Nadim Bashir – Public vs Private Life

Nadim Bashir
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in Alhamdulillah Muhammad who when I started you know who want to start video what are all the Billa Himanshu Rudy and fusina Woman sejati Marina Maya hello for them well the Lilla will mean you'll deal for their head yella wanted to do Allah illallah wa the WHO lash at ICA. What else do I know Mohammed? Abdul rasuluh I'm about for the call Allah with the baraka with Isla de la Quan Hamid bow there all the time. She's on regime. This will lie Rahmani Raheem. Yeah, you're not Utako rombach Mala de halacha Komenda si Wahida wahala common Huzzah. Jaha Wassermann humare. Jalan cathedra one is what double la han Levitas are gonna be here well or harm in Allah and article mckeeva. Allah to

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Allah. Yeah, you're Latina. I'm gonna talk to cardi. What are the Moto? Illa Antimo Simone Wirkkala to Isla Yeah, Johan Latina. I'm gonna double La La Oh Lu Conan said either you slept like electromyography like from the Rubicon for my new thread la hora Sudha for the first 1000 Alima so Nicola, who dalim for in a circle, Hadith he Kitab Allah will highlight how do you how do you Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, where shall Ohmori matter to her? What could the mortality what could be the art in Bala worku laterite infinite amoeba?

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I asked Allah subhana wa Tada. Just as he has gathered us here today on this day of Juma May Allah subhanho wa Taala gather us with our families in Jeddah for those that Allah is the companionship of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and his Sahaba me la bella aalameen. Brothers and sisters, there is no doubt in the fact that we are living in very confusing and complicated times. We live in a world where there is a great effort to to make permissive

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While there is a great effort to normalize the Haram and the halal, that which Allah has made permissible is starting to become marginalized. We're living in a time where people who have the ability to speak there are staying quiet, and they're not addressing the issues of our society. They're not addressing the fitness of our time. Why? Because their fear, they have a fear of being canceled, and those who are speaking up against them, they're being criminalized. We live in a digital world, we live in a world driven by social media, and many of us have become so overly obsessed with impressing others, we have become so overly obsessed with gaining followers, and the

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need to please and entertain others. So much, so that we have completely forgotten about the need to pay special attention to our private life versus the public life. Brothers and sisters. There are so many people nowadays, whether they are public speakers, religious leaders, YouTube and Instagram, and social media sensations, and upcoming youth who are so obsessed and running after followers and views online.

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Once again, it makes you wonder, the where are we going as an Oma?

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At the end of the day? Have we forgotten that this world is not the primary place? The IRA is the primary place? Have we forgotten that we have to stand before Allah subhanho wa taala. And we have to give an account of everything that we say and we do. Have we forgotten that impressing Allah. Gaining Allah's attention is more important than gaining other people's approval and other people's attention. We are living in times where the normal what meet meaning that what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has taught you and I, what Allah has taught you and I is starting to become the complete opposite. What Allah is telling us to stay away from what the prophet is telling us to stay

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away from. That is what is becoming more normalized. And what Allah is probably someone has told us to do that is starting to become abnormal. Let's remind ourselves, let's go back to the Quran and remind ourselves what Allah says about Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. There is an example for all of us, and that is found in the life of the prophet saw Salem. He says janela Allah, La Casa can Allah come fear rasool Allah He was taught on Hasina even Cana Yatta. Jolla, well Yama where they can Allah cathedra you want an example you want to example to follow, don't follow these examples that you see in this world. Follow the example of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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you can have the entire world on one side. And you can have Rasul Allah Azza wa sallam alone on one side. And our mindset should be is that I'm going to follow what I've learned from Rasulullah, sallAllahu, alayhi, wasallam, because human beings are human beings. And yes, Roswaal son was also a human being, but he was the best example for all of us. So once again, we have to go back into the seeder of the Prophet SAW Salem, and learn directly from the Prophet SAW Salem. And when we study the life of the prophet, what we learn is that there is something called a public life, meaning a life where you are in the view of people, meaning that when you are within people, you are in the

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midst of people, you are engaging with people. And then you have a private life, where you are not engaged with other people, you're not in front of the community eyes, you're not in front of the eyes of your relatives, you're not in the eyes of the community members, and that's the private life. Here's the problem that we are seeing today. Today, there is so much attention given to the public life. I want to make sure that everyone has the best impression of me, I want to make sure that when I do something that is good, I'm going to do it in front of others. I'm going to do so much in front of others so that I gain other people's approval. I want people to come and praise me,

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I want people to come and hype me up. I want people to take my name. I want to be a person that wherever I go, people recognize people who stand up for me, these are people who are looking for the attention in this dunya and hence they are looking for dunya and when the attention becomes the public life, then you began to neglect the private life. When we say the life of the province of Salem. He was not focused on the public life. He was probably he was focused on the private life.

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and everything that we have learned from Rasulillah Salam is geared towards a private life. Yes, there are a hadith that talk about fulfilling the rights of community members that yes, there are a hadith that mentioned the rights of people in your family. Yes, there are a hadith mentioned, talking about taking care of those people who are who have been served with injustice. Yes, that's all society. But if it's talking about our perception, if it's talking about our reputation, then where we need to be focusing on is our private life. But once again, because of the social media world that we live in, we're so overly obsessed. We're so overly obsessed with making sure that I

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gain people's approval. And when that it becomes a focus, then you forget about your private life. Let's stay the light the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we talked about the spirituality aspect of our life. What are the prophets of Allah who it was sent him Do you see that he will never he will leave the salaat his salad in the public versus his salad in private, there is a contrast there is a big difference whenever he will leave the salad for the community whenever he was the Imam, his slot will be shorter, his southern mclubbe will be very short. He understood that there are times of the day when the Quran should be long and there are times of the day when the

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Quran should be short to sit to take care of the people. He we learned from the Prophet SAW Salem that when there was a woman and she would have a child with her and the child is crying. The problem is that um he was shorted his prayers so that the mother is not going through that emotional pain of hearing the child cry over and over again. We see that in the private in the public Roswaal some he will do not so much but go back and say the life of the province and what he would do in private. Today once again is the complete opposite. We want to do so much in public, but behind closed doors we do absolutely nothing Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he comes on one day. It is a turn of

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eyeshadow the Allahu anha and he says Ya Isha. If it's okay with you that tonight I want to engage with my Rob. I should have the Allah on her. Our mother Radi Allahu Taala on her. She says that if this is what pleases you, Yara, Salah Salem that I'm completely fine with it because that is what makes you happy. And the Prophet SAW Allah while you were saying he prayed all night long. And he cried in his salad till the point came, that beloved of your loved one who comes and he takes he wants to come and take permission from the province, Assam to give the event and what he sees is Rasulullah saw someone has been praying all night long, and where he was standing, because they

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never had, like, you know, furnished floors like we have today. They never had carpets like we have today in our homes. What he sees is that there's a small puddle of tears of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. This was Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in his private life, showing that he's paying more attention to his private life than his public life. Once again, I'm not saying that the person did not have a public life, but his attention, the attention was given more to his private life. What did the Prophet salallahu Salam tell us when he came to Medina, what do you teach us when you went to Medina? He says, I'm sure Salam. He taught his very one of the hadith is the

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Hadith called known as the hadith of Salaam. It begins with Salam. It ends with Salam. And it was narrated by a Sahabi by the name of Abdullah Ibanez Salam. He says, I'm sure Salam spread the salam. When the person came inside Medina, he arrived Medina in Medina, he says spread the salam, the spreading of Salaam in itself has an intention to it. Today, we only make salaam to people when there is a mutual interest involved. When I want something from someone who will make salaam to them, I will know their names and we all are guilty of this.

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We all are guilty of this. Yes, there are people who don't know the names of other people because there's so many people, that's fine. But when you're only making salaam to people.

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When there is a vested interest involved, that's a lack of your sincerity. You only know the names of those people. When there is a vested interest involved. That's a lack of our sincerity. When the Prophet says I'm sure Salam it means make salam to everyone whether you know them whether you don't know them. And then he says a show Salam wa Parramatta on that feed those who are hungry, what cereal or harm and and engage in bringing families together and strengthening the kith and kin. And then he says was Salou Bill lady, the

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sentences very carefully. He says you're praying the sunlight at night when when everyone is asleep. You can make a long slog in public, but it is more worthier. It is more noteworthy, more virtuous in the eyes of Allah subhanho wa Taala when you do it behind closed doors when you're doing it in your private life, because if you do it in public people are gonna praise but when you do it in private, no one knows about it. That is where the sincerity is. What did the Prophet saw some say? Did he just say that you pray a night? No, he says, was Solu belatedly what NAS Sunil while everyone is asleep, you're the only one who's waking up at night and you are praying Salaat then he says the

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whole Jana Tabby salaam, then you will enter into Jana with Salam, then you will enter into Jana with peace. Once again the prophet is teaching us there Yes, while there is a pub public life, the private life we have to pay more attention to it. We also find for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the very well known Hadith about family. He says hydro hydro company and he won a hydro company it is very easy to show a public persona

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is very easy to go outside and be calming your voice. It's very easy to go outside and show good and positive demeanor is very good, too. It's very easy to go outside and be courteous towards others. But if you truly want to know a person's true nature, look at them how they are behind closed doors, in their private life with their family. That's when you'll get to know a true man. That's when you get to know a true woman.

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How they are at home versus how they are in public. Why do you think Rasulullah saw some says Hi, you know, come hydrocone Ali, the best of you are those who are the best to their families, the providers and could have said the best of you are those who are the best in the society, the best in the community. That's not what the Prophet saw some said, because it's easy to put on a fake persona in the society. But you truly want to get to get to know a person. Go and look at them when they are at home. Then you will find out And subhanAllah we see in our society, that when people who are nice at the masjid people who have a very positive demeanor at the masjid, you look at them when they're

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at home, always yelling, vulgar language, always being disrespectful, our home calling people names in their families, breaking their families, causing fitna in the families and so forth to people's hearts together. They come and they tried to break those hearts together. Yet they come inside the pub, they come in from the public, and they show a very positive persona and everyone praises them. That's not where the praise is. You are the probably the best in the eyes of people. But you are certainly not the best in the eyes of Allah subhanho wa Taala what is a prophet is I'm trying to teach us it's not about what the public thinks of you. It's what Allah thinks of us.

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And that can be achieved when we pay attention to our private life. Think about finances for also something that we we care so much about our money

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and a very well known Hadith

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about the seven people who will be under the shade of the Throne of Allah subhanho wa taala. There are prophesies, I mentioned several of them. He mentioned seven categories. I'm going to highlight on just two categories today, for the sake of this hotbar the rough is awesome says that a man who gives charity and he hides it such that his left hand does not know what his right hand has given and charity. What does that mean? It means that he gives it was so much discreteness he gives, He gives that sadaqa in so much secrecy. He gives us to the guy and so with so much loss that no one knows how much sadaqa they have given. We look for the story about robbing the author of The Allahu

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Taala on a man who was so rich that according to many orlimar he is if Abdulhamid have existed in this time, he will be perhaps the richest person in the world, the richest person in the world. That's how much Allah subhanaw taala gave up to him and also the Allahu taala. But yet this man while he had so much wealth, he never let his wealth get in the way of earning Jana. He is one of the 10 people who were given the glad tidings of Jana in this dunya he's amongst the Ashara who Bashara he never let wealth get in the way while the prophet saw some is mentioned that whenever the property has some needed money when he needed money for the book when he needed money for any other

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expedition to offer the Allah wine or it's valuable to have fun and great you know Sahaba who were given by Allah subhana wa Tada who are blessed by Allah they will stand up and they will give very generously, but this is also a man who would give more in his private life. He would give more were in a way that other people are

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not even aware of in fact, when he passed away many people of Medina did not even know that they're being financially taken care of by Muhammad alpha the Allah who I adore him and offer the Allah on was giving so many people money for debt, and he will not ask for money back in debt. That's because he had a whole lot of money. At the same time, he was giving sadaqa to so many people, because people who were in need, and after the pet after he passed away, when the money stopped coming in, that is when they realize where the money was coming from, did Agra humbug alpha, the Allah who can go in public and say, I have an oath is giving this much money to this cause and this much money to

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this person and that person? No, he was focused on his private life. He wants to make sure that he did something only and only for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala in a way that when one hand is giving the other hand does not no, that's how much discrete he was able to apply in his givings that afterwards, people found out how much he's giving to the people of Medina. Where is that circle today? Where is that generosity today? Where's that it lost today? Once again, brothers and sisters, what persona we have in front of the public is not what Allah is looking at what persona we have and what we are doing in our private life, the life that we are completely ignoring the life that we are

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completely overlooking. That is where we need to pay our attention and we are always paying attention to the public life. So once again, I conclude by saying this, brothers and sisters, why do you think Rasul allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he talked about in class so much. Why do you think Imam Bukhari Rahmatullah he started his Hadith book within an hour on Albania. Why do you think Riyadh the Saudi Hain begins with a minimal Melbourne the because in this day and age, we're lucky it does not matter how much we do in front of others, the credit will never come from others. That credit only comes from Allah subhanho wa taala. While we have a public life and yes, while we have

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certain responsibilities in terms of, of our public persona, our public reputation and so forth, where we need to be paying more attention to is doing things behind the scenes, doing things in places that are more dear to Allah subhanho wa Taala let's start focusing on where we need to be putting our focus and putting less focus where we need to be putting less focus. I ask Allah subhana wa to give us the field and Robert Alameen BarakAllahu to know where to configure and all the way to find our way yeah, come ready with the kill Hakeem stuff Allah How do you welcome What are you saying? What's the manifesto federal in Hoover for right

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now Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim. Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah sign Hoon iStockphoto when I will be learning surely and fusina Amazonia Marina may you have the love for a mandala woman you a little further ahead. Yeah. Well that's the word Allah illallah wa. Shukla wants to enter Muhammad and Abdul Rasul Allah wa for the Palo Alto vertical atoll Africa module for Khan Hamid Bahadur will be launched on our team. This will lie behind Rahim in Allah woman aka the holy saloon Allah and maybe you're the denominator so Lu Allah He was saying the steamer Allahumma Salli ala Muhammad wa ala Muhammad. Kamal Zuleta live Rahim Allah Ali Ibrahim in the kami the Mudgee barik ala Muhammad wa ala

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Muhammad number of today Ibrahim, early Ibrahim in Nikka. Hamidah Majeed The last thing I will share, because when we talk about private life and public life, of course, the topic of a class comes somewhere in the middle. The last thing I'll mention is that brothers and sisters, let's remind ourselves when it comes to salaat, as a prophesized Summon, he talks about the greatest thief is the person who steals from their slot, when a person prays a lot and they do not fulfill all the requirements of salad the correct way. Yes, they will they have fulfilled the prerequisite of salad. Yes, they have conducted all the fries of the salad, they will get the reward of the salad, but not

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in totality. Yes, they will gain some baraka of salad, but not in totality. A glass is one of those kinds of things, that is either zero or 100. And there's nothing in between. Once again, there's either zero or 100. And there's nothing in between. Either something is going to be completely accepted by Allah subhanho wa Taala 100% Because you've done the only and only for Allah subhana wa Tada. And if there's anywhere in the middle, where half of the intention, or even 90% of the attention or 99% of the intentions for Allah subhanho wa Taala and 1% even one iota amount of that good deed, is to show other people that Ahmed is going to be rejected by Allah subhanho wa Taala

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This is Wallahi I tell you honestly, if there's one thing that today we need to be very scared of, be very fearful of and constantly ask ALLAH SubhanA what to Allah for it is a class and the armor that we do, and there is an iota amount of RIA in it. Allah

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subhanaw taala will not accept it at all. Imagine if you have a bathtub full of water and you put or even bigger than that, imagine you have tons and tons of gallons of water in one place. Only one drop of urine in there. Someone can say that well it doesn't have any effect on it. But in front of Allah subhana wa Tada you can have this big of a hammer, but one drop of RIA can ruin the entire entire body of water. So that is why in this day and age, everything that we do will lie keep this in mind. Why run after people's approval, when the most important approval is the approval of Allah subhanho wa Taala that is who we're trying to impress. That is who we should always try to impress

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this dunya is here 50 years from now many of us may not even be here in this dunya why are we trying to run after people? The only one we should try to run after is Allah subhanho wa Taala and his pleasure. Let's try to impress him. Let's try to gain his pleasure and let's try do whatever we can to come close to Allah subhanho wa Taala I ask Allah subhanaw to give us the fear. Allah hoomans who is someone missing me and Allah who must have Islam one Muslim enough equally, McCann Allahumma sunnah Allah Maha Levana Wofford beloved and I will ask her how was she Madonna? Well, I have him over to Donna. What Hamilton I will be at NIDA Conde hired while tsunami coalition waffles and I'm

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equally Lloyd Allahumma cyminum energetic no matter how noble he may be, he may have never been a Maserati I mean throw article motivated whenever he jannettek OMYA look at my to how we know we are in MSI but dunya material now vs Marina saw you know all word hate in a word y'all worry from in which I thought on Allah, Allah Munna one sunnah Allah and Ida Anna Walter John mercy button Fe Deena whatever Janet dunya gara Hamina Walla

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Walla in anonimo, Sirona whatever solitarily Allina Malaya hamona Allahumma in nanosilica Illman naffaa Well I'm an amateur Kabbalah what is fun well, what is Khan was what she meant colada was Shiva Amin colada. Allahu manana was becoming a million file. I'm gonna call Billa Yaksha have enough Scylla touchbar ominto used to jab me robola alameen in a lie I'm gonna be ugly what you're saying you were either either way and hand fascia you okay well yeah you become Nalder karoun Falcone at Qualcomm was called you gotta thrown up the masala

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straight lines fill in the gaps

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there's a lot of space inside the main hall

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brothers in the back two rooms please come inside

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and I request the brothers in the back two rooms often I when I say often I mean often the rows are incomplete please take few steps and make sure the rows are complete in the back two rooms

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after spaces at the main hall comes at the main hall I see a lot of space in the main hall

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somebody in the back

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the ILA correlation II fee him the letter sheet. It was Saif failure. Buddhu Rob will buy it a lady up on my home in jus Manor home in Hove Allahu Akbar.

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