Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Tug of War Between Parents and Teenage
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If you can't win all the battles, you do your best you pick the main
battles, otherwise you'll just be, you'll just destroy the whole
thing. I would say that the relationship between a TJ teenager
and their parents in some cases is like a relationship where they're
both tied by a thread. And it's a tug of war with a thread like a
hair strand. If you pull too much, you're gonna break it. But you
can't let go too much either. It's constantly back and forth, back
and forth. You have to be clever about the things that you do and
ask for guidance. Ask others who've done this. I don't think
there's enough practical books about there's lots of books about
bringing up children with just the Hadith and the Quran giving you
the general guidances but we need more examples.