Gardens Of The Pious #120 Feb 4th 2015
Channel: Muhammad Salah
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a Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi wa Kapha wa salam ala Abed he let the you know stuffer let's see Mr. Mustafa sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa seldom at the Sleeman Kathira the viewers everywhere. Welcome to episode number 139. In the seas of Guardians of the pious by the Grace of Allah, today we shall begin a new chapter chapter number theory.
It is in line with the previous segment and with the following segment as well this chapter is known as a chef or indecision.
The IOCL Imam Oh no, we may Allah had missing him, began the chapter with is a segment of an ayah of Surah Nisa.
Surah An Nisa chapter number three. And this idea is a number 85 in which Allah Almighty says many ash, fascia art and has an attorney Akula who now see evil men
and that means whoever intercedes for a good cause will have their word. They are off.
Asha Farah literally means intercession. And it's through word is a chef.
And a chef ah, is a word that we're familiar with. Since Allah subhanho wa Taala in the beginning so little fudge said I swear to I'll fetch one early Nash was chef very well what a chef is the opposite of L What or L with both pronounciation are okay
and which means the odd or the one while a chef means even. So, whenever we have just one person at school with or what
one rocker is cool, which whenever it becomes three StealthWatch five with
246 or eight that is shuffle.
So, when you add another digit, to one that becomes shefa.
And shefa is when somebody cannot achieve something by himself and he seeks the help of another, he becomes Shafia shefa is added to him so they become evil.
And social life is like that. Even if you are a person of a high capacity in the community, you cannot do everything by yourself. And it doesn't mean that you know everyone
so you have to seek the help of others. Allah the Almighty recommended that we should help one another in achieving what is good. That was also said in a number two, or surah and ADA. What are one Arlette very what Taqwa help one another to achieve righteousness and piety. Then he said well that I won while Ishmael Lord one and do not assist one another to commit sins or transfiguration. And here the remaining segment of the area and number 85 of certain new segment Yasha chef out and has an earthen cooler one Acebo minute and also I mean yes Russia fat and so yet and Nicola who, Keefe Lumina akan Allahu Allah Cooley che in Makita. And whatever intercedes for bad or an evil code
will have the punishment they are off as well will bear the sin they are off as well, which indicates that a shefa generally means indecision. And it is two types and indecision for a good cause or for a bad coach.
A good coach either to benefit him or to protect him from a harm or to waive the penalty or to pardon him and forgive him for whatever he did he or she, such as
some somebody's applying for a job
and he speaks to somebody else in order to if he knows the employer, if he knows that people to talk to them, so that they will
Accept him, give him a chance or give him a raise, give him a promotion.
This is shefa provided that he does not take the right of somebody else was more worthy.
And particularly that happens whenever the government will the state is announcing that there is an opening for certain jobs, everyone applies, those who are potential candidates should apply. But when somebody gets a connection, somebody who is authoritative in the government to hire this person, while somebody else is more worthy than him than they shafa is Chef as a year is an evil indecision. And a recommendation which violates the rights of somebody else who is more worthy than this person.
Somebody is late on the rent. And you know, the landlord, he spoke to us so that you can speak to him, you know, maybe he will give him a break. Or give me a postpone. That's a good chef, ah,
you had somebody's car, and he's asking you to fix it and he cannot afford it. And he spoke to his friend to his family member to give you a break to pardon you. That's a good shefa is either to benefit the person we're interceding for, or to protect them from a harm or to either penalty or a punishment. That is or recommended. A chef ha ha Rama and intercession which is prohibited is whenever you intercede, to take somebody's right, or to waive the punishment once once the case is presented in the court. And this punishment includes Allah's Right. Like
al Hadith, there is no intersection in a hood, which is absolutely Allah's, right.
For drinking for committing adultery for committing theft. So when Maya was lying down the Kaaba and he had his reader next to him and outer garment, and somebody picked it up,
he captured them and he took him to the Prophet sallallahu and said, These guys told my reader, the reader was expensive. So he said, Okay,
his punishment that had is to cut off his hand. So so finally Maria said, no, no, no, no, forgive him, pardon me, said Hello, can
you should have done that before the case is presented before the court before the judge before the leader, because once the case is presented, once you file the case, now it is not only your right and had is also Allah's right.
Even if you pardon him and you give him the reader, you give him the watch you give him whatever he he stole from you, but for committing theft was was required to Falco aidea Huma
Bhima, cassava, Anna Carolyn mean Allah, Allah Aziz and Hakeem Surratt and made so it's not up to you,
Hala can accomplish. It should have done that before. Osama evenings aid semanas aid inheritor is known as Hebrew Rasulillah webinar head the Rasulillah have a lovely the Prophet sallallahu Sallam loved him
more than most of the companions because he loved his father likewise, he was Maulana via Salah Salem the Prophet Salah Salem set his father free whenever he was a slave, and he treated him like his son.
There was a woman belonging to a novel family, Mark zoomy for Masoom.
And she committed theft and it was not her first time. And the fifth was in the form that every time that she borrows some valuables from people, she never renders it back. Rather she would say, Oh, I didn't take anything from you, she will deny. So the case was presented before the Prophet sallallahu Sallam see oh, that she should be cut off her hand should be cut off.
So the Sahaba she belonged to a very novel family when he Masoom they said you know what, the best one to speak to the Prophet salaallah Salah Medusa, you know how much he loves Osama eveness aid and let him intercede for her. We said madness aid came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam with a good heart to intercede for this woman I mean, you know people are pardoned in her interview SallAllahu sallam was really angry and sad it was Sam at ash fell off he had them and how do they how they intercede in one of the rights of Allah.
This punishment this had now becomes Allah's right. It is not up to me to waive the punishment because it is Allah's right. Then he gathered the old man he explained that Wallah he by Allah Lo and Plymouth. I've been to Mohammed in sobre la casa Muhammadan yada
Even if the theme was none but for thema, the daughter of Muhammad peace be upon him. Of course, this is not going to happen at hamdulillah Fatima is the prophets door, the mother of Al Hassan Al Hussein, the masters of the youth in paradise. But the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam was not exaggerating, is making it literal, that even if the thief was foil trainer, my daughter, I would have applied the hat on her. How dare you intercede to waive the punishment which is set by Allah subhanaw taala. Once the case is presented before the court before the judge before the emir, that's it, no one should intervene. And the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said what destroy the
nations before us, and what humiliated them a reference to Benny so he can, because he used to this bad habit. Whenever a poor person would commit theft right away, they would apply the hand. Secondly, they will throw the book at him cut off his hand. And that was in Judaism as well.
In the Torah, before he was altered weather soda coffee humor Sheriff Hulu,
you said it a solid coffee human life gotta Oh, they're solid coffee mug, Sharif Hello. But whenever a person of a high capacity, high standard in the community,
a high ranking officer and minister, a prime minister, a politician committed theft, Hulu, they would watch the rules, they would bend the rules, they would fold the book and they will try to even legislate a new legislation in order to waive the punishment. Because of that Allah humiliated them and made them lose power and strength do not be like them. This is what the prophet Salalah on SLMC. So now we learn there are two types of shefa. And these types are shefa.
To bring go to somebody
or to protect them against an evil or against harm or harm or to waive a penalty, without exceeding the limit. Allah's boundaries is if amended.
And also there is Scheffer, if you dunya or what we've been talking about fit dunya in the life of the soul, and there is a shefa in the hereafter. Allah subhanaw taala assesments the letter yesh Pharaoh we're in the who in NaVi isn't it? Who is he that will can intercede before him without his leave or except by his leave? And we all know that no one will dare to intercede on the day of judgment before Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam and this is known as the greatest form of shefa. Then afterward, the prophets will intercede. The martyrs will intercede the righteous people will intercede for their family members and for others and so on. But it is owed by the Leave of Allah
subhanho wa Taala this number 85 of Surah Nisa is referring to the recommendation of doing a goodly intercession, interceding for whatever good for a good cause in this dunya and if you do, you will be rewarded, rewarded there off
and let me your Salah Salem would be sitting and somebody would come and ask for any need to be fulfilled for a loan for some money for food. If he doesn't have any. He would recommend his companions who would like to assist him and he will be rewarded. So He interceded for him. And whoever would say I can assist him either he is capable personally to assist him or he will take him to somebody whom he knows that he can assist them. And that's another indecision. What then we'll handle Heinrich AlFalah one who shows people goodness or righteousness, so that they achieve it shall get a similar word exactly to theirs without diminishing the word of either one of them.
Now brothers and sisters, with the first Hadith in this chapter, which is Hadith number 246. And me Musa Shari are the Allahu Anhu. Gone, Canon Nabil sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, either at her Hutto. libo Hajin alcova Allah Julius said he called each Pharaoh, Joe, where can we learn who discern in every email? I have? Mustafa Khan Ali,
a few rewetting. Share, I will Musa Ashari may Allah be pleased with him narrated that whenever any person would come to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, he would turn to those who are sitting with him
and he would say
If you make intercession for him, you will be rewarded, because Allah decreed what he likes by the tongue of His Messenger, or what He wills by the tongue of His messenger. And that can also mean it's a form of invocation, which is where we live, who which means May Allah decree what he likes, by the tongue of His Messenger, salallahu Alaihe Salam, we all know that interview sallallahu alayhi salam did not have a hijab.
A hijab is a God. What a barrier. People cannot just go to the Prophet salallahu Salam directly without getting the permission, or without going through the security know anyone wanted to speak to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam Do you know what is the act in the masjid
and sometimes he would go to his house Salalah Alia salah. And you know how when one of the companions once Phil said and interview salatu salam asked him, Why are you upset? He said, Yeah, rasool Allah. Whenever I like to see you, I just come to the masjid I see all the time. We'll call another call to mouth your mouth again, every time I just think that you will die and I will die. I cannot imagine that one day even in Jannah, I will not be able to see you whenever I want to. Because I can imagine that you will be in the highest place in paradise. And I'm not sure where I will be at without I'll get to see you as often. Like in this dunya you know, this is an amazing
thing that interview SallAllahu Sallam whom we all know that he was the busiest man ever, but he accommodated everybody.
And everybody felt that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam was always there for him. Old young adults, teenagers, young boys and girls, and geria the young girl will take the Prophet sallallahu Sallam from his hand and said Come Come and help me with this I lost the money here or there and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam with entertainer with an Accommodator was Finn fine looking for her last property sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So why did he say that?
Ish farewell to Giroux. While the people don't have to speak to anyone else, it could just speak directly to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
interview Salallahu Alaihe Salam is setting the rules, is guiding the whole Ummah, in the form of pain advices to his companions, whether those who happen to be their prison at this time, or those who come afterward. So he is recording the doctrine, the Constitution, practically,
as I say, if you doesn't have you say, who can afford to do this? A man came to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and he sent to his houses. Can we host this guy, there is somebody from out of town and they said, Yeah, rasool Allah Have you forgotten. It's been three days, we have nothing but water and dates. And of course, you're not gonna host a guest from out of town by just giving him water. So he said, who can afford to host our guest tonight. That's called shefa intercession, recommendation, a good recommendation. But you cannot say that somebody is already engaged. And somebody else is interested in the same girl who's engaged to person A. So you intercede for a
person be you go to the Father or to the guardian of the gun and say, You know what, I have a very good person, a very good mate for your daughter, say, but she's already engaged. That's okay. You can undo the engagement, because personal number letter B or number two is better. And I trust him. That is haram indecision.
And abuse. Salalah Salam would not do that. Whenever the father of abnormality Bashir came to seek his testimony, he said, just witnessed the contract that I'm giving my son a property. He asked him, Look, how precise was the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and this is how we learn. He said, Do you have other children than a normal man? He said, Yes. Question number two, did he give each and every one of your children a property or a gift similar to what you give to another man? He said no.
The answer is then find somebody else to bear witness to that. Because in neelesh, headwalls zoo, I do not bear witness any falsehood. This is false. And when he says so it doesn't mean that you can find somebody else. It means if I'm not going to bear witness to that it's false, then you better not do it.
So now we understand the difference between the Guccifer Man Yes, fascia fat and Hassan Netanyahu
Hello Nasi bondman you will get our word they are off. Allah says so in the Quran Why am I yes Russia and say yet and Yaku lo que floon Mina, there are some people who would hurt others. He is a friend of a high ranking officer. He has a problem with his neighbor, he will report him and the officer will just humiliate the other guy. Why because of a recommendation that is shuffled out and say, Yeah, both the intercessor and those who may intercede for are all blameworthy before Allah subhanaw taala Aquila, who GitFlow Mina can Allah Allah Cooley che in Makita and may Allah Almighty decree what he likes what he was by the tongue of His Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, by the
end whatever happens have been already pre ordained by Allah, the Almighty. It is only a matter of reserving a word for yourself by being there for people by being assisting others and willing to help them for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala in order to give her word as Allah promised in the eye. The second and the last Hadith in the chapter is Hadith number 247.
This hadith brothers and sisters is a very long Hadith and it contains a bunch of Arcam. The URIs, prudence, scholars
have already discussed this hadith in details. But in this context, we're only taking a single segment of it. Not the entire Hadith, because it speaks about somebody who freed his slave video and barrier was already married to somebody else and after she was freed due to an Macatawa or whatever.
That now the relationship between her and her husband who is still a slave is not there anymore, but he was in love with video and he was dying to go back to her but she doesn't want him and NWO Salalah Selim intervene and interceded. Let's see the segment and in sha Allah is agenda Hadith will be studied in details in another chapter in sha Allah. So not just for the sake of the time will focus on this segment to learn a new specific meaning with regards to the intersection which is whenever he intercede you will be rewarded. And the intersection may be accepted. may not. But you have fulfilled your duty. And now Best of all, the Allahu Anhu man fee occurs Sati berry Ratan
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when barre era was already free. Now I'm just making the long story short and getting straight to the point which is when Maria who was a slave, and she was married to a slave.
She was freed. And now she's a free woman and her husband is a slave. So the relationship between them is automatically resolved. And
her husband would love to remain with her. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tried to intercede and he spoke to bear era was a Muslim. He said Raja RT, you said, it is better for you to go back to your husband. She asked the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, O Messenger of Allah, is it a command? Is it an order? Are you ordering me to go back to him? He said, No, I'm only interceding. Because if it is a command should have said Of course yes. Why?
It is not befitting for a believing man or a believing woman whenever Allah and His Messenger command or order any order to have a say to have another opinion, Americana limit meaning well I'm minute in either acaba la hora, su Omran, a Hakuna la homall Here, Ottoman Embrey him I mentioned the, the meaning of this area of Surah before I caught it the eye when she said Dr. Rasul Allah, are you ordering me to go back to him? He said no in nama Anna Shafia. I'm just interceding. So she said yeah, Rasul Allah, if this is
A case and I'm free to choose. I'm not interested in going back to him. That's it. As I said, we're only concerned in this particular segment from the Hadith and the Hadith will be discussed thoroughly in another position with other subjects and in another chapter Inshallah, but we see that the intercession is me recommendation, it could be accepted, and it could be rejected even if the interest is or was Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam where he did not force his followers to do or not to do a list if it is a command from Allah subhanahu what our brothers and sisters we're about to begin
a new chapter which is chapter number 31 reconciling between people. And if you refer that you should take a break, Inshallah, and in a few minutes, we'll come back with the beginning of the 31st chapter, please stay tuned.
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In this segment insha. Allah would like to begin with a new chapter which is chapter number 31st in the series of Guardians of the price, which is the recommendation of the consigning between people. And there are many ayat in this regard. We'll just begin with an idea of Surah Nisa number 114 in which Allah subhanaw taala says La Jolla Rafi kasi men who eat lamb and all of your solder cotton will now move in a slur hair vein and
one night he found early cavity or now more to learn effects are often the original one now winning
and the meaning of this area there is no good in their secret counsel,
or in most of their secret counsel, except in Him who orders a charity to be given an Allah skos or now roof everything which is good like ordering what is good for bidding what is evil or conciliation between people. And he who does this see can the pleasure of Allah, You shall give him a great word. We know brothers and sisters
seek it councils as Allah says in surah Al mudra de la if you remember may Hakuna Minaj where Salah satin Illa who are our bureau
while our home setting Illa who has said this one earlier and I mean Zernike our Xsara Illa who among a secret counsel is whenever somebody or some people are in a private meeting behind closed doors are talking secretly.
Allah subhanaw taala says he's with them with his knowledge and he knows what they're conversing about. He said most of the secret cancers Why do people speak and see, it must be something they don't want others to know about it. Most of the secret counselors there is no good in them. except a few. Such as not Amaravati sadhaka tin ear visit somebody in private and you don't want anyone to hear about this conversation you say I know some orphans here or there or a widow or widows. I know some people need your help. And I know that you you're a very generous man even if he's not. So this is a good Najwa Oh ma are often when you enjoy what is good or forbid what is evil in private, by
the means of Nashua in secret that is also approved or Allah provided. We will learn the condition by the end of the i ls la henbane a nurse or a conciliation between people. Whosoever does that, America sadaqa in joining what is good or reconciling between people? See can the accountants and the pleasure of Allah Allah Almighty promised the following for self and ot agilon Are women we shall grant him a great reward
So Allah subhanho wa Taala referred to a great quality, which is a conciliation between people and between the opponents. This is something which Allah subhanaw taala is fully aware of the secret council in which that is discussed. And if this is done for his sake and seeking His pleasure, Allah promised to give the person who's involved in this counseling, and this consultation to give him a juror on our women a great word. Whenever Allah the Almighty does not specify their word. That means it is huge. Whenever the word is anonymous, that indicates that it is so great, because the one who's giving the word is Allah himself. The following area is a segment of area number 28.
Speaking about the speaking about whenever there is a conflict between the couple, and they're asking for a resolution or to separate from each other, Allah subhanaw taala says in this area, just a small segment, he says was so high.
If I began explaining this area, it will take the rest of the episode. But again, we're just focused on this segment which is was so high, which means and the consultation is better.
Allah He commended a conciliation but whenever it is prescribed, because he also said in the case of the arbitration, a read is La Hye won 50 law who by ina Houma if there is an intention of reconciliation, Allah will grant the both success. Whether the pronoun refers to the arbitrators, or to the couple, or to both the arbitrators and a couple of injuried is now hand if they all intend the conciliation, Allah will grant them success. He likes swirl. He likes it conciliation, he likes fixing the relationship is Lahu that Ill bang, reconciling between the opponents fixing the broken relationship between the individuals, the groups, or the states, the tribes, you name it, before
Allah subhanaw taala is better and superior to the constant worship in the form of praying or in the form of fasting, we're talking about the voluntary acts of worship. It's love for that it is such a great app that Allah subhanaw taala made it superior to these voluntary acts of worship. And on the opposite, if sadly that will bind is Al Hannukah. He said and this soiling and ruining the relationship between people. There are some people who like to do that. Some individuals are obsessed with bacon, the relation between people and they have to lie in order to do that. Or what between people with Colombians. This bad habit and Emile Salalah salaam named the Reser because it
erases and removes not the hair. It doesn't shave the hair it shaves the religion.
Layer Cullotta helico Shah, we're lacking tequila codeine Hylia Katroo de May Allah preserve us and protect us all again is that so social higher, as Allah said in the segment of a number 2128 of surah and he said then again in Surah Al and fell in the first day of Surah till and fell Yes, Aruna Kahani
Holy Family he was who that definitely law Housley who that are the Uniko more aqui en la hora Sula, who in to mini The difference is in the highlighted segment of the eye, the red color setup Allah give you a duty to Allah were asleep who that have a nickel
adjust only matters of differences among you reconcile between the opponents, whilst the WHO that have a new comb and obey Allah and His Messenger peace be upon him if you truly believe in Allah in control many.
So the command of reconciliation is something that Allah subhanaw taala emphasized in many positions in many eight in various chapters of the Quran. Sometimes while dividing those spoils some people would have some hot feeling sometimes between the couple who sleep under the same cover and they share a bed and they become like one on any vessel let go more intimately bear so law when it happens.
What do I
One crazy sometimes is to see people who got married after a long love story, and they fought both their families and the whole world because there was no comparability between them as people thought, but they loved each other and they eventually got married. You think that this is like a novel and a love story, but soon it doesn't last and they start fighting against each other they take each other to the code, they forge false evidence is against each other. You start hating each other the most why it happens? It's a human nature
and human nature because of that interview Salalah and SLMC with heavy bucket how nama fossa and the Hakuna Rebbeca yo man man, wherever will believe aka hound a man Vasa and you're gonna have Ibaka yo mama when you love love moderately because you never know what's going to happen in the future with a person whom you love, and if you hate or dislike we also moderate in this feeling because you never know maybe this hate
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In Nana note Menon, Aqua for asked me who been at Hawaii calm this is a direct command of the consigning between opponents in Surat in Gujarat, in a number 10. The believers should be all brothers and sisters, the believers are nothing else than brothers, brothers in faith. The old believe in Allah, the old pray towards the same Qibla they all follow the same messenger and the same guidance. But if they differ for Owsley Holbein as a divine command you should reconcile between your brothers and fear Allah that you may receive mercy I and number 10 of Surah Al Fujairah. A soulful vein a nurse one of the best of the good deeds as Allah subhanho wa Taala refer
to in many parts of in the Quran.
Now with the first Hadith in this chapter, Hadith number 248 Hadith number 248. We studied this hadith before.
We studied the Hadith more than once. And the hadith is like a cornerstone in establishing the recommendation of
doing good deeds, particularly offering the Torah cause of the Doha prayer and the mandate of giving thanks and gratitude to Allah subhanaw taala for his countless blessings, which he referred to some of them in this hadith then of the joints, the joints which enable us to move freely, to stand up, to sit down to exercise to jog, to pray to move around, this free mobility because of es Salaam, which is mentioned in the Hadith and a variety of total the Allahu Anhu called kala rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Kulu salon I mean a nurse Jana he saw the car
Kulu Yellowman total Rufiji Shamsul there are the lubaina this nine year sort of theory you know Raja feeder Betty feta mill who Allah El Toro firewalla, you have Mehta who sadaqa. While can enter to play either to soda will be cold, only hot water in them she ala celerity soda, but to me it will add annual poly soda. Each segment of this hadith was explained in detail before Abu Dhabi Allah Allah narrated in this hadith that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam assayed on every joint, in the human body, there is a charity you owe a charity to give thanks for each join that Allah Almighty blessed you with.
On every day you should do so. When the sunrise is doing justice between two men is church and assistant a man to ride on the back of his animal or his wife is a church or to load his luggage on his light is churchy.
And a good word is charity. Every step which one takes towards the masjid to offer the prayer in congregation is charity.
Removing the harmful things from the past of people is a charity as well. This is a sound Hadith, and I bet your brothers and sisters. Remember that
we discussed this hadith before.
especially when we were talking about the mandate of giving thanks to Allah subhanaw taala for the Nirma of the Solana or the joints
in the context of a soul, and daddy loveliness, Nene sadaqa allowed lupinus nine, Allah of justice is not only to judge between two people or two opponents and to say you're right, and he's wrong or vice versa, but to reconcile between them, to bring peace amongst them.
And Allah Subhana Allah says in surah, in the set in the area, which was studied, a number 128, he said, where it will also show
the human being is miser by nature except those from Allah subhanaw taala have mercy on whenever there is a dispute, let's say there is some dispute between a husband and his wife, between two partners, each one have such claims he believes that he's 100%, right, and his opponent is 100%. Wrong when and mostly the Reconciler sits between them and tries to reconcile each one or form should not expect to get 100% of his rights, and to prove that his opponent is 100%. Wrong, because if this is the case, and both of them are stubborn, it is not going to work. In many cases, when I tend to reconcile between a couple,
and they are ready to file for divorce, and they see no other solution but divorce. I asked everyone, I give each one of the partners, an index card and I said, just write down the worst three things that you hold against your partner,
and another index card, write down some things that you like about him you like about her. This is some sort of a reminder that some people fail to write three errors or faults that they hold against the partner. Because it's all in the mind that no minor things, but they're shy to speak about it because whoever would hear them say this is insignificant. Why are you talking about, you know, because dinner was not hot, or because she didn't cook what you like are because he didn't buy, you know, minor things. A trade plan will make it large in order to separate and break down the family. So not until emphasis sure you have to be ready to compromise for the sake of what for the sake of
what Allah likes better, which is
a soul was so hot, higher. The word was so higher, the conciliation is better is followed by the statement. Hmm. What are the relative emphasis? Sure. So you have to be easygoing. You have to be lenient, you have to be willing to compromise for the sake of reconciliation. There are the loveliness Nene, is to bring peace between two people. Either they seek your judgment in a case and of course when you judge between them,
as Allah subhanaw taala said, that can be a lot.
Whenever you judge between any people, then you should, and you must judge between them was justice, which Allah subhanaw taala stated in his chakra,
and meanwhile tried to bring peace and reconcile between the opponents these are some of the good deeds which will make you capable to give thanks for the blessings which Allah subhanaw taala blessed with the blessing of
a Solana or the joints as a prophet Salah salem said in the Hadith we have one more Hadith in this
chapter before the end of the episode, which is Hadith number 249. Very interesting Hadith narrated by ohm Kulsoom bento Akbar Edna Aviemore ayat, Radi Allahu Ana
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collected by both al Bukhari you were Muslim. What is the meaning of this hadith? Omar consumed by the way, may Allah be pleased to her one of the lady companions of the Prophet SAW
Lola Salam. Do you know who was her father? Her father was one of the Meccan tyrants who was in hell. One of the greatest opponents of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam or aucuba Edna Aviemore Ayat Akbar Edomite.
So she narrated that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, the person who lies in order to reconcile between people is not actually a liar, when he conveys good, or say something good in disregard. In another narration, she added, I never heard him SallAllahu Sallam giving permission of lying in anything except in three things, war conciliating between people, and the conversation of a man with his wife, and the conversation of a woman with her husband. So obviously, the last to the conversation between the man and his wife, or the woman and her husband, are when
we have three things that the Prophet Salah Salem allowed at the RIA in war, and conciliating between people, and the conversation between the couple, we will learn in sha Allah what it means right now.
It's obvious from the Hadith that interview SallAllahu sallam said, If one has a good intention,
there are two people whom the relationship between a become sour.
And nobody is able to bring peace between them or bring them together to sit and talk to break the ice. So somebody started going to this person said, I was visiting your friend, not your opponent. And he said, I miss him, how's you doing? And by the way, he was not feeling well make dua for him to break the ice. Another time, say subhanallah. Today while having dinner with him. He says, I miss him so much. Even he did not say that literally. But you may say that Subhanallah after talking to him, I figure that the man likes you. And he's missing you. You know, this is my feeling. That's not a lie. Why? Because the cause, the cause is to bring peace and reconcile between the opponents
you're not hurting no one, you can enlarge a little tiny thing, you just take any good statement that this person says like I used to like him, remove the word I used to and say he says that he liked you. He likes you. You know, we all know how to phrase our statements and our sentences in this regard in order to reconcile between the opponents especially those who are in the marriage counseling field. So that is permissible. That's not considered a lie. And the scholars explain the difference between Al Qaeda Bush's ally and their warrior activity so that when you give an answer or you give a word, which carries more than one meaning, okay, like Ibraheem Alehissalaam Abraham
Ibrahim Ali Salam
on the Day of Judgment when he would refuse to intercede because he says that I'm worried about my sins, I made some lies. He considered them lies and and abuse Allah, Allah Salam said, those who are not lies for innocence. When the Phil wanted to take his wife, Sara, onto him, you will need to take her but she was already married. He knew that the Egyptian Phil will just kill him right away in order to free the way for him to take his wife. So you say to Sal, whenever the ask you say that he's my brother, do not say he's my husband.
In a sense that my wife is my sister's, well, my mother, my wife and everybody else we all belong to. Adam Alayhis Salam will own the children and offspring of Adam Ali Salaam. So this is his intention. But the audience thought that he and Sarah are real brothers and sisters, but in reality they will not. So that is called tabria. A person whose intention is to bring peace between the opponents may resort to that and the view salatu salam did not allow lying in that sense or at Alia, except in war. You should not tell the enemies if you're captured everything about the army. Now, even if you lie number two,
reconciling between the opponents we spoke about it and number three, the conversation between the couple every single wife if she fixes dinner for the family
She doesn't care what the kids say she wants to hear from her husband, honey, food is very delicious. I don't know what could I do without you? Ma sha Allah never tasted anything like that in my life.
Everybody's eating. And she's the only one who's waiting for this word that's for right. Okay? Sometimes when the person is negligent or saying to his wife, I love you. She keeps asking him, do you still love me? Do not wait for her to tell you or ask you this question. So the conversation between the husband and wife and the compliments are not considered lies as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam said, brothers and sisters by their II get to the end of today's episode of Guardians of the pious until next time, I leave you all in the care of Hola. Hola. Hola. That was tough for Lila welcome. Salalah ala Sayidina Muhammad Ali Salam wa salam aleikum, wa rahmatullahi
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