. Because of that I
can't even describe the prophet like I wouldn't be able to
describe it describe something you have to look and look and look.
You have other narrations where the Sahaba sit around the crowd so
I set them and stare at the Prophet out of all
of his appearance. So it's you have to have an appearance because
the appearance is
it's why the people one of the reasons that you follow somebody
is that it's part of it is the appearance.
So to oh the only thing obviously, we'll call it I've never heard of
he was we were kinda in a to Kalama America Julissa, who can
Nirmala goosey? What?
If the prophets I send them how to measure this, the people around
the Mejlis would sit around and their heads will be bound.
bowed and nobody would move.
To the degree that people would imagine that there are some birds
on their head. They would sit like this and they would sit with their
heads down when the messenger would speak.
And, and they would just listen.
Okay, the kana Sahaba to Radi Allahu Anhu. Last of the owner,
imagine another if he, the Sahaba could never just stare at him like
this.
The Kuwaiti Maha Beti because of his Haber, when Mozia will call it
and how dignified he was women Thumma let me sifu Allah Suharto
as a result of that, who became the people who described the
Prophet
later on in the books who described the prophet the youth.
Because the young people don't have the same respect. They're
just, they're just still on their childlike instincts. They stared
at the Prophet peace be upon
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his household before prophethood like hint, and does his stepson
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had a stepson. It's
important to recognize how much the Muslims embraced this concept
of step child's
we have an allergy to step children because of the Cinderella
and things like that.
And that's not right. People with children need to marry other
people with children. Because what are they going to do now? You have
a child you never going to marry No. Step this we got to get rid of
this Cinderella step mom step evil step kids syndrome. Yes, of
course. You'll never be like your mom, but it is a type of mother.
Okay.
Our stream still starts at one it just got super late today.
Okay, so this idea of the stepchild is should not be
something that we really got to break the we are have a Christian
mentality towards marriage. You just have to marry it has to be
just this perfect 2.5 kids. And you have it's not how life works.
It's not how the life used to be.
Families like the blended family they talked about today. It's as
if they're talking about something new.
Always for go in our history you had
in laws for people living with each other in the same large
house. You had people with kids, you had steps on here, the
prophesy syndrome has a stepson, and he takes a dolly in the house.
And he has daughters in the house. So what does he do? They like
lived in different sides of the house. Right? Of course the rules
of Islam and hijab had not come yet. But later if they were to
come, alright, it's not the end of the world. You can have different
wings of the house.
Right, you have different wings, and you have certain times you
don't come out at this time. So because the sisters are going to
use the house at this time, right? So we have to be more flexible.
Also, economics are not allowing for this, this old way anymore.
The old ways it doesn't work anymore. Got this concept of every
family, every couple has to have their own home. The Economics of
life don't suit this anymore.
Right? And people need to be living, you need more people in
the house. And I think there's a bucket in that too. There's a lot
of Buttercup, there's a lot of depression that comes in a house
is like three people in it. Right?
You got a grandson here, a cousin here, a grandparent there, and
it's all mixed up. There's a lot of more Bucha there's more
sharing. And chances are somebody who's going to be having a good
day. Another person is having a bad day. And you want you cancel
each other out. Right? You lift up the one who's having a bad day.
Okay, the one who's having a great day. All right, calm it down a
little bit because not everyone's as happy as you so spread your
happiness and help others so there's a lot of Bucha
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So what are the profit do when he when the people were so at all, at
the messenger, he used to say little things to them here and
there that would come their hearts down. Like there's a famous Hadith
of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam, when he came upon a
little boy that he used to pass by regularly. This little boy, he had
a little bird. That was his pet bird every
time the prophet would see him, you'd see that bird that one day
saw the boy crying. So he said, What happened to your bird? He
said he he signaled with his hands that it flew away. Right? So the
Prophet obviously knew this. Just crying and he said, Yeah, oh my
God, my father know, right.
Right. Yeah, about oh, made my fat annoyed.
What did the little bird do? Right? And the boy said, it flew
away. So the Prophet would is asking a question that he knows
the answer to. Right. That's basically one of the ways that the
Prophet peace be upon him used to calm people down is asking him a
question that he knows the answer to. So and sometimes he would ask,
like funny questions to them. For example, one of his close to Hava
to him, I
can't remember who it was. He was sick. In his one I was was it was
like a sickness and whatnot. And he was eating dates. In the
province I sent him said you eat dates when you're sick. And when I
write, and he the, it's a joke, because there's nothing wrong with
that, right? So the, the man said, this hobby said, I'm meeting my
other eye. Right? So what's the point of that? It's just an
icebreaker. It's a show basically, that you don't you do not need to
be frayed. You don't need to be nervous. That's what the point of
such little exchanges are. It's like small talk and icebreakers.
Right?
People don't know how to do this, they suffer in life will lie they
suffer in life. They want to be friends with people, but they
don't know how to. And they imagine all speech must be
functional, right? You go up to somebody if you want to make an
icebreaker, right?
You just You just ask them a question about something, right?
Where'd you get that scarf. It's not like you're gonna buy when you
just, it's an icebreaker. And people have to know how to do
this. And people get far in life. They know how to melt the ice.
Right and calm the air a little bit. People who are sort of,
unfortunately I hate to say but more on the clueless side. They
imagine all speech has to be a functional of a functional
purpose. Right? And sometimes don't know how to take a joke. And
so that's what the prophets I send them is meant here when he says
kinda you love them for whom what you're best at boom. Right? He
used to talk to them and say these things to them just to break the
ice and make them feel at ease. Okay, Joe, and Caleb into mock
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this time, the Prophet used a rhyme to calm someone down. So
here, a woman came in. So Caleb into mahkamah She was there. She
said I was with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and
he was in a state of who sure in a gathering
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A woman another woman came in, okay.
Or she, Malcolm Taylor came in. Okay
so another woman came in, and she became so nervous in the presence
of the Prophet peace be upon him. Like she was so in awe of the
messenger Peace be upon. So kila said, O Messenger of Allah. Sorry,
a man's another man who was there said Oh, Mr. Allah, you You
scared. This poor woman, by your your your jaw.
And he called he described the woman as an Myskina or that l
Myskina you made this poor woman, this Myskina woman
afraid. So the province I sent him said, in order to calm her.
Yeah, Myskina our lake is second, which means he called her Myskina.
Myskina is like a, like a Miskin is like a poor woman doesn't mean
financially poor could be impoverished in any way.
And it's a word of sympathy. When you say someone's miskeen you're
sympathizing with them. So if you said Yeah, Myskina upon you is to
have you should have Sakina which is serenity. So he used like a
rhyme to lighten it up, right lighten the this woman's state
philam Carla, Carla, and have Allahu McKenna duckula kalbi Mina,
Rob, get.
So this was Kyla herself. She said, When the Prophet said those
words, all my fear of sitting in the presence of the Prophet is
gone.
I think this thing is, this is one of the features that in general is
totally missing from American culture. And it's part of it was
probably more present in old European culture, and really
globally, but the Americans have totally removed any sense of Heba.
And I have, I think that it's like a reverse response to it's like a
reverse response to
the excesses of the past maybe, but
there's no,
there's absolutely no
honor for people. Right? It's it's usually rare that people honor
other people. And in a sense, when if your parent was to come in,
like your dad was to come in, he's not going to be treated like
anyone else. Right? He's an older men, right? That type of thing
doesn't exist in American society. And it rubs off on people. And
you'll see people just calling each other by their first names. I
knew when I was growing up in
Elementary in high school, or our saw our captain,
we were on going to a game one time and he said, Oh, there's
Pete. He looks like he's coming to watch the game.
And it started off by being funny, but it started now like all all
the kids started calling the dads by their first name.
Right. But the Quran it says Yeah, buddy
rehab when I hear like respectful terms to the Father and the Son.
So that haga is foreign to us when we read that but it's something
that
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Someone behind him was making noise.
And he thought it was his son making noise behind him.
So he turned around with his whip
to hit his son.
I don't know what the situation the noise was bothering him,
right? He looked up, he found his the Prophet. So he got so
startled, he dropped his whip. Prophesy Samsung EVO Massoud,
Allah has more has power over you. In other words, be merciful to
these kids. Like you don't abuse your power here. Allah has greater
power over you. So here you have the Prophet advocating for for
mercy towards children, from strict parents, excessively strict
parents. In the east, the parents were excessively strict. In the
West. Now in the modern times, they're the opposite. The parents
need to call
the family Protective Services against their kids. That's how it
is today. And by the way, they changed it from Child Protective
Services to family Protective Services, from CPS to fps.
I'm not even kidding that some parents need to call FPS on their
kids, my kids is abusive, right? Because that's how far we swung
the other way. You go to the east, and I'm seeing CMP parents put
such absurd burdens on their kids.
That it's like, I'm surprised this kid is like hasn't had a stroke
from the ridiculousness and the absurdity of what the parents
expecting. And some of the parents are still living in the Old
Village era, where in the Old Village era, there's like
50 people in the whole village.
When you marry,
you only got an option of three people. So they just match you up,
aren't you? You're gonna marry her. Right? You're like seven,
eight years old, like, Okay. And then five years later, they're
like, Alright, it's time for you to marry. Right? And in the back
of your mind. That's the woman you're going to marry. You saw her
once, maybe, then fast forward next generation. They're sort of
in the cities, but they still got that mentality. They bring the sun
instance on you're gonna get married. And what? Yes, here she
is a black and white picture of her. You're gonna then there's the
other families doing the same thing. Fast forward, and we're in
America, and they're still doing this.
Some of my friends had to go through that. And I'm like, What
world? Are What world are you living in, run away from home,
run, run to, to California to Florida.
They're marrying you by force. What? In an era that your kid grew
up on HBO and went to public American high schools, and you
just like forcibly being married to a woman from home or the
opposite? A woman and they're telling her your husband, you're
gonna be importing your husband, that you're going to live with the
rest of your life run away from home.
What? And they did it
and maybe one out of 10
was okay.
Got lucky.
But I've seen a lot of kids like literally, I remember being in the
student center. And we'd like counseling the kid
I couldn't believe it. Right.
So that that in the east that toughness in the East maybe at
some people here on the chat are saying that's gone. Right. They're
saying that's gone in the east. It's all the same now.
No, chaos. So excess in the east and access in the West. But it
seems that the West has dominated now. And now you have complete
informality people and I think that's the that's the penalty the
penalty of not being. Not having Taqwa is that Allah to Allah
causes your own children not to not to have any piety towards you.
A manure Rania as for the the light of the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa salam. This is two things that the province I sudden
was covered with. It was covered with this Haibo but it was also
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is know what to do to a person when light enters the heart, it
decreases naturally it has an impact of decreasing your worldly
desires.
your passions and worldly desires tend to be all decreased greatly.
When new enters the heart, all worldly desires, they tend to
decrease when node enters the heart and that is one of the
values and purposes of note entering the heart. And that's one
of the signs that its light has entered the heart and not
something else. Because oftentimes people they may imagine something
like the light of Allah subhanaw taala what is it? It's like a
state that I'm in? No, that state has to have descriptions, you can
have a lot of caffeine.
How do you know what state you're in? Right? The state that you're
in, is essentially if the if it's light from Allah subhanaw taala
then your worldly desires decrease your desires for the afterlife and
thinking about spiritual matters increase and you begin to
literally prepare for death. God literally, you're starting to
prepare for death tilba making things right with people having
debt, paying your debts off. Things like that.
red cheeks I want to learn how to reduce my worldly desires. You can
you can reduce your worldly desire they'll reduce by themselves by
the increase of remembrance of Allah. If you increase in vicar
Your knifes calms down. It's almost like
when How do you calm it down a dog, a wild dog, you don't beat
it. You agitating it more. When you do that, you decrease the
dog's food.
And you may make some mellow sounds or whatever. Right? That
would cause the dog to be calm. Right? And that's something that
for us, it's the remembrance of Allah subhana wa Victrola this guy
and it's going to take time.
Okay.
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monsoon Bill Fattah. When the Prophet was born, his mother saw a
light and that allowed her to see the palaces of Shem. But what does
that mean?
Why Shem? That's because the light of this teaching will reach him
more than any other place. Shem is the area where the not this
knowledge has been more consistent for longer than any other place.
And there's not a place in the world. I would say that Aki that
has been more consistently taught properly, and Lulu have
consistently been been found. Then the land of Shem and Shem refers
to Damascus and specific than everything else around it in
general. Shem has a special place in the seat of the prophets that
allows him always talks about Syria
which is it is Damascus in particular, and and the rest of
Syria in general.
What did the Prophet who did the prophets I said and what we saw
about sham and Yemen right? Well, who's suffering right now? Who's
being purified? They're being purified. Shem in Yemen, what are
the prophesy Salam warring against nudged
the Gulf, the spine of the Arabian Peninsula and which includes the
Gulf countries
who today has all the dunya around them? The Gulf countries Okay.
When the man would have been too heavy, he knew Rania Jaffe hadith
of Ronnie whare Aina and Nora Aquila, Julian P Sabu. Says as if
Nora is entering
from his house. Now we still start at one by the way, the live stream
so start at one just got late today.
Light light entering from the mouth of the prophet Seisen. Well,
magia is now best and that's the color Mara wrote we can know react
Raju min BNF. And this is if a light comes out of him.
Let's stop here.
Or we can read one more. Couple more Majah. Have you had an
attorney at
law who know Ron yalu, he always had a light
prophet was face was always filled with a woman
See, he says here that many of the ignorant think that this means he
has his body was issuing light beams. And this is not what the
meaning of light coming from the prophesy sentiments.
That's a well, it's a misunderstanding.
The prophet is not like a lamp that was walking with light rays
coming out him. He's saying here. This is what he's saying. Lumba
caruba Iya he calls it right there's not It's not like a lamp a
light bulb.
Right? No, it wasn't like that.
Yes, he says, lemon and dynamin and no kodjia Vermin who we don't
deny that it's possible the province is setting them that
light could have come from him physically. But this is not what
they mean when they say notice coming from him. Okay, because
light can come from plastic light can come from metal light come
from from copper, whatever it is. Well, that can have the leg Kulu
diamond in the back window and that Hagerty and but when physical
light came from him was not the normal state he meant that it was
in certain states when it was needed. Okay.
What is meant by this light is
As that the hearts of the people were calmed
towards the dunya. And they desired with what is with Allah
subhanaw taala
they desired Allah subhanaw taala This is that's what was meant that
you were affected by the messenger peace be upon him. So what they
meant by that
he says that anytime the light had a physical appearance that was the
one off module is a one off miracle the prophets I send him
but that's when they meant that, that the prophet had a light with
him. And what they meant is that it touched their heart was
constantly touching their heart and come that's what's more
important. A light, I can get you a light right here, right? Abby
Vollmer says when Toby has no hair on his face, he said, someone
could go put some cream on their face and you could look bright.
That's not the point. The point is that when that person is with
others, their desire to disobey Allah just decreases, it's like
gone. And their desire to draw nearer to the Creator increases.
That's the true meaning of it. That's the impact of the light.
That's the result of that now, we do believe that there is an unseen
it's like an unseen nor
it's physically unseen, but it's perceived spiritual and that's
effect
the desire to be an obedient so Allah to be in our orbit properly
with Allah subhanaw taala.
And that's what's more important than a physical lamp, like light.
Okay.
All right, and we are done with this. So
we can now open up and take some of your comments and questions
today.
Is Palestine and Lebanon part of Shem? Yes, no doubt about that.
But in the general element of the general abode of Shem is all of
those four countries Syria, Lebanon, Palestine,
and
Jordan to that's also part of Shin
Jordan is a sort of split
question from chocolate Wallah. I was playing Snakes and Ladders
with my daughter when I got scolded by cousin who leans like
selfie. Die skate bass games are haram. Yes, they're dice based
games in our religion are between haram and mcru. Between haram and
mcru different scholars say different things, for the simple
reason that
Allah to Allah does not want us to get used to games of chance.
Allah does not love us to be involved in games of chance,
because then you get used to chance. Okay, this question from
Instagram says, Why did Hannah fees do if dot A few minutes after
everyone else?
I don't think that that's anything in Hanafi FIP. I think that has to
do with maybe they don't trust the clock, or the calendar that's
being used.
Maybe that's what it's all about.
Okay.
All right. Let's go back to YouTube. Oh, memoriam? Which place
is the best place in the world to study? The knowledge of Deen
currently right now, I would say that if, if it has to do with our
lead up, then an Hanafi FIP. Then the best place is probably turkey.
Because of the Syrian scholars that are there.
And it's accessible and it's easy to use, easy to go to. It's easy
to deal with. If you want to talk about having a heart filled with
light and and and literally studying everything about the
messenger SallAllahu sallam. It's a study I would say
if it's if the Quran
Mauritania but you can't go there. It's really too hard. Morocco
Mauritania, Morocco you can go to have some Quran their schools
there are powerful
but here's the Quran is everywhere really helps here.
Yeah, you do have here we have some graduates not from yet from
our his academy program. But we do have local graduates who doesn't
hear the Quran very well.
How should I approach my non Muslim parents funeral? You should
go to it. And you should bury them. But you're not going to bury
them in the Muslim grave or you just bury them regularly. You go
there you just you're not allowed to make dua obviously, but you
just respectfully bury them.
Amira love says can you explain as recently a female judge, Nadia
cuff is was appointed and it's King
condemned, because females being kadhi is makuu. However, in the
past scalars, we have seen plenty female of jerk, plenty of female
jurists. So a jurist is different from a judge a jurist gives
rulings on God's religion. A judge would have to enforce penalties.
And that's where the Cydia, it forbids for women to enforce the
head penalties, okay, and to enforce financial penalties that
would
come upon people and destroy them, essentially. And the * does
not want the woman to have to do that to somebody else, because it
could affect her. Right? that someone's going to get executed.
And then that they have a child's right. Shinya does not want that
burden on the heart of a woman. Yeah, you have to execute a lot of
stuff in society. It's they're bad. They're nasty duties, but
their duties you do them, you don't like them. But that's the
attribute that a man should have is that he should be able to be a
person of duty. I don't want to get up in the morning, but I have
no choice. I don't want to have to execute this person. But I have to
have no choice. I don't want to have to do this, that or the
other. But I have to, because she does not want that burden on
women. That Okay, so and so execute this person. But he's got
a wife, Scott, a little daughter, right? Well
chutiya does not want that burden upon women. And that's one of the
reasons why
those rules exist regarding being judges and they're different
within the city or within the different methods.
Until when can we pray a shot? Well, it's valid until Fajr. But
you're sinful if you delay it past half the night for no reason.
Okay.
Next question, we'll take rapid fire, how should I?
How can we make more stronger connection with Allah, read about
read the Quran with contemplation remember Allah much and read
Stories of the Prophets. Glitter, I lost a friend recently to cancer
and I'm suffering from the same disease every time I make dua for
my Shiva, I hear words to that she asked Allah for Shiva, she has a
love for Shiva. But, but that doesn't mean that now now everyone
who asked Allah for suffer from cancer is going to die because
your friend died. That logic doesn't make any sense.
Okay, you work on your Tilak by knowing that Allah obligated you
to have a good opinion of him and obligated you to believe that dua
is going to be answered. If you don't fulfill that precondition,
then that's the reason your dog doesn't get answered.
And he bases to folding prayer mats after you're done praying,
the only basis that I see is that nobody walks on with their shoes.
That's it, you fold up the prayer mat so it stays clean. Because
what's the point? The point is that you don't want your forehead
going where there could be fungal infections, there could be all
sorts of nasty things on the ground, chemicals that were used
to clean the ground, etc. So you pray on a mat. Okay. And you don't
know where other people walked on the rugs. Now, the Sahaba didn't
have rugging in the masjid the way we do.
And hence didn't didn't have infects unclean rocks. So if you
pray on something, the value of the reason that you'd fold it up
is not anything spiritual, something physical,
practical, so nobody walks on it. And then you prostrate where they
walked with their bare feet. And the cloth receives it holds dust
and it holds sweat differently than dirt, ton of the muscle, the
profit was dirt. The wind comes, moves it around, purifies it and
the maybe funguses didn't sit in the same way as they would sit on
a rug. So that's why this Hubbard did not pray on ever pray on
rocks. They didn't need to. But if we are on the world of rugs, and
you got people walking barefoot, and you got people who were in the
bathroom, made who do went and wore flip flops that 20 Other
people were
and then come walked in the masala
who knows what the heck is in that rug, right?
And unfortunately, you go to a public mosque not everyone's
toilet trained. I'm telling you, we seen it. We're unclogging
toilets all day. People are not toilet trained. Do not
underestimate or overestimate this fact. Okay, so who the heck knows
what's going on on these rugs. So you get your own prayer mat for
Tato you're gonna make sujood
40 times in 20 Doctors
right
20 Doctors you're gonna make some dude 40 times if each said you add
Aisha 48 times add Sunnah 50 times add chef and which
50 plus 656 times
if each Sexta is what if 10 seconds. So do the math now 20
minutes, maybe 15 minutes your head forehead is going to be on
that rug. So if you have a doubt in your mind that the message
didn't vacuum didn't clean up on your own rug. That's okay for you
to do know how much okay?
So you fold it up because it may have you know,
may not be clean. That's it.
Oh, the germaphobes are crazy.
So, you don't even have to take a prayer mat itself. A handkerchief
is enough. Your hands don't need a masala. Right? Your knees don't
need it.
A handkerchief is enough. If if you have a doubt about your
Masjid. That's it or if it's a strange place you don't know. So
that's a difference between our time in the province, some of the
province time they were praying unsent and that wind is moving it
around and it's always cleaned.
The Saracen says yesterday you said that health insurance haram
but necessary. What about life insurance? Life insurance is not
No, it's not of the same necessity. There's no There's no
necessity for life insurance. So it remains to be heard on.
What is the meaning of Mushrikeen being nervous? No, we it's
manually. It's it's it's in in there. Our feeder is false. That's
what it means. It does not mean. So for example, if
Let's hypothetically say my mother needs me to hold her hand, she's
not a Muslim, let's say. And I'm praying is my prayer valid from
holding the hand of a woman who is not a Muslim? Yes, it's valid,
because that's not an adjusted that we mean, the Quran does not
mean that they are physically nudges. Okay? They're not
physically not just there. They may be
physically nudges in the sense that they never tick to Hatha yet
that so their job, right, but that's different. Their job, but
not just meaning their octina is, is false. I'm forced to take life
insurance, I'm forced to pay. If you're forests, you're not taken
to account on what you're forced to do.
You're not taking into account on something you are forced to do.
And if they forcibly give it to you, well, that's a gift from
them. Not my choice. It's a gift from them, you can take
I'm developing a cold at what point would an excuse from fasting
went to the point that you literally you cannot fast anymore
and you have to take some kind of medicine or tea or something like
that.
You have to judge that. I tried reading the Quran doing Vicodin
sleeping on Vudu but I have really bad dreams often any tips keep it
up. It's not going to just stop right away from one time or two
times or three times or five times you have to keep it up. You have
to also keep it up. You just keep doing that. And hopefully, the
vicar will shine a light in your heart and in your mind, that light
will point you to the reason that you're having these bad dreams.
The reason you have mentioned maybe you did something bad to
somebody, maybe you're afraid of something. The vicar Licola one of
its benefits is that it shines a light
and that light. The more light you have, the more you can see the
problems
and then you could fix the problem. So keep it up.
All the dunya doors in my life are shut and I'm very sad. It's
getting very hard
menjaga hum Mahala Lamelo Shimla that's my advice. Whoever makes a
loss of Hana which out of their concern Allah get collects their
affairs
make a lot out of your chief concern.
And Allah collects your affairs. This is a Hadith of the Prophet
sallallahu menjaga hemma Hola.
LEM Allahu Shimla.
So, look into what act of obedience you're doing that or
obligation that you're short, you're coming up short on,
look at the
prohibitions, see if you're fulfilling any of them. Clean up
shop do a deep, clean accounting of
Have yourself okay?
An accounting of yourself to take yourself to account
in a deep way,
take yourself to account
and
there's a book of FIP act upon it.
And then there must there must be a change, it has to change is
impossible for Allah to that promises not to be true. Allah's
promises are 1,000% True. It is impossible as promised not to be
true.
What is this mmm, just a general turbine. Nothing special about it
just a general turbine.
I like it's easy to wear.
I shaved my head during normal.
Wedding your lips with your tongue does not break the fast now. Me
and my husband always talk about our plan to go for the dodo and
Teddy. May Allah give you the tofield now start taking action.
The talk becomes action, then you're good.
The Qadiani is no they're not Muslims, they believe in another
prophet after the Prophet homes. What book were you reading from
Muhammad Ali and sanel. Kevin by said Muhammad, Allah Allah in
America. How do you make the most of ombre during Ramadan? By the
way, you're only allowed to do one ominous so really make the most of
it.
Like actual hombres, you're allowed to do one. I guess the
other brothers are going to try to sneak I'm sure Ryan is going to
have tricks. Right?
He did three already. You get three no but and Ramadan. And
Ramadan. And Ramadan. And by the way, that is the medical opinion
is that you when you go for a trip, you only do one number. You
don't get back and forth, back and forth. You do to off after that.
But
how to make the best of your time is is this as simple decrease of
distractions and increase of a bed. Keep it simple. That's it.
Or the bidder that shaytaan preys on the mat if you don't fold it.
That's why they fold the corner.
You're going to transmit stuff like that. You need some evidence.
You fold the mat so that no one walks there. That's what makes
sense.
That's it. Kids like our
culture thing too. But like my parents used to tell me that the
same thing like gentle pray and then like when you grow up, you're
like, Wait, why can't they just pray anyway? That's true. What
what does it do you just gonna pray right beside? That's true.
I know. It doesn't make any sense. Does it make any sense?
She thought dances on it. She's done urinates on it. Whatever.
Things are going bad for somebody, always they're going terrible. Try
to say to yourself, What is Allah message that Allah is sending me
here? Am I doing something wrong? That's the way you solve these
problems. All things are from a ladle, try to solve the individual
problems you try to go to the source. Am I doing something that
is contradictory to fifth? Am I doing something that that is
contradictory to what Allah wants? I go study my fifth again, I
revise, I go look at my relationships is my relationship
with my parents good or bad? Right. That's those are the things
you need to to try to fix up. And you have to have the belief that
you must have the belief that
if I get things right with Allah subhanaw taala, he will make
things right in my dunya you must must must believe that cannot
believe anything less than that.
No,
I just like to look at it.
You must believe that you cannot possibly accept for yourself
anything less.
If I get things right with ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. Things must
change in my life. This is a rule.
Some people reject Joomla as a source.
First of all, where is it Jamel it Jim out is only upon speculative
versus
when all of the which heads Imams have the same conclusion on the
meaning of a speculative verse that's it
that's it
okay
can you explaining the ruling of closed below the end
Dinkles Yes, only out of arrogance, the prophets I said
them made it very clear that it's only out of arrogance, that that
is sinful.
Right? Only out of arrogance that it's sinful if it's not done out
of arrogance, and it's just a culture of everyone's pants looks
like this. That's not the problem here. What about if a woman is on
high or NFS? postpartum bleeding can how does what is your status
with the Quran when the medical opinion
Janessa is self imposed and exited by yourself Geneva when a man and
woman have relations
they did that on their own
and they can exit it on their own it's by choice.
So Geneva
you cannot recite the Quran in general except in evidence or
would like citing an evidence or what cannot do testimonia of Quran
or Sakura? Okay, so that's Ginebra higher than if s are different in
mathematics at height is something that is from Allah subhanaw taala
it's not something that is a woman's choice, okay. And it is
something that she should not be disallowed to recite the book of
Allah because of but what she cannot do is hold the Quran so she
cannot hold the most have she can read from a tablet. She can read
from a phone she could read from
a Tafseer as long as the Tafseer does not have to
go that's the rule in the medical school on women and and hide and
the recitation of the Quran
what if I pray eight loggers in total with no problem? Eight rock
guys for rock cars two cars 20 cars 36 cars no no any number of
rock as you do between Asia and between the time you sleep counts
for you as totally
sedima son says please answer the question type where is it? I don't
see it
what is said my son saying that he wants us to answer
now I can't see the question so send it again
what is that right and read thing that says Allah Allah
just noticed yesterday that we're CISM can we wear chapstick during
the fast yes but not a flavored one and you cannot and you cannot
lick it and swallow it not that anyone does that but
were the batteries Malachy originally no they're always show
up
it's just remembered had dead who said if it was not dead with the
setup I would have followed medic in waters in the rules of water
in the rules of water let's talk about tumeric and fill Mia
in the UK day six of Ramadan has been completed
modulations
Allah taka Birmingham woman Naja Mian
can we keep a dog in America welcome? No. That's a common
misconception. Just because we don't hold the dog saliva as
nudges
does not mean we can hold a dog in the house we cannot keep a dog in
the house
that is strictly forbidden. And the
the
the Bedouins the farmers they have different rules than us. For
Bedouins and farmers. They don't have closed doors the way city
people do. If you actually go to the Bedouin and the farmers that
their their homes are just like the doors are always open. Walking
in with muddy shoes. It's different. So Bedouins and farmers
they live with the dog for functional purposes. And as a
result the dog come in the house out of the house. It's not like
they're keeping a pet dog that dogs a shepherd
or for the nomads the dogs like protection for them, right.
Dogs coming into the house all the time. Right and that's not a
problem. But city folks are different
than all that to keep a dog in the house.
melodica don't like so they don't enter Simple as that.
is a common thing. It's under Setup and obesity. Clearly
forbidden for non farm for the people who live as it
in homes with closed doors the way we do that nomads they live in
tents, they don't have homes. Wherever they go they Prop A tent.
That's not a home. Right? The the farmers homes, not like the
farmers that from Kansas USA. I'm talking about the farmers that
hardcore farmers, right? Hardcore farmers.
There's Shepherd dogs and sheep walking and chicken. Have you ever
been to these places? I had a blast. It's like you guys live
like this. There's a chicken walking in your living room. What
the heck, right? It's, it's, it's a blast, I'm telling you, right? I
could not. It's so
it was a surreal experience for me to see how and this is back in
219 99, I think. And I went I spent some time in the farmlands
of Egypt.
There was like animals just walking around everywhere. And the
part of the home where they first enter in, it's like every
everyone, it's like public, even the animals are coming in and out.
Right? Something else. Something else different way of living
different rules.
So Selma Sun asked your question, again, as Lily Rose is saying,
because
is it about 18 degrees and 15 degrees?
Yeah, go ahead and go by 18 degrees when it comes to them.
Don't think there is I personally hold that 18 degrees has is has
more reason to be followed. But I can't tell you that the 15 degrees
is invalid either. Mina says ceremony was the ruling of gender
boundaries. There are free mixing community if doors Well, the
prohibition the gathering itself becomes forbidden. When the bodies
are touching. When it's so jammed, that the bodies are touching.
The Gathering itself that's that's forbidden when the bodies are
touching. The action that's forbidden is looking for pleasure
to a person looking at another woman for pleasure and that which
would lead to that
such as talk that has no need
what advice would you give someone with despondent heart in this
month because of recent ordeals.
You can transform your despondence into positivity if you realize
that all tribulations and everything that cuts into your
soul.
That cut a seed could be planted in there and a tree can grow out
of that all panes of the soul will have if you handle it properly if
you say that this is a test from ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada How am I
going to respond? I'm going to return to a lot on this never
happens that you get tested with a hardship turn to Allah
after that hardship with your broken heart.
And that Allah to Allah does not cause a beautiful fruit to come
out of that meaning something that you will love and enjoy that will
come out of that that will be a Tajweed or a compensation for what
you lost and suffered. This is a mathematical equation with Allah
subhanaw taala guarantee and end Elmo Casio Raja Kuru boom and
actually, I'm with the brokenhearted ones. When they come
to me in editing meaning when they come to me, brokenhearted
can go many ways. brokenhearted turned to Allah with that there is
no way it is not possible. Say gravity
that you turn to Allah with that broken heart except that ALLAH
Tata will be and don't be stubborn. So did I do something
wrong? Was I the cause of this? You have to do that introspection
to Did I do something haram Did I do something wrong? There there's
different in wrong and haram right?
Not paying your taxes on time then getting smashed with a fine, the
Haram is wrong. It was stupid. It's not haram there could be
something some there's nothing wrong and I got his act Did I do
something wrong that I somehow and take that heart and bring it to
Allah Tada
you will find a good result sooner or later guarantee you guaranteed
it's not even a discussion.
Okay.
Trimming the beard and medical method. Medical method requires
you to have anything that this Muslim society would call a beard
and it is first
and some even said as a son
can Hanafi pray behind thematically I don't know as the
Hanafi is but it should be fine all the methods can pray behind
each other.
Um, but I've been to had a question here that we,
oh, I'm gonna begin to do one decent Qadiani is not even close.
Now the deobandis are 100 V group, and the Qadiani Zurich effort
group.
They believe in another prophet after the prophets, I said, not
even a can.
There's no comparison between the two except that they both come
from the subcontinent. That's it. That's the only similarity that
they have with each other. What's your opinion on homeschooling for
Muslim kids?
You got to have some, they got to have a big family to do that. One,
two kids staying home all day. I mean, that's just
I feel bad for the kids. To be quite honest with you, then you
need more social interactions. So you can homeschool and join and
fill the schedule the rest of the day with activity so yeah, that's
fine. So from nine to one, you're going to do your schooling, but
then from like 2pm, three all the way down, you have different
activities. That's where you socialize. That's that at least
you compensated right compensated with it. It's not one way to
socialize in life. There's many ways to socialize and life and if
you all your option is public school that homeschooling is your
only option. You can't go to school with these
like openly teaching about encouraging
things that are haram for us.
Hugh Lodi says you commit a sin while fasting. Is your fast count
valid Yes, your sinful But the past is valid. There is a concept
in Islamic law and worship of sinful but valid if I steal your
prayer mat and I pray on it
the prayer is valid to stuff to sinful
What is the reason nutritional injections don't break the fast no
they do break the fast if they energize you they break the fast
how do I manage time and Ramadan is passing very quickly well every
day first thing you do in the morning is try to open your most
up and read you're just remember the prophets I send them was read
every month of Ramadan Santa God would read the entire Quran with
the Prophet sighs
So
that's what you should aim for.
As a Maliki sad, can you pray behind a Braille V?
A Braille viz optina is probably no different than a shoddy
athlete.
And we were artificial lenses. Yes, you can. So there is no
reason why you cannot pray behind a real V.
What should be told to Hanafy women?
If she asked me why I don't miss any lessons from my Quran, she's
Hanafy and can't do that. If I tell them that I'm in the medical
opinion, you just have to tell her that you're following the medical
opinion. That's it.
You have to say, follow the medical opinion Rama medica on the
subject. It's not an issue for us.
How do you stop overthinking about certain issues that may or may not
occur
while you think about what you do want to occur, and that becomes a
type of diet for you. Right? You think about what you do want to
occur
What about if you live in New York? Can you get a dog for
protection? If you live in New York, you're gonna need more than
a dog.
If you live in New York
Steve says please tell me once again, regarding me as so called
Hanafy can ignore impure clothes I nearly understood No, in the
medical opinion. They do have a strong opinion, that taharah
Harbeth removing the Jessa from your clothes is a son.
That's a strong opinion. And consensus has become that it is a
fault if you remember and if you're able to do it.
Okay, so if you
hypothetically, let's
Say our living in a place.
Or let's say you're a nurse, or a surgeon. And the prayer time comes
and you're covered in blood, it's not physically possible for you to
remove this ninjetta or you're a butcher at work. So the could that
is not there. It's not physically possible. So you can pray,
regardless of that blood. That's an example of the phrase
madhavikutty What Qudra
by remembering, or by being able.
Should we perfume the prayer mat less in Ramadan? In the daytime,
it is makuu according to the Maliki school to sniff nice
things, because it's considered a patch a Shaohua. Desire, McCrone
How do you guys in the US not fear for your lives when there are
shootings happening every day?
Now, the blue hairs and the pink haired and the workpiece are now
carrying the guns so let's just start see where that goes in life.
Yeah, yeah. Now the woke is due now.
Shazia says when do you know when to stop making dua for something
when you stop wanting it? Remember, don't it's about your
desire. No one's forcing you.
If you want it, you wait for it. That's the truth. If you truly
one, you will wait for it. Okay, I told you that I met people who
dealt with situations for for 15 years. And how they get How'd they
get through it? 15 years waiting, waiting, waiting. And they got
through it. And they got what they wanted.
It's a simple question of desire. Do you have the desire, then you
will wait for it.
Okay. If you want something, you will wait for it. That's the sign
that you want. And then when it comes, it's going to come from
Allah after that. You won't do anything.
Alright, Peralta says if I married a job for a year, she's Cherie
I ematic in my household then becomes medically, well, you
should worry about being sunny first before Maliki because the
Java these have Arpita that is not accepted for us. So you Okay,
marry the sister you're going to tell us in the condition that this
marriage this is a Sunni household and you're a Sunni woman. No.
Okay, yeah, I'm so new woman. Okay, then say nice things about
our bucket and Omar donation. Oh, Mashallah. They're wonderful.
They're Rajala Juan. Okay, you're gonna say it every day in this
marriage. Right? Until my heart settled. But, but Joffrey FIP.
Also has I don't know if they're, they're a bad debt are valid in
the form of hubs. But your your real situation is the Aqeedah.
That's your bigger problem. Not only that, there's pragmatics. Now
she's close to her family. Right? And your grandkids are gonna get
babysitted by them. All right. Listen, no messages, no religious
talk. You're not going to the CHE mosque. And I don't want to
religious talk. You don't teach them the deen. You can wipe clean
diapers play merry go rounds, roll the ball. Play with Lightning
McQueen. Do all that fun stuff with your grandkid do not teach
them the DNI teach in the dean. You lay down that line once and
you're good to go. And you lay down that line every once in a
while.
If you have such fallen in love with this shear, you convert into
Alessandra she converted from Sherry to Sunni fine. We're not
going to stop the brother, right from Mary. But put the lines down
clear so that your life can be easy. Like listen, you have your
dean, I have my dean. We're not having an interfaith or an
interfaith do not invite me. I will not invite you. It's just too
awkward, right? Just put a line. Hey, we can do other things
together. We can go out to eat. We can go watch, you know, do
something nice. Right? What is he going to do with your in laws
besides eating? What is there to do? What's up with in laws besides
eating? We can go to the beach. We could go to New York City. We
could go to London, we could go to find nice things to do with your
in laws. So you have good relations with them.
But there's a line. Okay. And this discussion is best done.
Between the debts.
You and her debt. Practical people? Listen. You got your dean,
I got my dean. I'm going to take care of your daughter. Just let's
not get involved with the dean. Simple as that. Have that one
frank conversation one time. You don't have to have it again. But
not avoid that conversation. Okay.
And you're going to be living this odd, you know, dance that you're
going to be doing and it's just going to be weird. Okay.
So
Psalm
a brother is asking when a person has emotional insula and tears are
flowing from his eyes and his nose.
Yeah, you can wipe it.
You can wipe your eyes. No problem with them
praying behind selfies Yeah. But the only problem is,
if they are explicit Ted seem
then no. Rashid Ahmed says is complaining to Allah about our
problems being ungrateful? No.
Not at all. You may complain to Allah all you want, it is not
considered lack of gratitude, who else you're going to complain to?
You can you can complain to him because he could change things.
complaining to people is no good. Because they can't do anything
free. It's a waste of time to complain to people, waste of time,
we can't do anything.
Can we have a double intention for reading the Quran for our own
Cutsem and someone else
but you will benefit from the Quran anyway. But you intend the
reward to go to another person and that person has have died as a
Muslim?
What should one do if they have no motivation to study the secular
sciences?
Well, you could get motivated
by looking at people
who succeeded in that science, and look at how they live and look at
what they can do and what could you do with that money? Right. So
get yourself motivated. And sometimes some things don't need
motivation. We have duty, right? There's duty
but nonetheless, if you're one of those types of people who need to
be juiced up look at the success stories in that field. It did it
guys
they don't go to work they work on a laptop all day. They could they
come here and work at not nothing but facts. They come to the studio
and they're working right clicking away. They go to the masjid they
sit on the site click away so there's a lot of perks to getting
such a job. So look at the people who succeeded in that field and
find someone that you want to be like
okay
is sleeping a prerequisite for tahajjud yes you sleep before you
pray touch
what Mina says What if the if DoD have brothers and sisters lined up
food together
at the table so in line together in front and back and front and
back? That's not right. There should be a sisters line and a
brothers line.
There should be a sisters line and a brothers line.
Memory loss what to do if it's really bad. Now this is medical.
Go see medical professional. Please Like to stream and support
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Can you tell me regarding height for the Hanafis
I do nearly everything the Hanafi way. But Hayden is shahada I need
help with the Maliki mother.
Okay, you can be Maliki in height why not? Nothing wrong with that.
No problem with that.
Melody 21
remote is sending a reminder, the word of Allah is guaranteed say to
yourself 1000 times the Promise of Allah is guaranteed. Allah does
not play tricks. Allah does not take anything away from a moment
and that moment reacts well to that taking away doesn't mean he's
not crying does not mean he's not said but he didn't utter words
about Allah and he turned to Allah Tada with his sadness, you will
get something 10 times better. It is a guarantee. Repeat it to
yourself that Allah does not lot does not tell say tricks. He does
not tell you lies he does not play games with us. And he does not he
always fulfills His promises.
This is more certain than the law of gravity.
Is it Tada we are Tada we
say it is asking Tata we to feta, feta.
In the magic school says Sarah say Yoda what
Are other Santa Monica we must we need to perform which that's it
from the robotic from the prayers revolving every day that we do
every day, which chef out is a prerequisite of or precondition of
completeness, but not validity. If you prayed one doctor by itself
it's witch, but she's not complete you need to get to before that as
an affiliate, the second most important pseudonym or aka to pray
every single day you can never miss it is soap the rock it will
fetch the two records of fetch
two records before fetch and they are fed to her only
no sooner.
Couple more questions before we wrap up.
What do you do if I'm at a mix? If Todd and a random brother tried to
make small talk and I feel uncomfortable?
Salam Alaikum Alaikum salam that's maximum like what else is there?
Right unless you like have some connection and say oh house, so
and so. Whatever, somebody can wake him up, unless there is a
reason to talk. Right? There could be reasons right.
But
Steve says thank you I was worried about till Philip Telfair likewise
the sister above that says I was forced to pick and choose that's
not picking and choosing if there's a reason it's not picking
and choosing if there is a reason to dip into another school of
thought that's why they exist to solve hardships upon us. You
should not feel guilty about that. Picking and Choosing is when
you're lazy. And your neffs is involved. Okay.
hamdulillah
hamdulillah
read short at Saba hispana because Allah often in your Salah to
strengthen your memory because ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada says in that
Surah Senju Sanlucar it will give alert answer.
Okay.
Hellas razor says this she a sister What if she does Sophia the
whole time they're married. That's the problem.
Renew
I want to attend lectures, I feel conflicted. But the organization
does too much free mixing.
Okay, even the line for if DoD is men and women.
Either don't go or you go and you just avoid everyone else. Like the
lines at ShopRite and Trader Joe's are and Stop and Shop and all
those lines and Macy's and all those lines are mixed to right. So
we could avoid if you have to be there like you never you're
there's no other way to get any Islamic environment accept this,
then you find a way to avoid it right. So either that or you don't
go at all. You have to make that judgment call.
What are the two students of Abu Hanifa well,
we'll use of Al khaldi and Muhammad ibn Al Hassan a che Benny
it's Mohammed ibn Al Hassan a che Benny
Okay.
Those are the two shoe that
derive from a Rouhani
Zedi Shiai It's haram to marry them. Yes, It's haram to marry
them upside down It's haram to pray behind them
is arguing a lot haram? Yes, it is.
What if it's about sports? Yes, still.
Still, any argumentation takes hearts away from each other. Okay,
argumentation takes the hearts away from each other
what's one thing I could do this Ramadan to elevate my Eman and
think well of Allah? Well, very quickly it is
the dua during tahajjud
when you wake up first of all, even if you don't eat so hold on,
you're not fasting even the dua of turgid
are we blurry?
Or we've learned
we're good
How can you read the difference between waiting and your dot not
being accepted? The prophets I send them said your DUA is not
accepted.
When you stop making it
okay, you start Jabalia. decom lumea agile, you will get your
answer
Okay?
Provided and so long as you are not rushing it they say what is
rushing at home messenger of Allah the prophets I send them said it
is that a person says I asked and I didn't get an answer and I
stopped making Dawn
as long as you're asking the doors open
can Elia inspired with knowledge of the future events for people
that they gaze upon? It is possible yes, it's possible for
Willie to know about a person's past or future if Allah shows it
to them, it's called mocha.
For example, sin Abu Bakar had mocha for about his wife that
she's going to have another girl
so when save say number vaker set would say Isha. And he said,
This is your portion of the inheritance and this is the
portion of you and your two sisters said it she said I only
have one sister Esma he said no, your mother's pregnant and she's
going to have a girl
smoke cassava.
The link tree in the Instagram bio Tiktok doesn't lead to the screen
cited page. All right, we'll have to have the Shut up fix though. I
don't know how to I don't know how to do this. I don't know how to
play tic tock. I never been on tick tock. I had tic tac for about
a week. And that was reps.
Is a recite compulsory to recite the Quran with Tajweed
suits and fats as compulsory. You don't have to know the rules of
Tajweed but you have to recite it with Tajweed.
How should we just do Salah on a long flight? That's one of the big
no as you just pray it at the time that's out the window. So you look
out the window if you see feathers in you prefetch you look out the
window if you see it's dark, then you pray Maghrib and Isha.
Can most of them
is taking a nap or sleep a prerequisite for brains
to hedge it has the the the attribute that you woke up for it.
So you should sleep a little bit for touch.
enough that it was a heavy sleep that you felt like you had to wake
up. How do you inculcate the love of serving in teenagers who just
want to laze around and are happy to be served by elders. This is
Susie Elara. This I have very little tolerance for this stuff.
You don't need to love to serve, you're going to serve. You're
going to serve
no tolerance for this stuff.
Lazy being served get up. You want to get hit. Do you love to not get
hit? That should be your motivation. Subhanallah
Adam is not something that's going to be something that you're going
to enjoy you enjoy it later on in life. You enjoy the security of
not getting yelled at and scolded and chased around. Okay?
No tolerance for this stuff. Get up, move the chairs.
You
grab grandma going around cleaning up the kitchen table from a
thought and you're sitting on your butt. Oh my goodness. Even in our
masjid, if an old man gets up and he's moving the chair, one of the
youth is gonna get up
you don't have to be happy doing everything. That's the rule. But
you have to do it. It's called the duty or responsibility
is to be happy. You think I'm created as your parent to make you
happy all the time? Or to raise you.
You think I'm happy raising you? Do you think I'm enjoying this
teenage phase?
Or rather you stay at two years old? Forever.
The funnest age one to two to three
but I'm telling you they turn out the best. Those kids turn out
great.
You have a star you have so hold you have dinner. And all of a
sudden boom. No one says a word. Everyone's moving into clusters
cleaned up in 10 minutes because it was set right in the beginning.
And when they got lazy and checking if they can get away with
it. That's what they're
Doing their checking if they can get away with it won't happen
again up couldn't get away with it couldn't get away with it couldn't
get away with it. I'll never get away with it. Then that phase is
over in their mind.
Then they realize like, oh, life is actually better when we're all
in order like this. Everything's orderly. You make your bed, right?
You change the cat food, you change the cat litter. You clean
up after dinner, you participate in preparing the dinner,
everything is fast, quick, orderly, clean. They start to like
now they start seeing someone else. Okay? lazy and they hate
that attribute. They see that lack of edit or that laziness and they
hate that attribute. Right. So I think that's outside of be a does
how it works
that's how it works if you ask me
what do you think of the masjid giving us a flat number amount of
money for each member? For Zika Yes, that's the catch will fit the
canceled filter is different from tickets and meds it gets it fits
is a set number of money of dollars per person in the family
that's the cats it fits in as it gets met the cats and men of
course different is the cuts on your wealth and your savings
that's different
that's going to be different for every person
can you do a small stream on what to do an anti caveats?
The vicar on Thursday nights we'll find a way to put to put it up
genre
is it haram to put a structure over a grave there's difference of
opinion on the on the based on the purpose if it's out of Kibera then
it's always haram
okay
traveling to the beach as Muslims
Yeah, you can go to the beaches that have that are more empty than
not but if you go to a beach that's filled with people who are
not dressed in a way that you're going to get sins for that then
you're getting no sense you can't say oh I can't help myself yeah,
but you took yourself there knowing what's going to be there.
So you find yourself the beach that
is empty essentially.
If I miss a lot of Salah How do I do touch it you do your Kedah
intelligent and it will count for you. The dot will be answered for
you in sha Allah Tada but you do a cut up you do your cut up prayers
in the tahajjud time that's how it works. Alright today we finished
late because we started late but let's let's close out today with
DUA and Nora
Okay, let's close out today with draw note
pull it up here on my phone.
Yesterday we sort of abruptly closed the stream which felt odd
gotta close off with some
some of they couldn't do
let me find my DUA and load here.
You have it heavy like on the stream should be on the strip
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On the left foot you click around and you'll see it
can i In the meantime, I'll take a couple questions while you find
it. How do you account for loans that you haven't been paid back
yet? When calculating Zika? You don't count them in years ago? Can
I hold the translation book of Quran my printer away? No, you
cannot.
Is it permissible for someone who has we answered that question?
What are the rules on car financing? We have no good answer
to that.
We have no answers to that
come visit Australia in sha Allah will please recite Quran in sha
Allah will release some some recitation soon
is the one who rules by manmade law such as communism, a Kaffir.
If he believes it's better than the shittier he's a cat but if
he's just sinful about it
Okay
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feel like benefiting in this way or something like that then he's
sinful if he's saying that I have no choice because Putin is
breathing down my neck I have to rule by this that or the other
than
in sha Allah he will will be here will be a sinful but hopefully
maybe less sinful but
you don't see it there
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