The Magic Lollipop – Full – Funny

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See you later Mannerheim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi nine

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when I've seen one so, I have an hammer half who do all the

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so the cola hula Alim

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process is for listening is

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so dear brothers and sisters firstly Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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It's nice to be here with you guys. Nice to see you guys. And Inshallah, this won't be just the first time it will be many times.

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The topic is lustful, so

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whoever chose the topic

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could have tilted it to be more of a positive one. When you hear lustful soul, it means it's a lustful one, looking for the wrong things.

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But the soul doesn't have to be that is Allah azza wa jal says in the Holy Quran, for Al Hannah ha for you Raha what Taqwa

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the soul, the ego is such that Allah has ordained Allah has given the ego such things that he's got both

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it is it can be sinful in its in his nature, and it can be God fearing in its nature. This is about the nurse Allah has said, not is not a bad thing. But nerves can be a bad thing. The there's a natural default of the nerves of the ego when I say nerves, I mean ego. I mean, one, I mean one last one designs inside. So anytime I use knifes in this, in this talk, that's what I'm referring to. The nurse has got a default, and the default of the nurse is to become rebellious, to become something that wants to break the boundaries to become something that wants to rebel.

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But the nonce can

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be something that wants to be conscious of Allah azza wa jal, but you have to train it to do that. Let me give you an example. Yeah.

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You know, when you have a little kid, either you've got your own little kid, you've had your little kid, you've got a nephew, you've got a nice someone and you seen the little kid. Now little kids, they have tantrums. Know what tantrums are

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tantrums, are they call them tantrums? You know, tantrums. Imagine a little kid wants a lollipop.

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So the kid will come to you and say lollipop, lollipop, Papa lollipop, lollipop. Now they want they've got to create the one that lollipop

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if you just give them that lollipop, they've got the lollipop they'll sucky they'll be happy. They'll you know, so fine. But then after a while, after a day or so, lollipop, lollipop, Mamilla lipo Sweetie, sweetie lollipop, Sweetie, sweetie lollipop. Now thing is, if you just give it you've given it they've got what they want. They know every time you said lollipop, they're gonna leave

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now one day what happens is you realize you realize that the kiddie that you love and so sweet and you just stick a lollipop in his in his golf to shut him up and do whatever you want. You realize that there's some darkness on the teeth.

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And now you know that the Tata is going to continue to grow inside the mouth and it's gonna cause them pain. So you know what's gonna happen, so you decide not to give the lollipop the next time they're asked. So they say mama lollipop, named butter, lollipop, not good for you? Lollipop

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but they're no good for

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No, now you can imagine what's gonna happen if you've just been given them a day in, day out day in day out day in day out why

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Someday you say no lollipop.

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And they'll cry. They'll beat the hands on the ground. They'll kick the legs. Your two year olds do. They just, they just fall down.

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Have you seen the two year olds do that? Yes. My two year old used to do that. I said, Yeah. Sometimes used to go there, unlike a gold rush to save the head from hitting the floor. But they just fall back. Because they know if they do these tantrums, the more they do it, the more likely you are to give him because they know this and love in the heart.

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So they put one up, let's say for example, a Papa didn't give it. They go to mama.

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They go to Amazon. They go to big sister. They go to daddy John. They go to grandmother. They'll go to nanny, they go whoever they've got around to get the lollipop and most of you got if you're living with Grandpa and Grandma, you ain't got no discipline in the house. You know, I'm saying no.

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You ain't got no discipline in the house. Some of you smiling. Yeah. Or can you do that grandpa Grandma's gonna go a few more years left. So they think yeah, not one lollipop. Stick to one go you know Zana? Yeah. Let's see. So you let sizzling in your mouth. The thing is, imagine you hadn't given it an after a long time you stop them is the tantrum today, after so many days, you said you're not gonna give it is the tantrum going to be a tantrum that is a small tantrum or a big tantrum.

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Tell me.

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You know, after so many days, suddenly you said I'm not going to give you a lollipop. Is the tantrum going to be big tantrum or the small one?

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A big one, a big one. And if you carry on depriving it, alright, let's imagine let's imagine I said okay, I'm not gonna give it now. The tantrum went on for 10 minutes. 10 minutes, and the kids crying crying. In the end, you said, Forget this, man. I can't take this. You know what? Get a lollipop here. Put that open your mouth. Ah.

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Now you've done bigger damage.

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You have just, you've just done bigger damage. What's that? You have now taught the kid 10 minutes of a tantrum. And then you can get lollipop. The next time the kid asked for a lollipop. And 10 minutes go by. Do you think that kid's gonna stop at a 10 minutes tantrum? Or do you think that kid's gonna think if I just can get the tantrum to go a bit longer? I'll get my lollipop. What do you think is going to do?

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Go a bit longer. Yes. 100 Lollipop. Do you have a day? Joking?

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So why because he knows if he goes a little bit more he'll get it. So this time, 12 minutes, 30 minutes, 14 minutes and if he doesn't get it like that, he'll show he's upset. He'll show he's not happy. He showed other one. The other one the other one and he started to do different things. First, he was just crying. Now he's getting older. He wants to show you that he's gonna hurt you in a different way. Would you rotini? Kearney, Virginia.

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You want me to go de la Oliva.

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Now you think okay, cello patina is gonna have lollipop forgiven. So you give it to ya you kill the evil wall. Now they know I can do different tactics and I'll get the lollipop off them. Forget lollipop soon is going to be ice cream.

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Every time the ice cream van comes. It's going to be ice cream. You got to give the ask if you don't get to ask them tantrum. If you don't if you don't give them there's gonna be bit more emotions and so on and so forth right. Now, why am I saying this to you is

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let's look at it from a different perspective. Imagine the child was after something from you. Even if was a lollipop and you told them he said listen, listen. I've given you want to live up here. That's fine. We don't have that many lollipops. You can't have it. You just have it maybe one two week I'll give you a lollipop. So when that wants to be comes, he just has that problem. He's fine. Every week Friday, you wouldn't give Molly pub Friday they have lollipop That's it. No other lolicon all the time. If you control him with sweets, chocolates, chocolate bars, whatever you've got. Yep. And you control it in your house and you're going to limit to how much they can have. They will get

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used to it. They will only demand what they've got what you give them even two year old three year old four year old guaranteed guaranteed you will be able to get them to have what you want them to have any parents who have trained their kids like that please put your hands up who have limits in the house just say that you can I can only have that much.

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Hey man, there's only four of us you know? What's the rest of you man you guys like you guys love your dentists you know like try to give them a lot of business in a anyway what I want to say to you can get them used to it. If you put your principal inside your place in the beginning now it's not going to be easy. The same kid will

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To show you tantrum as well, you're trying to train them, but they will show you trying to but you won't be as bad as the other one. Do you agree with me or not? You train them from day number one. No, he's the lollipop fine Friday, the next Friday, you get annoyed for fine, everybody. Good luck. God does Saturday, Sunday. Just don't ask now Saturday, Sunday, they feel like having a lollipop. So they come lollipop lollipop and then you say look better. I've told you Friday, it's not Friday. Now they might show a bit of a tantrum. As long as everyone's doing the same is the key to it. As long as everybody in the house is all stuck with the same principle. There is no big sister who suddenly

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Mom's not here does not hear could really pick up

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the socket socket, break it, eat it, you know, wash your mouth, I don't want anyone to you know, shake your hand and find those sticky. And I'm saying get inside. As long as no one's breaking the rules inside the house and everybody's staying on the one rule that kid very easily we'll learn how to talk to obey to your rules. Now why I've said what I've said this is because you know, we've all got a side inside us we've got an ego, an ego inside us. That ego says to you and me. I want to sit down. I don't want to do work. That ego says I don't want to give this away. That ego says I want to keep this to myself. That ego says I'm not gonna give it to that person. He's gonna say so to me

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first. What does he think he's gonna get me to Sorry, sorry, first. You're not gonna say sorry first. He's gonna say sorry first. We've all got an ego inside that's got his set with it set to do these things. And the same ego it says forget lollipop. The same ego will say to you depending on your age, it will say you to demand something from you.

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So if it's a let's say it's a teenager he's not a teenager is not going to ask for a lollipop.

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A teenager got off a lollipop a teenager will say mobile phone that kind of a mobile phone please Tapcon I need a mobile phone

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to tell you only 13 years old told me that what do you think the mobile phone for that's one of them I can't get on some I'll give you one of those Nokia is which Nokia Did you know one of those that are you know 1990s Nokia, but that you know I need to I need a smartphone.

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But that is from I just need this stuff. I can't do my homework and

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homework if you could do your homework on your phone. Now, kids ask for a smartphone. Right? He wants to do the homework on his smartphone. 1213 years old, whatever he is, alright. The thing is, if you don't realize this is the ego and this is going to turn into a tantrum. How use a fancy No, no, no, no, Sundar whereby you don't you don't need you don't you don't need this phone. But that I do need it that I do need it. Telemedia I want my friends have got a an ad you know, they're all got a they're all playing on they'll do this. They'll do that. I've got to be powerful, and I feel a bit lost when they talk to me. I've got one. Son you don't need now the sun's gonna go to the Mum. Mum

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Mum. I need a smartphone. I need a smartphone. I need a smartphone. I need is my phone. I need this. I need a smartphone

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can you hear me coming up? Do you want us for a lollipop is a smart

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thing is it's the same Eagle. With lollipop yesterday. It was ice cream the next day. It was Lego the next day it was style was the next day it was something else the next day. It was the latest trainers the next day, it was something else the next day. And now it's mobile phone. A mobile phone is just the beginning of a teenage life. The next thing they want is they want the Xbox, they want this they want the latest PS, they want the ps4 they want something else. They want to be hooked up to technology. And each time they put the demand on the table in different ways. It says same child inside but it's in a different way. Are you are you following me? Yep. Till he gets married. Now

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some people they get married but they're still kids.

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The guy's married but he's still a kid. She's still a kid. Let's say no no to talk about money. We don't marry kids like that. You know when Elijah in Scotland you know?

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Let me tell you how it works.

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The man is married.

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He just married another man's daughter.

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And they live happily ever after.

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That's the beginning of the jackin always you hear when you're small stories. Every fairy tale you hear at the end and they live it always ends up with he married her and they all live happily ever after. Oh my friend Happily Ever After is only

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One place that is called Jana. All right, Happily Ever After is Jana. Don't you ever think Happily Ever After is going to happen in this this world? It don't exist demand don't exist. It doesn't happen Happily Ever After is in Jana. So they got married four months. Lovely. Six months. Lovely. One year gone. still okay. You know, they say yeah, before they met. They were too lonely birds.

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When they met,

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they were two loving parents. And after they got married, there were two Angry Birds.

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Angry Birds. Right now they're married. One year goals, two year goals. Three year goals. Now you know, love fun, all that lovely. Davi Davi, Davi. I am Bollywood you are Hollywood. Both of us are the best. We live happily ever after. Now, all that kind of stuff. You know the fairytale stuff. It starts to disappear. Life kicks in. And now they have to put up with each other. I know the tantrums. They're still there, my friend. They're still there. The guy was bought up on Rodia in a row Tia and buyer in a buyer. His mom used to keep coppia he used to have Protea and he used to love it. Or maybe parotta and Bronte. And then Bronte?

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Not plantains. plati good. What part of study from

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Punjab? Well, that's your karate I'm talking about the plantea

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Baroque temper auntie, whatever it is right? Now young karate the guy wants a guy used to his mum used to cook it nicely, and he's happy with all the ghee and everything else. And he used to love it. All right. His wife used to make him karate as well. When they got married. She used to wake up religiously, religiously wake up to try and give her husband karate in the morning. Oh Devonte varje you can't get better than that. After two years, three years yet, you know he walks in the house and she's basically sitting on the sofa. Yeah, she's polishing her nails. All right, love

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you got a takeaway today. Got one banner taken whether going to enough after two years. Three years forget parotid right. You'd be lucky if you get fish and chips. Haven lucky mate. She tells you to go to the fridge yourself. Take your love. It's only 45 minutes like you know you take it out from there put it in the oven and you have yourself now the guy wants his Perata

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is a

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young cook for me

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was Mr. Young cook for me we've been doing all day

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all day and cooking often so first day you know as Chad has some sub sub has some patience goes gets himself goes out whatever second day does he another month he does it whatever soon this guy is not going to take that he's going to come home Monday said hey listen get up from the get up making some karate make me some I used to make me some she might get up and make it once or twice this that in the end she she's heard she's got a little ego in as well. Her egos telling her to relax. His ego says perhaps

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her ego says Get out.

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His ego says one thing Hey she her ego says nothing. Can you see the kids in Saudia guys can see the kids in Saudia after a little while he's gonna throw a tantrum. You know what his tantrum is not going to be lollipop is not going to be ice cream is not going to be mobile phone is going to be hey,

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I want my karate and I want it now. Man hungry? Man angry, hungry, angry mean double trouble. You know, the guy basically is going to throw his tantrum in an adult way. That tantrum hasn't gone. The human has developed from a kid to an adult. But that kid inside the ego has not changed. Has everybody understood the message I'm giving you? Everyone has stood right? The Deen of Islam has come. With all of us being born. Every human being is born with a natural side to throw your tantrums. Every human being has been born with a natural talent to overcome your tantrums every human being has been born to to be as comfortable as you can be. And every human being has been born

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to take up any harshness that's out there.

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You know right now you know our kids, you know these kids as kids. Yeah. And ask ourselves, well, yesterday's kids that should

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raise kids. Yeah, we, you know, you take us to hedge. Right, you know, hedge.

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Hedge today has become so comfortable.

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It's so comfortable. People, I just can't believe them. They get an express flight where people used to go to Haji nine months, they go too hard in 12 hours from door to Gytha 12 hours. What did the guy do? The guy just packed his bags up. He carried his bags down the stairs into his x five.

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And then he drove to the airport. That's what he did. He just drove you know How comfortable is to drive you know, I'm saying he's got all the heat temperature, everything cruise control. He went all the way to the airport or he got dropped off. He took his luggage out to a trolley. Oh my god was that killed his back.

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And then he just rolled the trolley to put his bag suitcases aside. He then had a Starbucks or something else and he sat down on the plane. And next minute he knows he dropped profit dozed off, he did whatever I read the magazine next minute he knows his agenda.

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And then he had to pick him back up onto another trolley.

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And then the five star Express came when he got to his hotel, and they just rolled all his luggage up the lift into his in the bedroom and they just put it there. Allahu Akbar under the guy complaints.

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The guy says a man this is tough era. Bas are both tougher. You got amela green, Gorilla green.

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Because you know,

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when people used to make nine months, they used to travel by death on their feet. They used to take their own animal over to Hutch to sacrifice it. They used to go part by their horse, some by camel, some by shape. And they used to walk and walk until they got to the Kaaba in nine months. This guy gets there in nine hours and is complaining and you know what they do? Oh my God, these guys. Yeah, the minute they have a little bit of you know, it moves from five star service to four and a half star here four and a half stars

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comes up. He says order

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you cheating me? cheat me. Take 5000 from me.

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And the sudden you give me her it doesn't

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work on the surface. This is unkind this may listen somebody a Haji. He goes and the thing is you know what? He goes into the haram? Yeah, he goes around right. He finds going around the Kaaba on the marble and upon Safa Marwah, he finds, oh my god is tough. He's tough. He's tough. You know, all that chatter. Be sure to be inside him, basically is getting burnt off in it. He's getting burnt off. The guy sweating a bit and he's finding it tough. And then you know, he gets blisters under his feet. It's true now. He gets blisters. And when he gets blisters, he comes to the hotel room. Like he's Frankenstein just about walking inside. Yeah. Oh my god. It's getting my game above all these

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blisters or busts er, as a counterweight. wait to get back yard can't wait to get back yard is tough. Er, this is tough. Brother You haven't even seen what you're talking about. You haven't even been to Minaya what Mina above you know Amina Yeah, you know you go to the toilets everyone missed the whole

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you see this stuff everywhere Mr. Hall, we're talking about you Abraham. I'm telling you you know you go you have to clean your property you have to hold your nose you have to hold your breath or your please here is a five star hotel they are a bolo yard and a five star you can really up anything I want man. But you know is the sunnah to stay mean as I do. He goes to Mina. He goes to meet a man that guy is complaining left, right center. He's got air conditioned tents.

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air conditioned tents. He just sitting there. He don't have to do nothing. All he has to do just do the Dhikr of Allah. And what he's doing is looking at his watch. Kingdom was here. Carnival

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Caledonia, so basically, they said they're gonna get food at let's say 637 o'clock. The food gets delayed half an hour. That guy's tantrum starts coming up.

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You know that kid inside him?

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Like a little vampire. You know when the moon comes out.

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When the situation changed around him, he turns into a monster another monster in him in her is still inside. And when a monster goes back in when he's satisfied, he's got what he wanted. gala GT

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Because you had the versity had you service to the city or anything? All right? Yeah, he's happy but this is his stomach full. His God is food, he's alright is fine. If he doesn't get his food, if he doesn't get what he wants, he's gonna start getting a bit you know, agitated, right? He goes to Arafah he goes, he's, he's sweating. He just wants it over. He is going right now. He's gonna throw throw all the stones all that he's got blisters, he's got you know, other, you know, he's putting Vaseline down. They're putting everything else down there to try and make you all soft and whatever. And it's killing you have to wear it. It's a Harami has to cover his, you know, downstairs, you

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know, I'm saying like, it's a lot of things that's going inside his head. He's thinking, man, gotta get back. Gotta get back. And he has just done the most comfortable hedge you can imagine. But the guys complaining, right? If you were born in the middle of Afghanistan, anyone here from Afghanistan? Anyone here from Afghanistan? From the mountains? Anyone?

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Anyone here from a from a party in Pakistan from mountainous area? No, no, let me tell you what, I've seen people like that. I went to Morocco. I went to Morocco, India.

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1999. I think it was right. When your friend and we went to stay one night in a place in the middle of the mountains. Right. This is the north of Morocco. This me and my friend from Moldova. So when that we will have a wonderful time.

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This his his grandmother lives on top of a mountain

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on top of a mountain. I'm not joking. We had to climb this mountain to get to that place. We got there. And you know, you know me. I'm just about climbing this mount. You know, his grandmother at the age of 80.

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She goes to the bottom gets two buckets of water. And she climbed that mountain both buckets of water in her hand.

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And me I'm struggling and she just whizzes past us. Whoa, super grand now from what's happening here. Seriously, you know why? Because that woman was born in that place that woman and guess what? They don't even wear any trainers. They don't wear any slippers. They can do it barefoot.

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You know why? Because they just got used to it. We go to Hajj for two weeks get blisters, and we come back or bought bought or bought hamdulillah Shakur, Allah Shakur, Allah two weeks you stayed in a comfortable mattress, air con everything given to you you the hardly anything and you start complaining how difficult hedgewars

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When you know, you go to Hajj I've seen people in Hajj Allahu Akbar. You see these people from the third world countries, no air tent, no air content, none of it. They're sleeping on the streets. They've got no shoes, no slippers, you look at their feet, their feet are they probably belong to Incredible Hulk.

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And the feet, I tell you, Allah give us some iron in their feet, because they've been walking on the mountains. They've used to it. Once you get used to it, you can take it. Any of these kids, you take them first year back home, and you make them run up and down these hills and so on. They will find it tough, but I feel it while they get used to it. What I'm saying to you brothers and sisters is my ego inside me your ego inside you. How much of that kid? Have we changed? How much is the big question? Because if that kid is inside, you know what happens? Every time you come to a certain cycle. That kid comes out like a monster inside you. Certain people have addictions. Some people are

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addicted to drugs, some to alcohol, some to gambling, some to you know, maybe just social websites, some on technology, some on their phones, some unpin Yes, some on cigarettes, some on other things that are answered, we will get addicted to it and they have to have it. Otherwise that monster is going to come out. Certain people have got addicted to laziness. They've got addicted to just being relaxed all the time. They've got addicted to late sleeping late wake up in the morning, my friend you're missing Fudger every morning you know your first problem is you're late up in the night. Why did you get addicted to having you know you wind down from work? You come from work, right? You come

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from work, you come home you sit first you you sit with family fine, you have your roti or whatever you have, then it's like, okay, you're gonna wind down a bit Okay, so you got to wash up everything. Okay, fine. And then you sit on the sofa by eight o'clock 830 You pick up the remote control and you think

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kids have just going to bed is good. Now it's time for me to flip through the channels. You got yourself into a habit. Your little kid inside you demanded the TV. You got into habit into an addiction and you don't even realize it.

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From 830 on that sofa partly with your mobile phone in your left hand partly with your right hand with the remote control flicking through the channels and mobile phone via social networking bit of the bit of the remote control bit or the phone remote control via the phone

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have 1011 o'clock I wake up now gotta watch a movie, whatever. It could be one o'clock by the time you see you and sleep late. You watch the movie you watched a few movies YouTube, whatever it was, you watched it, then you went to sleep late and now you get up at eight nine o'clock. You can't get up for further you complain you can't get up for further Do you know why you got yourself into a habit of that late sleeping so you wake up late, then you complain you ain't got no time for the Dhikr of Allah, you ain't got no time to come and you know, do your tilava you ain't got no time for Istanbul you have a good intention. You have a very good intention but it just never gets fulfilled

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why? Because everything comes in your way. It's either going to be Facebook is going to be Twitter one of the two or it's going to be WhatsApp that's in your way or it's going to be you know time with your wife or time with your friends time with your social lifetime. It's something else time with your kids time with your work time with project time with the magazine time we live events and then the little time you've got I'll do tomorrow. I'll do tomorrow. All right. So basically you got yourself in the habit where it's always one thing or another. You got you join the gym. Fine, you join the gym. Now part of your time has gone to the gym, you joined a badminton club or a snooker

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club or something else and you play every week religiously. So you got into that as well. These things can never go away from your life. You join maybe golf Some people love gold, some love football, some people love cricket, whatever you got into your sport so you've got time for sports. You got time for TV got time for a family you got time for everything else. And when it comes to religious part, you just got Joomla

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now Joomla the guy just come to Joomla Oh yeah, I'm a good Muslim yada come to Joomla er, I don't miss my I don't miss my Joomla I don't miss my Joomla

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that's good Alhamdulillah you do Joomla but is that the only time you've got you know why? Because you made it your habit. Your knifes your ego inside has gotten to his default position default is laziness. Default is give me a habit default is give me what I want. Default is give me comfort default is let me be who I want to be. And if you just do that you just wasted yourself.

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If you want to become someone my friend, Allah azza wa jal his Quran says these are Allah's Will words but yeah he do feel he has God jihadi Oh, you who are believers struggled struggle as you all to struggle, struggle struggle go against yourselves. Yeah, I knew a Hala Dina duckula Are you believe be aware of me Wellington's on Summa Parque de manera de como every single soul should see every enough should see every ego every self should see every person should see what is it that you've already sent to me for tomorrow sent not send, you know, sent and send is a massive difference.

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You know, those of you accountants will know right now. 31st of January is coming up right 31st of January is coming up isn't it? You go the billboard ads outside tells you get your tax returns before 31st August right.

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Now, if you send it before 31st You've sent it if it's the first of Feb, you haven't sent it, you're going to send it and it's late. Right? Allah azza wa jal is telling us what you've sent in terms of your actions already to Allah. That's what you've banked. That's what you're what you're going to send is not yours yet. You know, what happens in our minds is that somewhere inside that nuff says, Don't worry. Don't worry. Don't worry. I sorted myself out. Yeah, don't worry. When I'm 50 When I'm 50 I'm going to bang my head up and down in the masjid and I'm Sanna.

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155 Er, you're gonna see me or do you know the stuff you're gonna see me Quran rockin up and down? When I'm 60 Everybody will know me as Haji Saba

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her G sub without a doubt my hudge

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when I'm 65 They're going to know me as the committee member of the masjid you know, when I run it when I 70 If I'm living then I will become a counselor.

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assaulted man.

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Now he's got the 5055 6065 70 all his head the guy is still 40 Guy and got a

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clue that he might die by 49

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game over, game over.

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The guy don't even know he could be kaput before he gets to his dreams. But that's what the NEF says inside that it will all work out my friend. You want to make something for Allah don't start to think about sending C 50 is I'm going to send 55 I'm going to send to Allah 60 I'm going to send all the Thilawa and Quran I'm going to send today I'm 40 I'm 40 Or I'm 35 Yesterday I was 34 that was 33 Before that I sent I sent in 34 I sent in 33 That was a sent those things had been sent to Allah if I missed the salah I have missed it. It's in my record in the next world if I did it I've sent it is with Allah Allah will find it my friend don't fool yourself. Rasulullah system says what he says man

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ha. Village woman at the ledger Bella Munjal whosoever fears that they might not get on time they come out early and whoever comes out early they get there on time.

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Whoever fears that they might not make it on time. They come out early and they'll get there on time. And in Sinhala Tama Eulalia in Silla Tang Jian. Remember that the bargaining of Allah is not a cheap bargain. Remember that that bargain you making with Allah is to get Jana in return is expensive. Jana is not cheap, my friend. Jana can be cheap. If Allah wants to give you bonus he gives you a bonus but Jana has to be earned and Janna to be an Rasulullah Salah Xmas told us to be quick, quick with what quick when they can actually the thing is the knobs the ego will always tell you to go to default position my brother my sister what you need to do is move move the Quran says

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what? The fear row in Allah run to Allah run to Allah be quick and run. The hadith says word of Timothy Rasulullah Salah some he says what bad you Bill Lee said

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be quick to do some action do you be quick to do your actions before one of seven calamities come over you help them go Rona laugh or among sia are you waiting except for a poverty to strike you that will make you forget Allah poverty sometimes can make you forget Allah you so hungry, you without money, you start forgetting religion.

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Olguin moto RIA are you waiting for anything except for richness and for money that will make you go beyond the limits of Allah you know you're saying if I get some money if I was to get the money or be sought Ed assaulted and now you're saying what I'm saying Andrew Edinburgh and you say sorted I'd say sorted

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meant you're gonna maintain as good rather gonna maintain

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if you get they're gonna make the boat what happens you know what happens is you get the money you got loads of money you made it yet you know what happens if that kid inside you ain't sorted out he's gonna say to you you had one property secures yourself with two properties so you go buy two properties then you make some more and like the brother said You meant it again. So he says to you No no no you look look you got two properties Yeah good. Rent that one out rent one out get third property you don't want it after the fourth one you will stop so you buy the third one then why the fourth one you had a normal car he tells you to go and buy another car buy an Audi tells you to buy

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the next car then it tells you all your buy the Bentley are just get the Bentley so you get the bin. Then he tells you you got four properties here you need one Spain or Dubai because every time you flying out the studio one day, nega whatever la ha but there's no end to it. If that kid inside you hasn't been sorted out, you're in trouble, my friend.

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I will read and Metiria are you waiting for anything else except for except for richness except for a rich state that will make you go beyond the limits of Allah. My friends, there are people out there who got money and they want girls. They got money. They want fame. They want their money. They want holidays, they got money. They want to steal to spend it, they want to throw it, they got money, they want to burn it. They got money. They want to fly across the world. They got money. They want to play politics, they got money, they want to gamble. You know what the cost of money they can do it Oh, do we Oh, who cares? They can bribe police. They got money. They can bribe mi fives and MI

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six is they can bribe that they got money. They can do that. You know that? You know why? Because the kid inside hasn't been taught

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Lesson he's still throwing his tantrums.

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Hello Tango Runa in Lhasa Quran Monsignor Amin unmotivated.

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maraga Masuda are you waiting for anything else except for an illness that will corrupt you that will cripple you? Man, you were so good, everything was wonderful. All of a sudden, you have been diagnosed with cancer. All of a sudden you find yourself in an accident. All of a sudden you've been crippled because something happened to you something so simple. Anything can happen to use mine to your nose to your brain to your to your feet to you played football. You just want to play football and you twisted yourself. You twisted your ankle. That's all you did just twisted it. But what happened? You twist in such a bad position. The doctor tells you that you know what even after

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operation is still not done.

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There are so many boys out there. You haven't seen so many boys. Are you waiting for anything except for an illness to come? That will cripple you that will corrupt you?

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I will haram I'm off neither are you waiting for anything except for an old age where you start to forget what you say. There are certain people who get old who forget what to say and if you want to stop yourself from getting old and forgetting what you say. I'll give you a remedy the remedy is read the Quran. The Mattila I can guarantee you this. Any man and woman reads the Quran daily basis. You will not get to a stage of old health where you are forgetting what you are saying who you're talking to. I will modem Hisa are you waiting for anything else except for a sudden death? sudden deaths? Some people they didn't even say goodbye and they weren't they weren't he wasn't even your

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fault some loop part two is basically done in the head he thinks he's gonna get to Jannah by blowing everyone else up and he comes up blows you up as oh oh Looper to

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damaging the head

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damaged he goes and blow something up causing crashes something somewhere it wasn't even your fault. I had a relative of mine and my wife said you know the Kenya bombings in the malls happened last year in the Kenya bombings in the mall. Yeah, a wise relative I think one of uncle's was in there it just went for shopping. That's it. Gone.

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Blown up gone.

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Moto Medusa? Are you waiting for a death that is Saddam?

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Are we dead? For sure Aruba EBU tava are you waiting for the job? Well, he's the most evil of those things that are awaited of the future. The John what you're hoping for the job What are you waiting for the job these days, you know the youngsters, they learn half the deen from the internet. They learned if it's a good thing and a bad thing. The good thing is if they learn it from a trusted source that's fine if they're learning from some crackpot Yeah, he's gonna damage them. So, there are many crackpots out there and then in many crackpots

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you know, it's a crack What do you call crackpots in some other words you got anything else goes.

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Now, sometimes I want to some some sorry, tapped is tapped, tap learn

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so that that guy is tapped out what does he say? He says, he says that's it. You know, the jar is here. The jar is here I am the prophesies are gonna listen to me Illumina talk T Freemason they're gonna get you brav

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Man, these guys are sickles. sickles that the brothers had tapped in the head and what they did not this Ramadan Ramadan before that the Olympics was happening in London Olympics 2012 Olympics, these guys made movies they made so many clips that the Illuminati and the Zionists are going to blow up Big Ben and the parliament in 2012 Olympics time inside London and he was Ramadan time and he was going like a craze everywhere. I mean he came someone dropped a letter to the Secretary of the mosque and the Secretary was pulled we said have you read this tomorrow apparently is Joomla and they even put a fabricated had these next to that.

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The Prophet said I'm gonna say it's fabricated but the Prophet said when there's going to be two lunar eclipses in the same Ramadan boom boom and Friday is going to fall on you know middle of the month and is going to be summer What do

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you bet a run? I'm telling and they were spreading this like crazy through the mosque and in

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eliminating people and telling them and on the internet when I went after taraweeh I went on the internet, and I was just checked out for what is this all about. And I found videos after videos, these guys who are tapped, right? They're telling you they're telling you that they know the Illuminati is gonna get you the Freemasons. This is 2012 this is the year of designers. This is one of their going to show the prominence and the one I had you man.

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It's gonna get you because they see this sign and this movie and that video and that clip and this part and they put it all together and they make it look real.

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And man, it was getting a big hype for ya Allah. So anyway, the next day it was a Friday the bombs was to go off right? I don't know what bomb in their head is supposed to go off right? It never happened. say Alhamdulillah it never happened. Right? So I went back on the internet for what they're gonna say someone on the internet they said, Oh, we got the date wrong. It's gonna be next week.

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You are crazy, man. Anyway, next week, I waited till next week, right? So next week they said it's gonna happen it's gonna happen it never happened. I thought okay, what they're gonna say right now so I'll scroll down so other thing I know these guys they get in everyone dissing them they say you you know load of potatoes and you're tapped and you're this and you're that right? They're saying all the words of fat and birds that come towards the bracket. And you know what they wrote out? They said that oh, it's gonna happen in 2012 but it's not gonna happen we got it wrong is it is not the Summer Olympics. It's a Winter Olympics

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Ah, okay, let's wait for the Winter Olympics. Oh wait for the Winter Olympics 2012 Winter Olympics K. And they started all again Illuminati design is here this anomaly Goldie show us show us on the internet design 2012 2012 Can you do 20 Joe it's all gonna happen boom someone's gonna happen and design is gonna come out and then and you're gonna it's gonna come out they're gonna take over the world one new world order

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I said so I was the prophecy you never listened to me tough love tough love tough love that's all I'm gonna say to you they're gonna take to you tough luck for now listen to them. You know what happened after the 2012 winter when we didn't even hear by

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what was you all about now they're still on there they're still saying Illuminati didn't make new videos out there putting up the jobs coming the jobs coming Did you know that you know to me my daddy from the Prophets time he got shipwrecked is a Hadith Muslim right these guys I'm telling you they are proper tap I'm going to move with a better word for that. I want to go to the next level sorry sorry

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not these numpties the numpties

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so the go to the next level these numpties? What do they do? They just want to make your life miserable.

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These guys are saying to me my daddy Radi Allahu Anhu there's a hadith about the Zhao, that he actually he shipped actually got wrecked. And he was an island and he actually saw the job. So he came back to Risa and resistors and got him to report to everybody what he saw he wasn't an island some minor radius Omega shipwreck for one month he went came back another month and he reiterated that it's a cya this must be fine you know these shares are saying on the internet to all these numpties he wasn't saying they're saying that island. A Jimmy listen to man. Now the island where he got struck Najimy wasn't Arabia. It was Britain.

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Britain Yeah, German Britain. The doll is here you know. The doll is

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why you talking about and these kids youngsters they all get all hyped up about it. We know we know he's coming he's coming. And then they got paranoid they got absolute paranoid I you know that 2012 Summer. One friend of mine working for a Muslim organization. He said he said Sheriff he said I feel like taking all my stuff into a van. And this is true. He said this to me. He said in London this in London is talking to me. I said I want to shove my van with as much things I can get inside here before the bomb goes off. And I'm gonna get my family inside there and I want to drive as far as I can to Scotland.

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He says he's in Scotland, because you guys apparently are out of data. You're out of the world. Do you live in the mountains? Yeah. He said that. NOC people get crap. Why? Just because of some theory. Rasulullah sallallahu he told us what we did. Lou Fisher rule. EB in toggle. Are you waiting for the job because the job is the most evil awaited things. My friend, my young friend don't get excited about the job. The job is not someone you get excited about. You're supposed to get fearful of the job. And that's supposed to make you do more are miles

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For Allah because the Day of Judgment is coming the whole point of our prophets Allah I'm telling you and me about the jail is because he wants you to move and do your actions before the jail comes not because you're gonna sit there two three hours on the internet trying to look after YouTube video after YouTube video of the YouTube videos oh good oh god he's gonna knock on my door soon oh my god my credit card I used to know who I am and the cameras on what you mean. Oh my god

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the crazy and they look for signs and they find Illuminati signs everywhere they want to look at that. Look at that clock.

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is a clock that

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how many seconds? Is it?

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13 seconds 13 Illuminati

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Did you see that? Illuminati 13 The number 30 Wherever they see 13 Is Illuminati. And there's a pattern about if you come to suffers from here 1234567 You're going to end up with 13 or 11 See what is if you're not going to 13 they're gonna be 1111 they say is from some sirens. I don't know some Osiris I don't know they say is 12 is something Zion T 212 times zighy on if it's 13 is Illuminati. It was 14 something as 15 something to play with these numbers and it's like Illuminati Illuminati everything there there was the numpties while they

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numpties tap crackpots or anyway was also said the last thing he said what I always say fissara to other however amaro are you waiting for the last hour for the last hour is something which is going to be very bitter, the last hour is going to be something which is a great catastrophe. Now the last hour which was hula salah, talked about

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that's coming my friend, one of these seven things are going to hit you either is going to be poverty that will make you forget Allah, or richness that makes you go beyond the limits of Allah, or an illness that cripples you or an old age that makes you forget what you're saying. Or it's going to be a sudden death or it's going to be the John or it's going to be the last hour one of those seven things are going to hit you and Rasulullah saw some said before that comes he said bad Hebrew Bill Armel he said be quick to do your actions because you know the state you are in right now. We're not going to be in that state forever.

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You're not going to be nasty. You're not going to be nasty, your health will deteriorate your wealth will go in different directions your family members will will either go up or down things are always changing their health once it goes down the you know before you never used to feel cold soon you feel cold very quickly soon you before used to play before they used to play football three times a week. And they still used to ask for more. And now the god plays once once in his 30s he plays once and he's in bed next one is

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before he basically the guy you could eat when he went for you know donor and chips, the guy would take a full donor full chips after that quarter pounder straight in and get some wings as well on pizza on in one. He says give me more.

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And now the guy basically just takes a bit of a bit of a road if you couple of roaches in his stomach, and basically he's saying my belly sticking out. He can't take it. There's too much you know why your digestive system is getting slower. Your health is gonna start deteriorating. Your body never starts to fix up as he used to when you're in your 20s you're not invincible. Start doing action to fix the kid up inside. How do you fix the kid up? I want to say this to you and I'm going to end how do you fix the kid up inside the ego? You know, the ego talked about how do you fix that up. The only one way to fix the kid up is to start to become spiritual. The kid likes material

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material things. The opposite of it is to go for spiritual things my friend you know when you want to go for the antidote, you're not going to you got to disease you're gonna go for an antidote. The antidote to everything is the opposite. It's the opposite. You want to give your kid your ego inside you. You want to give it an antidote. It's the vicar of Allah. What is it? The vicar of Allah you do tiller of the Quran, you will remember Allah the more you connect with your soul to Allah, the more that kid starts to move, the ego starts to move from a rebellious one into an into one that starts to listen to you.

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The more you start to pray Salah and you concentrate on not just salah, like the Salah without anything else inside Salah by remembering Allah, the Quran with remembering Allah, take the Allah's Name, spending time sitting down the maraca and thinking about Allah thinking about Allah think about death. Think about the Arcana, think about the grave think about the Day of Judgment. Think about returning to Allah think about death and beyond. These are things that change the mind changes

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Seoul make it more connected to Allah and make the kid the ego inside make it weak.

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Allah Azza wa Jalla said what when I've seen so

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for you what Taqwa the mosaica you do the more you remember our law, the more than US will say, You know what, I don't want to sit here I want to stand up. I don't want to sit on my sofa I want to stand up on the prayer mat. I don't want to spend time with listening and talking to these people. I want to spend time with my Allah. I don't want to spend this with this world and whatever I'm doing, I've done I want to spend time with my Ophira the more you soften that soul up inside, the more already automatically guaranteed your knifes will tell you it wants to do things in your nerves, your ego, your ego will prompt you to say I want to do these good things. You know why? Because

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Allah azza wa jal has put both the mechanisms so all you have to do is stop it's tantrums. This is the way to stop his time. You know what Allah said about the Quran? Allah said, what when you get up in the night and detach Allah Subhan Allah said,

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what until Khurana routine, get up in the night and start reading Quran slowly in prayer. What did Allah say? Allah said, it is it is what? In shatta Laylee I shall do a ACOEM Tila getting up in the night. And that making when you get up in the night, it's not an easy thing to just get up in the night to pray for Allah. If you're able to get up in the night Asha, do what you've just given you just stumped your own ego, you just beat you just hit your own ego. You just stepped your own ego, I should do a

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killer and the best of statements will come out of your mouth right now. Allahu Akbar. You step you stomp your ego why? Because you have gone against the ego the antidote to this kid ego to the tantrums inside to go against it to go against it. You understand brothers, your son? Anyway, it's been lovely evening spending time with yourselves I hope Allah azza wa jal makes this a moment of, of change for all of us, for us to do his vicar for us to remember him, for us to get close to him for us to for us to control our ego I will not for us to learn how to not show our tantrums whatever age we are the different tantrums, for us to be quick to do our actions for us to get closer to

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Allah azza wa jal for us to be the first to try and make Allah please Allah azza wa jal make that happen as soon as possible. Make your near right now that you're going to do from today. You're going to get close to Allah do you Tober now from today, you're going to change from tonight you're going to change from tomorrow morning or a different person make that intention right now may Allah make the true follows I'm in my head