Shadee Elmasry – NBF 137 The Manners of the Prophet
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am Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah who are early
savvy women WADA welcome everybody to the SOFIA society nothing but
facts live stream, in which we are discussing today the manners of
seydel Cronyn or the of the society which Islam, the manners
of the Prophet peace be upon him, how was the prophet peace be upon
him in all his different affairs. And we are now opening up on
Instagram, on YouTube, on Facebook and all these platforms after we
had an amazing story and talk yesterday, if you didn't, if you
missed that one, oh, you don't want to miss it. It was really,
really, really good. Chef Hashim Ahmed, somebody who really is just
a paragon of is Tacoma, what we would call is Tacoma. Alright,
it's a common is the idea and the concept of being steadfast for
years. And I have to be honest with you.
Today, this morning, as I was going through my email, I had
subscribed to some people that I knew and in the past, and they got
these newsletters, and every once in a while you open up the
newsletter, but I was actually pretty upset. Because I saw the
deviation of somebody who I always considered him a good brother, we
just had different we differed on a lot of things. We never really
knew each other knew each other, we crossed paths a couple times,
online and on the phone never met him in person.
But the deviation of this brother has basically put them outside of
Islam, which really gave me like, you should always be upset about
that. And he was somebody who never had a Muslim family I don't
think so that's probably part of it.
No matter how bad you get, if you have a Muslim family, someone in
the family is going to say enough is enough. Right? They're gonna
pull you they're gonna really you and you're gonna have too many
interests to deviate too far. But Subhanallah it really makes us
think that we got to we got to go freeze Tacoma. The long game is
really all that matters. The long game is is the concept of is
Tacoma, that your steadfast for decades on end? I'm not going to
talk much about this brother. I mean, I could because everything
he said it's public.
But there's no point in drawing attention to it, except that he
had actually wage war online battle with one of the scholars of
Islam are one of the people of many people consider them one of
the great da
and now he's fallen into the exact same thing. But like, on steroids
now, like two away instead of a leaning. He's like on steroids.
And it's full blown. Cofer.
So he's, we don't we don't people don't even call him a brother
anymore because he's on COFRA.
So I just don't understand. It makes me it makes me I'm not even
angry. Because he's not a threat to misguiding other Muslims.
But what I am is pretty shocked and and shaken to be honest with
you to see someone fall off the path that the Dean you should be
shaken up. This is the most important thing we have. And to
see that people just fall off like this. It's like
this never used to happen in the past. In the past. I told guys
before in the past, if if one of our if one of the youth
for one of us was just listening to music and had a girlfriend he
was gone. He was born moldable he was a stray that was it. That was
the like the limits.
But today it's people just direct
the DOM festuca bid omocha Farah cetera
let's open up to Shemitah. Timothy, page 40. Chapter 48.
Babel. magia. A few cool, okay. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam.
Halloween, I didn't want to say the person's name because I didn't
want to look just like like one of these. I don't want to have a
slanderous attitude, even though it wouldn't have been slanderous.
But you know how the some of these people they?
They have these types of
live streams, podcasts, whatever, and then they, you know, bash
somebody, I don't want to go that route. He's also
not really I don't think he's a threat to anybody. I don't think
anyone's paying attention to him. He's got such when I looked at his
page, like nobody's commenting or liking or retweeting anything he
has to say, because it's all nonsense, but people would pay
attention to him for entertainment purposes like not not
entertainment, like but edutainment.
You know, let's see what he's got to say today that type of
attitude. And it just went
off and off and off and off. And then today I just discovered that
and wow, this is full blown
disbelief at this point
the things that he's negating and doing and what he was attacking
one of the shield of Islam for he's doing it times 10 But still
making fun of them.
Be careful who you make fun of be careful who you try to destroy.
Because it's gonna come around to you and never never mentioned
somebody who is upon any misguidance except that you make
dua for them and yourself. I don't care who it is even a belief when
we talk about it May Allah guide him and us
all these other people May Allah guide them and us because if you
have that idea
Bidda MUFA cerca de da mocha Farah bid.
Even bid aka FIFA, Fisk public cine
golf la heedlessness anything you always say May Allah guide them
and guide us. Okay.
So I didn't want to mention this guy's name. I didn't mention his
name yet. So because by the way, it's it's if I mentioned his name,
he'll, if you if five people you're looking him up. that'll
probably be
Mike isn't as crisp.
Ryan will check that out right now.
If five people looked him up, that'll be more than yesterday.
That and all the attention he had yesterday, because he gets no more
attention anymore.
So beverage IV hookah Sula, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
had death in Ibis even in Mohammed a duty,
her death and Abdullah Benitez eat and mockery doesn't erase it
Mossad. The great later miss out scholar of Egypt, had definite Abu
Earthman actually didn't ever lead and Sulaiman hypnagogia.
Ankara Japenese a lead one of the great or lemma
for CA Sabha.
Someone is saying turn down the game maybe
just to fix the audio.
Obsolete says Mike is Krispy Kreme. Shala
Yeah, maybe if their volume is up and maybe it's so cottage ovens,
Ativan sabots, just FYI for any Maliki out there. And any person
in Hadith. Remember this? This name? Khadija in his aid. He is
one of the Folk Maha Sabha. What are the hook for kaha Sabha, the
seven jurists of Medina
that they were the shura of Omar Abdulaziz. Their first word to
Malik is when they agree upon something that is the Sunnah. That
is the fatwa.
Okay, Sophia, maybe.
Maybe I'm not up to date on their followership because Sophia is
saying that the person that I have in mind has a lot of followers
allow them. But
anyway, I was just shaken up to see him.
We should always be shaken up when we see these types of things and
ask Allah for Aafia and salam. May Allah Allah let us live and don't
listen old Jamar
the codeine familiar will fill early will Willard Javed Dawa will
be better suited for admitted OMA side if it does rain, I mean,
call duckula foreign, others even sabots a group of people came up
on Zaban third now who is a mentor but he's described the Prophet
Seisen when the Prophet arrived in Medina, he found this young man,
he's very good at languages and he writes very well.
So he became the Prophet scribe.
And there he says, that we entered in upon not, he said, but the
group of people came in upon Zaven tablets fucka Reuleaux Hadith and
a hadith Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tell us about the
prophets of Maya. He says, Mother who had difficulty What can I tell
you? Come to Jarrah who I was his neighbor for Kerner II then as Li
Li he'll walk you, Bertha, Ilya Fuckit up to hula.
As soon as he received
revelation, he would send for me and I would come in, and he would,
I would write it for him. For Kona, either the Carnot dunya. The
Kurama Anna, if we sat and we talked about some matter of the
dunya he would talk to us a matter about he would talk to him to us
about it. Like he would not say Oh, no dunya here, only Dean, you
wouldn't say this. The Prophet if he talked about doing he talked
with us about the dunya whether the current era, the kura hermana.
Now if we talked about the ultra if we're talking about us
He mentioned the
way the Colonel Tom Zacchara Humana, if we bring up food,
talk about food
for Kulu Harada, who had ditto Kumar, Rasulullah sallallahu.
All this I tell you about the prophets of Allah when he was
sued the commentary says, commentaries only in the English
Translation
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his character was that
whatever people were in his gathering were speaking of he
didn't he didn't, was not one of those who control the subject of
the discussion. He was not one of those who insisted that things be
only on the Dean either.
The commentary that we're reading from does seven house is by
Molana, Candela. Mohammed Zachary el condado.
And he says, in this hadith many things are mentioned.
And that the humility of a person is that he does not try to control
the conversation all the time, whatever people want to talk
about, you talk about.
So these are from the gatherings of the Prophet peace be upon him
if someone was talking about a worldly activity. Well, why is
that important? Because we live in the world. Right? This is so
important. The pre sale homeowner wanted to live. Why did they
normally want to live in reseller or sorry, even Abby's aides book
on? He has a book in which he mentioned sayings of medic like
random sayings of a medic, one of the beautiful ones is that medic
sights about saying Omar right he did not want to die. Can you hibel
Bucha he wants to stay in this world, we can say normally is to
say we grow the Echota in this world and we only get one chance
Why would I want to die? I want to grow my deeds in this my deeds of
the Accra I want to grow them in this world. I want to feed that.
And so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam discussed worldly
matters, the he discussed the marketplace, different foods were
brought up amongst him. Neither did he praised them, nor did he
blamed them, but he did speak about them and anything beyond
that. Right. And he was the
Zaven Savage was the neighbor of the Prophet peace people and being
the prophets neighbor, you see him in many more states. And that's
the way of being with our shield. To be with a shear oftentimes, in
the West, it's viewed as something that you can only do like once or
twice. Like you're gonna like for short periods of time. Like I saw
the ShakeOut, the modulus I saw the shit, but in the old times,
and in the times of the prophets, to be a disciple the shift, you
saw him in all of his states. That's where you truly learned how
to live. And you truly understood the crux of the deen. So be
mindful that sometimes us we might see the shift in like one old one
session. Right? And we only see him in the macam of a shift
in the dose in the Mejlis, what have you.
That's actually not healthy at all. What works and what's healthy
is to see the shift and have him as a guide, in all matters of
life. So when he's receiving guests, I see him when he's
handling his kids, I see him when he's out and about I seen because
that helps you understand, where am I going? Okay, like what's
life? Like?
What do I do in these situations, and that's where the messenger
SallAllahu it was alums, close companions. That's why they truly
understood the deen because they saw the Prophet in all
of his states. And here he says, I was the prophets neighbor.
So I was there all the time. And I get to see all of the prophets
states. And that's what's important. That's what matters.
And it's rare for us here in the West, because there are not many
shoot around.
And this the celebrity view of the Sheikh is not good at all.
Now there is a there is one type of view that's good, which is
where there's a distance with the ship. In other words, the Haber or
the all of the shift is always there. That's very good.
But for close disciples to learn and to understand, they need to
see the shift intimately in all of their settings. And I remember
Habib our son said to one of the youth, he said that he sees all
these movies coming and all these things and he's like them, then
they go and they talk about you know, you know the dean and they
talk about the shaft and they like he doesn't really they none of
them really understand my father. Of course we're not going to
understand him like you, right because that's your death but
But what he meant by that was that my father is very simple. Just
practice the deen as best as you can. None of this is for show.
None of this is except that it's just for benefit. Like, it's just
no formality. Very simple, right? I think that's pretty much what he
was saying. Right? Rather than creating a, like a specter or
creating a, an image, that's sort of not true, in the sense that
you're missing. It's not true in the sense that it's half the
image. The other half is all the humble and the basic stuff that
the shade has to do to and the way he lives his life too. And
sometimes people, they get disappointed. They're in a bit of
a fairy tale, fairy tale mode. So when they see the Sheikh and his
regular persona, he drops in their view, that's a great sign of
immaturity.
That, that you imagine that? To be a chef and a welder? You're always
in a state in a certain condition and a certain state, whereas the
truth is that Olia Allah, they're in many different states and
conditions. And they do very simple and bland things, and they
have everyday life.
That's one of the things that I'm, I take from this hadith.
He says here that all of this, Zaid Bin Tebbetts, has this
perspective because he always was always at the prophets house. He
was always there.
Right?
There were nine Sahaba that wrote the ye nine companions who wrote
the ye alongside ze Binta, but nobody wrote it like Zaid Zaid was
the most important one. Who else wrote the ye said northmen said
nobody say no bathing caps anymore I've nobody Sophia and Carla
diminished 800 Allah, Allah al Harami. A burn Agnes aid. They
wrote the ye from the prophets of Allah wa newsone.
Now what does it mean that the Prophet, it might seem that it's
useless conversation, for the prophets talk about the
marketplaces prices. But it's so important for Imams to be aware of
economics, because a lot of our Eman goes up and down on the basis
of economics.
And, and it's important to give people a warning, and it's
important to be able to show people how economics works, good
business, you the success success in business is never random. You
have to understand this. There is a formula.
success in business is a Formula One of the formulas is do you have
mentors, who have succeeded.
Success in Saluki success in Fick success in bodybuilding. Don't try
this stuff by yourself, get mentors get you you get get
teachers to show you the way and listen to what they have to say.
Like this is one of the most important things. Okay, listen to
what they have to say, don't how many people are out there trying
to lose weight all by themselves. And they've been losing the same
15 pounds for 30 years.
Then I got some of my friends, I blink. And they're looking like
models. What the heck happened to you? Oh, there's a guy out and
he's got me out of program. And you you know, he pays them and he
follows his program.
Knowledge, that guy had knowledge, you don't know stuff. You're just
shooting in the dark.
So don't shoot in the dark in business, in health in Dean, to
have a mentor is one of the keys in business. And as someone who's
done the pretty much the same thing that you're doing? Pretty
much
so that you can have a clue.
Right? What's going on? If the all the greats had mentors, even Steve
Jobs, I think he gave like 10% No, he gave 30% of Apple.
He gave 1/3 of Apple to a guy 1/3 for himself and 1/3 for Wozniak.
Then that guy after like a year or two,
he sold the 30%. That guy would have been like a billionaire
several times over. Right? I can't remember his name. But he was like
a regular like rich guy in California,
in his 80s 70s and 80s, when Apple just boomed off like that and
became what it became. And they always joke about like, like, how
in the world do you sleep at night? Knowing that you had 30% of
the world's biggest company, there's more money in the banks of
Apple than the banks of the United States.
And you basically gave it away. He sold it for $30,000 back to Steve
Jobs.
You just had it
and he sold it for 30k.
Sit back to Steve Jobs.
He says, I can't think about it for a moment. I just have to say,
that's what it was
a browser here, that's his name a browser, he must be Egyptian. He
says there's a guy who had 10,000 Bitcoin
and he bought used it to buy a pizza.
So
crazy stuff, man crazy stuff.
That's how life is. But success is never something in my opinion,
it's never like, it may look insane success, like out of this
world success. I think there's there's just some luck involved in
that. But General success, like general generally, I could say
someone who's successful has a formula. And kids who go astray,
not in the deen, but in their manners and their life. There's a
there's a reason there's always a reason Allah tatata doesn't just
put something in the dark like that. Like it's never by chance.
These basic things are not by chance. Immense and crazy success.
Yes, that could be you could say that there has to be some just,
you can't establish that there's some not luck, but we're gonna say
fortunate in that. But just general success. It's a formula.
And General failure is always a formula.
Okay, so you just got to learn the formula.
So that's why the province I sell him did engage. He did engage in
worldly discussions. And he talks about prices. Alright.
He talks about foods, because foods, no, there could be healthy
and unhealthy. And the Prophet did hold that if you eat a warm a heat
producing food, you should also eat it with
with a cool producing food. Somebody asked him What about
luck? Well, luck, it depends how we define it, that we do have a
concept of have in Islam have is a in Islam is a word that means
something that Allah gave you, without any action from you.
That's what it means. HIPAA is a skill that Allah gave you. Cut
them is reward that Allah gives you for effort. And it may be more
than you deserve. But have,
it's okay to say have and if you mean, that's what you mean by
luck, then that's acceptable theologically, because the word
hubs means something that Allah gave you, like a one time gift,
not an innate skill, something that Allah gave you,
without you doing anything that's called have
Right? Like to have another
a portion of benefit that Allah gave you without you doing
anything. HIPAA is an innate talent that Allah gave you. Some
people just have a gift, a physical or mental or some innate
gift. Okay? So a person if you if that's what you mean by saying
good luck, then that's fine. I've seen she'll say, good luck,
meaning May Allah give you something even if just randomly
and then cut them.
Cut them is that Allah gives you something after you did something,
and it's more than what you deserved.
So these are the three meanings of have will cut them will HIPAA
and HIPAA never goes away.
Okay, a HIPAA is something like it's a gift. But the question is,
what will it be a blessing for you or will it be a curse? That's a
HIPAA. A mo Heba. Something that Allah gave you like the ability to
play basketball, Michael Jordan, whether he's a jerk or he's good,
he knows how to play basketball. So the question is, is it a gift?
Is it blessed, or is it cursed? Some people know how to make money
out there, remember now if he was gifted at business, he's just
really good at it. So it's something that you can't go to
school for. It's a gift. The question for that gift now has
become Is it a blessing for you or curse? At a Khuddam is when you
work hard at something that Allah rewards you with the results. And
and the nature of Allah's generosity is that he always
rewards more than you deserve.
So that's to understand these three meanings of have and cut
them. And Hibiya
al Heba Elmo Heba is that part, part of a talent, you can't teach
it talent that you just can't You can't teach this stuff. Like you
can't teach some of these things, some of these skills that people
have, that's what it means.
So that's why the prophets I said, I'm engaged in all of these
discussions, you had no hesitation because it is the life of his OMA,
they live in the world. We have to talk about the world.
So we can't also, you know, as much as we're trying to
Practice the deen and do it and everything but we can't
forget this. Right we can exactly
shut off the talk about the dunya
Alright, so question from Mo Ibrahim, what is HIPAA? HIPAA?
It's a gift that Allah gave you, like a talent, an innate, inborn
talent, something you can't learn in school. You're just born with
it
and I've lived in Oslo Katakana Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi
wasallam. You could be will be what he he were Hadith he he
assured a little call me to a left home be Ehrlich. He describes the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, that no matter how that
person's character was, when the Prophet would talk to him, he
would face him with his entire body and talk to him
to try to soften them with that it's a law firm try to become
close with them
for Cornejo could be Louis watchI he will Hadith he he aleja Hatao
Vaughn and to any Hyrule comb, he would pay so much
Subhan Allah there's a typo here. I'm going to be the last I'm
looking at us. I was thinking I never heard of the sahabi before.
That's what I was thinking. But now I but I remember this this
this hadith. For Kenny Yakubu Allah, he used to turn his
attention to me so much that I thought
that I'm the best of the people and the Hyrule comb. This is a
famous hadith of amaryllis. I thought I was the best of people
for call to hear rasool Allah Anna Chiron Abubaker so I said,
Who's Who's Buttermere? Abubaker like he seems like you love me so
much. Am I the best? Am I number one?
Call it a book. I would set up a book for call to enter Chiron I'm
Omar miromar
Subhan Allah, Allah Omar. Katya rasool Allah Allah Allah man, mere
author min Prophet said ultimate
Subhana Allah. The Prophet was being honest with me, and I wish I
had not asked the question. It's
unbelievable.
could save eveness aids and burn a jar for the Minnesota man?
And thirds and NSF in America Radi Allahu Anhu Karla Kadem to
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa early he was Salama Asha, Rossini
in 10 years, I served the Messenger of Allah for Mercola Lee
often caught in a cinematic
year 10 of his life was extremely important. He lost his dad.
It was just him and his mom living.
And his mom thought Subhanallah what best way to replace this
father figure that was lost? What better way then to now send him to
the messengers of Allah Williamson. So she's she said, I
have devoted him to you. She the prophets, I send them said every
morning, let him do what needs to be done in the house and for you
then send him to me.
So around the whole time, which is between Phaedra And Asa.
And so when Maddie could make his way down to the mosque of the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and look for the messenger,
Where's Little Sula if they here or there, and he would go and hang
around the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa salam, and the Prophet
peace be upon him would then say, uh, go get this, go do this. He
would just sit around like an assistant.
Come get that. This is part of our religion. And it's part of the
Tobia is to be an assistant to a shave. It's one of the best parts
of our Tobia which is the idea that you go and and have the youth
serve the ship, right or serve in general. Even if sometimes there's
no shoehorn, but just go serve. So he says, I served him for 10 years
now these 10 years he was a child 10 to 20 by, let's say, 15. He's a
young man, right? 16 his young men, but let's say 1011 1213.
Okay. And now his mother got busy. So he spent all his time with the
Prophet how his mother got busy by marrying Ebeltoft hmm.
And this man was a very righteous Muslim man. And from a well
thought Ha, she had 10 boys.
And these 10 boys were the young stepbrother or half brothers of
UNESP and Malik, they eventually all of them became scholars.
And so NS Ben Malik was like the little was like the chief over a
little tribe as he got older because he was the undisputed
imam of this family.
So if you ever hear me battle half the sons of a
We'll talk how you should know that there are the half brothers
of Edison medic. That's where they got their knowledge from from
their half brother, and a seven milk.
So the he says the Prophet never once said off to me.
And one of the things I believe a lot, Adam, it's just one of the
speculations Is that why the prophets I said have never had a
boy. We know the answer to that. Well, he himself said, If I had a
son who would have been a prophet, because prophecy would have run in
his lineage. But, and I'm not, he's the last of Prophets, we know
that. But there's another thing is that his Tobia would have been so
perfect, it would have been impossible for us to emulate. I
don't think that there's a single father that never had to be strict
with their sons or daughters, and sons more than daughters.
Daughters is they're easy to race, in my personal opinion, like, of
course, there's Girls Gone Wild phenomenon now. And there's this
all sorts of insanity. And I actually, when I look at some
situations, Iblees is raising these kids. And the parents are
just so oblivious to it, be it from the influences of school
friends and phones, like the way that they talk to their parents.
And they sometimes they show this and like shows or movies or
whatever, and then the way in which these people talk to their
parents. I'm surprised like this would never happen. Like you guys,
you do not know how to raise kids. Do not ever talk to me about
raising kids. And I'm directing this mainly at actually, I'm not
going to say which which ethnic group or which which culture so
that some of them might be Muslims and or might be watching and they
get offended. But I think you know who you are your kids talk back to
you. Your kids rolled their eyes at you. Your kids never come and
say hello to you. What what happened to you, you do not know
how to raise kids, please do not have kids anymore. Because you're
just producing this scourge on society.
They're terrible. They don't know how to raise kids.
But he never said off once, which means he never exhaled. Which
means, okay, the idea that you're just so sick and tired of them. Oh
my gosh, I can't believe you did this again. And in our modern
world, we've made it impossible for our kids to be to not do. We
got too many gadgets, we got too many things. The furniture is so
nice. Everything is so nice. These kids can't do anything. Right. Any
child is going to mess up everything.
Every child will mess up things. We did something really weird in
my house, which is that
we have we put high gloss paint on the on the
in the in the front, in the downstairs, which is weird. Nobody
does that. Right? But I'm like, I got to watch these walls all the
time. Because the you know, they paint it could be glossy, or flat,
glossy paint. If a kid crowns on it or markers on it, even you
could wash it, you can scrub scrub, scrub scrub, and it cleans
it off. But if you do that on a flat paint surface, you're gonna
take the whole paint off. You're gonna smudge it up so badly. So
I'm just like this. Just childproof the house. Because kids
little kids will frustrate you not really from their own.
Doing is curious about stuff. Curious about stuff. So the
Prophet never once said oh, if and I believe the prophets I said him
would have his parenting nobody would have been able to to reach
that level. So he only had girls
so then,
we're malerkotla Lili che in Sinatra who Nima Sonata? He never
said to something that I did. Why did you do this?
And he never said to something that I didn't do will only say
interact to limit character.
Why did you leave that? Why didn't you do this? He never said Why did
you do this? Why didn't you do this? Now little grammar thing
here.
In a past tense verb, if you're talking about yourself, you said
file to talking about somebody else file
and a file to enter for alpha. You did file
pastors, and a file to and for a woman and Tifa ality.
And for someone who doesn't identify as a male or a woman and
I don't know something else, we don't have an award for you guys,
so move on, keep it moving. Get away from Arabic, move on. Find
someone else out there who's going to play games with you? What kind
of sort of Allahu Allah you were early? He was some of them in
Essen in nursery hooligan, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam was from the best of people in character. Willa Masis, my
sister, cousin Wella howdy Ron.
Well, I che and can Eliana mean caffeine
Sunni love sallallahu alayhi wa early he was
he says here
he was of the best character and I never touched anything of silk or
anything soft, that was softer than the palm of the messenger
sallallahu alayhi wa suddenly, this is where we get the idea here
that it is, in fact a sunnah for your hands to be smooth. Maybe
that applies to your feet too. Why? Because there are people who
touch it, such as your wife, such as your, your kids. And if your
hand is always rough, of course, some people their hands are
naturally going to be rough, right? Because they work with
their hands. But it is a we could say from the ways of the prophets
of Allah when he was on them. That in any way that
people, people are involved. It's a sunnah to make that to improve
that. So your smell? How you smell? It's men do.
So when do
your hands aren't your wife gonna touch your hands? So aren't your
kids going to touch your hands? So it's, it's a good thing to soft to
make them soft for other people. Right? And that should not be
associated with being soft and character. Has nothing to do with
that.
Right.
Willa Sherman to Mysskin got wala etron and I never met any Musk or
Ethel what's the difference Musk is taking from the sweat of a
deer. Whereas cut is taking from wood
can at the Abba Minara po Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that
none of that was even
close to the scent of this perspiration of the prophets of
Allah what He was
next hadith is an NST of nomadic as well. Out Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa early he was a llama and no Cana in the WHO Raju loon be
alpha Rousseau Frattin there was a man who had some yellow on it on
him what kind of Sallalahu It was early with Salim lair cared who
you were Gee who hadn't be che in Ukraine who? For llama karma, Carl
comit local Tula who yada the US Sephora. So he had this yellowness
on him now what was let's see what the comments are. I believe that
this has to do with a marriage that the man had basically it's
like saying he had makeup blotches because he was just with his wife
but let's see if I'm correct about that because
that's what I know about Sephora, Allah animal see here.
It was, oh, the garment. It was the garment. He had a yellow
garment on him. Now, at that time, the yellow garment was only worn
by the pagans.
The prophets some point here though, is that the prophets I
sent him did not want to bluntly
tell anybody anything that they don't like. So he pointed to his
friends companion goat and advise him
go and advise him but others Silfra
he's saying here that it's close. It was like some close but it may
have been
also, like there was makeup because the Sephora is mentioned
in the hadith of Abdul Rahman Ibn outh that he came to the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam shortly after he was in Medina.
And he came and then they found Sophia on him.
Which means that he was just like, and he's and he said,
I just got married. That's why they saw like some of that it's
almost like the makeup that women were wearing. And a little bit got
on him was clothes or whatever. So that's one of the things that they
said also haven't shopped the recommended mouth.
So that's how they knew he was married.
So either way, in both in the case of clothes, any clothes is yellow
still haram for us? Yes, if it's the yellow sash of like the
Tibetan bunks, or the yellow scarves, of the Hindus, anything
that has an immediate connotation
to another group of people, it becomes mcru For us to wear.
So we do we do know that there are certain groups that wear certain
things, right.
Now, well, here's a good question. What happens if it's a sunnah, but
if it's a sunnah, and at the same time, it's been taken up by coma
Lutz. And the answer to that is that we would or any group, like
for example, is a sunnah for us.
but it's also been taken up by como loot. So we would have to see
in that setting would people consider your common words? Like
are you emitted will? What would they? What would they view it us?
Because all of these things are social soon and rulings.
If it doesn't apply anymore, it doesn't any longer. It's not a
rule anymore. So if there was a world in which nobody would ever
no group ever wore a Yellow Scarf than wear a yellow scarf, right.
So or are wearing pink is not at any, in any form viewed as a color
associated for little girls.
How is it? It's not like that in Pakistan? So the rice is pink in
Pakistan, everything is pink in Pakistan. Right? So it's not like
that so you can wear it. So that's the idea. It's, it's only it's a
common sensical ruling. And today, like, okay, so I think that I'm
trying to think of, if a guy wore all black all the time, it does
have a connotations as your progress. It's like, you're on the
path to being a school shooter. If you were,
you know, what are they called Doc Martens. And then all black and a
black trench coat. And that's your outfit all the time. I'm worried
about you. Right. Okay, because that that's the that's the route
of certain people. Next thing your nails are going to become black.
Next thing you're going to be shooting some schools. So that's
the trick. The perception of those people. Of course, that's a big
it's not a stereotype. They did do that stuff. That's what Columbine
was and all these people who it's a think, I don't know what they
call it these days. Right? What is it called?
That's what they call that like very pale skin depressed hairs
down. All black
lip, all men. See, what is the snake but
Oh, okay. Okay, so it's gonna, you know, that's basically
that's what it looks like. Wow. That's crazy. So that's an example
of a dress of a peaceful goth. Yeah, that's what we used to call
it in the Marilyn Manson is the founder that look like He's the
inventor of that work. He's a complete he should have been
jailed. Just for being weird. What's that? What's that guy was a
complete devil worshiper. I don't know what he's up to these days.
But that's the idea. How do you get old with that stuff? Like,
okay, you you're crazy when you're 20s little bit in your 30s. But
what happens though, like when you're 60 and you got all these
tattoos and holes in your face? And so so weird. But that's an
example what else right what else is an example of she odd Fisk?
That something that in itself would be harder, but it's in
association with a group today that it would be considered FISP
what would what would that what would another example but one
really? I think it's really gay. Like trend is like these guys were
cross Earrings. Earrings that are have a cross on it. Yeah. Like
maybe it's not a religious Association. Across why would they
wear a cross? Christian it's just it's a style. Like it's just when
people were so we would say like, okay, jewelry for Muslim is haram
in the first place. Right? Oh, here's one.
nose rings is acceptable totally in the Desi culture. But for
others, it may have a whole nother you know, like,
it's not something common.
Right. It's not something common
for people for some other cultures. So maybe that's
something that a lot or like
10 piercings are all throughout the ears. Yeah, right. Even if she
wears hijab, but still it's not something that's I don't know
maybe in our culture would be a bit excessive
so that's the one thing
that's the idea about clothes.
And Evie is how can Evie Abdullah Hill, Delhi and Isha Raji Allahu
Taala on her and now call it Lamia. Kurosu la mia con
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi. Wa early was a lemma for Hishon will
emulator for Hishon well Sokoban fill us work.
The prophets I seldom never use foul language. Never used obscene
or
vulgar language, never raised his voice in the marketplaces. That's
something that we might not understand. But in the old
marketplaces, there was always voices being raised haggling for
prices, sellers will always yell out which is fine, but the yelling
for prices which is the issue?
Good.
Well, a jersey
The sejati essay are like in the alpha waves and he doesn't reply a
bad deed with another bad deed rather, he forgives and he lets go
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Modaraba Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam Obeah
de che and caught the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did
not strike
anyone with his hand at all Illa Anuj the visa vie Allah except in
Jihad
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good. Plagues pigeon is asking if someone is yelling around like I
got cold drinks I got peanuts. That's a that's acceptable. But
what the Prophet when he never raised his voice means yelling to
bargain. Had like haggling he would have he would bargain in a
good way but the haggling were yelling Oh,
that's not acceptable. That's not what he did.
The Prophet did not hit anybody raised his hand on anyone
ever except in battle.
Good War. Of course. He fought wars.
I said audio loads out on her call it's murder at rasool Allah is
Allah Allahu Allah who were early he was a llama Montel Ceylon min
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GABA wema who you're obeying Amrhein Electra a surah Houma
Mela, Mia con mathema so here the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam she said I Isha says, the Prophet peace be upon him never
was oppressed in a worldly matter, and then got angry and took action
and avenged himself like he never sought to chase after his own
rights. However, if the rule of Allah was transgressed, the nobody
had the anger of the messenger. Nobody could bear his anger. If
Allah's rules
and Allah's rights
were were transgressed.
And whenever he was given a choice between two things, he chose that
which is more simple.
And remember, this is not a methodology of religion, that's a
methodology in worldly matters. That's why she says as long as it
did not lead to any type of sin. So this is the concept here is
that Allah chose the easiest, that is not the way that is not in his
Deen. What is the proof of that?
The prophet does not have choices in religion. He sets the Sunnah.
He doesn't have choices in religion, right? He is the one who
is the founder of the religion. All right, in the sense that the
Sunnah that he establishes, is the Sunnah he doesn't have who's given
him the choice. If it's a matter of religion, who's giving him the
choice, that's why that is a proof that
this is not a hadith of Sunni, this is not at all soul from a
solid flip.
Because no one who's giving the Prophet a choice of what to do in
the deen.
Right? Either it comes in Revelation, or it's something that
of a sunnah that he establishes. Okay? So the Prophet is never met
who you're obeying the Amrhein, which means some thing is making
him choose who was making the profit, choose anything in
religion, you got to understand this rebuttal? Just someone says,
oh, what I said in my day, and I had a friend, I had a in England.
Whenever we were talking about fit, he says, could be I said
another because Mokoia are sort of robbing Amrani. Left or a seroma.
Take the easiest of the methods, because the Prophet knows never
given a choice except he chose the easiest one. Not Indien
was not a matter of Deen because no one was given the Prophet
religious choices. It's of the dunya. Should we go this way?
Should we go that way? Should we eat this for dinner every day for
dinner? Like which one is easier to cook that one?
Should we do this, that or the other, whatever, simpler of the
dunya. So it's such an important concept because if we allow that
other way,
then what we're doing is we're basically using our whim and our
knifes as the barrier of how to worship Allah, or the filter of
how to worship Allah. That's not the right way to do things. said
it a million times. The methodology in deen is that you
choose the Imam that is most most worthy of following in our day and
age. That's the method that suited the methodology that is most
worthy found. That's how you use your brain. And then you follow it
Thought works, study the mother and then follow it for life after
that
next Hadith Hadith sermon
is that Roger lune Allah Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa he
was a man who took permission to enter another on the Prophet peace
be upon Endo, and I'm with him Fukada
this Ibnu la Shira Aquila Shira
Subhan Allah thumb of in Allah.
So the Prophet peace be upon a man came knocking, good.
What did the prophets I send him say? When he saw who was knocking?
He says, ignore Shira
Turb. What about men?
In this community? What about men in the community? That's what the
Prophet said, why would the Prophet say that? He's saying that
because this man has characteristics and qualities he's
showing. He's telling the the people that are with him his
opinion about this man, he wants them to know. And that's why if
you are right, or wrong is somebody that people are learning
from you. Okay, you're a shepherd for people, you take care of them.
You should let them know your opinion about other people. Not as
a backbiting type of thing. But as
you know, my position on this, right? So every dad I think every
mom they voice their opinion when they see a kid that they don't
want their kid to be like, and if you don't in the name of Otto
Juana back button and be bad, okay? So you can take the message
that he could be like that. That's how simple it is. Right?
Or, at least the least you can say is I don't want you to be like
that. Don't go that route in life. Right? So the prophets I send them
said this, so that the people there and who was there? Say that
Isha was there, so she's gonna pass it on that the Prophet
doesn't like these qualities.
So Medina, then he let him in, for nama duckula ln Allah whole code,
when he came in the Prophet was nice to him. Now, what would we
say? Is this hypocrisy? No, it's not hypocrisy, because you can
have an opinion about someone. But when that person is a guest, you
have to be nice to him.
The same thing, like I have really strong opinions about things. And
I make fun of things all the time. And I hate a lot of things.
Good. But if I see that person in front of me, or if I see those
people in front of me that you do have some obligations to be
polite.
It's not good for your heart to be otherwise. But I want to stay
away.
And I hope they stay away from me.
So what happens and then Allah will call when he left? I said,
Sarah Isha? Yeah, rasool Allah told them a quote, you said what
you had said about this man
from Atlanta loco, but then you were nice to him.
For Kalia Isha in them and shutter Nassim Antara CONUS Oh, Aisha, the
worst of people is the one who everyone flees from him. That
means his all his relationships are bad. Nobody likes him. Nobody
likes him, are they? There's a saying.
If you meet a jerk once a month, that person's a jerk. If you meet
a jerk every day, you're the jerk.
It's a sink. Basically, like not all everyone can be bad. You can't
have oh, this person, he wronged me, this person did something bad.
This person's terrible. Wait a second hold on your record is
pretty bad. You're only allowed like one or two enemies and rivals
in life.
But if everyone's your enemy in life, I think you're the problem.
That's what the Prophet is saying here. In the machete investments
that OCONUS the worst of people is the one who nobody wants to be
around this person.
Or he says,
what thou nesu it took a flashy, the people left him because
they're afraid of his bad character.
Right? In another narration, the prophets of Allah. He said to me,
it's explained that although the Prophet did not like him,
or his character, yet the messenger is also commanded to be
good to the guest. So he was good to the guest, the man knocked on
his door. What are you going to do?
You got so you have to be good to the guest.
Let's stop here because the next hadith is quite long. And we can
and we didn't do any q&a last week. So we're going to do q&a
Here.
I'm going to first answer a question. I'm not going to say the
person's name but I want to record the answer.
Salaam aleikum sister. Yes, it is true. If bad things happen.
That all that things are in the knowledge of Allah subhanaw taala.
But when a bad things happen, bad thing happens it is from
disbelief. And it is the path of bliss
to now turn to Allah and ask why, why did you do this? Because bad
things don't happen by themselves. Bad things happen through other
things. So you're supposed to turn your attention to the ASVAB. The
means. So it's not just the end result that is created by Allah
subhanaw taala. The means we human beings, if a bad thing happens, we
have to turn our attention to the means and fix them. We don't turn
our attention to Allah subhanaw taala that's why did you let this
happen? So if if my kid gets beaten up, I don't go and say ask
ALLAH, why did you let this happen?
I go to the means. And I try to change it from there.
Proof of that is that the bliss upon Him is the Lana of Allah.
When when he went, and he refused to bow down to him,
and then he got expelled. What happened to him? He said, Oh,
Allah, you made me do this. So this path of when a bad thing
happens, that we turn our attention to Allah and say, Why,
then, that is the only from IBLEES nobody else. But when a bad thing
happens, we see that there was something wrong in our behavior
before this. Good.
And we have to fix that.
Right. So we should we should turn our attention and our anger to
what happened in the middle that this happened. Right and fix that.
Now, here's an important thing I had to say to somebody.
All right, open QA today. Put your questions here. I'm not scrolling
up. We're not scrolling up. If you want. Open QA just put the
question here now. Okay. Mo up. Is it permissible to work in a bank
if you're not directly involved in giving out loans? Some have said
yes, because there are halau functions in a bank, which is
guarding your wealth. Why is it said that Salah Ibrahim is better
than all other Salah only because the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said it. Is Bitcoin Halal to invest in? According to many
Yes. And according to some
shefa from Egypt. No. Because you can't get your rights in court.
That's not like a controlled.
Look at these guests. Unbelievable. All we need is a
yawn and the trio is complete. Mashallah, we got us we got curry
mo de here.
Yeah, we have Texas, maybe in the summer Jama?
No, I didn't see it. But they just emailed me. Yeah.
QUESTION my local Masjid is hosting yoga classes inside the
mosque?
Well, it depends what they're doing. If they're just stretching,
stretching is fine. That's it's okay to stretch, the stretching
aspect of it is fine. But if it's homes and mums and whatever, and
ohms and Mumming, and all that other thing that doesn't have to
do with the body, then that should just be edited out and the
stretching is fine. And I don't know if the poses to be honest
with you, I have no knowledge of these poses or whatever are in
fact, like representative representative him does you have
to have somebody who cares about the subject and knows the answer
to that. Shoot, we were missing a knot here.
Okay, so anyone know, right. Are you familiar with like the yoga
poses? Are they worshipful poses, by the way some of these poses are
not appropriate in the western I'm hoping to do it in the gym or
something.
Yeah.
Okay, cancel all that. Just stretch. Right? Yoga is
stretching, right? You've
Okay, so don't, don't do those stretches. Don't call it that. But
just do stretching, less regular old stretching. That's why you
feel good at the end of the day. Breathe in and stretch. So your
your breathing is getting better. Your lungs are getting stronger. I
think they have to breathe in, hold it for a little bit. When you
do that your lungs getting stronger. And exhale, hold it,
your lungs getting stronger. And then you stretch you feel happy
you feel good about yourself afterwards because it's stretching
that's it. You also feel good about yourself and feel that peace
because you can't be on a gadget while you're doing yoga. So you're
actually fully focused and all your mind your ideas are settled.
That's actually one of the reasons why modern people benefit from
this. But if you want to see really what goes on behind yoga,
go to watch the Netflix documentary on Vikram Realgar,
Bikram yoga, whatever, right? Just a pervert. That's it. He likes to
see women in these poses and wearing leggings. That's all it
is. So summary Velocita lumps and all the guys are there to see all
the women in the yoga pants to the surreal summary of the month. Go
give me a guy's on the yoga class. It's never gonna happen. But it's
mixed. All the guys will show up and the back to right because of
some of these poses are the reason that
through their
male yoga instructor, that's something I never understood no
offense to anybody who's out there. But seriously.
It's right up there with male gynecologist being up, says can
you please explain why we can ask prophet for help in worldly
matters? How does that differ from what Christians do with Mary?
Well, I mean, it's tough artha is we know that it's one Sue's for
the melodica by direct Hadith and by PST to the prophets of Allah,
what He was selling them. And I believe that it is haram in the
humbly method permitted and some in the other motherhood. And the
reason the difference is that we don't believe that the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa Salam is the source. Rather we believe he is
the means. And that's the big difference. That is the main
difference why it would not be a shift it would merely merely be
something whether or not it is effective or not when permitted or
not as an action but but no Muslim believes that the messenger so I
said I'm created this world and is the district is the giver.
ultimate giver is Allah subhanaw taala as the Prophet himself says
Allah will multi when Al Qassam Allah gives Amir the distribute.
So that's the difference there. So you should look at your local
McGraw Hill and see what they say about it.
BB says my seven year old prays, but I don't think he recites
anything while praying. He knows what to read, how do I get him to
do that he has all of us as examples. And I encourage him to
be grateful, etcetera. So a seven year old do you have time because
they're supposed to start praying at seven. But they're supposed to
really get their prayer down right at 10. So
you have time to make sure that he's reciting what he's supposed
to recite, right? Maybe he's born What if he what even when they're
praying daughter by themselves? Who knows? Right?
You have to
but if you're behind the Imam, you can stay silent and
stay silent.
Even if it's in silent prayer. So you stay silent. Oh SubhanAllah.
So we recite in the silent prayer.
In the 100. In the medical school we recite in the silent prayer as
the Sunnah. Felina it's not something you have to do. You
could stay silent the entire prayer. But of course, if he's
reciting out loud, we have to stay silent. Listen. So what is your
status? You're switching over to Hana?
dual degree, what's up?
Another vein? Yeah, that's good. We need that
versatility, although we, although we don't plan on offering Shafi
Fichte just yet, because to fix I think is good. Right? One of the
powers of the set of your perceived power is that they only
have one fic. It's a perception that they have one fact they have
so many different opinions. But the idea that they just have one
fic that oh, that's what they think they have. But they have so
many opinions inside of it.
Immediately, it looks like a barrier to have multiple fix. But
in the long run, it's far
more effective. This question is from Tasneem search, she says if a
would given to follow and the statement is this is enough and
will protect you from everything is there is no Hadith on it
protecting you on everything. I have really hard time
consolidating that. Well, the word must consist of something from the
Sunnah, that that is a protection.
Okay. And if not, then that statement is just someone's
comment. Right? And
we just take it as that it's not something I have to believe in. So
someone says, Listen, say this word, and it will protect you from
everything, but that word
does not have anything from the Sunnah that would indicate that,
then I don't have RMAc gonna believe really take that comment
seriously.
It's just his belief.
All right, the riddle we set on the Melek eufic group chat on Ark
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that was never committed? A prohibition that Allah laid down.
Nobody ever committed this prohibition. I'll let you think
about it. And as to let everyone think about it.
Right so Jenna, it's okay.
You remembered it.
You forgot it? No, I remember now, okay. Oh, thinking about it.
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Suzanna Rahim says
if by spending time with the sheikh you are exposed to some
flaws, or a practice of deen or mindset according to one's nature
or previous baggage, how do you deal with this?
We don't take any shoe on the assumption that they are my assume
that's the first thing.
No, we don't. That's the first thing when you go to a chef, you
don't have to take him as monsoon.
Especially sons, like the sons and the daughters of a scholar, they
will see like everything that is not the chef persona. Like they'll
see all the other stuff. And they won't think much of their debt.
Right. But over time, that's the real test of someone is that is to
come over time. Like over 40 years, this person has been
through so much, and he still did it. That's why That's what we
should be investing in and not a persona, or a fake. Haga, a Heba
is like an aura, right. And all this fakery is not something you
have to worry about. Don't even worry about it for two seconds.
Just worry worry about the long game. And the long 4050 years of
his tecoma cannot be achieved. If you're busy putting on a front,
you should just be genuine. And the mature person, the mature
person will recognize virtue is that virtue is not the
externalities that make you a celebrity shake or make you some
shake, have a haber, whatever. That stuff is not important at
all. And I think the Egyptians they got that they got that done.
They know that. That's why they're very informal. They're super, very
informal. The Syrians are shocked when they see how Egyptian shields
behave. Right. Syrians are utterly shocked. I remember talking to Ben
from Syria. He went over and he had an appointment with a ship in
Morocco. So he gets to the train station and he's walking out and
he leaves the train station. And then he sees a man coming up with
him. This man he has like a goofy, and afternoon autobahn, because in
the heat, everyone goes inside. So it just had a homophobe in the
street,
with a Koofi and flip flops. He said, Hey, are you so and so? He
said, Okay, Mashallah. No Santa come? He said, Yeah. So, then he
says, Where's Where are we going to meet the Sheikh? He said, I'm
gonna say,
he got the shock of his life. He's like, never, ever would have
shakeups of Syria come out in his home job. With his flip flops and
a Koofi to pick up the student. That would have never happened.
But the point for us is, and this is my belief, too, is that the
real deal is only it's shown and people have a mature enough to
realize that keeping down the fundamentals for 30 and 4050
years, that itself is the biggest achievement. Putting on a front,
anyone can do that.
But you can't, it's just too after a while it's too heavy. And you're
in so unnatural, you're in a living unnatural life, which is
not to say that it's also not good. We're not blaming somebody
who's formal by nature, because they're not the man was formal by
nature, say Northmet did not like he was not comfortable around and
informal people. That's why the Prophet became formal once a
Northman entered the room. So that's also not an eye on somebody
who is by nature, his personality is formal. We shouldn't blame
that. And the Syrian general temperament or MS edge of a sham
is that their formal, I would think that the British, the
massage of the British is also very formal. The massage of the
Americans is informal. There's mazet, this idea of massage, and
even the Egyptians are way more informal than the British than the
Americans.
So it's
Did you get a cream? Should I say it right?
Here we go. Okay.
So seeing the small flaws, okay. That's what it is. It's marrying
the prophets wives. The prohibition on marrying the
prophets wives. It was a one time it was a prohibition that never
was committed. So the back to this question.
Now, if you see the flaws of a person in the deen, you also have
to weigh that. Is it a? Is it a flaw in a formula? Or is it a is a
moral flaw that causes you not to trust him anymore? That's the
question. So if that's the case, that's more damning than just a
formula that he missed.
Ultimately, if you truly have a sheikh, as a guide, when I'm
talking about spiritual guide, there's a lot of different types
of shields. You can have an imam in life, right? It's different
from a spiritual guide.
A spiritual guide is a very sensitive thing. Don't go so
close. Because if your trust and belief of his righteousness dips,
you won't benefit anymore. So I have been very hesitant to get
close to
that kind of shit. But if it could be your Imam in life like like
just a general leader, you can have all the flaws that he wants,
as long as he's competent at leading us. And staying upon the
right track and being effective in life. That's what matters. Right?
And he could have all sorts of issues beyond that, like having a
righteous kink. The same thing he came might not be your shit, but
he's my king. I live and die for him. And I live under his, his
shadow, right? And I'm part of his whatever. He could have whatever
he wants a guy like me, right? But he can do the job. That's the
difference. Likewise, the fifth teacher, he could take me to be
Mufti.
But it's not the same thing because I can assess his
competence. I see the results right here. So it doesn't really
make a difference. If he's not polished in his, he's not
perfected. But the shape of this, you know, the spiritual shift. It
requires absolute utter belief that he's
on the track of the prophets of Allah when he was seven, and he's
inspires your heart. So I keep a distance from that kind of shape,
like I have that shape, but you would keep a distance because you
never want that to be scratched. You never want that to be touched.
So far salon area, it doesn't have to be said the 4444 thing is
something that was divided amongst people in a group. Other than
that, you could set however many times you want. And yet and you
could divide it up a few different recitations no problem at all.
Khadija Aasif What about men having long hair, it should be
mcru Beyond the shoulder length, because that would be imitating
women.
Can you use it says can you explain the name Allah the
appreciates? Or you mean the Hamid? What does it mean that
Allah is Shaku or Hamid? Hamid means he praises those who deserve
to be praised. How does Allah praise people who deserved to be
praised by inspiring the people?
Okay to praise that person. And what does it mean that Allah
shahada means He rewards the good deeds that people do?
That's the meaning of him being shackled? Because obviously, Allah
does not have to thank anybody, but it means he has really rewards
the people for whatever good that they do.
All right. Let's now go. Why is divorce the greatest goal of
bliss? While it's not haram? Because, especially in divorce, it
really causes stagnation for people. I think anyone going
through a divorce, we ask a lot if instead, you see that that year is
shot is not gonna be productive that year. That year is miserable.
And it's far, far worse. If you ask kids, if a person kids of
divorce, they they're traumatized. That's real situation, you could
say it's a trauma for a kid, it's an emotional trauma. And now he
doesn't have a dad that he lives with every day. That's really bad.
And the goal of Iblees is to get people not to marry in the first
place. And that's why you see difficulty in marriage is one of
the goals of at least one of my teachers of the Hamid Barak, he
always talks about this, the goal of bliss is to complicate
marriage, the goal of bliss is to bring in ideas for guys and girls
that causes them to like hate marriage and hate the opposite
gender, and not want the commitment and all that stuff. And
we see that happening. Now. I can't tell you how many guys like
to build women.
By the way, it's something I've been wanting to say. There should
be no loyalty to genders, no loyalty to ethnic group, no
loyalty to anything except the heart and the Sharia. That's the
only way we're going to survive as a community and a family. Like
there should be no we should not have any sensitivity towards a
person. Just because they're a guy. Any sensitivity just because
they're white, black, or brown, or Egyptian or Arab or Desi, like no
loyalty. There's only one loyalty otherwise, when we make judgments,
we're gonna have civil wars in our community and in our families.
As soon as someone comes up, and we're like assessing what they
said, the first thing is, what are you are you softening to them
because they're a woman and you're a woman? Right? canceled? Are you
softening to them? Wait, am I gonna soften because he's a guy
and I'm a guy cancel. That's, it's from what the province I sent him
said it's filthy, right? It's no different than I'm going to soften
to a guy because he's Egyptians. I'll let him get away with a ton
of stuff. I'm going to soften to a guy because he's American. Right?
This is what the prophets I said, I said, What talked about being
filthy, right? What would the Prophet neptina It's rotten? It's
because it's your judgment is rotten. Right. Your judgment is
clouded now. So I see all the time, like, sisters, they'll give
a feminist view, like a little bit of a pass, and guys will see a red
pill view and give it a bit of a pass. Right? No passes no
loyalties. There's only one loyalty in our community in our
group. I don't want to be part of a group where guys have that
leaning or girls have that leaning. And everyone who was
Ever they say, man, woman, whatever they say able disabled,
black or white. I can assess his speech. I can weigh it against a
Shinya.
If he's black and he's wrong, he's wrong. If he's a black woman, and
she's wrong, she's wrong. If it's an Arab man, and he's wrong, he's
wrong. Right? And if he's right, he's right.
We weighed by the Cydia and that which cannot be weighed by the
city. That's like all fee. Leave it don't say anything. Not right,
not wrong, right? Is his opinion. And if it's like a story that he
told the narrative, I can believe it or not believe it. Narrative
means nothing to me. That's just your story of what happened to you
in your life. I can't verify that or not verify it. Right. So I just
leave it hanging in the balance. If you have evidence that I'll
believe it.
Narrative, if it's your wife, she's always right. Well, I mean,
if your wife gives you narrative, you already assessed her that
she's a trustworthy source, right? So yeah, and she is always right.
I hate natural these natural feelings. We have brains.
Right? Brain must conquer whim. Like the natural softness I'll
have to somebody who should not be in assessing their speech. Yeah, I
might want to hang out with them.
Because we have more in common that's so different than assessing
is this is what they said good or bad.
That's what I'm saying. Yes, the truth value. That's what I mean by
that. So so when the prophesy centum said, Leave off this
nationalism for its filthy, what he meant by that is, if you're
using it as a filter of your moral of your of your of judgments,
on matters, it will rot, your judgment become rotten. There's no
judgment except God's law. After that, we can say there are some
other sources of truth that we can assess. But that's got to be the
only one that we go by. We got to make this this got to be part of
our teaching all of us as Muslims, we have to when someone speaks,
you cannot handcuff me because of their race or their gender, I
can't talk. What is this?
This destructive, you're gonna allow people to go astray like
this. Right? And because of their
position, maybe they're, like blessed or whatever they call them
privileged. We just say blessed, right? Because Allah created those
things. Okay, so his dad was was really rich. He's rich. He comes
from the upper class. Does that mean he can nothing he can say is
ever good? That's ridiculous. It's absurd
What time is it? 307 All right, we're wrapping up a couple
questions had enough is putting three in one. Wow.
He wants three questions in one shot. Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
he was sending would laugh at jokes when people would laugh from
what I heard. But not at
each other. He would not laugh laugh. He would not laugh if it
was lacking in edit and he would not laugh if it was
involved cursing
or of course something
that is backbiting either
can you own a small dog No, there's no dog ownership as a pet
in Islam. Oh my friend has a dog so and so as a dog they work do
you think I'm going to answer questions here for the people
based upon friends that we have in the community?
What do I care if they have a dog it's far from them go
Yeah,
exactly. All that it's right in that he said he preferred bids it
why did he forbid it because he the province I sent him said that
an angel will not enter the house if it hasn't dog in the angels of
Rama the angel the say yeah, he will not enter the house. Of
course that recording angels always enter your house. Right?
But the angels are mercy won't answer this. That's the
prohibition.
That's the basis of the prohibition wet who's allowed to
have dogs Bedouins nomads mountain men farmers, all those there
you're homeless got a dog that somebody if they were homeless,
they were traveling. They needed protection. Why because almost
needs protection. There's no house. The nomads don't have
normal homes.
Those aren't considered homes he pitches a tent and that's it. The
farmer he has a home but the dog is like part of the farm and there
they also live differently but the dog doesn't enter the house. The
dog goes lives in like the stable.
Their stables
Sophia says What time is medically fit class tonight. Hey, right what
did we say last time? 630 To 730 Yeah 630 Right.
Basically like shortly after good yeah, just double check force
please.
Can a lack of enablement to do a specific good deed be a test? Yes,
it could be a test.
I find myself defensive
about myself. Could that be from my knifes? Yes, it could be I
don't know about this specific case but to defend ourselves be
defensive about ourselves Yes, it could be from the attributes of
the knifes.
You could even have anything to add today
us
how to be consistent in actions spiritual and worldly, make them
simple. Simplify the action and then always have a reminder.
Especially if you drive around in America if you if you put your
your your most important things on like a cue card right in front of
the dashboard there it's a great reminder every time you go in the
car, you remind yourself
yep, I would like
the
like the same questions. So how do you stay like without kind of
getting annoyed by those questions and you know continue staying to
answer them and you know, like staying consistent on that.
There's a teacher in the district in New York she wants Teacher of
the Year 30 year straight How do you do that 30 year straight like
they didn't even want to give it for like just to look diverse in
it 30 year straight and she would say that I always look at it very
simply. For me it's maybe the 30th time but for him it's the first
time and it's so important to do these because they're all these
people may be new, like 20% of the people may be new every single
time every single time we do Ramadan how to fast or how to
how to do you know how to practice Ramadan how to do fasting
whatever. There are new people so I always look at it as
that's someone new. That's how you look at it
all also I always go back to look at the great od up. They did that
that was their practice that they never shied away from from doing
the ABCs why because that's you're now part of that Senate. How do I
know that that person may not go on and do such great things? I'll
be part of that Senate. Right.
That's that's what I love about this is like your first doorway.
Yeah, yeah. So a lot of people come through so therefore the
chances of someone being great is increases the more you eat people
said Muhammad Radha would Maliki his dad. Allah we had Maliki was
asked many times to join the college but he refused. He said I
love to be with the youth. I want to be with the youth.
All right, well, what else we have let's see from Instagram soapy.
Whatever the profit set of liquid is the priority he's right about
that.
Part of Bidda is to render the DUA are thicker that is not from the
sunnah to do. mazahub meaning to bump off, the thicker that is the
Sunnah.
Is there a hadith that says after 18 years after the Iraq War, the
Euphrates will dry up? No, there's no mention of yours. There is
mention of the Euphrates will dry up, but there is no mention of
yours.
All right.
What is the chef a ruling on St. Agatha?
Do you know that?
By the way, I don't remember I don't advise people go around
doing this to nobody. Nobody lives like this.
I know. Yeah. Yeah. It's nonsense. Nobody does this. It's like maybe
in the poem.
Maybe part of a vicar has it. But no one goes around doing that. I
don't advise people to go around doing that about so it's not a
without any basis at all and knowledge either they have a basis
what they're saying.
One more question before we wrap up and you can support this live
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that it's going to be supported with or without you. No offense,
but you can be part of getting these hasnat.
How can we haven't found the island on which Gog and Magog
live? Because they're not on an island? They're under the ground
somewhere.
Can you do a series on the end of times? Yeah, well maybe we'll make
a day after we finished the Shema and or something. Maybe we'll find
a time where we could do a little bit of that.
Can you leave everything behind and just study the deen? Well
maybe depending on your life circumstances.
Last question I've just heard you what does it mean by Allah
sanctify his secret it means someone is trying to be cute and
trauma trying to be sophistic and that's the people who talk like
that all these West Coast guys right that's how they talk but got
this Allah cetera who is
In the Arabic books and what it means the Senate is the deepest
inner part of your heart, and a tuck this is to remove all flaws
from it. That is the concept. But
essentially, that's one of those things that that bugs Eastern East
Coast people the wrong way when you try to speak a different way,
act a different way, dressed a different way, and be some unique
thing. When you're like 20 years old, you've accomplished nothing
in life in Dean or community, right? You're not the real thing.
And the East Coast tends to be more conservative. The West Coast
is innovative. The West Coast will always bring unique things out.
But the East Coast is always more about
like once the West Coast finds create something good, we take it
and we make it permanent. Right? We make it last. And that's why
maybe that's part of the culture maybe the other part of the
culture is all the immigrants who come from from no nonsense cities.
Like a lot of the Italians that are here the data is from Karachi
is really busy cities there's no nonsense
they could sniff out someone who's full of BS. Cairo is no different
than that all these immigrants who live like that allow them but
that's just how it is. And
these types of
talk that's related to to so Wolf, to me is a distraction from the
real thing. And you got people wasting their time on that stuff,
where the real thing is all about it's it's very contagious,
consistent, a bad and hopeful, DUA and vicar to Allah, the Quran,
Allah subhanaw taala over years and years and years and you will
get
you will get results I had mentioned the other day that one
of the guarantees of the deen is that you're going to be happy
that's if you practice it properly because Allah subhanaw taala meant
I'm gonna do I'm gonna sign Nirjala who my
highest Antiva we will give him a good life.
For not here now hired on by Eva, everyone who believes and does
righteous deeds, we will make sure he lives a righteous a good life.
Like he's happy in his finances. He's happy in his marriage. He's
happy with his kids. He's happy in his health, all that thing. That's
Hi, Adam, thank you, but in every way, shape and form, right, he's
satisfied and happy. So that's a guarantee. So it's more about the
work than all these superficiality which I think are harmful for
people because they do waste your time.
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