Ibrahim Nuhu – Riyad Us Saliheen – Hadith 735 P1

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So inshallah we continue from where we stopped

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last, thus

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and

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If I'm correct last time we got the

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hadith of Abu Hurairah

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that rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam is part of

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his manhaj

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that he never criticized food.

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If he likes it, he eats

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it. If he doesn't like it, he leave

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it.

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But, rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sama never criticized

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food.

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And I guess I talk about the benefit

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of this ex especially

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when dealing with your wife,

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who suffers

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to please you and to cook for you

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and to support the family

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and to help you you know by Saving

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your time rather than going out and sometimes

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disrespect it. And also, you don't know what

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kind of food is being presented to you.

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I

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told one of the

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the storekeepers,

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I bought juice from him and it was

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written 100%.

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Juice. So I asked him, are you sure

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this is a 100%.

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He says, brother,

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the only 100% juice is that which was

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made by your wife.

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So that's really true.

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Yeah. He said, only 100%,

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juice is the one that your wife is

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making.

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So

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as an appreciation,

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even if you don't like it, just leave

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it without comment.

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Yeah. Taste it and leave it and tell

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her that I'm you are satisfied.

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In sha Allah next time you hold detail.

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Get it and then find a way to

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advise her if you think that this is

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not one of your preference.

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Yeah, but you shouldn't, you know, embarrass your

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wife when she suffered to support you.

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And this is applicable on any any person

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who is

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loving a food you cannot you shouldn't criticize

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that food. Yeah, because you might cause

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that person to dislike the food after that.

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You know sometimes when you see somebody enjoying

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something you might enjoy it because of the

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way you see him enjoy. And as if

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Malik said, I don't like

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aduba,

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kara.

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I think this is a pumpkin. Right? He

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said, I really don't I don't like it

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that much. But when I see the prophets

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are allahu alaihi wasalam at atabahu,

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you know searching for it on the on

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the plate, you know, then he said I

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I love it so much because of the

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way I see the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasalam

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looking for it.

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So,

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you should just eat what you like and

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stay away from what you what you don't

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like.

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Leave it. You know, don't criticize. Don't say

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something bad. He says,

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He says

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You shouldn't

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criticize a food and always imitate rasulullah Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam and he's referring to this hadith.

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Ma'aban Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam atamal kattu

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in ishtahaw

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So this is part of the the ishara

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as zawjia that the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallamah

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have with his with his family.

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You know, you never see somebody like Muhammad

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salallahu alaihi or salam. That's why

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I always mention

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to you guys that

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student of knowledge should be the best in

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this regard.

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Your wife should have a good life.

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They should see the best example.

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Example we have currently is not enough.

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You, Allah, is not enough.

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Yeah, students should really represent Rasool Allah SWAN

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in their homes,

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you know. The wife is marrying you usually,

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you know, most likely because of who she

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thinks you are.

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Coming to the majalis. Okay? This person insha'Allah

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is gonna be the one. But then,

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that's the furlough.

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Not a restriction. You know the person of

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the dunya doesn't care. You know his wife

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can do everything she wants. No problem. You

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know halal haram.

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No problem.

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So she has this unrestricted

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kind