Shadee Elmasry – NBF 129 Prophetic Humility
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are we big round, we begin with a couple of things. couple of
announcements. First of all, some commentary on the some of the
YouTube videos that were out the clips, the first thing is that,
that one clip that was put out there, that
you got a rebellious teen, and he's over 18 years old, and he has
no respect for you, we'll take him out the house and go make him work
and earn his own living.
It's like, sometimes people just need a dose of reality.
Okay, and all these things are always negotiations. So sometimes
you have to pin it so far off, right to something so radical that
people realize and recognize, you know, what they actually have,
with their parents, offering them a home, cooking food for them, et
cetera, et cetera. So it's not always just like a one. And it's
not a not a very common is for everybody. But by the city, if
we're gonna live by the shitty up, after I do not owe you anything,
right, or not 18. But when a person is physically capable of
getting up when a boy, a boy has become a young men, you can wake
up, you can walk, you can go pump gas, right? So a little bit,
sometimes a dose of reality, and really realizing what you're
actually responsible for and what you're being given. Sometimes
that's the best thing for somebody. Right? So that's in
terms of a comment like that. And it's everything is, you know,
specific, there's a general comment, but it may not always
apply to everybody. And secondly, I think a lot of these kids,
probably the people who objected to that, that's the reason why the
kid is spoiled rotten. Because you're too soft. You don't realize
like, it's not saying how to hit him where it hurts. But it's
saying, like, how to give them a dose of reality, or you know,
what's going on here, right? How much we're doing for you, you have
to taste it, somehow, I can't just keep saying it, go taste it
yourself. Right, go and try to earn a sandwich. See, if anyone
would hire you to pump gas. You'll never even go on time show up on
time at work eight hours a day. So that's why sometimes I think that,
you know, if you're too soft, you're actually doing them a
disservice. And it's not meanness, it's not being mean. It's just
letting people see the reality as it is. If Allah was to lift from
us, 1.01% of His mercy, and you stubbed your toe and you and you
sprain it, right, or you heard it really badly, you're just gonna
sit there all day, you can't even do anything all day because of one
minor little thing. So sometimes, that little bit of that
compassion. If it's lifted
from your relationship with your kids, they'll get to see, you
know, and have some respect for what you're doing. That's the
first thing. Second thing about the some, some more q&a about the
mode.
When people ask the simple question of why didn't the Sahaba
do it, then? Well, the answer to it is that the mode is a solution
to a problem that didn't exist in the time of the Sahaba or the
second or the third generation,
which is complete forgetfulness, and Jaffa Jaffa, which is like
dryness towards the messenger peace be upon him. So the emotion
of love had to be manufactured through these celebrations. Right?
Oh, it's just singing songs and
doing things like that. Okay, well, what's the
what is the objection? Is there a legal objection to being happy?
There's not enough if I have someone graduated from high
school, and you saw him a song, there'll be no, there's no
objection. Right? So a lot of times these things come into
people's minds because the repeated these objections are
constantly repeated over and over and over.
And you just need a quick answer for it. And these are the answers
didn't, something didn't exist in the time and times past because
the problem that this thing is solving didn't exist. That's the
case with like all the fifth, like half of FIP when you read these
books, problems that didn't exist in the past, but the autumn I
needed to answer them.
So these are the common questions that come up, and those are the
quick answers to them.
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nobis Zuri of course was one of the first he was the first that
Ahmed of knob that Aziz asked to compile the Sunnah for him.
But he never happened in the time of zody. He never published the
book, first book of Hadith, but he was asked in Malik published later
on,
later pruney camera approach in Surah, Ebina Meriam in Nima and
I've been doing for Kulu Abdullah he was a pseudo who, and this is
the famous Hadith in which many people utilize this hadith as a
way to object to the celebration and the praise of the messenger
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the commentary is that what is
forbidden is the praise that was forbidden to the people of say,
Nisa, which is to establish him as beyond a messenger of allah
sallallahu alayhi wa salam. So that essentially is the
weight of this hadith. So do not praise me in such a manner that
does not fit, in other words, saying that he's anything beyond a
human Messenger of Allah subhanaw taala human being and a messenger,
Bashar rasool Allah. So anything less than that is permitted as
praise. Anything that's true about the Prophet, essentially, you
praise the prophet by saying what is true about him, peace be upon
him. Allahu alayhi wa sallam, for example, let's take Hassan bin
Servite has sent it beneatha But
he's the one who was a famous poet in Mecca. And the Quraysh hired
him to criticize the Prophet peace be upon him. So this is like
having like one of the best marketers out there, come up with
ads against the Prophet videos against the Prophet. That's
basically what in the old days the poet that's what he was. He was
essentially like a marketer today.
Here's a bunch of money and go and create some propaganda against the
messenger peace be upon him.
So immediately after the deal was made, and he agreed to this,
prophets, Allah already Salam then was passing by and he was passing
by the Prophet peace be upon him, okay. And when he did this, he saw
the Prophet peace be upon him immediately, he uttered his famous
lines of poetry, okay?
No one was born, like you.
There's no one better looking than you. And it's as if you were
created the way you wished. I wish I could. I don't want to butcher
the Arabic of it, but it's not something that I remember off the
top of my head.
If I if I had it off the top if I just had the first line of it, I
could remember the rest of it. But it ends with an alcoholic camera
to show right no woman has given birth to anybody like you just on
the look of the Prophet the appearance of the prophets of
Allah videos and I send the debit then entered Islam. So it's like
some read it to me, please. Well, I said what I said a week and I'm
telling them this. None of us and omenka
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collect the mobile run equally, Ivan can get hooked up camera to
shadow. That's the line right there. There's a four line poem.
Very simple. He just uttered it.
Just uttered it in our day. That's like someone making a quick cut of
a video with his phone. And then it just goes crazy. Right? Some of
the best videos, some of the most viral videos what is it just a
quick cut that someone just did with their phone? Like a quick
video just took it like that. So that's that's that famous poem
that you hear a lot. Especially in the gatherings of the prophets of
Allah when he was selling it came from Hassan But David's right off
the top of his head when he passed by he had just come out of the
meeting. to malign the Prophet he had agreed to take a sum of money
to malign the messenger of allah sallallahu when he was sending
edge metal Minca lamp terra cotta winy. Right?
This is more beautiful than you I've never seen before. And you
know, artists, they love beauty. Artists are motivated by beauty,
the beauty of sound, the beauty of words, the beauty of images. So
that's what he liked. Right? He loved to see the handsomeness of
the prophets of Allah what He was telling them
that someone may say, I guarantee you if you gave that poem to some
of these critics, they would say no, no, this is over the top cut
and nickel clip to come after shot when they may even say this is
shook. And he said it right in front of the messengers of Allah
when he was Saddam and He repeated it over and over and over and
over. Okay, so this was before he even took the shahada hasn't been
Tebbetts. He said this poem as a Catholic. It's upon Allah. And
then it was repeated over and over and over and over and it's like
one of the famous poems right now. Right
Next Hadith and in Ratan Jaya at ALA Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa
early he was a llama for Carlat, a woman came to the Messenger of
Peace be upon him.
And she said, in nearly elago Hajra I have a need for you. For
Karla it's Lucy V 30 up in Medina, t shi T. agilysys. Leakey, then
sit in one of the paths of Medina, in other words, where there are
people coming and going, and then I will sit and address your
affair. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam was not like the
kings that had gone you need to talk to talk to my secretary, you
need to talk to this, you need to talk to that, that Prophet, peace
be upon him never had any of that, where people talk like that, and
you have to make an appointment with me and go do this, that in
the other, you could come in and say and simply talk to the
messenger Peace be upon without any hostage.
And this is so important. So important to know this that that
is the humility of our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that
is not so distant that you just feel scared and you can't talk to
him. Okay?
One * in America are the Allahu Taala and who kala Khanna
Rasulullah sallallahu. Early with a limit. Yeah, we'll do a MALBA
used to visit the sick way as huddled Jana is and go and attend
burials. Okay, funerals were Kabul, Yakubu himer And he used to
ride a donkey where ug Buddha with an appt and if a slave invited him
for dinner, he would go eat with him. What can I eat? Oh, my bene
Yama Benue Kurata Allah Hema, on the day that there was that big
trial with the venue Kurata, the Jewish clan, he was riding a
donkey. We have lemon leaf, and the rope of it was just some
fibers off of a tree.
Okay, well I lay here he cared for me leaf got an E calf, let's see
how they translate the E calf.
The saddle was made out of palm trees, palm fibers to like palm
fiber is the cheapest, simplest thing that exists in the city of
Medina, the palm fibers. Now,
this is also a proof that the Prophet peace be upon him was not
of those who are deluded, insane,
or seeking fame and fortune. Because these three attributes are
not those of the diluted. So the diluted and those who are either
they're possessed with black magic, they can't do regular
social functions, you'll never see them in regular social functions.
And that's one of the wisdoms of being part of a family and a
community is that there are certain functions where the whole
community comes together that are regular, like every month, there's
gotta be something at least one or two things that the community
comes, someone's sick, someone's dying, someone's getting married,
okay, whatever it is someone just having a right random invitation.
When you go to these places, after one or two, three years of going
to these places, you know, the community, you know, the
personality types of everybody, right, you can't fool people
anymore. And that's why it's actually very dangerous, never to
be part of these things. And one of the reasons that we have it's
important to be part of communities is exactly this
reason. It's because it actually you can't be a fraud, you can't be
fake.
You won't have friends, you can't be too selfish. Eventually, you're
having a falling out. And it's also a very bad sign. When a
person like every time they gets part of a community or something
they have a falling out. It's a bad sign. Like why is it that you
can't coexist with anybody, there must be some element of some
selfishness there. Some bad quality inside of you. That
disallows you from ever being part of something, just part of a
regular. This is regular stuff.
A funeral, an invitation from a very poor person. What's this is
not something that any celebrity would ever do. Like celebrities
don't do this stuff. Celebrity wants fame and fortune. Big time
CEOs then would do this stuff, like these big shots. You're not
going to see them in a mystery.
And so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam broke all of
that. And that set us an example. Who are you in the first place? So
if you want to be humble, I want to be great but humble. Okay, keep
showing up. That's a simple thing keeps showing up. Not to get you
to show up requires 50 messages back and forth with your agent,
and then you pop in for five minutes graced us with your
presence, and then you bounce, not a good sign. It's really not a
good sign. When someone lives like that on the regular. Someone's
always living like that is a terrible sign. So the messenger
SallAllahu sedums, humility was just on display. He came in
public, in front of his enemies and an in front of his, his his
supporters on a mule with leaf that means this is not for me. I'm
not punishing you. For My kingdom for my benefit.
fit.
I'm not coming to bring justice and bring this religion for my own
feelings.
It's for my own family benefit. No, this is the affair of Allah
and Allah commanded me to be humble we're gonna have success
humble or
whether you think this is, you know, not sufficient or otherwise
and Pete because because many of the people thought when they saw
the Prophet they expect him to be on like a white horse.
Right, whatever you think, this they and they despise the
messenger for this. They despise the Prophet peace be upon him for
not being like elite and lofty
One and a cinematic also can nab you sallallahu alayhi wa early he
was salam, Yuda Allah hope the Shire will eat healthy
for you Jeep Welaka they can Allah who did on India who didn't from
wotja de Maria Khufu her Hattah met
the prophets of Allah when he was salam used to accept an
invitation.
On the entire dinner, listen to this.
The entire dinner was barley bread,
and stale fat. That was a few days old. Can you imagine that? Can you
imagine he accepted this invitation? I mean, someone
invited him. Now, when you go to someone, you don't know what, what
to expect.
But that's not the point. The point is that this this Sahabi
this companion, knew what he's going to serve and knew who the
Prophet was and knew the prophet would still accept it. That's the
Shahid here, because when you go to an appointment, and I want to
be polite, and I go to appointment, and they just serve
like some
Imagine you go to a dinner, someone invites you for a dinner
and they just give you a Dunkin Donuts. tray of munchkins and
doughnuts.
That's the invitation that's better than this. Stale barley
bread, bread and stale fat. Firstly, fat is a food Yeah, they
eat just they would just eat fat. Right? Because that's part the
butcher may throw out or something like that. When you get food you
chop up the fat throw that out. So the poor would just take that and
they will read and a man had a stale food like that couple of
days old.
Right? And then and he would eat this. So the point Shahid here is
that the Sahaba knew this is all I could afford, I know the profit is
going to be pleased because it's the intention that matters. And
for Allah subhanaw taala when we slaughter for Hajj or Kobani or
what have you, Allah subhana wa Tada says, It's not the meat that
reaches Allah. But it's Tuckwell. Kulu
lejana Allah Allah Allahu Maha. Knocking united with Taqwa Minco.
The Taqwa from you is what reaches ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. So,
likewise, the messenger PSP upon, it's not significant, what you
bring forth, it's significant, what your heart put forth. That's
the best that this can do. This poor
person could do. So prophets of Allah when you accepted it. At the
end of his life, he had pawned his armor to a Jew. In other words for
a loan, so he took a loan from a Jew, why would the Prophet take
loans from the Jews? Well, one of the reasons was that he knew that
the Sahaba would never accept the loan repayment, that if a Sahabi
had loaned the prophets of Allah what He was selling this money, he
knew the Prophet knew the sahabi would never accept it back, he
would never take the money back. But he knew the Jew would take the
money back. And the Jew would file a complaint for it to profit
wanted an equal playing field when it comes to,
to loans. Okay, so the Jew, he's going to be honest.
Or when it comes to his rights, he's going to be, he's not going
to have the shame, to call back to ask back for the money. Why?
Because he's already not have the shame to say that I don't believe
you. And as a prophet, like he has no shame. So he's also gonna have
no shame to ask for his money, the Prophet wanted that. I want you to
ask back for this money. Because if he had given it to us a hobby,
as the loaner was given to the problem from us a hobby, the
profit piece that's a hobby would never ask for it back. And he may
need it.
But he may be embarrassed. Yeah, he's not going to be embarrassed.
Right? And that's why the Prophet and many times he took loans from
the Jews trade he would do with the Muslims because they even
trade, but loans from the Jews. And when you take a loan, you got
to give something as collateral. So he took a shield, and he gave
out the money and whatever the need was for the money. Usually he
gave them he never took a loan for himself. It was usually as a
sadaqa that someone asked him so he would take a loan in his name,
another time as a hobby. He didn't have any food to eat. So he said
go
The Marketplace tell everyone buy what you need until everyone that
tab is upon me. That's something that Prophet did for one of the
hub, this hub, it didn't just benefit in their hearts and their
emotions and their faith. They benefit from him in their life
financially.
Right the prophets I said and made sure that they lived, okay. And so
the profit at the end of his at his death, he didn't even have
the money to pay it back. Like towards the end of his life.
That's how simple the prophets finances were, so that nobody
could say that the Prophet peace be upon him was how he enjoyed
this prophet hood prophecy and he's very wealthy, and that people
who aren't wealthy there's something wrong with them. The
Prophet was in macam is good, not poverty. Poverty is like, um,
like, almost reflects an inability to make money. The Prophet was in
something called MCOM azote. A choice. The prophet had said many
times, if, Alicia if I wished all these mountains to be gold, Allah
and silver, Allah would have done it for me. And another instance in
real life, the prophets I send them spoils of war. His spoils of
war was 1/5 of everything that was owned in five.
Imagine owning 1/5 of a city and all the wealth that's in that that
was his personal wealth. That was the spoils of war. What did he do
with it? This was this happened, so that everyone could see that he
did attain to be the richest man in Arabia.
And he would not keep that money. Not one did not have that money,
or didn't have that money, or mule or goat or sheep or horse. He gave
it all away to the Levitical Lubo, the people whose hearts are close
to accepting Islam.
The fact that he gave it away to them indicates that he possesses
it as his money, not state money.
Because the spoils of war goes 1/5 to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam, and forfeits
that 1/5 The prophet could do what he wants with it, and then the
rest of the soldiers. So the Prophet peace be upon him did
possess that money, could have done what he wanted with it. He
gave it away. To them, what a limited room
to show all the people of Mecca and thought if I'm richer than you
now, but look what I'm going to do with it. I don't care for it. I'm
giving it away. There was an entire valley
in thought if out on the outskirts of life, that the spoils of war
were being put there.
That was his, and it was filled with animals. It was a valley and
he saw one of his most bitter worst enemies.
Looking upon it with like, Oh, look at this amount of money,
insane amount of money, wealth, animals can multiply these
animals, right, but making them give birth. It'd be so rich the
prophesy centum came and walked right next to him. And he said, Do
you like what you see?
And this man he's just been conquered, right? He hates the
Prophet peace people. He didn't you look at the pro he didn't have
the Edit to look at the prophet.
He said and who would it
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said go, it's your it's
yours.
The man said, Okay, stop making fun. That's what we would. That's
the way we would say it as it will be. Stop making fun, like kill us.
You won the battle you won. They're gonna have to make fun of
us know, the profit slice. I'm sad. I don't make fun of you. I'm
saying the truth. It's yours. The man almost basically like a
shelter, hot. Shutdown, he ran.
He ran and then he went to his tribe.
And he said, Go and believe in the man that has no fear of poverty.
Go, go believe in this man. And he said at in one moment. The
messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam went from the most hated
men in my heart to the most beloved men in my heart. And he
has to know Islam as they they say in these books that he rectified
his Islam was good after that.
So you see the way to a person's heart is oftentimes their desires,
their wants, and Allah subhanaw taala says this,
the prophesy centum says it's the love Allah for the wonderful
blessings that he's given you.
Right So the Prophet peace be found them knew this is the way to
people's hearts and the prophet The goal is for him to believe
can't believe in you. Just with proofs than your true he's going
to believe in you because he feels goodness came from you Joby little
clue Allah has given us and in a prophet peace be upon him said
hearts were created to love the one who does good to it. So by him
doing good to this man, and this good was an unfathomable,
unimaginable amount of wealth that this man's mind like burst.
So much so he couldn't even believe it. And that but that's
the generosity of Allah and His Messenger SallAllahu he will send
them when you see the great idea and the way they live.
They pray in the night they serve in the day.
They do a it's almost like a perfect A plus down down the
report card. What's motivates them? Clearly Allah and His
Messenger have had the key to their hearts, and had made them
happy by giving them what they could not even fathom. And what
they have blown their minds of blessings and benefits. We were
not privy to see his personal in their life. Yet for them, us,
Allah and His Messenger have they own their hearts now, you bought
my heart, I lost with this namah your, the namah is a reflection of
the generosity. That's what you are. This generosity is what you
are focused on yours, rest of my life.
rest of my life service of the OMA for the love of the prophets of
Allah when he was sending love of the Prophet for the love of Allah
subhanaw taala and love of Allah by submitting to every detail of
his law, that's how I'm going to show my love and I'm going to be
grateful, and I'm gonna do a bad and I'm gonna remember everybody
in my dua
some of these odia of Yemen and every country, their dua for the
OMA of Mohamed Salah when he was like multiple times a day,
multiple times a day, they're making dua for the entire ummah.
They make dua for the sick, they take time out for that.
It's because their heart was purchased with blessings. That's
the nature of human beings. So if you want to get near to Allah
subhanaw taala ask him, ask him of what you love. Ask him of what you
seek, and in this ascended Obadiah, the secret of Obadiah you
have I don't have there's only one way I can get it. I need you
to have to fumble upon me. I need it. I can't survive, I can't do
anything. I can't get what I'm looking for, without your funnel,
without your bounty.
This is sort of odd isn't a secret of obedience, isn't this, it's and
somebody who seeks a thing from ALLAH SubhanA, which Allah should
also keep in the back of his mind. I want to be a grateful servant.
If you want to be a grateful servant start from now, you
already have enough to be grateful for the fact that even making dua
should be enough for you to be grateful.
mullum Yes, good. Colleen, let me ask school to the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, I think we said this yesterday.
If you don't think, you know, if you cannot be thankful for the
little bit, you can't be thankful for a lot. That's true, right? If
you can't run a mile, you definitely can't run a marathon
common sense. If you can't run a mile you can't run a marathon. If
you can't run two miles, you can't run 10 If you can't run 10 You
can't run 20 Common senses so we have to start being thankful for
little things that we shouldn't belittle them being thankful for
little things as they're like little practice sessions for the
big thing because if that if you're not thankful for that big
thing you lose it.
Next Hadith
Hijjah Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
Prophet peace be upon him make made Hajj Allah rollin Ruffin,
while Lee khalifa to learn to say we are battered or him for call
Allahumma JAL who had Jan laryea a fee wala sama.
He says here the Prophet peace be upon him made hedge covered with
an ordinary sheet.
The value of which would not even be for silver coins.
Right?
That's it and the Prophet peace be upon him said make this a hedge.
Okay, in which there is no dia or Soma RIA is about being seen. Soma
is about being heard. Reputation like that you don't care that
people see you. Nor do you care that people hear about you, that
you have a great reputation. So Maria from from Romania, from
vision, and some are from summer, the word summer at RIA was summer
should not care about either one, reputation nor sama.
And this was recited to educate the OMA because it's impossible
for the prophets of Allah what He was missing was to hear that the
Prophet peace be upon him, could not have read or summer, but he's
saying this to teach the people he's saying yet because while it
is impossible for him to fall into those vices, it's also he still
gets rewarded for seeking to be humble and asking Allah to Allah
to grant him this humility. All humility is from Allah subhanaw
taala if gloss is something that Allah puts in your heart, that I
don't want my reward from anyone but Allah could don't care what
anyone thinks or says. And it's not I don't care what anyone
thinks in a rude way. Because Because maybe he will say that
when they're they need to be rude. Like they want to be jerks, but
they want to cover their jerkiness with analysts. I don't care what
anyone says. That's, that's not the right place for it. It's like
I don't care.
Got your sensitivity, caring about people sensitivity, there's value
in that caring about your fame. There's no value in that. That's
the difference between when a rude person says it, what he really
means is I don't care if you're sensitive or not. I don't care if
I hurt you or not. That's when the rude person says I don't care what
people think. But in not caring what people think in this context
of so Wolf and o'clock means I'm not seeking my reward from anyone
but Allah subhanaw taala
and hence the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said this about
Hajj. Why is it saying about Hajj because Hajj by its nature is a
public a bed. Unlike for example, maybe Salah may be a completely
nonpublic a bad it's a completely private act of worship. Right so
as Musa Haroon on Facebook is saying Hajj, not to be seen or
heard, right or not to have a reputation or be seen. That's like
you need a class the most. Because it's a purely public act of
worship. Every single aspect of Hajj is with other people, right
with the whole community watching.
So this is where the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he put
on a a white garment, which is the Iran which had no
value to it that was beyond what anyone else could afford regular
government.
And there is hedge now that
of course at levels there's high debt levels and there's nothing
haram for regular people to have luxurious Hajj, because most
regular people are not teachers. They're not the teachers of
people. But insofar as you are an example to others, then you also
need to look at the amount of luxury that you engage in, based
upon your position in the community and the society.
And civil nomadic narrated
lumea construction or hubba la Hema Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wa early he was salam. Ala were Colonel either oho lamea como Lima
Yeah, Allah Munna man karate Healy Derek.
Now, even though the Prophet peace be upon him had taught edip to the
Sahaba
and he taught them when sad came in, he was the head of the clan,
the tribe,
Olson, huzzah, Raj, their chiefs were both named sad, happiness.
And one of them can make recall which tribe it was, he came in.
And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam said, he saw that he's a
man of honor. They need to respect him cool, moody say unikl. He
said, Get up for your,
your chief.
But for himself, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did
not want to do this. And hence, it had become a practice that the
Prophet would walk in, nobody would get up because the Prophet
did not want to cut it off. If there was that, to cut it off,
which is burden of respect, like I want to, people want to respect
the profit, but the Prophet realize this. If he becomes a
sunnah, then everybody would be getting up at all times for
everybody. Right? So it is something that it is in the
shutter that if you have to respect somebody, you stand up for
them. For example, you're sitting down and your grandma walks in,
you're not gonna get up, have to get up, right? You're sitting
at the living room table, you got your feet up on a Sunday night
watching football.
Your father walks in a similar thing to take a seat. No, you're
gonna get up right. So edit basically says that when we all do
this, you're gonna get up and sit on them.
Every household that we have, like, most cultures in my ask me,
most cultures soon as like an elder comes in, knocks on the door
comes in as someone lets him in, you get up and you sit on them.
You don't slam them from your chair.
The messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam wanted to make the point
that he himself wanted them no to Kullu from the people
next Hadith states
that
it'd be hella who is the uncle of Al Hassan and Hussein? How was he
the uncle because don't forget that say the Fatima she had a
couple of half brothers.
All right, half brothers brothers. That were the sons of say the
Khadija it'd be hurler was one of the sons of Khadija so that makes
him what Fatima is brother. Say the Fatima had a brother that
makes him the uncle of Hassan and Hussein. So he hasn't ignite he
said so to Cali Hindi Abner Abby hella
and he was a was tough. He was a describer he's know how to
describe people very wind up knew the right adjective for
everything.
Got unhidden yet you Rasulillah
Allahu alayhi wa sallam the feasts. What was the description
of the Prophet peace be upon? When esta he, right? And YLC if I leave
him in her che and I wanted him to, there's no pictures in the day
I remember him he remembers his grandfather And subhanAllah
he remembers his grandfather and he he doesn't have pictures you
want someone to
regenerate the image in his mind. Okay.
All right. So what is he said? He says, Can a sallallahu alayhi wa
early he was a llama fuck man. Morpha Can you tell us a little
wedge who tell?
Comrie lay a little better for the Quran, Hadith Vitaly then he
mentioned the entire Hadith so he's not going to go over the
entire head Hillier. But he was saying basically the prophets face
was slightly more on the round than thin like a sword. And he
would who was bright. His face was bright. But then he goes to the
end of the Hadith. Carla has an attempt to her
Al Hussein as a man and
Thumma had death too. I kept it from Hussein for a while. I like I
just heard it. Took it for myself. fo a jet to conserva Connie LA.
But I found that Hussein had already gone to my uncle Fussa
Allahu Annemasse LT one and he had asked him for a description.
And in the old days, that's how you did things like you couldn't
pull up a picture. Let me look up a picture. That's how we do it
today. Back in the old days, what did you do? You went to you had to
physically walk to the person who knew the right way to describe
somebody and you had to ask him and then remember what he said.
So He then found that Hussein had already asked him
what were just two who could sell Abba who unmad Clearly he Wa
Makara G shackley He philam Jada Minh who shaped how even how the
Prophet enters how he exits how he looks at Hussein said farewell to
Abby and Julio Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that
the Prophet peace that he essayed nally about how does the prophet
like walk in walk out like what is the daily routine of the Prophet?
What is he like? Kinda either our elements really he just
just said the hula hoop.
When the Prophet peace be upon him, he would divide up his time
in three ways. Does that Jews Angela, Jews and the early
joseline FC, one for Allah, one first family one for himself. So
Majah Jews who may know abandon us then he would split his time
between himself and the public.
Pharaoh do bellicosity other em while I A W two and homeshare what
can I mean? Siracha Heafy Jews ill Almighty ether who will finally be
in while we're customer who Allah Kadri fogli him 15 For men whom
will herder women who had a woman who was ill how're age fair,
Tushar, obey him? Where's where's rowhome femur you'll slip home and
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and who will bury him below the and Bella home. So, the Prophet
peace be upon him used to take up a lot of time okay to for the
people. So, he describes now that a third for himself that 1/3 for
himself, he would divide it up, alright, and how he would divide
it up he would say just a portion for himself distributed is
fortunate to to one from in such a manner that near ones among the
Sahaba came to visit him those who are close they come to visit him
through these Sahaba he conveyed messages to other people. Okay,
tell himself stuff. Oh, so and so he has an issue. Okay, tell him
such and such this actually still the way that she would work?
MANISH you, they have like an assistant or two assistants. And
okay, there's a question from so and so he says such and such then
the chef would just record the voice message and send it back.
Right that's how it is done today.
But he did not conceal anything from them all right. From the
portion of the OMA he adopted this myth that he gave preference to
Ellen fuddle he gave preference to the people who had fuddle that
means that knowledge and action and he distributed this time
according to their to their their efforts in the deen from among
those who came some have had one one need some had two needs some
had many needs. The prophets I sent him would fulfill all the
requirements and this is the Sunnah and I went to Jeddah and
saw this this it's like a semi public part of the house that is
owned by Habib Abdulkadir Ahsoka, may Allah Azza Rama be upon him he
passed away. And have you saved Muhammad Ali and Maliki he had the
same thing. And that is that the edge of the house was semi Public
means it's his personal property. But there are times when you know
that the door is open and there'll be a doorman who would let you in
but people know that they could go there
At any time, and they were going to ask needs, the rich would go
and drop bags of cash before the digital age, this drop drop cash,
he would have one time they said that a rich man came.
And he had a literally a bag full of envelopes. Just like almost
like what you see in the movies with drugs and stuff. But this was
legitimate money, not a crime. So he came with this bag of cash and
he put it there and said, Have you above the crowd didn't even look
at it. Like he wasn't even Wow, look at all this money. Hey,
everyone, look at this cash. No, he didn't even look at it. By the
end of the Mejlis, the bag was empty.
People would come in oh, I need to do this particular wad of cash, I
needed to take a wad of cash. And that's basically in emulation.
They were the inheritors of the Prophet. In the sitting down, they
would sit and the people would come to them with their problems
and their needs. Some would simply just need advice, some would need
to out for a matter, some would need money. And he would and by
the end of it, the entire bag was empty the the people that were
smart Allah, they were amazed. He didn't even look at the money he
would just reach and give it even count, not even counting a wad of
cash. So you're not going to love a shake like that. afterwards.
He then said, he replied to them in a manner that befitting them
that benefited them. So, he used to say those present should inform
those who are not present regard like beneficial unnecessary
manners. He also used to say the people for whom who for some
reason, distance or shy or that shyness or all cannot put forth
the requests, bring send it with somebody else. Some people are
shy, some people are embarrassed
because that person who informs the king of the needs of another
who was unable to put forth that need will keep that person
steadfast on the day of PM. Only important and beneficial matters
were discussed in these gatherings. He happily listen to
these matters from the Sahaba Radi Allahu Taala and home. Besides
this, there was no waste. No waste of time, no non beneficial
chitchat in these gatherings and these assemblies and the Sahaba
Douala they came to these assemblies for their religious
needs, they did not depart before tasting something meaning of
knowledge of Deen of benefit, okay. And also, it could mean that
they the Prophet fed them to that they took something away
physically, that he gave them something physically because they
are they're doing a surface they're going back and forth.
Someone who has a need soldier has a need so and so has a problem.
This that in the other so he would always give them something good.
He said he then said I asked my father said naughty let's go back
to the Arabic.
can find that spotlight in just those three things you can find
that spot i What about how the Prophet would would come out of
the house.
He said the prophets of Allah when he was Saddam was very controlled
in what he said outside the house, and did not waste time in useless
conversations. And he made those who come to visit him feel at
home, and did not make them feel scared or ill at ease. And when he
advised them he did not scold them in any way that would make them
scared or tell them that such things would keep them away from
the Dean wouldn't tell them anything that would make them
not be pleased and motivated for the dean.
He respected and honored the respected ones of every nation. He
chose. He also chose a leader for them, and he warned people of
Allah's punishments. He emphasized that they should be cautious, he
also protected himself from troubling and harming people.
Besides being cautious and commanding others to be cautious,
he never lacked in courtesy towards others. He was concerned
for the affairs of his friends, he made himself aware about the
relationships between them, and he rectified between people he knew.
He was aware that some people have issues with others and he tried to
rectify between them. He praised good deeds and he encouraged them
and he explained the harmful effects of bad things. Next to
every sin is pain.
So that they would stop these behaviors. He followed the middle
path in all matters. He did not neglect guiding people it is
possible that they became unmindful of their religious
duties, or they exceeded in a matter of dunya resulting in them
being disheartened. Because if you go too much in the dunya, you're
eventually going to be disappointed. For everything.
There was a special arrangement he did not fall back in the truth,
nor did he exceed the limits in this. Those who attended his
gatherings were the best of people. The best person in the
eyes of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the one who
wished well for everybody. The one with the highest highest status in
the eyes of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa salam was the
person who considered
comforted and helped the creation the most. So he loved the people
who were helpless. Why I said in the gathering that we had two
Fridays ago big
Having 500 People in the masjid
such an important thing today is helping the youth. And I'm happy
to announce that for mbyc If your high schooler every Friday night
as at NBFCs, youth night, every Friday night, you pop in between
565 36 o'clock, six o'clock, let's say, all every Friday night, if
your youth in the Central Jersey area come out. This is for the
boys. For the girls, we're going to try to get it going for
Saturday nights. So this right now is for the boys gathering. And
there'll be for usually probably college guys maybe graduated from
college, not too much older, make sure that there's no chaos, but
bring 10 bucks with you so that you can eat to you're going to buy
food you walk to * boys, which is right across the street,
whatever you guys do, whatever the guys decide to do. And there'll be
some, whatever it is, sometimes it's going to be basketball,
right? What else do they usually do? volleyball, basketball,
wrestling, and then there's going to be sulla, there's going to be
little Holika. And then there's going to be eating after that. And
though, go until 10 and arrange yourself a pickup or if you need
to pick up your contact us we'll get we'll pick you up to every
week. We can't leave off a week. We have to lay it on thick now.
And this is where the prophets I send the most beloved to the
prophets of Allah when he was some some people will get a reward they
cannot fathom where how, why am I getting this reward from Allah
subhana which audits because you helped people. And this day and
age to me my view the youth, because there's never been a
generation born with the fitna that they're born with. So I can
probably go back Yes, I was born in the fitna that in my generation
was born with Yeah, we were born with TV. TV, in my opinion, you
can just unplug it and your fitna free. But these kids are born with
devices connected to their hips. They're literally born with it,
it's all over the house. I don't know how they have any attention
span to do anything. And the amount of fifth, the ease by which
the sins and the cassette comes to them is something that's
unprecedented. There's no precedent for this. So it's very
much we have to not limit judgment on what's halal and haram. We know
what's halal and haram, but limit judgment on the
lack of discipline that some of these youth may have, do you know
what it feels like to be 12 years old? And your parent gave you one
of these devices? How are you going to control yourself?
Spatola How are you going to control yourself? Don't assume
don't make an unreasonable I expect expect
that any normal kid will fall into the temptations of these things.
What if you're on a household, protect them from these
temptations? Oh, I don't want them to be shielded. I could care less
whether they know they know about discord or not.
If I want to shield their hearts so they can taste the sweetness of
Amen.
That's what I care about. And that's what you should care about.
shield their hearts, from these sins, from having music in their
ears at all times. So they could taste the sweetness of Quran and
Imen. And at least have a reference point when they're out
in the world and they're completely out of your roof. They
fall into whatever they fall into. They don't fall into it, they have
discipline they don't whatever happens happens, at least because
of you. They have a reference point of what fitrah feels like
what Quran feels like, when you when when you have a sweetheart
than when you have a pure heart and the sweetness of the word of
Allah falls into your heart. Right? That fits into that. That
what does it mean for the reference point of being well
rested? None of these kids are well rested, they'll come to my
Holika. And they were like, bags under their eyes. Right? What's
going on with you? It's five o'clock. Why you sleepy? It
probably didn't sleep until three in the morning. That's why every
night, every night under the sheets, clicking away scrolling
through, we know what's going on. Right? And am I blaming them? No,
it's very blameworthy what they're upon. If I was 12 years old, and
someone gave me that device, who knows what the heck I would do,
right 13 foot now in your hormones kick in 15 Six and forget about
it. It's gone wild.
Good.
So we want to pull them out and lay it on thick as possible. So
it's going to be right do you eventually want to make it from
five to 10
Let's make it from five to 10 Right let's make it from five
hours. Just be with the youth the entire to be it'd be in the masjid
and then they'll do other things. Eventually they'll arrange
whatever go out to a ballgame go out to whatever whatever they want
arrange.
So the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam loved
those who help others, and helping others is not just teaching them
FIP not just teaching them Quran. It's not just giving them food and
stuff, but sometimes it's just having an event like this and
having it every single week.
And the Prophet began and ended all of his assemblies with the
remembrance of Allah, such as the recitation of Quran
or otherwise.
And the Prophet gave etiquettes to the gathering that when you come
to the gathering, you don't step over other people's shoulders to
get to the front of the gathering, you sit where the edge of the
gathering set, and
every gathering should have a symbolic head, of course, the
Prophet was the real head of the gathering. But in our situation,
wherever, if you're gonna gathering at someone's house, the
owner of the house is the symbolic head of that gathering.
He's the one who dictates like the topic, the discussion, etc.
And whenever people made a comment, or they tried to say
something that would make the Prophet laugh, he always he always
smiled with them.
Every person would think that the Prophet honored them the most.
When a person came in, they were respected room was made for them,
these are from the etiquettes of dimensionless. When someone came
in room was made for them.
They people would feel good when, when the head of the gathering
recognizes me.
The person that came to sit next to the messengers of Allah, when
he sent out a private purpose would remain seated, the prophet
would sit with him until that person was finished.
If he asked for something, he never said no, from the adab of
the Prophet peace be upon him and from his McCombe, you can never
ask him for something and never say no. And if he did not possess
it, then he would give a soft and humble answer. And sometimes he
would take a loan,
to try to get it for the person.
He was like a father to every one of us. Say nobody says, All of
creation was equal before him. Everyone was equal, nobody was
better than anyone else. There was no feeling of an in group or an
out group. They never There was never a feeling of every bucket no
matter the The in group and where the out group No, there was no
feeling like that. Say, naughty who's anyone closer to the
messenger than say, 99? He never felt made anyone feel on the
inside group and you're the outside group. This never
happened. would say nobody, nobody thought it.
Voices were never raised in his gathering. Nor was anyone ever
disgraced in the gathering, or degraded. If someone committed a
fault, no one spoke about it. In the gathering.
No one was people were not treated based upon the Arabs the way they
treat lineage. Today, I don't think anyone cares about lineage,
you care about income, right? And in every generation, you care
about income, but lineage is something that pretty much I would
say, most people don't care about. Unless it's maybe the Hindus care
about it about castes. And also sometimes they have that too.
Right? Not
like castes, but they we do have some in some countries, they talk
about lineages. And it's it's a thing of honor. And it could be
that is acceptable. If you're if it's honor to somebody of honor,
than it is in virtue of a nice quality to have that you're
related to that person of honor. But in most cases, people just
care about your income, your your your status, etc.
But the Prophet peace be upon him never treated one better than the
other.
It was only based upon your efforts in the deen and your
ability to help other people. That's how he brought you forward.
If you're someone who helped a lot of people, that was something that
would bring you forward in the in the gathering of the prophets of
Allah, these
young ones, little little kids in the gathering were showing
affection. The needy were given preference in food and money.
Strangers and travelers were always asked Do you have a place
to stay?
Hosting, and it's really an honor for us.
To have the ability we have the ability now to host and people who
want to come they have to contact us. And we take care of you for
Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and then Sunday night, Sunday in the
daytime. They can you can head off.
Arrival is Thursday departure is Sunday, or anywhere in between.
This was the blessed gathering of the messenger of allah sallallahu
alayhi wa salam
we'll stop here to a low finish this chapter next week, and we'll
open up for q&a.
All right.
All right, right, what you got?
Is hisbah Based on the Sunnah, countries such as Malaysia have
to police the people. Is it true Saudi Arabia has done away with
this practice? I don't know if what Saudi Arabia has done but the
idea of
policing we could say of the marketplace is that nothing bad is
happening in the marketplaces or something like
morals. There's nothing there isn't anything forbidden.
About
that's just part of the law for us. Just like there's traffic
cops, you can't drive past a red light, certain moral things.
You're not allowed to do that. We don't have a problem with that.
But I mean, what the what the penalties are, could is could be
for discussion because there's no set penalties for these things.
How does one interacts? So hey, with girls in university classes?
No, it's there is no permissibility to go and chit chat
with a girl and look at her for out without a reason.
But if there is a reason that looking without lust is permitted,
and speaking to them is permitted if there's a reason, but no,
there's like, if there's
now if you do end up with a working relationship with
somebody, that you always work with somebody it is understandable
that there may be some pleasantries exchanged but it
should not pass that resemble you can't let's say you're a principal
of a school and you hired a teacher. It's understandable that
if you have a meeting, that there are going to be pleasantries
exchanged,
where Solomonic magic was set up.
Hope you all had a good week, stuff like that. And I think that
that's understandable.
Right, keep going.
Okay, so Subhan Allah, they have a family member who is about to be
taken off the ventilator and will likely die. So
what's the etiquette of actions and recitation setting?
If somebody is about to be taken off the ventilator, then the the
action is that they should be reciting the Quran for them. Some
have said the Hadith Accra Yacine Allah Mota, Comins, recite yesI
and upon the ones dying, and some said it means the one who was
already dead. And, and it's
any recitation of Quran, da, et cetera. All of that is good, but
you should not tell them c'est la ilaha illAllah. Because they might
not be able to say it physically.
They might not be able to say it physically. There's a famous story
of Ahmed have been humble, where his son said Father, c'est la
ilaha, illa Allah. And he didn't say anything, as a father, say
Allah, Allah and Allah and he kept saying that to him. And then
eventually email, Ahmed said no.
And the son was distraught, could not believe after all that life,
my father is going to die upon refusing to c'est la ilaha
illAllah. And he kept saying, no, no. And then sometime later, he's
on his deathbed, passing out waking up, then he woke up. And
they said, Father,
I told you say let in and Allah kept saying, No, he said, No, I
wasn't talking to you. That was bliss. Bliss came and said, You're
safe. Tell us you know, there's no thief upon you anymore. Nothing is
there's no religion or religious obligations on you anymore. Right.
IBLEES came to him in a form right and said that to him. And so I was
saying no to that. Right. How amazing is that?
Facebook is saying what how? Yep, right there. Toe CIF Zafar. Why is
still that despite the Prophetic teachings about equality, most
Arab nations within the GCC still treat non Arabs with contempt, low
stature and outcasts. And that's the least of their worries,
because they're now taking part in Hindu ship rituals,
which I had a picture was sent to me by
a brother where
let me see if I have it to show everyone here. Just to show you
how
far down the Arabs have gone. I don't know if you can all see
this. But here you have.
Here you have one of the princes of the Arabs.
Okay.
Taking part in a Hindu ritual with with Hindu priests were in their
orange thobes. You ever see this hadith that nobody should wear
yellow? That doesn't apply to us anymore? What apply what the
reason the Prophet said that is number one, that certain yellow
garment was only worn by two classes of people, women are pagan
priests. And here you have these pagan priests were in like they
were orange, these specific pagan priests, they were orange. So if
someone was to wear that, or were, let's say, whatever the Buddhist
monks were, and it would look exactly like that. That's where
the prohibition would fall. Anyway, that's a side note. But
the point is that they're taking part in that. I expect you should
expect every jehadi it to come out of them. In general, there are
some good people in specific but in general, that's the trend over
there.
Applied to or less is sort of toe
Have a
should do *. Go from one if yes, the the the Arab where the
central Arabs central part of the desert Bedouin. They're extremely
stubborn in their culture. And when they enter in Islam, it's all
hypocrisy.
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children, the theatre of Hamza Yusuf is one of the best.
It's one of the best the theatre of Hamza Yusuf that, that he just
that
when he tells the stories, I think the language is simple. He tells
you who's who.
I think it's great.
At MBI, C dot O, R, G backslash links. Okay, let me repeat that
NBI C, dot O, R, G, backslash links, go there, and go to where
it says converts.
And you'll see the playlist there, the Youtube playlist there.
And there's a channel that mimics cocoa melon, which I despise. I
despise cocoa melon, cocoa melon is a very clever business, very
clever, that uses bright colors. Every kid who watches Coco melon
once is addicted. And they sing the songs and the the words of the
song are so like
I'm telling you, yeah, the it's not stop. The video is just a
continuous and very bright colors. Very happy kids. It's all of
course, you know, graphics. But it's not like real people. But the
singers are professional singers. You can tell that they sing well,
but
the words they say are terrible, right? It's like I wear my shirt.
And then it keeps talking about him wearing a shirt. I guess it's
like suitable for two three year olds. But through an adult it
gives you a headache. But what I don't like about it is the kids
are all addicted. Right? Wallahi they're addicted to Coco malate
because the colors are so bright. The scenes are so wonderful,
right? And I'm not saying this is haram just saying that it's not a
nice thing that kids are addicted to TV. Well the Muslims have made
a Muslim version of that, where it's very bright colors and it's
all just like, teaches you about La Ilaha illa Allah Subhan Allah
100 La right, so that's at least better if you're gonna have
something on then then those channels are good so you look them
up. All right.
What's that?
Baby shark submarine Baby shark there's no grandpa shark. There's
Daddy shark. And there's everything about this Baby shark
that's what I'm saying looks like stuff that makes no sense. But the
kids love it right? And the thing is that I hate the fact that this
channel whoever made up the channel
man they I think they make some ridiculous like a million dollars
a month producing these videos. Well good for them. I'm not
jealous about that. But
I don't like kids getting addicted at all like my kids just become
like, zoned out in front of the TV. So we limit it as much as
possible but there is a Muslim version of it. Where also the
colors are very nice and their characters but they say something
teach you how to say La Ilaha illa Allah teacher say hamdulillah
things like that. Qasim says Do you know of the DUA Allahumma
Rodini be Kedah.
Yes DA is
what are the Nibi hola Hum
I saved it here. Hold on. Just Oh no. Sagunto
Hold on.
It's one of my
yeah it's that
yes there is that and there was another one which I can't find at
this moment
Subhanallah maybe this is a sign I should start saying it again
because I was saying it a lot during COVID
Okay but there is one
there
there is one that is
specific from the prophets of Allah what he's done if you recite
it continuously by the way we have a suicide video for this
okay
can you look it up right there's a suicide a video on contentment if
you repeat this dua over and over you can send me will answer your
heart
Alright let's keep going with the q&a while Ryan looks that looks
that up
someone says here can I
eat a lot? Can I overeat with the intention of getting strong now I
don't think that you want to overeat but you could eat slightly
a little bit more for the sake of
getting stronger I guess
yes hola Maka nanny be mad as up then you are basically fee
continue
because my workflow funny. Who loves a button? Lee? Because,
okay, which two blog posts?
Okay, could you post that please so that everyone could see it?
What does it mean that the Prophet would not waste time in
conversation? Does that mean he didn't do small talk? No, he
didn't waste time with nonsensical conversation.
Okay.
Lily Rose says there was a French scientist, a pediatrician
who could see it in two to three year olds whose parents gave them
phones for distraction, already showing addiction and ADHD
tendencies. Not only that their eyesight is very bad at an early
age. And I don't know how they ever read. But you know that I
don't even know if it's valuable to give out books to youth
anymore. Like for our classes. I know that book is not going to get
opens.
Some people still read, then we have to ask why our books haven't
come in yet.
How did he react to someone who said something negative towards
him of Allah when he was on? Leave that the Prophet peace be upon
him? Would be upset that they said that and and then ignore it?
How does one interact with girls? We answered this.
Bina says I grew up as a Muslim, but a very unpracticed household.
I didn't know that it is fun to pray and fast. Do I still have to
make up all those prayers? It's been about 12 years. Yes, you
still have to Oh, those prayers and fasts?
Is there a timeframe for when consummation of a marriage should
happen? This goes back to the MOA discussion we did. And
we said that in engagement, as is our fee thing, it's just customs
is what people find beneficial.
to three months, nine to 10 months, that's what I've seen out
there. And that's when the time between engagement and marriage.
And let's say you do the kids up, let's say you agree upon the
wedding, okay?
Or sorry, let's say you have the contract the kids up, which we
call and you're married.
But you still have to do some things before you actually have a
the conservation.
All right. Now first of all, conservation is a lot less of a
barrier than what people think conservation is that your you and
her are in a place where intimacy could take place.
Like you're alone with her in your room. That's Godspeed. It's
consummated. There shouldn't be a long time. Can you retweet that
right? Yeah. Oh, you're not in okay.
You're
it shouldn't be a long time between the Kitab and
consummation. Because you have like your it's like you put a
positive and negative magnet and says stay away from each other. It
shouldn't be too long of a time.
But there is a condition is hard has
to take place first
is her meaning. We widespread news that this marriage has happened.
You cannot have consummation without a shot. In other words, we
go into a little mosque. We're getting married. There's one or
two people that maybe it's some of the other methods to witnesses
enough. But we in the medical method record is hot. Should be
like said out loud to people to large group of people were
married.
That's how it works.
Moab says after salata, Janessa on the way to the graveyard, what
should we be doing are reciting. You can recite Quran, you can make
dua for them.
How do we balance between excessive spending and too little
spending? That's again, out of a judgment call by looking at what
what the righteous people do? How much did the righteous people
spend on cars, on clothes on whatever.
That's how you judge these things. That's how you judge these
relative things, the righteous people of my time and place, what
are they spending upon?
Him as I was saying, says, how do these adapt translate to the
modern day, especially on social media?
Social media, the analogy for social media would not necessarily
be the analogy of the physical gatherings, but rather the analogy
of letters of the prophets. I seldom used to receive letters and
answer them, right. But if someone knocks on your door, or sends you
a letter, you're not bound, you have no obligation to answer them.
So we have to understand the bar is much lower. Right? The bar is
much lower. For for people who, who send a message and write and a
letter a person took time to write it a social media posts or a
private message or even an email. It's significantly less effort
than sending a letter. So I would say about that, that the bar is
much lower.
And I think that we should look at the only thing is law that Allah
drawer, which means like there shouldn't be
as much as possible, there shouldn't be harm done to people
in social media. Now, the words maligning people, where you spread
a rumor about them saying something false. I would say like
if you're harsh, that's probably like Makau to be harsh and mean to
somebody. Like if you're speaking the truth, but it's harsh and
mean, you can be sinful for that because you're scarred the person
you hurt the person.
Elegant Tina sono girl. We as parents are not great role models,
either. That's the thing. Like, what's why you have to have some
drama, but you also have to keep working on it. You can't say,
Well, I do it too. So let him do it. Okay, so you fell into a hole
and broke your ankle? Aren't you gonna cover the hole up? Or you
said, Oh, well, I broke my ankle. So I can't blame him for coming
and breaking his ankle. Right? So yeah, we were messed up fine, but
at least you're good deed and you may be forgiven by protecting your
kid from getting messed up.
Do you believe that the Illuminati is real?
And that they have power in the affair of the dunya? Well, I do
believe that bliss is real. And it Bliss has Elia. As the Quran says,
right that bliss he gives
whisper whispers to his Olia. And that's why you see people in
different places doing things that match up perfectly, right in a in
a one world order type of plan, New World Order type of plan and
you see that fits perfectly. And the psychology is the direct
opposite of the Quran. The economics is the direct opposite
of the Quran, the way the finances of the world are set up. The
everything is almost like the direct opposite of the Sharia. But
these are the three women who get together and plan this. We believe
in the unseen and unseen leader that maybe they don't even know
that that's where their whisperings came from, but it all
matches up in a world that we're living in that where everything at
every level. It's the opposite of the Quran, right? It's the
opposite of the shittier. How did that happen?
Now Allah tells us in the Quran, that Bliss has odia and he gives
waiters Elia. He whispers to them, and those who do, you can get
close to him by doing more obscene things. Right? blaspheming Dean
and they have these rituals, where they blaspheme religious texts,
this is the way they draw near, okay, at least you darken your
heart more with deeds, you keep darkening and darkening and darken
and then he has the ability also to open doors for you. Right.
There is that is possible that it's like a type of
reality that exists that he believes can can give people the
illusion of wealth can give people can benefit they benefit from
that. And this is one of the meanings of selling your deen for
your for your dunya. So it's a test and it's from st drudge we
believe in is to drudge that a person
can receive a lot while doing evil. And the reason is that it's
going to make their punishment worse. So that I believe in
but the
as for the group's who knows, like what's actually real Freemasons
illuminati at that point, the name doesn't matter, right?
Sophia is correcting RT slash versus backslash, okay
mbyc.org/forward/links Li N Ks?
What are some sports as Ibrahim Khan that the prophets of Allah
was played or agreed to play, the sports that he played were
essentially the things that are used in life and war, swimming,
running, wrestling, riding horses, fire and having you know, shooting
bows and arrows. Those are the things that had practical uses,
right in life, or outside of or in war. And those are the things that
the prophets of Allah who sent him encouraged general physical
activities is headed right. And some have even said mccluer Haram
if it has no value to it
all right, there was a question on Instagram about a teacher saying
like, is there a DUA to be a better teacher? Maybe she's
saying, like for me, I need to say that DHA is basically
Okay, sister says, Is there any dog Her name is Sensen? She says,
Is there any drill out to make yourself a better teacher?
Sometimes back to back teaching to school children can feel tiresome.
If you're not ringing their neck, you're doing a good job. Because
kids are hard, right? But there is a door
and I'll read it to you. It's the daughter of a man had dead that
you should say and you should all say it as a group to your to your
Jewish kids. If they're Muslims, Islamic school, or homeschool. No
way to tell them I would tell him I intend to study and to teach
what to the correlative care to take and give reminders. When Neff
I will interfere to benefit myself and others while he further will
is to further to inspire myself and inspire others will have salad
tema Sookie week he was so naughty Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
salam and to call to guidance and to hold fast to the book of Allah
and the Sunnah of his messenger so Allah Williamson, what do I learn
hood and call people to guidance what Delilah Tala and point them
to goodness if it's evolved our chilla humara Dotty He will be
with OB all seeking the countenance of Allah and His
pleasure and nearness and reward and that is a beautiful card
bookmark that we had printed it on which we need to probably actually
you know if you could put a
if you could save that image and put it up on a split screen for us
Fatuma King says if your kids want to watch some channels that are
you know beneficial and they need to see something than Omar and
Hana is the name of the channel
you know that's highly recommended teach people do like Vicodin stuff
it's better than for them saying Baby shark and which is the most
watched YouTube video I think of all time 10 billion views
which is Yeah, tragedy basically such a meaningless thing. It's
crazy
people just like nice jingles and innocent it's like a political
tool right? That's why
Rasool Kabir says on Karima foundation Schicksal a man has a
playlist and they go through just AMA
and you know what else
suits and Fatiha for?
Alma? Hey, Hashem, I think his name is Ahmed Hashem, or Hashem.
Alavi suits. And Fatiha repeated for an hour is really good for
little kids just put it on they don't have to watch it. There's no
nothing to watch anyway. You just put it on. They'll memorize suits
in Fattah within like a month or two.
Is there favoritism for Arabs over non Arabs in Islam? There's not
favoritism and justice matters of justice. But the prophet did say
love the Arabs but just for my sake because it's an attribute of
the Prophet that he was Arab so we would love them. We would love
that aspect of him doesn't mean every single Arab the Arabs of
today you know there are mixed bag like anyone else mixed in the
collegia has a lot more issues than probably benefits. Right? So
but in general, to love that. And who's the Arab anyone who speaks
Arabic?
Because Allah Rahman says Allah Houma in our learners Lucara
delicado wackiness Alka looked forbid this is the dua of Imam
Shafi. We don't ask, Oh Allah, we don't ask you to. We don't reject
your judgment, but we asked for a lot of it is a member Sheffy when
he was actually wrong or wrongfully accused
Allahumma Ines Elka
oh this drop okay.
The DOT says no way to attach a Luma with Talim
when NEFA what to the Qura with gear when NEFA will interfere?
Well Ivanka will is it further? What Tomas suka because Deb Allah
He was so naughty Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam What
do I ll Hooda? What De La La La Jolla. If it's what he learned he
would have one where he couldn't read the metadata he with a Webby.
Okay, that's a lot that you should say. And you can keep that up
there for people take a screenshot of it.
Sophia says Ryan did he liked the five pillars t shirt and that was
our selection for you the tie dye t shirt
never all them says
how can we utilize the best out of this dua for contentment that you
have recommended. Just repeat it every time all day as long every
time your heart is unhappy, repeat it, right and just repeat it
nonstop. Keep your heart moist with it. Keep your engine moving.
It's like an engine that you're moving, keep it moving, keep it
moving, keep it moving. If you if you keep the engine moving,
eventually you get a spark. Right? something good will happen to you.
How is it authentically known where the prophet who is buried?
Allah Allah we can ask the automatic Teddy and Yemen.
I think it's totally over the generations.
What do the scholars say about someone who memorize the 40 Hadith
of Imam nawawi
it's virtuous to memorize 40 Hadith because there is a weak
Hadith and we can act upon it as Madhavi the Albanian ADV duckula
agenda, whoever memorizes 40 of my Hadith enters paradise.
Moab says is haram to have kids wear costumes to school on
Halloween. Yes, if you ask me I do believe that celebration of
Halloween is forbidden because it's a religious holiday. Now it's
not even Christian holiday endorse, like a completely. Like
it's all just nakedness and skulls and you know things that are
not that a Muslim should be doing and most Muslims agree that it
does have a basis in some kind of beliefs. Right? And even if people
don't realize that basis, it's lost his innocence. Even in my
day. We didn't know much better. You dressed up as cops, robbers,
athletes, firemen looks like innocent stuff. But today, it's
like dressing up as prostitutes. Right? Devils, things like that.
Where it's, it's even if we were to say that it deviated far from
its original religious nature. It's deviated to something worse,
right?
It's evolved into something far worse. It's nothing other than
everything negative like hellish. Nobody puts up you know see
someone dressed up as cops and cowboys and anymore cowboys and
Indians are cops and robbers that those days are over
I mean says what are the scholars say about someone who memorized we
answered that and and that you know they always told me you
please read the answer the question before you say it out
loud fun.
What is the meaning of Oh you who believe believe says Amin means Oh
you who believe increase your Amen. You already have Amen. The
image the first belief is belief versus Cofer. The second Amen, are
you Yeah, you're Latina Avenue Avenue. The second Eman is the
increase of that Amen. Meaning study or after you to properly
worship Allah so that your Eman increases that's the meaning of oh
you believe belief means Oh you have entered into the fold of
belief now strengthen that faith
has or her saying how are we supposed to manage living in a
world that doesn't have the prophets of Allah what He was sent
him living in it? How do we not get depressed? In a world that
lacks Rahmatullah means so we have to
fact manufacture that love in our own hearts by doing much salawat
and salaam on the Prophet peace be upon?
Bubbles says what country are the people of the cave buried? That's
a good question. So little KEF were in the you know that? The
time of the sahaba.
Wow, he said that he came upon
a cave in which it was etched in that cave, the locals trance
translated it for him that the Seven Sleepers of the cave, were
there, even ibises don't go in it because you won't be able to. So
he's now I want to go. So he went, tried to get in it. But when he
came back, he said, as soon as we stepped near the entrance of the
cave, a great fear entered all of our hearts and we left. So it is
said that Allah knows best that it's somewhere in Anatolia.
Anatolia the continent or that landmass which is now Turkey, and
I think that others have said it's parts of Greece
and some people said that the city is called Ephesus and Allah knows
best
cannot can I make would do while in the shower to save time of
course as long as you're if you're a male you don't touch your
private parts with the inside or the side of your hands afterwards
because that will break your
SR says What should a lay person say to those who question whether
had some of Quran is Buddha? Is it true that the greatest scholars
who spread Islam such as Gungi Bakshi and his Alma Dean Oh yet
did not only did that it is it is a sunnah from the time of the
sahaba. And the Prophet points to what he said cannot one of you
recite the Quran in 30 days? That's why they divided the Quran
and 30 just one for every day so that you could do a Cutsem every
month and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that 70,000
Angels attend the DUA that is upon completion of the entire Quran. So
the idea of reciting Quran from cover to cover and then having a
long drop was a sunnah from the Prophets time and the Sahaba and
as even Malik he would recite the entire Quran and wait for when he
reached the small Suez then he would gather his whole family and
they would finish it and they would make a long dua afterwards
do Ah, that's middle Quran. So there is Mashallah.
It's no her 95, she says is not accepted when drinking zamzam.
You make the DUA before you drink sums up and you do it standing
facing the Qibla. Standing, unlike other drinking, which the Sunnah
is sitting is zamzam you do it standing. Cause him says with the
draw I mentioned, could you possibly tweet it again? Or post
it again? Please? Yeah, you know that I took Twitter off my phone.
Yeah, because it was just a waste of time. Too much waste of time.
So I do have an app called HootSuite. I could put stuff out
there. But I no longer engage in, you know, reading tweets and
finding myself just like your brain is lazy. So you go to, to
surf, right? And scroll, you got to catch yourself. That's going to
be the difference between, you know, certain levels of success in
life. And Dean, these little things, because if you scroll for
15 minutes a day, 10 minutes a day, hypothetically, right? That's
70 minutes a week. That's 140 minutes every two weeks, that's
280 minutes. Divide that by 64 hours, a month, four hours a
month, just 10 minutes a day. How crazy is that? The reason why? I
actually like, because I got rid of my phone 17 and got the flip
phone? Yes. Because I was looking at myself. And I realized that
like without even thinking about it, I would my thumb would move I
type in my password and go to Instagram so fast. even think
about it, or go to any of these apps, like without even
subconsciously in my brain. So I just tried to move them to
different places, and then my mind just adjusted. So as you get a
flip phone, yes. I'm telling you that the difference between
people, it's hairline of a difference. It's these little
things, right? And it's not what the prophets of Allah who it was
salam said, when he said that
people enter Jannah by little deeds, and they enter Jahannam by
little deeds, they think it's a small deed, but it mounts up. And,
and you and Twitter is my Twitter feed is all about arguing
arguments, right? Different Islamic groups arguing. I have no
time for this anymore.
Instagram. It was good in the beginning. But I guess certain
things that I followed followed other things. So the algorithm
ended up getting me a whole bunch of
images that were fisken haram.
I'm done with you.
If I get skipped head, he just put the keep putting the question if I
You're not skipping it on purpose. Reggie Evans
says there's a channel called Sally keen. It's very good for
kids, Muslim kids. Chief Latif, do you have to cover your order to
make we do know you could be making we do while you're in the
shower.
Let's sit here who says that?
AKA player says I want to get married, but I have a *
problem.
Don't reveal that to anyone keep that private to yourself. Of
course he's put like a pseudonym. So that's fine. I need to deal
with this before marriage but being 28 and single makes it hard.
I keep relapsing and I start losing hope in marriage.
Do you have? Is it something where
one would think that marriage may solve this problem?
Right marriage may solve may help in solving this problem.
And
if you want to know why people have a * problem may be any
addiction, I think any addiction, I think has to do with there's
something really deep down, that's but there's the void.
And whatever the addiction is trying to fill the void, so maybe
an intimate relationship with an actual woman may be the void,
right?
That may be the void.
But you did point to something that is the end result of bliss,
which is losing hope.
I can't emphasize more than enough that What did bliss is truly after
with all addictions, whether it's a marijuana addiction, a crack
addiction, a
any drug * gambling, is that to get you to the point that
to say I've made dua and it's been years
to get you to believe in your reality, not in your technical,
technically, you believe Allah is all powerful over all things. But
to really truly get you believe that even Allah can get you out of
this. That's really where IBLEES wants to get you. For all these
addictions. You're the cardinal sin is to give a pope that's truly
the cardinal sin. Cardinal, meaning this is the that's where
it least wants to get you
everything else. Right, you have to wipe it out every single time
that happens, wipe it out and start over again, wipe it out and
start over. And when Allah sees your SIP, he'll take it away from
you. Since means that you just don't stop, you refuse to stop
what Allah sees that sipping you that will take this away from you.
But also you have to realize that there is a reason for this.
And that is, it's as sad notice, he said, nobody does something
wrong, except that there's some desire that's inside of him that's
not being filled. And he wants to fill it, but he filled it in the
huddle. So what is *? Like you? It's maybe there's the
absence of a woman in your life is the reason you're going for that?
It could be right. So it's most likely, right? So marriage may
help with that. So is it ethical for a certain someone to marry
while they have this * addiction?
That's really a big question. To be quite honest with you, I can
tell you that. I can't answer the ethical question by myself, we've
probably should kick that around amongst the you know, people who
have some wisdom. But I can't tell you that it's not unlawful, right?
It's lawful for you and is anyone ever going to be perfect in this
day and age.
So hope marriage should probably help get rid of some of these
addictions, I would imagine, right? It would get rid of that.
So
I think that not marrying is really one of the the goals of
Iblees. Because when you don't marry, there's a lot of there's a
loss of risk. When you marry the prophesy, Saddam said, it just
comes to you.
responsibility comes to you, you start to grow up, you have kids,
you grow up even more, you'll feel more responsible to rectify
yourself when you have a wife and kids than when you're all alone.
So if my bliss robs you of that, alright, if it bleeds, robs you of
that, then you'll feel like there's not really much
motivation. There's not really much there's no reason for me to
fix my get my act together. I believe that if you get married
and have kids, and you now maybe are even helping in the community,
and you're helping youth, you there will be such a cognitive
dissonance, such an anger, such an upsetness, that you're not
practicing what you preach that you're doing something bad, that
will be so strong, it'll push out, you know those sins. And again,
I'll repeat and close with that.
That it's loss of hope. And you said it, right. That is the goal
of bliss is to make a person lose hope, because once a person, in
his true beliefs, does not believe ALLAH is capable of doing
something he'll never say it but that's the real reality of his
belief. The major major pillar in his toe hate his Eman has
collapsed. And it's just a matter of time his Islam just becomes an
image with no reality, because the man has collapsed. So you have to
always have a man that Allah Tada can remove you from your is your
question right now kind of lots out to remove you from this
addiction and remove this addiction from you forever. Before
this video is over,
or before you say config goon, if you don't believe that the answer
is yes. And that's a problem. You have to believe at any moment I'll
have can remove it.
And he doesn't remove it. It's a test to test to see who's sincere
who's going to fight this fight. And let me tell you something, I
believe probably it's an epidemic.
Right?
Because survey Yeah, I didn't I forgot to look if I looked at the
results from that, but it's like overwhelmingly, yeah, I don't even
I wouldn't even want to look at the survey to be honest with you.
Right? I want to even want to know that.
what the rates are in our communities of
have that type of thing. And then we wonder why the note of Uman is
not penetrating? Well, if your eyes are filled with *,
and your earbuds, you got air air pods in 24 hours a day, like
people walk around with one airport in and listen to music all
day. So how is the light of Quran and we're talking about these
things? How is it going to enter the heart? So I don't believe that
adults can really discipline themselves, let alone youth. We
need help discipline. If I when I was in college, I would have loved
to have someone discipline me, right in the sense of cut off
these things. But these things like you couldn't new is coming up
when everyone's just learning what it is, right? All of a sudden,
boom, there's internet. All of a sudden, we got laptops, it's like
it all came before anyone could set up policies for it. Right,
wherever anyone knew, like how bad things could get to the PAC point
that we have these epidemics. So
that's one of the reasons at least if we do this, this youth night,
at least for those five hours, you know, they'll be in the house of
Allah getting purified and they won't be sitting around just, you
know, expose to fitna.
Next
Suzette Ahmed says how can we empower women not to conform to
societal beauty and fashion trends, just finding women having
more insecurities after marriage?
That's those insecurities are caused by the prevalence of images
which may be real, but probably most of them are touched up and
fake. Other beautiful women in the old days, in the ancient times
probably didn't have this problem because the only woman you could
look at or the woman of your town. One of the stats I saw is that
like, by the by the age of like 11
a youth has seen more pretty women than a person have probably seen
that his grandfather for his entire lifetime. Right? Because
the images are keep coming up. So becomes almost impossible, right?
It was really impossible to keep those images out of your mind. But
I'm telling you the Quran really to be honest with you, it wipes
all the stuff away. Intensive, thicker is what we really need for
the psychological, emotional, mental issues intensive, thicker
is the solution. It's not some idea that's the solution intensive
they could have wiped all this stuff out of your mind. You forget
about it completely.
But Suzanna, someone had recently also told me that
issue of hijab people are talking about as like a choice, right? And
they've broken from it the sanctity of it that this is part
of your relationship with Allah this is a divine command no
different
then then then we'll do salah is a cat song
and so that there they asked me they said can you bring that up
again? I said I want to bring it up but the feminists will destroy
you any man that just talks about Egypt and they will just waste
their time and they will just flood them with criticism. So I
said you have to talk about it like you talk about I'm I'm not I
don't feel like having this waste of time anymore. I said it's it's
a photo from from Allah subhanaw taala a million times but it's
upon the women now who are who are have knowledge to start talking
about these things and then they
these Muslim scholars from the females should should from the
women should talk about these things right and fight these these
trends among girls. It doesn't even sound right in our society.
It's not accepted that a guy gives lectures about women you know, not
following these trends and young girls not following these trends.
And there is a point to that because we haven't experienced it.
I can talk to guys about * can't talk to women
about you know
post trying to post their best pics on Instagram and stuff
because I haven't experienced what it's like to be one so let them
talk about it
right what you got
14 year old is trying to pray every day wonderful and be the
best Muslim wonderful how can how can I be the best be befriend good
Muslims become friends with with good muscles look up your local
youth group and hang out with those guys.
That's the solution
that's the solution.
Hang out with those guys
let's check out Facebook. We always ignore those guys.
Right in the meantime, while I pull up Facebook give me something
all right, it is the statement. By this visit. May Allah forgive us
while visiting nakoma
That's isn't this troublesome? Yes. Any good deed that you do.
You can ask Allah, here's my offering,
except my dua or grant Mutis or grant me if you grant me she felt
for the sick, etc. All that's acceptable, right?
Any good deeds that you do. So thar says, Thank you for stating
that teenage girls and women are just turned off by men telling
them they're going to * for not wearing hijab keep going.
Our most our most she's still, she's still typing, okay, so it's
not that it's it's unlawful in Islam, to talk to say this, when I
teach fifth, I teach the whole book, whatever, whatever is in the
book I teach it's Allah's law, whether it's something that
pertains only to men or only to women, but culturally speaking, or
am I going to get the result? Right, the result is people just
don't, they don't want to hear it from someone who hasn't
experienced it. That's really the end of it. So I say I can tell you
the ruling of what ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada says,
it's the women, if the door has been opened up, for men, to for
women to do what men are doing, then the Muslim women who have
knowledge you go and you fight the feminists, and you're not just the
feminist, it's also this culture of image, like the culture of, of
putting your image out there, the culture of touching yourself up
all the time and taking these selfies. This is not the culture
of Islam, right? It's not the culture of the people of the
Quran. That's what we're shooting for, which was something high. Why
do we why should we just shoot for Okay, barely getting by? No,
right? We should shoot for something high. And if the sisters
are out there now studying learning and talking and posting
and doing everything. That's really they're the ones who are
going to do it and they're already doing it by the way. There are a
lot of there was like a couple of preachers that were women that
were on Instagram doing amazing things, and I shared it. So
they're doing it right. It's not that they're not doing it. They're
already doing it just a matter of time. It's a long fight. It's a
big fight. They're gonna have to wage
Sarah, Mohammed, or Zara, maybe maybe it's Sarah. First time
listening in on mbf. Without the podcast app, a salon Monica Monica
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now that era, I says How should us as Muslim educators talk about
Hijab as well, when it's sadly a very triggering topic? I think
that we should we have to break this trigger. Right? Not
everything is acceptable to tiptoe around this is a divine
commandment. If I went to a people and and none of the rich people
paid Sikka,
you got to break this trigger. Okay? Which means get triggered,
repeated over and over and over until, right as the saying goes,
if you can't turn off the shower, at least you'll get used to
getting wet. This is a religious obligation.
Some say oh, how could you speak about some of your own team at
Safina society. Adam be icy don't wear hijab. I have friends. Not
all my friends are perfect. I'm not perfect. But the religion must
be stated as it is. This is a divine commandment. Okay. How was
it any different from not eating? kunzea? How was it any different
from not going out with your outer showing? For a min. Right? How was
it any different from a guy going in speedos, right?
It is a divine commandment. It's religion. It's not culture.
It's not something that you just choose. Yes, you choose to do it
in the sense that you have free will no one's gonna force you.
But it has to be elevated just as part of our religious discussion
over not culture. It's not heritage. It's not a choice of
clothing, like a choice of Koofi. It's part of the religion. That's
it. But what do want me to do about that? So it's gotta repeat
it over and over. You shouldn't get triggered about the truth. If
you get triggered about the truth. You're knifes has an issue, not
the truth, right? We don't malleable the truth doesn't change
to your ego. That's a difference between following whims and
following truth is that my mind knows this is true. I don't like
it. Which one is going to move? I'm moving right car going this
way in other cargo in the opposite way. We're not playing a game of
chicken here, you're moving out of the way, or you're gonna get
railroaded by the truth. Which means that the angel is writing
down every time you do something wrong, whether you like it or not.
And then you're gonna come on Yamaki I mean, you're gonna pay
the price for that. So
I think we just have to break this Muslim community triggered,
then get triggered right on trigger yourself. You can't be
triggered by the truth.
And we can't as people who
We're supposed to our responsibility. The word band
clarification is listed in different forms over 200 times in
the Quran. It's it said, clarify this truth, spread it, practice
it, don't practice it. That's not my problem or your whatever,
that's personal.
But the speaker's the preachers just say the truth as it is, and
make dua it's not said with Kibera, we make dua for myself. I
make dua for you, right. It's not said with kibble, but that's the
truth. You cannot tell me that. Oh, I get triggered by the truth.
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Learn your fifth. Now let's go back to Instagram here.
She says I agree women need to step up and uplift. Yeah, because
it's just not worth the the the the tsunami of criticism that
comes anytime an imam just says a word. It's not that we can't
people can't handle it. Or maybe they should. It's just it's a
waste of time. Right? And it's not effective. And it's become people
just say okay, I'm not gonna say anything. Let the sisters talk
about what's the other question go up. Yeah, that one. Some women
don't wear hijab, because the it's commanded not because it's not
it's commanded. But because of men looking at other women. All right.
So this is something I could talk about. And this I know many guys
are gonna get triggered. You're a practicing Muslim guy. And you are
you married a woman who doesn't wear hijab. So what message Have
you sent? Again, this is something people say, How could you say that
some of your best friends. I'd said it before, the principle is
you got to just say the truth. Not, I'm not perfect. My friends
aren't perfect. I like a lot of people who do a lot of wrong
things. Weakness, not weakness, call it whatever you want it. Be
as nice as you whatever you want. Okay? I'm not passing a judgment
on you as my friend. I'm not saying it's anything to insult
you. But I have to tell you people what the religion of Allah is and
what people are doing. If you're a good Muslim practicing brother,
and you go and you marry somebody that is not doing a sister that is
not fulfilling one of God's commands, you basically just sent
a signal to the other girls in the community that alright, I can get
a great guy without fulfilling Allah's commands.
That's just how simple it is. And the sister there is she's telling
you, I'm not saying it, she's saying it. They're not disobeying
Allah for the sake of it, but they see that the good guys are married
women without a job. So the good guys don't seem to care about it.
This I can talk about and the guy's you're gonna get triggered,
and he was gonna get triggered all you want your my friends, a lot of
my associates, their wives might not wear hijab, I'm not talking to
you personally and offending you. But I'm just saying something.
That's true. Right? You cannot as doing this job filter, the
religion
based upon your friends and family, you're doing dishonesty,
to the religion at that point. So so so a big donor of mine of
Safina Foundation, he, I don't know he operates with rivets, so
we're gonna know. We're, hey, if you're part of screens, I don't
talk about it ever. No. It's not gonna work like that. A big donor
does not wear hijab. Okay, some people maybe it's my not my
business where she is in her religion. Okay, she loves us.
She's doing a great job in many things. Maybe this? Are we going
to now have an organization, let's not talk about it. But let's not
talk about hijab. What's next? What's next, right? It's not like
that. And you shouldn't get triggered or be offended. Because
I'm telling you, even if I'm telling the whole religion on your
person, I understand people are different phases of their
practice.
We do understand that.
And as long as someone's not preaching that thing, and it's
just a weakness. They're welcome in our circles, yes, we are
welcomed into circles while saying the truth at the same time.
If you don't say it, Allah will fire you and bring someone else to
say it. That's how it works. What do I have to address in the Maliki
meth hub? The neck can be shown. That's not true at all. Only the
face, huh?
Nah, no no, there's none of that that's maybe some hippies
that is a style that some people came in the 70s and they just
weren't the bandana, right? No, no, it's the face and the hands
can be shown this is religion right
can you pray in a room with with with idols?
The prayer the prayer may be valid if you're not facing the idol but
I highly recommend that you find some other solution because it's
not something that
you know, that is that is an issue. They have not put actual
idols in the while you definitely take the Quran off that wreck the
Quran, no book of Islam should be sharing space with idols, actual
idols.
Lot of Moroccan women says Lily Poppy, were scarf tied behind head
with neck exposed, it's practical when they're working in the
fields, etc.
And they may be working in the fields by themselves. Not with
other guys around but if other guys around then that's another
issue. Right? I lost there's no one else to pick the corn and pick
the peppers. Except we have to do it together. You Why don't you
pick up the tomato, pick the tomatoes over there. And I'll pick
the peppers over here. Right? And then she could remove her.
Roll up her sleeves ever next show whatever, because the guys are
picking peppers over there. And we'll do the tomatoes over here.
Right? Well, we'll go over there and work on the couscous by
ourselves and you go and get the plums
had he says oh, it's not had it's had enough. Okay, I just got that
had enough says
is working as an engineer for a company that makes military jets
haram.
Working to make weapons is not haram. It's the contracts that it
goes to may render it haram but the idea of making weapons itself
is not haram. It's just a question of
the issue of if it's like the soul contract that you know, it's going
to the United States to and it's going directly to a war. If you
have that knowledge, then yes, then that aspect of it would be
hard but not making weapons in general.
I don't mind weapons, I would love to have a lot of weapons. Right?
If I was a country.
Lily poppies question. Yeah, that was the question about how they
wear the hijab behind the neck.
If the MSA is doing an interfaith meeting and event hosting non
Muslim should they enforce them to wear appropriate clothing? I don't
think you enforce it. But you can say if it's the summertime, for
example, you can just say that our we will be dressed you know like
this covering our thighs and our legs and our arms. And you can see
if they liked that or not. Or if they respect that or not. Right.
And
it's all about respect interfaith class. So you want to have
interface. So let's start with, with the basics of you know, how
we, we want to be dressed. So let's see if they respect that. So
if it's interface with the Jews, we're not doing the event on
Saturday, right with the for your Sabbath. So
anyway, I don't think I'm never never a big fan of enforcing
stuff, unless it's your actual household. But you can say, by the
way, this is how we do things here and see if they want to respect it
or not. A your response, please, great chance wanting authority.
They listened to the male scholar, if a woman especially young women,
scholar lectures, men, the men's mind will react differently. I
guarantee you they'll react differently, right? If a woman
goes out there puts a whole lecture on *. She may be
1,000%. Correct? Correct. This is not the only issue. Its
effectiveness. Right? Its effectiveness. That's the question
we have to ask ourselves. So insofar as I've experienced what
you've experienced as being a male, you're a male and I'm a
male, then we can talk. You're a female and your females are going
to expect to talk about other females.
Ryan lectures from Mohammed hobbles Yes, he is very Muhammad
Habilis is effective just lowered the volume that's it right you
have to lower the volume when you click on his videos.
Good men, Abraham says are marrying non hijab is and hijab is
our feeling like like, what was the point of this? Because yeah,
the it's, you're doing it for a lot out of but you're also doing
it. You need to feel something in the society that this was rewarded
by the society. So this is the testimony of some of the women
right
Somebody's testimony I don't know any better about this right
they're the ones saying it not me
Mohammed Muslim and Mohammed is a wrestler Can I do a powerful they
could before going into wrestling nothing wrong with that.
Susanna ramen says a lot of men and their mothers refuse to
consider sisters who wear hijab. So where's the issue coming from
other women? There's a lot of pressure after marriage to remove
hijab from the husbands. The husband wants a woman to show off.
Such a woman, such a man is a facet, because this is a public
sin.
The youth,
the youth, right? He's a fast sick and he wants his wife to do this,
right? He wants to be a day youth.
Does the Maliki method follow the Fit creed? No, it does not there.
Asha is the hardest core SATs in history I've been nomadic is
can you pray sooner before Fajr?
The mascot he says Amin says mascot with a G phrase 20 minutes
after the app and then you can pray your Sona as soon as the
feather comes in. It's called the Lucha Libre. And it's the second
most important sunnah. After which
Sophia says please make dua and Nordic and yeah, why don't we kick
off every day to Allah withdraw and Nora.
Dino says if he doesn't marry you for hijab, or his mother doesn't
want you, then you dodged the bullet from a family that is not
very that committed, which is not to say that there aren't some
very, very nice people again, we have to put so many caveats
because we have so many friends who are like this, right? We have
to put all these caveats. Yes, they may be wonderful people and
many things. But culturally, someone has like a trigger. It
happens, right? So we have to say this because there's there's these
caveats because there are a lot of people out there, I know them.
They're excellent. Right? They're wonderful people
who observe every quarter inch of the of the deen of Allah that
Allah has brought down.
But their parents have a trigger. Like they're culturally like
triggered on about something, they have an allergy to a job or to
Dean or to have that meet. So I want to make sure that those
people know that nobody here is trying to offend your family.
Right. And you shouldn't take it like we're not aware of having
family members that are not up on the dean. totally aware of it. And
we know that there's a whole ton of bending and lesser of two evils
that's going on in the world.
We have to say this because that we're talking about something that
affects a lot of people, a lot of people that this issue of
general religiosity and hey, job effects.
Alright, I think we have to wrap up. Let's see, we got office hours
at four o'clock and it's 330.
Which comment?
How's it what's in Hanafi? madhhab? Can a sister can recite
knots or hand?
Where do you say that? Oh, wow.
I'm 100. And oh, he's talking to me. How's it let's comma. Okay,
and have you met them? I'm a husband's funny thing that what
was it in Turkey? What did they call it?
In Turkey, they have a name for their scholars. Hoja. Oh,
that's a big title. Right? She can recite it for only for women.
Yeah, she could recite that in a women's gallery.
Last question, Samia from Instagram. I recently heard that
you should do general Estacada every day that helps you all your
decisions. Yes, you can do that. And you can combine it with one of
your Sunon general for all your for all your decisions, am I
allowed to help us and again, we do we will not shy away from
bringing up these topics that trigger some people. But you have
to understand the the spirit in which we're doing it. We're doing
it because this is the religion of Allah. Tada isn't a man if we are
claiming to be involved in this, we just have to
say every truth as it is. Right? And it's it's not that we don't
understand people are going through struggles and that they're
Muslims, and they're trying and these are not facet being like
outside in the world. When we say like, you know, we're talking
forbidding wrong against like some fiscal that is being done by non
believers. No, these are people with wonderful qualities. But
there's a shortcoming. But that does mean we can't talk about we
cannot edit stuff out of our discourse. That's really the point
of it. And we all love people who are have shortcomings in their
deen and the last thing that we want to do is turn people away,
but at the same time, we also can't turn Allah's away and his
command away
It is commanded to clarify the deen as it is. So it's done in
that spirit. It's not done in the spirit of hurting people. Making
people feel guilty. Making people people feel bad. It's done in the
spirit of
it's our duty, right? To clarify these things. And if we don't do
it, then Allah will show us away. Okay, and other people will do it.
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