Hosai Mojaddidi – I Want to Wear the Hijab But I Am Not Sure I Can Do It

On a final note, positive note is what do you say to someone who is

on the fence? They want to do it, they feel it in their heart. But

they're nervous. They're afraid. How are my friends dinner tower,

my family going to react? What advice do you have for those

people beautiful Michelle, just like you're looking at. And, you

know, as I mentioned, we may have people here who are in those

crossroads and kind of not sure. It's part of, you know, life that

we're going to be faced with choices and every situation,

right, we're always at a crossroads of something. But when

it comes to what will propel you or draw you closer to Allah

subhana, WA, tada, you have to kind of, you know, start thinking

that that should the answer of that choice should be pretty

simple, right? And hijab is one definite way that we draw near to

Allah subhana that because any action where we obey, Allah draws

us closer to him, right? But as I said, it might be a matter of time

for you, of when to do that. So you want to, you know, pace

yourself, but just make a lot of dA. I'm always telling people,

like, if you're really, really confused about something, where's

the istikhara? Where's the tahajjud? Get up and cry to Allah

subhanaw taala really show the sincerity of the crisis you're in

or the confusion you're in. And watch what happens. Because when

you do that sincerely, like you're confused, ALLAH SubhanA will start

to make things very easy for you. He'll make it very obvious for

you. And all of a sudden, you'll realize you know what, this is,

this just feels right. And also, this is a follow up to that. Don't

look at hijab as something you either have to wear permanently or

never wear at all. Please don't do that. Because for some people like

prayer, it comes incrementally. So some people start praying like

Fajr, and Asia, and then they add on the HUD offset, and some people

do all five at once, with the hijab, the best thing to do, and I

actually learned this from one of my closest friends who for years,

everybody thought she was a hijab, but she wasn't. What she did is

she wore it most of the time, in places where she felt very

supported to wear hijab. And she became a hijab, you get it,

because as she wore it more and more like to the grocery store to

Trader Joe's to, you know, the gym, to the doctor's office, the

identity of becoming a hijab, he became one with her identity, but

she didn't have this rule that said, Oh, I have to wear it, or I

don't. And I think that is a very detrimental message that women

get, because you would never tell someone who's struggling with

their prayer. You can't pray any of the prayers until you pray all

five would you do that? Of course not. You would say pray make, you

know make the best effort possible. And in sha Allah in your

prayer and then the action of doing your prayer consistently.

Allah subhana will then begin to facilitate for you and next thing

you know you'll be praying all your prayers Same with the jab. So

where it like to the masjid where it to gatherings of, you know,

where you feel supported, where to places where you feel safe, wear

it in the car, if you can just become infused with the hijab so

that one day you wear it and you don't ever take it off inshallah I

mean eventually but you know what I mean?

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