Taimiyyah Zubair – Bukhari 084 The Prayers Hadith 433 441

Taimiyyah Zubair
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Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu

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aliotta Sudhi Look at him I'm Albert feroza Billahi min ash shaytani r rajim Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim I wish rattly solidity were Sidley, MD whiterock Dr. Melissa Annie of Coco li probenecid narina cassava sola Bab sala de FEMA wildberry hoshea. Well, are there be a celerity performing the prayer were FEMA? Well, they must speak in the places of Hassan. Manuel, they're a plural of MOBA place. Okay? And hos where the earth has caved in. So performing the soil where the earth has caved in, will either be and punishment meaning where the punishment of Allah has descended. So the question is, is it allowed to pray in a place where the earth was caved in? Where the punishment of

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Allah descended, where a certain people were punished, where they were destroyed? Because the punishment of Allah, that is not mercy. So is it allowed to pray in such a place where Allah subhanaw taala showed his anger showed his Ahava to such an extent that the people over there that were destroyed, so can a person pray there, and over here, Manuel de Rojas, they're the places where the earth has caved in. So a place where a natural disaster has occurred. It could be an earthquake, it could be a flood, it could be anything but a natural disaster. And this is general and other is specific. What's the difference over here? That Husky is hos okay has his horse meaning a specific

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kind of punishment. And our that is general could be anything. Also, there is another difference. husk can be understood as any natural disaster, and other is specifically the punishment of law. Now, any natural disaster, do we have the right to say that oh, this is the punishment of Allah? Like, for example, if there is an earthquake somewhere, let's say lightning fell, and a building, burnt, you know, fell, the people over there there died. So can you say that this is a punishment of Allah? Do you have the right to say that? No, we do not have the right to say that. So, husk is what any kind of natural disaster and our lab is specifically a place about which we know that yes, these

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people were punished. So for example, the ruins off the people of the mood that people have had. It's known, it's mentioned in the Quran, in the Sunnah, that these are the people who were destroyed because of the punishment of Allah subhanaw taala upon them. So whether it is a place that has been devastated by a natural disaster, or a place where the punishment of Allah descended, can you perform Salah over there or not? We see that it is not liked, it is something that is not liked. Why? Because think about it. That is the place where people were far removed from Allah's mercy. Allah subhanaw taala showed his anger and there you are praying for Allah subhanaw taala His mercy

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and blessings. So it seems almost like mockery, while you go through and it has been mentioned and Alejandro de Allahu anhu that earlier there'll be a lot more and you're getting a slit atta he disliked performing the prayer where because fee Babel at the husk of Babel, meaning where the earth had caved in. In Babel, meaning Babylon husk of Babel, the husk of Babylon is where num rude. He had huge and tall buildings constructed and last panned out across the earth to swallow the Mala. And this is what many of us seen interpret. And I have the Quran with which I insert the natural Ayah 26 that Kadima call alladhina macabre him for Allahu banyana homina polarity for ha la la he will suck

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from invoking him, what are their home or their woman hydrolyze rune that those before them had already plotted, referring to them rude. But Allah came at their building from the foundations meaning he brought them down to the roof fell upon them from above them and the punishment came to them from where they did not perceive many of us interpret it this is referring to number of the buildings that he had constructed and the husk that occurred over there, the result of which was that all of those buildings, they collapsed so early on when he went to bourbon, he disliked to pray over there. So if a companion did not pray there, then what does it mean that we should also not

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pray in such places have done or is Mary Luna Abdullah Paula had destiny Malik and our delectably dinette in our Villa him Yamato probably a lot more in Houma, and that will soon Elias or the longer you send him a call, let at Hulu, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said do not enter Allah, Allah upon these people, which people are more either Bina those who have been punished Illa and akuna Burkean except that you are crying, do not enter the ruins of those people, the houses the left behind the house.

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That were struck by the punishment of Allah do not enter them, except that you are crying for a lambda Qunu Burkean and if you are not crying for letter to holler at him, then do not enter upon them Why? Later you see become, it should not befall you Mesaba whom that which has befallen them. When did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam say this, when the Sahaba were going for Jihad with the Prophet sallallahu Sallam do the book, and on the way there, they fast the area of a hedged and unhedged is where the ruins of the people off the mood were. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he instructed the companions to just enter and pass through, enter and exit, meaning only pass through

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for a reason. Because you have no other choice, or even if you have to go see something there, you want to take a bro, then you should not stay there rather, you should just go and pass through, meaning go through quickly, and the profits or losses and even forbade the people from using the water of that place. And what did he say over here, that while you pass through weep and cry, why? Because you should be afraid of Allah palatinus punishment, especially when you see the effects of that punishment with your own eyes. I mean, this is the place where the punishment of Allah descended. So don't just go there and stand there, pass through and Don't just stand there, weep,

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cry out of a loss of penalty artisphere and reflect over what happened there and that reflection should make you cry. And if a person does not reflect, he does not cry, then he is resembling who the people who do not fear the warnings of Allah soprano. Because this place serves as what as a warning that if you do not have the fear of a light you do not reform yourselves then there is a punishment of Allah. So when he is not afraid of Allah's warning, he is heedless, just like the people of this place where then he is resembling them. And when he resembled them in nature, that he doesn't fear Allah 's warnings, then he will resemble them in consequences. This is why the Prophet

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sallallahu Sallam said, Now you see become Masada, home, cry, because otherwise what befell them can befall you. Because if you are not crying, that means you do not fear loss warnings that means you resemble them in nature, when you resemble them in nature, you will resemble them in consequences. And this is the reason why the scholars have regarded it to be mcru. What to perform Salah in such a place because it's not allowed to just go and stay over there rather one should pass and how can a person perform Salah in passing, you have to stay in one place in order to perform so that and also because the Prophet totalizm said when you're going cry, how can a person cry continuously

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throughout the Salah It is not possible. So when these two things are not possible in Salah, then Salah will not be performed in such a place. So it shows First of all, that a person should not go to such places for the purpose of amusement, rather only to take a lesson he should reflect even if you're going to a museum, reflect and cry, weep you know, take a breath, take a lesson instead of laughing at the kind of clothes that people used to wear, or being, you know, really amazed and impressed by the kind of jewelry and the kind of vessels that they had no, take a lesson and tears should come into your eyes. Take a lesson. There are so many places in this world where you know the

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punishment of Allah descended and we know from Quran and Sunnah, that that was punishment, for sure. But yet people go there, they take pictures over there, and they are so proud of visiting that place, smiling as the pictures are being taken. This is not a place to smile and laugh. This is a place to cry, and weep out of the fear of a loss of friends. This is why I said even if you go to a museum, and you see the ruins of the people of the past, then take a lesson. But a fanatic will be praying for law in a Beer Beer. Some scholars have said that they are the main Abbot of your hood, meaning the worship places off your hood. So what would that be a synagogue? Some said it's the

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worship place of Christians. So they've translated it as church and others say that it is the worship place of a raw hip. So a monastery so there is difference of opinion. So you can say that VR refers to a place of worship of who people have the book where there's only one person who stays there and worships there so it's like a monastery or many people come and worship over there. So we are performing Salah in a beer canal is on the other hand is specifically used for the worship places of Christians. A church and massage worship Raisa Muslims wacana Romero, karate Allahu anhu or Moodle dillo. I knew he said in that indeed we'd learn the whole Luca is a con

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We do not enter your worship places your churches. Why mean edgeley because of

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the statues, and latifi has saw those which have pictures in them, meaning we do not enter your churches, because of the statues and the statues, which have pictures on them, or these churches, which have statues as well as pictures. So this is why we do not enter, we do not go in these places. That means we will not even pray there. What was the reason? The pictures and the statues? Now this happened with our modal bloodline who went to Sham and the Christian man prepared some food for him and said that he was a raw hip, so he had his own ministry, and he requested or model below are you to please come to him and honor him by eating the food that he had prepared for a little bit

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lower income, or what although I couldn't refuse the invitation, on which basis, the basis that he would have to go, what was the evidence that he gave, the reason that he gave the reasoning was that I will have to go and be in a place where there are pictures and statues and he said, I do not go to such a place. Because if you were to go there, then he would be honoring that man that plays those pictures, you'd be honoring what shake. So when he did not go there, then how can a person perform slid over there? You understand? How can a person perform sada over there. So this is a reason why performing sila in a church where there are pictures and statues, it is not permissible, what kind

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of our blessing and even our boss hold it over and who you suddenly fill beer, he would perform solo in a church or synagogue. In LA, we are item fee automatic except for the church which had statues in it. So if there were statues in it, then he would not pray. And if there were no statues, then he would pray. And in another narration of this method, which is found elsewhere, we learned that for in canopy had to method harder for Sullivan motto, that if there were statues over there, then he would go out and pray in the rain. Imagine they were so strict about this, that they would not pray, where there were statues, and who are these people, the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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So the same is for us, that we should not pray in a place where there are pictures and statues, especially of beings that people worship. Why because they are symbols of ship. Right there are symbols of ship and ship is done. And how can you perform so over there? Because what is ship it's the most hated thing to Allah subhanaw taala it is the worst sin, right? That the heavens would break asunder because of the Sheikh. Allah subhanaw taala is so angry with it he dislikes it so much. And there you're performing solo over there. It's like mockery had taken a Mohammedan Kala Corona Abdullah Anisha near the water and aviana Isha and Noma Salamat Salamat karate Rasulullah

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam she mentioned to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam Kony satin a church or at her when she saw the inhibition in the land of Harsha. You follow her Maria which was called Marissa, meaning the church was named after seems like Miriam, further Curatola who model atvi her so she mentioned to him what she saw in it when I saw all of the images and the pictures for Colorado lights on Lauryn Hill set them to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said oolagah Coleman those are people either McAfee when octo sila when a righteous man among them died or will reginal Sawyer or a righteous Roger, a servant, a righteous servant or a righteous man when he died by no other

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public Hema student they built on his grave a mosque was a roofie and they painted in it they made in a tilaka saw these pictures, hula Ecuador's are surely healthier in the law, the worst of creatures near la soprano throne who those who built massagin on the graves of righteous people, and they filled it with chick by painting pictures and it by making pictures in it off those righteous men. And we see that similar ways have become very common amongst Muslims. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said those are the worst of creation in the sight of Allah. So, this Hadees shows that when these places are built on graves for the purpose of sherek, then one should not perform over there.

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Right because these are made for what shape they are built to worship other than Allah, they are built for the performance of the Act which Allah subhanaw taala hates. So, this is why it is not appropriate it does not fit a Muslim that he performs on that in such a case. So the scholars, this is why they unanimously agree that it is not allowed to pray in a place in which there are images of who of animate beings, whether they are worshipped or not. Whether that place is

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A place of worship or it is some other place. So it is not allowed to pray in such a place. In fact, some scholars are of the view that doing this as how long but we see that the view of the majority is that it is makuu. It is disliked, because there are certain situations where a person doesn't have a choice, there are pictures that are images, and he has no choice but to pray there. So, should he not pray them? No, he will pray his Salah will be valid. However, he is incurring a sin, He is incurring a sin, his Salah will be valid, but he is committing an action which is mcru. Even taymiyah said the correct view, which was narrated from Roman hottub, and others, and as mentioned

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in reports from our mother and others is that if there are images in it, like a church, then he should not pray there. Why? Because the angels do not enter the room in which there are images and because the prophets are a lot of them did not enter the Kaaba until the images that were in it had been erased. This is what our model did or who said we would not enter their churches, because there are images in them. So what do we understand from this that it is makrooh to pray in such a place is Salah valid? Yes, it is. But it is not true. question Why is it not allowed? Because when you're performing Salah over there, you don't mean to worship those pictures or those idols? You don't even

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believe in them. you dislike Schick, you don't acknowledge it at all. So why is it not allowed to pray? Like we learned earlier, performing sada while facing fire. Okay, when a person intends to worship Allah, he doesn't intend to worship that fire that fire is there because that's where the oven is. That's where the food is being prepared. And it seems like this is the best place for you to pray, given the space that you have. So when you have the intention of worshipping Allah, it is allowed, why is it not okay? In the case of pictures and images? Why? There are several reasons, first of all, because of the Hadith, of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that tells us that the angels

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do not enter a room in which there is a dog or an image, a place that has a dog in it, a place that has images, statues, pictures in it, that who does not come. Angels do not come over there, which angels kahraman, ketamine, no kurama ketamine, they stay with the person wherever he is, wherever he goes, because they are to record all of his deeds so they do not leave him at all. Which angels does this refer to? The angels of mercy, the angels that bring the mercy of Allah, the angels that bring them blessings of Allah, the angels that go around and pray for forgiveness for believers. So, when such angels do not enter such a place, they're not going to bring a love mercy. They're not going to

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pray for your forgiveness. And how can you perform something over there? Because which mercy will that's what I bring them which forgiveness will that's what I bring them, you understand, it defeats the purpose of Salah in a way. So this is the reason why, because the worshippers asking Allah to send down mercy increase in blessings and how can you do so in a place where the angels will not come? This is why you should not pray in such a place. Another reason is to avoid any resemblance to those who do shake, whether it is the machine or it is Christians or whoever. Because mentorship are common for women who seek to avoid any kind of resemblance. Another reason is to avoid that which

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may distract the worshiper because if you are surrounded by images, even if they may be on children's books, even if there may be big pictures on a diaper box and that's sitting right next to you and you performing Salah Will you not be distracted? Of course you will be distracted if there are big images on a blanket

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on a child's bed sheet. Of course it's going to distract you How can you pray there. And remember the Hadith where the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when he was performing saw that very patterned garden he had it removed another notion that he was wearing a pattern garment and he returned it because it distracted him in Sala so anything that distracts you in the prayer, you're not supposed to pray with it around it near it. So pictures statues, they will definitely distract you. So, this is why a person should not pray there. Even with regards to clothes which have pictures on them, which have excessive pattern on them. What did we learn that a person should avoid such garments? Why? Because

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it will be a distraction. So this is the reason why the hikma you can say why a person should not pray in a place where there are images or there are statues. Whether it is a hospital, or a restaurant or a church or somebody's house. You should not pray over there. By

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To remember that this is macro, which means that if you don't have any choice but to pray there, you have to pray. But you should seek our last panel Tardos forgiveness at the same time. Now, images, okay, which are animate, it's clear that you should not pray over there. But images of inanimate things. Is that permissible to perform Salah in a place that contains images of inanimate things like, for example, a big painting of let's say, mountains and clouds and flowers or trees? Is it permissible? Yeah, it is permissible, so long as they do not become a distraction.

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The same rule applies to the rugs that you're praying. Okay. Jeff Andrews, I mean, he was asked about rugs on which there are images of mosques.

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Have you seen that? Of course, can we pray on them? He replied, what we think is that a rug should not be set out for the member of person who's going to prey on which there are images of mosques because it may distract him. And he may look at them which will affect his prayer, the messenger sallallahu sallam, when he prayed in a clock that had stripes, he looked at the stripes when he finished and said, Take this clock to Abuja home and bring me his plane Garmin, for they distracted me just now, when I was praying, that he said that if it so happens, that the person will not be distracted by that, because he is blind, or because this is so common to him that he will not pay

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any attention to it, then there is no harm. And the fact is that the majority of us are used to performing prayers on such pyramid, so there is no harm inshallah. So to sum up, what do we learn that there is nothing wrong with praying inside a church, as long as there are no images or statues in it? Whether it is a fault, prayer, jamara, prayer, any prayer, you can perform Salah over there, as long as there are no images or statues. If there are statues in a church, or in any other place, whether those images are 2d or 3d images or statues, of which of animate beings, then a person should not perform Salah over there, except in the case of necessity, you will not pray there,

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except in the case of necessity. And the same rule applies to clothes, as well, meaning if there are pictures on it, you will not pray them, except in a case a necessity. One more question, praying in front of a mirror because it's like a video that's playing before you an image of a person before you is that permissible? Because it may happen to you that you go to a place and there is a mirror in the directional coupler. And that seems like the only place where you can pray wherever you stand, you will see yourself can you pray, just in your brain, he said, if a person prays with a mirror in front of him, his prayer is valid, even if he's facing it, and can see himself in it, but

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he has to lower his gaze and not look at it. Because insula, where should you be looking the place of such the knot in front of you, your head should be bent down. So you should be looking at the place of such that anyway, you're not prostrating to that image. So there is no harm, but you have to look down but if you feel that it is too distracting, then you should avoid it. Okay? That if there is something like this, let's say in your room, and big mirror, it becomes a distraction for you, even if it's not right in front of you, but on the side, then cover it with something during Salah so that it's not a distraction. Likewise, these days, there is pictures and everything from

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cereal boxes, to diaper boxes to everything. So what should you do? What should you do, you should cover them, put them away, get rid of them, whatever that you can do. Because remember, angels of mercy do not come to such places. And you don't want that you or your family is deprived of Allah subhanaw taala has mercy because of that magazine, that sitting in your living room. So any such thing, cover it, put it away, get rid of that box, take that cereal bag out, get rid of the box and keep the cereal, get rid of the box and keep the diapers, books, children's books or even other magazines or newspapers, you know, put them away in bookshelves or something so that they are

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covered. And many people you know that the fact is that we have become so used to these pictures of animal beings that we don't mind them laying around like this. Make sure that you put them away pay attention to this because otherwise the angels will not come. If it's your kids books, put them away toys, put them away. Cover them put them away. They should not out there. Yeah, but you can't do anything. I mean, there's some things that you can't get rid of, so they should not be exposed. This is just like a

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If a person is performing solder and there is some filth, what did we learn earlier that there should be a barrier between him and that filter, meaning he should not have direct contact with it. So just like that there is an image, there should be a barrier. So cover it, put it away, where the angels will not come Shailene will come and create a lot of facade. Same thing. So veneers, whether they are made of crystal or what, when they have images, whether it is of a camel or a beaver or anything, it should not be displayed. Because many times you go to a prayer room, it's supposed to be for all faiths, people of all faiths can come and worship over there and sometimes, because these

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places are built by or bought by or financially supported by Christian faith, this is why you will find their, you know, statues or images or literature more in such place or just the fact that they're more active. So, in such a situation with you are in such a place you have to pray there, what should you do? First of all, try your best that you're not facing an image or a statue or anything of the sort. And if you can cover it, but still try to avoid facing it. And when you know that you don't have a choice, then you will still pray there. Remember that your soul that is valid in Sharla had the Abuja manakala Akbar on a shoe or even on his re apolonia VEDA la Huebner Abdullah

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him the earth but an hour a Chateau de la near bessin Kala they both said la manera de Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam was near death naza Allah be what does it mean that it descended, meaning his last moments came upon him. His last moments came upon him meaning he was near death, he was about to die. In that state of Utah, he began Yahoo he was throwing he was casting homies what Allah who a blanket that he had, I know what he on his face, meaning he would take his blanket and put it on his face. For either them or be her then when he felt suffocated because of it kashia for her on what he would remove it from his face, like a person

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in extreme agony. In fever, this is what they do. They cover their face with a blanket and then they cannot do that anymore. They uncover the face in that state for color. So he said, Well, what can I do while he was like that, in that state, he said, I learned a lot here earlier Who do you and masala May the curse of a lobby upon the Jews and the Christians in the huddle, they took Ebola ambia in the graves of their profits, massage it as places of worship, you have the row mercenary he was warning against what they did, by saying that meal loss Pandora's curse be on them. And this shows to us the importance of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam gave to toe heed the importance that he

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gave to the hate, because he remembered this it upset him at what occasion his death. Imagine at his deathbed and he's praying against the people warning his oma from doing such a thing. And he cursed them. Those who took the graves of their profits as worship places and in sort of made that I 7879 we learned during Alina cafaro when Bernice Allah Allah Allah Allah Sangeeta Buddha recently Maria, that mouseover Kenyatta don't cannot lay Atlanta honer Moon Corinne Farah who they used to do muncom and they wouldn't stop people from it. So this is one of the big mooncup that the Bani Israel did and their scholars did not stop them. What was this big Mancha building massage it on the graves of

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their profits on the graves of righteous men. So this led to shake so this is the reason why a person should not perform sought out over there because then he's supporting them in a way especially if there are idols and images inside places. Had the center of the LA hip new Muslim atta American and me she had been unnecessary the Nimbus A and B hooray data and the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a call Katara La Jolla hood. May Allah make war against the yahood the Hulu NBA massada they took the graves of the profits as places of worship. So when the curse of Allah subhanaw taala is on such people, why should a person pray in their places of worship? And

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notice our talent? Earlier we learned learn how to look over your cartilage cartilage is stronger than learn because of a low wages war against someone then what are they left with? They're nothing bad colon abuse a lot harder to sell them directly or domestic than what the hurrah the statement of the profits on a lot is it on the entire Earth has been made a Masjid meaning a place of such that a mosque what the hula and a purification. So this statement of the prophets all about us and how general is this?

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How generalised is that does this mean you can pray anywhere, anyplace even if it's not just or even if there is sugar being done? Can you pray there based on this statement of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam or does it have to be understood correctly?

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car I had the nerve dilla Kala Kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were only two humps and I was given five of them Europa who had the mini MBA equably. None of the messengers before me was given this new slave to be Ruby misurata Sharon, I have been helped to victory by terror,

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merci Lata Sharon which is the length of a month, meaning the distance which would be covered in a month's time. This is if an enemy was that far from him. Still, he would fear the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said he was helped by Allah subhanaw taala through this, would you read that Leonardo Masjid and what the hora and the entire Earth has been made a Masjid and the hood for me must see that in place of prayer. And for who doesn't have a means of purification? Well, are you Mallanna mean Almighty and any man from my alma mater aka to Salah to the time of Salah has come upon him for your solid and he should perform Salah over there, wherever he is, what we're headed at 11am and the war

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booty has been made permissible for me what kind of EBU and a Prophet would be you birthday in an Army Hospital, you will be sent to his people exclusively will be raised to either NASA Kapha and I had been sent to all people entirely what what leadership errata and I've also been granted GFR and this Hadees was discussed in much detail earlier in the book of time. So if you want to revise it, you may refer to that. What is of relevance over here is that of the special qualities and virtues of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was gifted with was what the fact that the entire Earth was made Masjid and the hood for him for him and his oma Masjid meaning that this ummah is allowed to perform

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Salah anywhere, all places are suitable for Sana Bahu meaning it's a source of purification. So, we can perform a moment the absence of water. Now, when it comes to the first part, that the entire Earth has been made a Masjid, how do we understand this, we understand this as that the entire Earth is suitable for prayer which means every country, every city, every building, every ground, every level, every place is suitable for Salah meaning a Masjid can be constructed anywhere and a person may perform Salah anywhere. And obviously, there are exceptions that we have to consider based on other evidences that we learned from the so now. So earlier we learned about the fact that it's not

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correct to pray, we're in a graveyard, okay. Likewise, the punishment of Allah has descended and likewise a place which is not just okay that is dirty, and likewise a place that has been done over there. So, there are certain exceptions, but basically we see that any place which has some filth in it, whether that filter is tangible or intangible, that place has to be avoided, the ideal is that that field should be removed, because you have a greater right to pray over there, okay, that field should be removed, because you have a greater right than the field, whether that field is an idle or it is an agenda, but where that is not possible, then you will not pray over there rather you will

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pray elsewhere. And if a person does not have the choice to pray elsewhere, he has to pray over there. Can he pray? Yes. Will that be valid? Yes, because in all of these cases, we see that solar is still valid. Remember that man that companion who was praying in the direction of a grave, he did not realize our model did or who said to him cover cover, but he did not instruct him to repeat the prayer which means that Salah is still valid.

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So, even though there are places where performing Salah is mcru

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Okay, what do we learn that Salah will still be jealous, it will still be valid. So the statement of the prophets Allah says the entire Earth is a must it it is a general statement. But you have to realize that there are certain places in which it is better to pray. And there are certain places where a person should avoid slaughter. Like for example, out of all the places which places best for pray, machine how long right because the reward there is multiplied. And, likewise, I must performance Allah is better. For a woman if she's praying in the house, which part is best the innermost part

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Why because there are less distractions. She's outside, a bird is flying, a cat is meowing you know she can hear all the noise. She's distracted by so many things. So the entire Earth is suitable for prayer. But we have to realize certain places are more appropriate. They're better to pray in, they should be chosen for salah and other places should be avoided for various reasons and a person should be aware of this so that you can have more focus and you can deserve or you can welcome the mercy of Allah subhanaw taala because where you are, the angels will come they will pray for your forgiveness, they will bring the mercy of Allah. So to improve the quality of your Sunnah. To

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improve the benefits of the Sunnah. You should choose the place which is best to get the most out of your prayer. Choose the place that is best. Bab no mille Marathi film Masjid no more sleeping abou a woman film as seen in the masjid meaning is it allowed for a woman to sleep in a restaurant? If she goes to a muster to pray? She's very sleepy she wants to take a short nap can she? Or is it not allowed? It is allowed. Had the thinner obey the mercenary you call I had done a boo sama on his Sham in an OBE on a shadow or a shadow on her she narrated. And Noah Lee written that once there was a leader, what leader from well, lambda, what does it mean? A newborn child. So when he dies, ooh, a

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newborn baby girl. But remember that the word applies to a slave woman, whether she is young or old. Regardless of our age, the word walidah also applies to a slave and just like the word who lamb. Lamb literally means young boy. But it also applies to a slave whether he is young or old. So there was a slave woman cannot tell that. And she was a black woman, Lee Hagen, and she belonged to a high high is a tribe you can say a sub tribe, a sub tribe, a clan of a tribe, so she belonged to a middle of the earth. So she belonged to an Arabian tribe, meaning she was owned by them. So what happened to her so they freed her for Canada tomorrow. But she remained with them. Why?

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Because she probably had no family. She didn't know where to go. She was freed. But she still stayed with that tribe. Because she had no family. She had no people to go to. So what happened for Kenneth Marwan college, she said for her rajyotsava yet and so one day is Serbia. A woman from Serbia. Okay, so we use baby Serbia baby girl, so it's being used for a girl. So for her I just Soviet on a girl once when she came out of the home for that meeting, she was from them. And our lay her upon her was a we share a hammer, a red jeweled belt minzu which was from leather. So a leather belt that was red in color. And it was adorned it was jeweled which is basically

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a belt that is full of ornaments. And specifically pearls, which are is the one that is covered in pearls specifically, and the women used to wear it as part of their jewelry. Even now, you will see this. And you will notice this, especially if you go to a jewelry shop, somewhere in the Middle East that you will notice gold belts. Have you ever seen them? I remember the first time I saw them. I was like, What is this? Imagine there's a cat that you have to pay on this. But anyway, this is something that the Arab women used to wear from long ago. This is part of their tradition that as part of Xena, they would wear belts around their waist made of leather, but it would be ornamental.

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It would be covered in ornaments. Okay, and we see that even today, not just Arabs, but many women, they wear belts, why as part of beauty. Sometimes you will see black leather belts, you know, covered in studs and shiny things. So anyway, she was wearing a belt like that. So what happened is that she said fold our tool so she removed it, a walk arm in her or it fell from her. Either she removed that belt or she dropped that belt from Allah to be here. So it passed by that belt. What are they yet on? a kite kite is a kind of a bird. And it's a kind of a bird which you are allowed to kill in the harem and the hill. I made the few exceptions from amongst the animals which we are

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allowed to kill in the head on. One of them is a kite. It's a kind of a bird. So a kite flew by a woman and it was

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Fallen meaning that belt was just lying over there for hassey but who so that guide thought that that belt was

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a piece of flesh because imagine a red belt covered in white pearls. Looks like a red piece of meat covered with white grains of fat.

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So for half of our two sheep picked it up, she said Fatima Soho so the people they began looking for that belt fellow Mia do so they did not find it. odd that woman said that slave woman she said fat the harmoni so they blamed me V with it that I had stolen it. Ireland she said for toffee goo so they began looking for it. They searched for it you for the Shona, they began searching have done so much so that for the show they even searched Kabbalah her her front meaning her private part because they accused her in the set that she was hiding it so the thirdly you know your practitioner has to investigate to search the thoroughly examined her even so much that they checked her private part

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that maybe she was hiding it over there. Or that she said we're lucky by Allah in Nila Karima tomorrow I was standing with them. It Murat when it passed and who the yet that same night. And for a lot too. And that guy dropped it. were called he said for carabiner home so it fell right in front of them. That guy dropped it right in front of them. Archie said football too. So I said had a lady This is that which it seemed to me that you were blaming me with them to me you thought were an amine herbaria and I was innocent of it. You claimed that I was guilty of it. Whereas in reality I was innocent. I never stole it. Well, who are the Who? And it is right here. Allah He said fudger at

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ILA Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she was so sad. She was so upset that she left those people. And she came to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and then for us limit and she became Muslim. Or that our Asia I showed up with her and her set for Canada. And so that woman, she had fever on film as Judy haivision she had a fever or a hitch in the back hips used for a tent. She had a tent in the masjid college, she said for cannon and meaning that she was to stay in that tent. Because why would she go when her people freed her? She didn't go anywhere because she didn't have a family. So when she left them, she came to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, Where would she go? Who would she

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live with? She didn't have a home. So she stayed in the masjid. And she lived in a tent and this was built or rather This was pitched over there in the masjid, by the permission of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam or his approval or at his instruction meeting, he approved of it, so she used to stay in the masjid in her tent. Part of the eyeshadow and her set for Canada Tini, so this woman used to come to me for the high desert end, and then she would talk with me, she would come to me and talk to me, or that I shall bid on her said fella that Lisa in the she would never sit with me Madison any sitting in the corner except that she would say meaning every time she came to me and

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talk to me. She would always say oil malvaceae Haman igvault Bina in the home in bell that they will coffee and Danny. She would say oh man wish or hate and the day of the leather belt mean it will have been hiatus from the marvels from the wonders of our Lord. Allah indeed in the human belt, that little coffee and journey. It's it saved me from the land of

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that day, which that incident of the belt occurred. It's an amazing incident because it saved me from the land of gophers

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are that are a shadow I shall deliver an asset for Petula. So I said to her Russia, Nikki, what is your affair laptop or rodina? Marie, you never sit with me mccarten any sitting in there? You always say this. What is this? called? She said for her destiny. We had her this then she told me the story of the day of the leather belt that what that story was. So there are many amazing lessons over here.

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We see that

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this incident was really an amazing incident. I mean, RGV rabina, that a woman who is freed by people stays with them. There must have been something about them as well that you stayed with them. But she is hurt so badly because of them. Sometimes it happens that you love someone. You help them. You stay with them, but they hurt you. They do something that you least expected of them. They cheat you. They harm you. Imagine that they did not trust her. They accused her they blamed her and no one was going to defend her. So much so that they exposed

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private parts, even this is the lack of trust, the lack of confidence that they had in her. Imagine how hurt She must have been How sad She must have been. But at this point what happened a lot of panel data helped her the distress that she was in Allah subhanaw taala took her out of that how that in front of her in front of those people that guide game, dropped that belt and proved her innocence. So Allah subhanaw taala brought her out of that distress. And because of that, he brought her out of a greater distress. And what was that?

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He took her out of awful because of the incident that happened in that woman's life. If this hadn't happened, she would have stayed with them, she would have stayed with them.

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Although artemus she would embrace Islam later or not. But this difficult, you know, thing that happened in her life, brought her to Islam, made her leave her people, you know, come to the prophets of Allah, Islam and embrace Islam. So this shows that many times something harmful happens. But in fact, it is NAFTA, it has beneficial little batara naffaa many times something harmful. Something that we do not like, in fact is what beneficial to us. Because this distress brought her out. And we see that Allah subhanaw taala helps all people, whether they're Muslim or not, this one was not a Muslim at that point. She was innocent and Allah subhanaw taala help. And this shows to us

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the mercy that our last panel data shows to all people whether Muslim or not. So it would really be a person's fault if he deprives himself of a loss of count on his mercy in the hereafter. Imagine how merciful Allah is to his servants, that those who are unjust, the last panel data does not help them. It does not aid these people that drive they were being unjust what this woman but look at how Allah subhanaw taala saved her. Remember that every difficulty that you go through is only taking you to head in Sharla that you might feel that you are suffering because of the people who are around What crime did you ever commit? Right? You wonder sometimes, or when you hear such stories,

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you wonder that why did this happen to such and such person, it's because of lots of penalties taking them out of that situation that place. Because the thing is that as long as we love something, as long as we love someone we are comfortable, there will never leave it, we are too attached. Right our heart is attached. So when we are hurt, because of people, because of things because of places, then what happens detachment, when that detachment happens, only then you can leave it and turn to Allah. Only then you can go to Allah. Because these things and these people around us, they enslave us, even if they have apparently set us free, they have still enslaved us

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that we do not have the confidence to leave them. We like them too much we cannot leave them. But when we are hurt because of them, only then we can detach ourselves from there are many things that we say that first of all, I shall little or no, she seems to be a very good listener.

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And someone who gave importance to others that look this woman, she comes and talks to eyeshadow, Anna, and we were in a position like this, what would we say she comes in waste of my time I read it. And she comes in repeats the same story every time. So what

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I know what she's going to say, and then we start rolling our eyes and we start getting bored even before the other person has started talking. You know, sometimes all that people want us to speak to someone, even if they're going to repeat the same thing. There could be a person in your family, you know the kind of illness or suffering from but every time you go to them, they repeat the same thing again and again. And again. Like I know you know the very words they're going to say because you've heard them 100 times you've heard them every day of your life, but still hear them. Listen to them give importance to the people of Allah, because they have endured difficulty in the path of Allah.

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Look at this woman. She was allowed to stay in the masjid by the prophet sallallahu Sallam Isn't that an honor. She had a tent that belonged to her in the masjid of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And that is a huge honor.

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So no matter what we think of other people, still give importance to them, and blame people for what we don't have evidence for. They blamed her just because she was poor. That's because she didn't have anything of her own. She was a freed slave. So they blamed her. How can we blame people without evidence? We must not do that. And if somebody's saying I do not have it, I did not take it accept their word. You don't have to go, you know into so much investigation and embarrass them and humiliate them. The hypocrite so many times the profits or losses and his attitude was what of accepting what they said.

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Dealing with them on their appearance, we haven't been told to cut open the hearts of people, right. So accept what the other person is saying deal with them on their apparent it will happen with you, you know as soon as people will see you with a hijab on if they learned that you are studying the Quran, then they will want to ask you for something ask you for an answer, discuss their issue with them, their problems with them, they will speak to you for an hour, two hours, three hours, they will talk to you again and again. And you know their story. They just want somebody to listen to them. Someone who's like minded, right?

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so that they know that what they're feeling what they're going through. Is it okay? You know, the steps they're taking? Are they okay? So, you know, make yourself available to people, it doesn't mean that you leave your work. And all that you're doing is listening to them, there has to be a balance, a time should be specified for everything. But we should acknowledge other people as well. You know, I've seen that my mother, so busy, so busy, so many things to do so many people to meet, but still, I've seen her listening to people, you know, the problems that they have to share. And we might think that I'm too busy, I do my lesson after prayer, this I have to give, I have to conduct

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the groups I have to do so much work, I have so much homework to do. You have to take time out for people, there is a time that you need to fix for Allah soprano. To worship Him, there is a time that you need to fix for yourself. There is a time that you need to fix for your family. And there's a time that you need to fix for other people as well. There are so many people who live alone, and especially elderly people, you will find women who are living alone men who are living alone, sometimes in houses by themselves. And what do they want someone to talk to just think about it if you're alone, no family, no children, no husband, no sister, No brother, you need to talk to

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somebody. There's a lady who lives across from my house. And she lives all by herself, all by herself. And she's working outside, she wakes up eight o'clock in the morning, she's working in her yard, cuts the grass herself, you know, takes care of the flowers, everything she looks after herself. And she loves to talk to people,

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children who are passing by, you know, people who are walking to school or the grocery store or whatever, she loves to talk to people. So you cannot pass by her. Except having a conversation with as difficult as it is. But you have to give such attention to people in order to invite them to hire. So this is necessary. And especially, you know, women who have lost their husbands whose husbands have passed away, they suffer from a lot of loneliness and sadness. So we should understand that.

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Because sometimes we think oh, my grandmother or this old woman does, she just wants to talk all the time. And I want peace of mind when I go home. I went quiet when I go home. And every time I go sit, she starts talking and talking and talking and complaining and complaining. If you give importance to them, perhaps they will complain less. Sometimes they complain Why? Why do children complain? to draw your attention, they want your attention, they want somebody to acknowledge them. Right? So if you start acknowledging them, perhaps they will complain less,

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give importance to them, they will complain less. And everyone has their habit some women like to talk, just be a listening ear to them. Just tell yourself I'm going to go for 10 minutes set with this person just so that she can talk. Because imagine if you're silent all the time. How would it be? We think it's part of the core to be quiet all the time, but the Prophet sallallahu Sallam spoke as well. So anyway, from this hadith we see that in one Buhari he derived the evidence that it is allowed for a woman to sleep in the masjid. How? Because this woman had a tent in the masjid. She lived in the masjid. If she lived there, that means you also slept there. That means you also slept

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there. And she was a woman and it's understood that all women menstruate. We don't know of her age, a low Artem how old or young she was. All we know is that she was a slave woman. So from this, scholars have also derived that a menstruating woman may go into Masjid. She may go into Masjid, she's not like the Jenna. She may go into Masjid because a Masjid is a place where many things happen Salah as well as halaqaat. So if there is a Holocaust, there is a class and menstruating woman wishes to attend that there is no harm. Obviously we see that this woman stayed in her tent she would keep away from the place where the people would perform Salah. But she was still within

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the boundary of the masjid. Just like women are told to go to the place where utilized to be performed but she's to stay away from the rows from the masala but normally jellyfish. Neither the women are allowed to sleep

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The question is can men sleep in the masjid? Because the woman she's sleeping in her tent? And even if she's sleeping in, in not a tent, but in the women's area, it's permissible for her. But men, yes, it is also permissible for them. Now, why is this a question even? I mean, isn't it understood?

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Because the thing is that some scholars, they did not approve of this. Some Sahaba In fact, even are baffled with our English rule that Alito they disliked that people should sleep in the masjid. Why? Because the masajid What's the reason for their construction, why are they built for sleep for the worship of Allah what should be established over there Salah what should be done over the karate and when people start sleeping over there, then what will happen?

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People will be sleeping more than they will be reciting the Quran over there. People will be talking there more than they will be remembering Allah soprano down over there. So in order to discourage this, in order to discourage this dislike that people should be sleeping freely in the masjid unless there was a reason unless there was a genuine reason for a person to sleep over there. Okay, because imagine a person is in the middle of them sleeping over there. First of all, it's not a good thing a person is sleeping maybe saying something maybe lying down in an awkward position and it's not appropriate that a person is like this in front of so many people. And also if you go to a place

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where somebody's sleeping, then automatically you be sleepy as well. You see someone sleeping so let me let me just lie down and you'll also fall asleep. So we see that some of this habit they disliked it they did not approve of it that people should sleep freely in the machine. And this is why we see that much of the memory there is locked in the nighttime so that people don't sleep over there. Okay and many other massage same thing. During the night they are closed and people cannot say oh you're stopping people from the massages from the way of a luhnow because most of this for salah and dislike parks shut down and Library's shut down. offices shut down just like that mustard is also

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closed in the night because it is not a place to sleep in. That's not the main reason why it is constructed. We'll call it we'll call it Avatar and unasyn Connemara con and a solid oh I knew he said that it was a group of people. I mean Oakland of local tribe they came and an abuse all along Rio Salado and for cannabis have they stayed in the sofa? And when they stayed in the sofa that means that they also if they stayed in the sofa sofa was were in the masjid. So they stayed in the sofa. These were visitors Where did you sleep then? In the mustard, or Colorado romantic movie Bucklin can have so fatty alpha Cora, he said that the people of the sofa they work for Colorado

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sofa literally means a ledge. What does it mean allege, so allege that is giving shade. Now much of the novel, he did not have a roof. All of it did not have a roof. But a part of it had a ledge and under it was shade. So because of the shade that was constant. This is why there were some people who used to stay over there. They would sleep over there, they would stay over there. Why? Because it was shade over there. And they were known as harbor sulfur. And they were not just any people rather than with a Messiah came the full cola from among them, oh hygiene, who had left their homes, then he dropped to Medina. Why in order to be with the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in order to learn

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from him, so that they could go back to their tribes to their homes and teach the people over there. And amongst them was also available, who stayed who was off the affordable sofa. And he dedicated every single day, to what learning, learning from the profits of autism. And he was so busy in that learning, that a Valera will argue he said that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam commanded me to do three things and of those three things was to pray with it at night before going to sleep. And the scholars they interpreted this as that because

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I knew he was so busy in learning all the time that the prophets of Allah said golden pray you're with her before you sleep, because he could not pray regularly. Why? Because he would be engaged in learning continuously.

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So from this is also the evidence that learning busying oneself in learning is better than performing knuffle prayers.

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So anyway, the show shows the extent to which a vulnerable or new captains are busy with learning. And if someone was busy with learning so much, then where would they have the time to go and make money from somewhere. And we see that many of these companions they dedicated their entire lives to this their entire time to this. And after the death of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam they did other things and they made so much money. It's amazing. It's not that they had no potential there were losers. This is why

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They had no choice but to stay here. No, they chose this lifestyle in order to learn they did have the potential to make a lot of money, but they chose this instead. Okay, so the US House sofa, the people who remained in the shade of the ledge of the masjid, meaning that is where they used to stay. Okay because a sofa is basically the shaded part of the masjid.

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So, any visitors who came, they also stayed in the sofa.

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So, so far was part of the masjid. Likewise, we learn about the prisoners, they were kept in the masjid as well. So that means that they would also sleep there. So it means that it is allowed for men to sleep in the masjid. As long as there's a reason.

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I had this anamosa doesn't call and I hear and obey the law or the head doesn't interfere on California or the law and ocana that indeed he used to you know, he would sleep wahoo or Chad Boone while he was young,

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unmarried or as someone who does not have a spouse. So unmarried single men young, let Atlanta who, who did not have a family of his own meaning no wife, no children, famously the Navy's Allahu alayhi wa sallam. So even our muraleedharan who have to live in remote, where would he stay? Sometimes? Where would he sleep in the masjid? When was this when he was a young man, unmarried single did not have a family of his own.

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Now why is all of this mentioned? Because when a man is young, and is unmarried, there are more chances of him having extra lamb in his sleep. Okay, having a *. But imagine he used to sleep with you and the likelihood of having a filament sleep is really high. But still, he slept in the masjid shows that it is allowed for men to sleep in the masjid. Even if they have a lamb. Yes. So what's the solution? Then? If they have to get up and leave take a bath and then return? How does an affidavit to placerita Allah How does an arrogant disease have no he hasn't been? He hasn't unsettledness Arden colada or Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam beta fell to him after the

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Prophet sallallahu Sallam came to the house of Fatima, his daughter for them at the Legion Phil bait and he did not find early in the house of Allah. So he said, Abraham MC, where is the son of your uncle? Being Where's your cousin? Was he actually her cousin? are they who are and who was the cousin of Fatima? No. No. He was the cousin of the Prophet.

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He was the son of the Prophet soldados uncle.

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But the cousin of your father is like your cousin. Why? Because the uncle of your father is like your uncle.

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The uncle of your father is like your uncle. He's not your father. He's like your uncle. So his children will be like your cousins. This is why marriage to

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father's cousin is permissible. Okay, because they're like your cousins. Okay, no matter how down no matter how many generations so the children of your father's uncle, whether they are children or grandchildren or whoever they are, what like your cousins as well. Because if they were like your uncle's then marriage to them was not permissible. Okay, so the prophets have a lot of them said, Where's your cousin? He didn't say Where's your husband? You'll find out why.

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He said can obey any Aveda who shade on something happened between me and him followed up and easily became angry with me for Harada so he went follow me a killer Andy. And he did not do kalola with me,

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meaning he did not take his afternoon nap with me

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to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he was very farsighted. He understood the moment he entered that something must have happened. expression on his face probably. Okay, the fact that it's so unusual that I needed to go on who was not there for his afternoon nap, which the province allows him advised people to take. So How come he's not here? Where is he? Something must have happened. But notice he did not say Where is your husband? He said Where is your cousin? Why? Because when a woman is angry with her husband, she does not want to hear the word husband.

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So he mentions your cousin because there is relationship right? Blood tradition and other relation so that should soften her heart towards him for color so the lights that allow me to send them to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam sadly insan into a person who was their older painter who go look where's he go find him. fudger So he came for color era syllabus. I said O Messenger of Allah with MSgt he's in a mustard rocket and sleeping for Java pseudo by Sal Alaia sallam, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam came to him what will lead your own? Why are you the little man who was lying down on Sakaba? It had fallen Rita who his upper garment

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unsharp from his side reading because he was lying down his cloak had fallen from on top of him with a savute Robin and because of that there was mud on him.

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Why? Because the floor was all mud. He was lying down on it. And while he was sleeping, let's say, you know, it fell from his shoulder or something. There was mud on him. He must have turned or something there was mud on him. A lot of pseudo lies on the lawyers at lunch, the prophet said a lot of them he began em sir Who who are in Who? He began removing it, wiping it off from him what the mud emsa who was right he was he began dusting that mud off of him. When he called when he was saying, Come over to la comunidad de la. Wake up, get up, or father of dust, meaning God dusty one, get up or dusty one. So there are many things over here. First of all, we see that I did a little on

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who was sleeping in the masjid. So it shows that it is permissible for men to sleep in the masjid. And remember that it has to be for a reason that a person is sleeping in a muster. Meaning not that a person goes to the masjid deliberately to sleep. I mean, mustard is not built for sleeping. It's not a rest house. It's a place of worship. So the main thing that should be done is worship. But if a person has a harder as a need to sleep in a machine, like for example, even hormonal blood or an unmarried person, okay, unmarried men, young men, but dependent on his parents doesn't have a family of his own no house of his own wishes to sleep, let's say no place in the house. So he goes and

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sleeps in the masjid because there's shade over there. Is that okay? Is that okay? Yes, it is permissible because there is a need for him to go over there and sleep. Likewise, it happens unexpectedly, accidentally meaning a person does not intend to sleep he falls asleep.

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And that is perfectly fine. So for example, a person goes to the masjid in the month of Ramadan in the night to perform therapy. And they're staying over there until pmla reciting the Quran, they feel really tired, and they fall asleep. Is that wrong? It's not wrong at all.

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Other than this person should remember that mustard is not built for sleeping, it's made for everybody.

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Now, there are many other things we see here that a fight happened between I need a little or no and his wife Fatima. Earlier, we learned that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam had a disagreement with his wives. So this is something that is normal.

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Something that is normal, it doesn't mean that your relationship is going to end.

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Or that it's not a good sign. Because many women, they don't want any disputes to happen in a relationship. And if the husband is slightly upset, or there's a slight disagreement, they think this is the end of it. This is not the end of it, this is part of it. Secondly, we see that when a disagreement happened between the husband and wife, the father came, okay and he tried to resolve it.

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He tried to resolve it.

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That sentiment looked for a little bit lower and he went to him spoke to him so kindly.

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Yeah, about early libido. I know he used to love this cornea of his, he used to love this cornea of his and he would be very happy if somebody called him a Buddha. Why? Because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam gave him this cornea,

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he loved to be addressed by this. So look at the way in which the prophets are Allison was showing affection to earlier.

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But we see that if a father finds out that his son in law was upset with his daughter, who side will he take the daughter side. Likewise, if a mother finds out she will take her daughter side, if the husband's family finds out, they will take the son side. So what is important is that we should focus on resolving the dispute not taking sides. We should resolve the disputes, help them know, get together. And notice over here, the province that allows them does not ask what happened.

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Okay, because you don't have to know other people don't have to know what happened. For dispute has happened. You don't have to know every detail. Because disputes can happen over little things even because it's a normal thing that happens, your focus should be on resolving the dispute on helping them forgive each other on making them happy. Because once they're happy, they will get over it. Because when people are upset, they're angry, then they get into fights. Right? So once they're not angry anymore, they'll be happy. In Sharla things should go back to normal. And this is what happens one day, the husband's really upset. One day the wife is really upset. And the next day they're

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fine. They just need time to get over it. Correct. The husband and wife they will have arguments it's normal and they will get over it. But the problem many times it happens on other people. When they get involved and they become hasty and they pass judgments. He left you he didn't sleep here. He went out of the house.

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Where did he go? Must be another woman. Nothing like that. Nothing like that the focus should be on resolving the dispute. Also one more thing, that when the man is upset, he leaves the house, not that he kicks the wife out

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a little bit over and he was upset. He went out of the house and slept somewhere else. The province of Allison was upset. He's the one who left the house and stayed in the budget 2019.

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For a month, he swore an oath that he wasn't going to go to any of his wives for an entire month. So he stayed away for an entire month. He didn't send his wives home. Rather, he left because what is almost paralyzing why Jordan, that why do ruhuna film about her that leave them invites meaning don't sleep with them. Also, we see that

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a very important lesson for women that if a man is not sleeping at home, then this is not normal. There's something that is not right. Either something is upsetting him. something is bothering him, because it is not normal for a man to stay away from his wife. Because many women they're so naive, they don't understand. They don't think it's a not a good thing that the husband is not sleeping with them. Many women, they live in such relationships for years and years. And all they know is that the husband, you know, just likes to sleep on the other bed. And later on, they find out that something much more serious had been happening.

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this is not a good thing at all. This is not a healthy sign. This is not a normal thing for a man to be far from his wife. One more thing that a father can go to his daughter's house without the permission of her husband. Okay, because the prophets Allah sent him went to his daughter's house and asked, Where is it so the father can visit his daughter's house freely. Likewise, the mother can visit her daughter's house freely, obviously. I mean, they should be considerate of when they're going. Is it appropriate or not? At the time that they're going at? They have to keep all these factors in mind. inshallah we'll conclude over here and we'll study the next Hardee's in next class

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in case a panic alarm will be held ignition to a La Ilaha. illa Anta Mr. Little governor Toby Lake assalamu aleikum wa rahmatullah life

Lesson 84 – Chapter 53-58 Hadith 433-441

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