Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #639 Prohibition Of Breaking Ties And Relationships

Muhammad Salah
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a Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of gardens of the pious Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa ala Keba to Lynmouth 13 one out one in olive oil mean, or Salah Allahu wa salam O Allah Carla, so you were in our Corinne and Avena Muhammad in one early he was so heavy as my my dear viewers Today's episode is number 639 in the series of Guardians of the pious by Imam nawawi may Allah have mercy on him, and he will be the second in chapter number 280 by Buddha Freeman who draw a new vein and Muslimeen focus Allah 30 A year mean in early with art in FINMA jewelry, out of our whoring Buffy screen owner with the

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prohibition of severing the ties and cutting off relationship among Muslims for more than three days except if there is an appalling innovation or an act of rebellious pneus or whatever is similar to it.

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The first reference we have today is a Hadith because the last episode, we covered thoroughly. The two beautiful I asked the owner of Serato EDA and the one of Surah alto Jura and today what Hadith number 15 191 which is the sound Hadith agreed upon its authenticity. And it is narrated by Anna Sidney Malik the servant of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him.

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Excuse me, an NSL Radi Allahu Anhu con

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call Allah rasool Allah He sung Allahu Allah, he was a llama, la Capo while

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we're on Earth, horrible.

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To her said, Who will call no Eva de la Juana. What are your Hill Loli muslimin Ania Jorah AHA who focus on us

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the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said in the sound Hadith, which is agreed upon its authenticity.

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Do not desert one another.

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Do not

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turn your backs to each other.

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Do not

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hurt nor hate each other.

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We'll call on rebelled Allahu Ana and do not be jealous to one another first then become as fellow brothers and sisters and slaves of Allah.

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When I held only Muslim in Ania, Jura ha who focus LS, and it is not permitted for a Muslim to desert to abandon and to stop talking to his brother for more than three days.

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This is one of the Hadith, which shows the typical application of blocking the means.

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Luck in the means of hatred, blocking the means of severing the ties blocking the means of creating friction among Muslims in the Muslim community.

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Which echoes other Hadith in which interview Salallahu Alaihe Salam forbade and nourish and forbade

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proposing

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to a girl while somebody else have proposed to her and forbade offering a higher price to buy some goods where somebody's already processing the transaction, because automatically all of that would lead to hurt feeling hatred, envy and discord.

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unity among the members of the Muslim ummah is a must. It is compulsory in an unmarked manana ECWA the believers should be old brothers, brothers and sisters, and should do whatever it takes to prove that and to practice that accordingly. Anything would lead to hatred, discord server in the prize. Envy is forbidden.

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Any means will lead

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too, that is absolutely forbidden, not just this light. And since NWO sallallahu alayhi salam is being logical and practical in every advice of his, so, he recognizes human nature,

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a husband and wife may fight, siblings may fight, parents and children may have some sort of friction, misunderstanding, and it will be extremely difficult to immediately say, you have to remove this out of your heart. And you have to forget about the past reconcile immediately. So, he said, give them some time,

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a day or two. But the third is last beyond three days, it becomes forbidden, it becomes a major sin due to the following consequences, terrible consequences, which we'll be discussing in the following a hadith insha Allah. So maximum three days, throughout the three days, each one of the opponents, Muslims are having some sort of misunderstanding, or discord, or they're not talking to each other. Throughout the three days, each one of them is trying to do some treatment to his or to her heart. And he's trying to read throughout those a hadith, in order to have enough courage to take the initiative and go to the other party and say I'm sorry, or say salam, or big the eyes, in order to

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remove this mountain of hatred, which has evolved all of a sudden, maybe because of aerial cause, or because of suzani. Bad suspicion, or because of Columbian is somebody who's telling you miss informations near an amoeba or because of misunderstanding, simply giving you three days, but after three days, you don't have any excuse.

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After that, when he said let her borrow, you see two people

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living in the same building. Astra then is called the Russian to pray, all of them are praying and in the same mission, but they avoid looking at each other. They avoid having eye contact, they avoid leaving the masjid or enter in the masjid at the same time simultaneously, lest they get to see each other face to face. And if it happens, and they bump into each other, they turn their backs immediately to each other and they start talking to each other that's called Darbar to turn your back to each other.

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From a double roaches area.

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While Altaba horrible, and do not nurse hatred do not do anything which may cause hatred, as we've mentioned,

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in the multiple prohibitions, and the view of Salah Salem forbade, in order to avoid and block the means, which will definitely lead to hatred. Imagine when you are my friend, my colleague of my school mate, and you know that I've proposed to such and such person

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and you go and you propose at the same time. What do you think?

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What if she refuses the first and she accepts the second throughout the life of the person, the first person he would nurse hatred

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towards the other? So what do you do? Wait until the other decide or refuse if they refuse, proceed on this Mala. But do not propose at the same time somebody is buying an item. Normally it happens in the flea market and in the auctions and you saw the deal. So you see the goods and you're like the Minister, I'm willing to pay more haram.

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Forbidden is not permissible. And this transaction is not permissible.

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You know, when the person makes a promise and says the flat is yours, the property is used the transaction the transaction has been fulfilled. But I haven't received the cash yet. But you agreed he will pay you in a couple of days. So you wait for the couple of days if he doesn't pay you free from the commitment, but you cannot revoke the transaction because you are the seller and you said goods is us.

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Vehicle flat building

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In real estate is use and abuse Allah, Allah, Allah is sending precious a horse from a bad one. And he said, I'll go home and get you the money when he returned, somebody else offer them a higher price. So he sold it to him. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said didn't buy it from you said, No, he didn't.

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Do you have a witness?

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And we know the Hadith. And we know how the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

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informed the guy that I have purchased it once you've made a promise, and he said, Yes, I would sell it to you for how much.

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So going to collect the money and bring it back. Based on the time that you allocated, or we both agree to, does not change the fact that you still possess the item in your possession, but it is sold. You cannot sell it to somebody else. Nowadays, and in many Muslim countries, they sell the same property twice, twice and several times, and they collect the full price

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from all those people and they let them fight in the court. When they go to the court. When they go to the cops, they say whoever is residing edit, it's us and the rest cut that Allah

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may Allah admission you too bad, you've been fooled. All these nations cannot come up with the law

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in order to maintain the rights of every person, the rights of the position of the cash or the property.

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And it's not difficult. You guys love to copy Americans. You guys love to copy the British, they have a law in order to sort out these matters. So no one can sell the same item multiple times. There's something called a title.

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You possess a title, you possess the property and it's only one copy. You go to the courthouse, you finalize the deal, if it is paid for in cash or installment if in assuming the bank will take the oil at the bank which is giving you the mortgage will take the title in its position

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so that the seller can only sell it to one person at a time.

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So in Islam, were more worthy to follow the Sharia which will secure the rights of everyone, the seller, the buyer, and those who are standing by

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what I hate lowly Muslim in Ania, Jura ha who fell Pasteles Allah, the word Maha who? First it says it is not lawful for a Muslim to stop talking to his Muslim brother for more than three days. For what? For whom? For his Muslim brother?

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A harmful.

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And yeah, Jorah Aha. So even though you don't like him anymore, you're having disputes and issues but he's still your brother.

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And it is not permissible to desert and to boycott you, brother in Islam beyond three days.

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But we see Muslims, siblings, real brothers, blood brothers and blood sisters. They haven't been talking to each other for years, over disputes over an inheritance, or his wife and your wife, his wife and your child, your child and his child if you live in the same building. So the elders act like children, they act very childish. And they stop talking to each other.

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They came from the same warm, they have the same parents, and they haven't been talking to each other for years. And what if they do severe consequences as it will be discussed in the following a hadith but in the following Hadees Hadees number 50 and 192 There is such good news to share with those who are having disputes and also we learn because no doubt one day we're going to have some dispute with somebody. So you have to be aware of how to handle a situation like that.

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Otherwise you will answer Ansari

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the great companion who hosted the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him in his house. Upon coming to Medina I WILL YOU WILL Ansari or the Allahu Anh

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Nero narrated another soul Allah He sallallahu alayhi salam upon layer held on a Muslim in Ania Jorah ahava Celeste okay

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Gaza in the previous hadith of Anna's, it is not permissible for a Muslim to stop talking to his Muslim brother beyond three days, but here it says fella Salah

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three nights, it serves the same purpose, it provides the same meaning.

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And then the addition in this hadith is yell Tachyon for you or it will have when you are able to have Baha Rahu melody ever that will be cell

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delta p and they both meet,

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they meet in the marketplace, in the street, in the masjid, but because they are in a state of dispute,

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and hedger, which is abandoning and boycotting, they are not talking to each other. So when the Meet the turn away from each other, they turn their backs to each other. You are in ohada where your audit ohada and the prophets of Allah is selama said, Well, hi Euro human lady, that will be sell and the bearer of the two is the one who is the first to greet the other. And trust me brothers and sisters, this is not an easy thing to do.

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And it's not a bit difficult. It's really difficult. Why because everyone have his or her own ego.

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He should come and apologize to me, he should kiss my hand. He should apologize to my wife and to my kids. You mean to humiliate him so it ain't happening. And you're not going to reconcile and Satan is dancing over your dead bodies. He's happy because you're not living and all the goodies that you both are doing are not being presented before Allah subhanaw taala because of the evil quality of Al Hajj, or al Hadron.

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But when a person eliminates this hatred from his heart, from her heart and she says this is for the sake of Allah visa vie Lila and she says a Salam o alaikum sister, and he says a salam ala Kumar, he, he is better. There are in what sense? In which context better before Allah, Allah is looking at all of us. The better one, the best is the one who take the initiative, and will go to the other person and say, Brother, I'm sorry, I do apologize. I've wronged you, even if he was wronged, not the other way around. What matters is why am I doing this? I'm doing this because I'm looking at Allah. I want him to look at me. I want him to consider me that.

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Before the Almighty Allah, I'm doing better. And this what counts? So I want to say it again. My dear viewers, the better one of all of them is the one who will take the initiative and give the greeting to the other person. I want to be that one. I don't care what people would say about me. I don't care what the other party would think about me. Oh, Satan might make you think oh, you're gonna be loser. You're gonna be looked at down by Allah Almighty says Whoever seeks the pleasure of Allah.

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Even if there displeases others, Allah will be pleased with him, and will make others pleased with him. And this what matters most. That's it. So right in front of your eyes, pleasing Allah is the ultimate goal. I'm going to take the initiative, and I'm going to say I said Mr. Alaikum. And I'm going to say I'm sorry, apologize even if you are not wrong, even if you are 100% Correct. Another beautiful Hadith 15 193 and Ebihara authority Allahu Anhu kala kala Rasulullah his Allahu Allah He was a lemma to a man who he could list Nene wa for me is

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they have here hola Julio qu Lemare Illa you Shree Kobe, he che

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la la mer en CaReNet. Boehner, who are they now he shall

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first of all, go through who has he had? Yes, thoroughly.

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You see the evil consequences of deserting and

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abandoning your Muslim brothers and sisters, it is presented in the sound Hadith which is collected by Imam Muslim and Narrated by Abu Hurayrah. May Allah be pleased with him who said that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said people's deeds

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are being presented before Allah twice every week, on Mondays and on Thursdays. And then every seventh have Allah is granted forgiveness for the minor sins, if he does not associate others with Allah in worship, but

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but the person in whose heart there is a rancor against his brother.

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He will not be pardoned with regard to both of whom Allah will say, to the angels. Otaku had any hotter yesterday ha. In another narration of G who had any hot day of study, and the whole these two until they reconciled

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until they're reconciled, and if they don't, I don't want to see their good deeds, oh my goodness. I am not giving them forgiveness for their minor sins, even though they are believers even though they pray at night even though they first today is Ashura. And there are brothers and sisters who are not talking to each other, having discord and they have been boycotting each other for years. Take the initiative bro. Call your own brother call your own sister and say Salam aleykum today is a blessed day is a day of Ashura.

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I wish you the best. I'm inviting you to have a thought in my place, or I'm coming to have Iftar at your place and I'm bringing the food with me I mean, do something take advantage of any of these opportunities in order to reconcile? Why is it because not necessarily because you love this person and you miss him or her? Not necessarily because you have a masala with them. But number one because any of us on the line cinema see two things.

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Hi Romani, Adobe Sana. We've learned that in the previous Hadith, the better one, the best of all is the one before Allah is the One who will take the initiative, reconciled first by saying as salaam alaikum. You break the ice hamdulillah number two, two days every week, on Monday, and on Thursday, every week, our deeds

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will be presented before Allah was done a lot of mistakes. But if you have not associated with Allah in in worship, and you've avoided the major sins, then quickly, swiftly the Almighty Allah will pardon all the minor sins Alhamdulillah

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and you will become like a new

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born Allah Almighty citizens lot in USA

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in 3030, who cares? You wanna tune how can you

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say the humanoid affiliate muda fallen Karima.

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You Muslims, if you avoid the major sins, which we have forbidden you against? Then we will take care of your minor sins and all forgive them. If you avoid drinking adultery in illicit relations, bribery riba Alhamdulillah shockula lying then Allah Almighty will forgive you the minor sins two days every week, which is known as yo Mei alarmed and I'm going to share with you some other Hadith the talk about a Rafa but for now remember, on Monday, or on Thursday of every week our deeds been will be presented before Allah. So he will pound in the minor sins. If you are a believer, and if you do not associate with ALLAH in worship, except when you're having a discord with another Muslim,

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then Allah Almighty will say to the angels, or Jihad ain, or truco Herdade. Leave them for now. Hold these two cases until they are reconciled. If they're not, then leave them no pardoning no forgiveness for them. May Allah guide us what is best. We'll take a short break and we'll be back with some more beautiful Hadith in this respect, please stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to the second segment of today's program, Guardians of the price. Our phone numbers, which should appear on the bottom of the screen are as follows Area code 002 Then 01091095185170. Alternatively, it was usual to then 01 double 05469323 and the WhatsApp numbers equals user 1-347-806-0025 and finally adequate 00136148891503

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Let's take our first caller to the Osmond from Italy As Salam Alikum Othman

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slum

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Alikum Salam wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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How do you say hi, Fi Alhamdulillah Welcome to weather TV off man. Go ahead.

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And only last year, I have a three question there slim concerning Okay.

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The first question is, I have a good my two years ago.

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Okay, but the girl that I

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was given to me by his father.

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For example, the guy who was adopted by a by a man when the girl was 15 years, so is he or she was adopted by Mr. So the MA, this man give the girl to me tomorrow. So I was asking whether this nigga is valid or not. Is she an offense? Is this girl an orphan? Does she have a known father? Or uncle? Or brother? Or she doesn't have anyone but the stepdad or the foster father?

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No, because the guy that this girl was my with the girl and

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so now they've got that guy by

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lift in a lift in Africa. Yeah, he of man. You mean the guy who adopted the GM? was Her uncle? Not and correct.

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Not the guy who adopt. The girl was night with a girl and Okay, so basically, that's her uncle as well. Okay. And now, does she have any blood? Uncle, maternal or?

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Maternal uncle? Does she have grown brothers? Is her father biological father is still alive. That is my question.

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But he's in Africa, what now? Okay, me. Here.

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I got your question off. So look, in the presence of the Father, we cannot skip the father to anyone else. And in addition to we cannot say somebody adopted a girl if the father is alive, and she was living with a father, somebody like her aunt and her husband decided to grow the God to bring the girl to take her to Italy with them. Fine as like a foster father, but the Willie is still there. The Guardian is the actual father. We cannot skip the actual father and confiscate his right of the Avila and give it to anyone else without a valid reason. So the father is a Muslim is a practicing Muslim. Pick up the phone and ask him uncle I would like to marry you go. If he says yes, Bismillah

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proceed on and process the marriage contract. Then the foster father can be our key DBT or representative do Hajj. I'm sorry, do Nika by proxy. But he is not the valley of the God. As a matter of fact, he's not even a maharam of hers. Thank you off man from Italy, Baraka Luffy

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sowards,

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from astroglia as salaam alaikum sourwood.

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Thank you very much for having me on the show to see if I have two very short questions as adequate as quickly.

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My first question is regarding the philosophy of mind Muslim so we had no internal headroom in my country, so I was fasting. But because I was at work, I forgot that I'm fasting and I played Margaret post in my second brother, I gotta remember that I've been I've been fasting. So instead of breaking my salah, I continued my mother Israelites finished, I did the salam, then I

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ate something. So it's my first and they are valid. Both are valid, both are valid. So I would

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It is highly recommended that you break your fast once sunsets or once the other one is cold. But what if I forgot? What if I was in the street and the karma has been established energy on the GEMA? No problem. Your first thing is valid. It's only disliked, for people to prolong their fasting unnecessarily. Thinking that by not breaking my fast right now, waiting for 10 minutes, it's better or it's a greater word that is not true. That's somebody whom Masha Allah didja Ma was established. So he said Allah totally forgot

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to bake is fast fasting is valid, and the prayer is valid as well. Thank you. So do you have another question?

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Is actually just one more thankful for this first question.

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Second question.

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How do you do this go to gutting looking in a supermarket which is run product and up and explain me that I should not work in the Haram department of the store my supermarket but I forgot to mention you the complete customer that the last time that I work in security guard. So I stand at the door and walk in and department I started the door and I don't know most of the time what I think the robot is stealing. It may be stealing chocolates or maybe maybe dental Kalambo so I usually stand the door and then really I took the eggs. So I'm confused the guy in this part of my job.

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So basically Sir, would you are like a security guard. You're standing by the door. Am I correct?

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Yes. Okay, so you're not handling the wine, you're not handling any haram and the store is a department store. He has everything Halal except the sales of alcohol and this is in Australia. So your job is halal. And I would recommend that you take a portion of your salary to give it in a charity every month. It will be only haram or clear haram if you are a cash register a cashier where you are charging for the wine, or you're working in the department filling up filling up the places, the bottles or the boxes. So if you're not dealing with that, and it is a department store, where most of the goods are lawful and this is in a non Muslim country, then your job is lawfully insha

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Allah and take a portion of your salary and give it away every month in order to purify your income. Thank you, sir old from Australia Baraka rafiqul Salam Alaikum.

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I'm Amara from the UK as salaam alaikum.

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I had three questions. Okay. My first question was my husband hasn't been paying his tax for the last three years in UK now. And since I got to know about it, I have been telling him to pay it off. And now that I have found that he has to pay a tax fine, which Some scholars say is considered as riba or haram. So should we go ahead and pay the text fine. And

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it is gonna be considered dead after his death to split. Second question. With a minute Can you hear me?

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Sister Omar Amara.

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Hello. Can you hear me now?

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A Salam Alikum? Can you hear me?

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By him?

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I'm not sure if you can hear me. But you can only ask Is it permissible to pay the fine or not when you have a choice. But in fact, you don't have a choice. In Britain, in the UK, you pay taxes, and you cannot skip that. You've agreed to live in the country, you've agreed to pay the taxes. Number two, if you don't pay the taxes on time, there is a fine there is a penalty. And you know that and you acknowledge that? You didn't pay it. It's his fault. You have to pay the fine. No shear will tell you yes or no. Because guess what you live in in the country and you have to pay it. So you don't have a choice. May Allah guide us what is best a Salam Alikum.

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Go ahead, Omar Amara,

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can I ask the second and third question please?

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Go ahead. And the second question was since you mentioned in the Hadith that we are not supposed to not talk with our Muslim brothers. Does that include our male cousins, or are not Muslim non Muslim to us? Our reason

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supposed to be in contact with them as well because we I haven't been speaking with my non Muharram cousins for a long time now.

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So the question

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they almost Amara, the cousins from among the family members whom we should uphold uphold the ties of the kinship. But it is not necessarily the same like the uncles are like the brothers. So keeping the good relations have given Salem chicken on them every now and then

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chicken on their family members chicken on their children. So this is how you uphold the ties of kinship. But of course,

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upholding the ethos of kinship does not require a woman to speak to any person who's not Muharram even if he is a cousin to speak to him unnecessarily. I mean, thank you, Omar Amara from the UK Salam Alikum.

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Amar

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Amara from the UK As salam o alaikum. Another Omar

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bylakuppe, salaam, Shia, how are you? Alhamdulillah. Okay, go ahead.

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I want to ask you three questions. First question, is this permissible to use perfume in in past?

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Okay, my second question is, and what do you think about the people in Afghanistan? Are they right or wrong? He's right. Do you think this is a question I can just simply answer like that. Okay, well, I can love you Kiama it is permissible to wear perfume or fragrance while fasting. Okay.

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What do I think about people whom I do not live with them? I only watch what the media is airing like everyone else. It is very premature to decide what is happening and to tell whether you know, this is good or bad. But we we can say could you please make dua for Afghan is for people in Afghanistan? Of course we make glad for them Allah all the time. May Allah bring peace to Afghanistan, may Allah reconcile between all the afghan is and make them united and enable them to solve their problems after getting rid of the occupation forces. That makes sense. But what do you think of the Atlantic people? That is not a question? Thank you. I'm not from the UK As Salam

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aleikum.

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Have EBO from the UK Salam Alaikum

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Salaam Alaikum salaam wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Welcome to her that if you go ahead.

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My question is, is it April for a person to cure full heart disease? It's possible or no? Is it possible for a person to do or

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to care for spiritual heart disease?

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Sorry, I didn't catch your question.

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Is it possible to cure hold true to heart disease to cure full heart disease?

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Is this

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theory Oh, no. I'm not sure what the question is. Perhaps you can send a writing because I don't know what you mean by curing a full heart disease. Allahu Alem. So if you go ahead and type your question on my Facebook page right now in the comment bar, I'll be more than happy to read it through

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and inshallah answer it as salaam alaikum.

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Sister I Aisha from both of these

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Ayesha,

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need to ask you a question. What do I pray to get rid of oppression and injustice? Okay, there is a beautiful What do I pray to get rid of enemies? Okay, there is a beautiful dua

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beautiful invocation sister Aisha. Which I want you to recite seven times in the morning and seven times in the evening. Has we Allah Who Illa Illa who are allies hit our Cal to Oahu or Bhullar. Sheila, we.

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You say that seven times in the morning after you preferred and seven times in the evening before sunset? Okay. May Allah Almighty help you, assess you and deliver you out of your hardship As salam o alaikum.

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Suleiman from the UK brothers Suleiman, welcome to Hooda TV, go ahead

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Thank you. Hi. I'm just calling regarding

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how can one off the country just after doing things, not me?

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Why it could be a problem? My energy? Yes, they just so many will be a problem on my end. But to be honest with you, I didn't catch your question.

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Hello? Yeah, go ahead.

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So, so someone that's just after the repents and things like that, they just become these your vote to do prayer, and they just become tired after two or three days and they don't want to do. So question is, how can women stay away from wasting their time? Okay, so the question is, how can a person stay away from wasting their time?

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That's a good question. And I believe this is a question that everyone everyone is asking about nowadays. I was talking to my kids, yesterday and the other day, I think a very prominent causal voice in the time is a social media.

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So in our phones, there is an app which tells you or the phone itself, it tells you

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how much time you have used the phone, on the social media.

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Or on the phone calls, phone conversations, per day, per week, per month. If you look at it, by the end of the month, you'll be scared

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because some people spend six hours seven hours that's a waste.

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I would advise you the following sha Allah after you pray federal in the morning before sunrise, you said in your place 1015 minutes you recite the morning of car that will make your day there will make your day guaranteed.

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Every day you say I have a set up to recite of the Quran, whether you have or not. So I'm going to recite one part of every day, that's 25 minutes.

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I cannot read Arabic. I'm going to listen to the recitation of one part every day. That's 25 minutes. Okay, you've benefited off the morning time of your day. I'm going to only use the social media for half hour or for one hour every day. So you have a timer. You know how much time you use your phone on the social media. You will find plenty of time during the day to do a lot of useful things, to pray the farm and then F and to increase the rhythm of your suburb to work to earn to even take another job to spend time with your wife with your kids to spend time for the bar pondering and reflection. May Allah subhanaw taala guide us toward his best but the first advice

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which is the morning prayer friendship, followed by the morning elkaar is very crucial respect of making the best use of your time Salaam Alaikum.

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of yield from musalia A Salam aleikum.

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Clams

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are you sure? Yes, Abby will go ahead.

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She I have two questions now and one comment.

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My first question is,

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like a lot of people nowadays they travel abroad to work to study and the parents are left behind. So what I wanted to ask is, is it enough that while staying abroad, we stay connected to our parents talk to them every day, be nice to them, or is it obligation on us to to go back to them and be with them

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during their old age? That's That's my first question. My second question is

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because of the pandemic that things have changed, like in Melbourne, Australia, we are continuously going in lockdown so we don't have Gematria

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so

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Is it

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is it so when when we when we pray at home like like a father with kids

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is it is it is it similar to bring in JAMA because obviously we can't go to the masjid

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the third is the current chair because it's it's almost midnight in Australia and I remember 2013 When your first show aired

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and mashallah I just I just saw the notification again that you're going live so I felt really good Alhamdulillah even after 11 years are like 10 years this was going well.

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So just like a La Jolla. Zana here come thank you so much. Aki

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from Australia IBL from Australia

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First of all, a respect of traveling abroad to study or to work leaving the parents behind. It depends on the condition of the parents. Maybe I'm one of many children, then it is okay. If there are other siblings or looking after the parents and taking care of them. Maybe my parents are healthy, and both of them are living taking care of each other. And they have I mean, it's also okay to travel. But go back and forth, check on them on daily basis. Do they better on a regular basis? If you're financially capable? If you're working and making money, send them gifts, send them money,

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even if they're well off? What if I'm the only son and the only child and my parents don't have anyone to look after them? Then forget about your PhD. Forget about your post doctoral program, forget about anything else and stick to appearance.

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In the sound Hadith, when a young man came to the Prophet Salah Salem to join the army for jihad, he said, he asked him whether you have any parents he said, My mother is still alive. He in my parents both are still alive. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said 50 EMF Agia head, go back and observe Jihad through serving them. We do not need you right now in the army, we have people who can cover for you, but you serve in your parents at this age is a form of jihad. So keep this in mind.

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In the sound Hadith interview, salallahu Alaihe. Salam was although by Jibreel to say Amin, which means Oh Allah accept the following supplication and he said, I mean for what he said, may Allah,

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humiliate and disgrace a person who witnesses the life of his parents are both of them reaching an old age and yet he doesn't enter Jannah through serving them. So we look at it this way. If you if you have parents, and they're old, and living with you, or you're living with them, you're one of the luckiest people on Earth. If you take advantage of this condition of your old ties, if you will be dutiful to them if you take care of them, especially if you work earn and provide for them. Wow, you really lucky Wallahi you're really lucky and any worldly gain will come down to your lap by deliver for Allah. Why? Because you've been taking care of your parents. May Allah subhanaw taala

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make us all dutiful to our parents. I believe we can take one last call Assalamu alaikum

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raeanne from Bangladesh Santa Monica

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Yeah, Allah yen.

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Okay, actually, Abby from Australia had another question. He said we're still in lockdown in Australia. And we cannot pray in the masjid. So if we pray at home in JAMA with the family, does it count the same? Yes, it does count the same and you will receive the same reward inshallah brothers and sisters, it was a pleasure to spend this very precious time with you once again. In Guardians of the pious until next episode, I leave you all in the care of Allah Allahu Allah holy had stopped for Allah and He will echo masala Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad in wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam, wa Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He

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has to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah Allah God is the greatest

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glory to him

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is to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about an empire that was shaping comes fire and stones sending the rescue the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting go bug helper dies. We're shipping cause fire and stores selling the best were the cheapest

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