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Reda Bedeir

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cinnaminson mileena

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bufala Mottola

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oma uwchlan for the heavier

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white shadow

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ilaha illallah wa de la sharika

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white shadow, Mohammed Abu Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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a MOBA

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fin de la,

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Ohio, he had the Mohammed in Salalah alayhi wa sallam

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said to her wakulla in beta akula, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah Allah.

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Allah, Allah, Allah,

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Allah azza wa jal.

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Today inshallah we're going to stop at one ayah from the book of Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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And this is number 24, in sort of the tobuy. So number nine,

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what Allah subhana wa Taala is teaching us something which is very, very important in order to understand

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the type of struggle that we go through in this life, which is meant to be a test.

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And this life is meant to be a passage.

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It may it's meant to be a bridge to the real life, which is life in general in sha Allah.

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So Allah subhana wa Taala says In this ayah

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it's a conditional sentence isn't and any important. operon is a command to Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam meaning all Mohammed say to them

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in Cana, and that's the condition and if

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your parents will ever know own home

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and your children what if one of

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your siblings your brothers and sisters

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well as well and your spouse's husband and wives?

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One Why Why should you not to come your extended family. So these are all relations parents, related to you, children, very close to your heart.

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Brothers and sisters, he cannot replace them. spouses, then the extended family will actually love to come. Your relatives

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will unwind

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and wealth. You've been gathering from here and there. One full time job two full time jobs, two full time jobs and a part time. You've been struggling hard to make that money.

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One day Jonathan Tam, Shona casada you made lots of money, then you started a business. And you're always fearful that a recession or a decline could happen to that business with the Jonathan schoeneck Asada. then by the end of the day you go home, sweet home, while my second auto Bona ha and houses

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with which you are pleased, you keep changing the furniture, the paint,

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decoration, the backyard the front yard.

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Those are eight. So lots of Hannah Montana is saying oh Mohamed say to them, if those eight. I have been to LA

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and they are more beloved to your heart than men of law.

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If they are more beloved to your heart, then Allah will soon and His Messenger what you had in fees abelian and thrive in the cause of alarm.

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What's the result? This is the condition

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for Trapasso. Allah says, wait anxiously. Allah didn't say from zero. He didn't specifically say internally which means Wait, no insult photographer so autonomous means you're waiting anxiously for something that could happen in his second head to LA will be Ameren until Allah subhana wa Taala decides and comes with his own verdict. Whether you live this life, or he punishes you because you're not following the right path and expects you to follow photography.

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So, I

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will love what I do home and philosophy. And Allah does not guide those who are corrupted those who are rebellious, those who are wrong doing those who are not following the Straight Path of Allah subhana wa Taala.

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And there are two types of hidayah what Allah subhana wa Taala says, For a person has to be unbreakable law hula

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hula Hidayat.

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There is guidance of showing you the way showing you the path to Allah subhana wa Taala. And that's what the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam, and all the prophets and all the scholars, and all the Quran and all the shows are doing, they're trying to tell you, this is the right path. This is the right way to Allah.

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But then it's your decision whether you take it or you become rebellious. Then if you take it, then you get the second time of vinaya which is today at in Marana. And he died tofield which is the guidance of the heart that Allah will give you an allowance supportive. And that's what's meant in this ayah because all of us are shown the way we have the first time of the day. We all know we all know the way to Allah.

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But how many of us decide to follow that.

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That's our decision. Some are rebellious, and some follow that path. So why showing us this life is nothing but a struggle to put the right order of love in your heart, you can love up to 11 those eight at the beginning of the iron presented the dounia this life and the other three represent the Acura the eternal life. And then you make your choice. So who should be given the priority of love? In my heart?

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mentally he

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will be Allah, what are Sunni what Jihad infeasibility? Um, how would I Somalia and Libya, my food and Tanya? Who should be given that priority of love in my heart? Is this Allah His Messenger and thrive in the course of Allah? Or is it the parents, the children, the siblings, the spouses,

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the extended family, the money that we have been gathering all of our lives, the business that we start with that money and we're feeling declining that business or the houses that we live in

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the Sahaba

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the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were the best generation who learned directly from the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and they apply this.

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And Subhana Allah.

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If you see how they acted, you will see that they applied this IRA acted upon this AI on their life.

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Only in Ghana?

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Here's a story.

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Do you love your parents? Is it haram to love your parents? No, your parents are your two keys and your two gates to gender.

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But the problem is,

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if you love them more than Allah,

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that's the problem.

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And that's when the Sahaba were put into the test, they improve the Golan is messenger and thrive in the Gaza was the first love anything else comes second. So my job in this life and your job in this life is to take those eight out of our hearts, put a love First, put the messenger second put strides in the goals of Allah third, and anyone else could come after that. It's not easy. We can easily say do not allow Of course yes. But when it comes to our chain, sometimes the parents come first. Sometimes the children come first. Sometimes the brothers and sisters come first. Sometimes, you know the extended family come first. Sometimes money come tourists. Come and pray. I don't have

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time. I have a businessman. When I have time I'll come and pray Do you really love a lot? It's saying a lot.

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Yes.

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Now, when I finished my business

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what's the reality of our life?

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accepted Islam

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and his mother was very wealthy.

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And we accepted Islam. His mother didn't like that and check society pressure

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him.

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She said, Listen, I will stop eating and drinking and taking a shower until you leave Islam and come back to worship the idols with us. Otherwise, I will die. And you will live with that embarrassment amongst people they will always remind you that you were the reason for my death.

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So sad on the lower end went to the prophets of Allah.

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Allah, I love Allah. I love his messenger. I love striving the cause of Allah but I love my mom too. What should I do?

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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received the revelation from Allah.

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So Luke 931 and number 13, Allah subhanaw taala said, we're in dialogue, Thailand to Sri Lanka,

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fell out

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a lot of the Quran because of

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this situation. He said that your parents were to exercise pressure on you to leave Islam and associate partners to go and worship idols. besides Allah, don't obey them in that yet. befriend them and be kind to them, even if they are not Muslims.

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You know what the inside do right after that? He proved I am fully in Canada. Oh no, my parents would love to get the priority of loving my heart over a lot His Messenger and saving the cost of Allah He went to his mom, who was not eating, she went on a strike he says, Oh my

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god, no.

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Mr. Nelson

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he says oh my mother, by the one whose hand is my soul.

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If you have 100 souls, and I've seen you dying 100 times in front of my own eyes, I will never leave Islam.

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She started eating and drinking.

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This is how the Sahaba proved it by their actions.

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Do you know your children forces the law How dare you ask this question? It goes without saying first.

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Let me give you the scenario.

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Time is to clock in the morning.

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setting is your house action. There is a an event coming from the next door your baby's crying and there is no answer for that. Except you go and take care of the child he will not stop calling you.

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And guess what? Even if the dad wakes up first is gonna you know ask the mom go and check your baby's crying.

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She will go on the she will do the all the troubleshooting. She will change the diaper the baby's crying. She will try to breastfeed the child still crying. She tried to give him the last medication the doctor wrote for him the last time they visit. still crying which is gonna wake up the boss is gonna say we have to go to the emergency.

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And then they go to the hospital and they wait for hours. And then the doctor will examine the baby give them medication then come back home after two hours. What time is it now? It's 4:45am by the moment they put their head on the pillow

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a lot.

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What does that mean?

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What does it mean? It means

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your children your sleep anything else

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and that hits you in the heart. Prayer is better than sleeping. Leave your bed. But what do we do at that moment?

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Look up and say Allah

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you know we have been up all night because of the baby and we're very tired and you are for a hail. Please forgive us because we can leave the bed.

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You don't want to gonna sleep for another five more minutes.

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And then you wake up after the sunrise.

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Where are you from the Hyatt do not allow Marriott

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audiological children, that's the reality this is what we should work on. For the

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most

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well known story, he was the spoiled young man of Mecca.

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subpanel love

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the perfume, his mum used to buy it because she was very wealthy. They said, that perfume if he sits in a place, the scent of that perfume would stay there for a month.

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Yet

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when he sacrificed everything, the parents

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the luxury of this life,

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the house

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everything. And when he died in the Battle of offered, the processor was crying when he saw him because when they bring the shroud to cover his body, it was not enough to cover all of his body. If say if they stretch it to his legs, his face will be exposed and if they stretch it to cover his face, his legs will be exposed in the pub. Selim says, Look at this man.

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He sacrificed everything because the love of Allah, His Messenger and strive in the course of Allah came first before all those eight.

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He lives all the eight

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and he choose a loss of time

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after the Battle of whether he died later on,

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whether his brother was taken as a prisoner of war.

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your siblings your brothers and sisters, look how he loved Allah, His Messenger inside for the sake of Allah over his own blood brother.

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He saw him in captivity. What did he say? He pointed to the Muslim brother, who was his guard or security? he said.

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Make sure you fasten his shackles very well.

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This is not an easy game. He said. It's not an easy guy.

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No,

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no,

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no, no, I know who

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he said. asked for Ryan some asked for lots of money because his mom is very rich and she will pay who's his mom? That's his own brother. Luke is talking to the man who is like holding him as a captain. He's saying to him, fasten him properly, because he said a billion sky. aspirants have asked for too much money because his mother is wealthy and she will pay. So as he said most of

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he says most of my father he said you know my brother.

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You didn't choose a law. You know my brother anymore. He is my brother. The one who's guarding him is my brother in Islam.

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You lost a brother in law when you choose to worship idols, and come and fight for them.

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The confinements understood this idea. They acted upon this idea. But stick with me and do today.

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Can we do this like them?

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Can we act like the Sahaba portofolio

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salam alaikum and Allah Eva de la Vina Safa y Chateau La ilaha illallah wa salam, Ala Wai shawanna Mohammedan, Abu Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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among

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other examples of the Sahaba so high, the Roman

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sapan Allah, He came to Mecca and he was a very poor person.

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And he started his business he was a blacksmith, and he made money and when the prophets of Allah Salaam immigrated to Medina, so I wanted to immigrate.

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So he went and he brought his money and he left everything and he immigrated to this deal with a lot His Messenger and Skype for the sake of a

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law that's what the Sahaba did. They list everything families, houses, businesses.

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But the people of Mecca stopped him at the outskirts of Mecca and they said, Are you going to survive? You will nobody yesterday, today, you want to emigrate and join Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and take your money with you. No, it's not that easy. You have to choose to emigrate, or to stay with your money.

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So how can you desire?

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Money is nothing. Money is something given to me by Allah. And it's a means for an end. It's not an end in itself.

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So he said, If I were to tell you where my money is, you will go and take my money and leave me go. I said, Yes. He says this, then my money is in that place. So they let him go. So Panama the scholars have stopped at this Honiton. They said subprime a lot. The people of Mecca did not ask him to wait until they go and verify that the money is there what he said because the Sahaba

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do not know how to lie.

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They don't lie.

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They don't have toppled faces.

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So once he told them, you can go and find the money at that place. They said you go, we'll go and tell you the money. He sacrifice the money that he has been gathering along the years. Why? Because Allah His Messenger stripe for the sake of Allah is more important to him. They have the priority. Then we conclude to the afterlife, the judge that the loved one.

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He lived a very expensive house in Mecca when he immigrated to Medina. And one day they told him listen, the big shots of Mecca, they went into your house, and they planted everything in the house. They took everything and they took over the house. So you went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he was crying he was said he said prophet of Allah. Have you heard what the people who might get into my house?

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He said, What about a house in general to law, he started smiling. He said, that's what I'm living for.

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That's what I'm waiting for.

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So let me just conclude when you go home, do your homework inshallah and study this ayah. It's so the tobei. So number nine, is number 24.

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Where three should come first in your heart. Before eight. The three are Allah, His Messenger, and strive in the course of law.

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And the eight is nothing on to love them. In fact, loving them is an obligation. You have to love your parents. You have to love your children take care of them, your siblings that Silla for him,

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you know, no problem to make money out of holiday, but don't let money be an end in itself. There is nothing wrong to start a business and be a successful businessman, the Sahaba were but when the time comes give feasibility law, you know, they will give abubaker gave all his money in one shot three times in his life. Because they view when the processes have asked him about

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how much did you bring? He said, I brought everything. He says what did you leave for your family? Omar said I wrote half and I left half. But obaku said I wrote everything and I lived in Allah and His messenger. I lived them Allah who gave me this and he will give me again. And that's exactly what happened. His business started flourishing again. It takes deep demand to do this.

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And before I start the diet, inshallah I would like to remind you that tomorrow in sha Allah is the day when Allah subhana wa Taala saved Musa alayhis salam from the Pharaoh, it's Ashura, the 10th of Muharram and it's the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to fast that day.

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And when one of the Sahaba said to him, O Messenger of Allah, the Christians and the Jews honor that day too, and they fasted he said, Okay, let's do something different. That's fast. If I were to live for next year, I will fast the ninth and the 10th and today's the ninth and I sent a video and also a text on our website to remind you to fast today and tomorrow. If some of you did not reach out to the video, you can watch it again today, and still the conference tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, which is Sunday inshallah. Like, what do I get when I fast the day of Ashura?

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So we know now the reason but the reward is that the process seldom said in the larger law and

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senate and muddled when you fast that they have icera the problem said I hope Allah subhanaw taala would forgive one year that passed in your life, life, just fasting one day inshallah. Also the times of prayer and Salah will change starting tomorrow I'm going to announce this inshallah. Allah, Allah, Allah.

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