Divine Messages #05 The Story of Luqman 2
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brother Mustafa, you can put the screen.
So we still have a lot of datamine still discussing the story of
the study of Lachman.
We started last week and
Allah subhanho wa Taala mentioned the story in the Quran. And we
have to learn from this story,
the order of Dawa, the order of raising our children. And we said that Lachman started with his son by mentioning and talking about the danger of shirk. Right. And he spoke about Chuck and the forms of shirk. And then
spoke about that Allah subhanaw taala gave this man hikma. And
I want to talk about one more
point about the order of Dawa, and then we will move to the next advice of Lachman to his son.
When Rasulillah Salam sent from live, or the Allahu Allah, to Yemen, he said, You are going to the People of the Book, first of all, invite them to worship Allah alone.
And when they come to know Allah, when they come to know Allah, inform them, that Allah has enjoined on them five daily Salawat. And if they start offering these prayers, inform them that Allah has enjoined on them, there's a cat, and it's to be taken from the rich amongst them, and given to the poor amongst them. And if they obey you in there's a cat, take there's a cat from them and avoid the best property of the people as a cat.
Let's see the order. Look at the order. As soon as I sell them send a messenger you know, both, he is representing Islam to go and give the message to you. We are
live in America.
where do we start with? Don't stop your alcohol leave your girlfriend? Oh, brother. The funniest thing when somebody's taking shahada brother, you gotta change your name.
You have to change your name and his name. Is that would that have you been? Why? His name is David? Or is this Joseph? Names of Prophets? You have to change your name? Why do you change his name? If there's nothing wrong with his name? Why did he change his name, but some of us have only changed the names when they contradicted with the Sharia, when somebody was named as head of war, that does not make sense. You changed it. But you know what we concentrate on the you know, you have to do this yet? No, no Tauheed
first, tell them that there is only one God.
The source excellent admire, tell the people of Yemen there is one Illa
And subhanAllah Look at this. This is probably the most important statement when they come to know Allah.
Then tell them there's five days salah, because when they know Allah, and they know the greatness of Allah, so they're wondering, how can I thank him? How can I serve him? Okay, let me tell you, you have there's something called five daily prayers, you put your head on the ground and you say Subhana Allah and he explained. So the order in Dawa is extremely essential, especially proven in the way that look man is talking to his son. So he started with shirk, he started with the shook, and then he went to the others which we will be discussing Sharma so same thing, same thing and wallah he, no matter how you think you are creative, no matter how think you smart, or whatever,
nothing is gonna work except this way, the way of Allah and His Prophet, start with the toe heat and put your hands and be very comfortable that you're doing the right thing. But when because we are so emotional. I want the guy I want the sister to put the hijab right away. I want the guy to start praying instantly, which is good if they do it. hamdulillah but established Oh, he'd established Rohit first. Similarly, as we like we saw we were like we spoke last week in our children. Let them love Allah, that don't let them pray because they are scared of you. Because you're gone. You're going to be gone soon. I don't want my kids to stop praying when I leave.
We don't want our kids to stop doing all day by that when we leave. How do we do that? By getting them hooked to the one
Who never leaves
that their hearts hooked to the high Ulladulla mood and 101 I had moved to Kelowna.
Personally when I when I made my child attached to the one who does not die to Allah subhanho wa Taala then how does I feel safe? Even if it was going to take me all that 1015 20 years, how can I establish that to Allah, that will be the most important thing I could do? Because I would have succeeded. If I do that. I would have succeeded if I established the love and the Malefor the knowledge of Allah in the heart of my children, may Allah subhanaw taala make us all able to do that in sha Allah. They what is the next advice of Lachman? And this will be our topic today, even though we discussed it many times, but Subhanallah you never can talk enough about this topic?
Where we're saying
was in New York, he saw what he saw no fee, I mean, and he schooled me when he won he they take Elian. mousewheel Subhan Allah right after Allah right after Sheikh right after the rights of Allah, the rights of the parents immediately. This is a norm in the Quran. Welcome. Volker and alertable do in the way Bill Reilly. Dini. Cerna. Similarly, what was sinal in Santa? What was Salem? Now? Very, probably, if you asked me what is the most important word in this area? It will be
what was seen why? First of all, let's let's leave the translation quickly. And We have enjoined on man, man here means mankind to be beautiful and good to his parents, his mother.
no matter how great
you are, to your father, just give a little bit more a little bit more to your mother.
Why? Because of the Hadith, or Mocha from Mocha from Mocha from Arabic, and even Russello, Salam Don't, don't belittle the father ever deleted the father, but just a little bit, give both their rights but the mother a little bit extra, because of the preference of the Quran. He said Allah was saying that in Santa validate, then he'll say anything about the father even though the father has great job. But he went to the mother, specifically. So
his mother bore him in weakness and hardship upon weakness and hardship, and his winnings in two years. Give thanks to me and to your parents. Antoni is the final destination.
So why was Saina is the most important word.
We all know that it's a must to obey an order the parents and we all know that. And
sometimes, that's the importance of the word or sign up, sometimes.
or your mother
or do things
that bother you.
Or your father, or your mother, or my father or my mother. They treat us in a way that's sometimes I'm going to explode.
They asked me for things that come on. It's, it's not it's not the right time. It's not the right place. It's nothing I can't.
This is when me and you have to remember the word while a signer.
Even if they are asking you for something extremely hard. Remember, you are doing it because Allah said while a signer is our sia from Allah. So as if Allah is telling me no matter how bad he was the word they're treating you still treat them with the best not because they are good or bad. They might be very even because it's a bad because this is our car from me.
I know brothers and sisters in our community. They have came to me and spoke and told me what their parents have done to them
well Allah He is some of the situations is unbearable. And immediately I remembered what was signup
online unbearable. Some people sometimes you know, it's
especially when it becomes the an in law situation, the in laws, it becomes very frustrating and annoying.
And like a repeated many, many times, the worst worst situation ever you could put a man is to make him choose between his wife and his mother. The worst. And unfortunately,
even though that mother was the daughter in law, just recently, she forgot. When she became a mother in law, she forgot what her mother in law did to her. And she's doing the same to their daughter in law again.
And that creates a lot of problems
the parents are asking for something very hard, because against your desire, let's Okay. Let's assume facials at four o'clock in the morning in the masjid.
And you are a facial guy
getting up and assume because facial usually,
when I was in New York, it was four o'clock and the very, very cold and you still have to go and get up. So that was very hard. And against my desire, I could have just made the Oh quick will do and prayed right there. And because it's against your desire, because of the reward, you make that extra move, you go to the extra step similarly,
even though the parents are asking you for something very hard for you and sometimes, like a woman called the chef, yeah, Chef, my mother, she always cursed me. She always do this to me, she always make me feel I'm nothing. She always do this to me.
She said, What do you want me to tell you? What are you expecting? Better kick her out?
No man with his brain. No chef without knowledge would tell you do that.
Be patient, be extremely patient that specifically ALLAH mentioned the issue of age specifically because He created us and He knows that that old age thing is going to change.
Remember that clip everybody saw on YouTube about the kid asking the Father about the Father asking the kid about the bird. What is this a bird, the bird the bird? And he kept on asking him all the time. And the kid get very upset from the third time and the Father told Him when you were kid, you asked me 21 times and every time you asked me I hug you and kiss you. Now I asked you three times you gave up and you start screaming and yelling
so specifically when you have that you want to explore remember I was saying this is a form of a bad and a bad as I'm not meant to be easy. The more they are the harder they are, the more rewarding they are. So just be patient and continue while sinal insane and be wary they have mulato among one other one. And it's specifically the mother why I mentioned the mother.
ALLAH SubhanA wa ala Rasulillah Salam. Imagine a man came through Salah sigh Solomon said Yara surah Allah, who is the most deserving of my friendship, Maya my companionship. They are a soul Allah so he's gonna thought you know the rich guy, the generous guy the the ducky this and that.
Your mother Allahu Akbar. Okay, so Allah who's next on look, okay, our Salah is Aquila here, who's next Amok Wow.
So when we spoke last week, or on Monday, about the mother leaving the house and this and that and of course, but too many people like it, but
Allah Azza wa sallam said that 75% 2525 25 and 25 the father 75% is outside the house
but he expected
75% is outside the house and when they come there, maybe they have 50% to 20% left of energy
omocha from my own workout from Walker okay, what is the why the preference of the mother on the father over three things let's give those chocolate today was the first one because of just
very well first of all is better him Okay, second
deliver him and the third.
He said deliver him how many times you're gonna deliver him
who said who said
it's too far.
Next inshallah. So on mocha. She carried him. The father cannot do that. Oh, mocha. She delivered him. The father cannot do that. On mocha. She said
him nursed him, the father cannot do that. But when it came to the raising, they both did it. So he shared the last one by a book, and your father. So
Subhanallah This is the Hadith. Who's next? Your mother, your mother, your mother, and then your father, and this is an booklet that's why the animals are just given a job, a job more to the mother, no matter you know, sometimes.
If you have not
if never been sick, or nothing special happened between you and your mother and during your life? Or do you not feel that what the people are talking about? Maybe because Hamdulillah you live the normal life. But Allah Hey, if you were sick, and your mother was alive, she will rather ache on night than for you to say.
You would have seen something that blow your mind. I'm sure a lot of us seen that. She would rather
get 100 and something fever and you nothing, nothing.
A phone comes to you.
This is this, this is the way they built in.
That's why when people want equality between men and women.
It's not about equality. In Islam, there is something called justice.
Justice, the woman is built different than the men.
Just like we just said, the man cannot carry cannot deliver cannot. This is the way it's built is different. So equality is wrong. Justice is right.
I'll give a quick example.
If I brought her, they said we need equality. So we had
equality between men and women. So we brought the Head
of Biology woman and the security guard. And then
would you say we're talking about equality now on gender equality?
So we gave them the same exam exam in in science?
She scored 100 And he scored 10.
Is this fair? To my equal men, women, same exam, same teacher, same desk, same guy watching same thing. Men and women. So why is that fair?
It's not just this woman is a doctor in biology. This guy is not saying
she cannot handle some issues that she cannot handle physically are built. The way she's built. She cannot handle some issues. So it's not fair. For her it's not fair.
ALLAH SubhanA wa ala Rasulillah Salam three times the mother.
And when the man came to him and told him
when I was in New York, I was I was mentioning the importance of the parents also. And
one of the people who sent me questions she said that what did you come up with this thing about being next to your mother's feet? Is this a bit that what you're telling us to be able to mother's feet?
When the man was going, yeah, one two she had Did you had
as your mother alive? He said yes. He said stick to her feet. This is what the agenda is Subhan Allah
is there any more importance to the parents than this law? And that's almost Barun, Kedah. The biggest of the greatest sins are our join others first shake second unbeautiful to one's parents and to give false witness and he repeated she had at the zoo three times.
Second came a who can validate being disobedient to the to the parents
let me just give you a few tips for myself and for you. How can we some nice ideas, how to have some bitter towards our parents if they're alive or they're not alive quickly. If they're alive,
okay, they are still alive. And you are for example, three brothers and two sisters. Okay. Establish Listen to me carefully establish a bank account.
The bank account in her name, in his name, in her name or in his name, and you agree with
between you and your brothers and sisters, everybody put $100 A month 200 whatever you can afford.
Even if your mother is working, let's assume even if your mother is in no need whatsoever, because the mothers usually, in general, they don't ask the parents in general, they do not ask. They don't like to ask. So don't let them reach that level. Even if they don't need it. Just make it as a form of better.
Just a form of better agree with your brothers and sisters. Okay, let's make an account. We give her a gift. And an ATM card. We send it to her we mail it to her we give it to her and every time she was free, she wants to use it. She doesn't want to use it. She wants to give it to our children back whatever she wants, but at least let's do something turn. You like the idea? Okay, listen to the second one.
When is the last time I am guilty myself. I hate to say things that I don't do.
What is the last time you're going to give to your mother
for no reason?
Or lie I'm guilty. She's probably going to watch me tomorrow everyday she watches me the next day
Come up with an occasion
to give her a gift to give him a gift.
And they don't they deserve it honestly. And don't don't immediately think of the gift as expensive right away because all mine goes, brother I can No no no, no, no. Just something simple. Watch perfume, hijab, nice outfit, anything
just to make it make it a habit of getting the parents gift every once every once in a while.
The bottom line I'm not gonna sit down I'm sure everybody every one of us have ever have an idea.
The bottom line and is probably extremely important. Be creative in the way you
have to your parents. You know how you're creative in ideas to make money ideas to generate whatever be creative on how can I please them what how can I make them laugh? How can you know what I'm going to plan ombre and I'm going to take them with me and I'm gonna be just like a slave the whole trip
the whole trip slave come go do this do that justice because I might not live again to do it. Anytime you have that opportunity. One boy don't hesitate. Don't hesitate. The still alive Run Run race do it take off it's okay it's worth it to Allah he will see it mountains on the Day of Judgment mountains
and if they are gone
May Allah Subhana Allah have mercy on them that Allah subhanaw taala raised their status make a lot of drive for them alot. Similarly, be creative co sponsor an orphan and your Allah. Nobody has to know nobody Not even your wife. Nobody has to know your Allah this is on behalf of my mother this widows on behalf of my father this
school I'm building this I'm participating that message This is all for my mother Ya Allah. Allah He be if Nila Allah will send your children that will think the same and this is what you want. So you're not doing it only for your parents you're also doing it for yourself.
When the kids see how you respect and how you honor
your parents they have no other choice but to treat you the same because this is what they saw.
This is what they saw.
I want you to
whatever we discussed in sha Allah Tala to do it as soon as you can.
you never know. I got this
this clip today and see if I can play it. I wanted to see this
because watch the
you see the arrow and this man
watch this guy.
They put them to the back
the definition of solid
they carry them outside
they put him on the truck
Why is that not going to be me?
Why is that not going to be?
Did he know? Allah He did not know.
So we are one, this benefit from these classes
is going to play just like us. And it was like just like a suicide someone said Salatin would pray as if it's your last prayer.
So please, when we learn something sad you can who in whom? In
your own effing ot
Can you set your own fly rods?
Really? Where where that lithium aluminum hydride, but yeah, Malone. You share your own. You're going to that guy, I'm gonna beat you with a race to get there. You're gonna have to No, no, I'm gonna help him.
This is the only way to build our community to strengthen our love to one another. When we start really caring, really caring about one another.
May Allah subhanaw taala unite our hearts. May Allah subhanaw taala strengthen our love to one another. May Allah subhanaw taala bless our parents, may Allah subhanaw taala make us righteous parents and make our children all righteous. I mean, Robert Alameen Believe it or not, we still have a lot to go with the story of Lachman. This is only the second part we still have many more but a coffee calm which is a Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi overcut.
Because we finish