Nadim Bashir – The Smiles and Tears of Prophet Muhammad #22 – Be considerate of people’s feelings

Nadim Bashir
AI: Summary © The speaker discusses the importance of being considerate when it comes to feelings, particularly when it comes to family members. They also mention a person who experienced emotional pain and was cautious and cautious in their behavior. The speaker emphasizes the need to be mindful of others' feelings and encourage consideration when it comes to family members.
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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato Bismillah Rahman Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi hmri. And I'm about one of the things that we learn about US law. So Allah what He was saying was that he had exempli, a character, ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. And so the column he says, we're in Nicola, Allah, who looking at all the, the problems, character is something that we all are so we study about it, we try to implement in our life. And this is one thing that the Prophet saw some he did, and he was so good at and through his o'clock and through his character, he was able to bring people closer to Allah subhanho wa

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taala. One thing that we learned from the state of the province I sent him was that he had this great deal of emotional intelligence. He knew how people are feeling and he would adjust accordingly. He knew where people that situation and the problems that they're going through, and he would, he would put himself in that same situation, and he would empathize and sympathize with people. For example, one time we find that the son of Abuja Hall and we all know who Abu Jahan was. Yet we find that when his son would have died as not a person who believed in Allah subhanho wa taala, he was a cafe, but nonetheless his son a Chroma, he actually came to the Prophet sallallahu

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ala he was salam and he converted to Islam. And just think about this. How much was was Saddam was careful about his feelings Subhanallah the promise of Saddam he told us to have earlier Donham that when a coma comes, you will not refer to him as a son of Abu Jamal because he may be offended by that. He's coming to he's coming to accept Islam. So be considerate of his feelings. If you say the word Abuja, which means the father of ignorance, he may be hurt, he might be offended by it, but rather use the name that the Quraysh would refer to him as which is I will hug him and so forth. So this is something that we learn from us allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the story I want to share

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with you, which is a very short story and not even necessarily a story, but this is this shows us the tears This is an incident where the possum he was crying, and this is this happens when was summer urbanization. Now first of all, who is summer urbanization or summer urbanization is the son of Zane, who was the adopted son of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So Zayed Al Khalifa. He passes away in a battle, and his son is coming and it was somehow able to Zaid was such that, you know, he was so beloved to the Prophet sallallahu ala he was salam. It was almost as if this is his grandchild, because you have Zaid, who he has adopted and Zaid has a son who summer and so the

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province of salaam he loves summer so much so that even the children in Medina whenever they want to get something approved or when they want to ask Muslim a question, they will not go themselves they will send Osama because they will say that was sama is someone that person he loves very much. So when Osama came to his to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam He also began to share that emotional moment with with Osama because someone has lost his biological father, here, the person has lost his adopted son. And of course, they're sharing a moment with Paulson he made him feel good about it. He said some positive things about it. And even

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the next day when it's mentioned that, that he came again, Oh, someone even said he came and he was crying and he was emotional. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he made him feel good. And he you know, he consoled him in that kind of situation. And you know, subhanAllah what we learned from this is once again the character of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. But we also learned that how we should be considerate of other people's feelings. If the Prophet SAW Selim is being considered here of his family member, this is, you know, somebody who was it was almost like a family member to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, if this is how he is so concerned of his feelings of

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his emotional state, then think about how much you and I, we should be considerate, and be aware of other people's feelings, especially within our own family, today's Subhanallah many of us, we just simply we are we're living in this world, that we have a complaint about everyone in the family, that how they don't take care of me and how you know, people violate me and so forth. And it's just about me, myself and I, or as when we learn from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is that he was no

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were worried about me, myself and I he was always worried about other people. He was always making sure that he would console other people. He'll make other people feel good. And he was considered a making sure or he was cautious and making sure that not to offend anyone. So how much do we need to do that within our own families? The question is within ourselves, and the question we need to ask ourselves is how much a mind like Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, so always be considerate of other people's feelings? Always look out for others. Always try to put a smile on other people's face when it comes to your wife when it comes to your children. Always try to be considerate of

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their feelings is something we all have to work on ask ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada to give us all the sympathy the empathy of us wa Salatu was Salam amiable Alameen Zachman Lucha Assalamu alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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what's going on? I don't know who

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won gentlemen Eileen.

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