How To Become A Better Worshiper

Haitham al-Haddad


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Allah created every human-being to worship him alone. This is the soul purpose of your life. But do you really worship Allah every single moment of your life? Do you pray all the time? Do you fast all the time? Is this what Allah meant? Are you really upon the understanding of the companions of the Prophet (peace be upon him) and are fulfilling the purpose of life as they did? Join Shaykh Dr. Haitham al-Haddad in this talk and find out what Allah really wants from His worshipers and how you can become a better worshiper of Allah.

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See my dear brothers and sisters we want we need to widen our understanding of the bad once we do this, yes, our viewpoint about the whole world will change

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will change and we will not have a narrow understanding of Islam.

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That narrow understanding of Islam is causing so much harm for us. Yeah, we neglected so many rights.

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We neglected so many rights because we believe that it is not a bad

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yeah, we neglected the rights of our parents. We neglected the rights of our families, we neglected the rights of our husbands. We neglected the rights of our neighbors we neglected neglected neglected. Many of us think that being involved in politics is dirty

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because it stops you from doing a bad yeah, agree or not.

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Once even Masuda Robbie, Allah, Allah and who

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heard about a few people who left el Kufa and they stayed outside the Kufa. Yes, Abdullah showed one to them and he said, What are you doing? They said we are worshipping Allah de la vida. He said, What? worshiping God alone here? Yeah. They said, Yes. He said, then who is going to enjoin the good and forbid the evil? Who is going to do jihad?

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He said by Allah, you will not leave until you leave.

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So he widened the scope of what of a Bader that just doing going in that place and doing test B, etc, etc. is not just a bada. Bada is wider than that.

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sunny la Medina, my bad, the respected brothers and sisters, Santa Monica, Monica de la vida cattle. And it is really good to be with you today. And the topic that we are going to deal with is a very important topic.

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This topic is how to become a better worshipper.

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How become to how to become a better worship of Allah Allah. Obviously, my dear brothers and sisters, the title of the topic is clear.

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It doesn't need much explanation. And the aim of it is clear. How to become a better worshipper of Allah, Allah, Allah and the answer. Sorry. And in order to say that, do we really need to discuss this topic?

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Do we really need to discuss this topic? And the answer is yes, we really need to discuss this topic because actually,

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all the prophets came to teach people how to worship Allah Allah alone. All prophets are now our second annual Public University in Atlanta, La Ilaha Illa Anna Sabu.

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We have not sent any profit before you except to inspire him to reveal to him that there is no god but

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Allah Allah Allah, so worship me.

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What are the oh here La la la, la, la, la la la la, la la la in a Shahrukh de la pena it was revealed to you. That if you assume and to all prophets before you, that if you associate someone besides Allah, Allah, Allah, then all your deeds will be made void unknown.

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And Allah Allah Allah says to us, in the ayah, that we always caught, the eye that is frequently quoted, and that summarizes the whole purpose of existence. When are colloquially known inside ilaria we do I have created gin and ins for one purpose which is what to worship me. Our The law also says to Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam Allah has ala I would

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say that I worship Allah, Allah Allah sincerely.

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And also, Allah Allah, Allah says we they will now amuro inlandia Abdullah meclizine Allah Dena hoonah masala zeca, where Delica Dino came and they were commanded to do one thing which is what? To worship Allah, Allah, Allah alone. And the ayah go on and on talking about what that the purpose of the message of all profits is to teach people how to worship Allah, Allah

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and to teach them how to become better worshipers of Allah, Allah Allah. And that was the main message of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is nothing but a profit following the other prophets. And modular Allah said to him, be who

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you are, just as you are a prophet, follow this era, the way of the other prophets. So my dear brothers and sisters, that noble thing, that Allah, Allah, Allah, made it as the main purpose for the message of all messengers and prophets he sent, we need to really understand it, and we need to see how we become better worshipers, in order to what in order to achieve two things Subhan Allah?

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Why do we because someone might ask why do we need to become better, better worshipers? And the answer is, once we become better worshipers, we will achieve the most challenging thing

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which is achievement number one, which is what we will attain the success in the arsenal

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we will attain success in the alpha and Subhanallah My dear brothers and sisters

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a la jolla summarize the reality of this life in one area in number of iron but one comprehensive idea really gives us an insight to the reality of this life. Allah Allah Allah says in sort of Milan couldn't have seen that your heart will melt each soul will taste what that

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each day's age soul will come to an end coolness in a cartoon mode. And then what we're in number two a phoner Dora Camille Nakayama you will get you will be rewarded for for what you use to do when they do for the selection.

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What is the reward that we are going to get feminized the honey now?

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What data

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was the one who was kept away from the fire of hell? Yeah. And then admitted to paradise for the files, he is really successful. He has passed that test. So this is the real test, which is what how to pass how to be

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protected from the fire of hell how to protect yourself from the fire of hell. That's why when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was commanded to give opened our

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window when Allah Allah Allah said to him first delina tomorrow and in a healing first that'd be martoma. First that means declare the devil openly the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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he went on a safari, and he said to people what they do on food to come in and protect yourself against what against the fire of

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Allah, Allah. Allah said to us in the Quran. Yeah, you already know man Oh, boo Sakuma.

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decom nallah This is our job is to protect ourselves against the fire of hell to protect our families. In fact, if we can, we need to protect the entire humanity from the fire of help.

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So, when we worship Allah, Allah Allah we will be successful in the AF era, which is the ultimate success. And Subhana Allah I always like to quote this idea to remind myself and to remind my brothers and sisters, this hadith is an amazing Hadith in Sahih. Muslim. Yes, and I supermatic said that the Prophet sallahu wa sallam said, you can be Anamika Khalid dunya, Minelli, nadie omantel

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Allah Allah, Allah will bring a person who will be among the people of fire. But in this dunya he was the best person living the best life, his time enjoying the best life is type this person, he will be in the fire of hell, Allah Allah, Allah will bring him and dip him for a few seconds in the fire of hell. Then Allah Allah, Allah will take him out of the fire of him. And will Allah Allah, Allah will ask him, how did you find it? Allah Allah, Allah will ask him

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Have you ever enjoyed your life?

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Have you ever enjoyed your life? Then this person who enjoyed all of his life, just because a few seconds in the fire of hell? What will be his answer?

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No, one No, no, I have never enjoyed my life. Never, never, never one. On the other side, Allah Jalla Allah brings another person who is about to go to Jenna. But he was living a very

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hard life.

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very miserable life. He was tested in everything, in his health in his world, in his children, in his future and everything.

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And this person will be among the, the people of gender. Our dilemma will dip him for a few seconds in Jannah, then Allah Allah, Allah will take him out and we'll ask him a question. Have you ever faced any hardship in your life? Have you ever faced any difficulty in your life? And what will be his answer?

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No, no, when, when I don't remember, just because a few seconds in Ghana, he forgot all types of hardship. That's why my dear brothers and sisters, the real success is the success of the aphylla the success of the agenda.

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We have a limited time otherwise we could have spoken about Hellfire and we have spoken about agenda, but it is Subhana Allah just

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It is good to remind ourselves of the fire of help. Allah Jalla Allah said inserted,

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so handle ah my dear brothers Subhanallah these are very strong in describing what Fire of Hell is yes had any cosmetic doesn't move European fella Dena cafaro the co founder who will be dwelling in the fire of hell forever. Allah Allah Allah will what will make for them? Yes clothes from fire.

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theobromine not so their clothes, they will not be wearing normal clothes. They will be wearing what? Yes. A clothes that from fire burning them day or night. Yeah, they want to be able to sleep. They want to be able to rest they want to be able to breathe. They want to be able to take maybe five minutes. Yeah. Break or rest? No, no, no, no, not even five minutes. SubhanAllah burning them from every single side.

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Here close. Yeah, not only that,

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your sub boomin photo sample humming, the boiling oil will be poured on their heads. And as a result, everything inside themselves will be melting down. You saw me use Herbie Matthew Bertoni modular.

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Yes. But as we know that Allah Allah Allah will reconstruct them in order to what? In order to be punished again.

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And again and again as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, and their bodies will be made huge. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said,

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they're so carefree. They're still Catholic, if enough, Mr. Raja hit the tooth, yes, of the disbeliever will be made on the Day of Resurrection on in the fire of hell, mountain of the day in order to what?

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Yes, because if it is going to be melted down, if it is a small body, it will melt down it will vanish quickly. No, it has to be made so big, so huge, and it should be made the strong in order to work to receive more and more punishment. And However, if it vanishes, then it will be what it will be reconstructed again. And on the other side, Allah Jalla Allah says in Allahu Allah Dina has done nothing to get in

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your head alone if he I mean as our men that have been one la Oliva Sufi Hara who do Allah

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Subhana Allah on the other side, Allah Allah, Allah will give the believers what the best of clothes the best of thing the best of thing as Allah Allah Allah says la home fee, Maya. They will get whatever they want in Ghana, they will get whatever they want. So in the other Hadith the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said the last person will get into Jenna, the last person will get into Jenna. After our longest story, he will get into Jenna then Allah, Allah, Allah will say to him, What do you want? He said, after this year Allah because he was either about to go to Hellfire, or he was about in the fire of hell and the Lord Allah Allah took him out of the fire of him. Then Allah Allah

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Allah put him next to the Jenna then you know the Hadith until Allah Allah Allah put him in Jenna. And before that Allah Allah Allah said if I put you in Ghana Don't ask anything else. He said, Well, I I will never ask anything after you put me in the house what else I want? Allah Allah Allah put him in Ghana and then Allah Allah Allah comes to him. What do you want? He said, Yeah, Allah. Are you serious? asking me what I want? He said yes.

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So he will say, Allah, I want a big house. Okay, what else? I want a huge house. Okay, what else? With rivers running around? Okay, what else? I want a beautiful wife. Okay, what else? Or that lady can say I want a beautiful husband or my husband. Yes. What else? What else? What else? Then he will or she will start remembering everything. Everything Everything. Yeah, like one boy one time. say to me, Chef, is there YouTube in general?

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I said, I don't know. I stepped foot a lot.

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But what I do know is that whatever you wish to get in general, you will get it. You will get it. Yeah. So the person will try to remember anything anything. Then a modular LSAT and by the way you forgot that? Oh, yes. Yeah, Allah you wanted. And by the way, you forgot to have a big you know, yucks, to travel wherever you want. Oh, yes. Yeah, Allah, I wanted that. Okay. What about the biggest cost? Oh, yes. Yeah, I forgot that. I forgot that I forgot that. Then he has asked Allah, Allah, Allah, everything and Elijah Allah Allah reminded him of everything. Then Allah Allah, Allah said, happy, you should of course your Allah, of course after fire. After that, anything will make

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me happy. Then Allah Allah, Allah say, I will say to him, you will get to that and the double of it, and the double of it and until Allah Allah Allah will count for him what 10 times what he wanted in the first time. And this is what the minimum person Indian should handle. This is the person who is getting the minimum Indian.

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That's why my dear brothers and sisters when we talk about how to become a better worshiper, yes, yes, yes, yes. How to become a better worshiper. I need to become a better worshiper. Because this is Jen as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, it is to Jenna. Yeah, there are two Jenna from gold. And there are two Jenna from silver. The two Jenna from gold. Everything in those two Jenner is from gold. Everything buildings, your clothes, the the carpet. Everything is from goal.

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There are two genders everything is from silver. Imagine how ultimately how this gender will be somehow Noma fie harmala. You know what, when you don't send me a

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question, of course, I want to be a better worshiper. Now, after this, we can talk a lot about gender. And now, my dear brothers and sisters, but because we have a limited time, the question is how to become a better worshiper.

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in academia, they say that when you talk about the topic, you need to define the terms of that topic.

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The main the main word here that we need to talk about is what?

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Yes. How to become a better worship. So what does it mean to become a better worshipper? What does worship mean? We mentioned wonderful after dinner inside lolly,

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lolly, Abdullah, meclizine, Allahu Deen, yada, yada, yada, yada. What is worshiping Allah, Allah and me. Okay. I don't want to give you the answer directly. I want to give it to you indirectly. My dear brothers and sisters, how many times we spend praying on a daily basis?

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a daily basis, just on a daily basis. How many times how many time we spent to pray

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that five times but how much time we spent?

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How much time we spent

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25 to 30 minutes. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. The best of us maybe? Probably will just come early to domestic leave the last one. Yeah. Okay, maybe one hour. I agree.

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Yeah, one and a half Fold.

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And that is to fit

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the rest of it. What are we doing?

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dooney. Sleeping, sleeping for how many hours? Now? The rest of us will sleep What? far? Five hours? Six hours. I'm not talking about those who sleep eight hours, but five hours. Six hours. Okay. And we'll spend one hour two hours work, eating and drinking. Yeah, one hour, and we'll spend eight hours working. Agree. So how come on la de la Allah says well Mahalo to Denali, ancillary Abu Dune, and in reality, we are worshipping Allah, Allah Allah for one hour out of 24 hours.

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is the question clear?

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Yeah, so either allegedly, Allah is asking us for something that we can't do.

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Because we really need to eat we need to sleep. We need to have fun with our wives with our families. agree we need to work to earn money.

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So how come Elijah Allah Allah says one a Holocaust denial INSA we did. I did not create you except To what?

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To worship me.

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But you just worship me for one hour out of 24 hours.

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Can you see this?

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So either a large Allah Allah commanded us to do something that we can't do. Or we understood this, or the meaning of worshipping Allah, Allah Allah.

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Which one?

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Which one we should go for?

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The last one. We cannot say that Allah Allah, Allah commanded us to do something that we can do that you can do for long enough Sammy lozada Aquila, following a llama de Maria de la de la contadina. When you read a lot of

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Allah desires is for you. Allah does not burden any soul with something that it cannot bear.

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Yeah, so Allah Allah knows that we can worship him 24 hours a day.

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SubhanAllah Yes, my dear brothers and sisters, this is the conclusion and that's why the real meaning of worshiping Allah Allah Allah is what

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yeah, it's as the worshipping Allah Allah Allah the best definition or one of the best definitions is what it was given by. Even Tamia Rahim Allah tala when he said the word

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worshiping Allah, Allah, Allah is a comprehensive term.

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It covers all what Allah Allah Allah likes with our actions and statements. Yes, internal or external?

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Yes, my dear brothers and sisters, in order to make it clear because of time or clearer because of time, we need, please listen to this carefully. We need to differentiate between two types of a bad

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Yes, two types of a bad one type. I call it the listed about that.

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And the other type is what? The none listed about that.

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Is it clear? I don't know if you have heard this term before. Yeah. Okay. They're listed about that. Are they specific about that? That Allah Allah, Allah regulated them for us?

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Yeah, they are highly regulated by Allah, Allah, Allah. What are those listed about that? Yeah, the five pillars of Islam and what is linked to them?

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So the Shahada team, the Salah, these aka the cm and these are what listed in that and what is linked to them?

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What is the link to them? These are listed about the Allah told us specifically how to pray.

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Yes, how to pray. He told us the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said what Sal Luca Mara, Tony Lee, pray as you saw me praying.

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You don't pray Maghrib five Raka

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thinking that five is better than three.

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You will be what? Going against what Allah wanted what Allah regulated what a lot specified for us. That's why the prophets Allah wa sallam said what? Minami la I'm Alicia la luna over does something out of our way. He will have it what it rejected. Yeah, this is one translation of the Hadith. So

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Salah has been specified to us when where how why

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the seven W's that tell us exactly how to do it when to do it where to do it. Why to do it. Okay.

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So they are heavily regulated. So we cannot change the when the why the word the how the yes we cannot change it

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pray Torah in this place pray to Raka pray to pray three Raka for mother pray three Raka what'd you do it 1235 etc do it as a lord Allah Allah wanted okay Same thing with fasting

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Yeah, we fasted from Friday until method if someone said yeah in winter in winter in in Northen countries we fast what six seven hours let us extend that to become until Asia at least we feel that we really fast it we care about six hours and you eat any late breakfast it will be considered what

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and you just delay your lunch and hello spastic Mashallah and while when we were in summer we were fasting with 20 hours come on

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okay. So let us extend the hours we fast or let us shorten the hours we passed or someone suggested see the Ramadan comes in sometimes in some other countries sometimes it comes in winter let us have it one

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in in the middle all the time. So you fast around 1415 hours Can we do that? No Why?

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Because this is one of the evident that we were instructed how to do them okay.

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properly or in details

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clear Same thing for head Yeah, we just came from HUD you know one can suggest that we do head into different places we change the date of our fight cetera et cetera clear agree brothers agree sisters, sisters agree

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Yes or no?

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They disagree.

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By they agree inshallah. Okay, bye. So these are what do we call them

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listed a bar that

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heavily regulated in by Sharia, as the scholars say the apostle yeah the original principle in this listed about that is what is what

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don't to do accept if there is what a delille that tells you how to do work to do what to do etc.

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So, you cannot assume that it is good to pray yeah like this law you cannot assume you cannot think that it is better to change the way of zaca you cannot assume this you cannot assume that it's better to change fasting as we said you can't know the original principle is what don't to do.

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So Han Allah de solicited Eva that how long they take from us

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Yeah, one hour a day as we said

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yes or no

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Yeah, one hour a day around that time and one month for the whole year plus a few days for the agree or not.

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Yes, these are the listed Eva plus you do the vicar

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of Allah Allah Allah which may come under what the second category which is what they're not listed by that.

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So, the first category is what listed a bar that the second category is what

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the non listed a bar that yes brothers, sisters, what are then unlisted about that any action you do in order to what to please a lot.

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This is the non lista de vida any action any statement internally or externally as even Tamia Rahim Allah Allah said, that you do in order to what?

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to please Allah, Allah, Allah. Clear. So so my dear brothers and sisters, imagine.

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Imagine that you want to fast? Yeah, tomorrow is Thursday. You want to fast Thursday? Yeah. And the next week?

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Mohammed is the starting Muharram is the most beloved month to fast. Yeah, after Ramadan. So you want to fast tomorrow? You know that if you do not eat a very heavy meal. You want to be able to fast?

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Yeah. You and your family, your wife that you want to pass tomorrow. So what did you do? Your wife told you? Listen, we don't have anything in the fridge. And we are we want to fast tomorrow. So can you go buy some dates? some milk? some milk? Yeah. And maybe some vegetables so I can cook a good meal. So you went

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using your car? Then you found that your car ran out of petrol? You stopped in order to put petrol Yes. And then you were searching for milk?

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Yeah for dates for some vegetables meat you brought to them you spent two hours maybe in doing this

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you brought in to your wife your wife spent two hours in cooking them

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Yes. What is the purpose of these two hours

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the purpose of these two hours that you spent that you might think that you have what wasted

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was what

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to worship Allah

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Okay, and what was the purpose of these two hours that your wife spent?

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Yeah. Or wasted is to what

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to cook a meal for you and her in order to fast tomorrow. See these two hours her two hours and your two hours are what

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a bad

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Yes, brothers. Okay. You stopped to put petrol. So you needed money. The money you put in your car, what is the purpose of that money?

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To be able to drive in order to what

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to go for shopping to do what?

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To do what?

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To buy things that help you to fast tomorrow. So

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The money that you put, yeah, the money that you used to, that used to buy the petrol is a sudden, whoa,

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whoa, whoa, look at this now, now that Eva has a bigger meaning than what we understood in the beginning, do you agree or not?

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Do you agree or not? Okay? Now, you need money in order to what to spend on yourself in order to spend on your wife. So you do not beg people? Because Allah hates those who beg people.

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Yeah, while they can earn money. So you were working hard six, seven hours a day, in order to work to earn money in order to support your wife. Yes. And you want to build a family in order to bring children who will be worshipers of Allah, Allah, Allah. Yes. And you want to give some money to your parents. So this eight hours you spend to work is considered to be what

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is considered to be what brothers sisters is considered to be what a bad, okay? You know that you have to work eight hours tomorrow, eight hours tomorrow, so you need to have a good rest. So you need to sleep well, in order to wake up tomorrow to do your work. So you slept for 567 hours?

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Yeah, you're asleep. With that intention is what

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is what

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is an act of a beggar with that intention.

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Is it clear?

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Brothers, is it clear? sisters? Is it clear? Okay, let us go one step further. Okay. You have a child, and that child, okay? Or maybe because many of you are young, you can't imagine this. You have a brother, younger brother, he's a teenager 1516 or a sister 1516. You will notice that your brother is started to go a little bit astray.

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So you started to spend time with your brother? You can tell your brother, what do you like? He said, I like football.

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Yeah, where do you go? He said, I go and just watch football with my friends. So you were worried about him? Yeah. So you started to go with him to play football? In order to what?

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To stop him from mixing with the wrong people and to give him a good alternative? Yes, to give him down. So when you go and play football with him, you are doing what?

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What are you doing?

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I'm asking you brothers. I'm asking you sisters.

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When you do that, what are you doing?

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What are you doing? You are wasting your time

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with your brother or with your son?

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are you wasting your time?

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No, you are not wasting your time?

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Are you following this or not?

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Yeah, that's why when the Prophet sallallahu sallam, so when he was sitting with his companions, and they saw a person who was working hard, and they say, well, we wish if this was feasability

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What was the answer of the Prophet sallahu wa sallam. He said if he's working to satisfy himself, and not to beg people, this is feasibility. If he's working to support his parents, this is his ability. So the prophet SAW Selim widen the scope of the word what

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fee Sabina agree by Okay. Let us expand on this. Let us expand on this after some time. Yeah, after some time

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in, in Oslo Yeah, for example, there were

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elections to be counselors, you know, to be counselors.

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Yes. And the previous counselor, whenever we apply

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to build the masjid, he stops that

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whenever we want halal food he stops that whenever we want a Muslim school. He stops that

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Yeah, but you might become the next Councillor. What you need to do is lobby is going to people is to do some activism.

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So you started to be politically active

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in order to work

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in order to work

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to become a counselor in order to work

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to become a counselor to do what

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benefit Muslims to help them building mosques, to help them to open schools. Maybe not that maybe there are so many prostitutes in your area.

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Yeah, so many drugs, but you want to control that when you become a counselor. So now, when you become politically active for that reason,

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what is this?

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What is this? It is an act of a battle.

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Is it clean?

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It is what? An act of a bad yes brothers. Imagine, imagine, okay, a country, a country.

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And that country is full of Muslims.

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And there are maybe few non Muslims. And in that country, they said, Who wants to become a president?

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And you put yourself forward to become a president? Because if you become a president, you will what you will improve the Islamic situation in that country.

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Are you following?

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Now, when you become politically active, and maybe you will put your pictures and maybe you will say vote for me and he will say I am the best one for you, etc, etc. But you are doing it sincerely for that purpose, which is what to make that country mod Islamic.

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What Is that considered?

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That is considered to be what an act of a data.

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So, my dear brothers and sisters, we should understand the data as it is, it is a comprehensive term that covers everything in our life, as you maintain your data set.

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And once we understand about the like this, then

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once we understand the data like this, then everything

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in our life, if we do it sincerely for the right intention will become what

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will become a better

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Yes, the key thing is what? In MLM Albania as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, actions are judged by intention. So if you have a good intention behind anything you do, behind eating, behind the drinking behind, playing with your son behind, taking your family for a holiday, behind becoming politically active, behind lobbying behind maybe learning how media work behind maybe meeting with others, yes, to talk about political things, not to talk about Islamic things, all these activities, if you are doing them for the right intention, they become what

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they become. Act of a bad. So handle and now we learn something that is very important, which is what?

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To become a better worshipper.

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We should talk about quality and the quantity

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sometimes we focus on the quality of what

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of a Banda. Yeah, how to have better posture, which is something that is very important. But when we talk about the quantity of Eva, we talk about what

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we talk about what

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praying more, giving more sadaqa is doing more hedge, etc. which is true, but it is not enough. Because even if we pray 12 Raka Yes.

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A day, and 10 Raka plus three with a night for a long time. How are we going? How long are we going to pray?

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Five hours, six hours. Still we have 24 hours What are we going to do with the 24 hours? And we might not be able to do that every single day? Yes or no. But we normally ignore the quantity of a bad the quantity of the number listed above that to transform all of our normal activities to become what to become a better

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is that clear? brothers and sisters?

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Yes. And that's why this narrow understanding of a bad is totally wrong. And sometimes what damaging

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sometimes what damage isn't. Okay.

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One of the one of the setups for you, even in wound care.

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He said

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is it located or someone else anyway, one of the early

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scholars, he said big to our Meizu

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Padma ami wabasha Emmanuel Salim manually

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by woma run into an who has a big Oh come on. I spent my night What doing massage for my mother

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and my brother has spent his night What

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doing salah and I think I did more better than him.

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I think I get more ideas than him

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Look at this

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because he understood that a bada in its reality

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his brother understood Eva in what in its narrow meaning.

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Is that clear? Okay, Baba Casa de when he became the halifa he was involved in heritability.

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Then he was involved in dialogues with the Romans. Yeah, Jihad with Romans. Then after Abubakar honorable hapa became the leader. He was involved in

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arranging the affairs of Muslims katabatic Darwin and and improving the Yanni the roadworks in El Medina etc. He was doing this a lot of little hubbub. Was he wasting his time?

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Was he wasting his time?

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What was he doing?

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What was he doing?

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He was doing a bad thing with us man. Same thing with Alibaba without him. Same thing even with that hasn't been Same thing with Amalia. And yes, he did set

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it as is. Amara Abdelaziz was considered as the fifth reformist sorry, the first reformist in Islam and the fifth caniff the fifth rightly guided caliphs. Why did I mentioned that because he was

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worshipping Allah, Allah, Allah day and night. The main reason they mentioned that he was the fifth

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rightly guided caliphs was what

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was what

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his way of governing the country

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his law of governance that he used to implement his politics.

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So, he became what, and they considered him as one of the city hall. The fifth rightly guided halifa because of what

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because of what,

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because of politics, wow, because of politics, not because of his Salah yes hadn t had Salah, and a vida listed about that, he won't be able to run politics correctly.

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So they work both together. But the point is, a bad day is not limited to what we think of which is Salah, cm, etc. Anything you do for the sake of Allah Allah Allah is considered to be what and activate better okay?

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Da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da. The best off women. What was she known for?

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Any idea? What was she known for?

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business? Yeah, they always say Hadid is a businesswoman. So

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no, she was not.

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hadiza was a businesswoman. No sisters will protest against him.

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They say no, she was a businesswoman. And I say no, she was not.

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She was not. Yeah.

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Has Haji God, Allah, Allah and have been traveling here and there and having business meetings and having dinner meetings and meeting with other business men? has she done that? She was a boss.

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She was a rich woman. Not a businesswoman. There is a difference between businesswoman and what a rich woman that's why even India helia she didn't go for a business trip, as many sisters want. Yeah, to go for a business trip or to go for our trip. Yeah. But there is a sister newly married she said to her husband. It is a real scenario. She said I want to go for that our trip for five days. Yeah, with some of the group of sisters may be doing terribly. Oh gosh. Oh, yeah.

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So we said the best way is to stay.

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To do a Khadija did a lot of data and what did he do?

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What did she do? What was her achievement? Yeah, not much was mentioned about her ibadah. Here listed about that, but much was mentioned about what? How he she supported the Prophet Solomon.

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Is that true or not? And Subhana Allah, Allah, Allah Allah wanted to,

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for this incident to be recorded, and in the most authentic book in Sahih al Bukhari and the Lord Allah Allah wanted

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all Buhari to mention this among the very first if you are hadith of his here, which is the incident when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to go to the Hara cave, and then the Then the angel jabril came down, and he was worried the prophets Allah, Allah, and then he went to his wife to his beloved supportive.

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Yeah, his beloved What? Wife and supporter? What did he say zemi loonies and melone. Cover me cover me, Rock me Rock me. What did she say? What's wrong with you? Mohammed, you are a man. Come on. To Hannah law. No, no. What did she say?

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She accepted him. She endorsed him. She embraced him. And she said what law he answered Hannah law My dear brothers and sisters were like this Heidi's affected me and when when I mentioned this headed, I feel excited about it. I feel emotion and very emotional about it. She said to him, Well, la de la liga, la vida, Subhana. Allah This is statements. Allah wanted these these statements to be recorded, and to be said, Why a woman in order to show the position of a woman in Denver.

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What was the position of a woman in Denver is to be the supporter number one for her husband.

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Many sisters are asking about giving dour here and there and we tell them the immediate dalla you are not doing which is what to give support to your husband.

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Wow. No, we want to do our Yes, this is our This is what Khadija Alanna did. So she said to the prophesize lm Allah will not let you down. Because you host a guest. Yes, you help the needy people. You give the poor people, you.

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Yo maintain the ties of kinship.

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So these words supported the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Not only that, when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam once was sitting with Khadija was sitting with Isaiah, look at this. Look at this romantic Yeah, incident. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam was sitting with Arusha one time, and then he heard what

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And then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam remember that these footsteps are like the footsteps of who have Khadija Khadija passed away? Yeah. Then he said Cooney, Holla Holla is who is the sister of Khadija Look, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam?

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Yeah, and we can't use some words, describing how the prophets are seldom used out of respect for the prophets I send them but he was so attached to Hadith.

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He said Cooney, Halla Yan ebihara, the sister of hadiya. Then Aisha became furious. She became jealous. Oh, you are still remembering that old lady. You remember her because of her sister's footsteps? This is too much How come? I am sitting with you? I am your beloved wife. I am the one that you married me and I was not married before she was married before she was an old lady. Yeah. The professor I sent them became opposite to what she said. He said we're like, yeah, this lady Allah, Allah. Allah gave me what children from her he did. What did he say about Khadija? Did he say how much she was praying at night? She mentioned her as the mother of his children is the first

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thing. Then he said she supported me. Yes, financially by her honor by Harry's status supported me.

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Yeah, that's why howdy God Allah, Allah, Allah is the best of women or one of the for the student.

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Khadija de la that was her.

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That was with her, Amanda, when the sister feels that her husband is upset with her. Or maybe he is done. Yeah, she waits for him when he comes home from work. Yeah, get ready, dressed properly, clean the children, let them dress properly. Cook for him. Maybe something that he likes, dress for him something that he likes. When she's doing this to please her husband. She's doing what?

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She's doing an act of a bad. See, my dear brothers and sisters, we why we need to widen our understanding of a bad once we do this. Yes, our viewpoint about the whole world will change will change and we will not have a narrow understanding of Islam.

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That narrow understanding of Islam is causing so much harm for us. Yeah, we neglected so many rights.

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We neglected so many rights, because we believe that it is not a bad.

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Yeah, we neglected the rights of our parents. We neglected the rights of our families. We neglected the rights of our husbands. We neglected the rights of our neighbors. We neglected we neglected we neglected many of us think that being involved in politics is dirty.

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Because it stops you from doing a bad. Yeah, I agree or not once even my god a long time and who

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heard about a few people who left el Kufa and they stayed outside their Kufa. Yes. I believe in him. I showed one to them. And he said, What are you doing? They said we are worshipping Allah, Allah Allah. He said, What? worshiping God alone here? Yeah. They said, Yes. He said, then who is going to enjoy the good and forbid the evil? Who is going to do jihad?

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He said, By Allah, you will not leave until you leave.

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So he widened the scope of what of a bad dad just doing it going in that place and doing test B, etc, etc. is not just a bad a guy that is wider than that. Yes, a vida has more things to be involved in in it, rather than just the listed Eva that we have mentioned. Yes, my dear brothers and sisters Subhana Allah, even from that perspective, if we understand about them in its comprehensive

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way, and this is very important for us, my dear brothers and sisters. In many cases, we approach Islam. Yes, in a very micro way.

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Not macro a How?

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We just focus on single Adela single ahaadeeth Singh.

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Get it out. And then we think that call us we have understood this law, and we neglect understanding Islam as a comprehensive way of life. we neglect looking at the bigger picture of Islam.

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And as a result of this, we will have what wrong understanding of Islam. Wrong understanding of a bad or wrong understanding of enjoining the good and forbidding the evil. Wrong Wrong Wrong, wrong wrong.

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Yes, my dear brothers and sisters, that's why I urge all of you I urge all of you to learn Islam step by step.

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Yes, step by step. And when you learn something, don't think that you have learned everything about Islam. Yeah. And you judge yourself, even if you memorize certain a hadith certain if you judge yourself, how long you been practicing Islam for?

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Yeah, how long you been practicing Islam for? Okay, and how much you know of Islam.

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And the conclusions you came up with regarding Islam, unless they are conclusions that the whole agreed upon, then those conclusions might not be the correct conclusions. Yeah. And that happens to so many of the young brothers when they have a limited understanding of that okay, just maybe we need to vacate it stopped here. So, the conclusion My dear brothers and sisters that

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a bad day is a comprehensive term.

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And we can say you have Please listen to this, this is the summary we can say that the evaluator is of two types listed a bar that

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yes, the listed ibaadat are mainly the five pillars of Islam and the non listed about that which includes all of our other activities

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When we want to become better worshipers, we should talk about how to improve the quality of our data, but we should also talk about what

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how to increase what the quantity of the bad

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yeah, and when we talk about increasing the quantity of the ibadah we should not focus on what the listed a buy that we should focus on what

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everything yeah, in order to what to transform our normal life.

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Yeah, our normal life, our normal activities is sleeping, working, having fun, activism, etc. to transform it to become what

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to become what to become a better then our entire life will become what we back then we will be what

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will be fulfilling what Allah Allah Allah said well now Hakuna Denali in sir, in Delhi Abu infarct, we will get one of the highest levels of a badass which is what which is the level of

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when you worship Allah Allah Allah as you see Allah Allah Allah, how to worship Allah Allah Allah as you see Allah Allah Allah, when you are aware of Allah, Allah Allah all the time. In if you help smls you will be with the left lady on the house. When we can let you take the refill battery, if you have to say mama to allow Layla Now to do that I have Alabama,

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Alabama, who are all about those who think and letting in a Quran Allah.

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Allah you know, been waiting for Karuna.

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Banana Halak de Botton Subhana katakana, Davina, they think about Allah, Allah, Allah all the time. When they are working, when they are going to bed when they are working when they are with their families when they are going to sit down. And they think about the heavens and earth Oh Allah you did not create this for nothing. You created it for a purpose.

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And once we reach to that level, we reach the delivery of what

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of the best worshippers of a law gala

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does Aquila hayleigh

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barakallahu li calm. This topic, as I have said, is a huge topic. But maybe this is Yanni one angle for this topic to be tackled. Yeah. And of course, there are many other angles for this topic to be addressed. But this is one of the many topics that I was getting.

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I thought about it and I thought that it is very important to be addressed from the zachman law. Hello, Mark, illogical if you have any question.

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Go ahead, please.

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the basic rule is that we are only created to worship

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worship worshiping Allah.

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So we should film

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The numbers. What, what about the actions we do, which is like unusual actions? You don't do it for the sake of just like,

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like, what? Just doing nothing?

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Like video game? I don't know. Like, what?

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Playing video games?

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Playing video games? Just an example. I just mentioned this. I mentioned this.

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No, I spoke about football. Yeah. Football, is football without electronic football, or physical football

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is a new term. But

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what if there is no brother? Or if there are no brothers or sisters?

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I got to a point. But by the brother is saying, what about if we are required to fill all of our time with a bad day? What about the time that we stay idle without doing anything? Or we do think what he wanted to say is we do things without good intention.

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This year.

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We do things for no intention. Yeah. Brother, why are you walking there? I don't know.

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yeah, or just having

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okay things that has no meaning.

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Which we do a lot.

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Yes, that is a wasted time.

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That is wasted time. And that is the difference between what? Yeah, how can we hit buena mucuna Looney Tunes equally?

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They used to like to have an A right intention behind everything.

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And that is the struggle, otherwise, we will all be of the highest level of Ghana?

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Yeah. Okay. Are you going to be punished or not? This is something else. But the issue is that will be a wasted time. By what is the solution for that? My dear brothers and sisters? Are you following the question? Yes, a very important question the brother. Yeah, what are you going to do? What is the solution for that? The solution for that my dear brothers and sisters is think of a law all the time.

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Think of Allah all the time. When you think of Allah all the time, then Subhana Allah when you go to bed and you are thinking about Allah, then you will ask yourself a question.

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I'm going to bed Why?

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What What has this to do to please Allah? When you are going to take your family for a holiday? Yeah, you go to Turkey, Matera as Bradford did.

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exposing is a negative word.

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Yanni may be setting a model a role model for

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Just for fun? Yes, even for fun. Why?

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Why? Ask yourself why? If you think about Allah, you will ask yourself why? Well, to be honest with you, I felt that maybe my children they need some time with me.

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Yeah, because I'm not spending time with them. And this is not good for their upbringing. Or my wife. I neglected her for some time, being busy in the hour, etc. I need to give her some time.

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Or I want to do something okay for my mother something like this

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Yes brothers

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with that understanding then everything

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yes with once you think of Allah Allah Allah all the time that will help you to what to transform many of the activities that you do to transform them to become what a dad

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Is this clear?

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on top and that is not easy.

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Because it means that you have what transform your 24 hours for what to become a better Yeah. So, you are the sleeping the mother of a car writing for you Good deeds. This is so great. Or you are playing with your children or you are playing with brothers or

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okay. or sisters your sisters young not sisters. Sisters. Okay.

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By you are just enjoying your time you are enjoying your time and the Malaika the angels are writing for you What

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good deeds good, it's good. It's good deeds. This is so great. And this is the beauty of Islam, but it is not easy.

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Okay, any other question?

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Yes, sir.

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No. Okay. The question is, do you mean when you mentioned listed about that? Do you mean that was the back and then unlisted about that? Or the now I feel no, no, I didn't mean this. The listed Eva that are what brothers

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the five pillars and what is linked to them. So the Salah whether or not it is listed Eva, you cannot just say let me just pray. Yeah, Salah knuffel Salah with ruku no sujood

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Can you do this? No, it is listed. It is NFL but listed.

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Clear. It was mentioned to us how to perform the Salah. You cannot invent a new Salah?

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Those who drink beers.

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Ladies, we are confused about who is drinking beer.

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Yeah, so the brother is asking. Yeah, a specific scenario. He said if there are some friends some Muslim Yeah.

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If you don't mix with them, they will spend their time with the wrong people.

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Yeah. Is it good to mix with them? It will in generally speaking Yes. If you are doing it with the purpose of what

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was the purpose of what have not just you want to waste your time? Or do you want them to influence you? Or to teach you how to drink beer?

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Yeah. With the purpose of you influence them positively.

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questions, sisters, how are they going to ask questions?

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Yeah, if you want to know they use technology I say let them watch a view or something.

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A lady

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or all? No one house pen and paper these days? Look Oh, who has a pen now?

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verify few. Most of the brothers they don't have.

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Now, everyone is promoting his Facebook.

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And when you send the question Don't forget to make likes Yeah.

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Whatever, whatever you feel comfortable with. Yes. You mentioned something about focusing on your

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micro perspective compared to the macro perspective. Yes. If someone chose like specific things, which they consider other

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The only

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specific thing Yeah, forgetting the rest of this. Yes. Okay. This is an excellent question.

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Yeah, this is an excellent question.

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Brother Zhi Shan Allah, but he, yeah. Bye by. He is saying he's asking the following question he is saying that if Is it wrong to focus on specific about that?

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Yeah. And to ignore everything else? There are two cases is the question clear.

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Brutus, is the question clear? Now, there are two scenarios.

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For example, the set of said Yanni a statement that means that our da da, da da ba dee, okay, above and Hello, hi, Elijah, Allah gives some people more opportunities in certain ibadah. So you find the person who likes to fast a lot. You find another person who is weak, too fast, but he gives a lot of soda. Or he makes

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prayer at night. Yeah, that is not a problem at all. But it becomes a problem when it was when it becomes what, when you say that

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fasting is the most important thing. Don't do soda.

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Yeah. don't pray at night. Or when you pray at night, and there is a person who doesn't pray at night, but he fasts a lot. You look down at him, because he's not doing what you are doing. That is a problem. And that is a huge problem. Why? Nowadays, unfortunately,

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unfortunately, yeah. You will find people who will say some people who are attributed to knowledge, they will say, listen, ask me about methylene shock, or al Qaeda. Don't ask me about politics, because I don't understand politics. I don't care about politics.

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Yeah. If he says that he has a limited

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ability, and he doesn't understand politics, that's fine.

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can be acceptable, not even the best thing. But if he says and don't put attention to politics, because politics is dirty, don't even bother about politics, then he made the mistake.

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Yes. Because he is what?

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he is what leaving as our chef Abdullah Shanti recently by

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we were in Medina.

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And a person came to him from

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from Algeria anyway. And he said to him, Chef, we want you to visit us in Algeria. He said inshallah, inshallah.

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And he said, shall we focus on? We have nothing to do with politics. Here. We want to only so the chef was bit annoyed. And he said, but politics is part of

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politics is part of Islam.

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Yeah. How come Bhima Angela is part of al Qaeda.

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I agree, ruling by the law firm where the law is what

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is part of our acleda? So you can't say that politics is not part of Islam, that this is secularists. So they should have said no, and you pull it. And he said, when we left politics for those who do not fear Allah, Allah, Allah, what happened?

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What happened?

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Yeah, some people who do not fear Allah, Allah, Allah became in charge of us. And they what?

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They were running things away from Islam.

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Is that correct? Okay. So,

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as one of the brothers had yesterday, I was in fact, speaking to him. I said, this is now a new form of secularism, where some people,

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any speakers, or some people have knowledge, they are proud to say, what asked me about what kind of data I can answer, but I don't know anything about politics that takes I'm not worried about

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I'm not concerned about it. So one of the brothers, he said, Yes. So I said,

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Yeah. And is he proud to say this?

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Yeah. Is he proud to say this? So the brother, he said he's proud of his ignorance.

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Which is true. Are you proud of your ignorance? Even if you say, Well, I don't know anything about politics, but don't present it as if you are proud of that? Well, I say unfortunately, I haven't studied that. I'm not involved in that. Unfortunately. I don't know how it runs. Yeah. But not to what to discourage people from doing that. This is like, yes, I'm fasting. You are not fasting, but you are praying. Come on, fasting is the most important thing.

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Yeah. Lala.

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You say awesome, Hannah law or you wish if I can pray at night, I wish if I can give you wish, if I can, fast more, I wish, I wish if I know how to how politics run, I wish if I learn it, I wish if I know, the economical system, I wish, if I know about social life more, and so on, by any question.

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Sometimes we see some people that focus too much on certain aspects, the reputation of other people

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builds their whole beam on this.

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Yeah, yeah. The question is some people. We see some people sometimes are focusing too much on refuting others. Yeah. And they claim that this is Manhattan for Salah. See, I remember

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that I read a similar question. To our chefs have been debri Latino long.

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Yeah. And she has been debri.

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At that time, this issue of this is sarahfey. This is not selfie. This is Yanni manhood yourself, etc. So the chef became a bit

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agitated. And he said we all wish to be for myself aside.

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He said to be from a cellar facade is not by refuting this and that is why your flock is why you're a badger.

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Yes, by the way, how to deal with others, etc, etc, etc. We have limited the understanding of a set of my dear brothers and sisters to a very, very narrow perspective.

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And then we said that this is a seller, okay? If I say to you, if I say to you, most of our self worth politicians

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will agree on this or not.

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Yeah. Or if I say to the best of our setup, there were politicians.

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Abubakar was the best of them. So was he a politician or not?

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Was he a politician or not?

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Yes or no.

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Yes or no?

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radi Allahu anhu le Vitara radi Allahu anhu they were the best of a setup. agree or not?

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They were politicians. Yes or no?

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Yeah. So if you just want to take one side, and you claim that this is the man how to have a setup,

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okay, this is completely wrong. My dear brothers and sisters.

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By and as I told you, please, you are young. Yeah. Be careful of this micro thinking or micro understanding of Islam. What is the micro understanding of Islam?

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By you just take single isolated a Heidi, from here and there. Yeah. And you just eyes understand them in isolation of the rest of

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the ahaadeeth and the ayah to the talk about Islam.

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Yeah, for example, for example, if someone and this is by the way, this is the move away.

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This is the bit our for example, there are people you know that the beta alpha that considers what actions are not part of email. They focused on what

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they are hiding that talk about what the mercy of Allah Yeah, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam inside a Muslim

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Said overseas in Idaho llama Allah protect him from fire hollows. This is the only adage that they remember.

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Is that correct?

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The Hadith is correct. No one can say that Hadith is not wrong, then one of those brothers, okay or the merger will challenge you. What do you say about the headache? Is the trunk?

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This blackmailing? No, no, no, this is correct. Halas if the Hadith is authentic, you should do it in Dorset as your mentor, agree, full stop. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said if you say Allah you will be protected from the fire of police the palace

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Come on, but there are many other Howdy. I don't care Subhana Allah as I don't know about them keytab you attack Corona diva Do you believe in part of the book and you leave the others know you are you already nominated officer McAfee enter in Islam in its totality.

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So this man had his the manhunt of the heart during that time have been abuzz. Whenever an Ibis went to have a dialogue with them. He said What's wrong with you? They said Maria I live in avatar left Elisa. Why? He said how can I recall if Ed Nila

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How come haha camera data feed in Allah? Yeah. And he made the men by judges on the deen of Allah Subhana Allah How come so they brought a deli that look he accepted the turkey

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he said come on guys. Come on. Just wake up by Allah Allah Allah. Allah Allah Allah said in the Quran, como de da de minko so he allowed men to judge

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you cannot say that I live in ever thought of did this

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clip but when they focus on one thing and leave the rest by then it is becoming a big problem for example. Now many brothers are focusing on some people who made mistakes or who fell in bed as yeah we need to boycott them we need we don't need even to give them Salah

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yes okay. But therefore God that these people are still What

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are still Muslims. I agree or not. Yeah. Which is more stronger.

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Any side that there are Muslims or there are more

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Muslims because it is confirmed today this is according to your viewpoint.

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Maybe according to others, they are not looked at it. I guilty or not. Yeah, but it is confirmed that there are Muslims, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said by Allah, you will not get into Jenna until what you believe and you will not believe until you what love each other. And you will not love each other until you what

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until you what gifts around to each other.

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he is more today he is misguided guided the righteous not righteous. Yes. With beat with no beard. Okay. Praise like this praise like this whatever. He is what he is Muslim testifies there is no God but Allah.

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Yes. And Mohammed is his final machine just give him

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give him what Salah? I will mostly move a whole Muslim did the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and Allah Jalla Allah says who was an Akuma salamina main kaaboo he had a he called you Muslims. Yes, selfie Salafi? Hanafi telavi Melfi.

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kulu Muslims. I do not know I'm talking seriously.

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Yeah, they are Muslims and Muslim or is the brother of Muslim This is what the prophet sallallahu Sallam said if he said are you have just taken one howdy? I say yes. All of the Hadith are talking about this. methylome Amina fatawa mataranka me without of income Allah yesterday, right? Yeah. In New Malmo, Luna fo all the ayat and the Heidi confirm this conclusion.

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Yes. By and large over

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time, we forgot that.

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When we do something, we need to think of the consequences of it. And this is a very important rule

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by, for example, my neighbor, he is miskeen

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or he is not Miskin.

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Yeah, he's moved there. According to my viewpoint, yeah, I pass by him

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just turn my face. Yeah. By I forgot about the rights of neighborhood. I forgot about the rights of Muslims. I forgot about the unity of Muslims. I forgot I forgot I forgot about everything. Not only that, then next time, I saw him and I said, Listen, listen, I want to give you an advice. Yeah. Listen, I want to give you an advice because it looks that you are muted by and you have to pray like this. You have to believe in like this otherwise you are muted it and the muted there are worse than dogs.

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What is he going to do?

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He will say jazak Allahu Allah is a very good advice

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is he going to do this?

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Is he going to do this come on

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yeah. By all the scholar said, when you boycott someone, boycott him for the masala if there is no masala don't boycott him.

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Yeah. Because the whole because the prophesize lm said lahainaluna musulman. And Yahoo. Kolkata

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is not allowed. This is a puppy. Heidi is not allowed for a Muslim to boycott Amazon more than three days. Even with the three days within the three days, as many scholars said, it should be according to the Messiah. If there is no muscle. Someone he doesn't know why you don't give him Salah.

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Yeah, someone he doesn't know.

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how is he going to improve?

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He's not going to improve. He's not going to fix himself.

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So we have to be very careful, as I always say, and this is by the way, your new brother ferried brother certified. Yeah, and he told me to

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do more reminded me of something very important. This is what we teach in a Seville? Yeah. Okay. And the Serbian Program is a program that meant to make people better worshipers. In fact, we aim in this program to produce dealing to develop the brothers and sisters. Yeah. To become dealing because does it do porn are the second best people in general are many of us will have our aka Valentina and Allah didn't mean and Nabina was assured that he was solid him.

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And that program aims to develop brothers and sisters from every single angle, from a man's perspective, from doing good deeds prospective, from giving our perspective, from a flap perspective, from Elon perspective, from working as a team prospective from improve in their personality skills perspective, it is a total development program. Yes. And we teach people critical thinking. Yeah, not just to they read a statement. Yeah, they take it on a face value. Okay. Without thinking about its meaning.

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Without thinking about it,

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yeah, no critical thinking. And that with the Quran teaches us. Yeah, especially when we talk to others.

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A legend or LSA told us about Ibrahim but it's okay that you can only ever hemara kutesa molecule or an m&m opinion mopinion Fela Medina de la Rocco Kabbalah Dobby, Allah, Allah Allah, Allah city.

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When he when the night came Ibrahim, so there is a star. He said

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the people are listening. He wants to teach them what

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he wants to teach them what?

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critical thinking you said that this this is my load. Come on in disappeared Hong Kong my load disappears. Impossible. So now they are listening. Yeah. Then for Amara Amara Sankara darabi. He saw the man he said no, this must be my Lord. Yeah, fella.

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En el amin, anybody.

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Para la mia De Niro Bella coonan. Amina Bali.

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If Allah doesn't guide meats, you see he's sending messages. If Allah doesn't guide me it will be what misguided? Yeah. Then he saw the sun. He said house this is my Lord. Yeah. Then it

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disappeared. He said Wake Up Guys Wake up, wake up, wake up, wake up anybody matteucci Cohn in New

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York hanifa

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he came wake up. Then Allah Allah Allah said waka daddy cannery era, Hema, well we're tilka hoodia tuna, tuna Ibrahim.

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Allah homi Ashanti Rahim Allah says within Kappa Jia tuna, this hood De De De La Jolla, Allah has given him that evidence that he has given Ibrahim is the ability to what?

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to debate with his people in this rational way. The rationality that Allah Allah Allah has given to him. This is part of the critical thinking. We take things just on a face value. Our shares have been bad one time. Yeah. We were studying with him blue Kamara and we came to the masala

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that has is it allowed to pray the naza if the janazah is is absent yeah so that's a lie.

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Yeah, like a person died in

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somewhere else and you pray genizah on him here

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Yeah, do you do that or not like when a buzzer Rahim Allah tala himself died by some people want to pray Denizer in London in other places salata live. So our share, even basil, Allah He used to believe that you can.

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You can buy. So I said to him share. But yeah, and he, he said, The Prophet sallallahu Sallam prayed to Ghana as our own energy. And then he was what he died were

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in that habit in our senior year.

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So I said to him, but when he died, no one prayed on him. So that's why the prophet SAW Salem pray on a person that no one prayed on him. What did you say? Well, I remember that. He said, la Europol. animalic, UCLA, my UCLA law, he said, What are you Sunday?

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Yeah. If anyone were to say this statement, other than it embarrassed, maybe will say What? You use apple?

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She hasn't been bad, he said, is not rational. Yeah. It is not imaginable that a king becomes Muslim. And no one from his people becomes Muslim. And no one offers janaza prayer on him. He says this is against apple.

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Look. So he used what?

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critical thinking.

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Yes, when Mr. Mohammed de told him, listen, the prophet SAW Selim said, yeah, it occurred, the militia, militia. COVID, Elisha when the food comes, he stopped with the fruit and before the prayer, he said, No, stop for law. you reject the Hadith.

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Remember, rejects the Hadith, that he did not reject the Hadith. What did he he rejected? What? Your understanding and application of the Hadith?

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He said what he said that he is talking about the Sahaba at that time when they were hungry. They did not find food. Yeah, so when they find food miskeen Yeah, and they will not be able to pray because they haven't eaten for days. I agree. But as for our term food is available, you are eating day and night. Are you telling me to delay the Salah because of the food?

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Say this is again, the meaning of the Hadith.

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And the application of the Hadith. by many of our brothers and sisters, they don't know this. Carlos, what is the delille? Full stop? We teach people what does he mean? critical thinking? I remember a brother.

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He came to me. Yeah. And he said to me here, what is the day live that you and when you are in the message you don't read or an loudly?

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I said what do you mean? He said the brother was reading loudly and I was praying next to him and then I said to him after that. I feel like I could not pray because you were reading loudly.

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Yeah, so read. Okay, quiet, quietly so I can concentrate in my Salah. Then that brother He told him what is deadly

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I said, Well, I hate if it is allowed to go and maybe, yeah, and I don't want to say but beat him up, then maybe he deserves to be beaten.

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He's disturbing you. He's disturbing others. Do you need a text that says, Don't disturb others if you are praying?

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And maybe he will say, Yeah, but that is not applied here. So you need a text that says, Don't disturb others. If you are praying in a message in London

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in order to say that this is a delicate, no.

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We teach people how to understand Islam. Yeah, with the critical thinking, in order for them to become insha Allah real that is real leaders. Real influential people. Yeah, that is to be maybe brother Fahad can talk more about it just because we want to it can't need to stop because of Salah.

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if both man and wife works and have enough to provide for the family, and more

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should dive, be home and raise the children even.

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They get what is better.

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Even they get less what is better for her? Yes, we're like to be honest with you. I do agree if the sister means this, I encourage sisters here wise to

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look after to put attention to their main job first

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to give it the highest priority. And then after that, to move to other jobs. Yeah, we we have to prioritize things. The priority for the wife is her kingdom.

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She's the queen of the kingdom. She's not the queen. Okay. In somewhere else. She's the queen in her house. I agree or not. outside her house. She's not a queen. I agree or not. Yeah, she's maybe what a laborer. But in headhouse She is what

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a queen.

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So Will she leave her kingdom where she is a queen, to be just a laborer or

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anything else not to be appreciated, not to be looked after, or maybe humiliated or maybe

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maybe abused or sexually harassed or

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by that is the first priority for sisters. And later on that. Okay.

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She will get their reward in the dunya and in the Akira Baraka. Okay, for her children in the dunya. And the alpha. Yeah. Right. The second thing, as a woman, you said that she should be one of the supporters of her husband, but could

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another abanda for a woman be that she works in

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certain fields that will help Muslims,

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Muslim woman and Muslims

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in general,

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in the social

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in the society, or should should? Or should she rather focus on the family home and bring a good and being a good wife? Yeah, I answered this question. They are. The first priority is for your kingdom. You are a queen at your kingdom that is your first priority. If you have time. And maybe if the environment allows you, okay, in a decent way, you can then do other things.

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How can a Muslim woman do that? or do something positive in this society without being married? Yeah, this is a good question. First of all, my dear sisters, marriage is a priority for all of you.

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Yeah, marriage is a priority when you find a good proposal a reasonable not too good a reasonable proposal, then go for it. Don't expect brothers to be like the angels. Yeah, because you yourself is not an angel. But don't expect the brothers to act like a Baccarat deal or a Murano hopper or let alone

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Prophet sallallahu Sallam no no no this is real life life as problems

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if you receive a reasonable proposal, I strongly advise you to go for it. Yeah. Now if it happened that you do not get you could not get married then you have a father to support you have a brother to support by support them if you have time yeah then you can do some other activities provided that you do it in the right environment yeah not in an environment that exposes you to fitna exposes you to any some how long things

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yeah, okay

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that's it any other question or we shall we stop just to get ready for Salah

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the habit of the prophet SAW Selim the habit of alayhi salam, the habit of other righteous people to make up for their brothers and sisters in Santa Monica.

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