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glory to Him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to you. Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi wa Kapha wa salam ala Abadi, Hill Athena Stouffer. Let's see Mr. Mustafa sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa seldom at the Sleeman Kathira Do you viewers everywhere Welcome to a new edition of your program Guardians of the pious there is by the grace of Allah the 21st episode in the series of explaining the great book of Riyadh or Saleh. Meanwhile, in Malmo, Norway, may Allah have mercy on him. And we're still in the chapter of patience. That's actually the fifth episode on patients by the use of Allah. Today's

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very touchy Hadith describing the death of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and the last few moments in his life. When his most beloved daughter Fatima, Herati, Allahu anha, was standing next to him as he was suffering, the fever, which was double the fever of any of us. And psychological melt, the death rattle right before death, as he was asked, he said so that Allah subhanaw taala would raise me into higher ranks as he promised. Enter Sydney Malik probably Allah who can read this hadith and he said, lemma SOQL interviews Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam on the last instance of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam made him unconscious. Fatima Robbie, Allah who are on her, said, Ah, the decision

of my dear father. This is some sort of

condoning the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, and she was sharing with him the pain or the distress of my father of my dear father, worker, better, better luck. She was feeling the same pain, the same fever of the prophets, Allah Allah Allah says, but the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam has said, there will be no distress for your father after today.

Then when he died Salallahu Alaihe Salam she said, My Father, wherever

Allah has called you back, and you have responded to his call.

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Or father, God in off Alpha dose. Janet Will Ferrell dose is your aboard. Oh, Father, we announced you to Gibreel as dead we announced your death to Gibreel Allah His Salam electric real and an eye. Then when their companions buried the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, she said, Are you satisfied now that you put the earth over the grave of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam

it describes this very painful moment, not only the death rattle or Socratic method which the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam experienced in his death but also

The suffering of his family members of his companions and particularly his family members, Fatima, Radi Allahu Ana. Fatima was crying and she kept saying what about her work better?

Then the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam soars, she was so distressed as well.

So he called her near to his head. Then he whisper something in his in her ears.

So,

Fatima, probably, Allahu anha started crying. Then he called her again and he was for something else.

So she smiled, and he made her happy. Nobody figured out why she cried in the beginning, and why she smiled, or laughed, or she was delighted afterward. But later on, when I issued all the Allahu anha 's her, she revealed after the death of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam that it was because the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam shared with her the news that he's gonna die in this sickness

that Allah subhanaw taala have called him unto him, and he chose a rafiqul Allah, because they have observed the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam as saying while he was lying down on his deathbed, saying Bella rafiqul, Allah Bella rafiqul Allah his last few words, he was looking his sight was looking towards heaven. And he said, rather I will choose a rafiqul Allah, the company of the best companion, the Most High. Basically, Allah subhanaw taala gave him the choice. She likes to last longer in this life. He said no rather better. rafiqul Allah Bella rafiqul Allah, then he died Salah Allahu Allah, your Salah, so she was crying, of course because she knew that the prophets Allah

Allah, Allah salah, soon will be dead, and she will miss him so much. Then when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam called her again, and he whispers something that no one heard but her and she smiled. It was because he said, You will be the very first of my family members to join me six months later, Fatima Radi Allahu anha join the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and she died. May Allah be pleased with her. So she was crying. She was suffering for the suffering of the Prophet salallahu Salam and she was saying work better the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said no no. No Karbala. Viki bad Alia it's over. Your father will not experience any distress or hardship after today.

When the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam shared with us before this moment, that Allah will continue to test and try his righteous servants until at the time of death, the tests will increase in the form of fever in the form of very severe pain. Why had yellow color how Elisa Lee he then, so that destroyed your servant due to endure impatiently? The test of security note he will meet Allah subhanaw taala with no sense whatsoever.

As far as the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, he had no sense LOFAR Allahu Allahu Mata cut dynamism behemoth Aha. So why was he tested in order to be raised to the highest rank which is Alfred Housel Allah and that's what's mentioned in the Hadith. The hadith says

the 40 Marathi Allah Han has stayed in mourning her father. Yeah, but Jen Atul Ferdowsi met where

the garden of alpha delves what is the garden of alpha dose? In the Hadith the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam assayed when you hear them or as then repeat after him as he says, then so masala Halle Al was Isla invoke Allah subhanaw taala. To grant me l was sila the means of approach, which is in the form of saying Allahu Mata behead the Dawa term was solid we'll call it Mohamed El wasI Lata will follow Isla VAs whom are calm and Mahmoud any lady will

grant him and will sila and unfollow Lila, and in the US who there is a Rockton in Grantham, el Mercado milma muda lady with

the novel position or situation which you praise them, because whoever says so.

Oh will intercede for him. And McCombe the position which is prepared for the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is the highest of paradise, the highest of heaven.

which is known as alpha del Sol Allah. That's why Fatima Radi Allahu anha she was condoling herself by saying wherever Jana fulfill dosing where I know that you're going to the goddess of paradise genital for dose. In the Hadith the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said genital for those is the highest or paradise. Right on top of it is also ramen so it is the highest at all. And it is the core of heaven. And in the Hadith, he said SallAllahu Sallam whenever you ask Allah for heaven, you should ask him for alpha delzell Allah aim high

Allahumma in Nana's a local fair, docile URL, Amina Jana, Oh Allah, grant us Alpha Delta, the highest place in paradise, Aloha Miami. Then eventually the Prophet sallallahu Sallam died because Allah subhanaw taala said in the Quran in a coma you tune in now who may tune certainly you will die and even and also your opponents will certainly die. And he said in another al Muhammad Allah Allah Rasool noncardiac Holloman Cavalier, also in Mata Alko Tila and Kalevi Tamala acaba become 1 million Kalevala Activa you fell in love Allah che was ages 11 Sheikh Mohammed is just a Messenger whom many messengers before him have come to their people, whether he's dead, or even got killed. Would you

turn back on your heels? Would you convert and abandon your faithful religion? No, of course not.

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far to model the Allahu Ana, seeing the companions of the Prophet sallallahu sallam.

They could not believe the fact that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is dead as well. But they dealt with the situation with maturity. I will work on so the cane and he uncovered the face of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he closed in between the eyes and he recognized that he is dead. So he informed everybody that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is dead. And he tried to calm down Amata and he quoted LJ mentioned earlier. Now let's move on. We have to think about what is the next move. The hadith says that that the prophets should be buried in the same place where they died. He died in the room without a shadow of the Allahu Okay, so they decided to dig his grave in the same room and

this is where they buried him.

Salah salah, buried him under the ground. Yes. And after the burial. They put the earth the dust on top of his blessed buddy SallAllahu sallam. Yes they did. Why? Because he's a human being. He is not a divine being. Never he claims so he's a human being like everybody else. Yet his body in the grave is still intact.

And in the same condition as the same day he died so Allah Allahu Allah Salam with the same beautiful fragrance and everything.

When the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, A nama Taku fossa, Lu la for insalata composizione whatsoever you are, sin, your peace and blessings unto me because it shall reach me and they are upon Allah will render back the soul to my body so that I will reply to each and every one of you who send the peace and the blessings upon me. Allahu Akbar.

The s asked him yeah rasool Allah

and how would you do so? Well had em belly it

while your body would be decayed.

The thought is like every human being they said no.

In Aloha Rama Anil out of the N cooler he said an MBA. Allah forbidden the Earth from devouring, decaying and decomposing the bodies of the prophets from Adam Allah Cilenti Mohamed Salah salah. If this honor is granted to assure that the martyrs

whenever they dig a grave of the shahada, they find their bodies still like the old buried a few hours ago, even though they died years back at the time of armor and Hatami in Iraq, they dug the grave of one of the prophets by mistake.

So

they found his body was still the same like he's just buried right now, even though it was 1000s of years since he was buried me Allah's peace and blessings be upon him

so in hola hola Mahalo. Are we enter cooler edges saddle MBA? Fine. She said to them, your anus Allah but I'm full so come and tassel Taraba Allah just as a Rasulullah sallallahu Allah

Selim, how could you do it? Are you satisfied to throw the dust, the dirt over the body of the Prophet sallallahu sallam? And the answer was eventually Yes, of course, we would like to do that would love to see the Prophet sallallahu Sallam always above our heads. We love him so much as a hadith explain, but he taught us to do so is buried like every body else.

And that teach us a very important lesson. And of your Salah Salem brothers and sisters is a human being no one should ask from him. No one should seek His help since he's already dead, because Allah said in nakoma YUTAN we're in our home may you told his that Salah and Salem he's in his grave.

So why do people go and ask from him or begging for help? Or see the means of approach through him? Salalah on insulin. Look what he said salatu salam in the area. He said in Surah Al Anon, hula hula hula command the Hausa Enlai, well i la mala Mala Kulu lecom in the mela.

He never said SallAllahu Sallam that he knows unseen

or he can benefit or her or he has any dominion is a human being when somebody saw him and he was frightened, and abuse Allah Allah Allah selamat say, a baboon and he doesn't know and abuse Allah Allah selama said, He will not enough sick take it easy man. And not man of no more Earth incarnate Kunal Calida be Maccha

I'm a human being my mother who was a woman like everybody else who used to chew on the dried meat in Makkah. So take it easy, calm down, feel comfortable. By the end Allah subhanaw taala says in a TV lemma you will highlight. So I'm a human being. I do not know the unseen and I do not have the treasures of Allah. And I do not claim to be king. I only follow what has been revealed to me. This is an abuse Allah, Allah Azza wa has revealed to him what has been revealed to him? Yeah, hola. I'm gonna teach you a few words. If he ever asks you should only ask from Allah. If you ever seek help, you should only seek the help of Allah subhanaw taala.

You should understand that whatever Allah has decreed for you will never change and no one can do any harm to you unless if there's something that Allah has ordained for you. No one can benefit you with anything unless ALLAH has destined for you Subhan Allah, this is the way which the Prophet sallallahu sallam was following and which he taught us. So you have to be very careful and have your Salah ceremonies buried for tomorrow the Alana was mourning the death of her father lightly and that is permissible crying, saying a few words is okay. But showing objection and cursing would ruin the person's word and would make him ruin himself. Enamel Sabra and dust solid metal Hola. Now.

The scholar said

that the greatest the woman or the person who's the greatest reward as far as sub

for his or her calamity is far trimmer Radi Allahu Anhu.

Why?

Because she have seen and experienced the death of her father, the prophets daughters broker, or mukil tomb was entered they died within the life of the prophet Sallallahu Salah So the Prophet salallahu Salam Guevara would have been patient for the death.

Hamad Allah was stopped I said Al Hamdulillah in ilaha illa hirato he got the word of experiencing their death and being patient. But for the model the Allahu aarnet is the only daughter who left that she bought this calamity patiently. And she did not object she merely cried and she said a few words, which we just shared with you. Then soon she joined the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and an abuse Allah Allah Allah sallam said in one Hadith if anyone is grieved with a calamity, like the loss of a beloved one, in order to make it easy for him to absorb the shock, remember my death?

Watch death is greater watch calamity is greater a calamity if losing my father, my son, my wife, and everything I have, or losing the Prophet sallallahu Sallam no comparison, of course, the calamity the OMA has been afflicted with for the loss of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is definitely the greatest, no doubt. So interview Salalah Salah is trying to

teach

Have a few facts Fact number one is a human being, and he soon will die in which it happened. And he does not possess any benefit or harm except by the love of Allah subhanho wa taala. And he taught us how to send a peace and the blessings to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, politely and he would reply to us and He forbade his companions men and women of saying or objecting saying anything or objecting by saying what action to Allah's decrease, rather to be patient and to expect the word from Allah subhanho wa taala.

The following hadith

is narrated by Osama Ibni as aid inheritor. May Allah be pleased with him also Sam Agnes aid, will Sam is hibore Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, we have no Hebda rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi salam,

as you know that they did not have ether was given to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam as a gift, he was a slave by his wife Hadiya. Then he freed him, and he gave him even the honor of being ascribed to him. So it's called Zaid, Mohamed Salah Salem until Allah subhanaw taala. abrogated this, then he is named as become again Zaid ibn Hadith a very interesting story. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam loved him so much and he loved his son so much assemblies he didn't Haritha is the one who narrated this hadith he says

oh, Sal has been to Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in 70. According to total fish had dinner for our Salah yo creo salaam our call in early Lahemaa has one of whom ALPA will Kulu che inanda Who will be agilely masama helped us build while dataset for select la he took similar Allah Helia Tiana for Carmel now who said with no better or more as of now Jabel will obey you have no cap was a dog no Surbiton worry John. In US hobbyists Allah Allah Allah Salam,

for raffia Illa Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

fell cada houfy Hijiri he well enough so hooter car car, fall What are you gonna Hoover color start? Your rasool Allah ma Harada to call ahead he met on Jarrah la Jota Isla feel colluvial a birdie off he rewire your Kulu women share I mean a bed we're in Mar harmala home in a bed here whoo ha man, that hadith What does upon Allah?

What does it mean? To say I'm even as a didn't Haritha may Allah be pleased with him and his father narrated that one of the daughters of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sin for him, as her child was dying.

The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam returned the messenger and sinter good wishing, saying whatever Allah takes away, or gives belongs to him, and everything with him has a limited term, what a fixed term.

And so she should be patient and anticipate the reward of Allah subhanaw taala she again sin for him, at jeweling him for the sake of Allah to come, her son was dying. So the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi salam, a companion with Sadiq no more as more or dibny Devil will obey your niqab was a hypnotherapist and other companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, they join him and the wind.

So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

was given the child and the child's birth, who was disturbed in his chest. He was actually dying. On seeing that the eyes of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam screamed with tears. So sad the lovely Allahu Anhu said, that sad No, but of course he said, Your rasool Allah, what is this? So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, it is compassion, which Allah subhanaw taala has placed in the house of his servants. Allah is compassionate only to those among his servants who are compassionate to others. In another narration, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, Allah shows mercy or compassion only to those among the servants who show compassion or mercy. The hadith describes a very tough

situation again, because

It's easier said than done. It's always like that it's easy to teach people to be patient and to endure calamities patiently but whenever the person himself is tested, now he's tested. Let's see what's going to do. His own daughter is calling him to come to be next to her because of son was dying. So interview Salah Salem was extremely busy. So he said to her saying in the leela, Hema while Illa Hema ARPA beaucoup Lucia in Handa, Javi agilely masa, this is a statement that we need to say right at the time of death of any person. Beloved Friends, oh, in the condolences remind the people who lost their beloved ones, in early Lahemaa. To Allah we don't you talk it says only

Lahemaa Otto.

And whatever he gives his his or Kulu che inanda Who Be a Jedi Musa man, everything with him in this life has a fixed term has a lifespan. So you have to understand this. So she Adroid by Allah for the sake of Allah you have to come. So interview salatu salam went in the company of some of his companions, when they handed over the child, his grandson, my parents always say and even my grandparents there is an Arabic statement or phrase that says that, that no one loves anything, anybody more than his son more than or other than his grandson. Which means that the person normally he likes his grandchildren, even greater than his love to his children. This is his bench.

So the Prophet salaallah Selim, so the kids breath was disturbed, like he was losing his life.

And indeed he was. So his eyes over fluid thieves. Sadiq no rabada

as the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam about this behavior, the Arab were very strong and powerful, by the way. So when he saw him crying, he said, What is this? Are you being impatient? He said, No, this is mere mercy Allah, which Allah subhanaw taala Places in the Heart of whoever he was. So he's never he's never one of the two extremes. Neither so negligent or harsh hearted. No overdoing it and overreacting. He's merciful, so mere crying is accepted. And he cried upon the loss or the death of his son Ibrahim. And he said in the line allotted now in our call Bella has said we're in early Philosophia Ibrahim Allah Mazoon. Yeah, we only cry Mahatma saddened I feel sorry for you loss, but

I do not say but what pleases Allah subhanho wa Taala will continue with this hadith Inshallah, after the short break, please stay tuned.

Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. In the previous Hadith, which we discussed Hadith which is narrated by Osama if desired in the Hadith, Hebrew Rasulullah he webinar Hebda Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam about when one of the prophets daughters had her son was dying, and she said in Ebony Acharya total in the passive which means the death has approached him. Fish had come and attend with us and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam sent her a message. The message was in St. Louis, Missouri, alpha Walla, Houma alpha or Coolessay, in Idaho be agilely mucem fell toss bear, while dataset, here is the catch fell prosper. While dataset the word fell toss will

later be patient.

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a litre expect the word will anticipate the word of Allah subhanaw taala for her patients and that is the catch in the Hadith actually brothers and sisters because Imam nawawi May Allah Agnes and him listed this hadith in the chapter of Sabra and we're still talking about patience.

When the person recognizes that everything he was given, is an A man from Allah subhanaw taala like when almost sewline did with Ebola.

She She told him, he did not recognize that his son had died. He knew that he was sick. When he returned, he asked her about the sun she said he is much better.

He is so quiet

And she did not lie, because he was quieter than before he died.

And she fixed his mean and she adorn herself and they slept together as they spend the night and he had an intimate relationship with her. And

quietly a nicely she approached them she said, Yeah, but tell her

what do you think of some neighbors give us an Amana something they trusted us with to keep.

Then they ask us for it back. She will give it back to them. He said of course it's theirs. She said factors of if not, then anticipate that word from Allah subhanaw taala. For the loss of your son, your son has died. Look at the introduction. Look at how they perceive these calamities. You know, one of the greatest calamities of course is to lose a son. What a grandson, a beloved one. So he says she's she she said to him that look at it this way. It's an Amana. Somebody gave us something. And he wants to take us back. He wants to take it back from us. We should give it to him or not. He said, Of course we should give it back to him. Well, if you invite somebody to your house for

dinner, they like the dinner and they hang around and now own rabbit I want to go home. When asleep. While these guys are hanging around. I like to stay here. Of course you're not gonna stay here.

And this is all about life. It's like that. You come and go. You visit and you live, you may still live longer than others, but by the end you live similarly everything that you already possess. So in a view Salalah selama began by saying to Allah belongs what he has taken, it has

no objection. And To Him belongs what He has given the Lahemaa wala imata I want you brothers and sisters to memorize this. Then you say wilcon Rochet inanda Who be agilely Musa, everything in this life? Allah subhanaw taala has set for a fixed term or lifespan. That's why when OMO Habiba probably Allahu anha made a DUA and she said, Oh Allah Madani be zodia Rasulillah maternity, ob OB Sophia and maternity okay Mariah, which means Oh Allah make me always angel, the company of my husband, your messenger Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, and my father and my brother and of your soul, Allah Allah cinema said, Naka Doughty law has the Algerian nabooda

You have invoked Allah subhanaw taala for something that would not be changed simply because of your diet. Everyone has a fixed term or lifespan, once they reach it, that set for either loom ly aesthetic funer satin while you're stuck or the moon that has been mentioned twice in the Quran, whenever the term comes, that's it. The neither are delayed for a little bit. No even they will be taken out or they will die a few minutes before the fixed term, right on their fixed term. So there's something that we have to comprehend and understand. Look at the whole Tila jelly Malouda interview SallAllahu sallam said to his wife Omaha Viva that when you keep saying oh Allah make me

always enjoy the company of my husband and my father and my brother she means by that do not make me grieve for the loss or with the with the loss or the death of any of them. Make me die before them. So come down. That's not gonna happen. What will happen is what Allah has pre ordained and decreed pertaining lifespan and provision. That's why interviews Allah Allah Allah selama said in the Hadith in our health policy, Nafisa, Fiore, and now we learn them with NFC on hot data Sophia is to have an agenda. As you may know for Tala, he said in this hadith salatu salam, the Gibreel Ali Salam

has revealed to me that no soul will die before receiving on fall.

That is kaha what agenda it's full provision and its full lifespan. That's it for as beautiful polyp so calm down pertaining these two matters. No one is going to buy missing a meal. No one is going to eat your food. Your food is yours. Your drink is used no one is gonna drink. Your wife is yours because she was destined for you and you were destined for her to marry that set. So come down, and your lifespan is already predetermined, so pertaining

In these two matters, you should be certain and you should feel none but Allah subhanaw taala so never use Allah Allah Allah selama said to Allah belongs with your stick to Allah belongs what He has given. And everything has a fixed term with Allah subhanaw taala for videotel CV, so be patient. I know it's painful, it's hard, but be patient. Why? In order to get the word, which you should anticipate.

The word we're testing he has mentioned has been mentioned repeatedly in the future. We'll also study another Hadith and disregard it as eBay. Because if you're patient, and you say, I'm not interested or word like some ignorant people say, I do not worship Allah because I want to enter His heaven, or because I'm afraid of his hell. I simply worship Allah because I love him.

Maybe you're claiming that you're better than the Prophet sallallahu Sallam or you know better than ALLAH because ALLAH stated in the Quran that we should invoke Him and worship out of hope and fear, love and fear,

love and hope to enter his paradise and fear out of the fire of hell which he has prepared for the sinners and the wicked ones. An interview SallAllahu sallam was like that. So when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam says to his daughter, SCB Atassi will anticipate their word, he said, Mansa, Mara Madonna Iman and what the seven who fear Allah Mata cardamom in Zambia, if you first during Ramadan out of faith, and actually said anticipating the word like this app is very important. You be patient and data civil, you anticipate their word, you will get what you anticipated. When you fulfill your part of the equation, you will get what you anticipated you anticipated to be forgiven,

you will be forgiven. You anticipated a huge reward as Allah subhanaw taala said in a manual for soberano Jongerius app, you will get what you anticipated. Okay. So you say

Fosbury, what does it when they companion So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam crying? Sad ignore what I said was this. He wanted an explanation and abuse Allah Allah said and I said this is a mercy that Allah puts in the heart of whoever he was. It reminds you that cried and harvest one of the redwoods. He is one of the companions. He entered upon the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he was playing with Al Hassan Al Hussein, his grandsons. And some somebody might think, because he read the Hadith, literally the previous Hadith of the death of his grandson, and how patient he was. He might think that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did not really care about his grandsons or grandchildren because

he was too busy. Look at this.

He is sitting, surrounded by his companions. Delegations come in and delegations leaving, and he's busy playing with his grandsons and kissing his grandson and has an old Jose. So Lachlan Harris said, What is this? Do you guys kiss your kids? Because you're not used to that? It's a very tough life in the bedroom. They said, Yeah, he said, Allah, I have 10 children 10 sons. I've never kissed enough of them. They said well, and you collected another Allahu Ramadan? And what can I do for you of Allah? How was their own mercy out of your heart, kissing your children, loving them, playing with them, teaching them play, these are own means of mercy, which Allah subhanaw taala puts in your

heart. So if you're doing so, it's not only being a good father or a good parent, also, that's a sign that you are a mess from person. So when the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam,

I want you to imagine was given the hotbar and he saw his his granddaughter.

She was wearing a long dress and she was being toppled. So he interrupted the hotbar. He came down and he picked her up, and he went back to the member and he resumed his hope by this how much he loved and cared for his grandchildren. He was one sprain and his AlHassan client his back and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam prolong his schedule, to the point that the Companions thought the Prophet was dead. It took him so long. So after the prayer, they say the Rasul Allah does sudo so Moon goo sutra expired. What happened? He said, In heavenly hair that my son refers to his grandson was riding on my backs, who I hated to interrupt him. Allahu Akbar.

So when he was crying when he saw his grandson being expiring, and lying, he cried. He said, This is mercy that Allah puts in the heart of who he was. And he also said that

Allah will be compassionate to those who will be compassionate to others. Allah will be merciful with those who will be merciful with others. Look at the

action of the Prophet his companions and his daughters at the moment of grief, the loss of the most beloved the child, their reaction did not exceed that. The beautiful being patient, shedding tears is perfectly fine. You may cry no problem. You may feel sad. But Omar

in the Hadith of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, it is not permissible for any person to mourn the death of any person beyond three days. Except for the wife, she should mourn the death of her husband. For four months and 10 days Allah subhanaw taala said that those who die amongst you leave behind wives yet or above snobby, unforeseen or batter assuring washroom they should wait the mourning period for months and 10 days. After three days after losing a son move on. A wife or child father, Move on, move on does not mean do not feel sad.

Do not feel sorry for the death or the loss. But move on to your regular life because this is life and hope that Allah subhanaw taala will gather you with your beloved ones in paradise.

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by a woman who was crying over a grave and said in another narration, aggressive for son, so the person who she lost was her son.

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The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said, patience is becoming only at the first stock of grief. It's like Never mind. He diverted the attention from what she was talking about. She was talking about I'm sorry, I didn't recognize you. She came to apologize and abuse Allah Allah sallam said, Forget about this. Forget about the way you talk to me. Focus on one thing, how you talk to Allah how we reacted with Allah's decision. This is what matters. If you're so concerned about your statement, you think it's too harsh to say to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam away from me. You have not been afflicted on my calamity, you're not aware of what I have. Right? And this is bad, of course. So

what you've done, of mourning the death of your son or Beloved One improperly or exceeded the limit and transgressed This is a transgression against one of Allah's rights, it will hurt you on the Day of Judgment. So in the view of Salalah selama said like never mind about me, rather enamel Savile Row, and of sod metal ruler, and this is a catch in the Hadith.

The true patience is observed right at the first stroke of grief. Not a few days later, because normally the pain and the sorrow will keep decreasing and declining.

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time is a great factor as far as forgetfulness, and calming down. So if somebody have done whatever he or she has done an objection of cursing of condemning, at the time of calamity they layer on is Al Hamdulillah. May Allah reward me for my calamity? No, sorry it's too late. Because the Prophet sallallahu SlMs aid in nama Sadhguru and Assad metal ruler, right at the shock. The first talk of the shock, you should say in Realejo in La Habra, Jerome we all belong to Allah and unto Him we shall return. Leela him. Billy Lahemaa out Bakula che in ENDA, who will be agilely more sunnah and hope for the word anticipate the SAP and say Allah hum, Joanie famously Betty will actually flee

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