Mohamad Baajour – JAR #68 Six Ways To Make The Salat Beloved To Our Children

Mohamad Baajour
AI: Summary © The importance of praying for your children to perform daily activities on time is emphasized, along with being a role model and praying for them to perform on time. The reward system for children to perform at a high level is also emphasized, with parents encouraged to encourage their children to practice and receive rewards. dressing up children to look younger and finding the best balance between dressing up and being a good person is also emphasized.
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the Quran?

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so don't worry call out law here we're gonna get this beloved hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah. Alumna eliminare main founder on fine Vemma limped Anna was it no ailment. Dr. Hammer I mean, we ask Allah azza wa jal teachers would benefit us benefit as from what you told us and increase us in knowledge, I mean era but I mean, my dear beloved, the spectrum brothers and sisters, ask Allah azza wa jal to make me and you from the people who listen and apply

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my beloved brothers and sisters,

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specifically the parents.

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If I ask you what is the most thing that

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worry you?

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Most of us will answer our children, the future of our children.

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Some of us are having sleepless nights because of their children. And one of the ways to keep

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the children on the right path. And one of the most important ways is that they love to pray. They love to perform the Salat. So tonight in sha Allah Tala with the help of Allah, I'm going to try to mention six things that will make our children love the slot.

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This slot is the second pillar of Islam. The slot is our daily a bad first thing is once a year. Zakat is once a year, hedges once in a lifetime, but there's a lot we have to perform it on a daily basis. So, and one of the best gifts you could ever give to the parents is for them to have a righteous child that is performing this a lot on time. So what are the six things first, are sort of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he told us that he the stand for statin Billa anytime you need anything, seek help from Allah azza wa jal and I made this as my first point because it is the most important point. Ask Allah azza wa jal Leah Allah the guidance is not in my hands. Yeah, Allah.

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Their hearts is in your hands. Yeah Allah you are the only one who controls their hearts you are the only one who can guide them. Yeah, Allah I am doing my best to raise them loving the salad but yeah, Allah without your help. I cannot do anything so yeah, Allah make this Allah beloved to my children. Yeah, Allah make this Allah the coolness of their eyes.

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Yeah Allah make the DA the dua of Ibrahim Rabhi JAL Nemo Kima solid women Zuri Yeti Robin our tackable da ya Allah make me from the people who established the salah and all my offsprings, all my descendants ya Allah make them from the people who established us a lot

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of Allah subhanho wa Taala in our solid, we always say Yeah, can we do what he cannot sustain? We need help from you to perform that rabada Allah. Similarly, if I want my children to perform the Salat on time, I have to beg Allah azza wa jal and the greatest thing about this is that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us that our dua as parents to our children, is Mr. Jab is accepted. Allahu Akbar. So my brother, my sister, in your sujood in the middle of the night after the salaat between the Adana de karma when it's raining when you're traveling, always beg Allah azza wa jal to make the salah beloved to your children, when the children are loving this Allah when the children

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are performing the Salah by itself, Allah told us in the salata, 10 handle fascia will monka the salad by itself will prevent them from committing major sins. Subhanallah and this is exactly the wish and the dream of every single parent for the children to be righteous and away from the major sins. So, number one, beg Allah azza wa jal and ask him to make this Allah beloved to our children's hearts. Second

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you yourself the father, the mother, be a role model.

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Anytime the time for the salad is here, you get up immediately and you pray. Allah come tell your son, tell your daughter, go make we do we're gonna pray together or if you are

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or close to the masjid. You ask the female to pray. And then you take your son and you go to the to the masjid. You show them that you cannot miss a salad for no valid reason. You show them that when Fisher time comes the whole house is up and vibrating and making wudu as if it's like middle of the day, you yourself have to be practicing. And you yourself have to be concerned about the salad. And when the children see that, that will have a major impact on them. Then you constantly preaching Pray, pray, pray, and they see you neglect the Salah, they see you sleeping on the salad, be the role model. Let them see how their father and their mother or their schedule or the planning of the

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family goes around the salad. Okay guys, inshallah we're going to the park after ourselves, we're going to go visit our uncle before Maghrib we are in sha Allah Allah, after Isha, I'm going to take you for ice cream. l all the planning of the family is around the salad. Oh, we cannot go there. Let's pray before we leave, so we cannot miss the salad on time. If the family of the kids grew up in a household that is always concerned about the salaat then it becomes just like eating and drinking and brushing your teeth. They have to pray on time, this is part of their life. Second be a role model. Third, remind them how the Salah was the coolness of the eyes of Rasulullah sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam was almost I sent them many iterations, we were told that anytime he had a problem anytime he had an issue, he used to rush to the slot to make him feel better. I generated that where he was with us and playing and talking and discussing and then when the time for the salad when he hears that I then can now hula fauna, as if he does not recognize us anymore, he gets up and he goes to the salad Subhanallah

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this is exactly the way our relationship with the salaat has to be. This is an appointment with Allah azza wa jal. Allah told us that the Salah is on a specific times in the salata, Canada Allah meaning Kitab and Mo Kuta it is enjoined in certain times. Allah subhanho wa Taala put these times and I have to perform them at the time that are pleasing to Allah subhanho wa Taala not when I feel like praying. Many people pray when they go home they put them all and they start bringing them on Fisher the harasser militia at the time of Asia. No.

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They have to be prayed every salad on its time. So show them how to salsa Salam, the one who's guaranteed Jana, how much he loved the salad. He used to tell Bilal behind Billa Billa al do the economy so we can feel at ease so we can feel rested while we are performing the solid. Forth. Remind them of the reward of the salad in the dunya and akhira. Remind them that after between one salad and the other all our minor sins are forgiven.

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Remind them that the salad in the masjid is 27 times more reward than praying at home. Remind them how much Allah subhanaw taala loves the salad. Remind them that the salad is a meeting with our Creator.

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Remind them that in the X era, the first thing we will be questioned about is the solid if it's good, the CM will follow. The cat will follow the Hajj will follow the charity will follow the obedience to the parents will follow everything will follow and if the Salat is not good, everything will follow.

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So the salad is one of the most rewarding a Baghdad in our deen it is the temperate it is the the thermometer to show how much we love Allah subhana wa Taala I would stop everything. I'm working I stopped everything and I go and perform my salad. I am cooking, I am sleeping I get up and I put the alarm with this. This is the time for Salaat Allahu Akbar. Allah is greater than anything that I'm doing and I have to stop it for the sake of Allah azza wa jal

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number five

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do the reward system.

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If you perform your salad specially now we are talking about the six seven below 10 years old, the children that are still young and I would encourage them and make them love the salaat reward system. You know that

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solid tree. I'm going to put it on the on the screen. So you can see it in sha Allah Tala and maybe we'll put something in the description so you can print it

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and put it on the fridge for every child. And then every time they perform a salad, they will color that salad, the fish at the door. And at the end of the week, you look at the papers, and whomsoever his

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sheet is full of beautiful colors, he will get a reward 10 points, or $1, or whatever it is. And then at the end of the month, whoever have 50 points, 60 points, we're going to get them this, we're going to get them that the reward system, especially for the young ones, especially for the younger ones, so they can really look forward to everybody loves a gift loves a prize. So make them look forward to playing on time and encourage them, encourage them, let them compete and salad. Competing in a diner is something valid, it's something beautiful, especially for our children. And finally, number six, my brothers and sisters, choose the righteous company.

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Choose righteous company for your children. Choose kids that love to pray, you will feel so safe. And you will feel at ease knowing that your children are hanging out with these kids that anytime the time for salad comes they get up by themselves, whether they're playing sports, whether they're playing games, whatever they're doing, they know they can play, no problem. But when the salad time comes, we stop everything and we pray so that

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friends, these friends that are

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occupied, the mind is occupied with salad and with Dean. These are the ones that I want to surround my children with. Whether they're boys or girls, I will surround my my sons with righteous boys that constantly remind them of the salad. And I do the same with my with my daughters. The company has a huge effect on our children. If we put them with

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bad kids, they're going to become bad. You put them with good righteous kids, they will become righteous. This is a sort of La Salallahu Salam he told us and Maru Allah de Nicolini the person is on the deen is on the path of his best friend Subhanallah and there's a saying in Arabic very beautiful says a Sahib said the friend pulls wherever he is from the people of clubs, he will pull to clubs here the people of massage he will pull to the massage Subhanallah So, in sha Allah Allah these are six simple ways that will make our children love this a lot. I bet Allah azza wa jal to make the Salah the coolness of the of our children's eyes. I beg ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada to keep our

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children steadfast on his Deen I ask Allah subhanaw taala to make our last these our besties and our last words Illa Illa Allah I love you all for the sake of Allah Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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