Yasir Qadhi – Lives Of The Sahaba 53 – Zayd Ibn Haritha

Yasir Qadhi
AI: Summary © The Prophet sallavi title is the only title known to be mentioned in the century before the Prophet sallavi was born. The title discusses the importance of marriage, including the need for men to be high in their eyes and the importance of privacy in relationships. The message of the attack on Jerusalem during the time of the Islam process against the Romans includes the loss of the throne, the city of Jerusalem, and VisSA. The segment also touches on the Prophet system and its influence on media narratives, as well as the importance of privacy in marriage and relationships.
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Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah, who either Allah He will be here woman, whether I'm about today and inshallah next Wednesday, we're going to be doing one of the most blessings and one of the most prominent families of the Sierra, and it is a family whose members we should all be familiar with. Sadly, the majority of us really have never heard or very little heard of these figures, even though they play seminal roles they are of the most beloved In fact, one could argue, the most beloved family that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam loved, and it is enough of an honor even though there are so many other honors, it is enough of an honor, that the

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head of this household is the only Sahabi who is mentioned by name in the Quran. No other Sahabi is mentioned by name other than the head of this household, and that is Zaid Ibn Hadith. Zaid Ebbinghaus, how data and so we will be talking about Zaid and his wife will meet a man and their son Osama bin Zayed. And as I said, it is enough of an honor that out of all of the Sahaba over 100,000 Sahaba of them 313 but that is one of them. The actionable Bashara none of them are referenced directly in the Quran by name, Abu Bakar has to do is the closest and he is given a direct pronoun, I will close the deal because the only Sahabi that is even given a direct pronoun. Yes, there are

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many Sahaba because of whom the Quran came down, and there are many Sahaba they are a part of the ASVAB and newzoo, the cause of the revelation of the Quran, and the Sahaba would compile Oh, I asked a question. So Allah answered this way, or I said something so Allah revealed that but none of the Sahaba are directly referenced other than Abu Bakar with a direct pronoun, and Zed by name. So these are the only two Sahaba that the Quran makes a reference to but Abu Bakar no matter how great he is, at least in the Quran, he is given a direct pronoun right is the Buddha saw AB he, when the process of said to his companion, this is abubaker. So his companion saw heavy. So this is the direct

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reference to a walker. And that is why anybody who denies abubaker is a Sahabi has contradicted the Quran, because Allah has affirmed that he is a Sahabi in the Quran, but that's a worker. So as far as aid, he gets an honor. Even Abu Bakar did not get in this aspect. And that is that Allah mentions him by name. And so tell us

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what is the old lady Anam Allahu Allah, He will Anam di Li I'm sick alika xojo COVID tequila, what 215 fc como la hora de reduction as we'll learn how Quantock Sha philam cobalt zaidan min how water runza which Naka Zaid so once they finished his matter further, Makoto zaidan mean our power. So they this the only Sahabi that is mentioned in the Koran. And of course, this isn't sort of a sub panel, I forgot to read the verse number but is the second page of the surah the middle of it the third fourth line, you will see it over there for the macabre zeta resource probably like the eighth or ninth that you can check it is literally second page in the middle of the second page. And now

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this is a they've been had it Who is he? What is his family and what is his status? Let us begin. Zaid, of course is the one who was considered to be the son of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for over a decade and a half of his life

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closer to two decades, and some of the younger Sahaba such as Abdullah bin Omar said famously said, I never knew Zaid except as aid even Mohammed,

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as far as I can remember, I thought Jade is the son of Mohammed, I never knew that aid was other than Zayed bin Mohammed until Allah reveals

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them, then I figured out or I was told that no, he is a they've been hotter. So essentially, many of the younger Sahaba such as Abdullah have known what he considered to be an actual son of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam and did not even recognize and realize that this is not the case until Allah explicitly revealed something now obviously, the older Sahaba knew because they knew the story, but the younger Sahaba assumed that they is the son of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So who is this aid? They even had etha was younger than the processor by around 15 years. Okay, some say 10. Some say 15. So around a decade, Dec more than a decade, maybe 1213 years younger

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than the profits a little longer. It was

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Tell him, he is an adult, he is an outer be he is from the tribe of Banu Caleb, from the larger branch of law and hold on and courage are two of the large, massive tribes. Within the law. There are many sub tribes, like within the forest, there are many sub tribes, one of those sub tribes is called the bundle, Caleb. And generally speaking, the Arabs hesitated to enslave other tribes. This is the general rule that when they fought amongst themselves, generally they would not enslave each other. But there were exceptions and zayde became one of those exceptions, long story deals with pre pre Islamic jahi controversies not really relevant to us. To summarize, there was some major

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disputes that a certain tribe had with the tribe of say they've been had with them. And it so happened that they did Bennett had his mother belong to a different tribe. So she was visiting her tribe, so he's not in the tribe of his father. So his status is already a little bit lower than protection status. So when this third tribe attacked, I know you're already confused. Anyway. That's what happens in pre Islamic jelly stuff. When this third tribe attacked and they figured out this is Zaid from the tribe of bedroo. Caleb, so they were extremely nasty and mean more than was typical. And they took this child and they abducted him. They abducted the child, and they sold him as if he

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were a slave. Just like the story of use of they claimed he was a slave. He wasn't a slave, just like the story of use of they claimed he was a slave. He wasn't a slave. He was a free man. He was from the bedroom. But the the this third tribe, they took him and they sold him in the sukkah rock gallery, the famous Zuckerberg golf, which is where all of the you know, her judge and whatnot would come. They sold him in the soup of her judge for for golf for 400. Durham's, which is a good price 400 drums, and at this time, they is a young boy, he's not a baby. He's a young boy, puberty age, so 1213 years old, okay, so he knows his story. He knows exactly who he is. He's not as if he has no

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memories. So he is now sold as a slave in the souk of a girl. And it was the color of a law that the one who purchased him was hekima even his um, it's available all of this is written up there came in his M. Who is Heck, even his M.

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His um, his father is the older brother of Khadija been decoded. Okay, so Hakeem in his arm becomes a

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Hakeem in his I'm not an uncle.

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His arm is the older brother of Khadija brother in law know how'd you get brother in law nephew,

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Hakeem in his arm, his arm is the brother of Khadija. So Hakeem in his arm becomes nephew. No brother in law no son in law nothing nephew. Hakeem in his um, we talked about hacking so many times, hack even hism is the only person in history. What's his Misa? What's his speciality anybody, the only person in human history?

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born inside the Kaaba.

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Now you remember born inside the Kaaba, do you remember the story? We talked about this? I hope

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nobody remembers five years ago. valid point okay. Was the types of things just stick with you give you an example. Of course this is pretty Islam when he was born. His mother was obviously nine months pregnant very close to delivery. And it's so what happened that she entered the Kava and those days the Kava you could enter it. There was on the ground or if you remember the the door and she entered the GABA and right then and there, her water broke and she wandered into labor. So she literally collapsed inside the Kava, she gave birth. That's how I came in is born inside the garbage. And he converted to Islam. And

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he was also there was this hacking, I'm going to tangent here I gave him an exam was one of the oldest of the Sahaba. To live in terms of age wise, he died 120 60 years in his injury, Leah and 60 years in Islam. He converted at the age of 60.

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And he lived another 60 years. So he is one of the oldest Sahaba and Subhanallah how we wish we could interview them, quiz them, all of this god that Allah is all gone. He lives 60 years pre Islam. He's a similar age to the process of a little bit younger than him the positive 63 He's 60 years old in the process and passed away. And he lives another 60 years. Right. So So Pamela I mean, it's just amazing humanism. Anyway, I'm going to get a tangent Hakeem have in his arm purchases, who they say they've been had it and

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either HUD IJA had told him or Khadija buys him when he comes back.

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We have both narrations same thing either Khadija tells him beforehand or when he brings the young boy back Khadija purchases either way, Khadija acquires ownership through through money, it's not as if it's a gift she purchases. Some narration say, Khadija told her nephew to go buy her a servant. And other narrations say that when the boy came back, Khadija had married the process of she wanted to gift the process of something. So she purchased zayde. From Hakeem either way, the story is essentially overlapping or similar that Zaid is acquired by Khadija as a bridal gift. Again, this is the days of slavery, we're not going to justify, we're not going to that's the way it was back then,

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you know, this is the way it was, I mean, pre Islam and also what post Islam also had this with conditions and whatnot, the point being Khadija wanted to give a gift to the process, and as is customary, that spouses gift one another, and Khadija then gifted. Zaid even had it up to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and

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Zaid, at this time, as we said, it's probably around 1213, maybe 14, Some even say 15. So Max is 15. Youngest is around 1112. This is the age that they would have been when he is so he is a servant boy, a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and

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we don't have any narrations about zayde. At this time, it's simply he's a household figure, so nothing is preserved. What we do know and we can extrapolate is the kindness and the gentleness that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi Salaam dealt with zayde the love that he showed Zaid Ibn Hadassah, and this is clearly demonstrated by one of the most beautiful and powerful, pre Dawa stories of early mcca. This is one of the highlights of the early American Sierra, before the process and became a profit. It is one of the most emotional stories and it demonstrates the good manners of the process of even before he was appointed, or he was announced his prophethood and this is the pre you know,

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the 40 years basically before he becomes a prophet. In the eyes event, of course, in the eyes of Allah, He is always a prophet, but in the eyes of men, that announcement has not yet been made, he does not know he is a prophet. And what happens is one of the people of the new code performs the Hajj, and he sees aid now as a teenager, you know, a decade later, and he recognizes this is my family member, my extended second cousin, whatever it was, we don't know the name or the whatever he recognizes this is Zaid, so he goes back to the bedroom. And in the meantime, the mother and father are worried obviously they are they are they're very hurt. They are grieving, they have no clue

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where they there's, and there's lines of poetry that are recorded in the books of history about the father of Zaid how he missed his son, and he said, I don't even know whether he's alive or dead. If he's alive, I can hope for him if he's dead. I can, you know, bury him. So he doesn't even know all of this is there. Now they find out Zaid is alive, they jump up for joy, they rejoice. They take all of their money and had he said the father along with his brother zeta uncle. They then immediately travel to Mecca. And they are told that they is with the grandson of Abdulmutallab. That's what they're told the grandson of Abdulmutallab. So they enter Makkah, and they say where is the grandson

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of Abdullah? Now pause here. This shows us how famous have been Matata was that everybody in Arabia knows what their motive is. And this also shows out of all of the grandchildren, there's only one that is called the grandson of optimal. Okay, so automatically we get the fame of the grandfather of the method. And already the Prophet says that, um, despite the fact that I look, I've been well thought it must have had at least 30 grandkids. But when it is said the grandson of Abdul Kalam, everybody in Makkah knows there's one amongst those grandchildren that is above and beyond the rest and this is even before he's a prophet. So they go to Makkah they say where is the grandson of

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algorithm? So they are told he is in the masjid the Kava. He's sitting in the masjid right now go there. So they go to him and they introduce themselves. And they say that old grandson Yagna Abdulmutallab or son or grandson

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You are a people that are known of the harem. So he did he began by praising the process and and why because they need to soften him they think that this is a normal man, they have to bribe they have to you know boost whatever this what they think. So you are of the harem, the people of the bottom and you are known to be generous. Your people are known to be generous, and you take care of the weak and you feed the pilgrim and and so they keep on boasting and praising. And the process of doesn't work well. Okay, what do you want? So they said

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So we asked you to be generous and live up to the standards of your, you know, people and your family and give us our son z back. And they then tell the whole story of what happened, okay that they It was not a slave, you should not have been sold into slavery. But all this happened. And so the father and brothers say we have bought all of our money. Now, of course, in the end of the day, you realize that, firstly, no matter how much money they have, it is up to the owner of the slave to sell or not, it's up to it's a bargain is departure. And secondly, we can assume from the story that they didn't even have that much money in the first place. Okay, they are not from a wealthy tribe.

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And they're going to Morocco, which is the elite, the elite, you know, tribe and whatnot. So they said, Be generous, take what we have, and be generous, that gives us our son back. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, I am not in need of your ransom, less to be I have no harder lemma and the Hydra have no need for your money. And the matter is up to date. If he wishes, he can return with you immediately. And if he wishes he can stay with me. So they were overjoyed. What more could they want? No money, and the sun can go back with them. Now, what more can you want? And so they said, You have been most generous and kind and softer, you have done more above and beyond the call

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of duty, we have no complaints. So the process of called for Zaid and zayde has not seen his father and uncle for more than a decade, a decade and a half. And again, we don't know exactly, there are no dates in early zero. But you can extrapolate this as before Islam. So the process of it is his late 30s. So they must be in his mid 20s. Okay, so a decade or more has gone by. And the Prophet system says Do you recognize these two? And of course, as I said, Zaid was not a baby, it remembers you remember, it goes, yes, this is my father, this is my uncle. So the process of said they have come to take you back, they have come to take you back. Now we already can sense that there is a

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huge bond between the process and they don't want this separation to occur. But what can be done, the father is here. So they look to the process and said, What did you tell them? Man, look at the question here. Right? The father is standing in front. And the process was saying he's come to take you. So they is not even looking at this. It was talking to the President, what did you tell them? Because he wants to know if he has been commanded to go back, then he has no choice in the matter. Right. So the Prophet system said, I left the matter back to you. And you Subhanallah look at the beauty of the back and forth. Neither of them wants this to happen. But the process of cannot as he

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is the humble solar setup, of course, again, at this time is not Rasulullah in the eyes of men, but his Allah is perfect as can be. He cannot stand between a father and a son, especially given the circumstance. So he says I have returned the matter back to you.

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When Zaid hears this, he says even in that case, I shall never choose you over anybody else.

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His father is standing right there. And he says the ebony Oh my son, are you going to choose

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any being a slave over being free? And you're going to choose an agenda be a stranger over your family? Like what? How can you do this? You're going to choose to be a slave instead of being a free man. And you're going to choose to be with a non kilobyte, and these are the binnacle okay? a non Kelby and he's not a member and what not, and he has a quraishi. And you're not going to come back with your own family. And they gave that famous response to that what I have seen from him, I can never choose anyone over him. What I have seen from this man, I cannot choose anyone over him. So the Profit System became so happy when he saw his aides choosing him and he could see the father and

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uncle devastated because obviously they will be devastated right then and there. They're sitting in front of the cab. He stands up and he walks to the hedger of his memory, the The handling is called the the hedgers where they would make the announcements and he holds a hand up. And he does the famous act that everybody is aware of. And this is called the act of Tibetan knee, the act of Tibetan knee. Now pause here footnote what is the knee This is what Islam came to prohibit. I just posted in Facebook today, along 50 posts and whatnot you can read it. We should not say adoption is how long in Islam that is wrong to say because people derived from

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From it other than the intention, okay, we should eliminate this phrase and ban it. Because that's not the intent, what is how long is 70 that is how long and 70 is one form of adoption, there are many forms of adoption, we should not just say adoption is how long because when we say that, then all other forms which are permissible people misunderstand them to be held on, not just permissible, but encouraged of the greatest of good deeds is to take a child and orphan, a strange child that has no family and to raise this child as your own, but not called the child your own. You raise it as your own but not your own. That's the difference that is rewarding to Bernie is to raise a child and

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you claim the child is yours, and it's not yours. This is Devaney, okay. And Bernie was something that was rarely rarely rarely done.

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Maybe one person, every generation would do it. Why? Because this was the greatest honor. Now,

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when you're a part of the tribal system, there is no way that you can become a member of another tribe. It's not like nationality that you can, you know, give your allegiance and live 510 years and invest $100,000 doesn't work that way. Look at some of the other Sahaba we talked about, right? It we must rule was a free man. Okay? Yes, the father, Amar was a free man, they were Arabs, but they were not caught ashy. So they always lived second class, they could never get up to the first class of the kurush. There was only one way a non quarter sheet or any non tribal member could become a tribal member only one way otherwise, everybody else is a second class citizen. And that one way was

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rarely rarely, rarely done. And that is 71. Some Person of the kurush for reasons that are personal to him, would then decide and choose to, quote unquote, adopt. This is the 70 an outsider and say this outsider, I now consider him to be my full blooded son, or daughter, but typically it was a son. And I don't know any woman that was Jani, you know adopted to this matter, but that's what's called to bend need to take her even to Ben need to take an image take a son. So tapani was to claim that another child, another man's child, another man's, you know, offspring is now your offspring. And you eliminate the other father from the life and the lineage. What completely and you claim

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biological descent of the child, even though there is no biological dissent. This is what the ban is, and eventually Islam would forbid it. Now, this is pre Islam. So the Prophet system said,

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I called this is the phrasing they would use. Everybody who is president, you know, all he here and near this is the way they would make their announcements everybody who was present, I call everybody to testify that Henceforth, Zaid is from me, and I am from Zed. And Zed is my son, and he shall inherit from me and I shall inherit from him. This was the phrasing of the turban that was the document they would sign. There's a specific phrasing. So the process of said that exact phrasing that the orange understood now Zaid has been upgraded from a slave, not just to a h one B one status Hmm, not just to the not just to a green card. instantaneously, he jumped over all the loops, right,

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from a slave. And he goes all the way to a direct quarter sheet, and essentially a great grandson of Abdulmutallab, the highest level prodigy imaginable, right? No, not even not realize this is he becomes a born citizen whose ancestors go back to the Mayflower. Okay, this is the equivalent of what happened to Zaid, even how they thought, okay, you could not get a higher honor than that. And this was done in front of who?

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The father and the uncle of Zaid, why was it done in front of them?

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To put them at ease and comfort that not only was they freed, but instantaneously, he became an elite oroshi. Okay, and this is something that again, the tribes allowed, but it was rarely done, because you can imagine it's very rarely done. So Zaid was the one who got that honor to become basically a oroshi.

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And this is why as we set up the living room and others who were born basically, you know, Around this time, they're the ones who said we never knew. Zaid was anyone other than Zaid, Eben humble, that's what they called him. Zaid, even Mohammed, his name became Zaid Ibn Muhammad, not zaytoven Hadith. So for more than a decade and a half, he is called z.

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Mohammed, Mohammed, and he is considered to be a son for every practical purpose. And they therefore became Zayed bin Mohammed for that period of time. And he then also becomes the first adult to convert to Islam, even before Abu Bakar. So the this is something that I mentioned when we talked about the early conference was it now seven years ago, six years ago when you did the beginning of the CLR. The first adult male convert is eight

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then abubaker

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and of course, because eight is in the house that is living in the house, of course he is going to convert, obviously the first convert is Khadija. Okay. Right after her deja, one can dispute maybe it maybe they but essentially they are both living in the household. Okay. Ali is the child so they say Khadija is the first woman to convert. Ali is the first boy to convert. Zaid is the first man to convert or to be even more so some people still want to give a bucket. The first Converse or they say that Zaid was the first freed slave to convert Mola because he's technically a freed slave, even though he's becoming pushy, but still his status and you know, was a freed slave and a worker was

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the first free man to convert. Nonetheless, you get the point we all want to have the first for everybody. But Zaid converted before aboubaker simply because he was in the household of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the Prophet solo said them in the early phases of Makkah, he pairs Zaid with Hamza his uncle. So remember there was two more cars? There was the more alpha in Makkah, then there was the more alpha in Medina. Okay. So the early McKenzie, they didn't have family what not so the process and made them into brothers. And we said this is something that is allowed. This brotherhood was not inheritance brotherhood. It was simply you have to take care of the other. They

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need something this is your point of contact, your reference is going to help you more than others. So the process of chose his own uncle Hamza, and of the most beloved of the Congress, as you know, to become the the, or the brother of Zaid Eben had it at some point in the Macan phase, we don't know when, but it is after the call to Islam. So the process is in his early 40s. We don't know when Zaid marries or may Amen. And we'll talk a little bit later on today shallow data we'll discuss with him in a while and who she is. And from this marriage of zayde and omy. A man obviously Osama bin Zayed is born, and Osama bin Zayed is born in the house of Khadija and only a man is a freed slave

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of the process of his aid is a free slave of process. So this is like family and this is the child of the family. So some is the baby born in the household of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and

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we'll talk about some as well next Wednesday inshallah because again, there's a lot to talk about this family and who sama is the Hebrew rasulillah This is the title of the lacob Oussama Hebrew rasulillah Hey, Miss mahalo maboob hub means my boobs the same thing. Hey, the beloved, when we say hey, boo rasulillah, automatically, there's only one person that goes to out of all of the Sahaba there's one that is called hibou rasulillah. And that is Oussama evens, eight, we'll get to some next Wednesday, we're still talking about the father and the mother. Today, the marriage of as a to omit a man, it appears that it didn't last very long. Again, like most we don't, we don't know the

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details and whatnot. And Zaid married a number of other prominent women of the aurash. And now because he is a Porsche, he can marry the elite of the Porsche. That's the way that it worked back then. And he married in fact, the daughter of Europa even a bit more a

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bit more. It was one of the worst enemies of Islam. But in terms of lineage, he was very high up and his daughter Mickelson converted to Islam. So they married omega film. Eventually, they also married the daughter of Abu lahab who also converted to Islam. Okay, so this is a cousin of the process of suicide married, the daughter of Amina have a Buddha. They'd also married the sister of Zubaydah blood I want the mother abdomen is basically another on top I build them up, right. And I said the mother sorry, an aunt of Abdullah and Isabella Isabella, one another sister, I was available now one he married Zubaydah one. And from some of these he had children from others he didn't. It appears

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though that the only child of his that grew up and had children afterwards is with sama. So he had other sons and daughters, but they died in childhood or there's no mention of them. Now, for some reason, there's very little mention of zayde in the Macan phase other than these one or two things, we know he migrated to Medina, and we know that he participated in most of the battles The only battles he did not participate or win the process of told him to remain back in Medina and he was commanded to remain back in Medina.

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Because he was one of the few people whom the prophets have appointed as the governor or the mayor call it what you will, the mayor isn't the right title, but the one in charge when he's not there. So when the Prophet system sometimes went into battle, he has to appoint a very close confidant who's going to remain in charge while I'm gone. So there are some occasions where they did not participate in a battle, because he was given the very delicate the very important, the very prestigious honor of being in charge when the process of himself was not in Medina. Otherwise, every battle Zaid is fighting so he fought in the Battle of butter, and he fought in offroad and the

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majority of the battles but as I said one or two like mauricia, for example, it is said that he did not fight why because he had been told to remain behind in Medina, and Chateau de la Juan has says that the Profit System never sent Zaid in battle, except as a commander over the rest of the people.

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The process would have never sent his aid and expedition except as a commander. Now remember, when these expeditions they're called Cydia? Remember, there are a reservoir and saraya or Cydia. The difference is the city are typically much smaller, and they are not accompanied by the Profit System. So Zaid is in charge of many of the satalia.

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And our issue said Zaid was never sent as an infantry man. He was never sent as a foot soldier. Every single time. Zaid was sent in a city Yeah, he was the military commander of the whole city. Yeah. Otherwise, he didn't go in any city. Either he's there or he is behind in Medina, taking care of Medina. And our issue said and this is a very, very, very high praise.

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And even though it is Irish jihad, it's not a hadith sizers jihad, still our issue being the daughter of Abu Bakar. And being the wife of the Prophet says, and for her to say this, it is an amazing testimony. Isha said in the same Heidi had Zaid remained alive, than he would have been the halifa instead of Abu Bakr.

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Now this is one of the most powerful praises to date given by none other than the most beloved wife of the process of them, and the daughter of the first halifa. Can you imagine that? So I Isha rhodiola Juana is saying, and if Zaid had still been alive, then the halifa would have been zayde rather than aboubaker. What does that tell you of the status of z? Now, again, a worker is a worker, there's not like a direct competition, a worker has would say, does not have an Zaid has what a worker does not have. So the two of them are unique in their own way. But in the end of the day, I should say, and this is her he had, like we said, we don't know what would have happened, Leno's

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would have happened, but I just think if they'd had been alive, then we would have all or the people would have all chosen him rather than a robot could do. Now, of course, they at this point in time, one of the most

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interesting and also, as we mentioned before, one of the most intriguing and also awkward stories of the sudo takes place, I'm not going to go over that story again. Don't worry, went over it in a lot of detail as it has said many times when we did when we did this era, that when you study the Cyril, you humanize the Sahaba. And you also understand the Prophet system as well. Me personally, I can relate to such a figure more. For some Muslims who are not that knowledgeable, they make a image of the process of that is essentially superhuman. And that might have some pros it also has some cons when they read incidents in the Sierra. Nonetheless, that is one of those awkward stories. And I

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said this before, I've said this before, out of all of the 105 episodes, the one episode that was the most difficult for me to do was this one, about the story of Zaid and Xena It was the most difficult for me to do. And Helen knows, it was not even then I kind of was little bit.

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Going over it quickly because some things it's best for the average Muslim to not dwell on too deeply. It's just best not to do that. Nonetheless, we have to very briefly just go over just some issues and I'm not going to go into too much detail as I said, some time around the fourth year of the hedgerow.

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Sometime around the fourth year, maybe early fifth we don't know exactly when again stories are bad dates are all not known. Xena Binti, Josh the cousin of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam migrated to Medina and she is not married at the time whether she was married

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before we're not we do not know most likely she had been married before now the divorce or whatever has taken place. And she approaches the Profit System and insinuates that she wants a husband can you find somebody for her? And at that time Zaid was single. So the process of the law while he was setting them said to Zane up choose date. Now at this point in time Zaid was still

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was still

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the Sun 1170 is still there. Right. Zaid is still even Mohammed. Right.

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At this point in time Zaid is still calls a div and Mohammed and for practical and logistical and social purposes. Zaid is considered to be a bin Mohammed, you guys clear right? Now this gets a little bit awkward, but it has to be said, no matter what his social status is, everybody knows where he's from.

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And some people just it's not something that they can grasp or deal with. This is human nature. This is human nature. And Xena was not too happy at this from the very beginning all the books mentioned. She just felt that this is not a good match. But the prophet system said he is a person of a man of taqwa it will do good and whatnot.

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And so, Zainab agreed simply because she listened to the precedent disregarded, she did the right thing. She had to listen to the process that I'm and she ended up marrying Zaid, now, we all should understand and all of us who are at home that are mature and married understand unless you're like 17 years old or 20 years old, you don't know. Eamon and taqwa is one thing marriage compatibility is another.

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Okay. A man and taqwa is one thing. Marriage compatibility is another. It is possible that men and Minar are high in the eyes of Allah. And the marriage is a failure. Has nothing to do with Iman and taqwa. Okay. zayde and Xena The both of them are high level Eman by testimony of the Quran and the Sunnah. Our Isha said that none of the wires of the process have competed with me other than Zane up and while law he in the holla foul the law and our issue saying even though she was the most jealous out of all of the wives of Xena yet our issue said I know nothing of her except that she was a righteous lady. She would fast she would pray she was the most generous of us. This is our issue.

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The the CO wife who admits her jealousy she says that out of all of the wise no one competing with me other than Zeynep and yet I can say nothing but good about her. So when a potentially jealous co wife or potentially jealous is just above that, but a potentially jealous co wife test device. What do you think of the amount of Xena Okay, I know nothing of her except that of rissalah and her sada and her what not the agenda This is our issue thing. But as I said a man and taco is one thing and marriage is another. Okay? So Allah you can have a min married to a car Pharaoh and the marriage might be successful. Correct? Correct. so loud and clear. So imagine taqwa is one thing, marriage

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compatibility is completely separate. And, and it's important to say this because sometimes innocent, naive Muslims, if their marriages are faltering, their mind also falters. And that's because they get depressed like I must not be a good Muslim, or also I'm going through a situation No, it doesn't work that way. That's a separate issue altogether. You can have as I said, Goodman, both parties and the marriage is not working out. And there are many examples By the way, many examples in the Sahaba amongst them many examples, okay. Another infamous example is Zubaydah, a woman a slap into a bucket, and either both of them who are they and what are they and their marital

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disputes. Again, most Muslims are not worried. That's fine. their marital disputes were well known to the Sahaba they just did not get along until finally the divorce took place and they have their children is who who is the children of Abdullah of a hajus that

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came out of the 11 is obeyed. Right? He is the son of zubaid and a smart and their marriage was not the best of marriages they ended up divorcing is a very many things. So here's another example zayde and Xena so

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the fact of the matter is that just Zane up just did not find compatibility.

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And this is again one of those awkward things brothers and sisters. It needs to be said though it needs to be said.

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Some people they just have they just don't get along.

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with others for whatever reason, and also the issue comes of a filter concept I mentioned it before, called Kapha. And Kapha is there's no English word for it, but it essentially means a type of similarity

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of type of compatibility that is beyond just a psychological compatibility. All of them without him have this issue of some of them require it in a marriage. And this raises very difficult issues, the average Muslim has was never studied, felt becomes very confused, what How can this be Islamic, but again, this goes back to a knowledge of, you know, classical customs and compatibility. So let me put it this way. What is Kapha? Kapha means that the Shetty generally encourages partners to be of a similar background and social economic status. And yes, maybe even race and ethnicity. Okay, some other hip actually one method requires kuffaar.

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And according to that method, if there's no cafa, then it is permissible to another marriage. Now that's extreme, but one of the format's actually says Kapha is necessary.

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The other three say Kapha is Mr. hab, which is the correct opinion.

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So if both partners and parties agreed, then no problem. Now, this is very awkward. But people do need to know this Islamic film. What this means is that it is permissible to take when it comes to marriage proposals not just permissible it is must to have common sense, common sense. Because a marriage isn't just based on human and taqwa as we said, It is based on also many issues of compatibility, okay. So

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if a person has been raised with a certain cultural norm and expectation, okay, let me just put it this way, let me just put it this way. Even in this Society of America, where by and large tribalism is gone, and all of this has gone, those that are born and raised in the top 0.1%. It is understood by and large that they're going to marry in those circles, if they were to marry in the bottom one 2%. by enlarge the marriage really, generally speaking, is going to be a sham, we're not really worked out. Simple example, the, the, you know, Prince or the, you know, one, the Prince Charles, for example, wants to get married, okay? It's understood, he has to look amongst a certain, you

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know, go back to 19 8081 when he was courting, okay, everybody knows he has to look amongst certain family, the grandfather has to be an earl, okay. The father has to be a lord. It's understood. Now I know the son broke that tradition and the princesses, whatnot. But back in those days, the norm was that you're coming from that background, you're going to find somebody of that background, this is what Kapha means. Okay? That's really what it means. For whatever reason, Zayn have felt that zayde is not up to her standards. This just the way she felt it okay. And by the way, his aid was an out of even he's not as a that he was an outcome. But he was from another the whole da, and she was from

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the coalition whatnot. And it just didn't work out when, when that massage is not there, the window is going to get from bad to worse. And the both of them continue to complain to the profits of the law party who was setting them, as we said, when we talked about it as well, that's, you know, the process of counsel them, he visited them. And Zaid, multiple times came to the process of asking for divorce because it was the process of his cousin, because the processor had told him to marry Xena. So he needed his permission, like how can I know divorce and the process and I'm said to Zaid, it tequila, right that fear Allah subhana wa tada and keep your wife with you. Okay, keep fear Allah

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subhanaw taala and keep your wife with you. And because of this, and the story I have mentioned before, and I will not go over it again. As I said, you can listen to it it is online because they listen to the story of Xena and they and Allah reveals

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what is the Hulu so this is the key point here. What is the coup de la de Anam Allahu alayhi wa unarmed Allah he remember this is the second page is that is that remember your hospital law when you said to look at how his aid is described, the one whom Allah is pleased with?

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What a great honor.

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Zaid has been guaranteed Allah's pleasure.

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What and I'm Tyler he the one that you as well are pleased with the one you have shown your favorite to as well. So Allah and His Messenger are pleased with ziet align His Messenger have blessed Zaid, Allah and His Messenger have confirmed their near misses on date. What is the

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kulula the Anam Allahu alayhi wa and I'm tally This is eight. What higher praise Can you want? But what is the process from A to Z? I'm sick it because oh jack, keep your wife don't divorce her what tequila and have Taqwa of Allah yeah you know when you going through marital issues will you tell the husband who fear Allah subhana wa tada you know tried to make the marriage work so this was the person who said I'm sick I Nicaragua tequila with toffee fiend FC Kamala whom over D and you hit in your heart that which Allah would make clear to the people. What's up Shannon and you were scared of the people will love Haku and Tasha and it is more befitting that Allah that you should be scared of

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Allah that the seed of this ayah has proceeded four years ago in the Holocaust listen to them I will not give them over here. phylum, cobalt, they don't mean how water

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so although what Allah is an expression, which I'm not going to translate literally because the literal translation, unfortunately is not understood by most people and therefore even unfortunately, non Muslims they read into this phrase, although what or who It simply means it's an expression that means once the marriage was finished, okay, the literal translation is something other than this. But the expression like when you say you caught with your pants down, you don't mean the pants are down called Red and you don't mean so this is an expression. Unfortunately, people who don't know Arabic and they translate about what or who and then what not they then they

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get the word, which is not. It has a very, very slight vulgarity that is simply not befitting of the Quran. It's not meant by the Quran. It's an Arabic expression. That's the point here. Okay. So although watoto here simply means when the marriage is done, that's what it means. Okay. So So Wednesday's marriage had been done.

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Palomar College zozo watch NACA. We married you to her. Okay? the KLA akuna meaning the hydrogen and one of the wisdoms is so that people might not have any heritage, if they marry this, the wives of their

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of those whom they claim to be their sons, not their actual sons. Okay. Now, this Surah Surah Allah has a three is before this is when the command comes down. Very clearly, oom Li Abba mo aka software in the law Hall, children by their fathers, that is the essence of justice in the eyes of Allah. But if you don't know their fathers, find them to Allah Alibaba for a cuando configurable while you can then just say they are your brothers in Islam and they are your moda okay, but do not say so. And so even so and so when he's not the event of so and so. Make something else up so on so the brother of so and so, so and so the molar of so and so not the event of so and so. But if you know the father

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then you have to call them by the Father. So so that that that that comes down and as Abdullah Omar said, I had no idea that they didn't Mohammed was anything other than say they've been Mohammed until sort of Azov is revealed and I discover it's not David Mohammed it is they they've been had a thought okay, so they IDs name has changed today them and how they reverted back to them and how did that and the divorce is finalized by a law and after the A de the marriage is finalized by a law as well. So there was no nigga ceremony. There was no What do your shoot it's in the Quran. The marriage contract is in the Quran is there was Oh watch Naka. Allah says we have given her to you in

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zenwatch. And so zeyneb would always boast to the other wives that asked for all of you. Your Olia had to come and hand you over to the Prophet system. As for me, Allah handed me over to the Prophet says I didn't need any of your you know what not. So this is the story of Zainab and Zaid even had it other incidents narrated about Zaid as well in this timeframe

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is after the other after the seventh year of the hedgerow when the processing did Amara remember how they said come back next year six years where they be where they be as has come back next year? That seventh year onwards will cobalt and cobalt as they're leaving maka a little girl comes running out and that little girl is the daughter of Hamza very good. Somebody who remembers him to do that the daughter of Hamza and she has converted and Hamza is a Shaheed he's not alive right now. And she doesn't want to remain in Makkah. So she comes running out. She's probably six years old or whatnot. She's a Muslim at this young age. She says, you know, take me Take me and so three of the Sahaba

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they claim that we want to take care of this girl. Okay, these three are number one Zaid number two

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Java number three. Okay. Now, Zaid, now just look, Zaid considers himself a family even though he's no longer as Edelman, Mohammed, okay. He considers himself this his family to me. Additionally, Zaid was made the brother of Hamza remember so he says Yara surah Allah says aid and Hamza was my brother is my brother's daughter, okay? And of course Jafar says and as he says, and eventually she is given to Jaffa Why?

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Because the wife of Jennifer was the holler of this little girl. And the problem said are harder to women zillertal the harder is like the mother. Okay, so but then he had to come the other two down here to placate the other two. So, he says to Zaid, he has aid until he

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owes aid You are my brother, and you are my molar, he calls aid my molar, right until molana. You cause aid my molar and antimony will and I mean, like these are all phrases that are said, to show compassion. I'm from you, you are from me. What a horrible nasty lie. And you are the most beloved person to me. This is what the process was had to say. Okay. Oh, Zaid, you are my brother and you are my molar and you are from me, and I am from you, and you are the most beloved person to me.

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And then he says to the loved one as well, that you are from me, I'm free, what not, but then he gives them to Java, as we said, because he says a color to the Mozilla team. And of course, the next incident which is the final one in the story of his aid is his mark to them. His aid does not live to the end of the Sierra. He is one of the most traumatic martyrs in Islam, because obviously of his status, that Zaid was appointed as the commander in the most one of the most vicious battles of Islam, the only battle that was fought in the time of the process against the Romans This is the only battle where you have iraklia says army fighting the Sahaba during the lifetime the process of

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the second time this is going to happen is one of the Muslims are conquering Damascus, concrete, Syria conquering Jerusalem. The only time is the Battle of mortar and who was chosen to be the commander it is they even had the ultimate commander of one of the most this is this is essentially the the precursor to the conquest of the rest of the world. Because all of the other battles are indigenous amongst the Arabs. This is the only battle that the process is hinting that Islam is going to spread Who does he put in charge is a bit hotter and he realizes situations gonna get bad. So he says if Zaid is killed then to Java if Java is killed and a little bit of a while. So he gives

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those three names that in case something happens to they give it to Jaffa, his cousin in case something happens Java give it to Abdullah bin, hahaha. And the bottle of water was a very fierce battle. And they even had it That was one of the first casualties because he was the one carrying the banner and being at the forefront and marching in. And as I've said many times when you're carrying the banner is a sign of prestige is a sign of honor. It motivates the troops and army but it also motivates the enemy to attack you. You become the prime target because it's symbolic to get the banner. And so

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a Roman soldier came with a spear and he thrust it into the body of zayde and clean sweep right into the body and they passed away one of the first shades of the battle they they've been How did that after they jofra passed away after Jaffa, Abdullah Minerva Jaffa of course the story of one hand after another being cut off. This is Javelin, the stump and then whatnot. This is Jocelyn, and then I live in Rwanda. And this incident is narrated in great detail. So hey, Bahati, Sahih Muslim, all of the books of Heidi, that

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unece and others. They mentioned that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us the details of the battle as it's taking place, live. He was standing in the masjid. And he was explaining to them what's happening in water 1000 miles away or 800 miles away, the same time is happening. So as they said, even before the crier came back even before the oarsmen came back, the process of told us everything that had happened, and he began to describe the battle, and he said that Zaid had died hotel as a date had died to Shaheed and his eyes began running down with tears. So he is telling them that Zaid has been killed, and he himself sold a lot while he was selling them is greatly hurt

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and whatnot. And then he mentioned Jafar and then he mentioned even raha and he narrates as well.

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I was listening from behind the curtain. And she has one narrative that the processor was, you know, giving the story what not. And he sat down out of the severity of the grief.

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So he sat down like the the the grief was so overwhelming so low, it was seldom that he sat down out of the grief of the deaths of Zaid and Jaffa and Abdullah bin Rwanda. And the next day he visited these households he visited these households and he began with the house of Zaid bin Haditha. He began with the house was even hotter, and in the house of Zaid Rokia was one of his daughters. She was the daughter of McCool Thome,

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the daughter of ropeway baby more eight. And she was a young girl probably five, six years at the time. And so as soon as the prophet SAW the law, he said, um, and she comes running and she burst into tears. And the prophet SAW Selim began sobbing as well, when he saw the little girl burst into tears. And his sobbing became so much that later on, one of the Sahaba asked him about it's either been in a robot as I have said, the process and publicly cried maybe three or four times that's it in his entire life that we know, maybe three or four times he cried in the incident of Amina his mother in the incident of Ibrahim his son, and the only time that I can think of off the top of my

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head is the incentives eight. These are the three times that we can see him publicly crying. Okay. And one of them right now is when he's visiting the house of Zaid and the little girl is sobbing in his hand in his arms. So he began sobbing with her. And sadly, nobody later asked him about this like,

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because this is something they haven't seen, they want to know is it permissible that what is going on? Is this something that is any from a lot what not? And so the profitsystem said, had the show called Habibi Illa Habibi, he famous phrase here. The show called Habibi illa habibie. This is the love and desire of the hubby for His Habib. So he called Zetas Habib, right? And this is my love for my hubby part of the show called Habibi, Isla, Habibi, and He then asked for forgiveness for all of them in public a llama filled lizard allama Phyllis ate a lot more Felicity ate three times that Aloma for the job for llama Philip delimited WA, even though Java has such a high status, but Zaid

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was asked three times, a Llama Llama? llama is it and then Jaffa and Abdullah bin roba. And of course, they is buried far away in the mortar which is 800 something miles up north from Medina. That is where his grave is and I have been told Allah knows best that his grave is known to this day, which I don't doubt I'm just saying I haven't been there and seen it myself. They even had it

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was relatively short in stature. And

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it is narrated in the books of Syrah that he had a flat nose and we know this because of Oussama we'll talk about in a while he had a flat nose and he was also have a brown dark brown complexion very dark brown complexion. And he married five times in his life. But it appears that all the children that he had died in a young age except for Oussama he had other children but we don't really hear about them we know that he could film for example, Roca, sorry, and the others they died at a young age. The only son that seems to have lived is Osama and sama we will come to inshallah Tada. Next week along with his mother only. Amen. But what we will do today is very quickly do he

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actually has some a hadith is a bit Hadith, he actually has some deep narrated and in fact, there's only one or two Hadith narrated by Zaid because obviously they passed away in the lifetime of the Prophet system. And there's one headache narrated in the Muslim ummah. And there's one or a number of added narrated and another book I've told you about, and that is the more in trouble Kabir Bharani. These are the massive encyclopedias of how the Muslim Ummah Ahmed, and more German Kabira Pavani. These two books are the largest encyclopedias. The mortar German COVID is 25 volumes. Muslim America is printed in 50 volumes. And they are both similar in length actually, margem is smaller

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than Muslim by Mohammed and in the mortgage over the COVID zayde even how data has two or three narrations and we just mentioned What are two of them in Sharla and then call it a day in sha Allah for a day then the next week we will do a man and also Osama bin Zayed.

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So, Mr. matava, Ronnie, he does mention the full name of Zaid, he mentioned the story of his being sold into slavery although this I have mentioned he mentioned the story of mortar and he mentioned I'll just mention to that

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I think are very important that

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what I mentioned from his is not from his obey from Osama bin Zayed from his father, because who is going to narrate from as he is died in eighth digital who's going to learn from him? Osama Ebensee. So, almost all of the Hadees we have from zayde come from his son who Sam. So Sam is a narrated from his father, that gibreel came to the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam in the very beginning of the way, and he taught him how to pray and how to do will do now who is going to narrate from the very beginning of the why other than people like sate See that's why it's really interesting. Okay, so we learn that even though we'll do and Salah was not made followed until when

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Mirage which took place which year

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biggest laugh but let's just go with 10th year, big enough.

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The strongest opinion ever been is hop right after life right after the death of Khadija. And I will boil it and thought if there's a big controversy, when did it take place? Some took they say five years, you know, some say eight, nine, some say 10, even as hawks as 10. Let's leave it at that 10 or 11. leave it at that. So who is going to narrate to us what happened early Zaid? And what did they tell us? Essentially as soon as the Y began gibreel came down and taught the process of how to do will do and how to pray. So he will do will do and pray even though it was not obligatory until

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it's our marriage. And as well. At this point, this is not in this video, but we learn at that point in time the process of what prey to dukkha even asset is to the hood is to everything is to only after its own Mirage was it you know 2443 and four, and then the last Hadeeth will do which is a very interesting Hadith. And again, who else is going to narrate other than Zaid Ibn Hadassah? What is this hadith once again through Osama MSA from his father, they they've been Hadith, that one day, I went with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and there had been some meat sacrificed at the altar is at the idols. And we took some of them and went on our way. And I was riding with the

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Prophet system before the days of Islam. So again, who's going to narrate this before the days of Islam, and we came across Zaid Ibn Ahmed ibn no fail in one of the valleys outside of Makkah, who is able to fade

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almost uncle but what about him? What is his story?

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The one man oma, they they've been Amityville new fade, is the one who had rejected idolatry. He had rejected worshipping false gods. And he said, I am not upon your religion, Armand, upon the religion of Ibrahim alayhis salam, he is the most famous of the pronephric. Remember the NFL, he is the most famous of them. They did.

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And they didn't have to fade did not live to see the Prophet system as a prophet. He passed away a year or two before and his son is one of the actionable Bashara. Sorry, they've been Zaid. That's his son, the last the 10th of the national ritual is his son. So

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they have been Hadith is narrating that we met say they've been amply unified. Who is going to narrate this in the days of JD? And the Prophet says, Adam gave him the greetings of the days of je Leah, how do you say hi and bye at that time, he gave him the greetings. And the profitsystem asked him, What is the matter between you and your people? Why is there so much tension? So the process was curious, inquisitive. What is going on? Why don't they like you? What have you done wrong? So the process was a young man, and he is not. He doesn't understand. He's asking, what is the issue between you and your people? So they have been Ahmedabad, interfaith says, well, law II, I have not

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done anything to get them angry, except that I see that they are upon misguidance I don't believe in their religion. And I went out once upon a time to search for the religion. And I came across the rabbi's of labor. And I saw that they worship the law, but they had some shit. So I said, This isn't the religion I want, and I left them. And I went on traveling, and I went to the monks of Syria. So the Jews and the Christians, and I saw they were worshipping Allah, but they were doing some shit as well. So I said, This isn't the religion I want. So I went to my way, and one of them said to me, so he's searching for the truth. This is the honey of this. This is the most famous, he traveled to

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search for the truth. And finally,

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He came across somebody who said, You are asking about a religion. I don't know anybody who is still worshiping a law in that religion, except one man left in Jersey due to the outcome. Just like as well said, manual fallacy. Remember a story. nobody's doing that anymore. It's all gone other than these one or two people. So he met somebody who said, Look what you're asking about. I the only one man left. And I found him. They told me about where he was I went to him. And I told him my story. So he said to me, everyone that you see is upon misguidance. What you're asking about is the religion of a law and his angels. Dino law, he is the Dean of a law, you're asking about the real

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religion, the dino like omega t, you need to go back to your land, because the camera is about to come. So these, these are known to serve pockets of Christians, they knew somebody is coming. And they had a premonition that it would be in the land or some of them had. Okay. As we said with Sandman story, the premonition was some land of dates. Okay, this man whom say the nominee has said he knew it would be interesting without him. So he says, Go back to your land, and you will see or you're about to see the Prophet, his time has come, his time has come. And they said, I have come back and I am waiting for him. I have come back, and I'm waiting for him. And the irony is, that

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will be the one who's waiting for but the process of had not yet announced his prophethood. And

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the day they've been amber said that I do not eat of the meat that has been given to the idols, I have not either, but the media has given to the idols and Zaid will also forbid the killing of the way then what would they do so he let the infant female infanticide. And he would say, look at this noble man, he would say, give the girl to me, I will raise her as mine, instead of killing her, Give her to me. So this is a bit I'm going to fake. So he was a good man. And that's why when say divinization asked, and this is in the Hadith, that Wednesday, they've been under the fail, died before the Prophet system became a profit. So the Profit System said to you via through yo Mel

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chiamato, mutton wahoo he will be resurrected on the day of judgment in his own separate oma without any profit, because he believed without a profit. This is a biography. Now, what's really curious and interesting, who is going to narrate this story other than our own is a they've been had it right? Because he was the one who was there as the servant at the time, and he saw all of this taking place. So that's why again, the and that's all we have just these two incidents early Islam, because what's he gonna narrate of late Islam he died, you know, even before they came onto the scene, he never met Bora Bora. They came later on onto the scene. So they they've been hard ether is

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indeed a person whom whose name we should be very familiar with. inshallah, next week, next Wednesday, we will do another woman who should be familiar with that is his wife or me, amen. And we'll talk about as well. Their son, Osama bin Zayed hibou Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Any quick questions about Zaid before we finish and move on to next week's yes

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Ibrahim is sun, brightness, sun.

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And the other questions? Yes.

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Who do you Who do you think gave that version of events?

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Yeah, any. The hadith of Muslim Ahmed on the process looked at Allah He said two groups of people will go astray because of you. One who will go to extremes to hate you one will go to extremes will love you too much. What you are saying is well known in the narrations of certain fiddle clauses. You understand? And let's leave it at that.

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Let's leave it at that. Okay.

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Actually, Ali and father What have you learned from what we know they had a good marriage but one or two marital Spats took place that's different. As for marital issues,

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This is something even the process and the wives we know our mothers. That's something and I we said about this many times that it is a blessing from a law that even the best of marriages, the processes, marriages and Olli and Fatima that we see some some things take place that are common because there's consoles us that every marriage has its ups and downs. The goal is that the ups are more than the downs. That's the goal.

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The point that I was saying is that in case the marriage is not working out, it's not necessarily a reflection of one's emotion. That was the point here but as far as I know, and my knowledge early and thought there was a marriage is a very good one. But we hear a one or two incidents that it was sleeping in the masjid because of some issue. And so that's why the person said you have a total of a total of like he has been sleeping the night in the masjid, okay. And every marriage sometimes the husband sleeps on the on the couch, okay, this is this is a part and parcel of reality.

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The Madani culture was the husband goes to the masjid, not the couch, okay, there was no couch back then. So they have to go to the masjid. So I think he's suggesting we leave MRC open at night for the brothers who need to come.

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We should have a brother's night out in a room over there. Okay, it should have some Sadako give some couch over here for any miskeen brothers. Okay. Um, the inshallah will continue next Wednesday, Sheldon

Shaykh Yasir Qadhi sets out on a journey to divulge details on the most blessed,beloved and prominent member of the Seerah of the Prophet ﷺ. He is the only Sahabi to be mentioned by name in the Qur’an and he is – Zayd Ibn Harithah RA.

Zayd ibn harithah was short and dark skinned and had a flat nose. He was separated from his family at a young age and sold as a slave in the markets of Ukaadh. But the Divine Qadr of Allah had ordained something else as this man’s future. Zayd RA was purchased from the market by a man named Hakim ibn Huzam who happened to be the nephew of Khadija RA.

When Khadija RA got married to the Prophet ﷺ, she gifted Prophet Muhammad ﷺ this boy as a slave. From that day onwards, Zayd RA was pretty much family to the Prophet ﷺ and was treated likewise.

Zayd (R) was married five times in his lifetime, most important amongst whom was Umm Ayman.

Zayd’s father Harithah was searching for his son frantically ever since his disappearance and through another man, he became aware of his son’s whereabouts in Mecca. He set out to meet his son and landed at the doorsteps of the Prophet SAW to take back his osn Zayd RA. Muhammad ﷺ left the matter to the jurisdiction of Zayd and gave him free will to choose his path. But Zayd decided to stay alongside the Prophet ﷺ saying that he wouldn’t leave his side for anything this world has to offer.

This prompted the Prophet ﷺ to take Zayd as his adopted son and named him – Zayd ibn Muhammad.he accepted Islam and when time seemed apt, he was married off to the Prophet ﷺ cousin Zainab bint Jahsh. This marriage resulted in failure and met an end in the form of a divorce. The Prophet ﷺ then married Zainab after a divine revelation. This was met with severe criticism on the rules and regulations pertaining to adopted sons.

Then, Allah sent down a verse in Surah Ahzab that settled matters finally.

‘…Nor has He made your adopted sons your real sons. That is but your saying with your mouths. But Allah says the truth, and He guides to the (Right) Way.Call them (adopted sons) by (the names of) their fathers, that is more just with Allah. (Al-Ahzab 33:4-5).’

“Mohammed is not a father of any man among you, but he is the Messenger of Allah and the last of the Prophets” (Al Ahzab 33:90).

It was after this revelation that Zayd Ibn Muhammad was reverted to his name with his original roots – Zayd Ibn Harithah.

“And [remember, O Muhammad], when you said to the one on whom Allah bestowed favor and you bestowed favor, “Keep your wife and fear Allah,” while you concealed within yourself that which Allah is to disclose. And you feared the people, while Allah has more right that you fear Him. So when Zayd had no longer any need for her, We married her to you in order that there not be upon the believers any discomfort concerning the wives of their adopted sons when they no longer have need of them. And ever is the command of Allah accomplished.”

He was always sent on expeditions only as a military commander and nothing less. He died a martyr in the Battle of Mutah where other brave hearts also were martyrs –  Ja’far ibn Abi Talib and Abd Allah ibn Rawahah.on his death, Muhammed SAW wept till he was sobbing alongside Zayd RA daughter when he was questioned by Saad ibn Ubadah on his behaviour to which the Prophet ﷺ replied -‘This is the yearning of the lover for the beloved.’

Many Hadith have been told since time about Zayd Ibn Harithah and by him through narrations from his son, Usama Ibn Zayd RA.

Please do listen intently to be mesmerised and acquaint yourselves with the greatness of this Habib of the Prophet ﷺ.


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