Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #131 Apr 20th 2015

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of guardianship and the need for leaders to care for their herd and avoid embarrassment. They also touch on privacy and the importance of not wasting time in a situation where someone is in need. The speakers emphasize the need for men to consider their desire and consider their obligations, while also reminding them to be mindful of the Prophet sallua and not to forget about them. They also mention a man who is wasting time and effort while working and advises against giving gifts to his wife.
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Allah God is the Greatest. The moment only glory to Him.

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You must to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah God is the greatest, the long, annoying Glory to him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to

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salam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ALA and Avi Mustafa Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Manu Allah Who about the views a viewer I would like to welcome you to another live edition of your program. Guardians of the pious by the Grace of Allah. Today's episode is number 201 154

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and episode number 154. And we'll continue in explaining chapter number 35. And that is the second episode in explaining the 35th chapter which is known as the husbands wives concerning his wife. What happens Zoji Alan Mara, as far as the Hadith it is Hadith number 200. ADC in the series of Guardians of the pious.

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The hadith is narrated by the gate companion Abdullah Abdullah Omar in a hot tub may Allah be pleased with him and his father and Abdullah Hypno Marathi Allahu Anhu Ummah and in Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam icon Kulu, Qumran for Caloocan mas o on our Yeti, while Amuro and we're Raju, Laura and an early Beatty one more Torah here tune Allah Beatty's algea we're well ready

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for Kulu Qumran worku LUCAM is all on our Arwa Yeti, Matata Hakuna Ali

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Abdullah Ignacio meridional hardtop may Allah be pleased with him and his father, narrated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said,

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All of you are guardians and are responsible for you subjects. The ruler is a guardian of his subjects. The man is a guardian of his family. And the woman is a guardian and is responsible for her husband's house and his offspring. And so all of you are guardians and are responsible for your subjects.

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This is a narration which is agreed upon its authenticity. There is also another sound narration in which the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

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mentioned even the servant while Holodomor are on Oahu, Ms. olan Araya T,

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which means a servant is also a guardian and he will be asked and he is responsible for his subjects, whatever he is responsible for, to take care of to look after, to maintain, he will be questioned by Allah subhanaw taala and he is entirely responsible for his subjects. This is a very important Hadith brothers and sisters, which shows us the importance of looking after those whom Allah subhanaw taala made us in charge for

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and when you study the Hadith from the obvious texts, you realize that no one is exempt. Every one of us somehow is a guardian. Every one of us somehow is responsible for some subjects, and he has to take care of his subjects, and he has to prepare an answer for the questions which will be presented by Allah subhanaw taala to him concerning his subjects, initially the word

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from RIA in surah, in number 54, a lot of mighty says Kulu Warlock and imacon

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eat from the fruits and vegetations which Allah produced for you. You eat Warao and I'ma come and take your cattle to graze and to eat, they are off as well. So Araya

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initially is to take your cattle to take your herd to take your sheep to graze to feed them. They are your responsibility. And since it is your wealth, it is your investment. Every person every shepherd, every god

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Yun is very careful, is very keen to look after his herd after his cattle and sheep take them where they can graze properly can eat properly, take them to the water tanks so that they can drink and they go home that they put lot of meat and so on.

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Allah ng arising is a name of a shepherd, a person who looks after the sheep, a herd of sheep. And in the Hadith the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Ma'am intervene in La Habra al Hunnam was not a single prophet whom Allah appointed with the prophethood. But he was a shepherd at one point, because being a shepherd trains you to be a guardian. Yes, you looking after the sheep, you're guarding them, feeding them, giving them the water, protecting them against the attacks of the wolves. And this is a preparation to look after a bigger responsibility and a bigger subject or owner, who nation

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so every one of us happens to be a guardian over some subjects, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam began with LME, he said LM Juran the Imam, the leader, the governor, the Sultan, the king is entirely responsible. And the leaders may be righteous and maybe you work it but they are leaders by the end of the day. That's why in Surah Al cosas, Allah Almighty said about the hill and his elite, the leaders who lead in Benny is so ill and the cops Meanwhile, in Egypt at the time of masala salami said, well, they are now in Netanya de Runa in and now we made them in the plural of Imam leaders, but they will not those righteous leaders. Rather, they will call in people on to fire

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Allah to build.

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So leaders are leaders regardless whether they are righteous or not. They happen to be in charge. On the other hand, Allah subhanaw taala admired in the Quran, those in rural have Imam, a leader. So he admired the leaders who look after their subjects take care of their responsibilities and fear Allah concerning them. So he says in Surah Al MBI concerning the offspring of Ibrahim Ali salaam, WA unknown in Natalia Duna be a marina well hyena Elohim fear Allah hayati, or your karma Salah to eater as aka Surah Al MBI, a number 73. And we made them ima, plural of Imam leaders

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by giving them the prophethood and some of his offspring were given the prophethood and the kingship like King David, King Solomon, they were both prophets and kings.

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So they will guiding people by the lives of Allah by the command of Allah and Allah in inspire them and reveal onto them to do what is good to establish the prayer and to give this occur. And also he said concerning the children of Israel in Southeast Asia what Jan mean whom a matter Yeah, do not be me Rena, llama sobre la cara, Tina, you can own and we made some of them. Not all of them. Jana minhang a matter Yeah, Dune, Abby and Marina. They will guide in people by Our command by our leave, guiding them according to the original text of the Torah, the revelation of Allah subhanho wa taala. In Surah Furqan the beautiful God, which we share with you many times

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the DUA that the believers regularly invoke Allah subhanho wa Taala with or bene have learned I mean, as well as you know, the G Tina Kurata union, what you're handling mustafina ima ima i will Lord

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grant us from our spouses and our offspring come for for our eyes and make us leaders. Right Yes, leader leaders for Al mata ki for the righteous ones.

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So brothers and sisters, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam began with LMU, Orion and Imamura and because that is the greatest responsibility. We remember when we read the biography of Rama, Rama hotrod may Allah be pleased with him. One sort of man if not fancy, there was a sandstone midsummer midday extremely hot and the sandstorm was blinding people. There is so from my house somebody who's chasing a cabin

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in the middle of this scent store.

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Who's this debt is Ahmad Malhotra the Allahu Anh.

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why? He said, It is one of the cameras of the church it is not it ran off. So it is my responsibility to bring it back. So he was chasing the cannon in the sandstorm. That's why a lot of men if not offend, may Allah be pleased with him said, lucky to have him and bad. Okay. Yeah, I mean I mean, indeed you've made it very hard on those who succeed you, whoever will come after you has at least to be close to you

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in the way that you look after your guardianship, you take care of your subjects Subhanallah and he used to accuse himself that if anything happens in Iraq, if a camel if a donkey that is toppled in Iraq, Allah will ask me while I'm sitting here in Medina, why didn't you pave the road for it? Or Omar, you are responsible. So he began with the responsibility of Amir Al Imam, the guardian of being the Khalifa or the King, the ruler, the president, whether he has been appointed whether he's been elected by any mean, he is responsible before Allah subhanaw taala. So it is not a matter of honor. As an REO Salalah Alia selama say,

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well, Inna and Allah he'll Malkia Mati his you know, Anna dama, the leadership will be a cause of regret, be a cause of sorrow, and humiliation, if the person does not take care of his subjects, does not fulfill his duties. If the person sleeps while fall, while some of his members in the community or in the country, or in the nation is starving, or people are dying, out of hunger, lack of security, and he's enjoying the treasures of the Muslim society. So we couldn't look a mess on our way yet. And each and every one of you will be asked about those who are His subjects who happen to be under his guardianship, whether it's a big responsibility, like a country, a state, or a

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government, a government. And obviously, each employee or a person is responsible in the business that he's been appointed to look after. Who's going to ask him, besides his employer, besides his governor, besides his senior officer, the one who's going to ask him, and the one whom he would fail to lie before is Allah subhanaw taala.

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Allah de la TopHat, a Coffea, nothing is hidden before him, which means Be very careful. You have to take care of those who are under your guardianship. I don't want to speak a lot about the first segment because it is not meant to be addressed in this chapter, rather, the next segment, when the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, what to do Laura in Allah live at he

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and the man to is a guardian, over his family members, everyone who's living under your roof.

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So if you have siblings, younger ones living under your roof, and you are the Guardian, they become your subjects, not just your children, you made your driver, your servant, those who are working under your roof, and you are supporting them and you're looking after them, they are your responsibility. You cannot say because

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you have somebody under your roof who does not pray. You say, Well, I taught my children

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to be independent, to make the decisions based on the logic and reasoning are taught them to be free in their choices. And accordingly, I have met some students at the University in the States. One girl who told me that, yes, her father is a Muslim, but she's not her father, give her the choice. Choose whatever you like. Do you think by that you're doing your son or your daughter or your wife a favor? No, you're misleading them. And you're actually betraying the Amana the trust which Allah subhanaw taala entrusted you with because

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the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said

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I limo hola como Sala tele saba. Although the boom Allah holy ash are very cool by now. FINMA Bhaja

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you're required to teach our children how to pray properly beginning at the age of seven even though it is not mandatory upon them to pray at this age, because the prayer is only required and it is hard whenever the person reaches the age of puberty but do not wait

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Do not delay until the child whether he or she, or is really at the age of puberty,

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which may be reached the age of nine, at the age of 10, or at the age of 15.

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It depends on the climate, on the gender, the society, there are many factors that determine reaching the age of puberty, then they don't know how to pray. And the have never fasted before. And all of a sudden, he asked the girl because she shares with her mother that she started her period. Now, honey, you got to start wearing hijab, because it is not lawful for you to wear those short sleeves anymore. And those tight jeans. I'm not used to that. I think this is hot, it is hot. And you're not used to that. And it is your parents fault. And many of us share that with me that it was their parents fault, because they ignored educating them, or bringing them properly. The priority

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was for the piano class was for the swimming class. For the many sports which are perfectly fine. If it is Halon. No problem. We take our children to swimming classes and karate or martial arts, to soccer to basketball, whatever they desire, no problem. But we also teach them whenever it is a prayer time. You gotta interrupt everything to offer the prayer.

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We teach them and we take them to the masjid so they learn how to pray properly. And at home we instruct them what to recite, and how to recite and what is the meaning of kashua? Yes, they can perceive this as a very at a very early age. And they will not perceive nor understand this on their own. When a person is grown up and achieves the highest level of education in the secular education. He is a professor of pharmacology and he doesn't know how to read in the house half. He doesn't know how to read in the Quran. And I met people are embarrassed to sit in the healthcare. They would love to sit in the masjid. They would love to sit in the gathering. So long as we're chatting, having

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potluck or having a class we're on delivering a lecture. They enjoy sitting. Whenever it comes to healthcare where we recite Quran and every person comes to read. They're embarrassed to sit with us. Why because they are Arab, born and raised in Arab and Muslim countries, to Muslim parents, but they do not have to read a few words in the Quran. I'm not talking about this widow I'm talking about mere reading in the Quran. Why? Because somebody is summarizing some Guardian did not take care of his subjects. The responsibility isn't about only feeding and clothing and sending to international schools and acquiring higher degrees in the dunya. All of that is perfectly fine. But all of that is

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not sufficient if the person was not taught us how to save himself or herself. If the child is not taught, what does Please Allah, what do I need to do to abstain from Allah is anger to protect myself again is a farfel because the means of success

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is what takes you to heaven and or distance you from the fire of *. And the ultimate success is in surah Al Imran 185 Feminists Z Han denari or theologian, Netta photographers, this is a success, to be saved from a knot. And to make it to agenda that is called the ultimate success. If a person is

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a dean of a law school, very prestigious school

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and he doesn't pray, he doesn't know how to wash. He doesn't know how to clean up after answering the call of nature. He doesn't know what the Hara is, doesn't know what is the importance of Salah to Joomla

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all of that would not give him a certificate to enter paradise. All of that would not save him from the fire of *. But these are all cofactors which of course will benefit him and will help him or her being successful in your worldly life been teaching people, even secular sciences,

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you know, that will benefit humanity besides fulfilling your duty to Allah subhanaw taala being able to pray too fast, to carry on your duties and a badass which Allah subhanaw taala instructed you to do.

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So how would a person wants those who are under his guardianship besides that, besides not really inspiring and then not teaching them to be devout servants to Allah subhanaw taala not inspiring them to understand the purpose of life so that the person will not lie. Now simply because lie takes you to *. You don't know Allah because Allah sees you and Allah He is you and Allah knows what you say you don't upset Allah. You love Allah and you wanna make Allah happy with you and me

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Nicola love you. And lying is one of the worst sins. This is the right approach. Okay? So that the person, the child, and I'm putting a lot of emphasis on the child will get up that own his or her own. Make will do and pray by themselves. Not because somebody is holding a stick is going to beat them up if they don't pray, but because they love to the field that the prayer made my day when I prayed fetch by when the father is a devout servant, and he goes every day to prefetcher and he comes home and his children mashallah grown up 1718 20 And he does not bother to wake any form for federal prayer. He prays fudge, he says in the halka in the masjid, and until the HA so that he will

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earn the reward of performing ombre after praying the Torah because of Dada. Then he goes home he brings breakfast, and he serves breakfast and the kids will get up and say Thank you daddy and Give him kisses right and left. Is this a good parent? Is he a good daddy? before Allah? No, he did not fulfill what Allah subhanaw taala ordered him to do as ally. As a guardian. You're going to prefetch take them with you.

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You're going to pressure take them with you. There is given preference over studying over chatting over watching TV or doing anything.

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In the salata cannot Alan Medina kita Mahkota. His daughter asked him that I would like to buy this this, I'd like to buy this set of the set of makeup, I'd like to buy those jeans. And he knows that his daughter is wearing those revealing clothes.

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And she is adorning herself so that the youth would admire her at college and pick on her and people will say you have a beautiful daughter, he failed

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to take care of his guardianship to take care of those who are under his guardianship. And eventually you will be responsible for that. As far as one more thorough yet when Allah Veritas will discuss this inshallah soon after we returned from the short break, please stay tuned

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. As usual, I'd like to remind you that our phone numbers beginning with the area code 00201 double 024645 A three alternatively I equals 0020 Double 125 Double 08679 In the email addresses [email protected].

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Inshallah, beginning from the next episode, I have a bunch of pending questions that I received on the email address of gardens at Hodor. TV insha Allah and make sure to answer them. Beginning from the next episode in sha Allah azza wa jal.

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We said also the Prophet sallallahu Sallam specified and Mara the woman, particularly the wife here when he said, When Mara Torah tone fee rate is algea

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we're here masala Tamara yet yeah. And the wife is responsible for her husband's house and his offspring. And so all of you are guardians and are responsible for your subjects.

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So what is the responsibility of the wife in this regard?

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We said before the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam

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said if a woman obeys her husband, if a woman offers her five daily prayers and prayers during the month of Ramadan, if she goes her chastity and protects her husband's privacy, and guards herself whenever he's absent, it will be saved to her into Paradise from whichever gate you desire. So these are some advices how to look after you guardianship Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah vaca

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Sariah. From the case a Santa Monica sister Erica.

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I received a message on the WhatsApp about a hadith regarding the month of Ramadan, Raja Shaban, those are duar from rahmatullah wa salam. Allahumma barik ala, the Roger de la Shaban was the last man Ramadan. Somebody said this is not authentic. Can you please verify this? Yes.

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I did actually answer this question last year and that is true.

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But Rajab is a blizzard month.

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And it is a blizzard month because it is one of the four sacred months. As you know that the four sacred months three consecutive, the Okada, Dhul, Hijjah and muharram the first month of the Islamic lunar calendar. And Elijah will model by itself. So any preference to the month of Rajab is because of its sacredness that you should abstain from committing sins, more specifically, during the times which Allah subhanaw taala made sacred, such as the four sacred months or the month of Ramadan, and also during certain places whenever you are in certain places. So the monks of Raja Shahara hijab is a blizzard month because it is one of the four sacred months. But there are many a hadith which are

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not sound with regards to the preference of the month of Rajab, or the supplications concerning the month of Ramadan, Barak Allah if you can Sr. I refer. And thank you for sharing this with us.

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Okay, back to what are the duties of the wife, as Allah as a guardian, and she will be asked about her subjects, and who are the subjects of the wife, the husband, especially whenever he's absent, his house and his household, the children, the wealth of the husband, as you know, that whenever the person leaves to earn his living, and to provide for the family, the woman is fully in charge. It's hard for the person to be working and earning the living to support the family and meanwhile,

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take care of his offspring during this time. It's not it's not possible magia are Allahu La La Jolla min Cal benefi JioFi. That's why we spoke about that many times before.

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An ideal family is a family where a partner is working to provide for the family and a partner is building the interior designer, the house engineering, if you like to call it this way. And the best person to offer the job and to function properly in you know, achieving this task is the wife there is in the children, educating them looking after their homework. The homework is not only the school homework, the classes homework, and the educational process, but it's also their homework with regards to offering the prayer how to deal with each other observing the clock and reporting that to the Father on regular basis, because one hand does not clap. So when one person is working in on

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field, like earning the provision, to provide for the family to suffice for their needs, and the other person is working on the interior part, looking after the children after the house, the maintaining the the peace and the peaceful environment at home, making sure that the kids do not pronounce other vain words or accused of words or curses. Because there is a supervisor at home this is how the wife or the woman becomes a guardian. And this is how she fulfills her guardianship As Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah

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sister Asya from the KSA Salam aleikum.

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xakanaxa enough a

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very long description regarding the rights of the woman and the rights of the rights and the responsibilities the way you have described and whatever authenticity has given to them. And once again,

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the clarification God according to the matters regarding KYC has a nice program in for those who may

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not be affecting everything from

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the news and everything the hobbies and the day to day everything is up and up to you is often referred to thank you. Thank you, Sister ser Baraka Luffy I appreciate your support your constant support. May Allah bless you and your family Baraka love you.

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And as we mentioned before, in 228, two Surah Al Baqarah that Allah Almighty says Hola Hola, Mr. Liddy Allah Hannibal maruf I think every one every viewer now is fully aware of this idea that there are no rights without duties for the wives that are duty similar to those who child you upon them towards their husbands. So there are rights and you know, duties, mutual obligations and rights.

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The Hadith also is aligned with the idea confirm this meaning, which is a Raju Orion wahama Zulu Nara, Yeti.

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One more Torah here to hear masala tonnara. Yet Yeah.

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Both the husband and the wife are guardians, and both will be questioned about the subject before Allah subhanaw taala. It is very interesting that the woman would assist the man in his task.

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What do you mean? She would go to work with him

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leave home in order to assist them a work much bigger and better than that. We will taught that our predecessors may Allah be pleased with them, the blizzard wives of the righteous predecessors, the wife would ask her husband whenever he's leaving early morning to earn his living there living, he prayed veg, and he's going early morning, as this is the best time to work and earn the provision as a Prophet sallallahu sallam said Al baraka to fill buku all the blessings is in the early part of the day. So she would ask him, oh seven of Allah or so and so please, I beg you, make sure that you do not earn anything that is haram. Because yes, we can take hunger and thirst, we can take poverty,

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we can be patient for that. But there is no way that we can take the far * there is no way that we can take the punishment of hellfire

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we cannot be patient for something like that. So that would give the person a boost and encouragement, hey, no temptation whatsoever, could persuade me and make me earn a lover. But if the wife is constantly demanding, even if she got everything, but she wants more, we need to move to a better neighborhood or my friend's husband bought her this new car and had to change mine to the model N and she puts that tremendous pressure on the man which may make him actually compromise and earn a lawfully by the means of freshwater river or whatever, Solomonic

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system start Isha from Kenya Salam Alikum society share

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this question there is this issue of

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insurance funds

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you pay money to the company every month, then if you can

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use their site

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is this remember?

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Because it was a bit from but thank you. So

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if I want to use our business funds this insurance fund, so that attendees with me they are still making, maybe I'm pregnant and they said delivery and I used to deliver through Sicilian and it is very expensive in cash. So, what if I used to pay this money every month in the company then I will be in effect delivery

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Baraka Luffy

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every form of commercial insurance in Islam is not permissible unless if it is an insurance provided by your employer or provided by the country as health insurance provided for the citizens where they pay

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you know subsidized amount or minimum payment every month. So, this is provided by the country or by a syndicate by a company that you work for and they together

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charge every employee a certain amount every month. So that whenever any of the employees or their wives or their children is a need for music, medical assistance, the cover that from the insurance such as cold social insurance, whether on a larger scale like provided by the state by the country by the government or on a smaller level provided by syndicates or companies or by the employer, but the commercial insurance as you just suggested, yes entails two violations. The first is definitely Riba and the second is gambling.

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For the sake of time, quickly, I will tell you about the gambling issue because when people keep paying insurance payments every month on a regular basis then for any reason that they fail to make the payment or they decide to seize the insurance policy and the contract. They lose everything. And if somebody made one payment, and then he was in need for,

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you know, an emergency for an operation, whatever we

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she encountered a cost of 200,000 300,000. So he gets this amount covered and he did not actually pay anything towards it. very insignificant amount. Well lo to Allah Allah Allah. So we said also, that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam kept balance when he said a Rajpura in will not arrive at or I

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will call Laura and miss all on a variety and every Guardian will be asked about his subjects. Did you fulfill your duties towards them for innocence and Nabi SallAllahu. Ala selama says about a man who is negligent of his duties towards his family. He doesn't mind to dine outside, he stays up all night playing and gambling or even not gambling, not doing a haram thing but wasting the time in vain with his friends, and a coffee shop and a cafe. And then eventually he does not get up early morning to work. He does not look after the needs of his family. He says Salah Salem Cafe Bill Maher, Eastman and Noda yeah man year old Kevin Eastman, and you'll hear him on your own. This is

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like it's such a great sin for a person to waste those who are under his guardianship, whether on a smaller scale, like a family garden, a family father, or a governor or a president or again, wasting those who are your under your guardianship your subjects is such a huge sin that the Prophet sallallahu sallam said Indeed it is an enough sin to meet Allah subhanaw taala with so that will person will be ruined Allah, Allah may Allah protect us all against that.

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Also the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam ordered both parents to understand whenever you have a guardianship, it is not up to you to dispense your wealth. selectively choose when to give extra and when to deprive based on your desire because you like this person, and you don't like this person or because you like boys more than the girls. This is how you waste your garden ship and your subjects and Nabi sallallahu alayhi salam say to somebody who unknowingly decided to give a gift to one to single out one of his sons with a property said in neelesh Hello Ana Zoo so he called it falsehood.

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He said find somebody else because I myself do not bear witness or testify to falsehood. singling out one of the children with a gift more than others. Without any valid reason without any justification is an act of falsehood. And also not fulfilling your duty towards your eye. The second Hadith that will go on to study today's Hadith number 284.

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In this hadith

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Abu Ali collective narrowly about the Allahu Anhu power and Rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam called either Dr. Raju Roselle Jetta who really had that he felt that he were in cannot Allah to know.

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Well watermedia You unnecessary abou told him Nalli may Allah be pleased with him narrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him say, when a man calls his wife to fulfill his desire, he must, she must go to him even if she's occupied with the oven the hadith is collected by an enamel Tirmidhi what necessity

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we notice here in this hadith

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that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, If a man is in urgent need to satisfy his sexual desire, because a man goes out, because he works, because he mingles with people, and in the previous episode, we quoted the Hadith which is narrated by jab rib Abdullah Radi Allahu Anhu Ummah, in which the Prophet sallallahu ala Salah mercy, if a man found anything that is pleasing, and a woman who was not his wife, let him go home, embrace his wife enjoy the intimate relationship with his wife, because she's got the scene, and that would satisfy His desire. So if a person was in a situation like that, some people tend to fulfill this desire. If they think in a lesser Hara, I'm

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not gonna commit adultery, but I'm gonna stimulate myself until I have sexual discharge, but you're already married. And the purpose of marriage was to lower your gaze and to guard your chastity. So pursue your wife and ask her to join you to share bed with you. The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam says A wife should be smart enough that if she feels

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The husband in this in a situation like that, and there is an urge. And it says that there is no other business that is more important, even if she's cooking. Keep in mind that if she's in the oven and if she's baking the bread or she's cooking, this is also her husband's worth. So he is willing to join his worth, because he thinks that there is or he believes that there is an urgent need. There is a priority.

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Brothers and sisters, why do you think the Prophet sallallahu Sallam would discuss this very, very private and confidential matters, and discuss them in a hadith to be shared with the entire OMA to the point that one day 1400 years later, I'm saying this hadith, and maybe 10s of millions of people are watching it. And only Allah knows how many people will get to watch it afterward. On the media means, why? Because Allah subhanho wa Taala give us guidance. And Allah Almighty, our Creator knows what we need, as creatures, and he knows what suits us most. And he revealed to His Prophet sallallahu sallam, what will fix the errors, the false and the drawbacks of the community and of the

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individuals. If the person wants to satisfy his desire in a lawful fashion.

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Even if he sees a beauty queen in front of him in the *, he will not be tempted. Why? Because he's really satisfied. Imagine somebody who ate to his firm, eight ordinary

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food happened to eat, you know, just bed, bed and dates. Then Subhanallah after he ate and ate until he was full, he was offered some delicious food, T bone steaks, I can't take it a hamdulillah unfold. Because there is no room for it. Right? There is no room for when the person says fires his desire in 100 fashion that will suppress any temptation and will repel and ward off any temptation that may persuade the person or take him away from his deed, or make him commit a sin. And as you know that the greatest sin, the greatest of the sins with regards to the desire is adultery.

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And then we saw Allah Allah selama, said, Elena, and it is the end was in a human novel.

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The eyes commit Zina, by me looking similar in the hand by touching the legs by walking towards that event. Well, first you saw the Delica Kulu. You can table basically, these are all introductions to the act of adultery. But if the person wants to hold himself of a wall these temptations of by satisfying his desire in a lawful fashion. That's it, he will not be tempted. He will not be under this pressure. Keep in mind the man has to think the same of his wife, and doesn't have to wait until his wife is asking for a satisfaction for the desire. Because of what we see in the street what we mingle with in our daily lives. It has to understand that it's also his duty and that was

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discussed in the previous episode with regards to the hadith of Amara hottub with his daughter Hafsa when you heard the woman who's complaining that how much he was missing, her husband who was deployed in the army

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there is another Hadith and we have a couple of minutes that I would like to finish before Hadith number 285. And have you heard all the Allahu Anhu and an interview sallallahu alayhi wa sallam makan Laocoon to neuron and Aeneas Lee that he had hadn't. More to an Murata and test do the dissolve G here are our hotel MIDI

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we were or the Allahu underrated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi Solana said

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if I were to order anyone to prostrate himself before another, I would have ordered a woman to proceed herself before her husband.

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This is a sound Hadith brothers and sisters is collected by evening manager in his sunnah and by Tirmidhi and classified as sound Hadith by Chef Alberni. May Allah have mercy on him you know there is a background behind this hadith is very important from send it on my I didn't Isabelle may Allah be pleased with him return from his journey to Hashem and he saw how people praise the leaders admire them in greeting, they would bow down before the message of Allah he Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam is more worthy to be treated this way. So when he came, he wanted to bow down he wanted to prostrate himself before the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and say there are so

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Allah I have seen people greeting the leaders this way the Prophet sallallahu sallam said no get up.

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And this incident happened with more than one companion because they traveled abroad and they come back and they wanted to read the Prophet sallallahu sallam was bound down before him. He said, No, it is not permissible for any human being to bow down before any other human being, a creature is not allowed to bow down, but to Allah Almighty. Then he said, hypothetically, if I'm going to ask if I was going to ask anyone to bow down to anyone, then I would have asked the wife to bow down to her husband, as a means of appreciating her his rights upon her and fulfill some of her duties towards her husband. But I don't want to misunderstand this hadith because in some cultures, the husband

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says, Nico, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, I want you every time I come home that you should bow down before me, you should lower your head. We don't even do that in the beginning of karate or martial arts because it's not permissible to bow down before anyone, but to Allah subhanho wa taala. But the Hadith signifies the importance of taking care of the husbands right is addressing the wife to take care of her husbands, right. As we mentioned before, repeatedly how many times the Prophet sallallahu Sallam ordered the husbands to look after their wives and to take care of the rights and he said hello compiler company and he will no hydrocone le the best of all of you are those who are

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best to the wives. And I'm the best of all of you to my wife's a whole curly hair that was tough for Allah Allah welcome, wa salam ala Sayidina Muhammad Anwar Ernie or CIBJO Salam and until next time, I said I'm wanting

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to God is the greatest

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glory to Him. People want me to be the best and give his best religion to allah God has the greatest alone. Glory to him

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is to be the best and gave his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about an empire that was shipping cows fire and stones, sending the rescue the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting about how bad guys we're shipping cars fire and stones selling their best and cheapest

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