Khalid Latif – Ramadan Immersion 2022

Khalid Latif
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The speakers discuss the importance of using divine names for actions and the need to recognize reality. They stress the importance of du mortality and the use of du mortality as a way to navigate past expiration. They also emphasize the importance of not talking during a busy night and listening to words instead. The speakers stress the importance of knowing one's love and enrolling in church to avoid distraction, and encourage viewers to use the last few weeks of the year to write out a du-use to reflect the qualities of the divine.
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I think we're

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live streaming both through the Vimeo app as

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well as YouTube, Michelle.

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This is where we're getting started.

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Maybe we can

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utilize the opportunity for people. I had some

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people who had sent me

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some duas that they wrote,

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utilizing

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the divine name of.

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And if you remember, we looked at Ar

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Rahman, Ar Rahim, Arham Ar Rahimin, Khairur Rahimin,

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Dhur Rahma.

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We looked at Al Malik, Al Malik, Al

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Malik.

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And then last week, we looked at Al

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Afu

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in reference to the dua that many of

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us likely know within these days and nights

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of Ramadan.

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Or and we talked about what that meant

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a little bit.

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Did anybody actually write more of the duas

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whether you sent it to me or not?

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If you wanna share with your classmates,

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just so we could hear and benefit from

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everyone's

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experiences with that.

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You can feel free to paste it, copy

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paste it into the chat box,

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if you'd written anything on Alafu

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or any reflections on any of the names

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that we've looked at so far.

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Those that were

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taken,

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in the 1st week that we discussed around

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Rahma

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or those that we looked at in terms

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of.

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Okay.

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And is there any particular part of the

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that you look at?

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So sister,

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she said that she for it, she looks

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into the male.

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So Shema has written here,

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I am a sinner. My heart is broken

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due

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my heart is broken due to it.

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I ask you to forgive me and save

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me from myself. You are the only one

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who can forgive me,

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So forgive

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me.

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Great.

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Well, I hope everyone's Ramadan has been going

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well. Maybe we can get started. I thought

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that in the context of it being Ramadan

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and many of us making dua

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and likely when we look at the Asma

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and Husna,

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we tend to look through the ones that

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we've spoken about and then kinda go in

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a successive order. I thought we could jump

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a little bit more.

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And

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instead of looking at Al Qaduz,

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we could look at

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one that might resonate a little bit differently

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given it's the month of Ramadan,

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and look at the divine name of Al

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Mujib,

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the one who responds.

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And

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and Mujib

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is a very important

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name of the divine and many of us

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have likely been engaging Allah

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in this way where we make dua

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to Allah

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in these nights of Ramadan.

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We are pouring our hearts out. Right? These

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last

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10 nights in anticipation of Laylatul Qadr, may

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Allah make us from those who witness and

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benefit from Laylatul Qadr.

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And when we think about Al Mujib,

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we

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understand

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in translation,

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this is the one who answers prayers, the

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ones who answers

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duas.

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But the fundamental

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notion there

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necessitates that the duas made in order for

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it to be responded to.

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Ma'am Ghazali Rahim Allah,

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he

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says that Allah is Al Mujib,

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that this means that it is he who

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responds to the request of those who are

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asked

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by assisting them,

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to the call of those who call upon

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him by answering them,

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and responds to the plight of the poor

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with all that they need. Right?

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That it is he who responds to the

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requests of those who ask by assisting them,

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to the call of those who call upon

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him by answering them, and responds to the

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plight of the poor with all that they

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need.

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And I'm just gonna write that here in

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the chat box so that people can have

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that. This is what Imam Ghazari

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says

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is what,

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it means when we call upon Allah's Al

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Mujib.

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And you wanna think about the way now

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we relate to whatever knowledge we have given

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to us through the Quran, through the Hadith

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of Allah

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by he himself

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in his divine wisdom

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to help us now recognize how we relate

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to,

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in our limited capacity, our creator,

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by not looking at the divine names that

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he has taught us to know him better

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in isolation of each other, but to see

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how they now relate to one another.

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And this is a challenge that many of

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us have quite often. Right? A generalization that

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we can make is that when we're looking

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into religion,

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quite often,

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we look at verses, we look at hadith,

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and we don't necessarily think about what they

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mean in the context of one another.

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So what does it mean that Allah is

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al Mujib in the context

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of us also knowing that he is al

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Rahman?

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What does it mean that he is al

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Mujib in the context of us knowing that

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he is al Rahim,

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that he is Al Malik, he is Al

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Malik, he is Arhamar Rahimin, that he is

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Al A'afoo.

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And embedded now within this

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idea

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of making dua to the divine

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and that he is the one who responds,

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that response now is not something that we

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want to anthropomorphize

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God in any capacity.

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So it's not, for example, the way I

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might call upon my child

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while they're watching television and they're distracted and

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they don't want to respond to the call,

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or I'm asking

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of

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a friend to do me a favor, or

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someone at the end of a long days

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of fasting. They're exhausted. They're tired.

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And we're asking, can you help clean up

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the author? And there's now elements that are

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there that are not necessarily

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responsive in the ways that we would understand

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ideally what that response would look like.

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But to deepen in a recognition of what

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it means that God is Al Mujib, that

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he is the one that responds,

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you want to juxtapose this to other divine

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names that we know of Allah

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that he has taught of us.

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So Allah who is Al Mujib, he is

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Ar Rahman.

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And Ar Rahman not just being mercy in

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the ways that we understand

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mercy in a system of inequity and injustice.

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That one who now is in a place

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where someone could

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authoritatively

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yield power over them in the aftermath of

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consequence that is negative,

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they exert mercy instead of justice.

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Right? Rahma

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in Arabic

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denotes softness, tenderness,

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gentleness.

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In addition to compassion, in addition to love,

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in addition to mercy.

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So

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who is Al Mujib?

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He is Ar Rahman.

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We talked about Allah's Rab.

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So he is Al Malik. He is a

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Syed. He is Al Qayin.

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He is Murabbi, Mudabir.

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He

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is the mender and healer of all things.

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So who is Al Mujib?

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Our is Al Mujib.

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And you can look at this now in

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the context of other divine names as well.

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Right? That who is Al Mujib, the one

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that you are calling upon?

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Well, Allah is Al Aleem. He's the knower

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of all things. So if I'm gonna call

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upon anyone as Al Mujib, the one that

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I want to respond to my prayers,

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I wanted to be the one who is

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the knower of all things that he knows

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all that has transpired. He knows what will

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happen, what has happened, and he knows what

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could have happened

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but did not happen based off of the

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course of the ways things actually did happen.

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That he is Al Hakim. He is the

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most wise. And we'll come back to this

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in the context of

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recognizing, well, when duas are not responded to

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in the ways that we would hope that

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they are, we understand that he is Al

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Mujib and Al Hakim.

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So he is the most wise.

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That he is in addition to being Al

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Alim, he is a Samir, that he is

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the one that hears all things, that he

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is al basir. He's the one that sees

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all things.

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And then you want to think about it

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in the context of

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other aspects of the divine, other divine names

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that we know.

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That Allah is

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Al Wadud.

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He's the source of an unconditional

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love.

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That if anybody ever asks you, well, how

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do you know that God loves you?

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You say that God loves us because of

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who he tells us that he is. He

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says he is.

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And his love for us is not because

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we come from a particular culture or context

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or espouse a certain creed. It's not that

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we're of a certain social class or have

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certain professions or titles or these kinds of

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things. Allah does not love us because of

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who we are. Allah loves us because of

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who he is. He's alwadood,

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a source of an unconditional love that takes

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us in in all of our diversity

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and embraces us despite any imperfection that we

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have just as any perfect love would.

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And when you call upon him as the

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one who responds to your duas, the ones

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that responds to your prayers,

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then you call upon him knowing that he

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is.

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He is the source of that love.

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He's the one that knows

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everything that you like about yourself and you

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dislike about yourself. And despite that, he still

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has love for you.

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And you add that to so many other

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parts. He's the

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giver of gifts. He is

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the giver of blessing and bounty. He is.

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He is free of need.

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And just in being able to now extrapolate

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meaning from this.

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You don't want to going forward. Right? It's

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our last time together.

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Be in a place where you just memorize

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and you say that here I will only

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understand this in one frame.

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But you start to understand divine names that

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you are given,

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through

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the prism of other divine names that we

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have been taught and we have been exposed

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to through the Quran, through the hadith,

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through

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our ability

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to deepen now in understanding

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who is the one that responds to our

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prayers

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and connecting now at a deeper level

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through a recognition

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of

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what those things

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mean as we are calling upon him.

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I'd love to take a pause just to

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hear any thoughts or reflections to make sure

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that we're all on the same page here.

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Do you get what I'm saying? Right? Why

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it's important to not just think about

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one of these divine names in isolation, but

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to start to think about them in the

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context of more as you learn them.

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You know, when you engage in reflection and

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contemplation,

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what does it mean that Al Khaleq, the

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creator,

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is also Al Mujib,

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the responder to prayers? What does it mean

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in these ways

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when we are

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recognizing

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and deepening in our relationship with our creator?

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You're making a lot of dua

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in Ramadan. Right? May Allah accept all of

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our dua

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and grant us even better than what it

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is that we are asking of him. And

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may he make us from amongst those who

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are content with his decree.

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So thinking now about on the receiving end

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of dua,

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al Mujib

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definitively

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is the one who responds. Right? We'll call

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it

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a That your lord says make dua to

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me. Right?

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Make dua to me.

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I will respond. This is divine

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promise.

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I remember going to the haram

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for Umrah, for Hajj.

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We were standing in the top floor of

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the Kaaba, if you ever been there, the

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highest floor. Right? And Allah

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enable us to visit his house in Makkah

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al Mukarama again and to visit the illuminated

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city, Medina

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to Munawara,

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the city of the prophet alaihi salam again.

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May he end any of the injustices and

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oppressions that come out

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from the countries that house these robotic cities.

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I was standing at the top

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floor looking down at the Kaaba, there's millions

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of people just pouring their hearts out. Right?

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I remember the first time I went for

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Hajj in 2,005,

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I was

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23

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years old.

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And I had just started working at our

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Islamic Center at New York University,

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And at the onset of it, I had

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said I wanna make Hajj going into the

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establishment of this career because I wanna thank

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Allah for giving me the opportunity to serve

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a community

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as well as ask of him to put

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barakah into whatever endeavors might come. And so

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when I went for Hajj if you ever

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been for Hajj, like, it's just people are

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packed.

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There's so many people at that time pre

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COVID that they're all on top of each

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other.

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And the Tawaf circles, especially

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around the Kaaba, the map off area, right,

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like, in the front part of the sanctuary,

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it's really moving slow.

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And I was down there and I could

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see gaps in the circles of the.

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And it didn't make any sense to me.

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And so when we

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were walking and doing tawaf, I got closer

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to the gaps

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And I saw that there weren't in fact

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gaps, but they were women who had come

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from different countries in the world and they

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didn't have the ability to walk. So they

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were making Ta'af literally crawling on their knees.

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And they had some of them strapped to

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their backs,

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their infant children as they were doing this.

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Like, doing it, subhanallah,

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as soon as they had the means to

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do so. There's people like this

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making that pilgrimage. And I'm standing up there

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saying,

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how is it possible that in the midst

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of all of these people who are doing

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such amazing things

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for the sake of their creator,

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that in a sea of 1,000,000, my dua

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is going to be answered as well.

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And it felt quite minuscule at that moment,

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very insignificant.

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But as instantaneously

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as it hits just staring at the Kaaba

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and looking out at the beauty

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of so many people coming together purely for

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the sake of their creator,

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abandoning and leaving behind so much

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a shared internal that was very empowering.

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Those thoughts quickly diminished

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and it wasn't about adopting a paradigm of

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insignificance

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because the insignificance

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might have felt like I felt insignificant,

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but essentially what the insignificance

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was then rooted in was in a recognition

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of making insignificant the one that I was

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calling upon.

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That if I believed that Allah couldn't

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hear what I was asking of him,

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I wasn't just making a claim on the

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duas that I made and comparing myself to

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those around me in a delusional sense of

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inferiority,

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but it was also giving me an indication

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of who I believed the one that I

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was calling upon actually was.

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And did I believe in a God that

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had the ability and capacity to hear all

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of our prayers?

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Or did I believe that God couldn't do

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that?

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And as instantaneous

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as the doubt hit, it just dispelled.

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They said, my God is Al Mujib.

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He is the one that responds to all

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prayers.

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And just as he hears every single dua

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that's being uttered from every tongue and every

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heart of those that were making pilgrimage that

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year and the 1,000,000

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and billions around the world that are turning

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to him, he also hears my dua.

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He hears my prayer.

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Ali

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he says that

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the mode, the vehicle to traverse from the

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earth to the heavens is just the dua

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that you're sending your supplications,

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your prayers

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across

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the skies.

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And it's not going to happen unless you

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make it.

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And to make it, you want to understand

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who is the one that I'm praying to.

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Another example that I like to utilize, I

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live in New York City where there's a

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lot of noise, a lot of chaos. And

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I have a 6 year old son named

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Kareem, and I have a 9 year old

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daughter named Medina.

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They're beautiful young people,

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amazing blessings in my life, made to offer

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them. They're some of the greatest gifts that

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I've ever been given.

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And I take them to New York City

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parks. They're a little different from parks in

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other parts of the country. New York City

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parks are always packed, especially after school lets

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out.

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And you have

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tons of kids running around making noise.

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My daughter likes to be in one part

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of the park. My son likes to be

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in the other park. I have to be

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able to pay attention to both of them.

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In the sea of all of this chaos

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and all of this noise,

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I can guarantee that if you're a parent,

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you know what I'm talking about.

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That if I can hear my child cry

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at any end of the park,

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it separates

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as a voice

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from all of whatever else is moving around

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us in terms of noise and chaos.

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And I can identify

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my baby girl, my son's voice

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in the sea of all of this,

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and if I can pinpoint their voices, their

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cries, their screams

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when there's 100, if not more,

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yelling and screaming,

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then how could my God not hear

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my prayers and your prayers

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in the sea of voices that turn to

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him every day and every night?

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And so Allah is the one that responds.

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He is.

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You want to go with certitude,

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not maybe in your duas, but in the

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one that you're making du'a to.

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Not in a recognition

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of I have confidence in my

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prayers and the attentiveness in my heart, that

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you have confidence

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in the attentiveness of the one that you're

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making dua to. That's where the surety is.

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That's where the

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real

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reliance is.

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This is the dua. Right?

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Ramadan,

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Ramadan in a different variation. Whoever fasts Ramadan,

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whoever stands in Ramadan.

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Iman

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and with faith and with surety.

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Means that you have expectation,

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but you know, like, you have an assurity

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that

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God is the one that is is doing

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what God says he will do.

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And you don't have to doubt that ever.

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And so where we can recognize now our

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role,

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you can make dua in any real state

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that you find yourself in, but there's some

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etiquettes to those Dua's.

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And there's certain times, certain places,

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certain states of being that dua is said

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to be more readily accepted.

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And you wanna think about this deeply because

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in those states, there's

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barakah, there's blessing,

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metaphysical

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increase that is determined by Allah Zogel. He

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is Al Hakim.

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But there's also room for more attentiveness for

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us. And so I wanted to share a

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few different duas or timings where we're taught

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that du'a

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is more readily accepted.

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1,

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Right? And many of us probably know this,

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that may Allah make us from those who

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witness and benefit from it is a time

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in which we are taught that you want

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to make dua.

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The prophet's

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wife

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asks him what she should do in anticipation

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of Laylatul Qadr.

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He says, make the dua that we looked

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at last

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week. And the specificity

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of the dua is important,

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but also

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when he is asked what do you do

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in anticipation,

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he's giving her a dua to make. So

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you want to in these robotic nights of

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Ramadan,

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these last nights, don't leave it behind because

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you already stood at one of the previous

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nights, whether it's an even night or an

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odd night or whatever night it was, but

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you still use these nights and you use

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these blessed nights. You even use the 1st

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night of Shawwal. Right? It's the day before

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Eid. It's the night before Eid. There's blessing

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in that night. Don't use it as an

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opportunity to stop talking to God. Use it

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as an opportunity to continue talking to God.

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Right? But

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is a time which we're taught you wanna

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make dua.

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In the depths of the night, the last

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parts of the night,

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right, we are taught that this is a

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time, the last third of the night, that

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Dua is said to be

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readily accepted, barakah. Right? And there's a distinction

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between and

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tahajjud.

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Essentially, the difference is like whether you sleep

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or not. If you go to sleep and

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you wake up, that's the Hajjood. If you

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don't sleep and you still pray in the

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night, that's

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If you can't wake up in the last

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3rd of the night, it doesn't mean that

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there's not barakah still in doing something else.

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So once you've prayed your night prayers,

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but if you don't think you'll wake up

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before Fajr to make some extra rakas, then

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just pray some extra rakas before you go

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to sleep and make du'a at that time

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too. Right? But we're

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taught that,

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Allah we're

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taught that he descends

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in that last 3rd of the night

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to meet the needs of his servants, to

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relieve their stress. And he says, who will

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call upon me that I may answer him?

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Who will ask of me that I may

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give to him? Who will seek my forgiveness

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so that I might forgive him?

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A third instance where dua is said to

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be readily accepted is

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after you have done

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your

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your prescribed prayers, like, after the prayers.

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And so this now gives us a unique

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illustration. Right? Like,

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you can only get

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the outcome of the act by performing the

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act itself. So if you want to make

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the

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dua

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that is more likely to be accepted

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at the conclusion of a further prayer,

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then you gotta say your further prayers.

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Right? So

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here now,

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you

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have this in the hadith where the prophet

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is asked, you Rasool Allah, which Dua is

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heard,

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and he responds in various ways in various

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narrations. But in this narration, he says in

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the last 3rd of the night and following

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the prescribed

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prayers.

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And so you make du'a

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at that time.

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The time between the adhan and the aqamah

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is

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an important time. The hadith says that a

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dua offered between the Adhan and the Akama

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is not rejected.

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And this is also the time where you

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just wanna be still. You wanna be silent.

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Right?

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Is with the prophet

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he tells him to call the Adan and

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he says,

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right, that, like, bring us calm, relief, ease

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with it.

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You know, you can't benefit

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from

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the listening of something without listening to it.

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And to get to a place of peace

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with stillness.

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The Quran is being recited. The Adan is

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being called.

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The

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imam is leading the prayer. You want to

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just hear from all of your organs of

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sensory perception

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and to be able to partake in it

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and perceive its beauty. So So you're really

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listening to the words.

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And it's not possible to learn if you're

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not listening. And if you're talking, there's no

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way that you're listening.

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So

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that whosoever believes in Allah in the last

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day, let him speak good or be silent.

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That the default state is that you just

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don't wanna talk. But if you're gonna talk,

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make sure you're saying something good. And between

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the adhan and the akama,

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that's when you want to just take in

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the barakah and you wanna be making duas.

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Those are the words that you want to.

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Right? And you get into the habit. If

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you can go to the masjid where the

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adhan and the Akama is called, amazing.

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But start doing it in your own homes

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as well.

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Whether you are praying by yourself, you have

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other people praying with you. Right? You call

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the Akama,

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right? You are in a space where you're

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bringing barakah to these things and you create

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the experience of having the opportunity to make

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du'a at that time.

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Another time where Dua is accepted

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is, when the rain falls. Right? And the

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prophet

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says there are 2 which will not be

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rejected. Dua at the time of the Adan

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and when it is raining.

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Right? And Barakah in and of itself

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has a

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connotation of just falling.

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Like, it's something that comes from above.

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You know? Like, when you make dua before

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you eat,

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Right? It's the dua that we're told to

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eat

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before you eat. You know, what we're taught

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is that the barakah is like literally

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pouring from the dua into your food,

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and it's now kind of engulfing it.

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Right? And that last bit of food is

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the most blessed. That's why you wanna eat

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it because the barakah has been descending as

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it's been coming, but barakah descends.

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Rain also descends.

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Right?

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So the Quran, it's sent down. The malaika,

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the angels, they're sent down on Laylatul Qadr.

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And so the rain is a time.

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When the rain is there, it's a time

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that we're taught that du'a is accepted.

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So you want to actively pause when the

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rain is falling and make du'a.

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There's a hadith that says that,

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on the day of Jum'ah

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that there is a time on that day

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that when someone

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stands and prays Allah and asks of Allah

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that Allah will give it to him. And

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the hadith says that

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that part of the day is fairly short.

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It's not a long period of the day.

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Another part is when we're in sajd sajdah.

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Right? The position itself

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is an important time to make dua and

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there's different opinions on if you're praying afar

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the prayer, can you, in your sajdah,

00:28:00 --> 00:28:02

make whatever duas that you want

00:28:03 --> 00:28:05

or not? Right? Allah knows best, but

00:28:06 --> 00:28:08

you can, in that place, like, look and

00:28:08 --> 00:28:10

look at the mud hub that you follow

00:28:10 --> 00:28:13

and ask your teachers, right, as to

00:28:13 --> 00:28:15

according to the school of thought, what is

00:28:15 --> 00:28:16

it that they prescribe?

00:28:17 --> 00:28:18

Is it something that you can do in

00:28:18 --> 00:28:21

any prayers, just in, like, the knafel prayers,

00:28:21 --> 00:28:24

the sunnah prayers, and Allah knows best. But

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the prostration is an important part

00:28:26 --> 00:28:27

of the du'a.

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The zamzam water when you drink it, the

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hadith says that zamzam

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water is for that which it is drunk.

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So somebody brings you zamzam

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from Mecca, from they go for Umrah or

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Hajj. You don't just keep it in your

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fridge and just let it sit there. Drink

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it.

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It's distinct from drinking regular water. Tzumzum

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has a distinct sunnah to it that you

00:28:49 --> 00:28:51

drink it standing and you face towards the

00:28:51 --> 00:28:53

gaba when you're drinking it. And when you're

00:28:53 --> 00:28:56

done drinking it, you make dua for whatever

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it is you want to because that's what

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the hadith says. Zamzam

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is,

00:29:03 --> 00:29:05

that zamzam is for that which it was

00:29:05 --> 00:29:08

drunk. Right? So you're drinking zamzam, make dua

00:29:08 --> 00:29:10

after you're done with it.

00:29:12 --> 00:29:14

When you go through some kind of difficulty,

00:29:15 --> 00:29:16

there's,

00:29:16 --> 00:29:17

opportunity

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to make du'a

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when one is in a state of illness,

00:29:22 --> 00:29:24

a state of travel. You know, it's a

00:29:24 --> 00:29:25

time that you can make du'a,

00:29:26 --> 00:29:27

the prayer of the oppressed,

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the prayer of the one who is held

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down,

00:29:30 --> 00:29:32

the dua of a father for his child,

00:29:33 --> 00:29:35

a dua of benefit, the dua of a

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fasting person as they fast,

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the dua of a fasting person when they

00:29:40 --> 00:29:42

break their fast. Right?

00:29:43 --> 00:29:45

These are duas that are

00:29:47 --> 00:29:48

more readily accepted.

00:29:49 --> 00:29:51

You also have the Dua that you can

00:29:51 --> 00:29:52

actively play

00:29:53 --> 00:29:56

for the one who has passed away from

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this world.

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That the hadith says that there are 3

00:29:59 --> 00:30:02

things that a person leaves behind that will

00:30:02 --> 00:30:03

benefit them,

00:30:03 --> 00:30:05

when they leave from this world. One is

00:30:05 --> 00:30:07

a siddhaka jadia, an ongoing charity.

00:30:08 --> 00:30:09

2,

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knowledge that they have imparted upon someone that

00:30:12 --> 00:30:14

when they act upon it that,

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there's benefits still derived. And 3rd is a

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believing child

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that prays,

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a righteous child that prays for them. Right?

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So you are what's left behind.

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Mig Dua for the people that you know

00:30:28 --> 00:30:30

who have passed away.

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There's many other instances, but we wanted to

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go through just a handful to illustrate that

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there's a lot of different opportunities,

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states in which du'a is said to be

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more readily accepted,

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so you want to take advantage of those

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duas and advantage of those times, and you're

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calling upon Al Mujib, the one who is

00:30:50 --> 00:30:52

calling the one who responds to your prayers.

00:30:53 --> 00:30:53

Right?

00:30:54 --> 00:30:55

So you

00:30:55 --> 00:30:57

now have, like, different etiquette

00:30:57 --> 00:30:59

in making the dua. You could be in

00:30:59 --> 00:31:01

a state of wudu, that's great. If you're

00:31:01 --> 00:31:03

not in a state of wudu, you can

00:31:03 --> 00:31:05

still make dua. You wanna try to face

00:31:05 --> 00:31:07

the Kaaba if you can. If you can't,

00:31:07 --> 00:31:08

you could still make dua.

00:31:09 --> 00:31:12

Right? The formula through which we make dua,

00:31:12 --> 00:31:14

it's recommended to first begin in the name

00:31:14 --> 00:31:16

of Allah. So there's a hadith that says

00:31:20 --> 00:31:20

that

00:31:21 --> 00:31:23

every affair that does not begin in the

00:31:23 --> 00:31:26

name of Allah, then it's cut off. And

00:31:26 --> 00:31:29

in some narrations, the word Bismillah is replaced

00:31:29 --> 00:31:30

with the word Alhamdulillah,

00:31:30 --> 00:31:33

and in some narrations, the word Abtar is

00:31:33 --> 00:31:34

replaced with the word Akhtar,

00:31:35 --> 00:31:36

and the cutting off

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from the distinction between the 2 is like

00:31:39 --> 00:31:40

a literal cutting off. So if you can

00:31:40 --> 00:31:41

conceptualize

00:31:41 --> 00:31:43

that here's something that has continuity,

00:31:44 --> 00:31:47

then one is essentially cut off from one

00:31:47 --> 00:31:48

end, the other is cut off from the

00:31:48 --> 00:31:51

other end. So when you start, you start

00:31:51 --> 00:31:53

in Allah's name and you send praise to

00:31:53 --> 00:31:55

Allah, Bismillah Wa Alhamdulillah.

00:31:56 --> 00:31:59

The second dua then formulaically that you make

00:31:59 --> 00:32:01

is you want to send peace and blessings

00:32:01 --> 00:32:02

upon the prophet

00:32:04 --> 00:32:07

Then you have sandwiched in there the dua

00:32:07 --> 00:32:08

that you want to make. And then at

00:32:08 --> 00:32:11

the end of it, you again send peace

00:32:11 --> 00:32:13

and blessings upon the prophet Muhammad and

00:32:14 --> 00:32:17

you again invoke the divine.

00:32:17 --> 00:32:20

The idea in starting and ending with these

00:32:20 --> 00:32:21

duas,

00:32:21 --> 00:32:24

in Allah's name, praising Allah,

00:32:24 --> 00:32:25

sending dourud,

00:32:26 --> 00:32:28

is that these are duas that are accepted.

00:32:28 --> 00:32:30

And so if you're starting and ending with

00:32:30 --> 00:32:31

duas that are accepted,

00:32:32 --> 00:32:35

then there's in the middle which you're sending

00:32:35 --> 00:32:36

now more of a likelihood

00:32:37 --> 00:32:39

that it'll be accepted as well. When you're

00:32:39 --> 00:32:40

making du'a,

00:32:41 --> 00:32:43

you can't make du'a for something that's haram.

00:32:44 --> 00:32:45

That's not a du'a

00:32:45 --> 00:32:48

that is permitted to make.

00:32:48 --> 00:32:51

And there's so much more that is permissible

00:32:51 --> 00:32:52

than impermissible.

00:32:53 --> 00:32:54

So you don't want to get affixated

00:32:55 --> 00:32:58

on just what is outside of the boundaries

00:32:58 --> 00:32:59

of Sharia.

00:32:59 --> 00:33:01

And if you don't know what those things

00:33:01 --> 00:33:03

are or you're struggling with something,

00:33:03 --> 00:33:05

you turn to somebody

00:33:05 --> 00:33:07

who you can talk to that can help

00:33:07 --> 00:33:09

you navigate that as to why your heart's

00:33:09 --> 00:33:12

attached to what it is. But somebody makes

00:33:12 --> 00:33:15

sense. Right? Empathetic listening. Allah is al Mujib.

00:33:15 --> 00:33:18

He's hearing. He's listening. He's responding.

00:33:18 --> 00:33:21

So you want to turn to somebody who

00:33:21 --> 00:33:23

can help you make sense. That's not going

00:33:23 --> 00:33:24

to listen

00:33:24 --> 00:33:26

to be in a place where they just

00:33:26 --> 00:33:28

put you down, but they're listening to understand.

00:33:29 --> 00:33:31

They can help you to navigate some of

00:33:31 --> 00:33:34

these things. Right? So of the duas that

00:33:34 --> 00:33:36

you make, just don't make anything for anything

00:33:36 --> 00:33:37

that's haram.

00:33:37 --> 00:33:39

And when you're making dua,

00:33:39 --> 00:33:41

you understand who it is that you're making

00:33:41 --> 00:33:44

dua to. So if you're going to ask

00:33:44 --> 00:33:44

of the divine,

00:33:45 --> 00:33:47

then you ask in a way that recognizes

00:33:47 --> 00:33:49

that Allah is the creator of everything. So

00:33:49 --> 00:33:52

you're not gonna just ask for agenda, but

00:33:52 --> 00:33:54

ask for the highest levels of agenda. Don't

00:33:54 --> 00:33:55

ask just for dunya.

00:33:56 --> 00:33:57

Ask for the best in the akhirah.

00:33:58 --> 00:34:00

Why would you want something just as temporary?

00:34:01 --> 00:34:03

Think about something that exists forever,

00:34:03 --> 00:34:04

eternal existence.

00:34:05 --> 00:34:08

And so I wanna come back to one

00:34:08 --> 00:34:09

of the things that we were talking about

00:34:09 --> 00:34:10

before

00:34:10 --> 00:34:13

because it comes up quite often for many

00:34:13 --> 00:34:15

that say, I'm making du'a to Allah but

00:34:15 --> 00:34:18

I don't feel like it's being responded to.

00:34:18 --> 00:34:19

You don't wanna conceptualize

00:34:20 --> 00:34:22

the divine as like a birthday cake that

00:34:22 --> 00:34:24

you're making a wish and that a wish

00:34:24 --> 00:34:25

is being granted.

00:34:26 --> 00:34:28

Allah is not like a magic lamp that

00:34:28 --> 00:34:31

you're just beseeching and invoking in that way.

00:34:31 --> 00:34:34

But as we said before, think about Allah's

00:34:34 --> 00:34:35

al Mujib,

00:34:35 --> 00:34:36

the one who responds

00:34:37 --> 00:34:39

in the context of also that he is

00:34:39 --> 00:34:41

Rahman, that he is wudud,

00:34:41 --> 00:34:43

that he is alim, that he is al

00:34:43 --> 00:34:44

basir.

00:34:44 --> 00:34:46

He's all of these things and so much

00:34:46 --> 00:34:46

more,

00:34:47 --> 00:34:49

but Allah is also al Hakim.

00:34:50 --> 00:34:52

And if you can recognize that he is

00:34:54 --> 00:34:56

that we say, right, in that

00:34:56 --> 00:34:57

he's

00:34:57 --> 00:35:00

the most wise and that he's the most

00:35:00 --> 00:35:02

wise of anything that has wisdom.

00:35:03 --> 00:35:06

And so it is not in my rationale

00:35:07 --> 00:35:09

or in my best sensibility

00:35:10 --> 00:35:11

that I'm determining,

00:35:11 --> 00:35:13

well, what du'a

00:35:13 --> 00:35:14

is something

00:35:14 --> 00:35:16

that should be best for me. But I

00:35:16 --> 00:35:18

get to a place where I can now

00:35:18 --> 00:35:19

start to think

00:35:20 --> 00:35:21

constructively and critically

00:35:22 --> 00:35:24

that Allah is Al Hakim.

00:35:25 --> 00:35:27

So he is now in

00:35:27 --> 00:35:28

control.

00:35:28 --> 00:35:31

And by his wisdom, I'm turning to him

00:35:31 --> 00:35:33

knowing that he's not gonna put into my

00:35:33 --> 00:35:36

life something that's not going to be good

00:35:36 --> 00:35:38

for me. And so

00:35:38 --> 00:35:41

where and how we can reconcile this. Right?

00:35:41 --> 00:35:42

We're taught through the hadith

00:35:43 --> 00:35:44

that when you make dua,

00:35:45 --> 00:35:47

your duas are either responded to,

00:35:48 --> 00:35:50

meaning you're given what you're asked. They're deferred,

00:35:50 --> 00:35:52

meaning you're gonna get it later

00:35:52 --> 00:35:54

in this world or you're getting in Jannah.

00:35:55 --> 00:35:57

And as hard as it is, right, this

00:35:57 --> 00:36:00

world proportionally to the world that comes beyond

00:36:00 --> 00:36:00

this,

00:36:01 --> 00:36:03

you want to have what your heart desires

00:36:03 --> 00:36:05

in a place that's forever. May Allah make

00:36:05 --> 00:36:07

us all people of paradise.

00:36:07 --> 00:36:08

But

00:36:08 --> 00:36:11

you have that deference that's there or

00:36:12 --> 00:36:13

that the dua is

00:36:14 --> 00:36:14

prevented

00:36:15 --> 00:36:17

because it's keeping something bad from happening.

00:36:18 --> 00:36:21

So you rely on Allah's Al Hakim when

00:36:21 --> 00:36:23

you are asking of him as Al Mujib,

00:36:23 --> 00:36:25

that he is the most wise

00:36:25 --> 00:36:27

the most wise of those who have wisdom.

00:36:28 --> 00:36:29

And it is in his wisdom

00:36:30 --> 00:36:32

that he will respond to that dua. Not

00:36:32 --> 00:36:34

your wisdom, not my wisdom,

00:36:35 --> 00:36:36

Not our rationale.

00:36:36 --> 00:36:39

But in a space where we can now

00:36:39 --> 00:36:40

feel liberated.

00:36:41 --> 00:36:43

That I'm turning to the entity that doesn't

00:36:43 --> 00:36:46

just watch me but watches over me. My

00:36:46 --> 00:36:47

provider, my sustainer,

00:36:48 --> 00:36:49

the one who put me in this world,

00:36:49 --> 00:36:51

the one who's gonna take me out of

00:36:51 --> 00:36:55

it. My rub, al Rahman, al Raheem, al

00:36:55 --> 00:36:56

Wadud, al Latif,

00:36:57 --> 00:36:57

al Halim,

00:36:58 --> 00:37:00

all of this and more.

00:37:03 --> 00:37:05

The other things that we want to just

00:37:05 --> 00:37:08

think about are the states that we're making

00:37:08 --> 00:37:09

du'a in. So if you're in a place

00:37:09 --> 00:37:10

that's agitated,

00:37:10 --> 00:37:12

it's gonna be hard if your heart's not

00:37:12 --> 00:37:13

attentive to make dua.

00:37:14 --> 00:37:16

You don't wanna be distracted. You don't wanna

00:37:16 --> 00:37:18

get pulled away. We have the Hadith where

00:37:18 --> 00:37:20

the prophet tells us, Right? Like, we have

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

the tasbih Fatima

00:37:22 --> 00:37:23

that many of us know

00:37:25 --> 00:37:27

where we're taught at the conclusion of a

00:37:27 --> 00:37:27

prayer, you say

00:37:30 --> 00:37:32

33, 33, 34 times.

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

And there is another hadith where the prophet,

00:37:36 --> 00:37:38

he tells his companions, just say

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

10 times, Alhamdulillah

00:37:40 --> 00:37:43

10 times, Allahu Akbar 10 times after every

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

Fard prayer.

00:37:44 --> 00:37:47

And if you do that, it's gonna be

00:37:47 --> 00:37:49

written for you 10 times over. So 30

00:37:49 --> 00:37:52

times, 5, a 150, 10 times over,

00:37:53 --> 00:37:53

1500

00:37:55 --> 00:37:57

times it'll be written for you. And then

00:37:57 --> 00:37:59

he says to them, there's gonna come a

00:37:59 --> 00:38:00

time where people won't do it.

00:38:01 --> 00:38:03

The companions say, why would they not do

00:38:03 --> 00:38:04

it? It's so simple.

00:38:04 --> 00:38:06

He said because their hearts are gonna get

00:38:06 --> 00:38:08

pulled by something else. Something else is gonna

00:38:08 --> 00:38:11

distract them. What you're learning right now in

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

Ramadan is your capacity to make dua,

00:38:14 --> 00:38:16

that you have the ability to actually sit

00:38:16 --> 00:38:18

after a prayer. You have the ability to

00:38:18 --> 00:38:21

actually stand in the night, to wake up

00:38:21 --> 00:38:23

early in the last 3rd of the night,

00:38:23 --> 00:38:25

to make the Hajjud. You might not do

00:38:25 --> 00:38:27

it every day. You might not need to

00:38:27 --> 00:38:29

do it every day. You do it in

00:38:29 --> 00:38:31

a capacity that makes sense for you that

00:38:31 --> 00:38:33

you first recognize your capacity.

00:38:33 --> 00:38:35

And so what's going to keep you from

00:38:35 --> 00:38:38

sitting and simply first making the dua in

00:38:38 --> 00:38:40

the first place? You get rid of the

00:38:40 --> 00:38:40

distractions.

00:38:41 --> 00:38:42

You get rid of the agitations.

00:38:43 --> 00:38:45

You allow for yourself to be comfortable with

00:38:45 --> 00:38:46

the stillness.

00:38:46 --> 00:38:49

And then you turn, you Mujib, you are

00:38:49 --> 00:38:50

the answer of all prayers.

00:38:50 --> 00:38:53

You Kareem, you are the most generous, the

00:38:53 --> 00:38:54

most high, the most noble,

00:38:55 --> 00:38:56

that Allah

00:38:56 --> 00:38:57

as

00:38:57 --> 00:38:58

Al Kareem

00:38:58 --> 00:39:00

does not turn us away.

00:39:00 --> 00:39:03

So the only ingredient that's missing is that

00:39:03 --> 00:39:06

we have to make the dua that only

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

we can make. And so you dig deep

00:39:08 --> 00:39:10

and you start to use these nights for

00:39:10 --> 00:39:13

it. And so what I would suggest just

00:39:13 --> 00:39:14

as we've said before

00:39:15 --> 00:39:17

is that you want to write out a

00:39:17 --> 00:39:20

dua. Write out a du'a directed to Allah's

00:39:20 --> 00:39:20

al Mujib.

00:39:21 --> 00:39:24

Write it out, Yeah Mujib, and then whatever

00:39:24 --> 00:39:24

comes.

00:39:25 --> 00:39:28

But look now at the other names of

00:39:28 --> 00:39:30

the divine that we have been taught.

00:39:30 --> 00:39:32

You can do a Google search, 99 names

00:39:32 --> 00:39:34

of Allah, Asma and Husna,

00:39:35 --> 00:39:36

names of Allah.

00:39:36 --> 00:39:38

You'll get lists with translations.

00:39:38 --> 00:39:41

Can't speak Arabic, which is fine. Read the

00:39:41 --> 00:39:41

translation.

00:39:42 --> 00:39:45

But think about this particular name, Al Mujib,

00:39:46 --> 00:39:48

in the context of other names that are

00:39:48 --> 00:39:50

on those lists that you are going to

00:39:50 --> 00:39:51

Google.

00:39:51 --> 00:39:54

And then think about how you draw and

00:39:54 --> 00:39:56

deepen the meaning of Al Mujib

00:39:56 --> 00:39:59

in relation to what it is you're learning

00:39:59 --> 00:40:00

of these other names.

00:40:01 --> 00:40:03

And then as you continue on with it,

00:40:03 --> 00:40:05

Imam Ghazali has a book on the 99

00:40:05 --> 00:40:08

names of Allah, the beautiful names of Allah

00:40:08 --> 00:40:10

that's in English you can get. There's a

00:40:10 --> 00:40:11

lot of books that are there that are

00:40:11 --> 00:40:12

amazing.

00:40:12 --> 00:40:14

You just spend time in the same manner

00:40:14 --> 00:40:16

that we've been doing these last few weeks.

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

Write out the du'a,

00:40:19 --> 00:40:21

utilizing the divine name you're studying.

00:40:21 --> 00:40:23

Think about how you see examples

00:40:23 --> 00:40:24

of

00:40:24 --> 00:40:25

that

00:40:25 --> 00:40:26

divine

00:40:26 --> 00:40:27

characteristic

00:40:27 --> 00:40:31

embodied in the world around you, mercy, compassion,

00:40:31 --> 00:40:32

love.

00:40:33 --> 00:40:35

And then think about how you can actualize

00:40:35 --> 00:40:38

it if there's capacity to do so. So

00:40:38 --> 00:40:39

we can't

00:40:40 --> 00:40:41

actualize being Al Khaliq.

00:40:42 --> 00:40:43

Allah alone is Alkhalic.

00:40:43 --> 00:40:44

Right?

00:40:44 --> 00:40:45

But fundamentally,

00:40:45 --> 00:40:49

there's other divine names that we can think.

00:40:49 --> 00:40:52

Well, how do I live mercy? How do

00:40:52 --> 00:40:53

I live compassion?

00:40:53 --> 00:40:54

How do I live

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wisdom? How do I live gentleness?

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And so much more.

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If I can be helpful to any of

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you as things go on, please let me

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know. I'm gonna put my email address here

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in the chat box again. And I know

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some of you have already reached out and

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have read the messages you sent to me.

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I,

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am happy to set up times to talk

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with you if that's helpful as well.

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But if this is the last time that

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we're meant to spend time together,

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at least in this worldly plane, then I

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make dua that Allah

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gathers us all together again in the best

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of places in the world beyond this one.

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And please utilize these last nights of Ramadan

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to the best of your ability.

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Engage in conversation with the divine. Make du'a

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to Allah.

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Pray.

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Read the Quran.

00:41:44 --> 00:41:46

Engage in acts of charity.

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Do whatever it is that you can do,

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take advantage of every moment.

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Inshallah,

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Allah

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will accept from all of us

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and for the duas that we make that

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he will respond to them. You Mujeeb, respond

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to our duas. You Kareem, respond to our

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duas

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and give to us even better than what

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it is that we are asking of you.

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