Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Tug of War Between Parents and Teenage

If you can't win all the battles, you do your best you pick the main

battles, otherwise you'll just be, you'll just destroy the whole

thing. I would say that the relationship between a TJ teenager

and their parents in some cases is like a relationship where they're

both tied by a thread. And it's a tug of war with a thread like a

hair strand. If you pull too much, you're gonna break it. But you

can't let go too much either. It's constantly back and forth, back

and forth. You have to be clever about the things that you do and

ask for guidance. Ask others who've done this. I don't think

there's enough practical books about there's lots of books about

bringing up children with just the Hadith and the Quran giving you

the general guidances but we need more examples.