Mohamad Baajour – Surat Yusuf lessons and Exhortations #03 Evil Eye & Social Media

Mohamad Baajour
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the use of "has been" in Arabic language, with a focus on the concept of "has been" and its use in various context, including the UK. They also touch on the dangerous behavior of sharing photos on Facebook and the importance of avoiding the danger of jealousy. The speakers provide lessons learned from past experiences and encourage listeners to use their own experiences to learn from their actions and become more aware of their feelings.
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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullahi over a cat

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so lol hamdulillah salatu salam ala Rasulillah Loma Linda mon fauna, when finally my alum Tana was in the element camera, he mean, we ask Allah subhanaw taala teach us would benefit us, benefit us from what he told us and increase us knowledge. I mean, you're obliged me. Ask Allah subhanaw taala to put Barak and this gathering in sha Allah, and make us from the people at the end of the gathering, they will be taught Kumu mcphedran Let them get up all your sins are forgiven, and in your branding.

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So inshallah Tada we started

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discussing and explaining the story of Surah, Yusuf Ali Salam. And we finished a

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couple of first couple of few ideas. And then we ended by explaining the last idea, well, the first page is called the use of the IV. Yeah, but in Neela, Ito Ashura CO, Kevin was shumsa will come right on Lisa gene, when use of Ra Salam

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narrated the

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the vision, the Oh yeah, that he saw, we explained the different levels of Roja, we explained that there is nothing called Dream Interpretation. study science, that you cannot go to college and tell them listen, I want to master in dream interpretation. There's nothing like that. This is from Allah subhanho wa taala. The closer you are to Allah, the more Allah subhanaw taala will give you the ability to be able to interpret dreams, but don't go to people and tell you, you know what, let me I know, I heard something. Let me explain to you, you know, sometimes, you know, one thing in one culture could mean something completely different than another culture. Right? Like, for example,

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you say

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I saw a black cat, you know, my dream. What does that mean? In the Middle East and our there's nothing wrong here. That cat

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don't leave the house.

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So you know, that's why there's nothing called Dream Interpretation, except whom Allah subhanaw taala blessed with this ability to tell you the dreams, the only ones who could really tell you the dreams 100% or the Gambia.

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Allah prophets. Now, we explained also Subhanallah How does a seven year old come to his father and tell him his dream. And he said that we should establish a great relationship with our family members, especially with our young kids. So they could be open open with us and communicate their whatever they feeling to us better than going to a stranger that will give them the wrong advice. And look at this Subhanallah

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there's something very important here. Like we said before, that useful is most of the elements so that he was seven at that time of the dream.

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Now, yeah, goob

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Ali Salam, a prophet, he did not.

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He did not say, seven year old so something

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Yes, okay, leave me alone, you know, go away.

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If you if your son comes and tells you, so a dream, and he's six, seven years old,

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you don't get to sit down and listen and record it in a book the best book ever.

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So, look at this, the attention that the Father gave, even though the child was still little, he gave them the attention and listened and concentrated about listen to his to his role, that he saw SubhanAllah. So, after that, we finished up to here now, we started the new idea, on a on a telco sort of Kerala,

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what you failure key do letter three, in shaytaan, in

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sunny womb, OB, so a prophet is telling the Prophet was not prophet at the time, but Jacoba Islam is telling yourself, do not narrate your dream

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your to your brothers, because they will plot against you. And no matter how

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much we try to translate your key do like a Qaeda it will not be exactly like the Arabic language.

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They will flood for you at plotting.

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doesn't sound right. But here the repetition of the same of the verb and the noun together, it shows that key that definitely they are going to plot against you. Okay, now we're going to probably spend this whole night explaining this idea.

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learn taco sauce,

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in Arabic is narrate and also it means something else. What else?

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What? No.

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Excellent. Where? Which surah.

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So it will cause us the mother of Musa alayhis salam told her daughter, what'd she say?

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For see right? What does precede mean?

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Go look for something until you find it. Okay, now look at this. Look at the Arabic Subhan Allah now a father talking to a seven year old

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he did not say that of course. Because he's young. He said last taco sauce. he sprinted out the fob. Any letter with a shudder it's two letters right? In in two letters. taco sauce. He could have said that across taco sauce. He spread because he's a young kid so he could understand that means do not tell the whole story till the end.

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Because when you when you're doing classes to something that means you're telling the story from the beginning to the end. Go to see go find them till you go look for him till you find them. Okay. taco sauce Surah yakka Allah Karateka fire ki do laka Qaidam

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there are so many lessons that we learn from this area number one,

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it is allowed to warn one of the kids of your kids against the others if you feel that there might be some danger coming from the other kids. You are the father.

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Right you are the father you are the most person who know your children. If you feel that these some of these children might harm one of the children or other children, you are allowed to warn them against them. And this is the delete this is the evidence. Okay, that's number one.

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Yeah, when we mentioned that before, brown mentioning again, because it's extremely important and it's widely spread lately.

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And that is our homes.

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became naked.

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Our homes became naked. What does that mean? That means everybody knows everything about us.

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With the social media,

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Facebook, Instagram and WhatsApp and all this stuff. Now, everybody knows everything about everyone.

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Be very careful. Jaquan these are brothers of a profit.

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They envied their brother

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the father told him not to tell him the story not to tell the dream.

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Listen carefully. He told him not to tell the dream and they did what they did. Can you imagine if he told them the dream?

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He didn't even tell them right? He did not tell them and they plotted

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to a level just less than killing first was killing have to use of right. And this they did not know about the dream. Can you imagine if they knew about the dream? What does that mean? Yeah, one stop this this posting of everything that happens. We just came back from Dubai. This is my picture. My husband just bought me it's just Hamdulillah he got the bag on sale. It was only 750 hamdulillah of the army he got a $750 back and look at the shoes and we just look at my kids with a close Hamdulillah

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I just came back from camera. This is my selfie with the camera. You know all this everything I do is on Facebook.

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Facebook is a public place. Anyone could see anything.

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One of the people who are watching these things, is someone who does not like you.

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Or someone that does not want the failure for you. Or someone who's deprived from everything. He just lost his job. He just lost his job.

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He is behind that his rent. He just fought with his wife. And he opened the Facebook and you see look what my husband just bought me. We just came back from a vacation. This is my new car. This is my ring. This is my this this is my dad, my son that everything is on Facebook. How does this person feel?

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But brother, Allah told us what I'm making and material bigger for her death Masha Allah, the brother is has a deleted right away.

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Allah said whatever Allah bless you they didn't show it. No, this is not what that means. But the aim is whatever ALLAH blessed you with, show it by how

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by spending by spending from it he gave you and spend from that l he gave you wealth support the orphans, the poor, the widows the the needy, the massage and this is how you show it not you go show off with it. Look at me look at what I got. Look what I did look at it. No, this is not dire means you're Miss interpreting the idea. So this is very dangerous. From this area. We have to be very careful of what we post what we tell the people a lie you know help.

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Align hack. As soon as I Salam told us line the evil eye is Huck and the Hadith the most thing that kill people after a cuddle is a line

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and the Hadith listen to this hadith

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shall not find it quickly.

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Hadith of

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Rasul Allah is seldom

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been haven't been when I

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say helping her knife raw and Bindra via

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a raw and ribbon ready asset helping an ATF TESL I am here. So Sahil

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showering in the public

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for call them out at Elma

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Mara a to Cal yummy weather Shinden muhabba

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he was praising how beautiful the skin how white and clean and clear and soft or whatever the skin of Sal

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Sal dropped in his spot. He dropped he fell

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it was brought up to the salah Salem yeah rasool Allah this is what happened.

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What did Rasulillah insulin said

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they he killed his brother.

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And let him make who do

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make him make who do and take that water and pour it on sand.

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They did. And fugly Allah subhanaw taala son got up and he was cured from the hazard. If something like this happened to you

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this is the procedure to get rid of the evil eye. Now of course it's very hard number one to know the person who did that to you so you could ask him number two is so how to ask them. Please Habibi, go shower a little bit. Give us some of your work. Because I think you have done the evil I have a very hard

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I mentioned the story before.

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One brother wasn't praying in the masjid. He prays in the budget always in the first throws. And

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a guy came and he told him without any mashallah without anything. He said 70 years old, and he's still standing. He said instantly I dropped my back clip.

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Yeah, when this I'm not gonna lie, this is not jokes. There are some people who are envious and be very careful. That's why the Susana said, Be careful who enters your home. Not everybody younger, younger. Be very careful. What is your home? So he said I dropped and I know the Hadith for Salah Salem, but how can I tell the guy Give me your will do and this and that. So next time I said I hope I see him. He said next day a few days later I came my back is killing me. I can't move. I saw him in the masjid said Allahu Akbar. I said Habibi, you are invited for lunch in my house.

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He invited them over his house. Now how he's going to tell them he came with him to the home, and how he's going to tell him very hard. So he served him soup and this and he said, I'm gonna tell him, all of a sudden, he dropped the soup on his clothes.

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And wash it when I go home said no, no, no, and wash it for you now, because you could take something from the, from the effort of the person that will work also. So he said, No, I'll wash it for you. Now I'll give you a brand new sound. So he gave him yourself and his wife watched the film, okay, and took the water from the south. He said Allah after he left, I poured the water from the film. I went back, my back is gone. My back is clean, clear, because it's a prescription from the salah Salem, from Rasulullah one SubhanAllah. So, be very careful of what you post on what you do. This is this is an idea when Highness Huck, dine is real. And when you see something, when you see

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if it's yours, if it's yours, because sometimes somebody could envy his own child.

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Masha Allah, La Quwata illa Allah, but when I see something, I go to visit brother economics house or the Joomla or the college house. I go I see something beautiful, okay, what do I say?

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This is a very common mistake no matter Allah. What do we do?

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Find the rule Yeah, he can build Baraka

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everybody say mashallah, mashallah is we have something years because it says in Surah Al Baqarah.

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was the

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whenever there is the * to genetica called you saying when you see your Jana Masha Allah Now Quwata illa biLlah interni Anna condom in Canada.

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But when I see somebody else I make dua of Baraka, Allah Madera the clue he had a date along with Eric lofi le along the bad cloud, there are a lot of fake data come out, you make dua Baraka This is the Hadith fender or the African build Baraka make dua of baraka to your brother. Okay, now

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one more lesson

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the brothers of use of allihies Salem, are sons of a product

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What's the lesson here?

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the lead being solid herein does not necessarily means that the Father is solid, and the father being solid, does not necessarily indicate immediately instantly that the kids have to be solid in these are the kids of a prophet plotting to kill their brother.

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That means if you see someone who's righteous Hamdulillah we hope in sha Allah that all his progeny will be righteous, but that does not mean oh, look at this chef badger look at his son's doing this.

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In sha Allah, my kids will be very righteous and all our kids Inshallah, but that does not

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He in that because he's my son he has to be righteous.

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The son of Noah isn't held

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in heaven.

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And we have no doubt in our heart that he did his best. But some people abused the story. When you see the brother, brother Habibi, take care of your son, okay? No son isn't home.

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They use it the wrong way the story. Did you try your best? Did you try your best taught him? The dean surrounded him with the right people? And then you give the example of No, no hallelujah Salam did not leave anything he did not do for his community. How about his family.

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So Salah has led the kids being righteous, sometimes you have very good righteous kids, and the Father is not. And sometimes the other way, the other way around. And this is one of the best delille about about that.

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Another lesson is Subhanallah sometimes you get the most

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harm from the closest people to you.

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Right, you're trying to avoid everybody and turned out that your brothers are plotting for you. Your own blood brothers Subhanallah and we've seen that a lot. Unfortunately, when it comes to inheritance when it comes to anything Subhanallah you see a lot of problems happen. The closest people to you. They become the worst people to to your affairs

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Yusuf Ali Salaam and his brother Binyamin are two. And the brothers the other brothers are 11. Right? Okay.

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10 What is the lesson?

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Don't be fooled by the majority.

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Not always the majority means everything Oh, the majority of the people are doing this. That means it's good. The majority of people are doing that. That means it's good. No. As a matter of fact, if you look at the survey, in the Quran, every axon after it's something bad axon exaro, Himalayas, Quran axon la Yochanan.

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The majority of people are away from the deal they do not thank Allah, they are not believers.

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So, what can we eliminate the idea Shaco Illa Karela minimum Luckily in our Subhan Allah and those who are successful

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use of our histogram

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so I

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told his father that my my father I saw 11

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planets, stars,

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and the sun and the moon. How did you see them? I saw them making sujood. And he has if he saw them the first time he saw his dream 11 stars and the sun and the moon. And then he saw them again. They're making so good to him. Now how come? The father did not envy him about this dream.

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The father will never envious son. Never.

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Never, always want the best for the children always.

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Rasul Allah insulin he told us, I warn you against having jealousy. Jealousy, eats up your good deeds just like the fire eats wood.

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Jealousy eats up

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good deeds, just like the fire

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eats the wood.

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But Jealousy is a feeling and I thought we are not responsible about feelings.

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Right? Jealousy is a feeling. For example, I feel now like I feel like I want to be this brother up do I get punished? Because I just I felt like that spamela So jealousy is been

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that to be a harmful action. And the most person that jealousy harms is the person himself.

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The one who is committing the jealousy the one who's committing the hassle

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Yeah, kooberi has Salam look at the father Jaquan. I will finish with this. There's a lot of lessons and probably going to take another week in this area. Jacoba is Salam.

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He doesn't want to have any problems at home, no fitna in the house. He knows all his children. So he told him you know, do not tell your your your brothers about your dream. You know, they're going to plot against you. And as far as if your use of

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Do not tell your your brothers about your dean said why as a father as a mother. Why? Because they're gonna plot against you. Then as if he asked you then Why you mad then in the shaitana, because the shaitan is adult and I will finish with this year one. When you look at the other lesson here very interesting lesson.

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When you blame yourself about doing something, you do not blame the shaitan we always blame the shaitan right when we do something wrong, brother was the shaitan.

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No, this here comes and teaches us that when you are

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talking to somebody about their sin, you from the lack and the etiquette of the Muslim you give them you know what, it was not you it was the shaitan you know, you did something wrong, but it was a shakedown. But when it comes to yourself, you blame yourself you don't blame the shaitan.

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When you blame when you do something wrong, you blame yourself. Whereas the delete, insert use of

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the chocolate

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was the real

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Allahu Akbar.

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See, when the woman of the disease admitted that she made a mistake, she did not say the shaytaan made me do this. She said, well now Albury en FC in the NAFSA the American pursue, she blamed herself. But when he

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saw his brothers at the end, right. They committed a major sin by doing what they did to his brother. Even though he knows that they are the ones who threw him in the well. What did he say? NESARA che fondo valen Allahu Akbar. Look at the clock. The Shaitan came between us even though he knows they did it. So similarly here. The father is giving an excuse in order not to let his son feel that your brothers are very bad. Is this the shaytaan who did this to them? So when you are talking about somebody else, give them room to feel good, you know what it is the shaitan but when you talk about your own mistakes, you blame yourself this is lesson from this area Subhanallah we

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have few more lessons about this I inshallah looks like I don't want to keep you longer inshallah. So you can go and spend some time with your your spouses and communicate this is very healthy for your marriage inshallah. And I'm gonna remind you please do not forget AXA in your in your please make them out of our brothers. This is not their Masjid only this is our Masjid. This is our message. It's our duty all of us to defend this Masjid says we can do much. Let's make dua for them that Allah will give them victory. Allah will help us give them victory inshallah and every aspect that we can tell and don't forget, Inshallah, to Allah tomorrow, is Juma. come and pray Fajr in

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Jamar 545 In sha Allah, may Allah subhanaw taala unite our hearts may Allah subhanaw taala forgive our sins, may Allah subhanaw taala grant us on a beautiful summer in Gemma in the Aqsa enterable Alameen wa salam ala and Amina Muhammad Ali wasafi

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