I Want this Ramadan to be Better than Ever #01

Haifaa Younis


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The average person this one, assume 13.

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What is the last thing?

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I'm not talking about this now, you have a look what I'm saying. Fasting of

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fasting, the women passed the sun fast, the horse fast, they like us. That's the autobahn.

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And in this

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whole Stay, stay,

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stay stay today stay strong. The roof is

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the sun is still in the middle of the day of the day.

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The horse fasting, meaning the horse stopped not knowing

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what is this fourth week in any particular modules, this

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is the point I want you to start thinking when it comes to it. The point is

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faster, stand still. Stand is still external. And it can hold. Hold.

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Okay, the next one. Now this is a standard. This is a standard for what amounts to ask you what is what are we going to do next month we're going to say the following.

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abstaining from food

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and sexual relations from dawn to dusk, or to sunset with Dee and I purposes.

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For only one reason.

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I don't want to lose weight.

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I am not doing it because everybody is doing what people will say about horses come along explicit intention of doing is

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you're not at home, from dawn to dusk, or to sunset for a lost contract.

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Something for me,

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most of the things we're going to talk about, we're going to see who said so. And what's the proof? This is the particular This is not my opinion, in your opinion. This is what

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the first thing you have four columns.

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you are obligated, you have to ask you why you're making your volunteering to pass.

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You need to pass to attain for some of them we've done or I've done it. And there is a formal introduction. how

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you'll be punished.

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Or you will be yes. Easy. Before I turn to the next one. What is the obligation? You have to do?

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No other ones. What do you want?

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What is important?

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I don't

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know. What is it?

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Monday, Thursday few days of the month.

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if you're not, if not leave

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all this extra, extra volunteering

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What is the penalty?

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If you said there is

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no Hello multitasking, you are going to make a horrible mistake you have done

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that's why I'm asking if you need to do if you need to do

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two things, actually. Number one that is

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to have a desktop or mobile number two that I really don't know a lot

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about this whole opportunity opportunities wherever opportunities and I'm not going to say a word of word about this de to that moment.

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Because the penalty if you've read the Quran, you will see it.

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No, that's not the penalty penalty, meaning if you have something you have to do, but you couldn't do it, then you will make it by casting

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or if done a sin, and you will remove this simply by faster.

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I can confirm again, yeah, what is it? What did I do to achieve this by fasting?

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if you make an oath,

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penalty, meaning I have to prove because it's I made a mistake. For example, when you go home, and you cannot change, you cannot smoke on an animal.

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You don't have the money. What do people

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is people are new recently could not

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could not have an animal. They don't know. What do they

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watch out with another team.

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at the end, when you come back for overtime, so when you fast these days as if you have to offer the

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if you make an order, and we didn't keep it.

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One of the options is to fast

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notebook for us.

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Up front of the

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audience, you will like it I love it. Day under

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an hour. It doesn't matter. The first two days of

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the day.

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The first day, the first day of the afternoon and the four days off.

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I decided I am working fast. You know what? I don't think about us much faster. That's one of the ways

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It's a major sin, a major sin. And the mother has a very famous Bible you hear this anywhere. You're still think about what about someone who did not

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come to the ISS who cannot? Okay, he didn't know he is just

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this is how we write the piece that people presuppose that that person is worse than somebody who committed adultery worse than the person who's at holics in some sense, is

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something not

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So don't take

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obligatory and I have not a choice not to except with some of the

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exceptions. I want you to read this. I put all these in this presentation for all of us.

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And for those of you

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who have us online, access to this, if you want the access to the slides, which will be outside in the break

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because a lot of slides

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so look at this.

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Most of you

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this is

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this is related to the obligation.

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And this has been a

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while I was asleep

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and how did my wrist my wrist and took it off really forcefully.

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And they took me to a mountain

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recliner, that really tough mountain.

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And they said to me, like, go up. And I said Kenneth

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we will help you

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and this is in a half an hour. And he said A New Hope. So I didn't want to be

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that sort of sliding side. I suppose.

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They say this is the cry of the people of the help.

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Then we will go for it. And I came across many different elements

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and the amounts are

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What is coming out and

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upside down? Now a

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lot coming up

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those are the ones who break

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before the time is unknown

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Did you get that? So today is 740 I'm fasting I just ate at 730 no reason not mistake if I pay 10 minutes before that's the punishment What about the person who doesn't

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at all so don't take it lightly and others as I was preparing this question came to one of the highly respected answers Yesterday my very close person to

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what you

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because he got up

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and he said number one remember

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always say don't make people afraid Don't push them away right because there's enough things to push them but he said do this remind them that what they are doing this

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this is the roof

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and this is the difference between us

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to remind them and tell them what it is and what is this what's the sequence and at the same time is very important to talk about

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to be honest

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with my

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easy to

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use so it is definitely an obligation

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three sources we're going to talk about when I say it's hard to come up with it's okay we have to look at resources

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so what is the consensus

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of the scholars not me people really who won this Come

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What is this

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what is this I

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I didn't

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oh you teamed up with everything

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is pretty fun. It's an obligation. So you know is prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those before. So you may

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or may not feel alone

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come on right?

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things to learn on the site.

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She is the oldest

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meaning the V pillars of stuff the four

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and a

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half can

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you protect your son especially because

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all you

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asked him became obligation in the next month

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or so. So

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how about

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the best of me and what you really do breathe out of the earth. That's the

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is a window once

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keeping your money relative to what's in the middle to the secretary. So what's the first one is it's being prescribed? Next, a young man

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so if you do a

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few things, you come to the

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soccer moms don't want to be four because

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the normal people and they feel it is to

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the people who work

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and I will talk about

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When I was in London and one of my colleagues says

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you don't need

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not even a sip of water no this is this is Toby was asking your cup of

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production in our garden

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and I said I've been doing it since I was seven

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you all seen this all of us

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so the first thing is it is a few days tell yourself

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how many of us firstly are from Oman and the ones they're from Oh feels like one day also you're just going to it's open

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to your idea

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and then of

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course it was season we'll get into these details then we'll make up phone numbers right now commas in short this is

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these are 313 verses one after the other fascinating and

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these are the main concepts and we can account specifically

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for shadow

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the money it's the money

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and big enough

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for us this is where the obligation comes in. This is Lotus people ask you for all of you Where does it come and show you the

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movie so see the month to see the show you have seen to the

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and no exceptions comes into when Canada is safe or you're struggling when

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other things look at the next time you see them you need

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a lot more space

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that we still have

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to do the same for the

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and you're saying the deal Thank you Why do we say

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you are glorifying the Lord The truth is the sign often is a lot like again and again and again. You are one of the most

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that he made you live to see that he made you fast that he made you finish

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so this is the audio clip this is no different this is not an iOS for many meetings

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that's the moment

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no comes to the cinema

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I wanted to ask the question How many of us

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in the country

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okay it's all good. So you will answer

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how many

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how many

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123 the

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age of nine

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once you have our Islamic from Amman became on

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trivia I should have put something

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so good.

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Okay, another question.

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Anybody comes to others

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wasn't in luck only

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one person says

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and maybe 50 days or sideboard

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Mecca Medina.

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I'm assuming

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otherwise that says

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You're watching.

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It's in Medina. Second, it's after the July 2.

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Second deal. How many years do you live in? Medina?

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So if it's talking to you,

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nine, do your math.

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Because he's positive the second, second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eighth, ninth actually 99.

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to none, so that's number one soon. And for you, all of you, also.

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And this is very common, meaning either

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or peace.

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so either

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says, do this, or don't do it yourself.

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Or someone did it in front of him. And he also did.

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Okay, so this one actually, it's

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it's one of them. Now look at this. And this is

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you have it. Next one.

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We have to

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read this all of your English, it's up to you. And I'm going to explain it as well. But you will come to us.

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Anytime you read, by the way, but when is what why do they say

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that when people were not in the conference? They live in the deserts, right? And they are straightforward.

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explained to me to the point. Okay, and look what he said the man came from a small office. And he was a little bit I wouldn't say upset. He was really he was a no rush. And just telling me

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or telling me and he started telling me what what was

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the prayers are what needed obligation.

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As long as

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the five then he's and he said the five unless you want to do extra.

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Then he said, What about Swank? What is that obligation upon me? And he said shorter than a lot except if you want to do extra. Then he said one more second was obligation. And he told him

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look what he said on his end. What are the outcome? You swayed by elevating your status? I am not going to do anything extra.

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You know, what do we say in these days?

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minimum bottom line you know, it's going to be fine.

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It's only fine now or what? Not in this in photos. I'm not doing extra five not that

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I'm not gonna do anything extra. And one person

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and I'm not gonna do anything less. Did you get the point so far so far? So

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I'm gonna, I'm gonna but I'm not gonna do Yes.

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This is a good one for

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why because this thing is beautiful. So many options. And he says all of us are

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in some

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our data

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he will be very successful. If What is he saying is true? Or he will go to genuine if what he stands to mean

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I want you to feel this because this is what you need these days. I mean, if only do my flights

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on time, not twice a week at the end of the night. You know, I come back from work or school my daughter's life together. We need to do them the way

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you performed.

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A lot on your three years.

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On what what'd you go for hedge that they asked me to do. But I'm not going to extra no to before or after one or two afterwards. No extra charity.

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He said he will enter into the gentleman. If that's really what it is. Why did he say if it is really what you will do?

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Because this is not easy. Look, as I'm talking to you think of you and me wanting to have we ever missed a slot.

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Have we ever missed the soccer I want to hear

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Is my fasting

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is 100% external the way the Lord wanted Do I need to patch it? Do I need to make it better?

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Right And same thing for

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common you must forget it the check

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boxes one we have to

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do this all the time.

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Right? So you have two options in this deep take the minimum, the perfectly the way you look last but not the way you want or I am honest and I know myself and my capability I am going to try

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my best to do the

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best. Thank you. Okay, the next one okay.

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And this is a very famous study this is important to ask you what is this system is all about it's very famously talking to the children

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is built upon

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it sounds like a house we put the foundation is fun. And you all know this.

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But this is one of the rooms when people tell you why.

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And you should

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and that's what that was what we thought was the most authentic source and the highest of all

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he said I heard

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that I'm saying Islam

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has been really wonderful, false, she had the

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and number two

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is photosynthesis profit when it comes to

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give us a car

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go to Hajj pilgrimage, if it was all as these are

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the four pillars of Islam that Shahada we all declared in which sequels making which was the first

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so I just said a second here and last

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and this is beautiful when you read this beautiful these things as Scott was talking says why the sequence and they were working for one week they had props they will

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Did you ever think I'm gonna have to go to my email and then take them directly automated born in Germany

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because of the financial support this is if I don't have a financial support and you're just not going to be

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talking about the sequence of loss This

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was talked or made it in that order. So the outcomes then is

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down faster than

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many reasons I'm just going to cook it just for us to learn as much as we can have

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had that's what this course teaches. It's convenient to order the original idea it's an act of worship, that includes your body includes your your work, and includes you

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it's it's all I need to learn South Africa

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and move to want to play soccer so I can pay for the hedge and fasting because we're going to come to it off the training that fasting that gives you hedge is one of the actually most of the scholar tells you the hottest,

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because you are believing everything and you're totally especially for us these days, what is the average temperature and most

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of all the numbers is beyond right? You have to take time off

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to travel portfolios, and all the other challenges. So this is when anyone asked why do you fast Tell me from the Select Why do you pray? Number is this? Are you Next are Rosmarinus autocentre. Before hawan became obligated to give us four ways to fast Ashura? What's actually

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the 10th day off the content of the first month of Islamic ruler Academy, he was always

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always almost an obligation and he only changed it to one from Amman became an obligation and you have all the sources

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for for

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why do we have to fast

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16 hours 17 hours, these days this filter is firing on till 745 and I have family my husband got to work and all this explain to me but you want an authentic Indian communities. And I would like to have this coffee

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you have to the Pantone number comes

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first thing.

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And I always remind myself to do this, anytime someone asks you, or you ask yourself because a lot of time shift on campus and sort of like this number.

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A loss

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of the law or the

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law that's gone, all of us together to obey your law, even if it doesn't make sense to me yet. And by the way, everything makes sense. And everything is good. It just needs to learn. But number one, it

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is a test of the willingness of the service offered over the

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past is not easy to be very honest with you, especially for those of us who are not used to the people who only asked for one moment to

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write what will happen the first day of

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Don't talk to me when

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there's no food in the house. While I'm gonna come and sit while I'm gonna apply for the phone. Now I'm taking that demo. It's the first day of 16 hours.

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So the first thing is I will train myself this is where you can bet your teacher to this. I don't know. You said and we say

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we're here and we have a so that's number one.

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Fasting absolutely purified with energy. Why?

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what it has to do with the purification cleaning? What What is faster

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think of it simple.

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stop from collecting.

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I'm still alive.

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So why why fast food purifying, taking on that process.

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It's a beautiful fall over souls. Why? Once all that was also beautified myself

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some of you may not be healing is what you're seeing the absolute typical fasting

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I am by choice, stopping myself

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self harm, drinking waters, eating and even things I like or things I don't like.

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I am stopping myself from China which does not really make a lot of sense to us in this day and age. You know educated everything has to have.

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If I can stop myself, this is the training process. If I can stop myself

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which is harder than for sure. One of the streets for 30

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actually living in good able to stop the process. I'm not going to take a job

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to stop myself

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because it's a struggle. It's a struggle to eat I am at 6pm I have Sydney

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the bottle of water

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and I am waiting for 739

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and it's not 738 has to be 730

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Some lazy thinking, if you think your walk and how many of you looking, and then you say, can I? Wait, wait, wait, let's go check the calendar. Oh, some condition says this right? Let's wait there's two times Let's be safe. All these if you look

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if I can stop myself from

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willingly Are you by His grace for sure I can stop myself. So all what you're saying you know that authority we all think on

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our own versus not properly saying things like all these things so that's not

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so much faster

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of course

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is actually regarded as half of southern half of Asia is asking

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and a lot of times are all sort of swapped in says we are

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what color are you attempting, take assistance and help with by center and empty Allah says suppose

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most of us follow a patient in this area is fasting.

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Fasting would teach me to be more patient

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through referrals, you if you just pay attention to these things in yourself individually, right? How many of us gets upset when there's a traffic

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or the traffic clock is right? When it's gonna be great, come on, it's probably 30 seconds, it feels like for a whole day. Why? Because our lack of patience. I'm not a patient person, some other people say it's okay. That we are taxes.

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So if I can control my desire to drink a sip of this water, because it is not yet 739 I am going to train myself to see if it is

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certain definitely, it is a beautiful way to be even more patient. And if you just pay attention to these things, unfortunately, most of us is hyper.

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Casual. Of course it's possible to buy don't pay attention to these. So it's purify there's much different things. I just don't want to take too much time. Definitely it's a way to teach me and you

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so you will take loving feeling of loss

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and not conscious. Why is

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Why? Why have teachers? Why does it teach me about conscious fasting?

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Can you go to the bathroom, close the door and drink? Nobody, nobody's saying you cannot tell me when I'm fasting, why you're not doing it.

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Because you You're absolutely acknowledging that

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you don't see it, but you're actually saying go to the bathroom and

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get in the car, no one has seen you

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even if it is 725 so it teaches

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and unintentionally, that one is watching and I was seeing I was seeing my actions and I was writing this for you and He will be rewarded. The more I look at it this way I will attain.

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One of the things also teaches us which unfortunately that's what that's number four we need to work on it is less attachment to the extra

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for 16 hours, taking nothing in common with you. Even if you're going to eat or watch you still cannot eat as much as what you normally do

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for food.

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And of course which we all know that children are not concrete and you know that people who cannot walk food. There is people in this world and I'm sure in St. Louis, let alone all over the world. They don't have money to buy

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food, not soaking nuts.

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I've seen this.

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Have you seen people looking in the garbage for food. You know who someone is in need, if you give them food

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these people

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so it teaches me obviously. Next one. This is a beautiful I highly recommend if you're not going to get this at the slides. Take a picture of this

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Cuz he's to summarize everything or to ask you this how big

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or small is known for someone described as the following a signal

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passing is a shield

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cannot also do is if the person is not observing the class they do not have sexual motivation to not say or do something inappropriate.

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And for someone and this is very common that upset your children comes on your colleagues at something, someone tries to rescue us

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all this happens Can you tell us your fault? What are fighting? What are saying something inappropriate.

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Say I asked him twice.

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Now, the thing I love the second part of this

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episode really needs a screen on by the one

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who wants our souls who wants our souls along with many lives.

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the smell of the fast, impossibly always smelled as after all,

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that smell much more to a loss

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from the smell of the most.

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That's one of the things you keep telling yourself is smelling it is looking at me seeing the monster can seem difficult.

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And now the last sentence I love this part. Last one is

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worship. Worship, what do you do with energy, he stay away from food and drink and his desire to heal sexual desire. For me, there's no other reason.

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And then as

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far as this is happening,

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this is fast enough for me to sing

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along long standing one

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plus two is for me and I have long sought the generous the capable divorce the beautiful he really was one interest up to natural gas

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and apply same good deep blue.

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Except no one knows what it is.

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Because you know when you say to your son or your daughter or something like that you need the love. And the last for you to do this, whatever this is. And then you say you do it and see what

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and you are a capable person. What that boy or girl What would you think

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if you ask her what you think your mom will give you it was genius. That's

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what about every time and I highly recommend you memorize at least just this part of the

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past. Today Sunday is Monday, right? And you're going to

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have an expert on well this comes in just remember this

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past school. And I

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wonder does

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wonder just

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have this relationship with almost your father fasting for him, not for anyone else to the virtues of our service.

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Almost can be the most important spiritual force

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the Mean

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feeding into long whiskey