Nadim Bashir – Elite Followers #01 Khadijah RA

Nadim Bashir
AI: Summary © The Prophet sallali alayhi wa sallam was the first wife of the Prophet. The importance of learning from the story of the woman who passed away during the Battle of butter is discussed, along with the struggles of women in Islam during the aftermath of the Islamist protests. The Prophet's actions, including his support for women and the loss of his daughter, have led to the loss of his sister. The importance of family and learning from the sister's contributions to Islam is also emphasized.
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So inshallah we continue where we left off from this was we were talking about the life of a leader of your Lord Alana, as we have started this series about the Sahaba Rhodiola line home, and of all the Sahaba were starting with the women, the the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who have the title of being the Mothers of the Believers. So we started with honey God Allah Tala Burnham, because she was of course the word first wife of the Prophet alayhi salam, and we went through some portion of her life and I just want to finish that off today. So coming to the point where the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he received the war he you have to understand that

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when the Prophet sallallahu Ani was sending them when he saw Djibouti Italia, his Salam, there were two times in his life where he saw Jabra era, his son and his original form. And in both times the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he describes the feeling when he saw Jabra utilizing his thumb, he says that when I turned around, when I turned around when Jabril came in front of me and I turned around, wherever I turned, the horizon was covered by Jabra, ilani Salaam. And I want you to think about that, you know, there are people who are like, for example, very claustrophobic, you put them into, you know, the, you have the MRI machine, or the the CAT scan machine, and they feel very

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claustrophobic they can be in a tight space. Imagine if you turned around and you saw nothing, you didn't see any clouds, you cannot see anything, and you saw only one entity, you will feel like as if the entire world is collapsing upon you, the Prophet sallallahu if someone says that when I saw him laid out in some in His original form, after I received the worry, after being inside the cave, because the cave in which the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was staying in, it was not a very spacious cave. The Prophet Allah has some he describes that that cave in itself was such that only a person and a half a person can fit into that cave. If the Prophet I think is some is praying Salaat

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only one person can fit in that cave. And not only that, but the Prophet alayhi salam also explains the one of the reasons one of the reasons he chose us space is because from that cave, he had a direct sight of the Kaaba. There was a direct sight of the Kaaba. Of course, they never had tall buildings and tall structures like we have today. So there was a clear sight to the Kaaba. And not only that, but there were times when his grandfather Abdulmutallab would go there to sort of like to you know, for a you know, as an opportunity for soul searching, so, it was a place where people would go and to you know, disconnect themselves from the entire community and contemplate and

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meditate. So this is where the province has some you stayed the Prophet it has some says as I was in the cave, and I received the beginning verses of surah Allah it was after I got out of that cave that I saw Jabril Assam in His original form, when I got to when I got home, of course I was frightened because once again I started to use slum in His original form something that I had never ever seen before when I came home and I went to my wife Khadija the Allah Tala on her to find that comfort to find to find some solace and to sort of tell a person what I've been through her these are the Allah Tala on her was the PERT the perfect person to give that comfort to the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Khadija Radi Allahu Allah on her, she was not startled. She was not frightened, but she was the complete opposite. She was calm and she was relaxed. And you know, because of the track history of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she she come first the Prophet alayhi salam by saying to her by saying to him, that because of your noble character because of your great characteristics, because of your positive attitude and demeanor, and you being an amine, as a trustworthy person, Allah can never let you down. There will never be a chance where you will be deprived. In fact, Allah subhanho wa Taala will always be on your side. And it was her words

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that really made the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam feel relaxed. See this is what a family is all about. This is what a family is all about. And even when it you know if you want to learn from the story of how deja vu the Allah Tala Anna, if we want to learn from her experiences, from her contributions, there is a way that we can learn from that. And the best way to learn from that is that when it comes to our founding members, when it comes to our founding members who are volunteering inside the masjid, and you know, especially this is the perfect opportunity to talk about something like this

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that in a case where you have people who are, you know, for example, in our case where you have a new board that has been elected or the previous boards that had been elected and they served their terms in these kinds of times, you know, they ended up giving less time to their families and they have to give more time to the masajid in times of volunteering in general volunteering, people give a lot of time to the masjid and there they give little less time to their families. Well people in general in our community need to learn and study the life of Hadith God Allah Tala on her because when she gave her support to the province of Allahu Allah, he was sending them only then could the

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province that Allahu Allah he was sending them really focus on his sole mission on his primary objective and his job which was calling people to Allah subhanho wa Taala the prophet had a very specific task, and if he did not have the right woman in place, to give him that support, then this job of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would have been a it would have been a very difficult task. But because of how you don't have the Allah Tala Anna and because of her continuous support, the prophet Allah His son was able to to focus on his job and who you will learn about the value of honey God Allah Tala and her, especially after she passed away. After Hadith, the Allah Tala Anna

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has she passed away. There was a period there was a period where the Prophet alayhi salam did not have another wife did not have another wife. During that time. It was extremely difficult for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to look at to look after all his children. Now, getting to you know getting into the children of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, all the children of the Prophet alayhi salam, all the children the Prophet SAW Salem, with the exception of Ibrahim, with the exception of Ibrahim, all came from the marriage of the Prophet alayhi salam and Hadiya or the Allah Alana. They were married for 25 years and within this 25 years, the prophet Allah Islam did

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not marry any other woman did not marry any other woman. The very first child he had was possum. The Prophet alayhi salam, as soon as his tal Carson was born, the Prophet alayhi salam was was recognized in Morocco by the name of a bull Qasim, the father of Qasim, however, caused him he passed away at a very young age. Then next in line was Abdullah Abdullah also passed away at a very young age. These two kids are the Prophet sallallahu he was sending them passed away before the prophet at some even became a prophet. It was after he became a prophet, that Allah Allah subhanho wa Taala then granted the Prophet alayhi salam for girls in order for girls in order first one was

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first one was Xena. The next one was rokeya Next one that was only confirmed the next one was faulty Moto Z wo Allah Tala on ha hurt inshallah we will get to her story later on. But she passed away because Eva wound that was sustained while she was migrating Zenodo Chiara the Allah Tala on her she was married to Earth's mantle, the yellow line, and she passed away during the Battle of butter. The Prophet sallallahu ala he was sending them specially instructed Orth man with the alotta line that he is not allowed to participate in the Battle of butter. While his daughter, the prophit, someone's daughter Ruqayyah was ill, and he told us man on the line, that you are not allowed to go, you stay

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behind and you take care of your family. And there is a very profound lesson found in this. There are a lot of people within the community who serve, you know, different, different organizations, they they do a lot of Dawa work. But one thing that can never be neglected is family. One thing that can never be neglected as family.

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If you study Hadith, if you study Sharia in general, there is a very special status that is given to those Sahaba who participated in the Battle of butter. They have a title called a buddy companion, anyone who joined the battle of butter, this was the first illustrious battle in the history of Islam. Those people who participated 313 Sahaba. They had a very special status. We're talking about the first battle of Islam and the Prophet I think Islam understands that even though this is considered as a religious obligation, at the same time, you cannot neglect family and the Prophet it is I made that very clear. And he said that you stay behind you take care of my daughter. It was

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after the Prophet alayhi salam came back that he found out that his daughter Rocha year had passed away and the Prophet it

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Assam buried her, buried her later on omit costume. She also died during the era of the during the time of the Prophet SAW Salem. She also made automounter The alotta line. And then you have Fatima, who was the only child of the Prophet alayhi salam who lived on after the death of the Prophet alayhi salam, we know that in the last days of the Prophet alayhi salam, he called Fatima the Allah Tala anha and he told her something that I saw the Allah Tala on her she says that Fatima came close to her father, for a moment, she cried. And then there was a moment that she had a smile on her face. When I went back to her to ask her that what was the reason of that, you know, the sad face,

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or the grief that you had expressed? And then there was a happy moment that you had on your face, what was what was the meaning behind that? And she said that the Prophet alayhi salam told me that he is about to depart from this world which made me Of course for any daughter, it made me upset. But then he told me that I will be the very first person to join the Prophet SAW Selim meaning that after I pass pass away, the very first person to pass away from the family will be familiar the Allah Allah Allah Allah and she did not live more than six months after the death of us wa sallahu alayhi wa sallam talking about how God Allah Tala on her.

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She, of course, not only did the Prophet Allah is on how to go through sacrifices, but she also went through many sacrifices, for example, even though we talk about the profiling as I'm losing six children during his lifetime, during the lifetime of collegial the alotta line her she had to go through the pain. by witnessing that both of her sons,

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Qasim and Abdullah both both of them, they passed away in front of her for journey a father, you know, there are a lot of cases that I have seen myself where, you know, children they pass away in a family. And over some time the father, you know, he gets, you know, he's able to move on. And you know, even though that grief is still there, but of course, if there's one day, it takes a long time for them to get over the grief of losing a child. It is a it is a mother. So you keep in mind that Khadija had to witness this twice. Not only that, but she had to also witness her daughter departing from home.

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When she was married with Earthman of Yolanda line. She was part of the very first Hijra that took place in the history of Islam from Makkah to Abyssinia. She was part of that she had to witness even in general when a girl gets married and the mother has to let her daughter go. It's a very painful moment. Now keeping in mind is that you're talking about a young girl going away from Makkah. And of course there's no idea what will happen to them and abyssea Will they reach out to senior hadith of Yolanda and Anna she had to go through that painful experience. Not only that, but Khadija was also alive during the the boycott, the three long years of boycott she was there and but she gave nothing

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but support to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam the Prophet sallallahu what do we find the books of Sierra is that that it was a moment after that after the boycott where within a month span or within 40 days both a booth olive and honey God Allah Tala and had they both passed away, first passed the first one to pass away, according to some books of Sierra was Khadija Viola Anna and then approximately a month after that it was a Bhutanese who who departed from this world and he passed away. Finally I just want to share with you some important a hadith about a holy God Allah Tala anhand while she was alive the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gave her the glad tidings of a

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house in paradise. It is mentioned that one time the the Prophet Allah His son was sitting

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in Jabra Islam comes to the Prophet alayhi salam, and he says yellow suit Allah Hadiya is on her way. Her deja is on her way. She's bringing some food and she's bringing something for you to drink. And I want you to I when she comes, give her the salam of Allah subhanho wa taala. Look, I mean, and then not only that, give her the salam of Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah is saying As Salam aleykum to Khadija, and convey to her my salaams also convey to her my salaams you we will not find people in history who had this privilege of receiving the salam of ALLAH SubhanA Wattana in receiving the salam of Djibouti Italia salaam, the most prestigious of all the angels. So what happened is that

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this is this is who these are the alotta on how was once again the ALMA they go into great discussion that why

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Was she given this this this position? Why was she Why was she given this this honor, and many of the Allamah dimensioned is because of her dedication and her support to her husband Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, while he was fulfilling, fulfilling the responsibility given by Allah subhanho wa taala. And the Allah ma they also mentioned that whatever the Prophet did, and this goes for all volunteers in general, whatever the Prophet did, all the work that he did, the credit does not only go to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam but that credit goes to Khadija the Allah Tala Anna, because once again if it was not for her support, the prophet will have not been able to

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fulfill His mission. out of 40 years, at the age of 40. He received his he received prophethood till the age of 50. He was with Toledo, viola, Tirana 10 years of Nobunaga was with habido Viola Tanana. After that two years, the prophet had no wife, the prophet had not a single wife, when the burden of family was coming upon him. Then you had other people in the community who came to the Prophet, and they suggested that there are two women who you should marry. They asked the Prophet How do you get some would you want to marry someone, a woman who has been previously married? Or you would you want to marry a woman who has never been married before? The one who has been previously married was

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almost soda. And the one who has never been married was, I shall have you Allah, Allah Allah, the Prophet alayhi salam, he agreed to marry soda and he also agreed to marry i Isha but the marriage with Aisha is not to be consummated yet. Yes, I would marry so that right now and this is who we will talk about next week. I want to also in regards to I showed you Allah Tala anha there's a hadith

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in in regards to Hadith God Allah Tala Anna, I saw the Allah Tala on her she says that Malvina to Allah Imran attend ma Hill to Allah Khadija that I show the Allah Allah Allah Allah she says I never felt so jealous about any woman, as I did about Holly Gob Allah Tala on her. And this is not taking away from the nobility and the water and the taqwa of it showed you a lot and I mean, this goes to show you that these people were human beings at the end of the day, these people were also human beings, all those and then and then I shall she continues to say on well upon the halachot Kabbalah and yet as though was an EB Salafi sin in Lima, Quinto USMA Whoo, yes, Kuru ha. The ICER she says

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although she had died three years before I married the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. That was because I heard him mentioning her so often will occur the Amara who rob boo and you Bashira be bathe in Phil Jana, I shall ye Allah Allah and she says that, and I heard the prophet as I'm mentioning her, because ALLAH SubhanA wa Tala has ordered him to give her the glad tidings, I should have a palace in Jannah. Made of what middle class have been made of reeds. And not only that we're in kind of Rasulullah sallallahu it was setting them like yes, but was shot. If the Prophet were to even sacrifice an animal or a sheep through my UD fi who let her mean her. She says that the Prophet

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Allah is some care so much for Khadija even though Khadija is gone, but whenever an animal was sacrificed, she would he would send some of that animal to the Friends of Hadith God Allah Allah Allah Allah.

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Of course, these are things that would make isodiol Latella and her feel that way. But once again, that's because what have you done the Allah Donna? The the help and the support she gave to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Finally, Hadith or the Allah Tala AHA this goes to show you that how much the Prophet SAW Selim he, anytime he would find an opportunity to remember Khadija he will remember Khadija anytime he had an opportunity, he will remember her. She had a sister by the name of Hala Hala she cannot she she took a long time in making Hijra from Mecca to Medina. She was you know held back. She took her time in coming from making this hedge it off. It said that the

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probably some had already made it Hijra to Medina. The profiling some is in Medina. It is the afternoon time the Prophet alayhi salam is taking some rest. Hala she migrates to Medina she comes to the prophesy sounds home. Afternoon time. She knocks on the house of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam now, at that time, I showed you a lot on she's sitting there and she said

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As that as soon as Hannah she knocked on the door, she knocked on the door the way Hadiya will knock on the door. And as soon as the Prophet saw some he heard that knock on that door, that very unique type of knock on the door. The problem he got up right away, like as if you felt like the Khadija is back. And when when he when he opened the door, he knew that of course, he has already passed away, but he knew it was highlight he mean he immediately knew that this is the sister of collegial, Viola Anna, and the Prophet SAW Selim had a great deal of admiration and love for the sister of Toledo, viola, Anna, even when Hala came inside, the Prophet SAW Salem, you know, gave her a seat to sit a

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place with said the Prophet alayhi salam showed her the great hospitality and the prophets of Salaam, you know, he really sat down with her talk to her because and the reason why the province of southern would take so much pleasure in just sitting down with Hyla is because hilar had many characteristics of Hadith or Viola Delana the way she would talk would be like Khadija, her behavior was like Khadija her attitude was like Khadija. So as is as if that the Prophet SAW Allah while your son when he's talking to Hala is as if he is reminiscing about the good old days he used to spend with her leader of Yola, Tirana is as if when he's talking to Hydra. He is sort of seeing Hadith or

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the Allah Tala Anna, and whenever the Prophet alayhi salam, whenever Hala would come, the prophet would never say You know what, later on, because every time he would talk to holla

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he always felt like I'm talking to Khadija. I'm talking to Khadija and the Prophet SAW Selim, he will never give up a moment like that, till the last day. This is how the Prophet said he would make he this is this is how he would think about Hadith or the Allah Tala Aha. So this is who literally Allah and how was I pray to Allah subhanho wa Taala that we can learn from from this great woman, her contributions to Islam her sacrifices that she made, we can hopefully learn from this inshallah we can teach our families

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you know about who this great woman was. And we learn about these women so that we can emulate just because we may say that you know what, she was a woman. I'm a man No, even though they were the the wives of the Prophet SAW Selim, there is so much as men we can learn from them. The general perception is that oh, she's a woman, the woman shouldn't they need to learn from her? We as men, we're gonna learn from the Sahaba No, she was she she, she has a great she has a gray status and we need to learn from her life and we need to teach others about her and try to emulate her life Inshallah, may Allah Subhana Allah give all of us the ability to act on what has been said and

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heard. Inshallah, next week, we will go on to the next wife, who who was, so that will be Allah Tala and her and her marriage with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam and who she was, and she will talk about that next week. doklam Allah Hi Subhan Allah we humbly Subhanak Allahumma Hamdi cache to Allah EDA illa Anta Nesta Federica. We're not to be exact Malachite, Somalia come to live rock

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