Bulugh Al Maram – Book of Etiquette & Manners #13 – Hadith No. 1242
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Mata Hakuna la wafi rewire Muslim University Muslim or rocky Allen mashi narrated Abu huraira of the Allahu taala and who Allah's Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said the young should greet with Salaam, the old and the one who's passing by should greet the one who's sitting in the small in a group should salute the larger one agreed upon and a narration by Muslim has and the one who's writing should greet the one who's walking
out hamdulillah salatu salam ala rasulillah First of all, it's good to be back and to restart the class. And we'll continue talking about the chapter of Samak etiquettes. And the last time that we talked about Islamic etiquettes were
talking about etiquettes in relation to attend
an invitation over food and some of the etiquettes of eating and public. And now he's talking about even though he mentioned some of the ruling related to Islam before talk about the etiquette of giving Salaam to someone. Now he talks about if you are in public place on the streets, and malls and places of public gathering. How should you conduct yourself How should you greet people? So there is more details. When it comes to the set? I'm here than the one that we studied before. When the one we studied before we focus on what a Solomonic means Islamic ruling of Salaam he talks about how can you give Salaam and you greet people and so forth. And this headed headed the bearer of the
alarm and you said Lima Surah Al Kabir
this, he said this headed multivac en la which means Bukhari Muslim reported it but even hedger himself said
in another book that you salimos severely under Kabir, the young greed the older is not inside a Muslim
this wording is not as a Muslim sect Muslim says that the one who was walking greed the one who's setting and small longer number of people gives them to the large number of people and the one who is writing to the one who is walking but in Muslim there is no as far as what we know of the copy that we have. It does not have that and I do believe this live in Hanover Himalaya himself he said and look at that this narration this edition is not Muslim. Another thing we're not trying to be picky on and head over him a lot tonight is a great amount but another thing he said well theory Wyatt in Lee Muslim and one duration for Muslim when you hear that what do you think when you hear
him saying and for an aeration for Muslim that the one who is writing gifts around to the one who's walking you would assume that this is only a Muslim reported? That's right, he said the first one alcohol a Muslim and Muslim has this edition which is the one who is riding give Salaam to the one who's walking to him cannot afford to be a Muslim and the reality is not it's also nobody
so it's kind of strange. Why didn t mentioned that that he said it's hard to Muslim.
The Walking the riding over the gifts around to the one who is walking is just a technical thing.
To him I have a lot
on the way even had to write the book. As we heard more I'd said Lou sell him
Let him give or it never given an order you should give Sam if you are young to the older, the one who's young should give like an order
but this lamb that she said it's in Muslim me I met what's an Bahati? Well Muslim there is no animal armor It is also an order but in a more passive way you said limosa hero Allah Kabir the young greed the old that just a statement which also you understand from it it's encouraged you to do them anyway you said Lim
means give Sam okay and we said before As salam is a last name so when I say as salaam alaikum any last names upon you I bless you by aura last mother's name should bless you and Salaam one of our laws unique name because it means safety tranquility perfections peace Okay, so you basically wish all this for the person that you grieved him or her? What do we learn from this? We're in who solemn told us that the young should give Salaam to the older and the one who is riding should give Salaam to the one who's walking and the one who is
the one who is passing by gifts and unto the one who's setting. Like let's say me and Muhammad walking out the mustard an app sitting in the back there we give him set up. He doesn't give us
because somebody passed by the mustard now and he sees us sitting he passing by us. He should give us and also his standing and we are setting. That's another reason for you to give set up.
And this is absolutely authentic narrations.
There is many rules we're going to learn and that we can learn from this video number one
enemy talk about what's the wisdom behind the young giving Sam to the older the one writing given Salaam to the one who is walking and the one the small group to the bigger group? The one who passing to the one who's setting.
Can anybody tell me what's the wisdom? Let's see if you can use have figured it out. But let's start with the young gifts and on to the older.
Respect. It's the rights of the older out of respect. Okay, you give him some but number two,
the few gifts around to the
But still few also it could be like like 10 and there is 100.
So the 100 gifts a lot. The tension give them to the 100 not the vice versa. The center around him a lot. This is also because of the right the right of the Gemma and the number the large number the bigger so they have kind of right? The What about the one who riding giving Salaam to the one who's walking
you riding your car and somebody in the street walking? You should give him said I'm not him giving you set up?
What will be the wisdom behind that? Yes.
Comfortable? Depends which car
some cars, like if you're riding Honda or something like that.
No, not faster.
Out of humility. So the person feel humility, let's say riding a horse and you know, somebody's walking, you're riding your car. You know, like, you know, you're writing your fancy car to this SUV, and I'm like walking on my feet, you know, out of humility to teach the person humility. Okay. So that's one of the reason. But what about the one who passing you give you said I'm not the one who's setting
an order myself because that's similar to someone come to your home. So if I come to your office could definitely if I come to your place to come to your office or your home, I give you center. I start with the service right? So said the same thing he passing by you so he approaching you. That's why he should give you some. So this is what's the wisdom behind these categories why you should give set up.
And now you're allowed to add a set that all the scholars agreed. Can you give one to
all look, all the scholars agreed that
this is recommended, but it's not widely
So vice versa, it's okay. So the older can give Salaam to the end. Yes. Is it count? Yes.
So it doesn't matter really, it just recommended, but it's not must. Also, in this Hadith, there is a very important etiquettes, which is teaching young to show respect to the older.
And this is a missing ingredient today in our society. Respect is a very rare quality. People don't know what respect means. Okay. And
unfortunately, that's the result of being very materialistic. In materialistic world, you know, your value is not by your age, or your contributions or your status or your element knowledge is by how much influence how much you can benefit to me.
That's the only thing that really I care for. Okay, actually, one of the most common words our youth have is what?
That's right. Who cares? is it just an attitude? I don't care.
As I just
and that's show you that is kind of lack of respect, or teaching people not to know what respect means unfortunately.
Also, it teach us that when a young person fulfill his duty towards you, you have to respect him back. That's why if he gives you Salaam you should reply to him and say daddy comes cinema Rahmatullah. So also the young feel that they are respected. So it's not only a duty on the young, but also those duties on the elder to respect the young and to give them their due rights.
By Allah Rahim Allah debated if a young person give you set up is replying to him or to her. Why did you are not
the dental Guru 30 years old 40 years old, sir America Do I have to reply or not? There is two opinions among the scholars. Okay. A lot of them said it's not why it's recommended he ended up committing a sin. But what Allah it is the same as the adult Why? Because Allah subhanaw taala said what are you to be here for how you be i said i mean if someone greed you someone, greed, you and someone that include what all kinds of people men women, young old, the stripe
also, this hadith is a practical format for how can we spread Salaam you remember we learn in Ibiza Southern said if Salama Bina can spread Salam among you so look in the results and if you walk in you have set up if you're writing a gift set up if you passing by your gift set up you know if you see the older you give the set up the young is you know you didn't know you give center so that just a format to feel Emily practical examples of how can you spurt Salaam in society. So that means whenever in the message you pass by someone you give them set up
in the way or cross each other or somebody setting you give them Salaam, by the way, different than shaking hands. I just said American you need to shake everybody's hand
home. We're gonna talk about this in a little bit.
Let me read Roger,
Some of the elements said why not in the head is anything saying and a man gives them to a woman or woman gives them to me didn't mention anything about men and woman.
And another human would love to add up said that, why this is an ally. And the reason for this if you look at these categories, there is always one have right over the other
the older over the young you know the writing and you know basically have right towards the one who was walking, you know, the one was less than him. The majority have more right over the men. So always someone has right over the other. And it doesn't fit to put women and men because if you do that, you're gonna say, oh woman gives it on demand because they have higher right? Or vice versa is not going to work.
It's going to be some kind of discriminations to put on one person above the other. And when it comes to the general rules, we should not and
San Lucia Aqua region in Nevis, Salim said men and woman are siblings. There's nobody better than higher than other when it comes to the gender the duties and responsibilities in Sharia.
Also, one of the example that I want to give that is commonly ignored, that you give salame while you're riding your car when you're passing by the brothers, who is organizing the traffic.
That's right, because when you pass by someone, when you ride on somebody standing, you give him some. So sometimes we see Brother Mohammed, for example, in Juma he is organizing the traffic and people just passing by they don't even care. They didn't even say Salaam at all, to the person, but it's the signal that is somebody organizing the traffic outside, especially as your Muslim brother to give him salon. And that's I saw this a lot and many massage and also they have a team and parking lot organizing the partner. They don't give them salon.
They just, you know, sometimes they complain that they can be run over even.
Also, this howdy
teach us the importance of humility.
That's why the writing persons give Salaam to the one who's walking by elements. It's something very interesting. They said, see if the writing person is the prince, the king, the President, the share, the Imam, the rich, and the one who's walking is the young, the poor, that average citizen, he has the right to be giving Salaam
it's very interesting to see how teach everybody to maybe a new position. There's the position to give that setup.
indicator is Rahim Allah
mentioned something interesting about a rush to the great medical scholars. He said that let's assume the one who's riding is the older and the one who's walking is that young. Who gives Salaam to who they said the riding person gives it up. Why? Because the tilava the humility is very important here.
Because there is no disrespect for not giving the Salah.
But here, it's kind of if you didn't give him Salaam to kind of show arrogance, like I'm just passing by you.
a lot of both of them riding.
I'm running my car this way and he's running his car this way. And we come across each other.
Who gives them to
the older gives salon to that. Or the younger the younger gifts on to the older because it's because in the same level type. One of the thing from this hadith also we learn that rights in Islam is not connected to your social status.
Your rights as you write it, you get your right regardless what is your social status is, what's your color is what's your level of education is what's your ethnicity is whatever, we don't have anything to determine that. So for example, of Mustafa is way younger than me. And he's sitting and I'm standing I give him some
you know, I'm a chef doesn't matter.
I'm a PhD holder, it doesn't matter.
And he is in high school or college, you know is still you give him the center. That's his right.
I'm from this family from this tribe. I'm the king, I'm the president doesn't matter.
So for example, f
a business owner
walked into his business. He greeted the people, they have the right. It's not like oh, I'm like a cool manager. Voila, nice.
Employer now that's your right to be giving the salon to be greeted, which is interesting how this is well established, this doesn't matter you the rich the poor, because if you look at unfortunately, so many of society's today, the one who would be greeted and be treated like special is the rich person, the person who has a high position in society, everybody will run and give him some
one of my friends told me a funny story. He said
I used to have a friend and a colleague in the university
and this guy, he has a little small little bit like you know ahead of some kind of committees a little bit like higher than us you know, give some special like
To be chairing a committee in the universe. Oh my God, if you see how we get him surrounded Karina is so arrogant level, days goes by. And my friend became the Dean of the College.
He said the same guy. He saw him in the hallway, he come in with running and, you know, my office and when he came to my office to come into my office,
he's younger than my friend
when he came, and he said, you want to give me some CDs, I want to give you sarama congratulate you. I'm so proud, blah, blah, blah. He said, No, no, hold, hold yourself come. So he took him to the office. And he took him to the office. He took the chair, and he put it and he said, Go ahead.
So like I said, what he said Go ahead. He said what he said give some time to the chair.
congratulate the cheer.
That's why you're giving me is not me. It's the chairs the position that you're on.
With me is the chair that you honor so much.
That's what make you come running to me today. So you know what, go hug him. Got the chair.
is not about me a question?
Since we said You certainly will model
passing by, but what if I'm passing by, okay. Ibrahim, for example. And he's reading Quran
Should I give him sir?
Should I interrupt his recitation of the Quran? His real connection? I interrupt him and give him Sam are not
people say you should not give Salaam to the one who reason? I don't know that you guys have this in your culture not, but and where I came from? It's a quite, I hear a lot people say that.
there is no any proof for such claim loaded at
the there's no proof at all, from the sender or the action of the setup. That if not gives an Antonio Brown.
And there is no anything to back this up. As a matter of fact, and remember him online. Salva mentioned specifically that the Muslim had the reward and the benefits of giving set up and applying it is higher than continuing the reading. Because what happened you just gonna pause for a few seconds and radicals ceramah de la vaca and you continue, you get the reward of replying to salam, you get the reward of connecting either brothers fulfilling one of the rights of your brothers and that's
nothing socialized with them. You just give him set up. Okay.
So, yes, you can give him set up and actually I have a proof to show you that it is permissible to do that.
If you remember, we discuss an issue before that to give Salaam to a person who is in Salah.
You remember we talked about this before and we said mentioned that Hadith individual Salam that they will be giving Salaam to people who are in Salah. So if you are giving someone who's insula or someone into the lesson and you're and you saw somebody said Solomonic Rahmatullah It is time for you to reply
to the person if this is in the Salah no doubt Rena Quran is much easier
to reply okay.
By the way, Allah said you should not give Salaam I don't know if you remember the discussion. We had a lengthy discussion. We said Allah said just as a reminder, you should not give Salaam to someone who is in prayer amongst you most likely knows that how he would how he you know, he knows how to reply, because you don't want to get him
to lie because he broke his arm. If you start saying that if
I tell you a funny story. Once I was praying my son and my local masters long time ago
before I came to United States and we had a very old man from our families got an artificial light
so I was praying at the pillar here
Okay, so I was making a little cool send me Allah holy man Hamid and the guy was almost going to cross in front of me between me and the pillar. So the subnet is to stop the purse so I did like this like to stop him so he doesn't comes the guys were on a coma Santa Monica to lie about Oh God, you know my son Yola de I missed you or did you go on he was like, start talking to me, and I couldn't hold it. I broke my Salah.
anyway and I know what to do but this is like was problem
if you know this you will know also how many abode last Salam Allah BAM
you will not also it is not correct what people say no Salaam to people who are eating
a lot and this people say this headin but I think this hadith reported by a hungry man
because like what is gonna stop you from eating? okay
yes you can give Ceylon tingle or eating is okay. Also
one of the things that you see the Debbie's also said, He gives the lamb when you enter.
You give Sam when you pass.
So you will understand that there is a practice commonly. Only in America, I saw this here. I didn't see somewhere else. Any
I can't remember like seeing it somewhere else. But kind of one of the things is look at what's going on here. I was like, kind of weird for me, which is an a gathering. Let's say we gather we're talking together, blah, blah, blah. We've been with each other for the last an hour for example, or 2030 minutes. Then Obama stuff I said, Okay, guys, can everybody introduce himself so we know who's everybody?
Walid will say, Sam ra como hacer la My name is to help you all with us.
Somalia is when you enter when you pass by, but not why after you've been sitting with us for the last hour. Is it Salaam Alaikum. You know, my name is Sansa. And a lot of people I don't know any proof or any, it just doesn't go with what the teaching of this head is telling us that the setup is given when you pass when you enter, not after you said and you you've been socialized with us for the last
hour or so. But also it is Sunnah.
If you are about to start a lecture
is to say sorry if you notice when I came when I said I said Sarah Marie Curatola.
I don't know if I did that, but I hope I did.
Okay, or let's say I'm going to start the lecture. In a conference before you start your lecture you should say what cinema? Can anybody tell me? What's the proof for that?
At least two proofs. One you just heard and one is a commonly known to you
yeah. What about every time the whole thing comes before you start the hope? I say What, sir? I'm so
sorry. Come conference talk also say Salaam Alaikum. Before you start. Very good. Also, what you just said and there is a powerful you said limit. Alma, I'll call him
the standing to the setting people the one who passing by the one we're entering
the Taliban al Qaeda I am one and Mashallah there is 100 attendees in the class.
You see, so that's why we say this is also from the Sunnah is to start with saying a ceremony Curatola type if I enter a gathering,
permissible or recommended for me? When I say a Solomonic or amatola to shake everybody's hand,
let's say I'm invited at Abu muslimahs house, I almost saw had five guests.
Is it sin when I say a Salaam Alaikum? I go and shake hands each and every one of these five people?
Or assalamu alikum enough? Or you can do it and you cannot do it to option?
What is this?
Shannon Sherman Sherman Basma him a lot was asked about this. He said, it's up to you. If you want to shake hands with people, it's good. But if it's going to be disturbing, like let's say I'm giving a talk, and his house, while I'm giving a talk, somebody comes and they start shaking everybody's hand and give everybody a hug.
Or Oh my god, one of the thing that's really so hard when you go to a wedding,
the worst place to be in a wedding, you know where next to the groom.
Because you're standing, sitting, sitting, it's an exercise. Everybody come to give salon to the to the to the group, we'll give you some time to so you have to stand up and said I'm on ecomondo
This is a whole day is like that. So sometimes it became hard or in a you know, as that when somebody's dying to gather, everybody comes he gives it to everybody and everybody had to stand up and sometimes it's in especially if in somebody's house on this, you know, bad quality cushion that suck you in. And you have to put your hand in your friends and like
all that sometimes it's really how much what I want to say, there is no Azul facin net to this. Anyone in the visa salon comes or the companion comes, they didn't go and shake everybody's hand is not known that this is what the practice was. That's why show me at Vimeo Rahim Allah said, you should not do that. He said, I don't believe it is something recommended or encouraged to do. And he said in a B cell allow them we never heard. We never read. We never come across a single narration or a single incident. How many times in Ibiza Salaam had a gathering of people and he entered or someone entered to this gathering and say give Sam
100 times or 1000s of times.
Tell me what do you think 1000s of times
in these 1000s I've never a single time has an aeration that we went and shake everybody's hand
so should I think about him Ally's LIVE SHOT is not something recommended or encouraged to do is sooner actually the closer way to sinners to give Salaam to everybody to set.
shekel albani Rahim Allah
have a different approach. Shama Shama one has different books he said. He actually believe if there is no mashup, God was not hard. It is recommended for you to go shake people's hands. Why is it because in Ibiza Salaam said, in Nevis, I'm sending this beautiful Howdy. And I want you to remember this every time you meet your brother, when you meet someone, or even your family member, Parliament mean Muslim in El tequila, and if I had a soft hand, any two Muslims meet each other, and they shake each other hands Illa for Allah Houma
except allow forgive their sins before they depart from honor before I leave your hand.
So shall abide. He said, How many times would you like this to happen to you? So if you shake those people and you get this error again and again and again and again and again and again and again. So he said, he said that I do believe
you know, Chairman basil molars, opinion is just the best for me. He said, you can do it. But there is nothing really. And if you leave it because you feel it's not suitable is not good. Just leave it. So you should judge based on that environment by but one thing I want you to be a pay attention to it that we'll talk about and a lot of people don't pay attention to it. They said if you're going to shake people's hand, you don't repeat a Sam
as a matter of fact, Cheryl albani who said it's good to give some history repeating Salaam Alaikum to each and every one he said it's
so why because Sarah Mara had he said Sir Amara come to everybody.
But when you shake their hands individually, how you doing everything is good, but he said there's nothing ever in Islam or Sharia that you give Salaam twice the same person. So if you're ready give them salami don't repeat again. So you don't feel like I said I want a person Amara cassava cassava, cassava cassava. That's not, you know, correct.
They, if this is the case, what do you think of shaking hands and giving salam to each other after finishing Salah. A normal thing that people do sometimes as salaam alaikum warahmatullah seracote Allah The one next year Sarika Masha, Amanda john and Mary Ah, Salama Bora whatever the shake hands with each other. And in some culture like in Egypt, for example, and some countries they will reach out to you 12345 left and right from the both side from the Imam and they come and you give you hugs. shekel Islam Rahim Allah was asked given to me what's the ruling on giving Salam after salah and he said especially people used to do after Asan federal. Is it Sunnah? Is it recommended or not?
intimidate him Allah said al Mustafa had to back the salami Buddha,
giving salam to each others and shaking hands each other after ending the Salah is bitter and religion is it it's an innovation religion because again, you're not
Coming into someone you're not passing by someone, you know, entering somebody's house, you've been together praying and line up all this time.
If at the Kabala
if if we meet each other later on, let's say we pray, and I see you, or a psycho I didn't see you before. But we did talk about is the common practice that every after every salon, it doesn't matter. You saw him you don't get him set up. But someone I didn't see him suffer for a while. Oh, my God, I haven't seen him. That's fine. We talked about, like the practice that some people do.
That's fine. At one time is okay. But it wasn't me. I was talking about the practice that is a commonly people believe, I don't know if you know that or not. But there is a lot like some people believe that Africa is a law, they have to shake the hands of people in the left on the right. That's has nothing. That's it. I wouldn't say that. But personally, me, I would say it's not from the center and the person continue doing it all the time. It might be part of the beta
type, unless, okay, they never met before or they didn't meet it for a long time. And among the element that you said bit as well, by the way, the great chapter is called the samurai mahoma.
Chef Baz once was asked
if I am attending hot button tomorrow,
And somebody came on he stretches handsets and Amara come to you.
What should you do be rude. And
what do you do? Shahbaz Rahim, Allah said?
If this is the case, you shake his hand without verbally talking.
He can shake his hand but don't say anything. Why? Because
you're not allowed to talk while the Imam is giving the speech. or giving that sermon you're not allowed to talk. So you can shake his hand but you don't. But you should not initiate that I'm talking about got stuck somebody searches handy. What do you do you just say? And you don't say any chicken
and afterwards you tell him
barkatullah shoulda mentioned something also very common.
Which is some of you might be surprised to hear today.
If I enter my house,
I'm coming to my house or I enter and I give some
for my family inside, but whatever there is nobody inside the house
I just got divorced.
myself or my family, you know traveling, or I'm a single
I'm in this house. You know and nobody in the house. Is it sin to say Assalamualaikum
to the house when you enter or not.
Some LMS said Okay.
Yes, you should. Why? Because the last one that I said for either the haltung booth and fussa limo era am fusi come to hear them in in de la Hema Baraka Tompa Eva. Allah says in Surah to know if you enter homes, okay.
sad. We like to keep this place for the sisters if you guys can come to this area to the other side.
I'm not sure I saw a couple of them kind of want to come. You can ask them if there is somebody coming? It's good. If not, they're not coming ask them to
just ask them if there is any sister coming.
Here. Can you let them know it is available just
you could if any sister want to come to the right side it's available.
So the issue here if you enter a house, your house or a house there's nobody there. Should you say Sam? Sarah Marie. Okay, you come back from traveling nobody in the house somebody come over the door about to rent a car you turn to the house you know you enter your room in the hotel, you open the door Salaam Alaikum Is that right? practice is that
the people who say you read this versus sort of to know if you enter homes, give salam to yourself okay, this the literally the translation to hear that men and women ambition, greed yourself question is that make sense to you?
greed yourself, do we give salanter So
do you give yourself
a minute? Do you need to see a psychiatrist?
If you keep some psycho psycho psycho you know you need to check with a professional help
you get so
there is nothing on you cannot just take the diverse without looking at the concept of the practice of the personal salon. What that means give salon to yourself
what's what's what's the greed, the greed you give salam to someone? When I say a sellout, I'm making the art for that person.
So there is no any concept and Sherry I says that you greet yourself, you say Salaam Alaikum to yourself. So what this verse means
so emphasis from yourself. It means yourself Actually no. If you look at the Koran, and the language of the Quran, and fusi it means your brother's
your fellow Muslims, your relatives whatever
Allah Subhana Allah said while I attempt to emphasize
it's don't kill your brothers
it's not about don't care sob mufa serene would definitely agree that means don't kill others. Okay. also been JD Rahim. Allah said fossa Lima Allah and fujichrome greed yourself he said it means for Selim, Selim Babu Kumar about you give Salaam to each other. So why Allah be fair to your Muslim brother as yourself because he should be like you. That's a very amazing
metaphor that allowed refer to your brother's as it's your own self. Because you and him should be one thing.
in the story of Musa alayhis salam, many verses in the Quran, not many times, referred to others. The word empathy Calm yourself, it means you're the others. For example, when I was told that people have children of Israel, the follower of Musa if they want to repent, * to ambush, kill your brother kill. That's why they start killing one another the most
siniora if we start if we continue this way, the whole entire race of Jews will end stop
nobody said that they stop themselves
Okay, so that's why that's number one. Number two
when you enter a house there is nobody there Why would you give someone so we've done with the don't get yourself
you don't greet yourself yeah and if you look at yourself in the mirror I just met my self said I'm article on the mirror
you know what I just walked from one room to another Santa Monica. Yeah, I took my car I look at somebody come you know I take a dip in the bathtub and then come out cycle what I give.
So who do you give Salaam to when you enter the house?
is Salam legislated in Islam to give to the angels?
Is that anywhere registered in your understanding of Islam that we ever been asked to give Salaam to angels.
Otherwise, Masha Allah I can also say Santa Monica.
I have two angels here right what I do
I miss you guys.
Do you do that? You have four engines in front of you, behind you above you. So I
When I wake up
and I have an angel Mashallah I recited sort of the idea of going to see there is an angel the whole night protecting you so when you wake up sigh Thank you. Do you do that? If you do you need to see him seek serious help. It's not make no sense so we don't greed angels. There is nothing in Islam from the beginning to the end it called greening angels. jinn do we greet you lucky them away from us
when they give them Salaam so who you are sighing to I ask Allah by His name is Sam to bless you to protect you
now oh that's even interesting. We give Salaam now two walls
If you look at the symbol of the prophets of Salaam
also towards incident even though he said when you come to your home you say alarm in yes Luca higher knowledge higher Allah Maharaj Bismillah hiragana Bismillah hiragana
katakana the name of Allah we enter in the name of Allah we exit Okay, we asked a lot to grant us the best of entrance and the best of exit Santa very beautiful meanings. Okay, then he said what Allahu Allah upon Allah I put my trust through menu Selim Allah Allah
then you give Salaam to your family. So the handy thing about you give ceram to to the family so there is no family there is no Santa and in a solemn said in the head intermediate to Anna's para when a son either the halter Alec Fussel limb when you go and you to your family, give your family Sam
so you basically give Salaam to your family.
They somebody may be have a little bit of background and tell me
Sorry, you're not you know, maybe you tried to be logic and blah, blah, blah. You know what, there is a seller used to give Sam when the Enter empty houses.
And some people said that. I said I looked personally to every single duration that it has the claim that someone entered an empty house and he said ceremony
and I found them all fit under one category. And the most authentic and the most famous one they've been Omar on the line said that the whole debate and oil on the school if you enter abandoned house
Okay, why y'all miss school?
He said say As salam o Allah ina,
a Salam upon us, upon evangelia his side of him and upon what you righteous of the servants of Allah
So Mujahid said, is that the hotel Masjid when you enter the masjid say As salam ala rasulillah
what As salam upon masala well is that the Hata Allah Allah can you go which is when you enter what you say a lot most of the Allah Mohammed that's the Sunnah to do the
salon also La
la la Ababa automatic then when you enter to your home give Salaam to your family see and if you enter
an abandoned house okay? No one in it. Say a Sarah mo Elena vida de la sala hain Salaam peace be upon us and righteous of a sudden?
First of all, I would say this.
Who should you follow the practice who deserve from you to follow the most? Also la Salam or
a successor or companion.
But in Ibiza Salam never reported that he ever gives around to an empty home.
Or he ever said, Is it something possibly to happen to you the process in that we never told the company to do that? never said anything like that. At least we don't have any proof for that. So if you want to initiate a new ruling in Islam, you have to bring proof
that's number one. Number two. If you notice these statements and actions of the seller, has nothing to do with Islam, which is the greeting it's a form of art that Allah protect you from the evilness of the jinn. The two usually live in abandoned houses
that's why you say when you come to an abandoned place place never been abandoned, because jinn were the congregate the most abandoned places,
abandoned homes. So in this case, you should say as salaam as Salama Elena here, it's a form of what add to app like subluxation like in your salon when you say
a salam alayka Rasul Allah Al Salam ala rasulillah it means you greeting the Prophet no is not in front of you to greet him. He's dead Salah Salah
he passed away
when you go to the cemetery Samarra come Are you talking to them to greet them now you make into app for them.
So the same thing when you enter an abandoned house in a ceramic arena or a bad lasala when you make into that the peat the protection because Salaam, it means protections be upon me. And also a protection upon those who lives in there. So there is no harm will come to them.
Otherwise if we open this door and say give Sam to the gym, give Sam to the angels. You know what I opened my car I said as an American I get out of my car since I got on the bus. I get in the elevator I guess an American to myself or to the angelyn engine with me all the time.
This is not been ordained. There is no injury at an Islam anything that make a communication between me and something from unsync dialogue. Salaam Alaikum. So even the human who died there is no more dialogue between me and him.
I am alive something and Adam shadow something else. So I don't believe this is a correct practice. I'm not gonna say better. But I don't think it's a correct practice. And it never made sense to me ever. And I don't believe any proof for the thought that some people use really back this practice. Another thing
when we meet one another society talk about the etiquettes of meeting ism giving some out. What about hugging and kissing?
Is that part of the sinner?
I hope not agree. Okay. asuna shaking hands.
men and woman. I mean woman among each other and with each other, you know, shaking hands. Individual sanlam was asked when I meet my friend or my brother, either lucky I had an aha Sahiba who I enhance Allah, Allah. Should I bet bow to him or to her? He said no. Then the prasada was asked. I felt dizzy Moo hoo a bit.
Should I hug him and kiss him? Colella? He said no.
He said pilot fire
was offered. I shake his hands. He said yes. And he said to me the analog by the way.
It's a sound
Uno Rahim. Allah said there is an agreement between all the scholars. It is similar when you meet someone to shake their hands.
That's why NSR they allow an petard at all ask him do the companions of Mohammed Salim when they used to meet each other? They used to shake each other's hands. He said yes. carlina
that's the practice of the companions. And this narrations reported by Rahim Allah. There is exceptions in this what's the exception if you coming from
not had any traveling?
Any traveling if you come from traveling you give that person a hug in Pavani and this also an authentic relation cannot have rasulillah the person companion used to when they meet one another they shake each other's hands but when they come from traveling they will hug each other
so that's in the center of the profits Alumni Center that's why there is not
there is no any authentic let's put it this way authentic narration that didn't who seldom ever kissed or by kissed by someone when he shook his hand somebody
is not part of the culture among Arabs it's like the American culture here. You know now it's kissing is not part of the culture. And the Arabs old days do not use now the Arabs the
they suck your cheek man. They kiss you. Okay, he said but in the old days no individualism is not something happened in their culture. Is it haram? No.
It's a culture so Islam leave it as is. But I want to say something I noticed a lot here in America as well more than any other place. The issue of giving hug to the person who's about to travel.
Like if I'm going to leave them for example next week to England people oh are you leaving so I can give you a hug.
As soon as to give hug when the person comes back? Not before the person leaves just not wrong because all these are in a culture thing.
What does been reported when it comes to kissing
kissing the dead interview was kissed by abubaker when he was done after he died in the visa salaams when he died abubaker uncovered his face and he kissed him in between his head
one of the obviously kissing when you meet when we agreed or when you depart from one another as to what to kiss you
I hope you guys know that.
you know to kiss sedima she said that maybe some salami subida would even the editors debate about the diversity before he goes to the out to them from the house to the mustard he will kiss his wife
give her a goodbye kiss see Elijah the etiquettes of Mohammed Salam is so high
okay anybody want
left for you?
that's that's basically
by who's else should be kissed or in there is
a talk about if there's someone should be kissed other than the wife parents parents he kissed their head their hand their whatever their cheek depends on the culture also some of their enemies said to be an ad and whoever in the same status of father like a scholar older you know because their heads and this is our culture of like
they one of the thing also when innocence we talked about when you meet someone you give him Salaam
is it permissible when you meet someone to stand up for the person to give him some time? Or he should stand up for the person like when someone comes let's say we gather you somebody can do a stand up if you notice some people they said they don't stand up they just shake hands while they say they don't stand up for the person
is anything in Islam and Sunnah about talking about this.
You might be surprised at him a lot. He pours it is Mr. tirmidhi and others and Abby midges and the more our beta that were out of the line
Enter the house where there is an amateur and administer surveyor in that house if an amateur stood up, but didn't sit down and give Santa Maria
Maria told an amateur Sit down. Don't stand up to shake my hands or to greet me. Sit down. I heard the prophets of Salaam said,
saying mansarovar who? Timothy Allah who do pm and philea turbo naka de homina now
set because in the base of Salaam said, Who ever wants or desire that people stand up for him?
Okay, that person should not expect a place in the Day of Judgment except a place in hellfire.
If you feel like no, I deserve to come back and stand up for me.
I have that.
So if you notice more our use this against a banana. Because some of you said chef, but I've been hammered, as I said, Whoever wants people to stand up for him. So why am an amateur who stood up this handed about the person you stand up for? Not the one who stood up himself. That's right. In the head, he said if you want people to stand up for you, so the blame is about me not about the people who stood up for me. Actually, Obama said no both of sinning
because you fulfill that desire of the person which is held on
by standing up and like honoring him.
middle camera hemolysin it's forbidden
But I want to say I don't believe generalizing the ruling like this is correct. Why? Because the issue of standing up for a person
can be looked at in the text and the evidence and we can categorize it to three categories. And if you are interested, I think it is translated in English if I'm not mistaken. There is a very beautiful
wall research well written very short. But it's very very
profound paper by Eben Tamia, Rahim Allah
Fie Miss edital Pm this Sam
Okay, this must have standing up for someone to give him some.
And he mentioned and also
another beautiful writing about those. So if you look at the sin of the porcelain, for instance, just give the example canon the visa salami that the harlot Fatima Carmela how adresa McKenna
every time Fatima come to visit the prasada he stand up for her to give her Salaam and he will let her sit in his place.
And every time he comes and she's sitting she stand up for him and will let him sit in her place
in the business developer,
when CAD or the allow an ally send down the versus sort of the Toba about saying that he's not hypocrites what Paul has said when he saw him coming. He stood up and he gave him a hug.
you many evidence
sad, sad, sad.
When he came in nevison told his people who eat ice cream.
Go stand up and go to your your leader.
Notice he said go to him. He didn't say stand up and go to media say stand up for him. Martin como Lisa decom como ella say Why? Because he was bleeding was injured Need help?
Okay. So if we look at this evidence, then the best thing can be said here, what the prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam companions said.
And I saw the alarm answered.
Let me lemmya che Lamia Jackson, Elena rasulillah. No one we loved and we respected more than the Prophet Mohammed Salah.
What can ask how about either our lemmya Homura
and when the price solemn comes, the companion did not use to stand up for the prophets and his Mohammed salah and the ANA said no one we love and respect more than him but we never did.
Why we didn't do that. Con Lima Allah Muna min karate retallick because they know that the person dislike that.
One also made the solemn dislike that just let's wrap this up. So no matter how Allah said, there is three scenarios, one, which is absolutely forbidden, and that what this hadith actually refer to, which is, look, expect your place to Hellfire if you want people to stand for you, which is you will be sitting and people standing behind you.
Like the Way kings and not for protection, no for like, honoring and because you know what I said, Nobody said, everybody's standing for me.
It was a culture of kings and royalty. This what the professor lamb was referring to in the beginning, that's why babies are lamb when he entered the Salah, and he said in the Salah, what the Sahaba was doing doing standing and he's setting what the president he said set down so he would never be seen ever a setting and behind him the people standing he ordered him to sit down as well.
That's how long so to stand up out of for someone that you feel that he has a very high position he deserved that. us out of arrogance like the way the kings and and maybe presidents or roles believe or masters. You know when it come everybody stand up. Some managers made me feel that way. Am I stand up? I'm honored of this position. I own this place. Everybody stand up when I'm setting, nobody said that's how that's forbidden.
Okay, the second one to stand for the person in front of the person.
Not behind it in front of montavilla.
You stand up, not while he's standing not while he's sitting.
So he stand up, you stand up he comes you stand up for the person.
So if you have a camera, it's dislike.
And it is you do it as needed. Like judges, teachers sometimes. You know, this my boss, I'm gonna get fired. You know? So,
Yeah, the Supreme Court. Yeah, yeah, you standard. The third one is to stand up for the person, for the reason to give him a hug. He didn't see him for a while to show him extra respect, because he's this color or older or someone sick. Like they did decide that. That's permissible, like he did to his daughter. He did she did to her father. Okay. And it is some if you know that if I don't stand up for someone to give us an app that will make the person feel bad, and kind of get disrespected and older, especially certain culture will be very angry at you if you don't do that, you know, the Muslim has to do that. You stand up for that for the person. There is plenty of evidence during the
setup for him a lot. That even with kings when became and they give them ceram they didn't stand up and the king was angry like Buddha foreman saw like
and motobecane was very angry at the scholar. And he said his name is
Adam. Everybody stood up except 100 so that said
he doesn't believe that I am halifa or what will stand on even stand up for me. Then there was he or he knows the chef he said Carla FIBA sorry he she?
No, no, he can see clearly than he heard him the chef is called Elisa he basally. She will convene FC shape
as normal my eyes but I have something in my heart. Then the halifa said What is it? He said yeah, amirul momineen nuzhat to Canada Bella, I didn't stand up because I care for your deen I care for your Allah. He said, How come? He said because nobody saw some of them said men have betania Timothy Allah who NASA piano affiliate of omega hominin Now, if you want people to stand for you and to honor you should expect your place for yourself and the hellfire.
With our kids said, You sit next to me
from all the other scholars and he brought him in he honored him. And there is many many incidents like this took place with a man scholars like him more than a month saw the same light.
So if there's anything you should educate people, you don't have to stand up like from for me because it especially after I start growing a lot of gray hair, you know
when I go to a gathering place because the CEO is a chef, so everybody like stand up for you. So make sure that to make a point, Gemma, honey, go, please don't stand up.
You should educate people, because it's still not something I recommended to be done. But make sure you don't sit down and to show disrespect to someone who will not understand why you're sitting down.
Okay, so in the visa salon told the company that he doesn't like them when they stand up for him. That's why they did not stand up for him. But he informed them first God limit Ala Moana min karate because they know he doesn't like that.
So these are some of the rules and benefits from the headings that we studied today. And looking forward to
study the other ones
as we go