Best Of The Best Episode 2

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The speakers discuss the importance of manners in Islam, including being well mannered in public and in relationships with people. They stress the need for individuals to be mindful of their actions and avoid false accusations. The use of goddamn things, such as being a woman and a woman who gave him a ring, is emphasized, as it is crucial for everyone to have good manners. The importance of fasting and being well mannered in public is also emphasized, as it can lead to people being in trouble and losing their jobs and reputation. The speakers emphasize the need for individuals to be mindful of their actions and avoid rushing to do something.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi wa Kapha wa salam ala Eva Hilah. Dino Stouffer, let's see Mr. Mustafa sallallahu alayhi wa early he was happy he was seldom at the Sleeman kathira. My dear viewers, welcome to another episode in the series of best of the best, the best of people the best of x the best of manners. In many a hadith in which Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam refer to the best among you or the best of deeds or the best of x. In today's episode, Inshallah, we're going to study a very interesting Hadith in which in the sound collection of Imam Buhari may Allah have mercy on him. Abdullah innominate the last or the Allahu

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Anhu man aerated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said, in Morocco has, you know, come a halacha

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which means, indeed, the best of all of you are those who are the best in character, those who have the best of manners. And the Hadith begins as follows Abdullah ethnomedicinal us, Radi Allahu Anhu Maya narrated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam law lamea confession while I'm out of a Haitian we're in our canal hole in fer Rocco, a ha Sunoco a halacha. The word for hush means obscenity. And fair hisher refers to shameful act and shameful sang. And if you remember

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that when the Jews used to enter upon the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and used to greet him with a slicker greeting and used to say, a Sermo alayka Yeah, Mohammed and Assam even though it sounds close to our greeting, which is SLM, but it means totally the opposite. While a Sarah and while Aiko means peace be with you, as Sam literally means death. So they actually meant my death be upon you. And the prophets Allah Allah, Allah Salam was fully aware of that, but he never acted in an obscene way or reacted to them by saying, My death be upon you or any of that. Rather, he used to say what I like, and he will be quiet. One day

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Aisha Radi Allahu anha was sitting and she heard some of them greeting the Prophet sallallahu Sallam by this evil wish by saying as moi like, which means may death be upon you. So she replied to them may death be upon us such and such the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam stopped her and said yeah Isha. A believer is not fair. He shouldn't, whatever the and Allah does not like alpha Hush, anybody. Allah does not like obscenity. Allah does not like shameful things. You should not say a word like that. She said, Oh, Prophet of Allah. Didn't you hear what they said? They said, Yes, I heard and Didn't you hear what I said? How I replied to them, I always say, and upon YouTube when I

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cook, Allah will not answer that invocation, but he will answer mine.

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Look how kind, yet smart Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam in his response. So let me a console Allah is Allah Allah Salam fashion, he was not among those who are obscene. Nor was he one of those who utter obscenity or obscene words. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said nothing but good words to his loved ones, as well as to his enemies and those who oppose them.

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Allah Almighty admired you His most Beloved Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam in the Quran, in Surah. Al Kalam

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in and number four by saying we're in NACA, hola, hola. Hola, Oakland Halim. His opponents accused him of being Majnoon insane madman. And Allah Almighty said Indeed you're not meant to be in a matter of BKB Majnoon

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When Allah Allah Allah Allah, Allah, Allah Mamnoon and indeed your word is infinite, without count, unlimited the word you shall receive. Were in Naka, Allah, Allah Hello Can Javi and indeed or Muhammad, you have great manners, because it is your Lord who educated you. It is your Lord who inspired you Who taught you. I lemahieu Rob who was a devil who for US Senator diba, who, so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said what he practiced in them in theoretical Asako a halacha. Among the best of you in another narration, are those who have the best of manners? In our narration, which is collected by Imam Al Bukhari. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Enough era

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come the best of all of you absolutely. Those who have the best of luck, or manners.

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Among the best of manners, allude, generosity, being generous and charitable, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam Cana as you are the nurse, he was the most generous of old people. One day of other LED fairies brother came to Makkah, and he happened to hear about Prophet Muhammad and he made him so when he went home, he spoke to his brother, Abu Dhabi, about this man and said, You better go and meet. So Buddha really ferry came, and he happened to meet the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam. Why, because his brother said to him right to your movie, my caramel o'clock, I saw this man was commending the best of manners. So I will refer he ended up accepting Islam. The Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam was described as SN and nurse as you are the nurse and ash, Janice and assayed. He said, the prophet Salah Salem was the best of people, the most generous of all people, and he was the bravest of all people. And this This money is coming from her the MonaVie Salallahu Alaihe Salam, a person who have served the Prophet sallallahu Sallam 14 Complete years.

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Normally, people pretend to be super nice outside and in public, especially if they're running for an office or in the leadership. But at home, they take it easy, especially with their maids with their servants or their drivers. So they may get angry, they may scream at them. But the prophet servants said, I have served the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him for 10 Complete years. He never said to me once have an off isn't a word, but it is a gesture of disapproval of being not happy. You know, not necessarily condemning, to say off, you're upset. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam never ever say to His servant off. He never objected to anything whether he did it or he did not do

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and he said, I never touched anything softer than the silk, then the hand of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, this is a testimony of the servant of the Prophet sallallahu Arias again. Once the Prophet sallallahu sallam was smitten with his companions, Sandy Mossad, Sadie narrated this hadith. And he said, a woman came to the Prophet SAW Salem and she had made him a clock and Nisa.

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It was called, and the prophets Allah Salam needed it. So she said, Oh prophet of Allah, I've made this for you, this is a gift for you. And the Prophet never refused or rejected a gift, but the sadhaka he would not accept it. So he accepted it from this woman. And soon as he put it on, one of those who are present said, Oh, how sweet how beautiful. I like it. Oh prophet of Allah, would you please give it to me? Imagine if you're in the same position, what would you do? The Prophet sallallahu Sallam immediately took it off, he folded it and he handed it over to this person. The Companions were very angry with this man and they said you know that the prophets Allah Sanam was

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much more in need for it than you and then everybody else. Why did you ask him for it? And you know that he was never asked for anything but he gave it away. Why? So we accepted into the people that I will need to take the baraka the blessings of this clock since the prophets Allah Allah sent and put it on. So I wanted to use it as a shroud or a coffin when I die, that my family would rub me in it. They catch in the Hadith, the prophet Salah Salem never said no, even though he needed it more than anybody else, but he saw somebody had an eye on it. He spotted it. He liked it. He said, Would you give it to me? He said take it with pleasure.

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Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam. He said In another Hadith at Maroun me Nina Eman and Asana whom Holika. Atmel from Carmel. And atman means the most perfect of believers in respect of belief and faith, which shows that an amen levels and all the believers not the same. So the Prophet sallallahu selama say the most perfect of the believers in faith is the one who have the best of manners and conduct walking out who come here to complain is and the best of all of you are those who are the best to their wives and to their family members. To be continued in sha Allah, this very interesting subject after we take a short break, so please stay tuned. Islam is a way of life a complete

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complete with me, it's complete with me.

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A Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back as mentioned in the earlier segment, we're speaking today about the Hadith in Nephi. Rocco a has become a halacha. Indeed, the best of all of you are those who have the best of manners in the midst of the UCLA.

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In another Hadith, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, we're in our Raja lair blue will be host near Julio creepy Dora Giotto saw Emile chi.

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You know, a lot of people exert a great deal of effort in fasting every other day, or perhaps on Mondays and Thursdays, and on the 13th 14th, and 15th. And whenever they have a good occasion to fast, they do not miss an opportunity. And others, a lot of mighty blessed to pray at night on every single night. A person who have good manners, his reward is equivalent to a person who's fasting on every single day and pray in the night prayer on every single night, Allahu Akbar. So he can achieve that mature word by being well mannered by having the good o'clock, as a Prophet sallallahu sallam said, having good manners and good conduct should not be limited to certain places and in front of

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certain people, because you feel shy in front of them. And because you don't want to be blamed by them. Rather, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said to Ma dibny Jebel may Allah be pleased with him. A tequila Hi Suma can keep your duty to Allah and safeguard yourself against sinning and against Allah's Anger. We're so clever you may be at, at home in public in the masjid. When you travel abroad when you go to Europe, when you go anywhere, even to a non Muslim country, keep your duty to Allah wherever he may be at

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a tequila High School makan and follow the evil deed with one which is good, it shall erase it and the third piece of advice is we're Harlequin nurse and the whole Lachlan has and be well mannered in your relationship with old people. The word and NAS covers old people, Muslims, non Muslims, believers or non believers, men and women, young and old, everyone be well mannered in your relationship with old people. When the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was answering the question of wise, when he asked him all prophet of Allah, guide me to an ad that if I do with it will bring me close to heaven and He will take me a distance away from hellfire. The Prophet

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salallahu Alaihe Salam answered him with a lot of good deeds to do, then he said, by the end, Omaha God, shall I not guide you to the controller of all of that. One thing if you do, it will definitely make you achieve your target enterprise and receives that vision. You said Oh certainly the Prophet of Allah is said

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after grabbing hold of his own tongue like this.

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You said MC Kalika and he grabbed hold of his own tongue and he said just control this. Why didn't ejabberd who belong to a community where in Jay Haley before Islam they used to sit and chat and talk about others, perhaps lender others in their absence, involve in backbiting and they didn't mind we're just chatting. said oh prophet of Allah. Will we be held accountable for what we say? Is it Omaha? How

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Come You don't know that, don't you know that there is nothing that topples people on their faces in hellfire more than the harvest of what they say. Just a few minutes ago, I was thinking about this. If a person were to live for 60 years after the age of puberty, so that this is a time which he will be held accountable for. Then on every single day, he happened to slender or backbite, or purse, just one person, just one person every day.

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So that is, every year you have 365 people time 60 Oh my god, you're talking about 1000s and 1000s of people. On the Day of Judgment, though 1000s of people will line up demand in the right from you. That's why the Prophet sallallahu sallam said there is nothing that topples people on their faces in hellfire, more than the harvest of what they say. And he said sometimes a person

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utters a word without paying attention to this word can cause him to fall in hellfire and to keep sinking in it for 70 years.

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Law lot of words actually can destroy the future of any person. The problem is the people who say without thinking, perhaps the accused a chess person with an evil act of adultery. They deliver a false testimony. They say yes, this person did and I saw him and they didn't and lying is the worst of the bad traits. So it is the harvest of what we say which cause people to enter Hellfire most the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said when he was asked ya rasool Allah min a habit a bad delay, he Illa Allah, who is the most beloved of, of the servants of Allah to Allah. So the prophets Allah Allah, Allah is nmsa sn o whom Holika

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that will be the best of them when it comes to love and manners. He is the dearest to Allah, the most beloved to Allah subhanho wa Taala

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and he said,

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In another incident, Mammon che in eth chlorophyl Meezan him in wholesale Holyoake this hadith is collected by Imam Buhari

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and his marvelous book and addable move forward. He said there is nothing that is heavier in the scale of the good deeds then horsnell Hollow than being well mannered. You know brothers and sisters in the Quran Allah Almighty said on the Day of Judgment one other only know as in this 20 year old milk Iam

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we set the scales of justice on the Day of Judgment, no one will be wronged and art no one will be dealt with unjustly whatsoever so it is your good versus bad deeds if depart which have your good deeds happen to be heavier than he said for mmm and supple at my was even for whoever he shot or Alia. If you happen to have your good deeds heavier than the bad ones, then you will end up having a pleasant life and in paradise were men and half fat Nawaz even for more heavier but for him whose good deeds happen to be light, to the point that they will be outweighed by the bad deeds, then his abode will be hellfire. May Allah protect us again is that so the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has

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said, nothing will be heavier in the scale of the good deeds than hospital hollow than being well mannered. Also, he said inequivalent Tessa on NASA VMware LUCAM failure saham Metcon bastle Watch, he will host not hollow. You cannot by all people, you don't have money enough to give this person and that person to make them happy with you. But at least treat them with good manners. This is how you possess this hearts, their hearts. And guess what, when people

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testify for your good or clap this shahada and this money is accepted by Allah subhanho wa taala, one of the Sahaba of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam who is known as a shared Jew at the price, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam received the delegation and this person was kind of you know,

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he was quiet. He was thinking and planning he was not rushing like others. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said, in a fika Hustla tinio Hibou, whom Allah indeed you've been blessed with two qualities, which Allah loves. Wilhelm Well, Anna

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I'll help you to be forbearing to be tolerant to be forgiving and pardoning. And I'll Anna means deliberation, planning and thinking, you're not hasty. You're not always on a hurry. So this Sahabi as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, oh prophet of Allah. Is it something that Allah has created in me? Are these traits indigenous? Or is it something that I have acquired? He said rather it is something that Allah have created, and you may Allah perfect our manners, so that we will be the closest to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam since he said in the Hadith, the closest of all of you to knee in seats on the Day of Judgment in Paradise will be those who would have the best of

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manners a whole look how they had, were Estelle for Allah hurry welcome. Masala Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam was Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh