Before You Say I Do – EP01 – PT 1

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Yassir Fazaga – Before You say, “I DO”.Episode 1.Part 1/2 on Peace Tv.

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Together

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Allah has given you a companion and friend to stay and always be seen as man in life, fulfilling the deen from this day forever be true

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are the lamina shaytani r rajim Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah All praise is due to Allah and made his peace and blessings be upon our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam into all the brothers and sisters as salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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And welcome to a program that we hope will be informative will be light, and will be also relevant to what is happening in our world today. Back in the 1990s, a young Filipino student by the name of Gomez, 23 years of age, he created the worst computer virus and the 1990s. But what makes his virus a very unique one is, anytime you got the title of the subject that was sent to you, it said, I love you. So this powerful, complicated software, along with this very powerful message that said, I love you imagine you get an email from somebody that is on your email list, and it says, I love you, what are you going to do? Some of us are going to be critical. And you know, click on and some of us

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would, it is nice, just to tell you what happened to Gomez. So many companies have contacted him to buy his software course. But he would not sell it. He would not give an interview to anybody. And he was in hiding for a long time because many companies wanted to kill the man, he has created so much loss. But what's funny is, he's not guilty of a crime in the Philippine at that time, what he did was not a crime. So nothing was done to him.

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Nothing was done to him, not in the US where people lost money. Not in the Philippines where according to us, he has committed a crime, not in Europe, nowhere. The man is not guilty of any crime. The man has not given any interview. We don't know much about the man other than his Gomez. 23 years of age, driven to do this as a form of revenge. So the point is of me telling you the story is as powerful as love is as intense, as impactful as it is. It seems like we know so very little about it. We talk so much about it. We're craving it many times. Sometimes we even want to believe that we are in it. We dream and life is beautiful when we have it and life is absolutely miserable

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when we don't have it yet, we are not able to get a good grip on what love is. So this is what we will be talking about. And you know what they say if you invite people for food, everybody comes. And if you talk about love, everybody listens. That's why you're here today, isn't it? never go wrong when you're talking about love? What we've What do we go into this subject inshallah, who will be spending some time with it? What does Islam say about it? And why does it seem that we Muslims don't speak much about love, especially when it comes to you know, either in our relationship with our Creator Allah subhanho wa Taala it seems like all we talk about is the need to love God and the

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need to love Mohammed Salah Salah, and that is the end of it. Well, that is beautiful, and that is certainly a requirement. In fact, love at its perfection can only be devoted to Allah subhanho wa Taala isn't the meaning of the word rabada? What is a bada? bada is the utmost obedience? Who is the utmost love? It's a combination of the utmost obedience, and utmost love. And what happens is that we may give to people utmost obedience because we're afraid of them. We may obey people unconditionally, because of you know, our fear of them. However, in the case of Allah subhanaw taala it must be our utmost love with our utmost obedience, that is a valid and that is why throughout the

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Quran, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is mentioned by name only in four places in the Quran. But in all the other places How is the Prophet sallallaahu Selim referred to Allah Subhana Allah uses this term avid Alhamdulillah he led the unzila

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Aberdeen keytab All praises due to Allah who has sent down the Book to His servant Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Subhana Allah The Esra the Abdi Leyland Minal Masjid al Haram. Glory be to Allah who has taken his servant on a night journey from this message to that, Mr. Mohammed Salah is constantly referred to as avid, avid, we translate the word avid as a slave, but it is a term of slavery when you go into it by choice, and you go into it not by fear, but rather you are driven into it by love. So when Allah subhanho wa Taala says that this man is my Abbot. It means that Allah Subhana, Allah is acknowledging that this person has devoted the utmost love with the utmost

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obedience to Allah subhanho wa Taala. So when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is named and called avid, it means that he has fulfilled this condition and that is beautiful. But the word hub, which is that is the equivalent of the word love in Arabic, is used in the Quran, you know the word love and its derivatives, in over 92 places, there is the word love that is mentioned. even be in the sense that Allah Subhana Allah loves this, or Allah Subhana Allah does not love that or people love this or people do not. But the word love and its derivatives are mentioned over nine to two times in the Quran. So why is it important for Allah Subhana Allah to tell us what he loves? Why is

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that a point? Simply because if you love him, Allah subhanho wa Taala then what he loves also becomes part of what you love, and this is the utmost By the way, this is the beauty of love. This is like a high degree of flow, where I do not only love you, but I also love that which you love. And that is why in the Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would ask Allah Subhana Allah and he would say Allahumma inni Luca hubback. Or Allah, I asked V for your love, because of the way that sentence is constructed here. It could either mean that Oh Allah put love in my heart towards you, or Allah made me of those who are loved by you along with me as Luca hogberg. And these Allah

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Hollywood celebrities will help me you have book and the love of those who love you back. Meaning that you do not only want to be loved by Allah, but now you also want to be loved by those who love Allah. No or you not only want to love Allah, but you also want to love those who love Allah subhanho wa Taala will hook them in you have book what heaven am and unless you carry boonie illa Helbig and all the deeds that would draw me closer bring me either closer to be loved by you or for me to love you more Oh Allah subhanho wa Taala and that is just beautiful. Not only this, but also we find out in the Hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam speaks about love as being a

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condition to be admitted to paradise, or LA hidden agenda to

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look at the process of them said, By Allah He will not be admitted to paradise unless you believe and you won't believe unless to have what's the habit? Unless there is mutual love between you people meaning between you believers, and then he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, shall I inform you about a thing that if you were to do would promote and encourage and increase mutual love between you and he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to exchange gifts with one another.

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Also in the Hadees, a man passed by the prophets I seldom when another man was in his presence and he said prophet of Allah, I love this man. So the process alum said, well have you informed him of that? And the man said, No, I did not prophet of Allah. So the process alum said, is that had that had a limb? If any of you loves his brother, they should inform them of that you know what I do love you, because that's so beautiful. And I don't know why. But we are so afraid of saying this to one another. You know, I love you, when people are very afraid of saying, of exchanging that type of emotions was one another, yet the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said this. Now what's

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beautiful is that the processing did not only say it, but also the processing of practice that in the Hadith, he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam once said, he had more eyes in the book of Allah. He said, Oh more as I love you for the sake of Allah, Omar's three words you shall never neglect to say after your prayers. Allah home or in nalazi cricket, cricket sybaritic, Oh Allah ate me helped me I received your help in helping me in remembering a more showing you more gratitude or be more grateful to you for honey abetik that I perfect my my worship to you or Allah Subhana home, which Allah, but then the most beautiful one of them is where the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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he said a believer is loving and is lovable and there is no goodness in he who is neither loving, nor are very lovable, that is beautiful. A believer is loving and is lovable. And there is no goodness in he who is neither loving nor lovable. And with this, we are going to take out right so do please stay tuned and we will be back shortly.

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Before You Say I Do - EP01 - PT 1
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