Ramadan fatigue

Mirza Yawar Baig

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The speakers discuss the importance of taking time to sleep and rejuvenate oneself in a state of anxiety. They stress the benefits of listening to the Quran and reciting it to increase one's knowledge of the universe, as well as maximizing benefits and avoiding fatigue. They also advise against feeling self decisive and the consequences of self decisive, emphasizing the importance of learning and finding one's own happiness.

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My brothers and sisters, we are reaching we

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have reached

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the middle of Ramadan Al Kareem,

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and it never ceases to amaze me how

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quickly the month passes.

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Obviously, it's not a physical passing because it's

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not as of the day,

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lengthened or decreased in in, length.

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But it's the way,

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time goes when you are

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focused towards something. We ask Allah

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to make this full of barakah for us.

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We ask Allah to make it easy for

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us going forward. We ask Allah

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to bless us with the best,

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of our efforts as we go forward

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to forgive our

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shortcomings.

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Couple of reminders for myself and you. Number

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1

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is now you will find that tiredness sets

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in.

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It is both physical tiredness because of sleep

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deprivation.

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If you're getting barely 2 hours of sleep

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or,

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you know, sometime maybe 3 hours of sleep

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between and,

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and so on. And,

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And, this will,

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only

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decrease

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as we go forward,

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by some more minutes.

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So there is deep sleep deprivation.

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There is probably also the cumulative effect of

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dehydration

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that happens with the fast,

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None of which is,

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incapacitating

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because

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we have enough strength to take it forward.

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But it it takes it takes a stone.

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So

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this

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is something to,

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to to be prepared for mentally and to,

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physically try to overcome it. Now one of

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the ways of doing that, one thing which

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helps enormously is the hylula.

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It's the midday nap.

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Doesn't have to be for a long time.

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15 minutes, 20 minutes,

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half an

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hour, is more than enough.

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And,

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but it completely rejuvenates you. So you

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take that

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shut eye for half an hour, and you

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find that

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the rest of the day becomes much easier,

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for you to go through,

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and especially with with respect to Taravi and

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so

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on. So that is the the first thing.

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Second thing is

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Taravi itself.

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Please, please, please don't fall into

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these our never ending debates or whether you

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should pray 8 rakat or 20 rakat.

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Pray whatever you can pray with ease, and

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then exert yourself a little bit more

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because the sign of love

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is to do more. It's not to do

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the bare minimum.

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It's not to do the least you can

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do. It's it is to do more. If

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you love somebody, then you do more for

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them than you would do for someone you

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do not do not love. You do more

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than what you would routinely do. So let

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us get into that habit of doing more.

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Just to give you an idea, the Surah

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said about

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listening to and and and reading the Quran,

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basically of of, you know, reciting and reading

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the Quran. But inshallah, this also refers to

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listening to it that

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the reward for

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one letter. Yeah. People

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mistakenly use the term alphabet. They say one

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alphabet.

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The alphabet

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on a side note, the alphabet

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is this collection of letters

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in a language.

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So the Arabic language has one alphabet. The

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English language has one any language has one

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alphabet.

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And that alphabet is comprised of a certain

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number of letters.

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So 24 letters, 26 letters, whatever number of

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letters. So we are talking here letters. And

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said that the reward for

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The reward for

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reading Quran

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for each letter

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Allah

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will give 10 Hassanat.

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Ten good

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deeds. Now,

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and then he clarified further. And he said

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that I don't mean that Alif, Lam, Mim

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is 1 letter. He said alif is one

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letter, lam is one letter, mim is one

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letter.

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So if you read alif, lam, mim, you

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got 30 hasanats.

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The value of 1

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is the difference between

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right? So this is the value of just

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1.

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We get 30 just for.

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Now the scholars have said

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that listening to the Quran attentively is equivalent

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to reading it.

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In Talawi, you are standing behind the map,

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you are listening to the Quran attentively and

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this is what we should do.

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In a state of salah.

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Right? So it is 10 hasanat

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per letter.

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And in one narration,

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he

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said that this ten hasanat refers to

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reading the

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Quran outside of salah. In salah, it is

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100.

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So if you just take think about this,

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if you calculate

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in the,

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there are 15 lines per page, and there

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are 20 or 21 pages per juice.

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Usually,

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in most masala, they will read 1 juice

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per night. 1

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per night. So that is 21 pages

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per night.

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Each page has 15 lines.

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Each line,

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I did a rough count.

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Average has about 45

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letters in it. All the words,

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45 letters, each line. So do the sums.

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45 multiplied by 15, which is for the

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page, multiplied by 21 pages.

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Right? So that is the number of

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total letters.

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For each letter,

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10. So multiply their whole thing by 10.

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And

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then add to that

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20

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because each has

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Then

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another 4

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for

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and then whatever recitation is done in Isha

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in the first two.

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Then you have wither, 3 rakats.

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So 3

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plus the recitation in that. Now imagine the

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number of hasanat that you are getting every

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single day. Just standing behind the map, doing

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nothing, just listening attentively,

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to the recitation of the Quran.

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No effort on our part or very little

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effort and you are getting this huge and

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this is wealth which is

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with Allah.

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Right? Allah's mother has said

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whatever is with you will perish.

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Whatever is with Allah will

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remain.

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So this is with Allah.

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So it's like a counter running throughout

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the time that you are standing behind him.

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So not to say if you stood only

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for 8 truck and you left, you got

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a certain number of.

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But if you stayed for 20, you got

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that much more. Right? More than double that.

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So

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I'm not promoting 8 or 20. I'm just

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saying that try to maximize

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the benefits that we can get from

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these these times and don't let fatigue set

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him.

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Ramadan

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would be

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it would be ascending.

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He would start

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in the best of situations,

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and then it would only become better and

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better. And in the last 10 nights, he

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would tighten his belt and he would wake

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up his family for then, you know, he

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would he would be doing all of these

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things.

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So the thing to understand, remember, is not

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to allow this fatigue to take hold of

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you and to continue.

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Also, you'll find

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that as time passes,

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you're getting hungrier and you're getting, you know,

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you find that you get more irritable, you

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get more more quickly to anger.

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And,

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the anger may be for a good reason,

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but still anger is anger. And expressing that

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anger is,

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you know, it has consequences.

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So

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try to keep control of all that. Right?

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May Allah have mercy on us. We are

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all nobody is exempt from this. We are

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all equally, equally

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capable of falling into these traps.

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And another very important thing is

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especially for those who have been doing good,

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who have been reading a lot of Quran

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and so on and so forth. And Allah

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has blessed

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you. There is

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comes in and your nafs comes

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in and makes you self righteous,

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makes you start believing that you are holier

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than everybody else.

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You know, the I

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call this.

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Self righteousness is a curse. Self righteousness is

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arrogance. Arrogance is the greed slide into hellfire.

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So

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stay far away from that. The minute you

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get this thought that you are better than

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somebody else,

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make tawba, make the make the tawba, turn

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to Allah

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make ask Allah to protect you from your

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and protect you and all of us make

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us make the protect us from our and

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our and and the.

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Right?

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This happens in Ramadan because

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you get this feeling. Oh, fantastic. I

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you know I will be going into and

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I will do this and inshallah I will

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I will get letters to

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grant you all of that and more from

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his magnificence and grace. But if you start

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feeling that self righteousness, believe me, you will

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trash everything.

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Not only will you lose everything that you

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have, but you will also put yourself in

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trouble with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. So don't

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do that. Do not do that. The moment

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you feel that you're superior to somebody else,

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make it. Right? Give $10,000

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in in charity. Because, seriously, this is such

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this is such a,

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it's such a terrible thing, and this is

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something which

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Shaitan specifically targets,

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the and the.

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The scholars and the

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leaders.

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Makes them arrogant.

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And you don't have to be an meaning

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you don't need to have a degree from

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somewhere. You just feel that you are righteous.

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You feel that you are more knowledgeable than

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other people. That's very easy. Well, the problem

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today is as far as Islam is concerned,

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most people have no knowledge.

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Right? Even the basic fundamentals, people don't know.

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So it is very easy to feel superior

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to others because you know a little bit.

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But just think about that. What

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how much do we do we even know?

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If I simply ask a question and say,

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how many books have you read? How many

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people have read a 100 books concerning a

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particular topic in Islam? Right? So not even

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that much. I mean, there are we have

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scholars in our in in in our classical

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times who have written more than that. So,

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really, let us get serious with ourselves.

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Make lot of focus on yourself. This is

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Ramadan. This is for us.

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Introspection,

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reflection, focusing ourselves, transforming ourselves, making

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seeking Allah's forgiveness,

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bringing

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humbleness and humility into ourselves.

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Forgive others. Forgive others. Don't find fault with

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others. Don't point fingers at others.

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So, you are you look good because Allah

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has covered you with his mercy. If Allah

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removes that cover,

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then the world will not even spit in

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your face. Think about that.

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For a lot of us, it is true,

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including myself.

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Allah has put a cover on us. I

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always always remember.

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Used to say that he would say if

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somebody is praising you, remember, they're praising the

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cover that Allah put over you because if

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that cover was not there, they would not

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be praising you. And this is this is

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absolutely 100% true.

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So let us remember that. Let us remind

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ourselves again and again. Don't don't become self

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righteous.

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Don't become

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a.

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Stay your feet firmly on the ground, and

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Allah

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will forgive us, Insha'Allah. We ask Allah for

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his forgiveness. We ask Allah for this month.

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We ask Allah to make the this month

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the best Ramadan of our lives.

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Maybe it might last. I don't know. So

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let's make dua that we

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get the best of it that we can

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more.

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more.