Gardens Of The Pious #261 Feb 6th 2017

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The speakers discuss the negative consequences of "verbal art" and its potential negative consequences, including embarrassment and embarrassment. They also mention past mistakes and accomplishments, including Ma's past mistakes and past accomplishments, including her own success in writing a check and finding a job. The importance of finding augged person is emphasized, and advice is given on finding one. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of being attentive during prayer, and offers advice on finding a partner.

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Ullah Khan is the greatest

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glory to Him, He

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has to be the best and give his best religion to allah God has the greatest

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glory to Him, only humans to be the best and give

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a Salama Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim in the Name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Most Merciful. We all praise Allah Almighty alone and we send the best Peace and blessings upon His most Beloved Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. My dear viewers everywhere Welcome to another Live edition of your program Guardians of the pious and today's episode is number 312.

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And it will be the second in the study in chapter number 79, which these were the just ruler,

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equalities, qualities and the virtues of these just rulers.

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The first Hadith that we studied, we didn't get to finish it is Hadith number 658 658.

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It is agreed upon its authenticity and it is narrated by the great companion of a warrior. Radi Allahu Allah, who said, and in the video sallallahu alayhi wa sallam makan said attune you will know whom Allah who you're literally he yo Mala will Elavil Imam on idol worship up on Nasha a theory bear that he later Allah or do don't call boo more Lacan Phil masajid

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What have you learned to have the Fila hydrothermal Lee waterfall raka la wa Raju alone there are two rotten the two man sleeping or Jemelle for Carla in a half Walla Walla Dolan sadaqa sada cuttin her hat. Darla mushy Mel who may tune up me know what are julu the Dakar Allah ha en FIFA are but I now

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we got to study the first three categories of those seven types of people whom Allah Almighty shall shelter under the shade which he will create, on the day when there will not be any shade but his especially for the season, to shadow and to shelter those righteous people. There's us ruler,

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the young man who grew up in the worship of Allah,

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a man whose heart is attached to the masjid. And those are the three the first three types. Now, the first type, the fourth category, is what module any, to have burfi lay it determine

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what for walk or lay, and two persons

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who love and meet each other and apart from each other, for the sake of Allah, the Almighty.

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One of the greatest qualities of faith. One of the very prominent signs of a man is a horrible Fila and also a board of Allah.

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Allah Quran, amen.

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This is a great sign that explains and it confirms whether the person is a true believer or not.

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When he loves an Love is something undergoes the desire of the heart, what the heart likes, but the person was able to direct his how're his whim, his desire towards what Allah Almighty is pleased with is a person who is a strong believer. So whenever he loves any person now you're Hibou il Allah Allah.

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In the other Hadith, the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said Salah soon men who Nephi wotja The hello what an amen. The three qualities whoever would possess them will find the taste the sweetness of Imam.

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One of those qualities is

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when you hit by radula, your Hibou inlet Illa

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when he loves somebody who loves him or her for the sake of Allah, he has the word Raju does not only imply men, men or women, so two men who love each other for the sake of Allah

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as they became friends, they became brothers for the sake of Allah. Two sisters, two women, they're my relatives. Maybe they're not living in the same building. But they've met somewhere. They share the same quality, they attend the halka, the Quranic circle, they study even online, they became sisters, they became brothers. They love one another for the sake of Allah Almighty. This is a quality that confirms that such people are true believers. Because now you may know huddlecam had Kunal Hauer who temporarily magic to bear, none of you will become a true believer until his whim, his desire follows whatever I brought you with, which is the guidance, the Sunnah. So, you know, the

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person naturally will desire, you know, a man will desire a beautiful woman, because this is a human anything a human desire, but because she's not dressed properly.

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I'm not happy with her.

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I'm not happy because of the attitude because of the appearance because the sin itself because she's disobeying Allah Almighty, the same woman took tomorrow. Allah have guided her, she became a believer, she stopped belly dancing, she stopped committing sins, she repented and she started practicing my heart would love this woman would love this man. Not because of the appearance it is because of the quality of being loved by Allah or not loving Allah or not. That is the meaning of your how're you when you desire have to follow the guidance with Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, abroad us. What is the meaning of radula Anita, her villa,

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on the Day of Judgment. Also, in the other Hadith,

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Allah Almighty will call upon those who used to love one another for his steak,

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and then would have been a fee. What are those who used to love one another for my sake? And then whatever is enough, what are those who used to sit with one another? For my sake? What are those who visited each other and we used to visit each other for my sake. Why? Again, Allah Almighty will declare today, I shall shelter them under my shade, on the day on which there will not be any shade, but his. In the previous episode we understood the meaning of the shade of Allah, the Almighty. This is very important meaning

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells us about a man who set out left his town. He has traveled to another town made a special effort

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in order to visit one of his brothers whom he loved for the sake of Allah.

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For our sal Allahu La who Melech and Anna Medora Jetta.

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So Allah I have sent to him an angel, disguising as a human being on his way, in with him, it shared with you chatted with him. Then he said, What are you heading? He said, I'm going to such and such Stone said why he said, I'm going to visit a brother, whom Allah for the sake of Allah, one of my brothers, he asked him again.

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That said, you're only visiting him because you love him for the sake of Allah. Is there any benefit, any interest in the only benefit that you're looking forward to gain from visiting him? He said, No, except for the fact that I love him for the sake of Allah. So at that the angel reveal his identity. And he said, I am the messenger of Allah onto you, to tell you that Allah Who Loves You, Allah loves you. Why? Because of your love to your brother. So when you find a righteous person, you befriend him, or sister, you befriend her and you maintain this relationship, the Brotherhood or the sisterhood for the sake of Allah, you loved by Allah. Here is Damali. That is the sole purpose of

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our meeting. This is why we need this is why we visit each other because we love each other for the sake of Allah.

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Right before the program, one brother called me And subhanAllah he reminded me with an OC, ha that he asked me for an advice almost

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17 years ago, it was to travel to one country or not to work there or not. So I was really

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reluctant to give him what I think is the proper advice. So whether shared I shared with him my thought, or be quiet, then I made up my mind and I said, you know, Allah knows my intention. I know that everybody would choose the opposite direction. But this is what I think is best for him. So I told him, No, don't.

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Now, and before the program, he was telling me that Subhanallah a lot of people said, Are you crazy? This is a wonderful opportunity anyone would love, you know, such an opportunity? Don't you ever waste it? Is it's of Hannah lava a I followed your advice and hamdulillah Allah have saved me. The other friend of mine who did go there lost his children. I don't want to tell you what happened to them. So years and years later. Now, this is the benefit of loving one another for the sake of Allah. So I don't have to think Allah, I don't have to think too much before paying you the advice because I'm talking to myself. If I see something wrong with you, I don't have to say, oh, will he

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take it right or wrong? Is he going to be upset with me if I tell him my feedback or my thoughts about it? No, I'm talking to myself. We love one another for the sake of Allah will become like one, he will never get upset with me, because he knows that I'm sincere. And in the Hadith, which is collected by Mehmet Tirmidhi, the Prophet sallallahu cinema said in and Mr. Shara motorman.

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One who is being consulted, is trusted. So he must deliver the Amana he must give the advice that he believes it is best, even if the audience may not like it. And then give this sincere advice is dharma alley. This is the purpose of our meeting for the sake of Allah because I love you for the sake of Allah visit you. Because I heard that you're not feeling well. I come to visit you or your sister's getting married, I come on a attend. You have an epiphany, I rush to attend even though my schedule is packed. But I'm not going to miss this opportunity. I don't look at it as a duty or a homework that I have to do. I look at it as a privilege. I'm going to share with my brother for the

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sake of Allah some time. Whenever he companions us to meet each other, or our predecessors, one would ask the other, how are you brother? Or how are you assistant? They know that they're doing good, he will say Alhamdulillah and hamdulillah I'm fine. All Praise be to Allah. I owe the gratitude to Allah. So if you notice that he's fine. Why does he ask Why does he keep asking because he wants to hear him saying Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah so that his brother will keep busy with the remembrance of Allah the Almighty he wishes him well. He wants him to earn her SONET

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is Da Li. So the meeting was for the sake of Allah. What a fatwa, Cara Lee.

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They departed from each other for the sake of Allah. What does it mean? This is very important.

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Segment water Ferrara. In one Hadith a Prophet sallallahu sallam said whenever two people two brothers, two persons two sisters, Love one another for the sake of Allah. So you fall in love with a nomad. And then all of a sudden they break up and they do not become brothers or sisters anymore. It is simply because of a sin ADESA who huduma

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It is the bad omen and the evil effect of a sin that one of whom have committed so he was punished.

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So the Brotherhood, the sisterhood is a blessing.

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And in the Hadith, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said

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in the lab layer haram Risca BISM Bill Siebel.

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The person may get deprived from risk from a provision from a favor that Allah had bestowed upon him, he will prevent it from reaching to him anymore, he will deprive him from it. Why because he has committed a sin.

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So avoid sins because the evil effects of sin not that you will bear the consequences and you will get punished. But one of the punishment

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of committing sins is to be barred from risk and is to be deprived from risk and the Brotherhood is risk. people's love to you is risk. Your wife is risk. Your children are risk. Peace of mind is risk

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Health is risk, your vehicle is risk.

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You the willing place is risk. These are all different types of risk. So you expose yourself to the risk of losing any of these means of provision because of committing sin. And according to the Hadith, when you have some brothers whom you love for the sake of Allah, and a problem arise between you and you break up, you have to check out your,

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your your activities, what did you just do? Maybe you've done something wrong, that you were punished, that you and your brother broke up, you and your sister broke up and you're not talking to each other anymore. It doesn't matter what a father Carly Subhanallah when they meet the meat for his sake, when they leave, they remind each other

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of fearing Allah or being dutiful to Allah, when one of whom is slaving in the other will give him the beautiful glass still there Allah headin a man attack our Hawa team annually, and the other person will reply as to their common law who led the laugh or the or where the arrow if they pray for each other, even at the posture, this is the supplication now somebody is living in East and another is living in West, far away distance. But they are never disconnected. They are always in touch messages.

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You know, asking about each other on daily basis. Even if they don't get to talk, they pray for each other in the absence of each other. Because he loves this person, for the sake of Allah. Once you have one or two or more brothers or sisters, whom you have this kind of relationship, then rejoice, you and then on the day of resurrection shall be sheltered under this particular shade which Allah Almighty will create on the Day of Judgment, to invite you to invite those who love one another for his sake, come and stay here until this dilemma is over. So the 50,000 years the day which is as long as 50,000 use of our time will be as like a simple single day of our time for certain people.

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They don't suffer of the sweat, they don't suffer of the heat of the sun. They don't suffer of anything of the long standing. Because a sheltered you will know whom Allah who feel literally Yama La Villa in La Villa. The first type is Roger alone, that Tamara tone that woman Zubin wa Jai man, for Cara in half Allah. The word Dawa generally is the code it could be called to do something good or to do something bad.

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Where call me murli adoro chameleon ajet Yatta do rune any in

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so the word that we're here in the beginning I call you unto salvation, the prophet is sent to his people. I call you unto salvation. And you are calling me to Rowan to enter hellfire, okay.

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You also follow his Salah

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s Allah the Almighty to save him from the several attempts now first it was one attempt.

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The wife of the prime minister of Egypt back then

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she was possessed with the love of Joseph peace be upon him.

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He was very handsome. He was extremely beautiful. But hey, you are like his stepmother. You are his foster mother. You raised him since he was a child. How dare you think of him?

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This way. The Quran says well, we'll laugh at EverWeb

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we'll call it heater luck, or he used to who yet to luck or hydralic different, different dialects. They all mean that that she offered herself when she made certain that she locked all the doors one after another.

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And she adorn herself. She dressed up in her laundry. She put on the best perfume

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whatever normally a wife would wear for her husband.

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And then she said Hey Turlock and all US

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Panama the law in the hall Rob be us and MS weigh in the Hello flipper volley moon. So he refused and said I seek refuge with Allah again is that oh

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Never do that. Then he also remarked saying that

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avoid the moon. The wrongdoers never succeed.

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So we shall abstain from that. She have tried, she chased them, and he ran away from her towards the door. Use of Allahu Salam who swam to seduce him.

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And bow to Laos is was a very beautiful woman.

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And she was the first lady.

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She's got everything in her position. Okay. And meanwhile She's very beautiful. She adorn herself is not the one who's chasing her it is the other way around. He said math Allah. In the Hora BS and MS way in a hula, you flew over the moon. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam says in the Hadith, and man whom a woman tried to seduce, there are two she called them to do something bad and illicit relationship. And this woman isn't any woman maybe because sometimes a woman is

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hiring an officer but she's ugly.

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And that's why not No, no, no, I don't want to not because of halal or haram like because she's ugly. There is no more than that. But look, a combination of both beauty, power, wealth and position. There are two Marathi, TAO to brighten. That woman said it was your man. She has an authority and she's beautiful. So he abstained? Why did he abstain?

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Was he afraid to get caught? No. He said in your half Allah, all the doors are locked. But he said I fear Allah, any a half Allah, there is only a reason that he abstain from committing the sin. Once I met this young man I was with visiting one of those countries. He said that he was like, you know, I came to know about a young man, he was a driver. He was a driver. He was single. But, you know, one of the goals of his employer would unbar on her blouses, and show her Ira she's sitting in the backseat, and she will try to seduce him. And when he would abstain and turn a blind eye and not talk to her and behave properly. She threatened him that if you don't comply with me, I'm gonna tell

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on you that you try to rape me. Look, Manson was a man. And he is desperately in need for this job. He has a big family back home to provide for

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why am I sharing this story with you brothers and sisters because a lot of us a lot of us

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are sometimes put in a situation like that. So you're afraid that you will get fired? You're afraid that you lose your job or your vision. And meanwhile She's beautiful. She's young, she's full of beauty. Why not? And your bachelor, you're single, no, this is in your half Allah and this person quit his job. So he was telling me that how Allah Almighty, the most generous compensated him with a much better job and a much better position because he left that for the sake of Allah. This is all nothing. Even if you've made you multimillionaire, this is Alhamdulillah this is an award only award. But guess what it is not to be compared to on the day to be standing in the shade. And not to

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feel the lens of the day to be sheltered by Allah Almighty. So the fifth is Raju Loon, that two months we've been with Janelle for Karla in the a half Allah. And then a beautiful and a higher ranking woman tried to seduce him for an illicit relationship. But he rejects and he resented that and instead, rather I fear Allah may Allah Almighty make amongst the seven people or seven parts of people whom Allah Almighty will shelter them on the Day brothers and sisters. We'll take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah in a few minutes. Please stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. Allow me to remind you with our phone numbers Area code 002

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Who didn't 0238 treble 5132. And the other number is same code than 01 105 469323, the email addresses [email protected]. So spoke about five types of those whom Allah Almighty will filter them under his shade on the day of judgment on the day on which there will not be any other shade, but his shade. And the sixth category is

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what I do run into sadaqa disorder cuttin affair offer her hot towel and she man who met own fuchal CMU and a man who gave any charity in a very concealed fashion, to the extent that his left hand did not know how much his right hand has spent in a church. And there are many benefits in this segment. Number one, the virtues of concealing your sadaqa.

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To the point that Not even your wife would know about it. You children are the closest people

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in order to reach the maximum security and the maximum sincerity to secure the foreword of your church.

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But isn't there an ayah in the Quran which says in two bedrooms saw the cart if any, I mean, he

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went into for her to hell Fukuhara for who or how you will lakum where you can feel your ankle mins? Article Yes, indeed. The essays into the dose of the heart if you were to disclose your charity, this is excellent. Then a Mahi Wonderful.

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Well, in this case, there is no fear of showing off.

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There is another reason why do you show your sadaqa Why do you expose it? As a matter of fact, some people do that with the intention of encouraging others to follow them.

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When some people came to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and they were very poor, and the prophets Allah Allah, Allah Salam looked into their condition, so we started raising funds for them.

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The first person who gave a donation and broke the ice got his word and the word of everyone who donated after him as Serbia corner has said the code so if your intention of giving in a charity is to encourage others to donate, not only that you will be rewarded for your charity, but also you shall receive a word similar to the reward of everyone who have given any charity to A salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah.

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Sister Asya from the que se Salaam Alaikum Welcome to the program Rilakkuma Salam remedy library card

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she does Aguilar head for your short videos which you are sending in between Alhamdulillah we were waiting for one video which you have promised that inshallah will send you will send inshallah but I think so I don't know whether you send it or not alive which you do recording in this and on your page Official

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Opposition is that the law fair you choose a very nice topic Mashallah. Good Hadees and Quranic verses, and goodness

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come to Jagannatha if there's one thing I just wanted to add is that nowadays this problem is great. This problem is going on in previous previous years. At the time of our parents, we used to listen and we used to see and witness the mother in law's used to give trouble to the daughter in laws, and all those things were there in Asian society. I don't know about the other society, but I'm talking about the Asian Asian people. Now now is behind the law. This was this was turned upside down. It has become really upside down the daughter in laws giving big trouble to mother in laws. Basically, they don't accept them as a mother. The problem is that they is they ask they they say that we are

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not obliged to serve you. They're not obliged to take care of you. That is your son duty. And the problem is the son is not yours in the home. He isn't he's outside but the work to who will take care either to keep a servant this

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Seven doesn't take care properly what the what the blood relations can do the and their relatives can do the seven cannot do if you give how much money I just wanted you shake I mean I cannot contact all the shoot mashallah there are so many shoot but I have just contacted you because mashallah you give a lot of knowledge to the people. So can you just enlighten people is this night where those mothers and fathers will go when they have children they understand will not look when their wives will refuse to take care of them. I'm not talking about those who are very, I mean, they have to serve about look up the toilet needs and all just the basic needs cooking or being with them

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or staying with them, and with their children and all that also they are refusing Subhanallah okay,

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why does that I got your point. So I've got two things. First, with regards to the new program, that inshallah will be airing on my live broadcasts on my page.

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The idea popped up in my mind a night and a few days ago I said insha Allah will begin tomorrow Subhanallah a very dear friend of mine

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has been under surgery. And you know, I was accompanying him in the hospital during this time so I just come from the hospital to the to the program. And even in the in the hospital I tried to

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do the live broadcast but I didn't have a chance because of nurses coming in and out and all of that but you're so right so that even when the way we think and Subhanallah I promised to do it. It was supposed to be yesterday or day before yesterday, but something popped up May Allah give him Schieffer and I asked you please to make dua for him is Allah knows best but this what we think of him is a very righteous person, may Allah give him a quick recovery me. So in sha Allah, we will begin the series.

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Once I have a chance, if I get a chance, tomorrow, I will do tomorrow or maximum, day after Inshallah, as far as this ever lasting conflict, mother in law and daughter in law, every time, one sister in the halka whenever I was teaching in the United States, or whenever I teach anywhere in the world, and I'm asked about this, I say to the sister, I say do you have kids? If she says yes, I say okay, how old are they? Oh, the 12 1314 sysm. sha Allah in a matter of five years, maybe maximum seven 810 years, you will be a mother in law. So how would you like your daughter in law to treat you

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are not going to talk about halal and haram. I'm not gonna talk about you know what you have to do and what you don't have to do. I'm just gonna remind you of one thing that now you are adore, elope. And you're telling your mother in law, am I here to serve you, and you're treating her harshly. And you're not respecting her while she has put her son after 2025 years of upbringing him, educating him making him a successful doctor or engineer or businessman and she put him on a gold trend. She says he's all yours.

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So instead of saying thank you, Ma, and trying to treat her like your own mother,

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you do the opposite. You give her this attitude. I know that some mothers in law, they create problems and this is it's not a secret, okay? Maybe because of their habits because of their traditions of sleeping late getting up late as well. Or certain habits and eating and drinking, socializing with people trying to interfere in, in the cupboards business, or you're going to be cooking today. No, do it this way. And I do this way. When this this is normal. If you live in what your parents you will undergo the same every time. Every time you have a conflict with your mother in law. Think of it this way. In a few years Insha Allah, your son or daughter will get married. How

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would you like to be treated by your daughter in law, the way you like in the future your daughter in law to treat you. You have to treat your mother in law right now the same way. If you don't, you will be treated the same way the good for good and the bad for bed and there's something guaranteed

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so if you happen to be a super nice daughter in law, even if your mother in law is rough

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and intervene in your business and giving you her time in sha Allah when you grow old. And now you have to live with your son or your daughter and you have, maybe if they've been with your son and you have a daughter in law, you are a mother and you think he's my son, I owe him I made him. He belongs to me. She feels the same way that I have more rights with him than you. It shouldn't be competition, that it should be integration. Both of you should enjoy living with each other. Yes, Wallahi because she has an experience. You young, you have a lot of things to learn from her. And you have a magnificent work to earn from being patient in dealing with her. You never I mean,

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supposedly, you never treat your mother harshly because she was not as educated as you she's not as beautiful as you she's not as young as you. She's not up to date as you now you are Masha Allah, I take your mother doesn't know how to

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use a smartphone. So your mother in law is the same way. And also, in a few years, you will be mother in law. So in preparation for your future life, you have to serve your mother in law, the same way that you like to be served in sha Allah, when you become a mother in law, I hope the message is clear.

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We said about a sadaqa and the area in which Allah Almighty said

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in Tamil sadaqa, Tiffany and Mahi, but who can afford to purify his intention that he is writing a check here is 100 grands. And he shows everyone why because he wants to encourage people to give.

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And he is not intending anything other than that. He doesn't wait or anticipate any appreciation or acknowledgement, or any thanks or gratitude for no one, no prizes, because my reward is with Allah might. Many of the companions used to do that many of the Sahaba used to do that, because they control the intention. And they didn't have a problem with that. But hey, if you think that, that may ruin your intention, and you're not able to sincere your intent, then in this case, give it secretly.

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And by the way, as you know that for the charity to be accepted, there are two conditions to be fulfilled. Now, number one, the charity must be earned from lawful sources. Number two, it must be given with sincerity. Okay, if any of these two conditions were not fulfilled, it is not accepted. Because

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if the charity is given from money, which was earned unlawfully, no matter how sincere you are, you will not be accepted. And if it was 100% Pure Khaled, but you gave it in order to show off in order to be admired by people so that people would say this man is a very generous man. And this is what you anticipated. There is no there is zero reward. As a matter of fact, you're blameworthy. So this is a man who gives in a charity in a very consistent way to the point that his left hand doesn't know how much his right hand has given. How would that be achieved?

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It would be achieved in your stuff your hand in your pocket, and take whatever is in your pocket, or a part of it and give it away. Put it in the donation box. Give it to a beggar whom you assume that he really deserves the help. And this case, it happened you fulfilled it even once.

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Why don't you make it a habit and a tradition? Well known how much is in your pocket? It could be hundreds. That's okay. It's worth it. I'm buying a place in heaven. I'm buying salvation. It could be 1000s Who cares? As long as it is halal, and it's put in the right place. Last type and category of the seven types of those whom Allah Almighty will shelter under his shade on the Day of Judgment. What are the rules zakat Allah hurry and fulfill both Aina and a man who remembered Allah in solitude, he remembered a lie and he remembered his punishment. If you were to commit sins, he remembered his mercy. So you rush to seek forgiveness from him and begging for mercy. He remember he

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Jannah he kept asking Allah to word in paradise. He remembered hellfire. He kept begging Allah to protect him again is it still meant so

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As a result of remembering that his countless favors His Word is punishment, his vast mercy, His power. Then he started crying that are Allah Holly and in private in solid, you'd like somebody who's praying at night, or somebody behind closed doors. So he started crying for further pioneer the word for that Jonnie, overflew.

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So he started crying a lot out of the fear of Allah Almighty, out of the love and fear of Allah the Almighty. Sometimes when the Imam is reciting, and here's the citation sounds very melodious. And it touches our heart. The man may cry, and you find the fall was crying, they might mean crying. It happens a lot in the Haram in taraweeh. In seven massage, this is normal. And if somebody is standing and he's not reacting whatsoever, sometimes a heart is hard, needs to be softened. He didn't reach there yet. But crying in a congregation and a halka. In the depths in the prayer public is nothing to be compared to crying in private.

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That's why Abdullah Massoud may Allah be pleased with him said, you have to look for your heart, in the following places and positions. If you can find it, then ask Allah to give you a heart because You're heartless you don't have a heart, your heart is that at the time of the recitation of the Quran,

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is your heart their understanding, comprehending attentive, at the time of making sick and in private. So whenever your heart is attentive in these three positions, you are in good condition. Whenever you are not attentive in these conditions and your heart is absent, then ask Allah to give you another heart because you don't have a heart Your heart is that brothers and sisters, this hadith is a very valuable Hadith, And Alhamdulillah it is agreed upon its authenticity. I think, after studying those seven categories of those whom Allah will shelter under the shade on the Day of Judgment,

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it has become very clear to us that it is achievable. Each and every one of us as yourself right now, after we'll finish this episode, which category of these seven categories that you fit in, and if you don't fit in your form, try to fit in one of them. Like you know, given any charity,

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put your hand in your pocket and give any amount, then automatically will wander from without knowing how much give it in a secret fashion.

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Try to be consistent in going to the masjid back and forth. Try to find somebody who is a righteous person he or she love him or her for the sake of Allah Almighty. Share the advices for the sake of Allah Almighty visit each other for the sake of the Almighty Allah. In this case, you are wonderful. You don't have to wait to be the fifth category of a man whom a beautiful and authoritative woman tried to seduce and he refused. Rather, it's a very big test and you never know. Will you be able to stand the test or not. But the rest of the qualities many of them are achievable. May Allah subhanaw taala save us and give us some vision on the Day of Judgment. A whole call we had what Estelle for

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have a

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love of God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He bought me humans to be the best and gave his best religion to them. Allah God is the Greatest. The long, annoying Glory to him

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is to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving God about an empire that was shipping cartons, fire and stones, sending their best with the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how bad guys were shipping cars fire and stones selling their best work and cheapest