Lessons From Surah Yusuf

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The speakers discuss the importance of communication between father and children, including sharing a dream and sh matter on the spiritual "by the way" relationships. They emphasize the need for people to be mindful of others' actions and not let anyone out there do anything wrong. The importance of manliness and respect for the future of one's children is emphasized, as well as the need for people to learn to handle difficult situations and avoid slacking off or drinking soda to avoid complications.

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just wanted to start with this introduction

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to feel that our hearts need to start reconnecting with Allah. And Allah His brothers and sisters, our hearts will never start reconnecting with Allah subhanho wa Taala until we start purifying them. And this one, I'm going to start with the first lesson in sort of juices

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by talking about some of the diseases of the heart, some of the diseases of the heart. And by that I'm not talking about cardiology.

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No, I'm talking about diseases that the cardiologist cannot deal with.

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And the first one is, when Yusuf Ali Salaam, started sharing his dream with his father,

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and ready for the swollen shala.

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Really, for the sore?

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Can you give me some charity?

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not asking for money. The professor Sallam said, to have a simple coffee or tea or soda. You know Your smile is a soft pencil, but can you smile?

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Okay, smile.

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No, no, no, this way.

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I want it alone.

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So, I want you to imagine now an old man, his name is jacobellis is sitting with a child, his name is Yusuf Ali Salaam.

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And look at the loving relationship between the Father and the Son.

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The son

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is very close to his father. And this is why he's going to sit with him. Now I'm going to say that I saw a dream and I want to share the dream with you.

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What's the relationship between the fathers and the kids today?

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You know, when the kid tries to come close to his father's like, No, dad, yes.

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Want to talk to you don't do cm over the phone. I'm talking. But you've been talking for ages.

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I don't want to talk to you.

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Okay, wait until I finish.

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And then once you hang up becomes like that, can I talk to you now? have to check the email?

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Then, do you know where the child will go?

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Sometimes to his bad friends.

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And he's going to share what he wanted to share with you with them.

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So you want to learn lesson number one, be close to your children?

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give them time. I want to say give them time. I don't mean, have this body with them at home for a few hours while you're texting and phoning and emailing and watching the TV. No, I'm talking about quality time.

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quality time. You know when the sisters go to the Imam, the local woman they say, you know, I miss my husband.

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And he asked us her like, you know, why isn't he in Malaysia? Like No, he's in Malaysia.

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Oh, is he working in another city? No. He comes back home every day at five o'clock. But you know what, he always sits with his second wife.

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Who's the second one, the TV.

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Sometimes the laptop. Sometimes I call it the crack phone instead of the Blackberry. I call it the crack phone

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becomes addiction. Right?

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And then some other email will come and bring the brothers like you know, you need to spend time with your wife. Okay, I will.

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And the next session when he comes.

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He asked the sister How's it going?

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You know, this is him the Levine's right?

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Because as Muslims, we sell hamdulillah all the time.

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Even if your wife beats you up in the morning before you go to work yourself hamdulillah

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So, the Imam will ask him like, you know, she's still unhappy, what what's going on? It's like, what am I spend eight hours with her every day? What else does she want?

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And that attitude is wrong. You know why? It means

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that he'll come back from work. And Mashallah, she has been waiting for him spending so much time with the Three little monkeys. Sorry, three little angels at home.

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And she's hassling with them all the day. And yet, you know, she's giving him his right as a husband chooses adorning herself, and she prepared like, you know, the mesilla mark that he likes to eat and how much things currently see Lamarck.

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And even the children is ready to after like, you know the meal.

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Children, right? Okay.

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She's doing everything that she can. And he comes from work, because his boss is giving him a hard time in and she opens the door with a smile.

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Like, you know, we'll come back Honey, it's like,

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let me just go to my room and change.

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And he goes to his room. And you know, he comes back wearing, you know, the pajamas that he has been wearing for the last 24 years.

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With 111 on his face,

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you know, this 111

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and she's still smiling, like, you know, what's wrong? Like nothing, nothing.

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And then he will spend

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hours in front of the TV. And his wife's like, you know, honey, there is an issue with the kids that I want to talk to you about. He's gonna say, later on after we finish this show.

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And she will wait.

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And then it's over.

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Okay, can we eat in silence, inshallah?

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Why is the sooner to eat in silence. We can discuss things while we're eating. You see what I'm trying to say? And Subhanallah once it's the Nasi Lemak

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followed by the jingle. He goes to bed for a nap.

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And this is the eight hours that he's saying he's spending with his wife. Was there a dialogue between them? So the first lesson

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we need to we need to talk to each other at home.

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And communication is two way traffic some one way.

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So we learn from the first sentence not use of two listens. We need to enhance our relationship with our kids. We want to be close to them so they can open up and come and talk to us. Not to the bad friends. second lesson, even for the husband and the wife, we need to start communicating with each other.

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So he shared with him the dream.

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And his father said to him after he shared the dream kanaya Guna Yala.

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Oh my dear little son, look at the language. Yeah, pony. Lamia Kalia, Ebony.

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If he said the abney it means Oh my son, but he said Jabra Jabra it means all my dear little son. Can we choose this language with respect to our kids? You know how some parents speak to the kids? Hey, Mr. Stupid come here.

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Hey, Mr. animal. Didn't I tell you don't do this understand

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the language that you use with your children. It builds up their personality and their self confidence. So always call him Hey, next roamer inshallah. Hey, abubaker

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Hey, Imam. Hey, doctor. Give him a title that he's going to look up to that motivate him

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not demotivator

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use a good language. Choose the best name and call them

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yeah, win a lottery Serbia gala aquatic. Do not share this dream with your brothers.

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Why? Frankie, doula cake ADA, because they might plot something bad against you.

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Because brothers, were jealous of him. And that's the first disease of the heart. The professor seldom talked about jealousy. He said, beware of jealousy. Because

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it erases. It's like a razor. And he said, I am not I don't mean that. It erases

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the hair

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like the razor, but it erases the dean takes the whole Dean away.

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So be careful. What's the meaning of jealousy your brothers and sisters?

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Jealous jealousy.

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Is the grudge in somebody's heart when they feel somebody is blessed with something

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so they would wish that a loss of

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Kind of Tara will take it away from him

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you know Allah Subhana Allah has blessed you with a motorbike right

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and then you're starting it in the morning

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and somebody passes by you in a black Mercedes 230

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c look at the machines are always up we'll learn

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how do these people make money This must be a thief male luck Wish me luck crush him in his car inshallah

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stock Why?

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Why? This is jealousy.

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Why don't you do the opposite? say Oh Allah bless his car for him.

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And give me a Mercedes like this.

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What about this? Isn't this better?

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This is a good heart. This is a pure heart. So let's try to work on our hearts.

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Don't be jealous of someone. If Allah Subhana Allah bless him or something.

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So jealousy is one of the most serious diseases. But somebody amongst the audience might ask me this question is like, you know, so that feeling of envy. is haram all the way? No, it's handled only in two scenarios, the process lm said, la hacer the lF if

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you can only be envious of someone in two scenarios was Hola Hola.

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Someone Allah subhanaw taala has listed them with the knowledge of the Quran. So for Hawaii, Lu en la de la otra for na. So he recites it and teaches it like you know day and night. So you should be envious of that person. Meaning the good meaning of envy.

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Meaning, Oh Allah, keep his, you know, keep that blessing for him. And give me the same

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was an act of love and man for salata. Hola, hola, Kitty Hawk, and someone who's wealthy, he has lots of money, and he spends that money to please Allah subhanaw taala. So when you see that person say, Oh Allah, you know, increase him in sha Allah and His blessing and give me like him and I will do like him and Charlie.

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These are the two scenarios.

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Let's move into another lesson.

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We talked about the dream.

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We talked about the dream.

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There are three types of dreams.

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First one is called Hadith or nefs.

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Second one is from shaitan and this is my

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third one is from a man from Allah subhanaw taala and this is called Rukia. And this is what he said to him the toxic rupee anchor.

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So let's talk about each one in detail. First one is called Hadith and knifes meaning you don't want you are obsessed

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during the day with something

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What's your name brother

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marijuana marijuana.

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What type of car would you like to drive in Sala

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you want to support the national

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Okay, which which type of car Ferrari

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gonna run for the elections Mashallah. I love Malaysia.

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He will write this on the on the back of the car. I love Malaysia.

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every time our one walks in the street, and he sees a proton. He stops there and he starts dreaming. Wow.

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I'm seeing that in Shaolin 10 years from now. I'm going to save my allowance

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and I'm going to have my proton

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within color.

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What color would you like?

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Red, Green Mashallah. it matter? What is so much a lot? Green

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is a fashionable man.

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So, my green futon will be parked in front of the house.

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And I'm going to take my father to the masjid.

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So he keeps thinking about the protons all the time. So when he goes to sleep

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What do you think he's gonna dream of

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And once the person wakes up if you ask him, Do you remember the dreams? Like? No, I think the only word that I remember is proton, like him sitting in memory. So this is called hardiness, when you are so preoccupied with something, okay, it just comes to your dream. And the sign to note is that you will not remember anything and it's very short.

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This one just disregard the tomori Okay. Now the second type of dream

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is a nightmare. And this comes from shaitan.

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You know?

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How many people are meditated? Raise your hands by the people.

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Oh, there is there are two cameras that you can tie that anyone

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arrives at the back. Okay. So now, you know, fights in marriage. I call them the spices of marriage.

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Because there are no fights in marriages. Marriages become monotonous.

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You know. So imagine before you go to bed, you have a fight with your wife.

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And then you go to bed.

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And while you're sleeping,

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all of a sudden,

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your wife is coming from the kitchen

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with something in her hand.

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And she's coming close.

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She's coming close. Until the knife is exactly very close to your neck and you say, no, no. And then you wake up.

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And once you wake up,

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you look next to you.

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And there is an angel sleeping. She doesn't have a knife in her hand.

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But you know what shaitan will do?

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You're gonna look at her and say, huh?

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Because of the fight last night, this is what you're thinking about.

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You know what I better do it before you do it. Let me go to the kitchen.

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So what you have seen in this dream

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is from shaitan

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Listen carefully. If it is something bad like this, this is a nightmare and it's from shaitan Why? Because one of the jobs of shoo shoo

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is to

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try to cause enmity between people

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specially between the husband and the wife

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so if you see something bad like this, what do you need to do?

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Or what you need to do change your site and seek refuge with Allah subhanaw taala from shaitan and puff to your left three times like this.

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And the change site

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sometimes we see in a dream that I'm driving my car and I'm crashing with another car. You know what some people do? They woke up in the morning.

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Not gonna drive my car today.

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This is shaitan again trying to scare you. We do not act upon my mirrors. Because shaytaan again is trying to scare you. So say door

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the door that you when you leave the house bismil letter cultural La La La La quwata illa Allah, say the door when you inshallah start riding your car.

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And you say Subhanallah Lisa Corona, Hakuna la Marina in a lot of Manila, no collarbone and Chela drive your car. So first of all, we just ignore it. We know it's from shaitan and we don't act upon it.

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third type of dreams is what you safaris sir, um, so

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sometimes you see yourself in a like in a very vast land and it's all green. All trees and and fruits and you know people smiling as if it is gin. Right? This is a good sign from Allah subhanaw taala.

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So if you see something good in your dream, what should you do like is for Instagram? So what he saw, the prophet Salim said, share it, only with those whom you love and trust.

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Because you see jacobellis Ram, what did he say to his son? He said, do not share it with your brothers because they have jealousy in their hearts.

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So share a good dream with those whom you love and trust.

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a funny story is a scholar called ethnicity.

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And wherever you go, you'll find that book and Arabic and translated in languages, ethnicity and didn't write a book about interpretation of dreams, he was a scholar.

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And interpretation of dreams, by the way, is not a science. If you see this, this means this, and somebody can teach you how to interpret dreams. No, it's a blessing from Allah subhanaw taala. Allah has given this specific use of Alan's Salah work

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book, and thus Allah subhanaw taala selected you while you are lemo Kamiya when I had the and teach you the interpretation of dreams,

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and our beloved prophet salon Prophet Mohammed was excellent also at interpreting dreams of a worker of DLR and was, you know, an expert in interpreting dreams. So it's not everyone. So everyone, so a science, it's a blessing from Allah subhanaw taala.

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So anyway, at the time of ordinary people after him, you know, they compiled the book, and they wrote his name, just used his name, because he was famous. But he didn't write the book about interpretation of dreams. But anyway, Allah has given him the blessing of the ability to interpret dreams. So one time the ruler at his time, he saw a dream. And he wanted an interpretation. So he came to him. And he knocked on the door, and the maid opened the door.

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And the ruler asked him, like, you know, Where's the urbanicity? citizen? upstair resting? Is it because I saw a dream? And I want him to interpret this for me. She said, What is the dream, he said, I saw that I was like, climbing a high place. And then I fell down and I broke my knee. She said, don't share it with anyone and go home. So like, imagine the maid is saying this to the ruler, says, like, you know what? You're telling me what to do. And he pushed her. And he started climbing the stairs. And he fell down and he broke his knee.

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saying, Ah, ethnicity and walk opposite sheets told you. She told you don't share it because it will happen.

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And it did happen. So if it's something bad, do not talk about it at all. Don't sell to others don't say I saw a snake last night in my dream.

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To go there. Don't go there.

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Okay, let's move to another lesson from surat Yusuf. And here we're going to talk about

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again, the husband wife relationship.

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We all know about Aziz. Okay. Al Aziz was something like the Minister of Finance

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at that time in Egypt

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and his wife

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played an important role in the story of use of police.

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Because when they took use of La Salaam as a slave,

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and they bolt him

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so after he was a free person, he became a slave. And he is serving now at the house of realizes he was very young. He is almost like six to seven years old, according to the books.

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And he spent many years so who raised him, the wife of a disease.

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So he was in her house for almost more than 30 years.

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And our beloved Professor lamb says something about us visit Lockhart Oh to use of shuttle German, Yusuf Ali Salaam was given half the beauty on Earth.

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So he was so handsome.

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And who raised them, the wife of ISIS, and she was very beautiful woman.

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So imagine now, he was a child, and she was raising him.

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So he like his feelings towards her as if she's his mother. Right?

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But then she developed other feelings when he grew up, and he became an adult. And this is where Allah spotter told us. What are the two Let's see who are FIBA and FC wahala will ever call a title and

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first listen here.

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Mixing leads to problems.

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Mixing leads to problems

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because how would

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haraam relationship starts.

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Can anybody tell me? How would any illegal relationship start?

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Can somebody tell me? What's the first thing?

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eyes looking right? Do you agree with him looking? Now there is something happens before looking.

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If the other gender is not there, you can look right? So it's mixing, right? That's what I'm trying to say at the beginning. So starts with mixing. And then after mixing, looking and after looking,

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talking, and then meeting, right, so this is lesson number one. Okay, so let's go back to the sore. So this is what happened.

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She seduced him. Allah subhanaw taala said that she made a perfect plan for the children. Allah subhanaw taala said, What are our that will lead to a fee of 80 an FC, walk alacati everyone I want you to stop yet in Arabic. Allah says it was alacati didn't say what Allah had the luck I committed Allah. If Allah says Allah only, it means like she fasten the door. For Allah smart Allah said she firmly fasten the doors. The books have subtly said they were seven doors, a door behind a door behind a door. So she had a plan.

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And look at the words in the in the in the ayah tells you about the personality of the disease.

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Alas, it was wa Wada to Letty, who are fee by Tia, it's not by Aziz.

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But this tells you from the very beginning, she is the one who is in command.

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She's the man of the house.

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Why? I'll tell you this. And this why statement by the way, sort of see it or not.

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If the woman doesn't find a real man in the house, she refuses to live with another woman. Then she becomes the man.

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Let me say this again.

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If the woman doesn't find a real man in the house, she refuses to live with another woman.

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Then she turns out, she turns out to be the man.

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Is that clear?

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Okay, I'll give you an example. And by man here, by the way, I don't mean somebody with long mustaches.

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Or somebody with like strong biceps, like muscles. This is not manliness. This is not manliness.

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I'm saying a good Muslim who knows his job

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to guide his family to jinn. Because Allah subhana wa tada summed up the mission

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of a believer in so number 66 and number six, it's very simple. So number 66, at the hareem and number six, Allah subhanaw taala said yeah,

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man who say Nami Allah

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Yes, Allah Allah saying, Yeah, you're Latina. O you who believe because you left your houses and you came after nine o'clock, just to increase your knowledge about your team. So you deserve inshallah, this title? Yeah, you had Latina and I want inshallah, every time you hear this in the Quran, interact with it say, yes, Allah, I wish I can be amongst those true believers. I am here. What's the command because of the Lebanon Assad said, after yada yada Dena Emiratis mentioned at nine times in the Quran alone, all those commands you to do something or Allah would warn you to stay away from something. So when you

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listen carefully

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so in this Allah smart Allah said, Yeah,

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Nah, that's your job. Oh, you who believe Save yourselves and your families from hellfire.

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You know, what do we do today? Some of us work, you know,

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three jobs are you doing? I want to secure the future of my kids.

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By what? By buying them a house by buying them this by buying them this and you don't have time to teach them.

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you don't have time to spend with them to teach them good character.

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So what is the future?

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What is the future of your kids? You want to know it towards the end of Southern hash again. Yeah.

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are you who believe be conscious of Allah, Allah and see what have you provided for tomorrow?

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Tomorrow is the future right? What's tomorrow? Is it Thursday? No. Tomorrow and this is a means to live judgment. It means when you meet with Allah subhanaw taala

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Did you equip your kids with something that when they pass inshallah, on the Surat they will be successful and they will make it because the Surat is on top of jahannam if you pass the Surat you marry two gentlemen, if you can pass this rocky will fall into Hana.

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You see what I'm saying? This is the future of the kids. So that's what I'm saying. So a man shall do his job. And the woman should do her job. So when the woman marries, she wants a man

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who will give her security who will take care of her and lead her surgeon

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but the wife of a disease, she knows that she's not a man. So she was doing everything herself. Even Suppan law when she did what she did, and she asked this valet stram to commit adultery with her. And he refused. So he ran away from her. She chased him to the door was debacle.

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And they raised to the door while the commies

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so she tore his shirt from the back. Why? Because he's running away from her. And she was trying to catch him. So she thought his shirt from the bank

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suddenly when he opened the door, she found her hospital in front of her to

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look at the way she reacted right away. And look at her strong personality.

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a Holic. So

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right away, she accused us of Alyssa. She said, What is the punishment for someone who wanted to do something wrong with your wife?

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Now she's asking question, right?

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Shouldn't she wait to hear an answer?

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she should wait. But she knows that she is not dealing with a man. He's not a man. He's not gonna say anything. He's not gonna take any decision. So she made the decision. She completed by saying in

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you're asked a question, wait, wait for your man to speak. No, she said, except that his punishment, he should be thrown into jail or should be beaten up.

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Why? Because she still loves him.

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She could have said he knew

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he should be killed.

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But she said she'd be sent to jail. She'll have access to the gym, beaten up. Okay, she'll take him to the hospital and bring him back home.

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But look at UCLA.

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You can choose fi Salaam is teaching us a lesson.

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If you are right, if you are truthful. Don't tell anyone. Look at this. First of all, he's a stranger. He's not from Egypt. His family comes from Palestine.

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Right? second challenge. He is a servant.

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He doesn't even have his freedom. So if your master tells you to do something, you have no option but to say yes or yes. You have no other option. The Master is talking to you.

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Third, nobody knows him in Egypt. If he did what he did, nobody knows him.

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Fourth, he's a young man full of power.

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And she's a beautiful woman.

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But this is a lesson for the young people. Once she did what she did, and she fastened the doors, and she said hi Tilak I am yours was

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The first word that came out of his mouth.

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He said, Oh, Allah helped me in this situation. Yes, he's a prophet, and prophets are invaluable. They cannot make such mistakes. But yet somehow as a human being, he said, Oh Allah, it's time now to synchronize with you. I might feel weak and respond to the Omen Please help me. So when you are in a situation like this, the first word says could should come out of your mouth is

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Maha de la. Mandala means, Oh Allah, I resolve to you, you're the only one who can help me in this situation.

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And then he reminded her he said, in the hora B, there are two opinions of tafsir. With the word Rob here refers to Allah or the first disease, but the stronger opinion is that it refers to a disease.

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Because the word drop is used in the sutra, many times referring to the king, the king is not

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figuratively speaking.

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Arabic FSL is not talking about the lions talking about the king. So he said in the horror of B as an MS why he is the one who asked you remember, like if you go back a little bit in the surah, when they bought him, or college, terraforming? massala marotti accademy marathwada as a foreigner

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said, like, you know, isn't this the one who gave me a place to live, and he provides for me. And when I betray him, I betray him with his own wife

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in the whole life of Bali moon, those who transmits the limits of Allah subhanaw taala will never be successful. This is a statement and this is one of the resistance in the soul. Those who transgress the limits of Allah will never be successful.

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And then

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use the valleys Salaam because he didn't do anything wrong. Once she said this, and she mentioned the two punishment. What did he say?

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His voice was out loud. He said.

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Call a

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Nazi. It was her who tried this with me.

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I didn't do anything wrong. Because if he was wrong,

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if he was really not innocent, at that point, you know, his reaction would be like this. He'll be ashamed and embarrassed. But he didn't do anything wrong. And suppiler the next lesson alone always prove the innocence of innocent people. Because they brought someone from her side washer hadisha hidden.

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Why? Because if they bring someone else you can say he is biased. So they brought someone from her own family.

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He said, Let's look in Cana Kami. So put them in Oman.

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For South Dakota, hormonal Caribbean if his shirt is thrown from the front. So he was the one who's trying to attack here. And she was trying to defend herself. So she will tear. She will tear the shirt from the front or in Canada commies who put them in the war. But if the shirt is stolen from the back, then he's telling the truth. And she's lying. And of course, everybody, you know, saw that the shirt was stolen from the back so it was her.

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And despite the truth, sometimes people with power will hide the truth.

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And news Salaam oosten Tucci

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to hide the crime of the wonderful ISIS

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and look at the strong man after everything was clear. Look at the reaction. Can you imagine? Let me ask you here. Those who are married if you see a man with your wife, how would you react?

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How would you react?

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Let's ask the new generation

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what is turned away from

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what's your name brother.

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So hi, Mashallah. So hi. So I born you marry? If you see a man with a wife, what would you do?

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with him?

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I myself, I would kill him.

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I'm serious.

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And that's what the Sahabi said to the processor.

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When he asked me alone, he said if you were to see a man with your wife, what would you do? He said I would kill both of them.

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And then the Sahaba would like what?

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And the professor said Atocha. bonamana biologia.

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Are you amazed

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By the jealousy of sand

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and this is called protective jealousy. It's not the bad jealousy because if the man does not feel that protective jealousy for his wife who else deserves that?

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He said well law he in the lovely Roman side of Salaam said I have more productive jealousy than sad will lie in the law her love your woman neoman sad and Allah subhana wa tada has that more than me and sad.

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But let me take you back to Egypt at the time.

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And look at the reaction of Al Aziz.

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who's supposed to be a man

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or did he say

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after everything was proven, and Allah subhanaw taala said

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he turned around

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and he looked at her and he said in homie KD Khan

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This is because of your plotting in okay the Konami

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or women when they plot you can out do them

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and then he turned to us if he said you're so for our autobahn

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please use don't disgrace us don't share this would enable the contraction of demand. And then he turned it to his wife, he said was stuffy, really big in Akiko demeanor. He asked Allah to forgive you. You were wrong.

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what a brave reaction. Is this a man?

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Let's move on conclude with two more lessons and inshallah we'll open the floor for q&a.

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Another lesson from switches. is the main lesson

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is the main theme of sawtooth.

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I'm going to ask you a question.

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Is there anybody here in the room?

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They have never been through hardships.

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Is there anybody here in the room? They don't have problems in their life?

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How do you deal with them? How do you see them?

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brothers and sisters? Allah subhanaw taala summed up the meaning of this life. In one word,

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the Naboo Leah below home. Lina, Vitaly, the same word. This life is a test. This is not the real life.

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The real life is

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in Africa.

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And that's what Allah subhanaw taala said, and sort of Lanka boots on number 29 and number 64.

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Warmer the hill higher dunia

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and this word the life is nothing but amusement and play

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real life

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who's talking to brother or sisters? Who is making that strong statement? Is it me? Is it the processor, it is the one who created life and let the helical motor while higher, layer below accom to test you. So don't count in this life. Whatever happens to you in this life? Remember this hadith the prophet SAW Selim said

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the Umbrella Movement amazing is the situation of the believer of Allah subhanaw taala in ombre hula, hula hula. Whatever happens in his or her life is good for them.

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Either a sabato Sarah, what's gonna happen to in this union? Either something good or something bad right? Either assata Shakur, Allah, when something good happens to him or her, they thank Allah and they're grateful to him. So this is good for them. Why the sabato Dora Saba, for Ghana.

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And when something bad happens, they are patient, and it's good for them. So what's the meaning of the life of a Muslim? Repeat after me the statement. Gratitude when given

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patience when denied.

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That's the meaning of your life. What a lucky

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You sell him through law. We're a law denies you a job, a wife, a car, money, a child, be patient, and allow it weren't you. So the meaning of our life is between gratitude and patience. If Allah gives me it doesn't mean I'm less pleased with me, Allah testing me, shall I share it? Shall I spend it the way Allah likes. And last part, Allah denies me a child, a job, a husband, a wife, a car, a house, wherever I lost this thing, my patience

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and sort of abusive. I teach a class a whole class with a measurable Institute called beautiful patients, a sub region.

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Because if you want to find the meaning of patients in the Koran, it's embodied in Surat Yusuf.

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And the situation that I want to share with you is when the brothers heard about the dream of yours, and they really plotted something against him, and they took him from his father, and they throw him in the well. Can you imagine the brothers and sisters, brothers? How can they have a living conscience to take their own young brother and they are like, they are 10 like, you know, vigorous young men

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and it was used on his little brother Binyamin. The like, you know, these were from one mother and Yusef and Bunnymen, or like from another mother

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Subhan Allah, the mother abusive and Binyamin. She died after she delivered Binyamin so they don't have a mother

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and they're young. So they felt envious of them simply because of what because their father give them much time and much care. Is this unfair?

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No, it's not. Why? Because when they were young, they were given the same time and the same care but they forgot that because they didn't realize it.

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And this is why they said

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if you read in the eye a lot

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for us for what he had to say it in his corner. So for who have

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been mean

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wanna know Spa in

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mubi Let's analyze this is

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his column, the old set together. The Tin brothers have useful SLM from another mother.

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They use for a who indeed use of and his brother Binyamin. a habit will I've been a minute hamdulillah they didn't say, you know, our Father loves them, and he doesn't love us hamdulillah they prove that their father loves both, you know, use of an Binyamin and them too. But the problem is, he loves them more. He gave them time more. Didn't you ask yourselves Why? No, they never. But they looked at it from another perspective, which is wrong. They said, when

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we are a group of young men, he can count on us these are children who should take care of us more than them. Is that true?

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Is that fair?

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But grown young? You know men, I should take care of them and if the children

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and these children lost their mother

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and they made a conclusion they said in a banner, they're talking about the profit jacoba salon Laffy Dali movie is in great error, Mashallah.

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And then after that, they plan the crime to get rid of their brother

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and they plan the tow bar before they committed the crime.

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It's exactly like some people today they say you know what? Let's inshallah have some cocaine. one kilogram

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will make 1 million and make Toba after

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you see the plan from now? They will do something haram and they are planning the trouble from now. They don't know that like 999 is there right? And they might catch them at any time.

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So that's exactly what they were doing. They said

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to us for our for our done. Why? What do you want to kill your brother? Or like banish him? Like in a land like away from his father? Yeah, Hola, como abiko We just want our father to look at us, which means like to give us attention. You will kill your own brother, just for the attention of your father.

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You see how they were wrong.

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What's the kuromon body here common saw the Hayden chalet October and even become righteous people after that, so kill and make Toba inshallah

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so this is another lesson, we can do this,

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we can do this.

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And this is why Subhanallah there is nothing called perfect crime, they took him

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throw him in the world,

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and they took off his shirt, and they brought it back. And listen, people who lie

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they will always be discovered. So they choose something they choose the right time to come back. So they will not be discovered because they're going to act as if they're crying, but they're not really crying.

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So what describes all of this? What

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buku choose the leisure. They choose the time of Asia when it's completely dark. And they will cry. Or the last or brother they're acting.

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Or Father in heaven.

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Listen, this is the first lie they're going to be discovered now because the night before when they picked the phone up to send him they said our sin Houma and then you're outta Ya Allah sent him with us insha Allah and we promise you he is going to eat and drink abundantly and play all the areas nobody's gonna stop

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and now you're saying in the hub Nana Starbuck, Osaka I used to for in de matar Anna, we went racing, and we lift uses to guard the bags

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is nothing called perfect crime. learn the lesson. And this is why they say it couldn't have been forgotten the Cora if you want to be a professional liar. You have to remember every lie that you lied write them down.

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A lie just today said this or I have to lie to them.

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One day lies have no legs.

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You will be discovered. They just like slip.

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They said in

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You promised to take him to let him enjoy and play and eat. And you're telling me you went racing. And you put him to God the backs.

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I look at this. We don't we say Arabic Yeah, casual mareeba Nicola Houdini, you know when a person does something wrong, he always feels inside like no everybody can see what's inside him. She's like, you know, they know.

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So they said

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you will not believe us

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shouldn't say

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that's what it is.

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Not only that, again, there is nothing called perfect crime. What did they do?

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They remember what I told you. They took off his shirt before they throw him into the world. And they they slaughter a goat. And they got some blood and they stained some parts of the shirt was blood. Okay.

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did the wolf eat him? No. But when they ask their father

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to give them permission to take use of with them. What did he say?

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color in Nila zucchini and

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just by the fact that you take him away from me. That will make my heart sad.

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What a half cooler. Want to manhole off alone. And I'm afraid that the wolf might devour him. While you're not attending to him. They said hurry go. He saved us the you know the excuse when we come back with him the wolf devour them. So as if jacobellis salaam gave them the execuse ready.

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So when they came back, you know, they said, Carlo. Yeah, I've been in the habit of aquatera can I use Amazon? For Akela who

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sue the wolf devour him. So now, they have done and there are lots of other asset watcher

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commies he beat me.

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So Allah subhanaw taala describe the blood that they came up with on his shirt. He didn't say false blood, because false gods will be done in Baku, but Allah subhanho wa Taala to exaggerate and how serious the crime is. He described the blood itself as if it's the embodiment of life.

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He said demin Kevin, will we use the noun to describe the noun in Arabic? This is exaggeration.

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It's something beyond imagination.

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Or Joe Allah Camus he be the main character. And that's the last lesson. Carnival so one at a time for sukham Amara, yourselves beautified something which is bad for you. It made it easy for you. For me. It's time now to ask Allah subhanaw taala to grant me beautiful patience.

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Why the brothers sisters? What did he say this? And look at the next word he said, while law will Mr. matassa It's only Allah in this situation who can help me of what you are describing in fact the word the testimonial doesn't mean describe which is the literal meaning of toss if it means take the Boone

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and Alaska This is sort of number one at a poorly matassa for Altoona to como el Caribe.

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Hi there, hello. Ha ha. So tasa fear means lie.

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So sit to them. It's only Allah Who can help me in this situation? Why? I want you to think about this. Can you imagine if one of your children, one of your sons is coming to tell you that I cut the arm of my other brother. He's your son too. Right? So what should you do?

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You punish him by cutting his arm.

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It's as if you're cutting your own arm.

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Because these are his two sons.

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So it's a situation where it becomes very, very difficult on the heart. Imagine his sons are telling him

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that we killed or we banished or we did something bad or brother.

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So he said it's only Allah Who can help me to have patience in this situation.

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And the Basilan was asked what's beautiful patience, he said was sobre la de la Shaka was beautiful patience. He said it is patience in a situation where you just be patient and don't complain.

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And people who study the Quran to try to find mistakes in the Koran, as they claim called the orientalists. team. They came and said, okay, your Prophet said it's, it's patience without complaint right later on in the surah. What did you know? jacobellis Ramsay, when they came to him and they told, you know, when they see him like, you know, crying and crying and crying

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and they said to light after autoscroll you have a heart attack or a heroine out again. So do you will keep remembering yourself for many years and is crying until you will be on the verge of death or you will die you will kill yourself crying. What did he say

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in high school with the word Hosni illovo.

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Hold on, he said, he

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said uncomplaining. So the Oriental said, How come that's your Prophet said it's patience without complaint, and jacobellis me saying here, I am complaining my anguish and my sadness only to Allah. And the answer is, when the professor said without complaining, he meant complaining to other human beings who cannot change the situation. They need help like you. But if we don't complain to Allah, to whom shall we complain?

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If we cannot complain to Allah, to whom else shall we complain?

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So brothers and sisters, if you have a problem, cry to Allah, complain to Allah, but never ever complain from Allah. And that's what most of us do.

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And I'm going to conclude with this example. You know,

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and this is like, this is like real situations in real life. When you

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look at your neighbors, sometimes we're not Muslims. Okay. And Mashallah,

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in the parking lot, they have five cars.

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And they have very good job.

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And they have five children.

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And you as a Muslim

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have only bus 11

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I call this plus 11 your legs. You don't have anything. You don't even have a motorcycle. Although I see Mashallah lots of sisters are driving the motorcycles here. We've never seen this in Egypt or in Canada.

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you have only one child and he's disabled.

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He has this ability

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you don't have a good job.

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You know, what do we do at that point?

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We look up and say Why?

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They are Kfar

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and they have five cars and five children

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with green hair and green eyes.

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And I only have one child and he's disabled and I pray seven times a day. They never pray to you.

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What are we doing now?

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We're complaining from Allah. We can do this. Alice this thing your Give me the word.

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And smart use of is called beautiful patience. So your life is between when a law gives you say Alhamdulillah when a law denies you is testing your

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concluded a statement by Mr. Malhotra body of law and I want you to write it and put it in front of your desk in front of your door. Wherever you go. Keep it with you. It said every time Allah subhana wa dialler tests me.

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I thank him for four reasons.

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Allahu Akbar. Think about this. What Allah subhanaw taala makes it difficult for him. He Thanks a lot. Who amongst us here the audience? Thank Allah when we are assisted.

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Who goes through hardship? Do we remember to thank Allah? Do we think positively as they say today?

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Do we see the good aspect or the positive aspect of it?

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So it says every time Allah subhana wa tada will send a hardship my way will test me. I will thank Allah, can we learn to do this inshallah, to thank Allah when we go through a hardship for four reasons, and write them so that you know them exactly. And oola an alum Takashi Dini.

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Meaning first, it's because I still have my faith. I didn't lose my faith because of that Archer. hamdulillah because the greatest blessing ever is to be a Muslim.

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How many people when they go through hardship, they start cursing, and they leave the team?

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second, and third year, and Nehalem, Takenaka Birmingham. So Second, it could have been worse. What did they lose a car hamdullah my life

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and my family are okay. Everything else? You know, I can make it up alone make it up for me. What did they lose some money? I can make money money cannot make me.

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So think positively. So Second, it could have been worse. I lost one finger handle, I still have nine.

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You know what people say? If you have, you know, a bottle of water or a glass of water, and it's half empty. I can tell you what type of person you are. When you answer that question. What do you think of this cup of water? It's like, you know, it's half empty, you're a negative person.

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But when you say

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it's helpful, you're a positive person. I want you to be positive. Think of what you have not what you have lost. thank Allah for what Allah subhanaw taala has left with you because Allah could take everything from you.

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Third, inhaca forgotten lism B. Third, it is expiation for my sins. Were a lot this you and your patient, Allah forgives your sins. And this is why the professor himself if you see someone, you know, and Allah subhanaw taala keeps testing him at test after test after test. It's because Allah loves him or loves her. Why? Because Allah wants to forgive all their sins before they meet with him. So he wants them to meet with him pure with no sin.

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You know what other people see this like, you know, stuck for life. Allah loves him, he wouldn't make him sick.

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He will make him lose his job. No Allah he he lost the job because he was doing harm in that job allowed to give him another better job and shall always think positively, always.

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arrabiata and this is very important, and good luck Musab. In fact, in Ibiza, Salah Mia who he said the fourth reason is that any loss in this dunya if you compare

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To loosen off Panasonic, which is nothing.

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And that's, by the way, that's what the professor says in the Hadith, he said, if anyone is stricken with any calamity or disaster or problem in his life, let him compare it to losing me, and it will be nothing in his eyes.

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And I'll conclude with this.

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Or what

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happened is super important.

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Allah subhanaw taala has tested him

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with a disease in one of his foot.

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His foot was, you know,

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afflicted with something that similar to what we call cancer today.

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So they told him, listen, if we keep waiting without doing something to your foot, this is gonna spread in your body and you're gonna die. So the only way is to amputate your foot to cut your foot. And at that time, there was there was no anaesthetic, there was no you know, intensive care room or anything, or unit. So they will only use like a knife or a sore just to cut his foot.

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So they said, shall we get you to drink so you become drunk, so you wouldn't feel the pain? He said, No, la, la la de La Masia de la.

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I will never drink drinking soda said our article musky, like, you know, just to get you to, you know, something that will just so they can feel the pain.

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He said, No. If you want to cut my foot, let me make odo

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and pray and cut my foot

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while I'm in Egypt.

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So he made odo.

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And he started praying.

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And while he wasn't too rude,

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they started cutting his foot.

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And the only thing he was saying,

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and until they finished, they brought hot water to spill it on his foot to stop the bleeding.

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And then he turned around and he said,

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Give me my foot.

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So they gave him his foot. And he raised his foot to Allah subhanaw taala. And he said, alone when you took an 11, Sheba illamasqua pachala the spirit needed agenda for Allah.

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I bear witness. I never used this foot that's cut now, to go to any place that will displease you, will Allah make my foot go to gentlemen, and make me join my foot later on.

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So while he was making that, they came to him to tell him that one of his four children died.

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He continued to Doha, so patiently by saying, Oh Allah, you have given me four limbs you have given me two hands and two feet. You have taken one foot if taking one limb, but he left me three. So Allah thank you for leaving me three.

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Thank you for leaving me three.

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See what Allah has left you. Not once you have missed

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or Allah, you have given me four children. You have taken one, but you left me three. So thank you for leaving three children to me.

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That's the meaning of beautiful patients

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