Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #670 Prohibition Of Bewailing The Deceased

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The transcript discusses the history of Islam, including the use of hugs as signal of weakness and the use of the symbol "the light" to indicate one's death. It uses historical examples to illustrate the importance of shaming and the use of the symbol "the light" to indicate one's death. The segment also touches on the loss of family members and the importance of not denying one's Islam or denying his decision to die. The speakers emphasize the need for a proper understanding of the meaning of "interest money" and the importance of praying together during prayer. The segment also touches on the negative impact of the pandemic on people's lives and the importance of not giving charity to anyone affected by it.
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give his best religion to

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salam Wa alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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hamdulillahi rabbil Alameen wa Keba Tolkien while I would warn in limine or salatu salam ala util everlean. Our herein, Vina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi. Asma in my dear viewers, welcome to another live edition of gardens of the pious and today's episode in the Blissett series of real Salah Hain is number 670. By the grace of Allah, we have a couple of more Hadith left in the chapter of the prohibition of the wailing the disease, then we will begin a new chapter that deals with the prohibition of the fortune telling, Sue saying and so on. So the chapter that we're still tackling the prohibition or be whaling the deceased is chapter number 302. And the first Hadith we have is a

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Hadith which is collected by Abu Dawood and is categorized as Hassan Hadith and a seed. A seed a tabby a May Allah be pleased with him an Emirati in mineral muda Yachi call it can a female ohada Elena Rasulullah sallallahu ala Salama feeling ma roofie lady ephah Lena

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Alain Arsia houfy l. Na Misha huajian While not Rua, Waylon Wallen, Ashok Caja Ibn or L. Nan Shura, Sharon.

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So I see that a scene is one of at VA is not a companion what he was lucky enough to meet some of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Salah and he narrated the Hadith from a woman who happened to give the pledge of allegiance to the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the pledge of allegiance of accepting Islam of not associating partners Allah in worship, and not this obeying the Almighty Allah and His Messenger peace be upon him. And among the articles of the Pledge of Allegiance that this woman have attended. Ellen RCFE Ella knock Michelle wotja Han wala Nether who away Elan Whelan, Ashok Caja Ibn wala Nan Shura, Sharon. And that means among the matters in respect

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of which we give the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him the pledge not to disobey Him in any maruf

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was that we should not slap our faces, be will the deceased here our clothes up and tear our

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as a sign of grief and discontentment with Allah's decision. So it was so important

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to alert the believers at the time of accepting Islam and given the Pledge of Allegiance that as it is important to declare the Oneness of Allah, as it is very crucial to this and yourself from any of the cultural practices of associating purpose or law in motion. Likewise, this act is as ignorant and as evil as the acts of associating partners to Allah in worship. So she listed four things, four practices

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that he used to do and the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him emphasize their provision during the Pledge of Allegiance, early enough Deshaun Watson

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the use to slap the face and with their names they used to scratch their faces so that you would see the traces of scratching the faces or even the bleeding as a sign of discontentment as a sign of grief. So an abuse all of a sudden said, this is forbidden, you should not do that. Well, Anadolu our Elan, many people up until today, you hear them on the rules a loved one, especially a child, they say that I wish I would die right now. Oh Allah take my soul right now. Or the Invoke Allah has cursed to be upon them because of the loss of a loved one father, a spouse, a child, a sibling. It's very common. Unfortunately.

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All of these evil practices are known as that one generally the practices of ignorance which were common before is that unfortunately the culture there are still being practiced. While an Ashoka J bent, the color of one's clothes which whenever you wear your clothes and put your head in the

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scone LJP and the opening including the V neck is called aljibe. One Allah the Almighty say to Musa Ali Salam as a sign that you take to the Pharaoh and you show him that you will have been sent and commissioned by the Almighty Allah. Ad philia Dec fu J ubica tahajjud by Ebola virus who? Musa Moses, put your hand in the jail, that's a job. Okay the opening of the collar and take it out, it will illuminate it will lit with light. So that's called El jape. What they used to do and what some people still do is the hold of the color and they tear it apart as a sign of grief, as a sign of objection to the decree of Allah Almighty. What I learned unsure Ashara in the previous episode we

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spoke about I'll help a man shaving his head. It's when this man necessarily during the hello from Umrah or Hajj, but anytime you want to shave your head it's permissible. But a woman is not permitted to shave her head under any circumstances, nor shorten her hair to the extent that she would look like a meal because interview SallAllahu Sallam cursed because Allah cursed the woman who resembles a man and a worm and a man who deliberately resembles a woman in their outfit, in the look, and so on.

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So here in this hadith, it's not about shaving the head. Now it's about nostril Shari.

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I'm not sure Shadi which is tearing out the woman's here,

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removing the hijab, and show in the hour,

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as a sign of grief. So all of that is forbidden. These practices of be wailing, the disease are so great in the sight of Allah Almighty, and are being categorized as major sins. And that's why interview salatu salam included them in the articles of the Pledge of Allegiance. The following hadith is collected by Imam Tirmidhi it is Hadith number 16 166 And it is Narrated by Abu Musa al Ashanti Radi Allahu Anh, and the one who narrated it from him his son Musa Musa, Allah Shari, Radi Allahu Allah.

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So Abu Musa Shari, are the Allahu Anhu Raja and Rasool Allah He is Allah Allahu Allah He was a llama con. Ma'am in may yet in your mortal for your home or Baqi him for the whole word of Allah worse a Yuda. I was early in walk killaby Mela Kenny yell has Ernie, a Hakka con.

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A hacker con.

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The hadith says that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said whenever somebody dies, and the mourner gets up and says at us, for the mountain among men. ls for the chief.

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And such like proclamations, Allah will put two angels in charge of him who will be his chest and ask him

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disapproving what they heard from the be waiting women. What are you like that? What are you really like that? One of the audience who heard Musa Musa

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Allah Shari, saying so said, I can't believe that. Because this is contradicting what Allah says, at 10 00 to noon with okra, no bearer of a sin shall bear the sin of another. And the person who has died is now responsible for what the family members do after his death. So most of the son of every morsel Ashari was very angry with him. He said, Are you be lying, I will Musa lashari In what he narrated from the Prophet sallallahu sallam. This is what he heard from him. And in fact, my dear audience, there is no conflict of interest. Yes, indeed, the Almighty Allah says coluna FCMB America, Sumatra Hina and he also says, letter 00 tune was roja y la salud insane in la masa. And

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all these verses indicate that the person will be only held accountable for his own earning for his own or her own actions or sayings, not for others. But when you check out the Hadith, it is referring to those who approve

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What their family members would do, because they have seen them in the lives. So as a husband, he has seen his wife, one her sibling on her father, when ever a family member died, she has done the same, he approved it.

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He did not show any sign of dissatisfaction.

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Or Furthermore, some people require that, you know, in Arabic, there is a statement which says, Let me set in how to set la Cal Mr. Jarrah.

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And it is a be willing woman. A Sackler is the woman who have been afflicted with the loss of a loved one. Soon she cries or be Wales, the dead person, the death of a loved one. She's doing this out of grief from the bottom of her heart versus animals. Gera, Musa Gera means hired, you mean that they used to hire people whose their profession is to be wail and scream and shout and tell the cloth? Yes, indeed. And they still do.

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Because people think this is a sign of pride. Like, you know, look, everybody, the whole tribe, the whole village, everybody is grieved, because of the death of this person, but we don't know these ladies, what are they from? Or they're from out of town, they hire them for this reason. So people they say, Oh my God, when we witnessed the funeral of this guy, it you should have seen how his family member who will be wailing him. All of that is forbidden, whether a Sackler or Al Mustafa Gera.

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So the Hadith indicates that if a family member before his death knew that his family would do and he approved, or he actually demanded or require them to do or he did not emphasize to his family since he is in charge, could look O'Brien or CO loco mess all on our Yeti? I gather my family member and I say look, my father is dead. My mother is still alive if I die before her. If you love me, you should take care of my mother. Let's go was Sia. The request or the will is not only a respect of money, respect of real estate, respect of vehicles. Rather, it's much more important it is respective of toquilla being God fearing How would you behave I'm going to show her

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how God

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is called and even he taboo the room and daddy Aruna boo Isla hecho ala Ibrahim is Nylo is help illa huwa hidden wanna know the homeless the moon? So Allah Almighty caught up on our silly counting what Jacob peace be upon him. I'm going to show how the what do you guys witnesses? When death approached Jacob, what did he do? How did he divide his wealth? There we'll see was a respect of the concept of faith and belief.

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He gathered his sons and he said to his sons, MER taboo Dunum embody. Omar, are you going to worship after I die? They said we're going to maintain belief and worship Isla Hecke were Illa Iike. Ibrahima is mela is Huck Illa Hanwha hidden on the moon. What is this called was a year so they emphasize they're going to stay on the same path. Maintain the steadfastness worship in the same Ella. The load of Ibrahim is Marielle is happen Yahoo Isla Hanwha hidden So brothers and sisters

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before we die, we need to have a meeting with our family somebody who say we don't know when we'll die that's why we have to do this on regular basis. And it is an it should be renewable.

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In our meetings should not be only because there is a birthday party or somebody who scored very well in the exam now it's about the dean and we'll see Yeah. And continuously advising and teaching your family members and you tell them you open the chapter of rattle Salah Hain the prohibition or be willing the disease and say look, this is what the messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, my mom, Al Mel to help this is a reality. And it is inevitable. Whether you go before me, or I go before you be God fearing. Remember, no matter how much you love me, that Allah Almighty, we all belong to him, and it is up to him to take any of his belongings whenever he wants. So you should

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not object to Allah's decree. You should not reject Allah's decision. By the way

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They are saying that you're my only support in this life, who's going to take care of me after you die? Allah does. I remember once. This this

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way of proving the fact that the Almighty Allah is the sole provider, and sustainer have caused one person to make Toba right on the spot when I was speaking to one of the brothers, who used to sell in his store, alcohol, lotto tickets and so on. And it was during Ramadan, and I was given him an advice. So he says, Chef, if I quit the job, I do not know any better, who's going to feed my family.

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So I asked him to return. Bro, why if you die right now who's going to provide for your family said Allah said Ma sha Allah. So you think that Allah is waiting for you to die to take care of your family. As a matter of fact, he's the one who's feeding you and your family right now. It's simply that you rushed and he decided to earn your provision unlawfully, otherwise, your provision is guaranteed. So this word, touched his heart. In a couple of hours, he threw all the filth out of his store and he decided not to sell any haram anymore. And Allah He was a turning point in his life. Allah subhanaw taala provided him abundantly from where he could never imagine. And he prospered

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after he was living hand to mouth why because this is the moment during which he happened to put his trust in Allah. So when a person dies, and his family member recognize that this is the amount of Allah ossola, in

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the wife of a Batalla de su Kabul, by the way, are those whom Allah refer to them in Surah to hush, where you will see a Lunala foresee him Allah who can be him Kasasa women, for sure, Hannah See, he thought Allah Iike whom will move on? Use your own out unforeseen the story of honoring the gifts of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and giving him the food of their own kids and lying down without eating. So those are praiseworthy, a couple and almost Salaam is also the mother of Anna Sydney Malik, or the Allahu Akbar. And also Elaine was a very pious woman that the Prophet Salah Salem sometimes would go and spend the noon time in their house and take a nap, the Chi Lulu,

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I will tell her, and almost alone, got married, and they had a child. The child was very sick and he had bad fever. I will tell her left for his business. And when he returned the first question he inquired about their child. She says he is much better than before. Alhamdulillah so he's resting Yes, let him rest. Food is ready. Yes. So the eighth and after the eighth she adorn herself and they had an intimate relationship. And then after he calmed down, he ate and he enjoyed the intimate relationship with his wife. She said you're about to have a question for you said sure. She said if our neighbors give us an Amana

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deposited something with us as an Amana and now they wanted it back. They say Would you please give us our Amanda back? What shall we do? Of course we shall give them back their Amana. It's their belonging. She said great. Yeah. How about Allah?

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The Almighty Allah has recalled that his Anna, he said What do you mean? She said our child was an Amana deposited with us by Allah and he has taken back his Amana Your son is dead. May Allah have mercy on him, and may Allah go on to spiritual and he was very infuriated and he was very angry, not because his son died, but because during this time, she given the dinner and they have an intimate relationship. You know, I should be grieving now. Not celebrating. And he went to the Prophet salallahu salam to attend the federal prayer with him. And the sign of anger was shown in his eyes. And when he said to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, what happened the Prophet Salah Salem was very

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happy with the behavior of almost alive and he said Baraka Hola Hola, como de la isla de como de Scole LT fact like you know, he diverted his attention from whatever happened and said, So you slept together? Yeah. He said, may Allah bless you both in the night.

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So Allah give them better what the then what the last, and from their offspring. They had 10 sons, they have all memorized the entire Quran Subhan Allah. It is a level of material gifts. But when you object and say why, why have you

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Taking my oldest son away from us a little baby, what did he do to you? You should have taken me along with him. What is this called? Objection? Rejection is contentment you're not happy with Allah's decision. Any of us brothers and sisters, feels sorry and is grieved the loss of the most beloved, remember that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is dead

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and he's our most most beloved Salalah Alia salah. Finally, last Hadith in the chapter is Hadith number 16 167. Seven Hadith collected by Imam Muslim may Allah have mercy on him and Evi hora irata Radi Allahu Anhu on

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kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is none effeminacy Houma be him cough, a pang of Inessa one year how to Alan may you

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have a ton of Inessa when near how to Alan made the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said there are two things of signs of disbelief on the part of those who indulge in them. The first is slandering one's lineage. And the second is the wailing over the debt, as far as the slandering of one's lineage. Unfortunately, this OMA is afflicted with the pride of the lineage.

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Bragging about the ancestors, this is something that is in our own home, we cannot deny it. Many tribes, they would not allow their daughters to marry from outside the tribe. Why? Because no one is as superior as us. We are the children of so and so. Our title is so so how can we ever let a stranger a stranger is a person who speaks the same language. They pray next to us in the masjid. Maybe she's the daughter or the son of the imam who leads the prayer, but he's from another tribe, from another clan, and this tribe the belief themselves superior

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or Ashraf,

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this is a sign of ignorance, even though it is commonly practiced, but it's a sign of ignorance. Because if you think yourself superior, I believe you would never be superior to other Romanic now, if you think yourself from the lineage of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and elevate into via Salah Salem and you like to call yourself Sayed and the Arab they call themselves Sharif, noble or honorable because he belongs to the family of the Prophet salaallah Salah What about when I tell you that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, gave his cousin Xena Binti Jash the noble woman in marriage to zayde in the Haritha, who was a slave and His * that was no problem with that.

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And believe Nava sister, believe Nava ignorable, may Allah be pleased with him you all know that he was a black ever seen in a slave.

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His sister likewise adore man it now

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that married to beloved sister, no problem. No big deal. Right? Or Kapha. To be Taqwa

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the qualifications rely on the piety and righteousness in Chroma Komenda Llahi at Koco so the people who still maintain this act of Jay Hillier This is a sign of disbelief because it belongs to ignorance before Islam and the sign the second sign which is a sign of disbelief, and near how to Allah made

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when Allah Almighty orders the believers to be patient upon being afflicted and emphasize the fact that

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some people look into this area as a promise as a Beshara

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and some people would only look at the other half, which is oh man, every one of us shall be tested and tried. And the tests and the trials are various knocks in mineral and well, we'll enforce a thorough loss of provisions with fruits, visitations, or lives, losing loved ones, sickness, any kind of affliction. So this is inevitable, rich or poor, or mushy or otherwise everyone would be tested Muslims or non Muslim. Then he said, The Beshara the other half of the I endure that patiently, then rejoice. If you say we all belong to Allah and unto Him we shall return the rejoice, Allah Almighty will bless you will pardon you forgive your sin and will have mercy on you. And he

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and he labeled those people as such people are the truly guarded one may Allah make us among them. So they look into that as a Beshara. They take advantage of the test, they said that this was inevitable, it happened it happened. There is no way to revoke it.

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And they say the supplication and they accept Allah's decree. And then they submit fully to the will of the Almighty Allah. Then they receive the package for Word which Allah promised Allah him Salah to Mira be homearama what will it go home, and we

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will finish with this amazing chapter. And in sha Allah, we'll take a short break then soon after, we may begin Chapter number three or three which is the prohibition of visiting the soothsayers, the fortune tellers. And since this is the beginning of a new year, 2022 a lot of people unfortunately including Muslims, and you see this on talk shows inviting soothsayers and asking them about the future what's going to happen into 2022 Answer, we'll learn whether this is permissible, or it is despite what is it amuse yourself. Soon after we'll come back from a short break and Shalabi stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to the second segment of today's episode of gardens of the pious our phone numbers beginning with record are 00201095185170 Alternatively I record 002 Then 01 double 05469323 and finally Eriko 00134780600 to five this number and the following number are both WhatsApp numbers for free calls. The last WhatsApp number is records user 1-361-489-1503.

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As promised, the following chapter which is chapter number 303. Babble nahi and it urinal co Hurney. While Munna Jimena while Rafi was harbor Lumley, what authority will Hausa or be shady one with early

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the prohibition of consultation and visiting or seeking the guidance from the soothsayers, the fortune tellers, and those who claim that they know the stars, and they read the palms, or they play with the stones, or the barley, and they tell you the future. There are many practices that people do, claiming that they can know the future, or read the future of an individual life or innocence among the Arab

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that are fortune tellers. What after you drink your Arabic coffee, they will pick up your cup, a small glass, and they will look into it and they pretend that they are reading your future, telling you that you will get married to a beautiful girl and she will fall in love in new with you. And you'll go on to buy a Ferrari. And obviously every person would love to hear that.

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And normally, when those people go to the soothsayers and ask them, they're weak, vulnerable, they're in need. So they tell them your love and the person whom you're loving is not giving you the same

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reaction. How did you know when everybody's in love?

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So the prophets Allah Allah Salem will tell us all about visiting the

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soothsayers, the fortune tellers, and the palm of the palm readers and whether this is okay or not, obviously from the following Hadith, Hadith number 16 168

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And this hadith

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is agreed upon its authenticity

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and Aisha Radi Allahu Anhu call it sir a lot of soul Allah He SallAllahu selama arnesson Anil ko Hani

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Farrakhan liceu be shy. To call we have rasool Allah. In our home you had the Sunnah urine and Bishi in Como have gone

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for kala Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam till Kalama terminal hockey. Your powerful halogen new fable Kuru Have you only or li very ugly at Warner ma Miata Khadija motiva con la

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I'd like to share with you the meaning of the segment. Then I will share also with you before the show. The other narration of Imam Buhari may Allah have mercy on him. So I shall Rhodiola on had said some people came to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him. And they asked him about L ko Han plural of care when

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again is a soothsayer who claims to know what is going to happen in the future.

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So they say do rasool Allah, what do you think of the soothsayers? He said, that nothing. They're all fake.

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They are of no account.

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So the Sahaba Cydia rasool Allah, but sometimes the till predictions. So interview Salalah sallam said, in fact, that's only a word pertaining to the truth which the jinn captures, after hearing or spying on some of the angels and then they cast it in the ear of the soothsayer, who will then mix this one single true information with another 100 lies with it, and people would still believe that person. Now let me take the other narration of Imam Buhari then shed light on the entire Hadith, whether the one which is agreed upon its authenticity or the narration of Imam Bukhari well he anyway that in in Buhari and Omen, Medina Aisha Radi Allahu anha. And now some Yatra rasool Allah is

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Allah Allah Allah Salama could, in Al Miller if at 10 zero Falon

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mean Andy unfussy him.

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So the meaning of the segment that you heard the Prophet sallallahu Sallam saying that the angels descend in the cloud,

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and when they're talking to each other, some of the jinn, what a spy, and we'll steal a hearing. And then we'll communicate whatever they heard to their allies of the soothsayers who will tell along with it 100 lives. This is a text of both Bukhari and Muslim. And after this call in sha Allah, I will shed some light on the entire Hadith as Salaam Alaikum.

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Wa is from Bahrain, Salam alikoum voice

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motto Live on faith on don't data 100 hours go ahead.

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Yeah, well question about the interest like you cannot avoid the interest with many of the banks in my home country also. So you have to deposit the money in the account. They view your interest, quarterly, so cannot be a word what can be done for this interest? And my second question is

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what is the time period for Isha prayer? Can we make two prayers together? McGillicuddy Keisha, can I pray together and available in shall do to business? In my office work? And the third question

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is the husband of dominant to wife as mentioned in the Bakara, maybe I don't understand it the right way you can feel me It says husband is dominant to wife, any, any house wife need to follow the husband. If there is something he needs to manage to get any conflict with the husband. She needs to manage as one because overall have been the dominant to the wife

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Hey, Baraka lofi he always

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first of all, irrespective of the inevitable interest if you deposit your money in the bank, if it is, as you said, and if it's inevitable, then you take this interest and immediately you dispense it, you give it to the poor, you give it to a hospital or an orphanage or any nonprofit organization and you get rid of it provided you and your family members you should not benefit out of it by any means, including paying your own taxes that is not permissible to be paid from the interest money which is collected on your own wealth. Secondly, combining any prayers with the one which shares its time is linked to the necessity or the dire need, not all the time. So in the view of Salah Salem

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while traveling, and during the reign and sickness permitted combined in Doha and us together at the time of either one of them, combined in Maghreb and Asia together at the time of either one of them. And the latest time for the Isha Prayer is mid night as discussed before. So if you're capable to pray the mothership on time, then you should pray Mallory before Isha, delaying any prayer from its fixed time without a valid excuse, such as being musafir or sick, or a doctor in in the operating room or a patient going for the checkup is perceived as a major sin. So there must be a valid reason. That gives you the concession to combine two prayers at the time of other wonderful. The I

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refer to is not an IO Surah Baqarah rather, it's an area of Surah Nisa, chapter number four, in which Allah subhanaw taala says a region will call Munna Allen is even for border love about a bomb and about where we fell home in Mo Le Him. The word called Munna by any mean does not mean super unity.

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Rather it means the are in charge of the are protectors of every family must have a leader, Allah Almighty appointed the husband to be the leader. He is in charge of the family of providing for them of protecting them of guiding them of teaching them go low camera and Rocco lukewarmness Oh Nara Yeti and that does not give the men the right to be a dictator or take unilateral decisions. Because in Surah Al Baqarah the Almighty Allah advised the couple the husband and wife even a respect of weaning the child whom the wife is breastfeeding

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to make the decision based on mutual consultation for in our

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fall under rob him in Houma watershed voting feller Dona Hallo Hina so there is no blame upon them to decide the winning at any time. Allah says in the area, although a leader to hold on Allah don't hold any cannula in but if the couple the husband and wife discuss the matter among themselves and they agreed based on their mutual consultation, so even in a decision like that, so Allah does not say that men are superior to women or women are superior to men. Rather Allah says they are in charge. They are the maintainers they are the providers for they are required to present before Allah report of what they have done to those who are under their guardianship. For Raju Rafi Vate

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era in whom all on hardware yet thank you he always found a hurry as salaam alaikum.

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Sister Zenith from the USA Welcome to hola TVs in

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Santa Monica,

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and welcome you back from aamra Thank you, sisters Ginetta appreciate it.

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Okay, I have a question. Like, recently.

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I am going through a grieving period and it's little bit hard for me like my mother in law passed away suddenly by sea was fall down. And it's more hard for me like sometime out of nowhere around madlib time I start depressed and crying how to deal with the griefing Thank you, Sister, Xena. Today's episode, the first segment and the previous one. If you watch them again, they have the answer to your question. It's been already almost one year since my entire family contracted COVID

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And we were very sick. On the verge of dying. I myself, wrote my hacia. And I thought, I'm not going to make it out of this disease. And in alila, nearly hemorrhage alone, my father passed away on the 15th of January last year. So in 10 days from now, it will be one year, not a single day that passed throughout this year. I did not grieve the death of my father. But when I'm grieved, I remember him. I make ombre for him, I supplicate for him, I give any charity for him. I gather people to have a tattoo on the first thing on his behalf, we built a machine or so on his behalf. So this is a kind of griefing which is constructive. You know, this camera the past amarachi went all the way to

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perform it was for my father, may Allah have mercy on his soul. So if you love your loved one whom you lost, benefit him you know, being passive and sitting and crying and feeling depressed. Why do I feel depressed? Would they bring Matt back my loved one first of all I'm very impressed and happy that you will grieve for the death of your mother in law. There's something very positive Masha Allah and and very unique. May Allah bless you and your husband, but you love her. Now you know what to do in order to benefit her. Make lots of dua for her.

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She can give any charity on her behalf. Ramadan is coming you can sponsor a few days if par in the community and say Oh Allah, the word of this feed in the first thing people should go to my mother in law. This is very constructive. But people will sit and say I'm grieved and I'm not doing anything and I'm depressed. Okay. Is this going to change the situation with the Lord Almighty say? I'm sorry and I will bring back your loved one is not going to happen.

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A lot Almighty has confirm colonna since the mouth. Every soul shall taste depth. When all Have you ever heard of the Allahu anha?

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Will Have you ever heard the Allahu anha the Prophets wife.

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She made a beautiful beautiful because you and I you will make it all the time. But never use Allah Allah Allah Selim corrected her supplication when he objected to what she said. She said Allah Houma Mata and EB Abby, Abby, Sophia and Allah Houma Mata and EBV more Allahumma Mata any Bizos Jana Sula, what does it mean? Like I used to hear my mother and my grandmother, and many women, oh Allah make me die before my loved ones make me die. Make

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my loved ones outlive me so I don't know. Feel the grief of losing my husband, my son, my my brother. So Allah Allah Salam said Omaha Viva is like you know, this dua is really worthless, because you're invoking Allah concerning Ajahn in Buddha,

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the matter of who's gonna die before whom and the lifespan has already predetermined by the Almighty Allah is not going to change this matter is not going to change. Rather you should ask Allah for raffia for forgiveness, because this is guaranteed if you ask Allah for. So I should settle down, I should be full of

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your kin, that the term of everyone wants it is do they will not be postponed for a single moment. Then I should say in Allah Allahu alayhi wa, salaam alaikum.

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Bye. May I May I stop taking any calls and just focus on the meaning of the beautiful Hadith that we shared before. Even in the Arabic media and the Muslim countries. It is very unfortunate. You see nowadays, and since the beginning of the new Gregorian calendar, and the New Year, the talk shows they are hosting soothsayers and people who read the cards and feed the coffee cup and they play with the stars and they say yeah,

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this President is going to live for 100 years. He's gonna die in sha Allah next week. How do you know? Oh, that's cool, Roger, remember live assuming and the fact of the matter that Allah Almighty stated multiple times in the Quran. Therefore innocence in Surah Hawkman. Allah Almighty says in the last day in Allah and our L Musa, or uniserver voice where Allah mirfield or

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Her dad in a Sumedha taxi border cometa Darina soon be a year Abilene Talmud. These are five knowledges or five items of knowledge of the Unseen and no one have any clue about them. But the key is not even Gibreel varicella. So when somebody says this person is going to die on the date that's a plain lie.

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A woman who's not even pregnant yet not marrying and say you would have a child and his name would be this and this and that he's gonna live for six years. That's a plain lie that's called Roger mumble right, cool Palais Allah moment visa, you will have the LOI BA in law law. This is an eye of Surah number nine in the heavens and the earth, know the unseen Illa Allah except Allah. Why the Home Affairs at home lawyer Villa Aloha.

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The keys to the knowledge of the Unseen are only preserved with the Almighty Allah surah. Al Anon.

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And we also Allah Han SLMC to our Isha, or said in the Hadith, which is narrated by our Isha, when the Sahaba asked him about the various kinds of soothsayers, fortune tellers, and so on, he said, they have no account. It's a joke.

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They're liars. They have no knowledge, you know, lies to Allah shape. It's all fake. So they said, so what about sometimes he tell us things and they come true? He said, Yep. This is because now listen to the ASR. autogen we have two is a Serato gene and number eight and number nine DGN said lessness. If awarded and Molly at Horace Shadi Dang, what should

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do don't mean hammock or Italy some family yesterday.

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She have a rassada.

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The the decision said they figured out that Muhammad had been sent * because before his message they used to overhear in SML dunya. The angels will talk among themselves about the commandments which are they're supposed to execute in the clouds or in the worldly scar. So the Asian would overhear what is still the conversation, and then they will share it with their allies of the kuffar the soothsayers, because every soothsayer, and every fortune teller, even if his name is Mohammed is a disbeliever. Anyone who claims to know the future or that he can predict what's going to happen, now only that he is a liar. Not only that he is a fortune teller Teller and an imposter, but he's a

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disbeliever. Imagine the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said,

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whether simply visits a soothsayer, or a sorcerer, and logician or a fortune teller and ask him or consult him in any matter concerning the unseen has indeed this believed in the message of Muhammad. So what about the soothsayer himself? The fortune tellers themselves and the magicians themselves, they are definitely disbelievers. So the Jen said,

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familia stemmy earn 100 Allahu she have a rassada. We used to over here and still the conversations between the angels every year, a lot Almighty will dictate to the angels what they need to execute throughout the upcoming year. So while the writing recording, the angels will steal the information and share it with their correspondent, allies of the soothsayers who are Kfar worship them in order to mislead as many human beings as possible. They say, there will be a major earthquake next year, or as few years ago, they said that the day of judgment will be by the end of the year. All of that is fake. Brothers and sisters, from an Islamic perspective. None knows the Unseen but Allah subhanho

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wa taala. And seeking the help or the guidance or watching those shows were the fakers. The TV hosts, the hosts fortune tellers in order to predict the future and what will happen during this year and who's gonna die who's gonna live. The participants in this program, disbelieve in Allah and in the message of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam according to the explicit straightforward judgment of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. Men are rough and okay hidden for sadaqa who are highly Kaffir aubema. Zilla Allah Mohammed ran out of time for this episode. And until next time, I love you all in the care of Allah. Allah Hoolock already had our stuff rolling you hola como se Allah Allah.

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on an ad he wants to sell a masala Mala kumara

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to be there and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about and in paradise, we're shipping guns, fire and stones, sending the rescue the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how bad guys we're shipping cars firebrands doors selling their best.

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