Sins Of The Tongue

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In Alhamdulilah

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Nakamoto, who won a stallion who won a stock photo?

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When he means Rudy fusina

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Amina

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Maja De La Villa

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de la

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ilaha illallah wa who la sharika

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wash Mohammedan Abu rasuluh

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Yo, yo holla Deena. Taco Maha tokachi wanna come?

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to Muslim moon?

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Yeah, Johan de Pura vida como la de Holla

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Holla caminhada in Houma, regionalen Cathy along

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with De La Villa de

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Luna de Haan in namaha Kannada merkiva

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la Vina mano de la kulu Colin sadita you slept?

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Well.

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Where are you? How are Rasulullah muhfucka de faza was an AVI ma,

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ma for Ignace vocal Howdy.

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Howdy howdy Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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washougal

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wakulla Masdar City Mita

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wakulla, with the Ottoman Walla Walla Walla Walla in finham.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam, when Allah subhana wa Taala created these faculties,

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inside or in our bodies, he sent us messengers to direct us towards the best way to use them.

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For example,

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the sexual desire

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it is knowing that there is an inclination towards the other gender.

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Now, the best way to use that is to get married to fulfill that desire.

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The love for wolf

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that all of us like to be well off, you can go ahead and you know, try to earn unlawful earnings in order to be rich, or try to be rich through unlawful business transactions or trading in something that is haram. But this is not something that Allah subhana wa Taala would be pleased with the best way for you to fulfill that desire, that

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basically, thing that you have inside your heart towards wealth is through lawful means the eyes of Allah subhanho wa Taala giving these eyes to us in order to reflect upon what he created. And in order to look at the beautiful things Allah subhanho wa Taala created around us. And in order to learn lessons from them.

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You could use it in other things, you can actually use it to look into unlawful materials, things that you're not supposed to look at. Or you can use it to spy with your eyes Yani to steal something with your eyes, the hearing, and I can go on and on and on and on. But there is one limb in the body, which we read in the Hadith, that every single day. The rest of the limbs of the body

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would bend that limb, Please behave today.

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Please behave today.

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We're subject to human because of you or we're subject to salvation because of you

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that Lynne is the tongue

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and Abdullayev nematode roseola one, he had a very profound statement when he said that if there is a limb in your body that needs a life sentence to be jailed, that you place it behind and your whole unit is yours.

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And when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam warned us regarding hellfire.

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And we mentioned in particular the tongue

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of the Allah one.

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He was amazed by the fact that the tongue would be one of the reasons for us to be thrown into hell. He said, O Messenger of Allah, do people go through hell fire because of their tongue Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam confirm that, and then another Hadith which is authentic. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, however, biotechs are sick use two limbs in his body. I will secure Jenna for him.

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Man, young man, Lee, man, in effect, he was vain. v ogma hujan if you make sure that you're protecting what is between the two jewels, and what is between the two fies in reference to the private port, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam guarantee Jenna for you.

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Sins of the tongue.

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Many of them backbiting gossiping, Nina tail carrying

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lying

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there which witnessing false testimony, cheating and so forth. But you know, I really want to say a disclaimer here. Before I go on with the football. I'm not talking about any of you. And so Pamela, every time I give the football, every one things that I'm talking about him actually am talking about me. Because you know what? We're all guilty one way or another of one of these types. Whether we do it this way or this way, we are all guilty of it. We're human, we're weak. But, you know, in a way, the religion of Islam came to govern and structure this tongue Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us what to use that tongue for? You use it for the recitation of the Quran. Use it for

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the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala. You use it to enjoin good and forbid evil, use it to mend relationship. There is this is the usage. But that negative usage of the tongue is a reason to go to hell. And we're here just to warn ourselves against this.

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To begin Yeah,

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I tell you right now, the tongue is the spoiler of the relationship.

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it spoils people's relationship with one another, rather than a truven Quran wakulla eva de aku Letty he a son in a shaitan a Enza who Bina whom? Oh, Mohammed Salim Ali wasallam kill my slaves when they speak. They choose the words carefully. And they need to that the words that come out of their mouth doesn't carry meanings different than what they were intended for. Because shaitan will play on the recepients.

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What did he mean by that? Why did he say that? What did he even do? The intention of the sender is totally pure, but the work will be done on who? And the recipient of the information or of the saying of whatever you're saying.

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it spoils the relationship. And Subhanallah we find a lot of problems in our homes, in our Sushil circles, small or large in our communities, because he said she said he said she said

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for you what is the first and foremost sin, which are Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the Quran have actually warned us against it.

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Though three names here, that they are very related, but they are totally different to one another. Just remember them via which we call

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backbiting.

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Though then, slung during all,

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rumors, rumor mongering, that you spread a rumor about somebody we call this book

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and the third is called Nina

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tales, Carrie.

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mean those three focus on those three

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Salam ala Muslim? Howdy ebihara Ravi Allah one. He one day salovaara Salim asked his companions at aduna Mel ye

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D you know what backbiting is? What is oibre is, of course the Sahaba

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out of politeness, they said Allahu wa rasuluh Allah, Allah and His Messenger Novus, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam answered the question by saying, backbiting the cuca haka de Maria,

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that you say something about someone else in the absence. Here's the criteria. They would not like it, they hate for you to say it.

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Here's the question that is in your mind, you're a

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messenger of Allah. Allah in Cana Fie. What if I am saying that what I'm saying about this person is true.

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is true color in Cana?

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Tabitha, if what you're saying about this person is true. You have that victim, still, what? neocon fee and that's the second brand for cagiva. And that will book that if he doesn't have what you're saying then you're slandering him. So those are the two

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those are the two

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bottom so the criteria

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for backbiting that the person doesn't like it to be said about them in their absence. But yet what comes in a question, because this subject is totally connected to another Hanif

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Hakuna, this is a general verdict or ruling fact way on. So you must restrict it. There are some cases where you find yourself having to backbite

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having to say certain things about people in their absence, they would not like

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Jani method as usual. Hi, Eva. Here's the question, when is it permissible for you to say things about an individual in the absence which they do not like?

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There are six cases.

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And like I said,

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this has to do with the right for Muslim on another Muslim.

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But what are the six cases? The scholars put them in a

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very Ceriani a poem, they said, I'll

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be rebutting thesis that in backbiting is not considered to be backbiting in six cases number one most powerful leaning we'll go over them one by one. What do we mean by

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someone who wronged

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someone you took away his money?

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He's gonna go to the man supposedly not until him what this person is good. You're gonna back by that person for sure he would not like that. But here's the trick. Here's the trick.

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And our culture in particular back back home, that when you want to get it's ideally when lawyers send you that

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that letter that you have to respond to and 10 days.

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You know, I like brothers have told me the whole time. You know, you throw a lot of dirt in them and the wool and you're hoping one or two what will stick. You can do this as a Muslim. You can say okay, I want to get him in trouble. So I'm gonna say the only thing that took $10 $10 away from you, that's the only injustice that he committed against you. That's it, no more, no less. Then you go to the

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authority and you say he kicked me he beaten my wife up he to my children up to

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law. Islam says no more.

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Only the area where you were wrong. What is the evidence for this a verse in Surah Nisa and Hadith.

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The verse says, you hit

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a wall in a lawsuit

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Hello, Allah would not like you to speak bad about others, unless you're wrong and you want to bring that you're right. Well, how do you feel?

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A man came to the Prophet salallahu Salam ala rasulillah genryu the overseer of Allah, my neighbor is inflicting harm upon me.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to him, take your belongings out of the house and stand on the road, as if you're homeless.

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And if when the people ask you, why are you doing this?

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Tell them about your neighbor.

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He did. He took his stuff out and he stood by the street and all his his dead than his Mahathir fula. And what what is wrong with your sources? My neighbor

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that people would say Lana, Houma,

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mela mela, they would. That's a bad neighbor.

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So Salah knew that. So the neighbor ran to the Prophet salallahu salam, ala rasulillah, please, I'm sorry, I will not do this again. Can you please ask him to take yourself back? Again yet? Why did this neighbor do this because of injustice that was committed against him. But now

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we have to be extremely careful when we say that. Allah wa salam was a judge and a Mufti at the same time. He was a judge and a Mufti at the same time, for sure the Prophet sallallahu wasallam verified the allegation. You see, for me, for me as an Imam, for example, the people call you share this brother took this and this and this and this and this from me.

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I tell him listen,

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I'm only gonna give you the fact what based on what you tell me, but I'm not a judge.

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There is a difference between because a judge has to do what he has to hear both sides of the story.

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If you're going to sit out there and arbitrate become an arbiter you want to do this dude, you have to hear both sides because every story I'm telling you has what

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we

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call a man who sort of thought because of this subject,

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the size that we read in and then sort of thought regarding our I'm sorry, the prophet de la sala, look at in

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look at look at this, look at this case. 100% true, look,

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this activity so now, this is my brother, he has 99 sheep, and I have one sheep and he want to take it away from me. He was tested Brava Suleiman was tested.

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Prophet Solomon did not here the one. The other one is la kavala B. So Elena Jessica, Elena Hodge, he wronged you, by making that request, you want to take away this one from you, immediately they would realize that he made a mistake as a judge what

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a NEMA fat and now whoever stole for

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you went down in

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the fetal if

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you have to differentiate between one guru an Imam and giving him a fatwa. Without him hearing God is gonna give you a fatwa not not not an arbitration, not a decision not a verdict is gonna give you an opinion, but for this Imam to enforce or move this forward, like in this particular scenario here, you have to hear the other side of the story. So the first one, I will control a salary but in FY 13 matava Lehman, you're being wrong. Number two.

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If you live in Colorado,

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and one of the community members living here, went and he proposed to a sister in New Jersey.

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What about that? The Guardian calls you?

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Who do you know in Colorado? I know. Brother so brother so brother, so he calls your Salaam Alaikum.

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My name is so and so.

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My

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daughter is up for marriage. And there is a proposal from Colorado from brother so and so. What do you say about this rather? Now? What What is your take on this? Hmm? If this brother drinks Shouldn't you tell that father that he drinks

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then it's permissible?

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It's permissible here. But be careful.

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A leaf, a leaf, be careful, give only the information that turns the person away.

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Just say brother, I don't advise you.

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That's a better way but don't do. Oh, he drains he sells marijuana. Oh, he runs along the Who? Some people when it comes to that their intention is not that their intention is to get back at the person is makeup to make up you know, Oh, I got this guy now I know I have a legal Sharia sanction situation where I cannot eat his flesh.

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You have to give

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a woman came to him, call it your Rasul Allah,

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O Messenger of Allah. In number one, Jeremy with me, not Abu Jen. Another one wasabia hapa. Bernie, they propose to me.

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What did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said to her, he said to her, listen, Maria,

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is poof, he doesn't have money,

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he's not gonna be able to support you. But look at the second one, that's you can go around this one.

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You can go around telling somebody Listen, he doesn't have money, you know, that's right, the brother is applying for the car all the time. And, you know, you need to be aware of that, that you're gonna, you know, be there waiting for your daughter. Yeah, you should tell them that before they go any farther. But look at the second one. As for him, he doesn't take down the stick from his shoulder, he carries a sticker on his shoulder all the time.

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What that means equals a stick. Use your imagination now.

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Meaning the stick is very handy. If you make him upset, that's way to interpret it if you make him upset.

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Or in the Arabian culture, when a person carries a sticking on his shoulder, meaning he has water on one side, and food and the other side, you know, they rub the water one side and he puts it that means he's never going to be around the house. You make you again, the point here, don't use that platform as a premise as an excuse to go after the honor and the integrity of the person no, give only the information needed to turn this person away from that decision. If you are certain about that.

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vc matava limin

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Mojave in Mojave, that you're warning people against an individual.

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For example, you know that someone is hanging around your children.

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And that person smokes, or that person is a bad person, he's a bad influence. You should go to that parent, if you have seen that. You should go to that parent and say listen, I saw your son hanging around the person. I would like you to be extra careful. You know, I show this in a brief way. Why? Because you want to own the person. Ideally. This is why I mean, some of you will say this shift next around about the people who commit but as he mentioned these guys

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against it

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does innovations because that's what I believe I'm warning you, again is innovations. I'm warning you against people who do not breach the truth. And we have a lot of those.

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Salah mentioned that there will be scholars who will be calling Dini to hell. And they're very eloquent, they can actually convince you. So my job is to warn you if I know that there is somebody out there who's not reaching the truth and this person is getting to you. My job is to warn you again is the person is not backbiting. No, that is that but be careful. Don't use this now, because I'm jealous because he's on the same field. You know that the P of jealousy kind of thing? Because he has more

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Facebook fans or more YouTube videos then I go out law that should not be the intention.

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That should not be the intention.

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The intention should be what should be just to show you

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one day and that goes to the wives. He spoke about Sophia in front of our issue. You know the story right?

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So I shut out of jealousy.

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That what triggered was jealousy?

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So she's warning him against her color. She said to him has spoken in Sofia imnaha

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this

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okay cool Luca serum 102 respect to the brothers who are Jani? casilando in the Arabic culture like everyone who's very short normally is very tricky if you beam B that's actually in the culture we have the Arabian culture that the people who are very sure they are very tricky tricky in a negative we hit it. Good Lucas here in Mackey's that's how

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Jani she will say that has spoken on Sophia because she's what

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she shows Sophia show. But look, her intention was not really the purity of the advice left. Viola. her intention is what?

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Jealousy she's omona our mother, Isola Bella Juana. She loved her miss her husband, she loved the messenger and this happened. This happened all the time. But Luca Rasul Allah wa Salaam says, la Pulte kalama have said a kelemen lo lucija. Bina

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Xu Fei, what are the impact of backbiting?

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You have said a word if it is to be mixed with the water of the ocean. If that words, which you said one word would have a color, the color of that word will change the color of the ocean.

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Imagine this

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theory but in FY 13, we said someone who's wrong. You try and let people know about winning people again to somebody, or you're trying to let people know about somebody's business partner, someone who's proposing for marriage and so forth. We all know j fiskardo. That's case number for someone who obeys Allah subhana wa Tada. Someone who knows, you know that he goes around, he's holding the joint in his hand, he smokes marijuana, man, he gets high, you saw him with your own eyes, getting drunk, some wave. ob is open. But again, be careful. Your warning, that's the intention. If you can go in bribe it, and correct the person. That is a lot better. And with that particular ruling as

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well, because a lot of the brothers when we bring up the subject, they almost bring up the question, what about our Muslim?

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What about a non Muslim? Can I back by Tim? Can I back by non Muslims? The scholars differ in this field, but they say a non Muslim, whether he is a combatant, meaning is fighting, you're on a state of war declared war. It's definitely permissible to backbite declared.

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And we know that the protocol of this now you cannot back by him because of his creation. Because of a defect in his body. You can see

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he's this Yes, that's haram because as a law, you're really

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talking bad about what Allah has fashioned and created. So you're not talking because who made who made him who made him this way? But here's the third one. If this person is not combatant, he is not inflicting harm upon you. It's only permissible to back by him regarding his disbelief. The other Muslim he's not a Muslim. You can say that about him. You can say he's not almost other than that. No.

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No, you cannot. You cannot. But you can say he's not a Muslim. He doesn't believe he doesn't you know, you can say that about that person. For Mojo here on fisco. Number five, one more stuff. That you go to the show. And you asked for a photo, one

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piece of hint been talked about? The wife of Abby, Sophia and she went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sakala Thea rasulillah she said O Messenger of Allah in Allah Sophia and Rajan miseq. Abu sufian is a

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you know and the wives will be very happy the sisters inshallah they will come more often to Dotto here now, because of this hadith Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam said to him, who the Maya Ke Ke y x z wala decadal maruf meaning his stingy doesn't spend in us He doesn't give the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam directed or take from his wife without his knowledge, but now to buy iPhone eight

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or to buy LCD

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Whatever,

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Nabila

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to feed your family, to feed your children, not to break him financially not to run him out of business financially. No, that is what is meant by the the last case, when it is permissible, when it is permissible to actually speak in the absence of a person saying certain things that they may dislike is that you actually come like let's assume that there is a brother who decided instead of coming to drama, he liked one of the cars

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abroad brother from the congregation, so he decided to drive the car away. Yeah, that's hypothetical. Okay. And another brother walk into Juma he saw him

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somebody is stealing your car cup. So you're seeking help to stop what evil? That is permissible. Of course, I would not like you to say that about him. But this is permissible. So these are six cases brothers and sisters in Islam. Why? Why? Because they are related with the rights of a Muslim upon another Muslim.

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One Hadith then we have to leave

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the wording Filipina Muslim is six rights of a Muslim upon another Muslim Hakuna Muslim. Muslim hums that's one more thing under Bukhari Muslim also sick Fifi Muslim

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the last one of them what he does

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when he asked you if you should give him a

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sincere naziha You shouldn't cheat him out. If someone calls you asking your opinion about someone who whom he is considering to go in business with as a partner and he already cheated out of your money before and you know this person is not honest. Should you leave him go and run into the same traps like level one that person again is that

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this is backbiting brothers and sisters in Islam and it is the top of them all this is the top of them all the second Islam during that you basically

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are somebody that you spread rumors about another person that are not true. We call them rumor mongering that you you know you're trying to defame the person

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will have a caddy

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power to fit his line.

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Why because especially if one out when we have all these social medias and Facebook and Instagram and and

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the thing that's cool about the all these apps that we have Subhan Allah when Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam

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al Bukhari

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when he was taking in a journey with gibreel alayhis salam. So, he saw one man sitting down, look at this, and another man standing and in his hand is a kallu galoob like a hook. Imagine this and he would place that hook in this site and he will tell that port until his ears

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imagine this.

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Then he will go to the other side.

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Likewise, until he finishes here, the other side is restored. So he goes repeat. Repeat. Repeat men have

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a

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look Look, look look look at the column Nobu. Voila and enjoy the module Yahtzee will carry the tableau will.

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This is someone who would utter a lie that will reach

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Sharif who Allah by the time when the Rasulullah saw salams made that statement you would not because before he would lie a lie he will tell you the only people who live is more of a Mohammed or for our class.

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But right now just go to Facebook.

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Bought a lie, a slander on a Facebook

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all over the place.

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People in Malaysia and Indonesia will see it instantly. Instantly, they will see it the moment you get comments from there. You get likes from the fact

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that the other thing is

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah acquire min imagine the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam passed by people. Imagine they have kneels made out of I always mess up this word coupler. Lola has copper, nails made out of copper and they

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Like the scratch,

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man how to breed Who knows? How La La Vina whoa Guna fee are all the nuts. Those are the people who slander and attack the integrity of other people. of other people that have a Columbia who are extremely important. One of the most Let's call a Salalah alayhi wa sallam the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says,

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Do you know who's the bankrupt is? The companion said, O Messenger of Allah. Allah. Allah. Allahu Allah Mata. The bankrupt is the one who doesn't have acid.

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Real sticky on your cash column

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at the bankrupt from my alma mater, to malkia look at this now, look at this man yeah to malkia He will come in the Day of Judgment bisola visa, the song, he did it, oh, he did the work. He did the work he did the work, but he slander this one he backed with this one, he took away the money of this one.

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Imagine, imagine

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this law he did.

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Whatever I could it was

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very happy about the law.

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Look at this, he will stand in front of Allah. And Allah will give him his book of deeds filled with Hashanah.

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He will say Masha Allah will

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stand here with you. And you will have a lot in front of him.

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Remember you back with me that they you remember you took away my money that they gave me a hassle. Give me a

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minute more in the day of judgment that business transaction is not gold and silver

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is what hard currency you know what the hard currency is in the day if Jasmine has an answer yet, because that will be weighed in the scale. Imagine those people will receive your Hashanah until he runs out of fuel and out of her Senate.

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Imagine the drinkin the smoking will be accredited to you. You take from there since their sins will be accredited to you. But it's a real loss.

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Just Just for you to know brothers and sisters in Islam, so that you know that

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you got it you protect it because sometimes we speak carelessly, recklessly without very fine Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam won't even again is that in the word ruler later. Kela mobile kelemen min sakaki La La La Habra photography nerissa in a hurry for a person will say a word thinking that this word is what is nothing. And it will be the reason for him to fall into hell for the time of seven years. The last thing is in the MENA.

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What is in the Nina echo? Is tail carry carrying. Basically you see two brothers, they are having a very good relationship with one another. And you go and insert bad talks or you don't know what he said about you

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know, you're gonna have to say nothing, but just oh, what did he say? Oh, he said that's had an amoeba Rasul Allah Allah. Allah Al Bukhari. He was riding his camel one day renew and subhana wa. He's about to fall down. His animal

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moved in an aggressive way. The animal on which he was writing for us, we Salalah Salim immediately looks at his companions and he said those two individuals who are those people in the house

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they are being punished.

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Could be

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Lima katabi

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explaining this Howdy. They are being punished over something that they belittled.

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One of them can Elias

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Lee, he would go to the bathroom and urinates and he knows he has to pray. And he knows that he has globs of urine going into his underwear. And he goes on and he prays and his Salah is not valid. He loves it. He sees it. But he thinks that the lovers and see him can Elias

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in Bali, and the other one

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the point of reference, what

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am she been me, man? He's to go around the community

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would spit bad things about that individual in order to spoil the relationship. So

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if ice I believe if I'm not mistaken for Bukhari, he actually made it lawful for you

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to use white lies, and we do have white lies in Islam.

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But the, the translation is not accurate. It's called mahari that you say something, which means two things. What I am saying you will grasp one meaning, but I intend the other meaning. That's what, that's how I apply. You're not lying. But you're saying something that means both meanings, two meanings and two. It's like when I tell you, I'm fasting.

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The first thing that we're gonna think about is what I'm fasting from what, but maybe I'm fasting from talking.

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It's not obviously the case here. But that's what I mean. So that's what I mean in my heart and that's what we call it not the white lies that you go on and try to take away the right of a person

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to mineral kvb Loudoun Acadia, there are three types of lies that I consider that they are not considered in the Sheree allies can be virtually free. How are

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you fighting with the Muslim army and the non Muslim army captured you?

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Are you gonna reveal our secrets?

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law you should Calgary you can tell things different. Here's the interesting piece. We're capable virtually allies of jetty

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you know your wife cooks you nice biryani and you go home. And you never had that variani before in your life? Never. I mean, you had your like liberty and he basically

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how was it honey? Or which wonderful you can talk about the weather here. It's wonderful. You're not talking about the Mariani, obviously. But that's permissible to do that, because if you say it's bad, probably going to need a motel seven or motel five tonight.

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And here is what can we will gradually usually have enough gradually that you go between two brothers that they know they have that.

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You don't know what he said about you. Oh,

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he said, all the things. Of course, he said all good things about someone else, all these things. But this is this is the way brothers and sisters in Islam. A community should be functioning a family should be functioning. This is what the Sahaba used to do.

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This is why they were successful. Because I'm telling you, a community like us, if we get engaged and indulged into these negativity into this field of negativity, he said she said, we're gonna exhaust our resources, our time, our power. We're not going to give.

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We're just going to be busy resolving, solving, resolving solving. He said, she said, he said she said, emergent, emergent. All of

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our workers. So do when he became Holly muslimeen when he became califa, the Muslim leader of the Muslims, he said armarios the judge

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and Takagi, you're the arbiter now,

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after one year, almost submitted his resignation. He said, I'm resigning.

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I resign.

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Why too much work? He's not paying enough. I didn't receive one single case. No, no, no.

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Everybody knows what

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we saw. They were busy with the dour, bring in Islam, horrible reader and all of this. This is the key. And again, this is a disclaimer again, and I want to say this. For the brothers who arrive late. Every time I give this football a lot of the people listening to me they think I'm talking about them. No, I'm not talking about you. Because you know, all of us one way or another is guilty of this including me. Jani,

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Coca

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Cola has it been that somebody has to talk about this? If there's someone else out there with half talks about not because I'm guilty of it, too. We're all guilty of it. So I'm not talking about you. I'm talking about a phenomenon that shaitan is listen

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to someone said

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that will go back to the worship of idols. But he is contented and pleased with the parish in the shape on a bed, but he is pleased with placing this code and

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tongue is the means and the tools aku Kali had our stuff La Jolla.

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Alhamdulillah Allah Al amin La Jolla humble Hassan was Santa will gentle washes shadow Allah ilaha illallah wa de la sharika yaku haka Hua Hua serene

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Mohammedan Abu Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam in closing brothers and sisters in Islam this tongue has to work

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some people can just stop it, you can you can do like a blindness or you have to talk you have to work.

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Now, what should you get this tongue busy in?

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In what you have a lot of things. Imagine so canon law

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Alhamdulillah La ilaha illa Allah Allahu Akbar Allah, Allah Allah who was the 11th

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imagine when you say La how La La La quwata illa Billah at three tree is planted for you in June.

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When you say Subhanallah he'll be handy. That's another word in the whole Allah

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Subhana Allah He will be handy another word. A tree. And when we talk about when we talk about trees in the trunk is made out of gold.

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The shade of that tree it will take a horse that is prebate Yes, see you roll Java outta me.

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Wood

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that the whole debate will run beneath the shade of the tree.

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The sapan Allahu Allahu Allahu Allah. This is a sincere sincerity with the tongue and the heart are connected. Imagine five six threes Indian

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one letter from the Koran.

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10%

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If you say Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim. 190 Hasson just Bismillah with what

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the tongue so get this time busy with what

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is real who will have

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to enjoy him and likewise when you keep yourself busy with the truth with the remembrance of Allah.

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The second thing brothers and sisters in Islam don't become part of this. Don't they tell you three things and I promise I close with this. I went two minutes over my time here. Five minutes actually.

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When you see somebody backbiting in front, stop them.

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Stop them.

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gabab nomadic when he missed on Dubuque

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cavagna Malik the companion when he did not join kabu

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faza Cara hora Salafi to book the prophets of Salaam Kala masala carbona Malik.

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What is cobbled? nomadic?

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How come he is not here? This guy never missed the battle except better and better was not mandatory upon everybody this

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one of the people from Benny celano was sitting in the circle. Kala rasulillah he said O Messenger of Allah chavela who, when no other female

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garb used to be a king Ninja, he is busy with his nice cloth. And he's a bodybuilder

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that's backed by the

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new Jabba jasola law.

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And he pointed at the man

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what an awful thing to go about.

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You know good things about him

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that you defend the honor of your brother in their absence. don't entertain that. don't entertain that except in the cases that I mentioned and say, but you say to them, Okay, can we verify that can we meet with the brother to verify that's the but don't just go on? defend the brother and whoever defends the honor of his brother in his absence, Allah will defend and protect you from hellfire.

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Number two,

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tell the person to stop.

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If you can defend him if you have no information to give, please stop. Number three, number three, leave if you can do one or two leave, because like they say it always takes two to tango. You know, I don't know what your Tango is.

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But that's what they said. It's always take to to create a fitness and so Allah subhanaw taala Ania lc nutana Amina su Allahumma family Sanatana Amina Kevin. Amina

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