Gardens Of The Pious #140 Jun 8th 2015

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above our cone is the greatest. The moment only glory to Him. He bought me illness to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to a Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh My dear brothers and sisters, welcome to the gardens of the pious. I'm Jimmy Rashid. And this is a very special episode of gardens of the pious we're going to be looking at the forthcoming month of Ramadan, the sacred month of Ramadan, the month that we draw closer to Allah subhanho wa taala. I'm not joined rather, I joined our Sheikh Sheikh Mohammed Salah Samadhi Cotulla

Salam wa rahmatullah wa Ketu and thank you for joining us. Jimmy Thank you very much and thank you for accepting me to be with you today inshallah America Luffy Zak Allah, Malaysia indeed, jackal Hashem, you know these episodes and you've done I think over 160 of these 66 You don't this is a 1/67 episode of the Rio de Sala in going through this amazing book and the amazing Hadith and the the important lessons that we've learned from this hadith we know we're coming close to the month of Ramadan shift, and we know that in gaining this month of Ramadan there's some dua we can make some special dua we can make. Could you enlighten us towards this issue? Similar or salatu salam ala Nabi

he almost have acid on Muhammad in Voila, early he was so happy. I'm in Walla Walla. First of all, indeed, it's a pleasure to have you back. I know that it's only listened for 24 hours, we still can take advantage of your presence.

Secondly, the true Muslims do rejoice. When they approach the Blissett month of Ramadan, they celebrate that.

The fact that a lot of mighty give them another opportunity to witness the Blissett month of Ramadan. Upon seeing the Christian the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to recite the invocation.

Allahu hinda who Elena will M. Newell, amen, was calamity while Islam he would say or Allah being upon us with security and faith with safety and Islam. So it's a very comprehensive dua Hera hiring or human of Baraka, a Blissett. Crescent, a person that brings about blessings

and acceptance. May Allah Almighty enable all of us to witness the Blissett month of Ramadan. It is the dream of every true Muslim will learn that from the companions of the Prophet peace be upon him. And may Allah be pleased with all of the companions of Prophet Muhammad Salah Salado, through our studies, we learn that the companions are the Allahu Anhu. They will be anxiously waiting for the month of Ramadan, six months in advance, talking about like heavy contemplating the idea of witnessing the month of Ramadan imagine that somebody is anxiously waiting for a very honorable guest to come by, to stay in their place for some time to bring about endless benefits, countless

blessings. So they are very happy and delighted anxiously waiting for the guests to come. Then also we learned that their companions may Allah be pleased with them, that when Allah Almighty blesses in your form to witness the month of Ramadan, they would follow the month of Ramadan with another six months of making dua, asking Allah Almighty to accept their thorough their good deeds, their fasting, their acts of worship, whether the recitation of the Quran, the praying at night making dua, giving any charity, whatever they've done during the month of Ramadan, which makes them a key balance between hope and fear. So we're very optimistic, and anticipating the countless word as

Allah Almighty promised, especially for the first thing people and meanwhile, they're afraid that maybe their deeds will not good enough to be accepted. Maybe they've done something bad that could interrupt the acceptance of their good deeds. So the whole year was revolving around one month, thinking about one month either invoking Allah to enable them to witness the month of Ramadan six months in advance, or after witnessing the month of Ramadan asking Allah for another six months to accept from them that are during the visit month, that location so you know, this is an amazing example of how the righteous used to help say, hey should invoke Allah subhanaw taala for this man,

what about us in terms of preparing ourselves well,

We're approaching Ramadan, what would you advise us as general people? We have work, some of us studying, okay, that's our life. Yeah. How do we approach the truth, there is no conflict of interest because you know, how often that we read the idea of sort of the retina Halaqaat ology, now we'll insert elderly Abu, in any young child in our OMA would code the ayah and would repeat it which means I have not created the NS the jinn and human beings, but just to worship me. And this worship

is not limited to the rituals of fasting or praying or giving any charity. It is much broader than that, you know, learning, studying, working in order to earn your living, lawfully spending your earning in lawful means providing for your family, if you wish, you can convert all of these habits into acts of worship.

The similar activities which we do like everyone else, like non Muslims, but for Muslims, it's different.

They do it with an intention. They do it for a reason. They go to work early, they go to schools, they see acknowledged, they graduate, they apply for jobs, they work hard to support their families to support the needy ones. These are all indeed acts of worship is not just limited to praying and fasting and so on, in the month of Ramadan. It's a very distinct month. Why?

Because when Allah Almighty created the creation, he chose and singled out certain creations, whether concerning time or place where individuals will sit in creations and he made them superior. He gives them an extra honor. He says in the Quran, Allah He has documented mela Ekati also learn why meanness Allah Almighty chooses and he selects special people whether from the angels or from the prophets, the prophets will be formed the human beings will be the prophets and the messengers from the angels will know that Gibreel Ali Salaam is the best of all the angels. And there is Angel mica eel and he sort of feet you know, as far as the place a lot of mighty chose certain places and

he made them sacred. And those places are sacred only because a lot of mighty give them that century Mecca because Ibrahim Ali Salam invoked Allah the Almighty and say the Ramadan had a valid and eminent so Allah accepted this. Then the king Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and said, Oh Allah as you answer the dua of Ibrahim and you made Mecca sanctuary in a sacred place, make the city of mine and Medina as sacred place, as well. So Allah Almighty accepted the dua of the Prophet sallahu wa salam. So we have Mecca and Medina sacred holy places. And it is not up to any one to say this is like a sacred place because it's a university campus, or because it is an institute of

seeking knowledge. It's sacred whenever Allah makes it sacred as far as for time, Allah the Almighty, said in a data shahada and Allah his natural Sharon salata, when he said that the number of months when Allah created the heavens and earth are 12. Then he chose out of the 12 Four months he made it sacred.

Ramadan is not one of the four months which are second, but it is the greatest month of the entire year, greater than even the four sacred months. Why? Because of the countless versions that Allah Almighty instilled in this particular time, which he made it superior to the rest of the year. Number one he chose a month to begin the revelation of the Quran which is the greatest event ever happened in life, whether to human beings or to the jinn are all in other living creatures. A lot of mighty says and and number 185 of Surah Al Baqarah the second chapter of the Quran, shuffle Ramadan, a lady on Zelophehad Quran that's it.

That is more than enough to make the month of Ramadan superior to the rest of the month of the year. The best of the best as far as time

then out of the month of Ramadan Allah Almighty singled out

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which he made superior to any other night of the year. Why? Because it is during the night on the light. The revelation of the Quran started okay, if I can stop you there for a second check. We have our first caller. And it's just the Aisha from Nigeria Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Welcome to Hooda TV sister your question please.

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Okay, so we lost Aisha there, Jacqueline says Tasha, for kind words in a very good question. Sure. I'll let you carry on trick of course, you're speaking about the best of days. So the night itself, you talk about a little crowded, and the Quran coming down. Can you just carry on from there please. So Allah Almighty revealed a chapter of the Quran, which talks about the superiority of the Smite. What do you call it? Laylat

al Qadr is different than al Qaeda. And Al Qaeda means a great value. It is the greatest night of the year. On that night. Number one, the Quran the revelation is started number two on the night of every year, Allah Almighty reveals to the angels, the blueprint of what they need to execute over the upcoming year, naka de Valhalla,

including sending down the rain,

given life to new birth to fetus in the womb of their mothers. There are angels in charge of each of these activities. So each one will get the assignment for the whole year to come what they need to execute the death of certain living creatures.

Even natural disasters, happy events, bad events, the sun tries everything. That's the meaning of tennis, the lunar eco raffia is neurobion main cooling, of Devi affair, the angels and Jibreel SLM descend from Heaven, to the earth, and they filled the streets. So homiletical, who have who refers to Jibreel As salam o headquarters, the earth will be full of injures. That's why this night is very peaceful. It's very beautiful. And who enjoys that? The believers, they can sense that that's why the righteous believers, those who devote their lives to the worship of Allah and D, they pay close attention to the special time which Allah honored and I'd like that is not to be missed. So it's, we

have still have a long way to go. We're talking about you know, three, four weeks before we get to the last 1/3 of Ramadan, the less than nights of Ramadan. But this is attitude of the believers, they prepare for it in advance. They do not just keep busy with their daily activities, then they are surprised all of a sudden, surprise, surprise, Ramadan is over. As some people only go on a particular night to pray and celebrate and eat and have fun and think we've done good enough know, when you comprehend the idea of Wonder halacha to Jean novel INSA Ilaria. Boo, don't they know the reason behind? Why did Allah Almighty give this night? This great value? What kind of value is it?

Allah Almighty says les little Kadri how you mean and Fisher?

This night of the gate value is better than 1000 month simple calculation and you're a mathematician, I know that we're talking about over a three years. This is a lifespan of an average upon human being at three years. It means that only if you happen to worship Allah during this night, and it's Allah is every hour every time of this night in worship, alternate between your recitation of Quran making prayer of the 100. Then this worship which is offered during this night is better as far as reward than a constant worship offered over 83 years.

So every year you have an opportunity to get a new lifespan. Because our lifespans are short 6070 ad, how many people actually live to 90? That's why very few. So this is an opportunity to neglect this opportunity and say one day in sha Allah and I'm working hard and I have to do this. Hey, people plan for their vacations a year in advance, plan for the last 10 nights of Ramadan from now planned for the whole month of Ramadan begin if you did not plan for it now. I would say it's kind of too late. You know, so you have to prepare for it. The beautiful question that we received from Sister Aisha, may Allah bless her. I mean,

when she says what is the best dua to make in Ramadan? And she said I know that the best dua during the last night's Robinette Athena for dunya has, in fact, the DUA which are Aisha Radi Allahu anha, as the prophets Allah Allah says Allah so prophet of Allah if I sense that it is Laylat al, what should they say? They said why Isha invoke Allah as follows say, Allah who may Allah God

for one to hibel alpha for HANA we have to pause with this die what does it mean? First it means Oh ALLAH and Allahu Allahu is a higher degree than mere forgiving. You are the pardoning

to hebbal, if you power them because you love to pardon, five one, so pardon us. Why another four, because I'll have is a higher degree than Mark Farah. A laugh when the sun is raised with when the sun is completely deleted from the record, to the point that the angels who recorded the sin when you I did it would not find it in the record anymore. They will be made to forget it. It would be as if it did not even take place versus when I forgive you, but in the back of my memory. I still remember. I'm gonna get you one day. So remember what you did to me. So I forgive you. You said forgive yourself forgive you. But there was another incident and you hurt me again. So now it's to

remember to the new than the old and the old. pardoning for a laugh, I'll check, delete, reformat the whole system. It doesn't even show anymore. So this is the draft which is recommended. And the DUA what you said says Robin attina, for dunya, Hassan Orefield authority has written it is my favorite da why because this is what Allah suggested and prescribed in the Quran. And he said, This is what he loves to be involved with. Allah if Allah have mercy on me, Makka Walla who said he or herself for those who say this dua Allah who will give them for the as for the as for what a good little word in this life, and a good little word in the Hereafter. And prediction, again is the

farfel. When you examine this diet, Hey, Jimmy, this is all what we want. That's why we want success in this life. Success in the hereafter. Want to make sure that inshallah is if salvation, on the Day of Judgment. So this, along with the DUA, which are Isha was taught by the prophets, Allah Allah Salam takes us to another very important area, which is the month of Ramadan is about forgiveness

is about gaining forgiveness and pardoning for our sins. Imagine how much sins we commit every day, then for a whole year round, and there comes a month of Ramadan as a Prophet salallahu Salam

rejoiced, and he gives the glad tidings to his companions hit Avila CompTIA on how we has approached you angry month. Why is it good? He said we hit off the horrible Jana during this month from the first night and the night precedes the day.

From the first night, on the last day of the month of Shaban after sunset, that is the beginning of the month of Ramadan

to find out what will Jana all the gates of heaven and there are eight will be open. Why, what is the purpose of opening when you open like if you have in your house at all was to

was to gates, once you open all of them, you're expecting a lot of visitors, you're thrown a party. So Allah Almighty opens wide all the gates of heaven because he is inviting as many believers as possible to enter agenda be one of them do not be left behind. The second one we'll look at a webinar

Allah shuts down all the Gates of Fire and how many of the seven or so further to shale clean, the most terrible Satan's the very wicked ones will be chained down they will not be active, they will be reactivated during the month of Ramadan. It doesn't mean that all Satan's will be chained. Some Satan's will be on the loose, carry on the job, but they're not the worst. In addition to you have also your inner desire, and you have your one and he had the only temptations, so that you have to make a little effort in order to overcome these temptations the inner desire and the low whispers which means once the Madonna approaches you meet, Allah gives you and all the believers

multiple chances to repent, to draw closer to Allah subhanaw taala to rise to higher ranks, higher levels to get close to Allah Almighty as much as possible while offering various acts of worship whether the mandatory ones or the voluntary ones is softens your heart. That's why you see the message of the full from the first day of Ramadan. I would like to maintain this also after Ramadan, the exact location that I could say and listen to you all day mashallah because it's getting very close to the month of Ramadan. And like we said, there's many people even in our blessed channel of Canada, who are with us last year, I'm not here with us this year. And this is the reality of life

that people pass away. I

And it's true that our time will come. We're coming very close to it. We all know this. And especially in the fitness facade we see in front of us sometimes, sometimes we believe it's coming very quickly but the month of Ramadan, how can we really make the best out of it? Then you spoke about the deeds that we should do in the month of Ramadan, the types of deeds, but what are the specific things that we should really earn in terms of the day to day reading Quran is to read and often what are those teacher that we should really concentrate on? If I say, just focus on one thing, you will get bored if you sit for six hours to recite Quran, this is human nature you need to

alternate and that's why you alternate between offering our FL recital and making an effort going out to help people help needy people. In the Hadith the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said that he is of all mankind to Allah is the one who's more beneficial to people

have buenas Illallah and Pharaoh meanness in the same Hadith the Prophet sallallahu Sallam crowned this beautiful statement, which to some people seem like you know, would that person be better than a person who's fasting when every single day or praying the whole night on every single night? Yes, indeed.

The Prophet sallallahu sallam said,

well, and I'm sure if you had it if he had the uglier Hala, hoo ha You will live in an attic if a female God had a Shahara for

the masjid or the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is sacred similarly is the whole city of Medina.

Each prayer in the prophetic machine is better than 1000 prayer as far as word anywhere else, except in a nutshell haram. Gab, of course.

So the Prophet sallallahu and in cinema says is a package of for word, or performing attic F for a whole month, a whole month, attending the five daily prayers and own going away. First thing during the day, praying during the night, finishing the Quran so many times making dua we're talking about, hey, literally mountains of work and good deeds, right? All of that will be out way

by assistance, somebody who's in need until his need is fulfilled.

This is what the Prophet sallallahu sallam said to me, it is better to go out to help somebody who's in need one of my brothers until his need is fulfilled, that is better than performing at Caf in my machine for a whole month. So we have to alternate, you cannot just focus on benefiting yourself with these acts of worship in private, go out, teach people some goodness, teach some children how to recite the Quran. Some illiterate people teach them how to read and write if you are in the medical field open a free clinic once a month, once a week during the month of Ramadan. You know as physicians and staff in the medical field, we collect free samples, all the free samples should be

redistributed, redistributed upon the poor patients, you know, these are all good deeds that you think they're insignificant. They are much greater before a lot of mighty than offering voluntary prayers or voluntary fasting now I feel like me so alternate, but we have to be specific. We say if you fail to plan then you plan to fail to find if you have not planned as how should you receive the month of Ramadan from the first night.

If you have not planned how would you like to utilize your time during the month of Ramadan until the last night? Then you're planning to let this Ramadan pass by like mini Ramadan before like just any other time. Why? Because you cannot just plan right on the spot. Make plans have it written down. You know you see the house engineers housewives that write down what they need to do for the shopping and what they need to do for you know put this in the Ziploc and put it in this fridge in the freezer and they have a list to do things again is the fridge right? I'm sure you see that too. That's why

they like to run their organization, the little kingdom the kitchen.

The household is their responsibility. If they don't do that they miss

if you do not plan ahead of time, how would you like to benefit from the month of Ramadan? What would you like to do? Many people even when it comes to their care, they say I pay my zakat Ramadan when anytime Ramadan no there is nothing called anytime you know what does occur is due it is due

the due date is a day you're allowed a few days in order to distribute it. Or if somebody is out of town you wait for him to come or if you're out of town, but I give my second Ramadan when in Ramadan Ramadan

like when Ramadan

The 30 days, 29 days and as many of time so you have to plan you have to make your calculations right now, my Zika is 15 grants, okay, I need to distribute them or you don't know how to distribute them. There are many nonprofit organizations. You know, if you are in the UK there is an RDF, there is human appeal, there is Monterey, and these are all trustworthy organizations in the US there is Islamic Relief. In in, in our Muslim societies, there is literally countless for you in your neighborhood, orphans and widows. You know, if you can't see them, trust me, you're blind.

If you can see them, and if you don't know that in your neighborhood, there are people who are eligible for years of care because you say, you know, some people come to me Sasha mazurka 30 grands 30,000 US Dollars Subhanallah next year 35. It says, I didn't pay it yet. I say why not? I don't know what to do with it. I can't find find any poor, Allah Who blameworthy.

There are fault because I see the poor everyone around me. When you say I can see then then you're blind. You're turning a blind eye and a deaf ear. You don't want to see those people that are around us everywhere. So I mentioned a few organizations. And if you are in any of the Muslim countries, there's literally 1000s 10s of 1000s of families who are in need of this. discipleship. We've got a call waiting Brother Mohammed from Kuwait. Salaam Alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh brother Muhammad your life here mashallah with Sheikh Mohammed Salah myself and the goddess of the place your question please.

Mohammed, are you with us?

Yes, I'm here. Can you hear me? Yes, we can hear you loud and clear, just like Lucha

Libre. Well, it comes Salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh for the lucky

My question is

regarding the hellfire. We're supposed to ask for forgiveness and everything and one of the phrases one of one of the if and the Quran says that ALLAH does not forgive the ones who severs their ties with their kin, like brothers or sisters. My question is what is the brother is extremely extremely

not good person is always committing haram and always keeping the family in trouble. Even in that case, it's haram to sever ties with that such a such kind of person. Okay, okay, question understood exactly her brother, Mohamed Jacqueline's Brother Mohammed death from Kuwait I think check we're going to take a short break. Now inshallah. We'll be returning in a couple of minutes on this special program, special episode of God into the pious please stay with us. We'll see you back in a couple of minutes as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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Salam, Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Zakka. Hey, and welcome back. MashAllah to this special program the gardens of the pious with myself do murshid. I'm the guest here today. And with the resident Sheikh, Sheikh Mohammed Salah Salaam Alaikum. Salaam Mottola vaca. Sheikh just before the break, we got a question there from Brother Hamad because you're speaking about the act of forgiveness and the higher status of the person who asked for forgiveness and how Allah subhanaw taala forgives that person. And he was referring to something he's read about the person who's not forgiven by Allah subhanaw taala, the one that severed the ties of kinship should What about if I'm

not the one who severing them but I have a family member who was not a good person is an evil person. And they are severing these ties. By the way, it's not only the severing the ties of the kinship severing the ties of the Brotherhood as well. So Khaled Almighty says to the angels, are they in a hostile study have postponed the case of these two guys until the consign when they reconcile, they claim only benefits. The Prophet sallallahu nslm says about the couple, two brothers, two sisters,

blood related or brotherhood and sisterhood for the sake of Allah, when the civil relations the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam says, You are a little harder when you are able to have Ohio Home and many of that will be salah.

Each one of them will turn his back to the other like, I'm not interested in talking to you, and the other will do likewise, the Prophet salallahu Salam says the best of the two is the one who take the initiative stretches out his hand and says Salaam Alaikum Forgive me well, this is Ramadan and you know, happy Ramadan and all it's okay to congratulate each other. Happy Ramadan. They said Ramadan. This is a good opportunity. It is this is one of the means of preparing for the month of Ramadan. If you love Allah, you should love Allah more than yourself.

What happens is why a deferred was some body and I decided to work out him. It's personal ego. He's the one who should come and apologize. He doesn't know who am i He's the one who should apologize to me he's at fault she's at fault. Even though he's at fault, she's at fault. I decided to take off during this week to go and visit most of my family members in different cities traveling here and there. This is a good opportunity to reconcile and to upholding the ties of the kinship salatu Rahim in order to show that you see us about receive a Ramadan properly. You know, so this is a good opportunity. There are some cases where you're not at fault, really. And you're not severing the

ties rather you're visiting the person you're calling them and they insist on seven their ties with you. You're not at fault. As a Prophet sallallahu Sallam answered one of the companions he said I have some relatives, I visit them uphold my ties to them but they separate they do not treat me the same. I said if this is true, whatever you said is true. Then it will be similar to feed in them the hot the hot sand, get Anana to see form on well, and Allah will continue to support you again as them he didn't say you should quit that should not talk to them. Exactly. Okay, we've got a somebody waiting in line now think about that drove to the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia Salam aleikum wa

rahmatullah hippo to brother up the roof your life here and the goddess of the place your question please. Welcome along with me to better Jamil

it's really my pleasure to see you with shade

my observation is always whenever I see you with shade is always excited. So my suggestion would be to stay back in Egypt and do take a rest company in Java does the SEC mashallah if you think this is exciting, you have not seen him outside the studio.

My mother in law is hospitalized in the news and I want to make better go for her.

For me, I like her she may Allah give her she felt so la la, la la she loved him and yesterday as she

did that, I brought out the rough Mustafa kind words and may Allah subhanaw taala bring your medulla back to good health intelligence should just before the call that you touched upon something about these times of kinship and the brother Muhammad question is so pertinent when it comes to Ramadan because the community is the time where we all pray together, we break up fast together, we're always together. The issue of repentance you touched upon it, how important is it, especially in the month of Ramadan? Considering that like you said, we can actually have a clean slate for the coming year. Exactly. So how important is it if you just give us some value to Azure?

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I believe and number 31 Allah Almighty says where to go in Allah Hey, Jimmy and uh, you have me Nona land account of Johan. Allah is calling upon the entire OMA all the believers or you may know Jamia and you have all of you who believe turn onto Allah with repentance. In order to be successful. You're gonna witness and listen month of Ramadan. Number one, do not just see forgiveness, rather make our what is the difference between making power and seeking forgiveness. A tava is observed whenever you have a particular sin, that you observe it on a regular basis. Or you may be addicted to it. Something that you've done and you want to quit, this is the right time to quit. This is the

right time to quit, whether it's earning haram, drinking, smoking, have relationship outside marriage relationship, you name it, we have to face the reality. There are a lot of Muslims who are involved in the sense you know, so whether the sin are greater or lesser.

Let's make a new beginning. This is a month of Ramadan, the month of forgiveness. You want to be forgiven, make a sincere Toba and seek the help of Allah subhanaw taala through fasting so that you will overcome this bad habit well to boil Elijah Mian manana La La come to your home when Allah says that he opens all the gates of heaven and he closes down all the gates of hell. It is to assist us to resort to tell them

to repent, to seek forgiveness. And tawa is not a simple word, you know, help some people say tobacco ban and do things like that. This is

this is not the Taliban. This is Manitoba. The Toba

is to turn to allow sincere repentance and fulfill its conditions when those conditions are met. Then you are sincerely Geotab and Allah subhanaw taala promise to accept it once those conditions are met.

When the person quits committing the sin, I know that it's bad. Alice from today, I'm not gonna do it again. I'm not gonna smoke anymore. I will continue after this call like this. Yeah, because I was so intrigued by the answers. Most of the directors more astute than I am okay, we are brother Amon from the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia aim in your life here on the goddess of the pious we're not in the goddess of the pious but that's the topic

inshallah Armenia your life. Brother, your your question, please.

And Salam when it comes.

To have a question, I have recently experienced really bad

moments with my my brother in law, actually, it wasn't the first time. And finally, I it was my problem when I said sorry, it was something between me and my wife and I came onto sorry, we finally took advantage of the situation, and insulted me and my family, and my mother, and everything. And finally, I decided not to talk to them or let them be in my home, or go to their home forever. Because it wasn't the first time I really, really got in

there at all I couldn't because I was about to get divorced with my life because of that reason. Finally, someone sorted out, like not

avoid them properly. What do you think? Okay, well, I cannot, I can never never accept them again.

I thought actually the decision to get divorced because of their family of her family.

Advise me please.

Amon masala jacquela. Here for your question.

It's very difficult times. Yeah. I mean, you know, the brother amens question I think many people can touch upon this is when you try very hard, you may have made a mistake. You want the person to forgive you. But you're abused in that process, to the point where you think this abuse I can't take any longer. I mean, many of us go through this in our lives, are all human beings. And he says, now he's come to the situation where he's totally ostracized himself from that part of the family, to the point where there's a situation between him and his wife, a very bad situation. What's your advice to our brother Russia, many things are involved in this case, first of all, a lot of mighty

says and sorted Herat in them and what manana what on for us Laiho by now, how come the believers or our brothers, so reconciled between your brothers in case that there is a dispute, many disputes will not be sold by themselves, or between the disputants like, you know, they will take the initiative or I will take the initiative, it needs a hand it needs a third pie to invite all the opponents and reconcile and this is one of the greatest deeds, one of the deeds which Allah loves most

reconcile in between the opponents.

What if we have a case where the other party will not my relatives are causing a severe damage to my marriage life

having a very bad effect on my wife.

In this case, for the sake of securing your married life, we're better off

which means keep the minimum relationship do not sever it entirely, rather keep the minimum relationship. And also it would require reconciler, somebody to intervene in order to reconcile. Also still, this is the beginning of the month of Ramadan. When you say I can never imagine accepting them back in my life. That issue it happens with all of us. But that's why the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, I swear to Allah, he had to swear to say, three things to confirm their validity and their authenticity. One of them was mazzard Allah Who Ovid and behalf when it is

you think that you know if you hurt my feeling, and if you're insulted and abusive, and I still go to you, and I pardon you and I forgive you and I take the initiative that would lower Mac put me down make me inferior? No, it is entirely on the contrary, what matters is how are you being seen before Allah evaluated by Allah so the Prophet sallallahu ala send a message, whenever you pardon, whenever you forgive, it will never put you down rather, it will increase your rank.

It will put you into a higher rank before Allah subhanaw taala knows that Allahu Akbar then the orphan in is that if it is a regular dispute, but if I there are some families where the family is really really bad, yeah, they have bad traditions. I'm afraid that when my children goes to my in laws, they learn better

lot of bad things. They're not practicing, or they drink. They do a lot of bad things in this. In this case, you are being protective to your family from bacon, simply because of the bad influence of the other family.

Jackal herscherik I've got a brother Lamin on the telephone from Gambia brother lambing your life regardless of the pious your question please

yes

won the

long ago

now I want to put this as an opportunity to start building up

think we've got a close connection down the telephone there from Brother lemon who can ask him to call back we'll put you through straightaway. She does that to her brother lemon for trying but please do come back in any brothers sisters having problems with the connections please do try. And we're trying to get you straight back onto the telephones. Check the question that you're just asking. We finished it and you want to carry on with this. That's That's great. Okay, exactly when it comes down to one area though, because the brother is speaking about the problems he's having with his family. And it was very close to repentance, that Subhanallah we, as human beings

transgressed against Allah subhanaw taala every day, Allah nourishes us gives it a life because there's a family, every single thing. And Allah is always open for us whenever we turn back to him in this month of Ramadan. Some people say that this month is split up into different parts, doesn't pot for repentance, and as a part of this and this, is there any authenticity in the different parts of our month of Ramadan. On the contrary, the Hadith indicate that the whole month is a month of mercy. The whole month is a month of forgiveness. The whole month is a month of it permanently Iran in the sound Hadith which was quoted earlier, how the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam used to rejoice

and deliver the glad tidings to the Companions, it says of Allah come have approached you a month. And he says that, while in law he Otakar women are not aware that he can equally lay Latin men Subhanallah on every single night during the month of Ramadan, Allah releases some people from the hellfire, what is the meaning of releases them from the hellfire, a list of names will be produced the name of inshallah Jaime Rashid Mohamed Salah, the military, hopefully in sha Allah, this person that person is free from hellfire.

You will not be touched by Hellfire Subhanallah his flesh is forbidden for the fire to touch. When this name is listed in this list of Elata hot men and that's it.

It will not be revoked. You know sometimes when you travel to a European country or the states and you get your green card, residency, then you get to your passport. Nowadays a person on new laws where they can actually revoke your passport. They can make you stateless, they're stateless. Yes.

This is not the case with a lot of Mitel. Once your end that said, once your name is amongst other autocoat it will not be revoked. And you have this opportunity in 10 days from now insha Allah Allah internalize from now will begin 30 nights or 29 nights you never know. Ever every single night, every single night Allah will release a list of names. This person this person, those people are Robocop men and now we have to solve her to be among them. Well, Allah He doesn't matter. Any worldly success is nothing if the person does not gain salvation on the Day of Judgment. If the person makes all the materialistic success, and he achieves the highest status in the dunya like Who

who is the richest person in the world? You know better.

Some some big technology giant of some sort. Give me in a case Mr. Bill Gates, okay. How many billions versus multiple billions multiple say 85 something? Nothing compared to the words of Cairo.

Allah Almighty says that he gave him in our Guru Zima in nama Fatiha Aleta no overlords, but the old call where

no one was given worth as much as the worth of current Subhanallah and call me Musa in a wealth the keys to his treasures 10s of people will not be able to carry the boxes, the keys of deceives the treasures of Qarun overnight, it was all gone.

Overnight, it was all gone. It will either you will either lose it

or

If you will die any would leave it behind. So in your success in this world if it is not joined with success in the hereafter that's why we say that urbanna attina for dunya has another no official authority has an atom machina that does that logic Mohammed will come to the end of this program now but before I go because I'm your guest today on this on this episode, we've only got a minute or two left so I'm just going to ask you one piece of advice. The last piece of advice for our brothers and sisters and that's if you're going to give them one piece of advice on how to prepare we have what two weeks left maybe to Ramadan, Ramadan coming What would you ask what the program is? Hold a paper

in a pen your notepad, your tablet or whatever and start typing and writing down what would you like to achieve the Ramadan number one visit your family members reconcile if you can reach them with the phone cord and hold it as of your can share that reformado if you have any Zakah use calculated so that the beginning of Ramadan, you pay immediately or in the next few days. And number three Ramadan is the month of the Quran. What you need to do is plan how many times would you like to finish the citation of the whole Quran three times five times plan for it which will require you to cite how many pages after every prayer or early morning or afternoon when you come back for more. And in case

that you fall back on one day, you need to make it up the following day immediately. So you want to finish the Quran three times you still can do it. I'm not gonna tell you how many times the normal chef I used to do it because you gotta be you know, scared, you're gonna think no, I can't do that. You say you want to finish it three five times. Yes, you can do it. What are you going to pray that are we generosity, Ramadan, I always say you can double the word of your fasting you can fast Ramadan 60 days, not just the feed on every day of Ramadan, a fasting person get a similar thought it can make them too. So that's money days. You can make them as many times as you want by feeding

poor people, not just poor people only invite people to bake your fat, their first Ramadan in the machine, you get a similar word of their fasting without affecting the reward of either one. Mashallah, Montez I'm going to try to remember those in those orders just ACULA Sheikh Mohammed, thank you for letting me be with you today. On this amazing episode of guidance of the pipe don't forget who the TV is your TV station, we need your support. We need you to come and make dua for the brothers sisters, who will come this marvelous channel and the work they do you know how to support us the information is there. And you also know that throughout the month of Ramadan, the brothers

here and the sisters mashallah will be working hard to give you the essence and love of Ramadan until the next time I leave you the salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

God is the greatest

glory to him

you must to be the best and give his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest

glory to Him.

You has to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise? We're shipping comes fire and stones sending their best to the cheapest

day known that forgetting about bad guys. We're shipping cars fire and stores selling their best were the cheapest