Homemade Happiness #19 Conclusion – Message to all members of the family

Riad Ouarzazi


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smilla hamdulillah salatu salam ala rasulillah salam aleikum, wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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mean when it comes to them Can you hear me from Instagram says the SP

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Can you hear me?

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Sound is good

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Mashallah, you're the first one. Sound is good on Instagram.

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How's the sound on Instagram brothers and sisters so I'm already gone

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and handled a lot of blending

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alemannic I'm also using my mic. So I hope the sound would be great and me as those on Facebook.

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Face Facebook.

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Marie Kondo is on Facebook.

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And I consider him sister Fantasia. How's the sound on Facebook?

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Sister Mariana? How's the sound on Facebook?

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On Facebook has the sound goes on Facebook brothers and sisters. Can you hear me?

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It comes Sarah Lohan, Eva Catherine Merriam, but I need to know how's the sound on Facebook? Very good. All right. 100 a little bit at me alone 100 less of them article hot lava kettle alemannic ahem, so sound these back good on Facebook and good on Instagram. So we're good to go inshallah with that. Very good. lamonica hamdulillah

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today is our conclusion you know for homemade happiness. So I just want to give a minute or two for more people to join so that we can start inshallah Oh, dad. All right. So that we can start welcome all of you bought a coffee come for joining metalizer to bless you all that Camilla hair.

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Thank you for the hearts and thank you for the flowers everyone by the coffee comm Thank you so much.

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hamdulillah bled me.

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Yeah, hello. muhabba Hello, Madhava all of you.

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Today, inshallah, Tada. Like I said, it's our final episode of homemade happiness. It was 19 episodes. So panela 19 Yeah. 19 So it's a pretty compared to the end of time, it's pretty short. But it was a very comprehensive, comprehensive hamdulillah

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and today is my conclusion in sha Allah, Allah to Allah, we will go through the all the foundations and principles, but today inshallah I wouldn't have a message for every member of the family be it Neela a short message for every member of the family and then we need your maybe your opinions because or suggestions because I'm thinking of my our next topic, our next series, maybe the names of Allah ha, maybe the stories of the prophets, because you mentioned we know, we, I, when I asked you about homemade happiness and the, and stories of the prophets love, you also mentioned about the source of the profits. So um,

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so I, at the very end, I'm going to ask your opinions, whether we should maybe go for stories of the prophets or maybe the names of Allah and how to live with the names of Allah as the origin. You know, so I would ask you at the very end, but now, I'm going to go through the conclusion, you know, of our homemade happiness. So, let's say let's start out at the start all over again. Bismillah

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Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah

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salam aleikum. wa rahmatullah wa Taala. can handle ba da da da hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah. Amen. That can hum dokolo la casa Boku wa beshara se de were silly Emily washed up with me Listen, you are calling me Allah azzawajal bless all of you. Thank you so much for coming back and attending although the attendance has shown quiet or come down or gone down quite drastically from Ramadan until now.

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I hope you know that things would pick up at some point inshallah. Tada. So my brothers and sisters, this is our conclusion for the our series, you know, homemade happiness series.

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We have started earlier this series,

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you know, a

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few months ago, maybe a month ago now, and maybe a couple months ago so far, maybe a month or two

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Have, and we have covered quite a few principles and foundations, you know, foundations that would you know, in Sharla hotel benefit the entire inop family, I call it homemade happiness because we want our homes to be filled with happiness and joy and peace and serenity. My brothers and sisters shaitan his aim is to

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break our family apart, this is what he wants. shaitaan wants to break families wants to break houses apart was the break, you know, unity apart, but

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and he has made that oath Subhanallah he has made that oath to Allah subhanho wa Taala because this is his good aim. And his goal is to break things apart, you know, from our unit and our families. Why families because the families are the foundation of the wisdom of the society. Families are the foundation of society and, and beliefs. That's a lie. You know, shaytan he wants to break up our unit and he wants to break up our foundation. He wants to break up our homes. That's it. So in this series, I've shared with you rules and foundations that will help preserve our family relations, help preserve our family, you know, unity, and you know and serenity. We talked about, you know,

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worshipping Allah Xhosa together, you know, these are some of the foundations were shipping a lot together, we talked about value in your family, we talked about, you know, the foundation of living with mercy. We talked about the foundation of the pivotal role of the Father, we talked about the foundation of you know, the father of the friend, we talked about the foundation of mothers, the mothers are the engines for motivations. We talked about the foundation or the principle of the language of compassion. We talked about, you know, respect and appreciation. You know, this is regarding your children. We talked about no to hostility if remember when we talked about raising

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our kids, we said no to using force and no to hostility, we talked about watering the love. Remember, this is where the gods two husbands and wives are our water that love watering the love water, the plant water, the flower, we talked about intimacy is a sacred act. That's

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foundation number 12. If you have not wrote it down, write it down right now, please.

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intimacy is a sacred act. intimacy is a sacred act, please write it down.

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And then number 13, we talked when we talked about friends, your friends are a mirror on to you, that's another foundation. That's another principle.

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Your friends are a mirror onto you.

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Remember, when we talked about friends and how they affect you, you know, either positively or negatively, right? The importance of friends and how they can affect you as a person, you know, either positively or negatively. So these are some of the foundations that we spoke about. So far. My brothers and sisters

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these foundations, brothers and sisters have changed. And Allah is my witness. So many households.

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These foundations that have shared with you have changed so many so many lahoma can have so many households for the better America and for the better. These foundations have changed have changed so many husbands, these foundations have changed so many wives, these foundations have changed so many brothers and sisters, they have changed how so many fathers and mothers allow medical hams you know, as long as you try to adopt them as much as you can insha Allah huhtala when we say about worshiping Allah together How can this not change your household? How can this not change your family worshiping Allah subhanho wa Taala together maybe you know like I said, you know praying pm and live

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together the night pray together especially now during this lockdown. You know, you don't go to the masjid anyways. Right? You don't go to the masjid anyway. So this is the best time to worship Allah subhanho wa Taala together with your family, you know, the best is to wake up at night before and to do some live together. You know, how can this not change the family for the better when we talked about

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Latinos, no to hostility, no to beating and using force to use the language of Ashima of compassion of mercy.

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And an advisor just say some sorts about verse number 20. So let's say that verse number 21 sadaqa de comida de Souza who fell in love for you

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Allah subhanho wa Taala says indeed he believes shaytan has proved true his thought

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about them and they followed him. Allah subhanaw taala says that it believes Jani shaytaan the anahola sadaqa him he believes was a breeze indeed has

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proven or he did prove true the start he started was to you know dismantle the Unity dismantle our unity dismantle our horse household dismantle our families, you know don't put the children in one world in one island and the family in another island remember when I talk to you about that dream? You know, the dream the vision you know about this, this earthquake that happened and the that split you know the household into different islands, you know, is you believe stuff no God, he believes that in anahola you know, as Allah subhanho wa Taala says and so it's said that verse number 20 he proved true his thought so don't let him succeed. Don't let he believes and he you know is

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no proof true his talk in your household know inshallah, how to start first. Take these foundations. Take these foundations take these you know, principles I have shared with you. And don't wait for your dad to start first. Don't wait for your mother to start first. Don't wait for your husband to start first. Don't wait for your wife to start first. Don't wait for your brother to start first and know which way your sister to start first. You will start first inshallah hota start make that and put and everything will be in your immediate vicinity. Everything would be in your book of records in sha Allah who tada so you start Bismillah make be that that that that vehicle that can drive your

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family to success and to genre insha Allah to Allah right so to the children you to the older brothers and sisters out there to all the wives and husbands out there to all the moms you know, and and that's out there. Dino Cadena kalamalka demo your religion, your your house, your family, it's your blood, it's your skin, it's your soul, it's your life, your families, your life, you know, put some efforts in shot low data in preserving that family brothers and sisters. I want to share with you one last foundation and maybe for me this is the best foundation of all

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this is the best foundation of all I want to share it with you because this is my final foundation. So far I have shared 13 foundations. This is number 14 the the the final Foundation, the best foundation of all sisters and brothers. Are you ready to hear it? Are you ready to take notes are you ready to you know noted down in Sharla huhtala in gold guys are you ready brothers and sisters you ready for this one? Because this is it. This is my final foundation. Today is my final session about homemade happiness and I'm done. The series will be over inshallah Tada. So this is my final foundation for all of you. And I hope you are really ready for it and Sharla to write it down up on

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in gold but write it down in your hearts in your hearts in sha Allah hota put it down down there in your hearts write it down in gold and this is it because for me this is the one and only if you if you have a problem with other foundations that that have mentioned or maybe you forgot them, but this one here is the one that you want inshallah huhtala to adhere to. This is the one you want to adhere to and you want to hold on to inshallah hota with your own high blood they have been no as you know, you know grab onto it in sha Allah who Tada This foundation is called fire it is the core. A taqwa is the core.

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A taqwa is the core kokkola This is my final foundation.

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the very final naziha

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The foundation is the corner say Hatton inshallah, tada why the plug in Allah homotopy

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Allah is indeed with and will definitely with the righteous, Allah is with the righteous subhanho wa Taala Allah subhana wa tada is with those who who who fears him subhanho wa Taala topco Allah in the llama and will tepee

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yeah hello muhabba

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we couldn't connect with him but my brothers and sisters as I mentioned

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one many power failure how finale him while

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Allah subhanho wa Taala says those who fear and work righteousness, those who feel and work righteousness, find out hope when any one of them yes, no, they have nothing to fear and they have nothing to be set up or said about.

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And the two key points here is taqwa. onsala taco means piety and righteousness. So that means you know work in righteousness again treating Allah Xhosa and so that so that means being righteous fella whoa finale he went home Yes, no, they have nothing to worry about and nothing to be afraid of. And nothing to be said about and shout Allahu Allah, Allah subhanho wa Taala in any type my brothers and sisters if you feel Allah Subhana Allah to Allah wa slotter and then your righteous your household in sha Allah who tada shall be righteous, it knew that. So the key point my brothers and sisters and this is why I lifted until the end, because it is the core, piety is the core, you

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know, if you feel Allah Subhana Allah to Allah, Allah would preserve and protect your household in sha Allah hota add it, if you feel Allah Subhana Allah Donna, you know, Allah will give you guidance, guidance in in between being patient with your family guidance in in speaking the love language with your family inshallah tada patience with your loved ones guidance on how to leave your loved ones inshallah tada for the whole family.

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If you were to change Bismillah my brothers and sisters, you know, change with your relationship with your wife, unless you put your husband you know, in power that relationship, you know, empower that relationship with your children with your son with your daughter, would your would your father would your mother inshallah hope that? You know now hopefully,

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you know, hopefully you will not be afraid there is no fear. There's no worry. There's no worry in your school. There is no worry and sadness in your home. There is no worry and no sadness in your business. There is no worry, no sadness in your entire life. Why because taqwa is the core. taqwa is the core, Allah subhanho wa Taala says in Allah Allah. Indeed Allah surely Allah is with the righteous ones. So if Allah is with you, what else is gonna you know, make you sad or worried or scared or terrified? Nothing can terrify you, nothing can can cause you anywhere because Allah is with us. Subhana Allah data in the lab man we're talking Indeed Allah surely Allah is with and with

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the P surely Allah is with as with the P the righteous the pious inshallah Tada This is the chemo brothers and sisters is taqwa.

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And what is Taka?

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What is the core? You may answer or you may wonder what is the core? What is piety? What is righteousness? Well, here's the beautiful, beautiful, you know, story that gives us a like a preview of what topo is a beautiful, true, true story. Brothers and sisters. Are you ready to hear my story? Remember my stories? I have not shared with you stories in a long time. Are you ready to hear my story now?

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Huh? Are you ready to hear my story? This is an amazing True story. Are you ready to hear it?

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yes and yes, light spread. How about those on Facebook? Are you ready to hear my story?

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Khadija, Mohammed and Mariana Yes. All right. Bismillah

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Bismillah, Yasmin Bismillah, hanifa, Humira, masala potty labeler Yes, ready Bismillah listening, you may have heard the story of this man by the name of tablets have been able to him, that would enable him was a righteous man

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was walking by a field of trees of apples one day, and then he found an apple, you know, on the ground, he picked it up, and he had a bite of it. After having that bite of that, you know, that Apple, he realized that he did not ask permission from the owner of that, of that garden of him of that field, you know, he did not ask permission from that owner to eat that Apple, he only had a bite of it. Anyways. So what did he do? He went, you know, search for the owner, he you know, and then he made a person, you know, garden that, that, that that field, he says, Are you the owner of that of this field, because I had a bite of this apple that I forgot to ask permission, you know,

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and he says, No, I'm not the owner, the owner leaves quite far away from here. So he gave him you know, the directions on how to go to the house of the owner of the field. Why just to ask permission, or forgiveness for having a bite of the apple, something that is so trivial when you go out sometimes, you know, as when we go out shopping, groceries, right? And then maybe you will taste a grape, and you will taste this and you will notice that you will not realize right, you know, it's only a taste here. But that man had a taste of the apple but realized that I did not ask permission from the owner of the of this field or in of this garden, to have a bite of this apple. So he

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traveled, he went very far, until he went to the house of the rich, the you know, the house of the man, the owner of that field, he knocked at his door. And then the man came in said America, Amsterdam, I was just an I came from very far. I was just I want to let you know, that was walking by your feet. And you know, in the trees of apples. And then I picked an apple that was actually on the ground. I picked it up and had a bite of it. But I realized that I did not ask permission. And I came all the way here to let you know, would you please forgive me? Would you please? Yeah. And he was samahang ceremony? He says No, I will not forgive you. I'm sorry. We're not forgiving than he

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loved, you know, lock, lock the door at his face. And then he knocked out one more time that boy that fair bit to enable him.

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You know, so he knocked one more time. And he says,

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Please, please forgive me. You know, I came from very far, you know, just so I can ask you permission in order to forgive me because I forgot that I didn't realize that I had to ask permission first. The man says I will not forgive you. That said, I said I will not forgive you. I need and then the motion. Please. I'll do anything. Just forgive me. I'll do anything. I'd serve you. I'll do anything. The man said you'll do anything. He says yes, I do anything since then you marry my daughter. You marry my daughter. You come from very far. Then marry my daughter and I would forgive you. This is

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the basis My daughter has a problem. This is a true story. Well, it's a true story says My daughter has a problem. My daughter she's deaf. My daughter. She's Muth she's and she's blind. Yeah. And she has all the massage of dystonia, all the muscle and you know, she's deaf.

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She's, she's mute, and she is blind, she cannot hear she cannot see and she cannot talk.

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So the man had no choice because he ate that Apple, right? And he had no choice. He wants the men to forgive him. So

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he agreed to marry her.

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He married her without even seeing her. The Father, you know, did the doctor and everything. They came later on and on. He met he at night and he wants to see his wife as he came to see his wife. He entered and he said was Selam Aleykum Selam Aleykum Jani. This is when you enter your home he says Selam Aleykum

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Selam Aleykum the wife said widecombe Salah.

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But she's supposed to be deaf.

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He came to see her. He says oh, I said said mid combat. Your father said that you're deaf. You can't hear.

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And you cannot talk. She says yes. I cannot hear he is right. I cannot hear I only listen to how well I don't listen to how long I stay away from Harlem. I don't listen to her. I only listen to her. And you father told me that you cannot. You know you, you you you you don't talk either. She says Yes, he's right. I don't talk. I don't talk about heroin. I only talk about heroin. I don't speak back. I don't curse. I don't swear. I don't speak foul language. Right. I don't speak and I don't do Reba. I don't do NEMA. I don't I don't I don't know how long I don't speak Hello, my only talk Hello

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And you can see too because your father told me that you're blind. He says, Yes, he is right. I don't see I don't see I don't look at heroin. I only look at heroin. I refrain from looking at her. They got married. What a beautiful marriage. What a beautiful, you know, couple, they got married Allah Subhana Allah, Allah bless them with a beautiful son, who is not buddy but

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Abu hanifa la Mata lolly. These are the parents of Abu hanifa. This is the fruit. The fruit of this unity between a man who fears Allah has taqwa and between a woman who feels Allah she has taqwa, they got married, and Allah Subhana Allah Allah bless them with a boy the fruit of that marriage is who is the atom, the atom of Atlanta who share a boy hanifa Rahmatullah la right. So this is what taco is Depo abou Hola. He gave this beautiful expression of turquoises if you walk in on a field, you know, on a field that's got you know, the breeze and broken glasses, you know, everywhere. How would you be walking says you'd be walking on your tiptoes. Making sure that you don't step on any

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debris, making sure that you don't step on any broken glass or whatnot. Right? Making sure that you don't hurt yourself. This is likewise step one before you put your foot down. Is this Hello or Hello. You see brothers and sisters what taco is. This is why I said the final foundation is the final foundation is taqwa is the core. The feel of Allah is the core by it is the core before you put your foot down. Is this Helen or Helen? Helen Bismillah you move have moved back before you put the step down or forward. You ask yourself, Is it what am I going to be doing? Is this that I'm aiming at doing this thing that I'm going to be doing right now? Is it head out of hell? I'm headed

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Bismillah however, push back. This is what it means my brothers and sisters of what taco is right. So this is why I said if you were to feel Allah Subhana Allah to Allah, Allah azza wa jal will put Baraka in your household. Allah subhana wa tada would fix your household Subhana Allah, Allah, Allah Subhana Allah Allah will eliminate your household Subhana Allah, Allah will alleviate any hardship upon your household subhana wa Tada. It is all up to no taqwa of Allah subhana wa Tada. So my brothers and sisters Now my question to you do you think?

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You think that taqwa can fix your you know problems that you have in your household?

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Do you think? Do you agree with me or do you think that taqwa of Allah Xhosa will fix any problems that you have with your household? be at your business, be at your family, beat your husband and wife be with your children between your mom and dad? Do you think and shout Allahu taala that taqwa of Allah subhanho wa Taala can solve your problems in your home? Yes, it will. Yes, it will. Yes, it will. 1,000% or maybe I'm exaggerating, huh? 1,000% I'm exaggerating. Okay, I'm exaggerating. I'm exaggerating. It will fix it. 1,000,000%

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it will fix it. One zillion percent taqwa of Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala says in an in solid, October insalata tober about the ministry Tanya Jean Furman as assessor banyana who Allah taqwa Mina la mina la he wanted one hyaluron I'm an assessor banyana

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banyana who Allah

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Bobby fan halabi heafy nanny Jan femen. ssa banyana. Who Allah taco Amina long.

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Amina La Jolla. One I'm an assessor banyana, who Anusha federal

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the loss of

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the one who laid the foundation,

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the one who laid the foundation. This isn't sort of the Toba, the one who laid the foundation on on his building. But what kind of foundation he laid the foundation on his building upon taqwa, upon taqwa upon the field of Allah subhanho wa Taala upon by piety, upon taqwa better than the one who laid the foundation what foundation now better the one who laid the foundation on on on undermined

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Send send send Kliff and, and ready to crumble to look at the difference between somebody who laid the foundation to build his home on piety on taqwa, versus someone who laid the foundation, you know, on something that has cracks in it, that will be destroyed was you know, there's a big difference. And this is this area was revealed that in relation to the building of magic, there are the magic era when the Prophet Mohammed has been migrated from Mecca to Medina, right. He's made the first stop in, in in Cuba, where they build that machine. But before they build that measure, the hypocrites the god they built another metric called measure, there are messy data, and they build

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the image and the intention behind building dimension is to, you know, to

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organize or to plan things to destroy Islam and to and to destroy the Muslims. So Allah subhanaw taala, of course, refused to the Prophet Mohammed. That's why it was called Majid. There are from Dara from harm from evil in though they went and then they destroy that measure. And then they built another measure measure the OC Salah taqwa measure built on the foundation, the very first mentioned that was built in Islam measured Koba in Medina. So that is the difference between laying the foundation on something upon piety versus laying the foundation on something that that is your knee that would cause crack and destruction. So my brothers and sisters, it is your home. What

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foundation? What foundation Have you laid?

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What foundation Have you laid? Is it the foundation laid on piety or not piety? Because if it's led on piety, Allah subhanho wa Taala will protect that foundation and preserve it in sha Allah hotel. But if it's not built on piety, then this is what the problems are that we are facing today. My brothers and sisters, the problems that we're that we're facing today because things aren't you know, the father is not pious, the mother is not pious, the son is not pious, the daughter is not pious, the wife is not pious, the husband is not pious, there is no piety. That's why there's problems right left and center, you know, but once we go back to Allah subhana wa tada then and only

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then Allah subhanho wa Taala will preserve and save us and save our

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our households in sha Allah who tada brothers and sisters of maaseiah to the bill bouqs as maaseiah to build maaseiah sin destroys our homes. Don't think when you sin, you're singing for yourself. When you sin, not only you're destroying yourself, you're strong yourself and maybe the people around you and those who are surrounding you that a story of masa. Long time ago the study of mustard is headed to Russia as well. And it's the study of muscle and muscle one with Biddle slot in you know, asking a lot for rain and Allah subhana wa tada he revealed to Moosa almost amongst you there's one men singing there's one man from British law is singing because of him. I'm not sending

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down the rain as that meant to leave once he leaves our send down the rain. You see one man was sitting Allah subhanaw taala stopped during

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this pandemic that we are facing today you know, yes, it is man made for sure he is man made right you know so you think Yeah, and it just like that Allah Xhosa think alike so oblivious as what these people are doing. But if we were to really really feel Allah subhanho wa Taala we know that which we see in follow Spain, that which we see in Syria. That's what we see in we see all over the world. You know, all these troubles and tribulations. Allah subhanho wa Taala will elevate them because they will be taqwa, but they want it is not a club. This is what the problem is. The problem is this destruction amongst you know, our own mama brothers and sisters so my brothers and sisters,

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you know, so once again, I mean I'm just giving you the story, but of course that meant he repented to Allah subhana wa tada and once he repented Allah Xhosa sent down the rain. As soon as that man repented, Eliza just sent down the rain. But the point is the point you know of the story, the the Hikmah the wisdom from the story, right? The essence of the story is one man was sinning and because of that sin, Allah subhanho wa Taala prevented you know rain from falling on on the ground so my brothers and sisters when you send that same could destroy your own home and destroy your surroundings. So don't think that you're sending you know it's only yourself you could be also

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affecting your entire family. So that's why feel Allah subhana wa tada feel Allah is the one with your family for Allah subhanho wa Taala visa Your wife is your your husband, Visa your daughter his IV your son and father mother feel Allah subhana wa tada feel Allah subhanahu wa tada

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few small messages to each member of the family in sha Allah hota

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if you are a son

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now these are goals.

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In the messages to all of you in sha Allah, to every member of the family,

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to the brothers first the sons

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every time you want to deal with your dad or your mom and you've been having difficulties dealing with them or not getting along with them.

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Be patience.

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implement this foundation about the field of advisors of the taqwa of Allah Xhosa.

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Maybe your father has reached an age where he cannot change, but you can change and Allah can change anything. Subhana Allah if Allah with Allah will change things, a lot change, things that are meant not to be changed Allah subhanaw taala can change them in the lab.

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So if you are a son,

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in sha Allah hota how to make that first move first. If you are a doctor, in sha Allah hota make that first move first. Make that first step first. Be patient as well feel Allah subhanho wa Taala as well. Remember all the advice I have given you about your friends and how to sick friends about you know the intimacy and how it is an act that is sacred. All the sisters out there, all the brothers out there remember the sexual you know, relationships which are Haram, Allah says it will never put any barakah in something that is haram. You know, intimacy is is a sacred act. So be careful. Make sure if you were to do something, make sure it is halal inshallah to Allah if you want

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Baraka in your life, be it Neela brothers and sisters out there

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to the husbands

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a whisper in the in the ears of the husbands.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala says

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how should

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we How should that be the mother of the husbands I say that Allah subhanho wa Taala says, treat your spouses with goodness with kindness

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which stands that what does that mean? With maalouf it means that you have to be patient and persevere a little bit you know, through to go through that tribulations and hardship it means that you have to withstand there will be some problems of course, there will be some you know, hardships. So it means that you have to inshallah who to withstand some of those hardships, and endure them in sha Allah who tada will actually only be myself. I should treat them with kindness and goodness inshallah huhtala

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Rasul Allah so to see them in his final, you know, breath when he was dying, What was he saying? Imagine Prophet Mohammed dying in his final breath, and he's saying, a solo a solo solo America. Amen. Oh, come prayer prayer and look after your spouse's

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and those really I mean, those who you only those that you own those things, things that you own, you know, from military I mean, at the time, that means here today is your spouse's. Take care of your spouse's look after your spouse's. A seller imagine profit dying and giving a final golden advice and the advice is Salah prayers and your loved ones your spouse's look after them.

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If you were to have an issue or a problem with your spouse, never remember when I said about don't use force, but also don't kick her out from her home.

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It is her home lucky it is yours.

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Don't exercise that force that Allah subhanho wa Taala has given you

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on somebody who's weaker than you.

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Because what goes around comes around.

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There's one full solar called sort of Pollock, full solar, talking about talking about divorce. There's so many stages before the reach that divorce.

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So a whisper in the ears of the husband's to feel Allah subhanho wa Taala

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they will stand before Allah and Allah will ask them about the Amana it's a man

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that Amana

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treat them with kindness and an example of treating them with kindness.

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Consult with them, that's mean. Now that means treating them with kindness is what I mean. It is an example of treating them with kindness and gentleness. You know, consult with the West spoke about all this, you know

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Go back to my you know, my sessions and you can, you know, listen to them in Charlotte if you miss them, you know, befriend them, befriend your spouse, remember when we're talking about watering the love, befriend them, you know, you have to spend on her you have to spend on her and you have to, you know,

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support her if she if your wife works and makes money, that's her money just so you know, it is her wealth. It is not yours, it is her What if she wants to help you it was Allah head, if he wants to, if she wants to help the household, just I love him, but you as the husband, you are the one who has that responsibility to look after your spouse and to look after your household now if they want to help us out, but they don't have to just so you know, Allah has made us as men as the sole you know, main, you know, take care take care of the of the of the families. So support her

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provider with

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the comfortable home. Look at the Prophet Mohammed Aslam did when he married Marissa, when he met Marissa, Marissa completed the Coptic Marissa the coffee, she was from Egypt, right? She's from Egypt, when she moved in, and she lived with the Prophet Mohammed, you know, he did not she did not live next to his other wives, they perish yet the Croatia because, you know, she comes from a different background. Mary, she comes from a different background, the profit losses and he understood that salvation. So he did not make her live next to her his other wives, you know, near the, in the US to the mountains and used to the, the, the desert and the sand, she lived a little

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bit, you know, in the outskirts of Medina, near the lakes and the trees and the greens. Why? Because she comes from Egypt, in Egypt is that river denied and denied there's a lot of beautiful trees and whatnot. So she comes from that background, the Prophet did not want to prevent her and, and Subhanallah from that background that she was used to you see this is something for us husbands well as dads also to remember, right you just don't marry somebody and they'll harass you bring or you give your daughter to someone you know, and Allah he's gone and I'll go through your hardships together go to goods and Bad's together Yeah, but look, in fact, you know,

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he he provided for her something that got that would match her background,

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the background that she came from, so he understood that that psychologically Mashallah Look how you know, we talk about psychological you know,

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states and mindsets, the prophet Mohammed, he had it all from a value Center. This woman she's not used to the desert, this woman she's not used to the mountains she's used to green she used to the river of the Nile so he made her live little bit far in the outskirts of Medina where the trees and the palm trees are and the green areas you know,

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provide her with a good place to live teacher it's another sign of you know, treating your spouses in good and gentleness

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you have to be jealous like she's jealous but meaning jealous like you know her if she's going out you know showing her her hair and showing her you know, and you know putting stuff on her hand and her makeup you have to have some you have to have some you know that this is predictive jealousy this jealousy and this protective jealousy It's not like that judgment will drive you crazy don't breed don't don't show don't do this don't do that. Now that protective jealousy and this is going out with you know with any talking to men here then dedicada you have to be you know living under sin but also you have to show that a little bit that you are you know protective jealousy that you

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want to protect her you know, this is also from from the treating them with kindness don't prevent her from seeing her family don't prevent your spouse from seeing her families is also from Hassan Asha and also have happen in the flesh. What does that mean a lot of people don't like to talk about this. Just like you have right the right of bed she has the right of bed as well. Maybe she's shy to say it but this is this variety. In fact a woman can ask for divorce if her right of bed is not being fulfilled. Now

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happen fellas just like you have the right for intimacy She has also to ask for that right of intimacy. This is also part of the health assessment Mashallah treating them with kindness hook right of the bed she has right if you cannot fulfill that right because you're sick or you're not you know, you're not we cannot do it. Then. None there ways Alessia cannot do it then this is up to you to ask for for separation for divorce. If you cannot do that, here's how. You cannot say I'm punishing her I cannot let you don't do that. How dramatic. You have that right. She has a right to so this is all part of the in a husband Mashallah brothers and sisters. So what I had to her just

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like you know, be patient with her as well.

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Same thing for the sisters.

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Sisters, the wives out there, this is now for you a little word you know little whisper in your ears like i said i will talk I spoke to everyone

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that's please feel Allah subhana wa Tada. Moms feel fear of loss of Hannah with

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your children Amanda, your children they are Amanda and Allison handled ask you about that Amanda

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and I want to end with the wives. wives please

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know that please in

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your has been is as if you're pleasing Allah subhanho wa Taala

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and who said that his prophet Mohammed is are

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you pleasing Your husband is as is pleasing you know your Lord.

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And, and angry in your husband is as if you are angry in your Lord subhana wa tada

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and woman she came to the Prophet Mohammed, a woman she gives a prophet Mohammed company Allah so Allah, man they have this and men they have that demand they go for Jihad men they go professional, they go this they go that they do this, what is this for us women? What is it for us if men have this this this what is it for us women?

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And then the Prophet Mohammed has a solemn

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Alma de Xhosa are hostile to Allah Allah Xhosa da de la Kula Derek. The treatment the good treatment for the wife to her husband will equate all that men does just the fact that you you know good to him and that you're coming to him will equate all the Jihad and all that that men does just you being kind to your husband.

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Hello. So much so in the Prophet Mohammed as I see them when he says she would get to choose from any gate agenda to enter from any gate eight gates of Shanna eight, she gets to enter from any gate, provided that she not she pleases shuttle hotel, her husband in things that pleases Allah Of course, praise Him in things that pleases Allah subhanho wa Taala only

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is your husband please with you?

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How can you go to sleep if he's not pleased with you?

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Remember how last it's not my problem, his problem. This is our problem. This is I'm talking to every member of the family and you have to accept me inshallah hota. And except my advice, you know, just just open your heart and let me talk to your heart.

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Don't let me talk to your ears. Let me talk to your hearts.

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The Prophet Mohammed is awesome. Just so you know, the status of their husbands and I spoke to the wire husbands earlier so unfair, I'm very fair, more than fair. I'm just, I want to be just but the Prophet Mohammed when he talks about the right of the husbands, you know, with regard to the women, he says, if there is a wound had, it's a Hey, if there's a warmth in his body, and she was to nurse that wound, and because, you know, she, she she does not want to hurt him. She's using her trunk, you know, nursing her wound his wound, she's using her tongue. The has said that she's licking licking his wounds. Look at this extreme, and no wife will do that to her husband, the provinces

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even to the extent if he has a woman and she was to lick his wounds, she would not have fulfilled his right on lavaca I love Optima.

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This is the right of that husband just like the right of the wife. And I spoke about that, you know, for quite a chunk of my time talking about the right of the wife and how he should treat her with kindness. Right. Also the husband look at the right that he has.

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The Prophet says she wouldn't have fulfilled his right. Just by even if he was to lick his wounds.

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Remember what I said about your husband's sisters? He wants cherry he wants pepper. He does not want a muffin omarama Omaha at home. He sees them outside. right he does not want to you know see eBay outside and see eBay inside. He already sees lots of you know, stuff for the law nakedness outside and he's trying he's doing his best to you know, lower his gaze but then he comes home he wants to see cherry remember just like you wanted to see James so well on Amazon Han or shadow Han whoever Khan is right? He wants to see cherry. Remember what I said about this?

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He wants to see honey. He wants to see pepper. But

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not salt, pepper.

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Pepper because paper has that bite in it. Paper has that little bite in it.

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And finally, the

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My brothers and sisters to all the brothers in there to every member of the family out there.

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Going back to the source again.

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Your family comes first.

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Your family, your family, your family value your family before Allah subhanho wa Taala take something out from you something that you do not value Excuse me.

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value your family value your your household, your household is now

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your household is

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your whole household your family is a blessing from Allah azza wa jal preserve that family sort of luxury preserve you inshallah.

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So, my brothers and sisters This is my

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conclusion about the homemade happiness

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foundation number one worship a lot together foundation number two, value your family foundation number three, live with the mercy

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foundation number four family is a blessing preserved that blessing. foundation number four, five the pivotal role of the Father foundation number six the father the friend, foundation number seven mothers are the engines for motivation foundation number eight, the language of compassion, the language of compassion, foundation number nine respect and appreciation, respect and appreciation foundation number 10. No to hostility no to using force foundation number 11. Water the love water the love foundation number 12 intimacy is a sacred act. foundation number 13 your friends are a mirror on to you. Your friends are a mirror onto you. And foundation number 14. The last the last

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and the not least but the last and the best. piety taqwa is the core. taqwa is the core piety is the core.

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May Allah subhanho wa Taala to bless you all. May Allah bless your families. May Allah subhanho wa Taala honor your families and protect them in sha Allah tala and as a lesbian has made you live here together in this life in this world. May Allah Xhosa resurrect all of you in sha Allah who tada in general for those two live together as well in general to Philadelphia insha Allah who Tara your family you know not only with you here my brothers and sisters in this dunya but your family with you in Geneva in sha Allah tala as well. family in dunya family in Jenna so again this will be our motto right our move to family forever

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family forever we should say that our moto family together family forever allows us to gather forever to gather we do together forever we do together family together family forever inshallah which I don't have as the sisters is that Camilla had about a coffee cup This will bring this series into the into an end everything has an end everything has an end so the series has has just ended my brothers and sisters but before you go please I want to ask you suggestions or opinions about our upcoming new series should it be or send me a text you can text me private text me right text me on Instagram On Facebook? Do you want to know about Go Go private text in Charlottetown so that I have

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my admins who can who read my text as well? And you know whether on Facebook and Instagram you know my admin so you can shout out to Anna you know suggest either we will it be the

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stories of the prophets or maybe how to live with the names of Allah azza wa jal I had another series about the upon the footsteps of the Prophet Mohammed summarizing, talking about the CETA of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam so you can share with me in shallow title your opinions and then we can, we can

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do and I'm giving you only can choose from these and Sharla maybe either stories of the prophets or, or maybe like I said, how to live with the names of Allah subhanho wa Taala how to live with them. So it must be noted and then at some point in shaba in the future, maybe you can do some other series like yes, you know, the the money, the wives of the profits or you know, other are the faults of us, you know, talking about the diseases of the heart, talking about the diseases of the heart. So there's so many series, you know,

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If I you know I will get your opinions from all of you in shallow data that would go with the majority I would go go with the majority some won't stories of the profits some wants maybe the seed up because the seed I've already have it and some people wants the names of Amazonian so who know what are we going to do? I don't know and so you inshallah who to add up send me your your suggestions and then I would make that choice on your behalf inshallah All right, send me your suggestions, send me your your opinions and then we'll go with the majority I would only go with the majority inshallah private text me on facebook on Instagram inshallah with your with your with your

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suggestions about a coffee come as a Camilla head and every session I start on every series it would be special series The the students of the profits for me is a special because I talk about love you know lessons the names of Allah is very special because I talk about not just names I talk about how to live with the names of Allah Xhosa, so anything will be very special inshallah Tata anything will be very special Baraka Luffy Kwanzaa Camilla hair than me. Thank you all Baraka African taken when a Zephyr coming. Thank you so much. Thank you. Oh, man. Thank you, Lisa. Thank you, lady. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Yes, mean, thank you. LuLaRoe Thank you, honey for Thank you. hadisha. Right.

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and who else Thank you, light spread Baraka Luffy come again Zack I'm lucky for joining May Allah bless you all. I shall see you next Monday inshallah. Next Monday Viet Nila Baraka Luffy come you know May Allah bless you please share the hair don't keep this for yourselves share them go back to my Facebook and YouTube and then share these you know series with with your loved ones who shall Matata make sure you people do that because Neela let other people know about this. There's so much good don't keep that good for only us. share it with others be in dilemma social good to success by the coffee come Thank you Sofia. Nice Thank you shadow me and have Thank you.

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Next week, same timing,

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everything will be the same Sharla nothing was just Mondays inter Fridays made the left until we make new schedule once things changed and we make a new schedule in charlo. Todd

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is that Kamala, like I said mid Kamala