Munir Ahmed – Fiqh us-seerah #45 – The Mothers of the Believers

Munir Ahmed
AI: Summary © The segment discusses various news stories related to the Bible, including evidence of a woman being the sister of a deceased thirteenth-grade father, a woman who was married to a third-grade son, and a woman who had a divorce. The segment also touches on the use of language in court cases and media, including the idea of ADAS and the use of screening during wedding celebrations. The segment ends with a discussion of a court case involving a man who was sexually assaulted by a woman.
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Salatu was Salam

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me as your mind

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Solomonic law?

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Well that's a law and you have a filler nobody will say Tina

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Fey what is even worse here? Well I live in

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LA who receive what I call what I

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will call it Allah

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in the love of Malaika w soluna. Yeah, you will suddenly wonder he was selling with us Lima Aloma Salima Baraka Mohamed walala Mohammed

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Ibrahim Ali Ibrahim Majeed

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Praise be to Allah we praise Him we seek His forgiveness, guidance in his mercy we seek Allah's help and his acceptance We ask Allah to forgive our sins and to blot out our sins and mistakes. To Him we return to Him we depend on him we depend on utterly He is our goal indeed. ask Allah for useful and beneficial knowledge and understanding and why sustenance we send peace and praise on his final messenger. The booty sir.

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Boys are bill Huck bashira mana Veera Wada, Yun, Ilan la he beat me he was the origin monywa Sala La Jolla.

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Last time we stopped

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after photo Mecca,

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or less what to who name and boy if

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and all the ramifications from that.

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Which leads us onto the ninth year.

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So last Aslam, I told you at the end it ombre and return back. Okay.

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Some of the

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during this time

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before, there was one of the book, which we will deal with, hopefully next time

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there was an instance. And that brings me back to the household of all the wives of Islam.

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And that is

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the most the strongest opinion is that took place in this year. And I'm here

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because one of the reports of Ahmed Ubuntu in hakab

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indicates that there are some reports that seem to indicate that this instance, which I'm going to talk about, which is a separation of myself from all his wives for one month, some mentioned it as being in the fifth year to figure out which doesn't fit with the story.

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And it is

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the strongest opinion it occurred in this year. And this year.

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Now, before we mentioned that instance, I want to mention the wives of the Prophet Salas.

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Some of you will know others just those of you notice for revision knows, we don't know, we're not going to go into great detail. But actually the reality is there is no great detail. As I said to you many times before in these things. Lots of things are written without any change without preparation, but what we know for sure,

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these are the wives of the Prophet SAW Salaam who came to be known as Omaha Talmud, meaning according to Torah, and

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so on number 33.

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And also in the same surah after he married these are the mother of the believers, the prophecy son was also after that forbidding to marry anybody else, or to change them.

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Or to replace them, you can't change them can't marry anybody else. except Allah gave me what your right hands possess. Okay. So that was at that time

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after these now

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Briefly if we go through them before if I get hopefully get a chance to do instances a lot of ramifications from this Firstly, we know about conditional Cobra when toilet because that says why for majority of his life and I mentioned all that already in the story so far before Nobu was prophesized to marry her when he was 25 years of age around about knowing that people didn't really know the ages that accurately to the extent I mentioned to you before about the age of college.

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That the most famous story about if you ask anybody from a Muslim Ummah, even the most ignorant about anything about Islam, they'll tell you, Oh, she was 40 years of age. Okay. That's why spread. And I mentioned to you that there's only one report that comes with that is from

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a lottery. And I told you about what could be what is standing is before the scholars of the oma anyway.

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And I saw Congo report for 28. I mentioned that to before, none of them are corroborated, but his report is more likely, if they saw even though it isn't

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the reality we don't know the age, but it's unlikely to be 40. But to go around, believing as though it's 40 you know, like biblical, you know, absolute nonsense, actually.

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Most of what he comes up with is nonsense anyway, as you know, and we can't corroborate from it.

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Anyhow, so most of his life, until Armisen

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what year Prophethood?

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And this is after the boycott or the sanctioning that the grace did of the prophesies.

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And his tribe, yeah.

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In chimp in the valley of Amitabha. Koch

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of, of his his tribe, some allies, which, including Muslims and non Muslims, so there are other Muslims who are free from that as you, as you remember.

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So at the end of that, Arnold wasn't, was the deaths of two people that were dear to us, which, of course, you know, was

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his uncle and his wife, Khadija.

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So that is Amazon and we know his standing we should remember his, her standing with Rasulullah sauce Allah.

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Allah sent Salaam inauthentic through a wire through jabril to have

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mentioned it before. And

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whatever the wives that came afterwards and interesting, interesting, of course, is he's remained monogamous all his life with Khadija except when she passed away.

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That's an interesting question to ask, why did he marry anybody else all the time?

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Isn't it?

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It's a normal practice. Not necessarily.

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But it's an indication also of his love for Khadija and her standing with him as well.

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She was his soulmate as indicated many times by himself. In fact, when we have authentic when I shut her out, and I used to get jealous and you know, because of His love,

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endless love, after she's gone from the former leader, how used to mention and how you treat her friends even and how when her sister came at one time, her voice a mannerism Well, it reminded him so much of Khadija always a longing for her. When she tried to say anything negative, he would seriously tell her off

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and remind her of what Khadija wants to him.

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So anyway, we know him

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then care

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and the 10th year publicized some

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fine he hasn't got his ankle as a protector when he was even though it's mostly and died emotionally because we've clarified before despite what amongst others claim the majority opinion the most authentic is it it was fake. And but the prophet SAW son lost his soul mate. Yeah, and the mother of his children

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in the household, and some of them are still young. Yeah.

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Especially Fatima.

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So it seems although this story is mentioned in taba,

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Toblerone, etc, I don't know how authentic It is really, who arranged marriages etc. But the facts

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They mentioned hola going around arranging the marriages and suggesting to prophesize on them about marrying soldeu. And

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nevertheless, he married first Zelda been some zone. Soda is mentioned that she was one of the first believers again and migrated to another singer with the husband, who had died there. Right. So she was left alone. She came back. She was in Mecca. And in 20, promises agreed to marry her. She was similar at Rasulullah saw Salaam and with the idea that so they say we don't have anything authentic, that she would be able to look after and help him bring up his children in the household. So so mature lady, but also marriage to ice

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took place around the same time 11th year of prophethood. Yeah, this is first treaty of Aqaba. 12 year second treaty of Aqaba, yeah. And soon after that, between 12 and 13. At

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the age of isotta, I'm not going to go through this time,

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I have my notes on it to be a lesson on its own. And it could take an hour or two hours. But instead I will do it in one lesson sometime. Not going to go through, I've got my notes, I've just displaced them somewhere where I'm aware of them. However, I'm looking into some other things at the moment before I come to do a presentation.

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And there are people who have raised questions about it, despite the Holly's been in Bukhari, and Muslim. And from the from the statement of eyeshadow de la herself saying I was six when it was contracted nine. And my mentor started when I moved in with a messenger of Allah in Medina.

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So that's quite strong evidence. There are other things to look up to see, keeping in mind, but some of the comments I've heard about it.

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For example, one said,

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rationale is used by many, how can it be? Yeah, fine, you can take it restaurant to an extent. But you have to go back to question the Hadeeth. And that doesn't just isn't just based on your rationale, and your present their ideas. Because culture of present day cannot be mixed with culture of the past, anywhere in the world. I'm not talking about 50 years ago, we were talking about 1400 years ago, and the world over what the situation perhaps was in regards to women and Menzies and may not be the starting of periods.

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I don't know go into the whole thing anyway. So does he but somebody says on rational basis, not copyright. Well, that's not evidence. Sorry. Oh, somebody said Java Monday, for example, I have a lot of respect for him on the floor of people

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from the wind, many of the Pakistani scholars have negative things to say I have a lot of respect from his scholarly. And you see some of his stuff on YouTube. And he I've real question mark, he says, Well, basically, it should have been

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in the Hadeeth it should have been not six but 16 cipta Tasha and this other. This other Asha not nine but 19 as somebody just dropped off the 10

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bring evidence for that just you can't just make up something like that. Some of these just On what basis do you say that? It's fine if you find one report. Yeah, you find five reports which say six and nine and then you find one which says 16 and 19. And you say well, that's the most likely one yeah, so look, they've dropped off some bring some evidence. I can claim anything like that. I can't I got to report to Mr. drop this Wow.

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Okay, that kind of evidence iconic sector. Anyway, leave that.

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We'll come back another time. So,

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whatever the case may be, I said that Golan Madras lost a lot of fellows, as is mentioned, she was the only virgin The others were all widows that he married

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and became known as the greatest of scholars from the Sahaba. She was to harbor on various opinions as well, quite strongly sometimes, whatever they were reporting

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with evidence from the Quran and and then on top of that, her thinking by using the ground and thinking and

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it was her nephew, Ottawa.

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Evans obey, who says you have never seen a greatest colored knife

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You can see he was biased because he wasn't possible. But others indicate that as well at times when they're telling people to go and ask her opinion on certain things

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all right.

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next thing And

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now, here are

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some of the things you'll see with the prophet SAW Selim

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marriage. Firstly, the monogamous marriage for most of his life will

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then these manages to help his family some of the reasons given some to cements the bonds of brotherhood with the people who are closest to him and their daughters were widow. In this case, I say, of course wasn't a widow wasn't a widow.

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But hafsa

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we set to be in a late teens or certainly choose a grown adult, whether it's in our late teens or early 20s. We're not absolutely sure about that.

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Her husband

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was a martyr at 100.

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So soon after offered which was third year hedgerow around the early fourth year of hedra.

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The prophet SAW married hafsa

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daughter of Ahmedabad up top

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now, if I said was the very jealous type, which is well documented, he says it itself many times that I became jealous and I said this I did. I became jealous, right.

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So was Huff's on the other side as well.

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And she was, as we'll see, quite outspoken as well.

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To the extent that a father and and her father or animal used to tell them off, sometimes try and hit them as well. And we have one report where he's trying to hit them and publicize some stops both fathers from doing it.

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Yeah. And he laughs with them afterwards. Look, I stopped you from your father's giving you a good

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good smack for your cheek.

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Then, Zainab bint hoceima

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so there's two signups both married very close time to each Xena bent for Saima was the life of

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those of you know,

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a believer and judge

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Billa even Jeff delay when Josh was martyred in offered what was his duty in?

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is a key part of the story.

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Why the battle turned

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over the key people

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who was responsible for them.

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He only he's one of the few that stood was Mark. So his wife is Dana been.

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We don't have much information. What we have even in the report, she's the only white besides her deja vu did not outlive us all loss of

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rain event was Emma. In fact, very simple. Some say three months, some say seven or eight months. Okay, but what we can take is a few months he only survived a few months. What we know about her

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is that she was also her nickname was humble Misaki.

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The mother of the poor because she's well known to be generous in giving to the poor. Yeah. And that's what we know about Zane.

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married she only lived a few months and then passed away.

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So when she passed away, the focus lesson still has sold the Ayesha hafsa three and then he marries Zainab bint.

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The word jash comes now this is the sister of the law. Judge. Okay. This is a sister and this

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Zainab is related to the Prophet sorcerer. She's a cousin of Rasulullah saw

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from the from his paternal side of his father son. He's the cousin

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of the

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story of Zegna is interesting, because

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one of the things that Zane abused to say to the other wives to have one over them, one refused to say

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to try and get one over.

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She's really

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through marriage on my blog?

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Not really not not that one.

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He used to say, because you have to think about her marriage.

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Yes, Allah married to the prophet SAW so they didn't have a marriage ceremony. revelation came, if you say to them, your guardians married you have the Messenger of Allah, but Allah in the seventh heaven married me to him.

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So I mentioned in the Quran that way, she was missing a revolution and why.

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Okay, so that was her trying to get one over on the others when there was jealousy between them.

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So what happened in this regard?

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If we go to

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the beginning of search. Let me remind you first in the story that the prophet SAW Selim had a slave called Xavier niharika you all know that whose son was

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who was still a young man when the prophet SAW son died, but he was like Grand Central

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son why because the prophet SAW some free date long time before Prophethood and made him his adopted son

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so they didn't used to be known by what title Zayed

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that's what used to be the case this is

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like a last one Abdullah, a marina.

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Reveal various is one

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must want are revealed at the beginning of source

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in Surah, number verse number four Allah Santo says

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Masha Allah module m Paul dainichi jiofi jhala has

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to go.

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Masha Allah.

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Comb Valley Khun colo. b F word e comb. La Jolla Paulo lucha por la jolla de

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being said Allah never put two hearts within one person's body. Some of us who say that in other words, you can't have being appointed to two fathers, there's only one Father. That's a fact. So put it in a sense in a metaphoric sense. Two hearts you can't have two hearts. In other words, you can't have two lineage only one.

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nor has he made your wives whom you compare to your mother's back.

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Your true mother's one of the Arab trading generally times used to say, in a way of negative way when they didn't want to, in a way of question mark divorcing? Well, they're divorcing, saying Oh, you're like my mother's back. And I don't want to sleep with the wife. So Allah saying, well, just because you say that they don't become your mothers. It's nonsense.

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So then Allah says, well, ma da da da acoem aeronautical nadra as he made your adopted sons, your real sons.

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Yeah, your doctors are not your real sons. does not remove love or anything. It's a matter of biological fact.

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So Allah says, Ronnie konkola can be FYI, he can. This is what you say food, your mouths. What you claim with your mouth. It's just what you say. But what La Jolla Paulo Huck, Allah says telling you the truth, in fact, which is true, isn't it? Yeah.

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And what was we are the Seville and he is the one who directs you to the true way the right way. Or the Oh whom Lee Abba him who after subtle in the law, call them by their father's name. So if you know the Father's name, then the son remains with the Father's name. Because that's the reality in fact, yeah. That's a secondary issue. So that's the first thing I regard to say. So Sahaba says that we used to call him Zaid, if they were humble then when desire came

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He went back to being called a diviner

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as we know, to list it

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by his father.

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Now, the police are solemn.

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And this is this marriage with Zane a big judge is

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this was in the fourth year with your marriage. This is a bit later for 50 years.

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And before that, the prophet SAW someone was trying to always convince Zeno to marry

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She didn't want to

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because she had this idea still, that he's not from a normal family because he's a freed slave.

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Okay, and it seems a prophet SAW some was trying to remove this idea of, you know, nobility and freed slave. And he wants He always talks with his own family to bring that doesn't mean that's his family, his cousin. Anyhow, the story is he convinces

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zeds all right with it, but he managed to convince them finally to married they didn't have

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so they're married. The marriage runs into trouble. So you can say well, how come the promises I made this choice in the marriage during the trouble

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policies from doing this kind of thing? Don't think it's gonna come out all rosy and everything I suppose starting society because there may be a reason for lessons in it in the story for it to go wrong to see what happens. Yeah. And also not Nestle doing this and the washing

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could be doing it under why.

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And there are instances where he said when they asked us what is this one he goes just your opinion, so it is my opinion. So it can be under the categories of just his opinion. Or even not even it could be under ye

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Yeah, but it's meant to break to bring lessons and reasons for it. You follow me?

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We don't go by the fact Oh, no profits awesome chores and it still is a divorce disaster.

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Divorce is allowed in Islam.

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It's not Nirvana and gender in this world is it? Jenna is only in the hereafter for Muslims. Here is a place of trial. So you cannot mind you can have divorce.

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he Zaid used to come back often they are highly authentic mentioned and say that he's having trouble because they know when just is all is not very nice with him. And he feels she's always giving him a hard time. And he feels that looking down hasn't gone. But every time he used to come to prophesize some of us to say I'm sick we hold on to her

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and have have stuck wine Allah is to remind him just have somebody carry on. Yeah, this was constantly going on.

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So finally, nevertheless, despite all that,

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encouragement from Rasulullah, Islam some zaev in the end divorces have been

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induced divorce.

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Now in one story, it is mentioned and this story is false. It is not authentic. But you will see in a similar writings.

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This story mentions that a publicized son one day went to visit vaids place and he was out. And while he went to visit the hairy curtain that was there was blown up by the wind and he saw venom not dressed or something like that. This story mentioned Laila.

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Okay, and he turned away and said something like Subhan Allah, Laurie bitwala, who can change the hearts something like that is mentioned in this story.

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And he goes back and xylem hears this and mentions it to Zane when he comes back. And he thinks the prophesize firm wants to marry her. So this story puts her in a crooked whether he wants to marry her so they decide what I'll divorce her.

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This is not got any basis of truth.

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The truth is, and therefore,

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the truth is that prophet SAW Selim

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was worried after they divorced her. Yeah, he must have had some inclination. This is authentically his mentioning and other Allah nice thing that Allah is going to mention about marrying her, to him

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to break this idea of the adopted son being the real son further

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cuz your real son's wife You cannot marry.

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But he adopted his son to break the idea that like your blood

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yeah was to break that. So that made him

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weary. So he had it in his right but a lot smarter then revealed through Quran that worry to overcome that and you see that in the words of Allah when he mentions intraductal Azov again

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and this time

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in verse number

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on what Allah subhanaw taala says,

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What is

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the and among Allahu alayhi wa Taala II am sick and sick la kazoku jacket what appeal

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what to Fifi NFC cannon la de la

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la la la la Haku Tasha

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paws I

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wedging NACA za wedging naka de ke La Jolla una Allah meaning.

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Ni k Kayla Michaela Hakuna Allah Elmo Mina hora see as word

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walk on all worker kana mo ma EMF Allah. Allah says

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to the Prophet sites to them and remember call to mind when you said to the one Allah had favorite and you had failed,

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wait a lot favored by making a Muslim you were favored a freedom as a slave and he's been looking after him. Like he's on some. Yeah, when I'm calling and seek alayka zone jack, when you said to him, hold fast until your wife

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was saying constantly to him.

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And fair a lot of taqwa in Allah and you conceal within yourself fear of people, yet what Allah wants to reveal, although Allah has greater right that you fear him.

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What does Shafi nestucca mala whoop Dee you fed in yourself what Allah was going to Modi he was going to reveal so that showing you there was an inclination inside him that that was going to happen and that's what he was fearing.

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And I will duction nurse and you fail people because the tribal ways was the adopted son is like a real Sunday we're gonna go oh my goodness, look what he's doing. But Allah wanted to make clear that the bloodline is not there.

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Well, Allahu Akbar Tasha who a lot more right. This is telling the Messenger of God

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this is telling the messenger God off in a sense putting him right but whatever you got about people fear a lot more this is going to happen

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here those who follow that corrupt report said Oh, he was hiding in himself the desire to want to be with her

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to the corrupted that because he'd seen a you know not only with the slum not with not covered you know and the desire so he was hiding it himself

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but it doesn't fit with the eye anyway. Okay, it doesn't fit with the eye and it's not the truth and orientalist love that story. Of course.

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You can imagine why.

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They don't mean how what are our so when Zaid had accomplished what he would with offer meaning he gave her divorce was free from it when she had his medicine when she finished her.

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Yeah, Allah God then said, the West Naka ha, we married we married her to you

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a lot smarter saying well, you have married her. We have married that to you when this revelation came is after.

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Allah has married her at this juncture when this revelation comes

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the Kalia kunaal mukuni knowledge in order that there won't be any difficulty port unbelievers in regards to adopted sons.

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Not that they have to as a tsunami that they're the wives of their adopted sons.

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No just to remove any obstacles in case somebody wanted to. That's what we need to understand from it. Not that it becomes obligatory for all people adopted sons of America, no nonsense

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fee as well as the other end him in regards to the wives of their adopted sons evapo men who matara one day have announced their divorce and separated from them.

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Okay, so this

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idea came in regards to join a church

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All right.

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This took place as I said 450 years of age. It took place before the Goswami, bunny masala

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Rosewall, bunny masala,

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here is before funded.

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For fifth year, yeah, Hunter is fifth year. So we're talking around the fourth or fifth year in between that time.

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So this must be before that. Why I told you when we did but a Muslim people have different ideas about some people put bunny Muslim at six year old Phaedra. But it doesn't fit with that.

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Bunny Muslim is the last word on their return is famous for the story of if the slander against

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Chateau de Laval

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were in the fair, the authentic ad she says yet

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the man who stayed behind, brought her back recognize me from before because she was asleep before the I of the job came on us. And she put it put a screen on. But he recognized as she's saying, in other words, the eyes of the job have already come.

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When did they come? They came at the time of the celebration of the walima marriage of zinger Josh, according to many authentic cubbies.

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One of them is from Allah mineria wire to the prophet SAW salon after this revelation came he's the mind but Allah Yeah, held alima and call the Sahaba to his home to celebrate his marriage with Xena judge.

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And in one report, the prophet SAW some

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Ahmed says that they're all eating together with the wives of the Prophet SAW Some are already married to him from containers together from the same containers. And he's saying I'm eating and while I'm taking the food from the train my finger and hand touch that of i said earlier on. And he went he's he felt uncomfortable.

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Yeah, but there was this physical contact.

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You have to put it in that culture and time as well.

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So he said on more than one occasion, and especially after this occasion, he said to the Messenger of Allah yada Salalah

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you should put your wives notice. Now this has to do with the idea of the wives of the Prophet son being screen that he worked he job is never used for anybody else. It came to be used nowadays to apply to Muslim women. This is not the job. What is the job mean? to screen away. Screen means absolute screaming. The word job in the Quran and Sunnah is only used for the wives of the Messenger of Allah.

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And it doesn't have the same meaning as this. And it was only for them. You see from the context of when the area was revealed. And where it says in the Hadith, the suburban the zoo, the situation revelation, Omar says jasola, you should screen your wives, He never says jasola we should screen our women. Or you should screen your daughters, or jasola revelations should come so we can all screen our Muslim wives to say that, not at all. He's saying it only to the Messenger of Allah, you should screen your wives or messenger of Allah, because all kinds of people come to visit your home good ones and bad ones.

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So you should screen your wife, your professor, some didn't listen to him. That was his suggestion.

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So when we're used to say,

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the prophet SAW that

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part of his virtue, he says, My virtues that Alice Mata agreed with me on three occasions when I suggested things.

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This is authentic Aziz one, he said, I said to the mess of Elia so let's take them apart.

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We should take them up on a Brahim as masala

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Muhammad Ibrahim masala as a place where you pray near and alas Mata mentioned the verse take Muhammad Ibrahim was masala.

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He said second I suggested I said to the mess of Allah you should screen your wives so as far as Cindy is instructed to say, screen your wives, the third I want the wives of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam including his daughter. That if you carry on the way you're behaving with him, you're hurting the Messenger of Allah, then perhaps you'll divorce you and Allah will replace him with better wives and you so Allah revealed that.

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So, this

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when this happen, and another thing the prophet SAW Selim

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also in this willinger celebration, what happened was that the prophet SAW some people ate Sahaba ate their food and you know, stayed for some time chatting, and majority left.

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Three people carried on

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this is the wedding night over a suit.

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So they carried on us there's no care in the world promises of too shy to say anything to them. Yeah.

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So at one time he gets up,

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gets up again, moo goes to visit his wives etc, is going back in and out. They're still sitting, chatting.

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They're still sitting there chatting away.

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So unless one or the other eventually they decide to go by law review versus in in that regard.

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this is in Surah.

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so Allah says, time fast running out.

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Yeah. Lavina hula, hula boo boo. de la,

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la la, la la mina warrior en la de

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da de Rena ina wala kina Eva. Fado, Hulu phi Eva prime

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ratio. Shirou. Wallah Mr. Messina Lee Holly's in the comb Can you win the FS by a stuffy by a stuffy mean comb wala hula Yes, you mean I'll hop off either sell to move

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this No ma'am you are

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Ma'am you are Oh, he

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be cou be in.

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One can Allah como en tu Rasul Allah, Allah. Can Tim Cafu as well?

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He added,

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this carries on telling you why. Why the screening as well was special reference to the why for profit for screening

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in other alikoum Canada in the law, he always

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translation of that, unless one other says, are you who believe and to not the house houses or apartments of the Prophet without his permission, no, wait for a meal to be prepared. Instead, enter when you are invited. So don't hang around us. I think we'll get in for a meal.

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unless you'd like an annoyance you know, he's already so busy doesn't have all the time anyway.

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No, wait for me to prepare instead, into when you are invited to eat or when you have had the meal disperse.

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Do not linger around in idle talk.

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Do not linger on that is hurtful to the Prophet, but he does not express it out of shyness.

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But Allah is not ashamed or shy of speaking out the truth. A lot telling you instead, they didn't tell you if to shy don't upset you. And if you were to ask now comes the rest of it with that.

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So what Omar has been saying etc. And if you were to ask in future meaning the wives of the Prophet for something asked from behind a screen

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and that could be a screen for you.

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It doesn't mean you

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Put the screen on them. It's saying you asked from behind the screen. So you're behind the curtain wall.

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And of course, when they went out in main them screening completely, and when their screening was no eye showing it was complete screening.

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Notice the context, and notice the is referring to who the wives of the Prophet SAW. So, then it carries on to give you the reason is saying, if you ask the very thing as some behind the screen vatika up to Heroku become waku, Benin, that is the most

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yeah, most purifying for your hearts and for their hearts. So some people said, but I don't want to go into the whole issue. But somebody will try to use this and say, well, it's more purifying also for the hearts of believers asking other women as well. Why can we apply it there, but it's not because it carries on why on my channel, I come and talk to the soul, Allah wa and tenki who as wotja and surely Allah does, then tagged on saying it is not lawful for you to cause her to Allah's Messenger, nor to marry his wives after him.

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That's why the screening,

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you can't apply that to other people's wives.

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No law came that they can't marry after you die, but for the Messenger of Allah, these wives become Omaha to momineen yet, so absolute screening, so that reduces any chance of any attraction, etc, etc, doesn't it that could lead to causing a big fitna for them because they're not supposed to marry and none of them did ever marry after they were bitten by a law

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to protect the honor of the civil laws.

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So, this is to do with the

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with the demise of Zenith bank.

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And here leads into other issues you see all it has to do with the adopters son to do with

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alumni are insane up to the prophesize Hello and to do with the celebration itself the gronk is being revealed tell off those who lingered around and then to bring he job on the wiser publicized as soon as hava St. Patty's so then he job was put on they don't say on the believing women. They say he job was put on the wives of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam everybody was clicking.

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gem was put what they mean by complete screening.

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This is strong evidences. And there's lots more I haven't got time to go into today, why I believe this, this covering up the club is not for other women, it was only for the profit side from why they are like royalty royalty because nobody was allowed to go

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back to be safeguarded.

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Not for other women. The

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the dress code for other women, which we shouldn't call each other actually, because it's not called

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if you've strict about it, of course it's used in a loose sense now it's become used in languages like JavaScript complete screen.

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But the dress code for other women became revealed in Serrano

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which are separate is

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in slot number 24. Those are the is to do with the believing woman. cool little mini column opener where it says say to the believing women

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directly, General, not by this.

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So that's something for you to think about. Okay. An important thing.

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So that was a big jesh and there's other things that are going to come in

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God of mental hard

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money muster luck. That's not money muster luck, the leader because they were threatening to attack Medina. When they went there. They were few skirmishes they were dispersed the tribe, okay. And Julia was one of the captives Yeah, but the prophet SAW some freed her because she came to the Messenger of Allah Thank you, Allah. Allah. You know, I'm a captain and I would Can you help me? I am the daughter of song so the leader of bunny masala Can you help me by paying the ransom so that can be freed so publicized to them.

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I'll do better than that. I'll give you as your dour. Yeah, you're mad, I will give you the answer. If you wish to marry, I will marry you.

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And that's what happened.

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Yeah. And I mentioned in the story before that, to the extent that she's seen joy areas, bringing Baraka blessing to her whole tribe. I saw the problem starts from solid because eventually her father turns up in Medina, to take her back. And the prophet SAW Salem gives the offer and says fun, Jerry wants to go with us. He's free to go with you. But Julia decided she wants to say with the Minister of Allah

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that affected her mostly father, and he became Muslim. And because of him, the whole tribe became Muslim. That was because the Jew area.

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This is what's

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important about Julia.

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being creative.

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was the leader of bananas, he was being ejected

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after World War Two, often out of Medina, and where did they go and settle?

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where they go and settle?

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Yes, hybris. And guess what two hybrid comes late because they continue to cause trouble from the who even after is the one and that's a father, who came during the Battle of Hunter.

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The trenches to the tribe, which tribe is still in Medina, at that time on the Jews

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bunny coryza what he tried to do, and succeeded.

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He tried to make the leaders of money Khorasan

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backstab the messenger during the battle, he turned them told him to break that agreement. So they they committed high treason of the worst possible caliber, which is during war, they changed sides and they became the enemy from within the city. I mentioned this to you before, as you remember

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that he's not just high treason in peaceful time that he's speaking, you know, with the enemy in the war itself. And that's why they were given the death penalty the fighters from that tribe,

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which is what anybody would do today, even to this day.

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His daughter, Sophia, after the law of high birth, right? So who DBS happened with ABS six years of age, right? So we move on now. And six year of his seventh year of his route is what to hyper,

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which we've already covered. And we've already covered this as well. The Sophia was married after the defeat of hiber husband was killed, the father already been killed because the phrase with the treachery of that time for treason. So husbands killed who was kidnapped

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from the three brothers who were

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one of the leaders had been off of hayver.

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But here,

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somebody asked me a question recently, they said, Why did the prophet SAW some straight after the defeat of Khyber where the husband of Sophia has been killed? Right. And before that her husband's been killed by the Muslims.

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Why is he marrying Sophia? I said, you need to ask Sophia that.

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I said you need to ask Sophia that. He's not marrying her by force, you need to ask Sophia. And if she's so upset about it and angry about it, you will have lots of reports from Sofia carrying on because she stayed alive after the prophet SAW solo, cursing the man who forcibly married her right after the defeat of her husband in hybrid, wouldn't you? Do you find them? No, you don't find them she becomes meaning. And he's given the good news of being his wife, Salalah slum in Paradise and all the Sahaba knew about it. She knew well. Why didn't she is the one who should be objecting. If you see it like that. In the summer, I'm saying don't ask the Messenger of Allah. He made the offer.

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He made the offer. How do you know that she didn't hate her husband. If he was a treacherous person. Perhaps she was treacherous at home as well. How do you know we don't have any reports? Yeah, but one thing we're sure about is that she willingly married Rasulullah sallallahu ala.

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She was not a captive. She was freed. She willingly manual

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and stayed his wife didn't ask for divorce afterwards either. Despite the wives otherwise with her when they will

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Jealous some of them used to call a lot or that Judas, they used to call her a Jew still and she become Muslim. So the prophesised famously said to her, said to them,

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my father is Harun.

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My uncle is Moosa,

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Allium Islam and my husband is Muhammad.

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So that was our answer. Yeah. You saw what the, what

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is in the bin just to say this is the sort of statement that Sophia used to make. Yeah. Wow. While returning back to when they used to drink orange juice. They said, Oh, well, you know, yeah, I'm from bunny trail. And my father was this my uncle was this man. Yeah, look at my station compared to you.

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that was Sophia.

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will stop there.

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We will carry on.

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Just to mention, here what I forgot to mention is

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see I've missed a wife of the Prophet sauce here.

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Get noticed from Solomon. A name was hint.

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Not the hint of abuse. Sofia's wife.

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This is her name's him as well.

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the name of Habiba was rumbler.

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Okay, so remind me, we want to say something about selama. avi, bat maimunah. And then I want to discuss the instant, which we haven't got to what took place, why the phone system saturated, etc. and Australia chronic.

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I'm sorry, it's taking so long.

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I hope you're not sorry that it's taking so long, and we're learning something from it. Because some of it has important issues and the Qurans dealing with it. So it's something you learn about the chronic context, as well. I was hoping it'd be a lot quicker because remember, I said at the beginning of this season, we're only going to have four or five will be finished, but it's going to be longer, it seems, isn't it? Because next time we'll cover I think it will take the whole of it because last time I had a scholarly discussion about the issue I'm going to discuss with you. It took us two and a half, three hours just discussing the various

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but I won't go into that detail inshallah, but I'll try and give you an overview of that.

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Philosophy committee, okay. For next week, same time it's seven o'clock. A portfolio that was tough for

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