Riyadh Walls – Jumuah Talk Only Masjidus Sunni (10 Mar 2023)
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between ourselves and every type of behavior, that which would
bring upon us the anger and wrath and displeasure of Allah subhanho
wa taala. So we want to be of the monarchy.
And we want to avoid all of those things that are going to
compromise us attaining that goal not so bad.
So Allah subhanaw taala in these two verses in sort of early Imran,
and that is verse 123. And 124. That was one of dialysis was
Illuma FIRA to become an all of you. race forward, go forward.
Sadie earlier you know Surah Heysen.
In doing what in seeking a forgiveness from your creator and
sustainer
and a Paradise which is greater than the heavens in the earth,
prepared for ultimate turkey. prepared for those who have Taqwa.
That is our goal to be able to make turkey. Allah make us of them
in Europe. analemma Who are they? Olivia noon, hakuna fissara It was
the raw. They are those that spend in the time of adversity and
prosperity. Well call the Meenal. Right. And they control the anger.
Well, I Fein and the nurse and they forgive people will law your
ship will mercy Nene. And Allah loves the people of excellence.
Now all of these are connected. I'm going to focus on only one
today.
Only one of them. Because Hamdulillah we still have got some
time that we can focus and practice
on this particular aspect, in order that our fast is not
spoiled. We spoke last week, we spoke about the two things that
can spoil our fast and I'll pray. We spoke about immunity that can
cause our Salah not even to be raised one hands break above our
heads.
And we spoke about the aspect of
what can break the shield that we attained when we are fasting. And
that is for example when the Prophet said Salah Salem was so
Medina Miralem Yeah, that fasting is a shield as long as you don't
break the chili. And what do you break it? What are the orlimar
saying in the commentary of the Hadith belieber with backbiting or
with any type of false speech manlam yada, Masood will amarilla
be he whoever doesn't leave false speech and the acting they aren't
Felicity law. He has written a Yoda amo Sharada whoever doesn't
leave for speech, then Allah has no use you for them to leave the
food and they drink Allah. It's no use for them too fast in other
words,
so we've covered that part of it. But now, how did we arrive in
enmity? Alhamdulillah we all made this law. Before the 15th Night of
Shabbat we all received the forgiveness. We have the best
thoughts and anger Vanya Abdi vi M to my slavers, they think of me so
we all sought Allah's forgiveness on the 15th Tight of Shabbat. And
according to that hadith, in a top Iranian Mustafa Muhammad and many
other took of that hadith that Allah subhanaw taala looked at us
and as being Muslim, meaning not pushy key and us having no Shanna
or Adamawa enmity in our hearts for each other. Allah forgive us
on the 15th Night of Shabaab. So instead, we are already asleep
sipping word clean, all vessels, our buckets of tanks, whatever you
want to call it, have been mended. But now Gemma to Muslimeen, what
got us into that? I doubt in the first place that had we still had
that enmity in our hearts on the 15th Night of Shabbat, we would
not have received the forgiveness of Allah subhanaw taala how do we
prevent it from happening again?
And this is one of the main reasons why we are striving to be
of the Moroccan
and hence why we are fasting the month of Ramadan.
Allah the new fissara Dora, what's the first attribute those that
spend in the time off
of prosperity or adversity, a survivor of the raw prosperity
first, he says those who spend at the time of prosperity and they
spend in the time of adversity.
And how is this connected to controlling our anger? Because
when you spend you're happy
and this has been scientifically proven with fMRI scans. They've
actually proven
and in depth studies, scientific studies, medical studies.
They have found that when a person gives charity that they are
neurochemicals, oxytocin and endorphins that are released in
the brain that literally makes you feel happy.
And that he shall not Allah we can dedicate one Oh good, but to in
the month of Ramadan because the month of Ramadan is the month of
giving
began to feel the pangs of hunger in order to empathize with the
poor and the needy and spend in the path of Allah. So, the first
attribute of the Buddha king, they are happy and happy people.
Inshallah Tada, if it comes from the right place, that they are
doing it for the sake of Allah, with strong Iman and Taqwa in
their hearts, then they will be by default, they will have the second
attribute, which is what we'll call the meaning of life. Those
who control the anger. So those who spin happy
and happy people have got more control over over the anger. We'll
call the minute. Well, I fina and the nurse, and people who have
control over the anger automatically have the third
attribute. And that is when people provoked him and antagonize them.
They don't get angry, so they forgive them.
Although you're humble, Marcin, and Allah loves the doers of
excellency, this is excellent. And this is what we are striving for.
This is our goal that we wanted attain in the month of Ramadan. So
today, I just want to speak about this one aspect. Well curl the
mean, allow you
to control our anger.
This is a big problem tomato Muslimeen. And I speak to myself
first. But like this is something this is one of the
inherent qualities of men. It's one of our greatest weaknesses,
that we cannot control our anger. And if you just look at
the meaning of the word soul, you will understand why soul plays
such an important role in coverman.
In controlling our anger, why fasting plays such an important
role in controlling anger.
If you just look for example, when I say the Maria, when she gave
birth Teresa,
Aileen was Salatu was Salam. And Allah subhanho wa Taala
send a command to her. For Imam Tara in Amina Al Bashir
that if you see any person after she gave birth, if you see any
person and you have your baby with you, you have your baby with you
for him Murtala Mohammed Al Bashir hadn't for CO lead and say to them
in about Talia, Rahmani Salma
say to them will indicate to them because she indicated indicate to
them that you are observing Sonos does that mean she wasn't eating
or drinking? No, you just gave birth. In fact, just before that
Allah said for Cooley was Shafi eat and drink or Kareena and and
attain the coolness of your eyes you know in this great gift that
Allah subhanaw taala has given you in this great rank with which
Allah has raised you eat and drink so it wasn't that kind of fasting
because Sowmya look at and literally means a limb suck
a limb suck
him suck has got other meanings as well him suck actually literally
means constipation.
Yes, it is hard is diarrhea is how comes with with salad with means
easy.
And insert is the word they use medically for for constipation,
but here inside means abstinence.
Abstinence, you know to, to withhold to to take control of
it also means tight * and suck tight * in the sense of
insert can be used as an Arabic word for for stinginess insert, so
but it all has to do with taking a hold of taking a grip of
especially when it comes to anger we have to get a grip of yourself
as they would say take a hold of yourself himself. We as Sharon
what is the meaning of of soul?
It is as learning in his physical body very plainly and easily puts
it out for us. Him subcon Mark Susan fees semonin Mizzou sin and
shame in Mizzou sin Beshara ito maxvill Safa beautiful Arabic
language is so sweet salmon adolescence is just a saying that
observe you know sweeter than then you know the creme de la creme
mixed with honey Allahu Akbar. He says that fasting is this is not
the legal meaning. What did you say? What is the literal meaning
abstinence, the legal meaning. It is encircle Mark Susan a specific
time of abstinence, abstinence from food, drink and sexual
relations
be examined in McPherson at a specific time from true dawn until
the setting of the sun and che in oxytocin, which I've already
mentioned the things from which they are a we are going to be
abstaining. Be shallow item of Susa with specific conditions,
that which we learn when we study the effect of care, but literally
means abstinence in suck.
And this is one of the challenges that mankind
has been creating one other way when rather say weaknesses, what
do you call in Son of God? Allah subhanaw taala says and mankind
has been created weak, it's one of our weaknesses. And that is we
struggle to, to take a hold of ourselves to restrain ourselves.
When it comes to when it comes to getting angry. It's a big test
from Allah. In the hadith of our beloved prophet muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam narrated by an SCP Malik and
Rasulullah sallallahu Salah McCall Lama So what Allah Who? The mfine
JANA Turaco who Masha Allah Who are your truco when Allah subhanaw
taala fashioned Adam or father, Adam de Mille, or why is he called
Adam? Because be created from from a demon or a demons the crust of
the earth that's why it's created from dust Taarab
created him from dust and said Can Be and he was
but you follow Allah even blew his life into him. After Allah had
just fashioned him. Allah lifted him for a while. And when he was
in the garden, that Hello, clay that Allah subhanaw taala had
fashioned che Athan Allah subhanho wa Taala be Hekmati. He elderly,
with his perfect wisdom allowed shaytaan to observe them in the
state. This is not the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam
and it's in Sahih Muslim it's an authentic hadith. So for gyla he
believes UTF will be he so what happened? He believes
he went around
Adam in the state
he found him to be a hello from within young Roma who were phenom
Morrow
when he found Adam to be a hello from within.
Ma Hua Mei Hua, phenom Mara who I dropped out of her I know holy
lie uttama Allah,
he realized that Adam has been created a creation, type of
creation that lacks self restraint.
So this is a handicap of mankind. And something that we have to work
so hard to get on top of, to take a hold of to get the better off,
to restrain ourselves to abstain from getting angry, because as it
comes in the understanding of the Sahaba of the Hadith of the
Prophet Salah Salem Allah.
He said, for evil god abou your GMAT was shot.
He says, he understood why the prophets of Allah live after he
thought long and hard. He understood why the Prophet says
Don't say Don't get angry.
Because anger brings all evil together. I mean, what we can do,
when we get angry, what we can say the things that we say the things
that we do, when are you the biller?
Anger is that handicap is probably one of the greatest flaws that he
believes that Shelton plays on when it comes to deceiving mankind
and taking him from the straight path of Allah subhanho wa taala.
So, tomato Muslimeen this is something that we need to take
very, very seriously.
I'm going to speak about money go straight into the village. I'm
going to go straight into the cure
of anger and getting to grips with ourselves when we get angry.
Number one, very simply Alistair either to bIllahi min ash
upon this, this is something. This is something that the shaytaan
it's like it's an opening for him. Soon as we get angry, you know he
is there. And he is whispering because now just by the fact that
we've got angry we've forgotten Allah.
And we did that hadith a number of weeks ago, a Shantanu Jetty when
shaytan is perched on the heart of men, for either vicar Allah
connoisseur, and if you remember is Allah connoisseur, so I use,
Allah was wersal phoners he withdraws. If the person remembers
Allah, He withdraws. Why either Lafonda was herself, but if he
forgets Allah, he becomes heedless and mindless of Allah. Then he
whispers and that's when he literally throws fuel on the fire.
The fire of God of the fire of anger.
So the first one is Alistair either to bIllahi min ash shaytaan
as Allah subhanaw taala season the Holy Quran
by the
Tanana gem, we're not just there, we'll have to we'll say yeah, it
bility here arson is a levy by Nicola
Hamid, Wilma you locka in Larina sobre como la Ka in level healthy
nauseam
for in millions of undocumented shaytani gnas. One Foster is built
in Noah who was semi
almost wanted to alysus and a good deed can never equal a bad deed a
good reaction can never equal a bad reaction give back that which
is better. So that the one in between you and them in which
there is enmity between you and them. It's like they become your
bosom buddy, but nobody will attain this except for those who
are patient and persevering. And nobody will attain this, except
those who are truly blessed by ALLAH SubhanA wa taala. By the
way, you know, Salman Sauber, you know, what's the connection
between someone sub
A sub Rooney's for Iman, the Prophet said Salah Salem that
patience and perseverance is half of all faith.
And in other Hadith, this is a so Munis for sub fasting is half of
all supper, Allahu Akbar. So fasting is literally 1/8 of our
entire Iman.
And through fasting, we'll be able to strengthen our suburb,
especially at the time when we are being provoked and antagonized.
When are you locked in the Ladino sobre. Nobody be able to control
themselves and give back better when they are being provoked or
antagonized, except those who are patient and persevering and nobody
will attain this except those who are truly blessed by Allah. And
then what does he say for him Mayans, Camino che autonomous goon
and if they comes to you a whispering of the evil whisperings
of shaitan, then seek refuge in Allah Indeed, Allah, He is the old
hearing the All Knowing.
Allah hears us when you say I will be living the shutdown regime. And
Allah knows our state of weakness, He created us with that weakness.
So immediately, he protects us from that anger overtaking us.
So our beloved Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam he makes it very
clear in this hadith he says,
in Neil Alamo Kalimantan lokala has been home aged lokala bIllahi
min ash shaytani R rajim. Regime lokala ro bIllahi min ash
Shaytaan, The hubba and Huma Yoji. Dora well Bukhari Muslim authentic
hadith when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when he saw two men Wayne's
two men were insulting each other two men were insulting each other,
but
one of them they faces became red one oh daju Oh dodge is the rock
in the neck, you know the, you see that? Veins sticking out and the
guy goes red in the face and the veins are just popping out in the
neck. You know, Oh, this guy is on fire. There was no quiet
followed by quiet.
And so the prophets Allah Salam, when he saw this, he said I know a
word
that if he had to utter it,
then it that which has overcome him with leave him that anger it
has now overcome him would leave him and that is just to say our
own bIllahi min ash shaytaan our own bIllahi min ash shaytani R
Rajim either hajipur Raju for kala who would be less second. Another
Hadith, authentic hadith The Prophet said Salah Salam if a man
gets angry oh a person, man or female doesn't matter.
A male or female if a person gets angry
and they say are owed to biller they seek refuge in Allah, second
or double who second literally means to become still other words.
The anger will subside, guaranteed, guaranteed
number two a Sukkot
now
But to a Sukkot, Allah this is the most difficult Yeah, Allah, Ya
Allah, especially for as men, you know, as Elizabeth
and for us to keep quiet.
And it wasn't too long ago I was.
I was under the train, in see point, the rest of the train. And
so there was a youngster is telling me wants to get married.
So I say to my just, you know, it's giving him it's true, but you
know we always make a joke of it. I said to him, remember, but if
you do remember a woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument to
still play as a who your Android, you know, rather just keep quiet.
So good was good, keep quiet.
He's doing allies advice while it's difficult.
So another guy gets on the train.
And he comes up to greet me and I greet him. I recognize him and
exchanged a few words and I said, Uncle, please give this young man
some advice. He wants to get married. So he says to my boy,
whatever you do, make sure that you have the last word in any
argument. That Oh, Kamala stick.
And that's exactly the opposite of what I just said. I said what is
Uncle mean? He said my point make sure you have the last word in any
argument.
Just say use deer.
But but you know this, this will lay this Heckman in this as
difficult as it is keeping quiet. Our beloved prophet Sallallahu
wasallam he says either 30 But
if any of you become angry, then keep quiet. Because what is going
to happen is we're going to say something and then the other
person is going to say something and then we're going to say
something more. You know, it reminds me of the story of the
bring this story I actually left it for the end but I see our time
is running out again. The story of said Abu Bakr, the ally
Abu Bakr, this is a Hadith Abu Hurayrah de la Tabata, Kota Allah
and who are the
unknown Rajul and shettima backers. There was a man that
insulted said number bhaker
Sheikh Abu Bakr when the BU sallallahu alayhi wa Salam jadie
soon and the Prophet was sitting there this man is insulting said
Abu Bakr and the Prophet salallahu Salam is sitting there
for Jalan Abu Salah Salem. Yeah, like the prophets looking and he's
like surprised and he's smiling
while somebody is insulting his friend. How does this work
for llama Raja Allah Heba Cody and when this man you know after
insulting sit in Abu Bakr for a while Abubaker he can hear me for
him Oh nice. He gives him back some of his medicine. That's what
exactly what it means for the delay he bada Kali. These insults
Abubaker Rajang gave him some this man gave him some of his own
medicine
for katiba bu Salah some So the Prophet became angry sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam
what karma for Lyta who Abu Bakr the Prophet became angry and he
stood up and he wanted to leave. So immediately the Abu Bakr Raja
and went to him and said y'all Rasulullah Kenny Stoney. This man
was insulting me what antigen listen, you were sitting for
namorada to Ali Baba Cody had dipped our counter. And when I
gave him back some of your own medicine. You still you got angry
and you stood up.
So our beloved Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
he said to him your Abubaker
he said, No who can America mela Konya rude Dalek. He said that
when he was insulting you, there was an angel that was with you,
defending you. And when you gave him back some of what he was
giving to you, the shaytaan entered and came to sit with you.
And that is why I stood up for lamb a Coonley shaitan because I
did not want to sit in the Shakedowns prisons. I did not want
to sit in the shaytans prisons sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So
you know these things Allahu Akbar. Is that something that we
are aware of? Because it's been an element of *. Somebody is, is
insulting us. Somebody is antagonizing us. Somebody is
provoking us as long as we are quiet. The angels of Allah are
with us.
And as soon as we engage with him, then Shelton comes into the
picture.
And we have lost everything that had been given to us because of
our abstinence because of our Insert because of our suburb
because of our soem
And that's why when we are fasting what's one of the most important
things that we have to abstain from for either can yomo Sowmya
honeycomb so if any of you are fasting on a particular day for
your football club, then let them not engage in any obscenity or
vulgarity. We're inside
and if anybody insults the fasting person, oh Katella who wants to
fight with him failure in Esau? Then let them say, I am fasting
tomato assuming we still got one Friday, haven't we?
Inshallah, I'm going to leave the second half of this cookbook for
next week in sha Allah and the ultimate for myself the ultimate
preparation for the month of Ramadan. But I leave you with the
words of the poet. He says you Hardy buenas Sufi who be koliko
Pang. You heard the boonies Sufi who be equally open. What an akuna
Allahumma Jeeva. He has he do suffer Hatton Hutton was he
corroding?
He says, The fool speaks to me in the ugliest manner.
That was wonderful. He calls him the foolish people, the ignorant
people are in the heart of
Carlos Salama, when the ignorant ones address them. When the
foolish ones address them. They say back to them peace.
So the poet says the fool speaks to me in the ugliest manner. What
a corner whom who Jeeva but I refuse to give him an answer he is
he to suffer Hatton what as either helmet, he increases in his
foolishness, and I increase in my forbearance corroding the whole
Iraq katiba like a piece of road you know what's
another Oh doctor, but it's made from a BA get it in India. And you
get it in in Cambodia Rudl Cambodia, very expensive. And the
more you burn it is this corroded. Zod Harar katiba like a piece of
erode the more you burn it, the sweeter it smells. That was one
that Allah make us like they're owed, in controlling our anger
Inshallah, we've got another
eight points that I'm going to deal with Inshallah, next week,
from the beginning, we're just going to finish those eight
points. And from then on, may Allah make us of those that are
called the menial hate, controlling of the anger of the
spending in the path of Allah with a higher fee now and in us and
forgiving people. While low you will mercy Nene, and that Allah
make us of those whom He loves of the excellent doers inside of
Ramadan, and outside of Ramadan, until the next Ramadan until Allah
takes us from this world and returns us to him. Well Acura
Dhawan and hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa Salam Alaikum
Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi overcoat
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