Ibrahim Nuhu – Bulugul Maram 05-10-2024

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The Prophet's command is not based on obligation and is not allowed to do anything until seventh day. The Prophet's actions and their implications for the century before Jesus are discussed. The importance of actions and intentions in Islam is emphasized, along with the use of words like "na" and "na" to indicate actions and events. The importance of healthy eating and drinking water is also emphasized. The need for different doctors and leaders is emphasized, as well as the importance of keeping sick people out of jail and protecting children from injuries.

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			In the name of Allah, the most gracious,
		
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			the most merciful.
		
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			In another narration, Aisha said that the Prophet,
		
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			peace be upon him, killed Al-Hasan and
		
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			Al-Husayn on the 7th day.
		
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			She said that the Prophet, peace be upon
		
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			him, did Khitan for Al-Hasan and Al
		
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			-Husayn on the 7th of, I mean the
		
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			day number 7.
		
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			He did the Khitan for them.
		
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			Khitan is circumcision.
		
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			The 7th day.
		
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			From the day they were born.
		
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			But this hadith is not that strong.
		
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			The Prophet, peace be upon him, did
		
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			Al-Hasan and Al-Husayn and also he
		
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			did Khitan on the 7th.
		
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			When is 7th?
		
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			If a person is born on Saturday, today,
		
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			when is it going to be 7th?
		
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			Next Saturday.
		
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			That's number 8.
		
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			It should be Friday.
		
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			Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday.
		
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			7th.
		
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			You start counting from there.
		
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			Now if he is born after Maghrib, then
		
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			that means he is born on Sunday.
		
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			Islamically.
		
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			Right after Maghrib, that means he is born
		
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			on Sunday.
		
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			So the Akhikah should be on Saturday.
		
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			This is the day number 7.
		
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			If you wait until Saturday, that's day number
		
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			8.
		
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			You get it?
		
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			Any part of the night will be counted
		
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			as the next day.
		
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			So this is coming night to night.
		
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			Whoever is born after Maghrib, then we say
		
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			that he is born on the 3rd of
		
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			Rabi' al-Thani.
		
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			Not 2nd.
		
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			Al-Hasan al-Basri said, when the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ said, he is talking about the head.
		
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			Meaning to remove the hair.
		
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			You get it?
		
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			So in the past, during the Jahiliyyah time,
		
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			the people of Jahiliyyah, they used to take
		
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			some part of the blood and put on
		
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			the head.
		
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			So the Prophet ﷺ, rather than doing this,
		
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			he asked people to put perfume, not the
		
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			blood of Akhikah.
		
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			They have their own rituals and thinking.
		
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			Jahiliyyah is Jahiliyyah.
		
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			Jahiliyyah is Jahiliyyah.
		
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			Al-Hadith.
		
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			So from this Hadith, we learn that it
		
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			is part of our Shari'ah to do
		
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			Akhikah.
		
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			But is it wajib?
		
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			Or is it not wajib?
		
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			You have differences of opinion amongst the scholars.
		
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			The vast majority of the scholars believe that
		
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			Akhikah is sunnah.
		
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			It's not wajib.
		
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			And you have Dawood.
		
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			Who is Dawood?
		
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			Dawood al-Zahiri.
		
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			And whoever followed him amongst his students, they
		
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			believe that Akhikah is wajib.
		
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			Al-Hadith.
		
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			They said the Prophet ﷺ, his action confirms
		
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			that Akhikah is sunnah.
		
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			And also one of the evidences used by
		
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			the majority of the scholars is the Hadith
		
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			which is collected by Imam Malik.
		
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			Rasulullah ﷺ said, whoever is blessed by Allah
		
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			ﷻ with a new baby, if he wants
		
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			to do Akhikah for his child, he should
		
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			do.
		
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			He said if you want.
		
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			That means it's not wajib because wajib we
		
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			will not say if you want to do.
		
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			The scholars said in the Hadith of Aisha
		
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			that will come later, Rasulullah ﷺ commanded them
		
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			to do the Udhiyah.
		
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			And when he commands, his command is wajib.
		
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			We have to follow his command.
		
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			The majority of the scholars said, yes we
		
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			agree that the statement of the Prophet ﷺ
		
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			and his command necessitate wajib.
		
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			But when he says, if somebody wants to
		
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			do, we understand that that command is not
		
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			meant for obligation.
		
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			You see the way they are coming from,
		
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			right.
		
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			They agree that yes when the Prophet ﷺ
		
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			commands somebody to do something, he has to
		
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			do it.
		
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			But since in another narration he says, if
		
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			he wants to do, then he should do.
		
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			Then the majority of the scholars said, wajib
		
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			is not based on a choice.
		
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			If you want to do, you do.
		
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			Then it is not wajib.
		
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			Wajib should be, you have to do.
		
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			But if the matter is up to you
		
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			to do it or to stay away from
		
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			it, then it is not wajib anymore.
		
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			Clear inshallah.
		
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			When she said, we learned from this that
		
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			the time for the udhiyah is on the
		
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			7th of, 7th day from the time he
		
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			was, from the day he was born.
		
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			Day number 7.
		
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			You get it?
		
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			And we will learn this inshallah in the
		
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			hadith of Samurah.
		
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			And it is not also part of our
		
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			shariah for a person, it is not okay
		
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			for a person to do it before or
		
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			after.
		
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			He should do it on the 7th.
		
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			We will talk about that later inshallah.
		
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			Now he says, it is possible for a
		
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			person to slow to the udhiyah before the
		
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			7th.
		
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			And the same goes to a big person
		
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			who did not do the aqeeqah before.
		
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			His father told him that we did not
		
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			do aqeeqah for him.
		
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			Can he do aqeeqah for himself?
		
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			He says, also that one, he can do
		
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			it even after the, what do you call,
		
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			the 7th.
		
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			Yeah?
		
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			So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam according
		
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			to this hadith, he did aqeeqah for himself
		
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			after Allah s.w.t. sent him.
		
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			But this hadith is munkar.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			Rejected hadith.
		
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			It is weak.
		
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			So we don't rely upon it.
		
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			So we go with the asr.
		
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			Because the Arabs before they used to do
		
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			khitan actually.
		
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			It wasn't because Islam came then they do
		
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			khitan.
		
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			That's why Hiraqal says, he saw in the
		
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			dream and the interpretation of his dream is
		
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			that, the king of khitan, circumcision, meaning the
		
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			king of those who circumcised themselves, already comes.
		
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			You get it?
		
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			So, and that's why he asked his batariqah,
		
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			the scholars among the Christians, who is doing
		
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			khitan?
		
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			Because he wants to get rid of it.
		
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			He doesn't want the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam to come and take over his kingdom.
		
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			So those people, they told him, they told
		
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			him, don't worry.
		
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			The only one that does circumcision was the
		
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			Jews.
		
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			All that you have to do, is command
		
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			all of your governors.
		
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			You know, all of your governors and the
		
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			people who work under you to kill any
		
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			Jew they find in that place.
		
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			And these criminals who are taking our place,
		
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			they are supposed to be with the Christians.
		
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			If you look at the history, who put,
		
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			persecuted the Jews throughout this life?
		
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			It wasn't the Muslims.
		
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			Actually, they got good place with the Muslims.
		
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			But those who brought them to the place
		
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			where they brought them, they already know who
		
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			they are.
		
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			Nobody wants to be closer to them.
		
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			That's why they take them far away from
		
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			them.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala grant us good
		
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			and guide them to Islam.
		
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			So, hadithun batik, so they used to do
		
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			circumcision.
		
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			You know, because when he says, when they
		
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			told him, just check and kill anyone I
		
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			want to.
		
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			But then, it happens that somebody, something happens
		
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			that Hiraqal asked his people to check the
		
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			Arab that was there with them.
		
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			And they found the one who came, either
		
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			the one who came to pass the letter
		
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			of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam from
		
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			Azeem Basra to him, or whoever, but one
		
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			of the Arabs.
		
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			And they check, and they found him also
		
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			muqtadi.
		
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			So, they went to him and told him,
		
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			no, the Arabs also does this.
		
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			So, then he understood that.
		
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			Then, what he called the danger might come
		
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			from that side also.
		
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			That was the reason why he cancelled that
		
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			proposal of killing the Jews wherever they find
		
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			them.
		
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			So, I just want you to understand why
		
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			this hadith is wrong.
		
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			Because it's not something that the Arabs are
		
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			not doing.
		
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			To say that when Islam comes, Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala send him, then he does
		
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			the khitan.
		
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			They will do it.
		
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			The khitan.
		
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			That's why even some narration says, because it's
		
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			some narration, he came circumcised.
		
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			So that his aura will not be exposed
		
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			to anyone.
		
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			Imam Nawawi says this is very batil hadith.
		
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			Hadith batil.
		
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			Arabic Arabic Arabic
		
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			Arabic Some scholars said, you can do it
		
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			in the seven number two.
		
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			And seven number three also.
		
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			So, that means after two weeks and after
		
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			three weeks.
		
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			And then after that, you do it anytime
		
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			you want.
		
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			So, if you miss the first week, you
		
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			go to the second week.
		
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			If you miss the first week, on the
		
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			seventh.
		
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			The second week, on 14th.
		
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			The third week, on 21st.
		
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			If you miss all of them, then you
		
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			do it anytime.
		
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			No need to keep the calculation.
		
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			Claim inshallah.
		
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			So, because of the hadith of Abdullah ibn
		
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			Ubraidah from his father, that the Prophet s
		
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			.a.w. said, Arabic Exactly what we said
		
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			just now.
		
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			Arabic Arabic Arabic Arabic
		
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			Arabic Arabic He
		
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			says, the hadith indicated that it is okay
		
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			for you to slaughter one sheep for a
		
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			boy, baby boy.
		
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			You get it?
		
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			Only one sheep, not two.
		
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			But there is another hadith which will come,
		
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			which says the Prophet s.a.w. commanded
		
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			them to slaughter for a male born child,
		
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			two sheep.
		
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			And for a female, one sheep.
		
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			If you have a baby boy, two sheep.
		
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			A female, one sheep.
		
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			What is the hikmah in doing this?
		
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			What is the wisdom?
		
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			Arabic This is the biggest hikmah we have
		
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			that goes with us in everything.
		
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			What is the wisdom behind this?
		
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			Finished.
		
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			Rather than going to different interpretation that might
		
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			make some people upset.
		
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			Some of those who lost their aql of
		
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			our brothers and sisters today, when they hear
		
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			this, they will say this is disrespect to
		
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			the sisters.
		
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			Why him who got two and the sisters
		
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			got one.
		
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			These guys, liberalists, they will never let us
		
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			relax.
		
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			They said even Islam oppressed women.
		
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			Even in the language and in Tawheed also.
		
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			They said leave them.
		
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			I was just mentioning this to see how
		
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			much lost these guys are.
		
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			They said in Tawheed why they say la
		
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			ilaha illa huwa, why huwa?
		
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			Yeah, but to them why huwa only?
		
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			Why huwa?
		
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			And they said even in the language.
		
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			They are just looking for anything to show
		
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			Islam as a very ugly religion towards the
		
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			women.
		
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			They said in the language.
		
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			If I ask Ihsan, Adam What does that
		
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			mean?
		
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			Is he alive?
		
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			Ask about a woman.
		
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			Karima What is haya in Arabic?
		
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			Snake.
		
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			They said it in the language oppressed.
		
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			For the brother, is he alive?
		
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			But for the sister I don't get it.
		
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			People like me and you and everyone is
		
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			okay.
		
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			But those guys who just want anything to
		
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			criticize.
		
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			Just leave somebody who is looking for fault
		
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			and mistakes.
		
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			Just get anything.
		
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			Whether it is wrong or right.
		
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			They just open.
		
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			Otherwise that is what is called typical ignorant
		
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			and blatant deficiency in the brain for somebody
		
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			to think it this way.
		
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			This is just a language.
		
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			Who would think like this before they exist?
		
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			When Adam did something right.
		
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			He said innahu mosibun.
		
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			Mosibun means You got it right.
		
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			If Hawwa Adam is worth Hawwa.
		
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			If Hawwa is right, we say what?
		
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			Mosiba.
		
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			What is Mosiba?
		
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			Calamity, right?
		
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			They said in this one also.
		
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			Why they choose calamity?
		
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			Subhanallah.
		
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			Naib Naib Naiba.
		
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			If you go back to the root.
		
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			It is also a kind of calamity.
		
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			And Mosiba.
		
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			But who think in this way?
		
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			Apart from them.
		
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			Nobody.
		
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			So that is why sometimes also we don't
		
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			open doors for them.
		
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			We just go with the hikm to be
		
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			attabutul mahd.
		
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			It is an absolute act of worship.
		
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			If Allah wants us to do like this,
		
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			we just do.
		
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			We don't need to say anything other than
		
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			this.
		
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			Any sister who is within her consciousness, who
		
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			has a small aql with her.
		
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			She knows that nobody elevated her in ranking
		
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			and saved her and protected her and stand
		
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			for her more than Islam.
		
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			None.
		
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			She leaves Islam one step, she is going
		
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			to get into trouble and trapped by those
		
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			criminals.
		
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			None other than wolves and foxes and all
		
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			of those animals who don't think of anything
		
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			about her except evil.
		
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			May Allah guide us to the truth.
		
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			So the Prophet said for the male you
		
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			slaughter two sheep and for the female you
		
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			slaughter one sheep.
		
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			Meaning the one that are equal to each
		
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			other.
		
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			You buy one of them is very healthy
		
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			One of them is very healthy and big
		
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			and the other one is so tiny.
		
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			Rasulallah s.a.w. said you buy the
		
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			one that are almost equal in size and
		
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			health and age.
		
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			So a person should try to get the
		
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			same age when he buys the sheep for
		
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			the other.
		
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			So you have some scholars, many scholars said
		
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			two for the boy and one for the
		
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			sister for the girl and you have such
		
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			as Imam Malik and some other scholars who
		
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			believe that one one for each is okay.
		
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			The one that says we slaughter one sheep
		
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			for each is what?
		
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			means action of the Prophet s.a.w.
		
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			and the one that says two sheep for
		
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			a boy is statement So now you have
		
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			what seems to be contradiction between action and
		
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			statement.
		
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			Which one is more powerful?
		
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			Statement.
		
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			Why the statement is more powerful?
		
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			Because it is armored from him.
		
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			Don't you think that when he does confirm
		
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			what is supposed to be done?
		
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			What he does is halal and what he
		
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			tells us to do is what he wants
		
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			us to do.
		
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			What I am saying since he gave the
		
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			command and we saw him doing something else.
		
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			Don't you think that this is the best
		
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			interpretation of what that command means?
		
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			I hope Yusuf get us correctly.
		
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			So it is the basis of interpretation of
		
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			what the command means.
		
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			Change in your mind?
		
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			I can't think of a way to justify.
		
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			But in this one if I go to
		
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			that one Prophet s.a.w. command he
		
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			said slaughter two sheep but then he slaughtered
		
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			only one for his son.
		
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			Can we understand from this that one is
		
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			enough and two is just better.
		
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			I think this can also be said to
		
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			be So now you are choosing which one.
		
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			Adam's view It could be that as well.
		
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			Let's say we don't have any companions in
		
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			this.
		
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			What do you do?
		
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			So two is better?
		
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			This one can confirm the
		
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			wajib.
		
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			But then when we see him doing only
		
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			one and he says do two Can we
		
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			say that it is supposed to be wajib
		
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			because of this and because of also the
		
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			nature of the command but when he slaughtered
		
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			one that means that wajib is not intended.
		
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			It just must have.
		
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			Anyway Usuliyoon.
		
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			They said when you have Just what you
		
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			said Adam.
		
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			We give the preference to the statement.
		
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			When you have contradiction between or what seems
		
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			to be contradiction between What we do is
		
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			we favor the Why do we favor the
		
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			qawl?
		
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			You get it?
		
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			Because it could be something that Allah gave
		
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			the Prophet alone.
		
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			You get it?
		
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			You cannot marry without That's only for him.
		
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			So there are things which he might be
		
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			the only one who Allah gave permission to
		
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			do We are not included.
		
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			But we are sure when he says do
		
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			that this is what he wants us to
		
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			do and this is what we are supposed
		
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			to do.
		
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			I'm sure about the command because he says
		
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			do But I'm sure.
		
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			I'm not sure about the action.
		
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			Does he want me to follow him or
		
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			he doesn't want?
		
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			You get it?
		
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			If he tell you a child please do
		
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			this and then the child doesn't do that
		
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			one but he saw you doing something and
		
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			he started doing what you were doing What
		
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			are you going to tell him?
		
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			Did you do what I asked you to
		
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			do?
		
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			He will say that but I am busy
		
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			doing this because I saw you doing that
		
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			Usually a normal father will tell him did
		
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			I ask you to follow me or ask
		
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			you to do that one.
		
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			You get it?
		
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			That's very normal So that's why they say
		
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			when there is contradiction between a statement and
		
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			an action we favor the statement over the
		
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			action You get it?
		
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			Let me just land and then I come
		
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			back to you So he says Arabic You
		
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			get it?
		
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			Arabic Arabic Arabic This
		
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			is what we said first.
		
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			They said it could be possible that the
		
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			Prophet SAW was just explaining indirectly that it
		
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			is also halal for a person to slaughter
		
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			only one for a baby boy and doing
		
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			two is mustahab.
		
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			That one is halal but you make it
		
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			two this is mustahab Arabic Arabic He
		
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			says also don't forget that there is another
		
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			narration that which is authentic also from also
		
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			has it in his sunan that in another
		
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			he said You get it?
		
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			That hadith of Abdullah bin Abbas says one
		
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			kapsh for each one of them But then
		
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			we have another narration, the hadith of Abdullah
		
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			bin Abbas also the same that says kapshain
		
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			kapshain So that means Daruat have the doubt,
		
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			right?
		
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			Daruat of the hadith has the doubt.
		
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			Either this one or this one of them
		
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			has to be Because how many Hasan and
		
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			Hussain he has?
		
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			Two.
		
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			It is only one event for sure We
		
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			are not told that he slaughtered twice He
		
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			did it once.
		
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			So either he did two or he did
		
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			one one.
		
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			Which one should be stronger?
		
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			Two or one?
		
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			Two Ask me why Because we have an
		
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			external evidence that says he commanded people to
		
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			do two two And the first person who
		
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			is supposed to follow his command is Rasulullah
		
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			s.a.w. So he told us to
		
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			do two And we saw in a narration
		
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			that he did one But then we saw
		
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			another narration talking about the same event said
		
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			no he did two.
		
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			If we are looking for preference we favor
		
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			the two or one because we have another
		
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			external evidence that says he is commanding people
		
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			to do two two Rasulullah s.a.w.
		
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			is supposed to be the first person who
		
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			will do it and then we imitate him
		
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			in that Another hadith also from Amr bin
		
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			Shu'aib also two two not one So
		
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			if we take these two narrations against that
		
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			single narration then we say there is no
		
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			contradiction actually That one is his command that
		
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			says do two and this one is his
		
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			action that says he did two two.
		
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			However we have another narration which is also
		
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			authentic from the same companion he said no
		
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			he is not only one.
		
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			So we say that yeah most likely that
		
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			is doubt from the ruwat al-hadith not
		
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			from Abdullah ibn Abbas.
		
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			It was probably Abdullah ibn Abbas said two
		
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			but one of them did not hear that.
		
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			So when he narrated the hadith from his
		
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			tariq he mentioned one rather than two You
		
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			get it?
		
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			Are we getting it?
		
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			Oh I am just talking to myself Alhamdulillah.
		
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			So there is no contradiction The best opinion
		
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			insha'Allah is one that says if you
		
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			have a child, a newborn baby boy you
		
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			have to slaughter two sheep.
		
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			If we say it is mustahab then it
		
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			is mustahab to slaughter two.
		
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			And it was mustahab to slaughter one for
		
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			the girl.
		
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			Can you do one for the girl?
		
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			I am sorry Can you do two for
		
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			the girl?
		
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			Yes it is up to you because he
		
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			is going to have meat for the poor
		
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			and needy people.
		
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			It is fine.
		
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			The second sheep?
		
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			No.
		
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			These type of things the Prophet s.a
		
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			.w. I have a child I am so
		
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			happy Allah s.w.t blessed me with.
		
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			I slaughtered ten sheep.
		
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			I called them all What is wrong with
		
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			that?
		
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			If the Prophet s.a.w. said in
		
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			hadith Do not slaughter more than two then
		
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			we learn that it is going beyond two.
		
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			It is innovation actually But he says it
		
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			is enough to slaughter two for the boy
		
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			and one for the girl That means I
		
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			can go beyond.
		
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			Just like the over here and the hadith.
		
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			How much you need to do?
		
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			One The Prophet s.a.w. how many
		
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			he did?
		
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			100 cabals He can go beyond that Most
		
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			likely there is the extent of his ability
		
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			at that time So I slaughtered ten sheep.
		
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			I give the meat in charity And I
		
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			call them all Aqiqa.
		
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			That is fine For the girl also you
		
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			want to appreciate It is good actually if
		
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			somebody will do it.
		
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			It is good Especially in the communities where
		
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			people don't like girls It is good when
		
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			you have a baby girl to slaughter two
		
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			or three sheep Don't say the Prophet s
		
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			.a.w. commanded you to do He did
		
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			not say that.
		
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			One is enough To show the increase in
		
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			your happiness with the blessings and the rizq
		
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			that Allah s.w.t gave you You
		
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			do everything possible to teach the community that
		
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			there is no difference between a girl and
		
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			a boy And a girl might be more
		
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			beneficial than the boy.
		
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			You don't know.
		
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			As Allah s.w.t says How many
		
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			people got a baby boy and they get
		
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			into trouble?
		
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			They never relax in their life.
		
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			A lot.
		
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			And the same goes to the girls.
		
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			People with girls, A'udhu Billah.
		
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			From both sides You don't know.
		
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			Their main headache is the boy He has
		
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			girls but they never cause him headache But
		
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			he always suffers from the boy And some
		
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			they have boys and they are very humble.
		
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			The girls, A'udhu Billah So what must
		
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			you ask Allah s.w.t to give
		
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			you?
		
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			A good child.
		
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			That's it.
		
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			Boy, girl, doesn't matter A good child.
		
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			The one that you will be happy to
		
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			be with The one that you, subhanAllah Whenever
		
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			you sit with them, you will feel okay.
		
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			You will be proud of having people like
		
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			them That's it.
		
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			Allah grant us good and tawfiq When
		
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			the Prophet s.a.w. says When
		
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			the Prophet s.a.w. says He mentions
		
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			series of animals that are not sufficient to
		
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			be used Do we apply the same thing
		
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			on the Aqiqah?
		
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			He said we are not supposed to do
		
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			because Rasulullah s.a.w. said shut He
		
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			did not mention any specification He just said
		
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			mutaqafi atani, the one that are closer in
		
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			terms of age He said we don't equate
		
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			Aqiqah with the Udhi He said whoever make
		
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			them equal in terms of Aqam, he is
		
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			doing that by Qiyas.
		
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			We know Qiyas, right?
		
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			He is just doing Qiyas An analogy Aqiqah
		
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			looks like Udhi Therefore we should transfer the
		
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			Hukum of Udhi to Aqiqah You get it?
		
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			So I guess this is the best place
		
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			To stop for questions.
		
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			I think we are heading towards 7 I
		
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			was planning to come early Unfortunately I have
		
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			a guest that got trapped outside Otherwise I
		
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			was planning to finish this book today The
		
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			Aqiqah chapter By the will of Allah, next
		
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			week insha'Allah Okay, let's move
		
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			to questions When Sharon was born, the doctors
		
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			were often circumcised In the same delivery room,
		
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			so is this haram?
		
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			Not, but miskeen It just came to this
		
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			life With all of these, definitely miskeen It's
		
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			more difficult when you are older Especially when
		
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			he comes to the new environment Life is
		
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			a bit tough at that time That's why
		
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			Ibn Qayyim has a very nice and beautiful
		
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			explanation He talks about those children who in
		
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			the past Now alhamdulillah, in the past we
		
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			have A lot of cases where a child
		
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			when he was born after Month number 8,
		
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			they usually don't survive I think this is
		
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			known to sisters Subhanallah, it's very amazing If
		
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			the child comes after 6 months, can live
		
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			It's okay, fine, will live also Because 6
		
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			months is a minimum Duration that a baby
		
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			can spend in the womb And then comes
		
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			out, okay Month number 8, problem Month number
		
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			9, fine, number 10, fine And there we
		
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			go Ibn Qayyim in one of his writings
		
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			Talking about the reason why The one that
		
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			comes month number 7 usually doesn't live Number
		
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			8, I'm sorry He said because in month
		
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			number 8, this is when the process And
		
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			the preparation of coming out is taking place
		
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			By the baby inside the womb He said
		
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			it's a very tiring and heavy job for
		
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			the kids Inside, so a child need At
		
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			least 2 weeks in the womb to rest
		
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			after that Long process to have a complete
		
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			rest first and then come out If the
		
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			child is to come out after having that
		
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			heavy job And then faces the new environment
		
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			also You know there in the womb, no
		
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			food is needed, he's taking the best The
		
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			mother is eating, you know, everything is being
		
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			provided And highly protected, life at ease And
		
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			now he's going to face a new environment,
		
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			the air is coming And the father is
		
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			jumping, people are screaming This boy is like,
		
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			what is going on in this life So
		
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			Adam add to this After that the father
		
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			comes and tell the doctor Circumcise him now,
		
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			so Ibn Qayyim says when he comes in
		
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			that New environment, with this fatigue and weariness
		
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			He says most likely the child might not
		
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			survive The pain there, the exhaustion that he
		
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			had With the new environment that he has
		
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			to relax and accommodate it first He says
		
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			that might be one of the reasons why
		
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			children usually Don't survive after that, so in
		
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			our time we add Circumcise him after he
		
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			came, immediately To tell him that he's in
		
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			the dunya now No more free life You
		
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			have to start with the suffering, somebody asked
		
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			me can I use the You know the
		
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			hair clipper To shave his hair He just
		
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			came and then you put that thing on
		
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			him So if he come in the month
		
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			number 80 He will quickly go back, much
		
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			easier for him So it's better to delay
		
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			Not to delay for so long, it's better
		
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			to delay I would choose for anyone to
		
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			wait for the child to reach at least
		
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			one year One year, two years is good,
		
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			the child is still young Especially in a
		
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			bit past, nowadays the children when they reach
		
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			two years They learn a lot of things,
		
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			their feeling is very strong But two years
		
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			is still reasonable, it's okay Because they don't
		
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			have psychological pain Because the issue is psychological
		
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			pain, a big person when he has An
		
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			injury, the healing process takes longer because of
		
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			the psychological Suffering, kids don't have That's why
		
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			if a big person got the thing to
		
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			be healed in one week The child can
		
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			get it maybe one or two days Because
		
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			they don't care So it helps the healing
		
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			process easier And plus also when you do
		
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			it at that very early age You might
		
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			need to do it again Especially when you
		
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			don't get an expert, because the skin grows
		
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			So it might come and cover the place
		
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			and then he has to go through it
		
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			Also when he becomes mature, so it's better
		
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			to wait Until he has all the stretches
		
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			One year is fine, two years is fine
		
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			But don't let him reach four years, five
		
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			years He knows what is that, he doesn't
		
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			want his aura to be shown So if
		
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			you do the circumcision at that time, it
		
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			might take longer time to heal I don't
		
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			call it oppression, but I found it Being
		
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			unfair to the child, let him relax Enjoy
		
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			life first and then tell him Life in
		
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			this dunya is not always smooth, come let's
		
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			go It's too old Most of the cultures
		
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			they do 5-7 years Most of the
		
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			cultures they do 5-7 years, it's okay,
		
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			fine for a person to do It's okay
		
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			Say Alhamdulillah, in the past Actually they don't
		
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			have hospitals to do this That's in the
		
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			modern time In the past, a person will
		
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			come during the circumcision They will bring heavy,
		
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			like 5-6 people They will come and
		
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			hold him in a way he will not
		
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			move No, this is not a child, he
		
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			already reached 5, 6, 7 or even 10
		
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			years old For those who are late Of
		
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			course, since they are going to cut him,
		
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			he is not going to be patient He
		
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			will jump and fight the person who is
		
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			doing So they have to bring those guys
		
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			to hold him properly In a way he
		
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			can't do anything So he has to go
		
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			through all the pain, literally So now you
		
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			have the painkillers The child doesn't even know
		
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			what is going on You have those in
		
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			some places also, they just put him unconscious
		
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			They finish whatever they are doing Everywhere they
		
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			have this option, a state of unconsciousness They
		
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			put a skin tape and a nail to
		
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			hold him They put a skin tape and
		
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			a nail to hold him and they pull
		
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			the child back And then they...
		
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			No, that's YouTube Maybe some part of the
		
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			villages No, that's not true They just bring
		
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			an expert, those people who are doing the
		
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			shaving Usually they have the barber who is
		
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			an expert in shaving the hair and cupping
		
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			This is the one who does it back
		
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			there So they just bring a person and
		
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			ask people to hold him Just like what
		
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			they do in the hospitals The only difference
		
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			is you have to go through all the
		
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			pain Because they don't have painkillers in those
		
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			days You get it?
		
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			They have to give wine But we know
		
00:47:06 --> 00:47:09
			wine is prohibited so nobody does that But
		
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			in the past, when they do the surgery,
		
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			they give wine To kids?
		
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			No, they give wine to whoever they want
		
00:47:18 --> 00:47:20
			to cut some part of him They have
		
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			to give him wine Because they don't have
		
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			any alternative, how can they cut his leg
		
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			and he is just watching them And they
		
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			have to remove the leg, otherwise the illness
		
00:47:30 --> 00:47:34
			will keep moving Increasing, so they have to
		
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			remove that part of the sickness So in
		
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			the past they don't have anything, they would
		
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			give him wine I think Urwa Ibn Zubair
		
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			If I'm not mistaken, the Aqila What is
		
00:47:47 --> 00:47:48
			Aqila in English?
		
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			It's a kind of infection when you get
		
00:47:55 --> 00:48:01
			it Usually it keeps increasing So that's one,
		
00:48:01 --> 00:48:05
			he got it after he lost I think
		
00:48:05 --> 00:48:05
			how many kids?
		
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			3 kids, so he lost a family member
		
00:48:09 --> 00:48:12
			His children, went to the graveyard and he
		
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			got this He said I have 4 kids,
		
00:48:15 --> 00:48:18
			Allah has taken one And I have 4
		
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			limbs and he has taken one Alhamdulillah, very
		
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			righteous person So when he perceived that, and
		
00:48:26 --> 00:48:28
			he got it in the Makbara So when
		
00:48:28 --> 00:48:31
			he perceived that, he went to the doctor,
		
00:48:31 --> 00:48:32
			the doctor told him we have to remove
		
00:48:32 --> 00:48:36
			your leg Otherwise it will keep increasing So
		
00:48:36 --> 00:48:40
			he said no problem, do the necessary Subhanallah
		
00:48:40 --> 00:48:41
			they told him we have to give you
		
00:48:41 --> 00:48:43
			wine, he said never drank wine in my
		
00:48:43 --> 00:48:46
			life And I will not do, they said
		
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			sheikh we cannot do it while you are
		
00:48:47 --> 00:48:51
			just watching us He said either do it
		
00:48:51 --> 00:48:53
			or not, but I will not drink wine
		
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			So he told them Usually I focus in
		
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			my prayer, when I pray come and cut
		
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			Cut, he said yes Subhanallah this is what
		
00:49:05 --> 00:49:07
			one of our scholars said, if not because
		
00:49:07 --> 00:49:09
			of the It's not that it's authentic, these
		
00:49:09 --> 00:49:11
			type of things you will never believe in
		
00:49:11 --> 00:49:14
			them But authentic narration of that story that
		
00:49:14 --> 00:49:16
			it happens He was praying, they cut off
		
00:49:16 --> 00:49:24
			his leg And he doesn't feel You don't
		
00:49:24 --> 00:49:31
			know why, what happened Allah swt has his
		
00:49:31 --> 00:49:34
			own way In Medina when I was sick
		
00:49:34 --> 00:49:37
			one day That's why I always say that
		
00:49:37 --> 00:49:41
			we don't need doctors We need different types
		
00:49:41 --> 00:49:46
			of doctors Because many of our problems are
		
00:49:46 --> 00:49:49
			psychological problems A person goes to the hospital,
		
00:49:49 --> 00:49:52
			the doctor knows that the real problem is
		
00:49:52 --> 00:49:55
			not this You need a religious person to
		
00:49:55 --> 00:50:00
			keep him seated And advise him wisely Go
		
00:50:00 --> 00:50:02
			drink a lot of water and relax, come
		
00:50:02 --> 00:50:03
			back after two weeks, he will come back
		
00:50:03 --> 00:50:05
			with some gift Thank you very much, the
		
00:50:05 --> 00:50:09
			sickness is gone I still remember this person,
		
00:50:10 --> 00:50:12
			all that I remember up to date This
		
00:50:12 --> 00:50:14
			guy when he was giving me injection, he
		
00:50:14 --> 00:50:18
			said Bismillah Up to date I never remember
		
00:50:18 --> 00:50:20
			that I feel something when he was putting
		
00:50:21 --> 00:50:25
			It was so strange Never be in a
		
00:50:25 --> 00:50:27
			place where a medical doctor Come in to
		
00:50:27 --> 00:50:29
			inject you and say Bismillah But this man,
		
00:50:29 --> 00:50:30
			Subhanallah, he is going to give me injection
		
00:50:30 --> 00:50:33
			in Islamic University of Medina He says Bismillah,
		
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			I cannot forget that, up to date All
		
00:50:38 --> 00:50:43
			that I remember, it was painless injection Yes,
		
00:50:43 --> 00:50:47
			his name when it is mentioned So that
		
00:50:47 --> 00:50:49
			person was making the dhikr, they cut off
		
00:50:49 --> 00:50:51
			his leg and he did not feel it
		
00:50:53 --> 00:50:58
			Iman, Iman, Iman Different from us In our
		
00:50:58 --> 00:51:02
			time also we still have Rijal, but those
		
00:51:02 --> 00:51:05
			are Rijal They are always hidden, and it
		
00:51:05 --> 00:51:07
			is better for them to remain hidden We
		
00:51:07 --> 00:51:10
			have Rijal, very close to Allah, may Allah
		
00:51:10 --> 00:51:13
			make us amongst them So they used to
		
00:51:13 --> 00:51:16
			give wine To help a person to sustain
		
00:51:16 --> 00:51:20
			the pain They used to give wine also
		
00:51:20 --> 00:51:24
			when you have Bone stuck on your throat
		
00:51:24 --> 00:51:27
			So they give a person wine, you can
		
00:51:27 --> 00:51:29
			see how much bad is wine and strong
		
00:51:29 --> 00:51:31
			it is That was the only substance they
		
00:51:31 --> 00:51:33
			have to give him to drink wine And
		
00:51:33 --> 00:51:36
			then the bone would go down In our
		
00:51:36 --> 00:51:38
			time we don't need to go for this
		
00:51:38 --> 00:51:43
			because they have this minor surgery Alhamdulillah, Nima
		
00:51:43 --> 00:51:54
			from Allah May Allah grant us good Salam
		
00:51:54 --> 00:52:05
			To get
		
00:52:05 --> 00:52:08
			the best, that is the safest opinion The
		
00:52:08 --> 00:52:11
			best opinion is to be on the safe
		
00:52:11 --> 00:52:16
			side To get a sheep that fulfills all
		
00:52:16 --> 00:52:19
			the conditions over here And do it, that
		
00:52:19 --> 00:52:20
			is safer, since there are some scholars who
		
00:52:20 --> 00:52:23
			say they are equal Stay away from the
		
00:52:23 --> 00:52:26
			Khilaf Why do I need to do something
		
00:52:26 --> 00:52:30
			which is doubtful by Some scholars will see
		
00:52:30 --> 00:52:36
			it as a doubtful thing But if a
		
00:52:36 --> 00:52:41
			person slaughters a sheep, based on that first
		
00:52:41 --> 00:52:43
			opinion You can say it is ok, a
		
00:52:43 --> 00:52:45
			sheep that has some deficiency But I would
		
00:52:45 --> 00:52:49
			never advise a person to do it Unless
		
00:52:49 --> 00:52:50
			if this is the only thing he can
		
00:52:50 --> 00:52:53
			afford Rather than not do it, do this
		
00:53:00 --> 00:53:11
			No, if the urine can work I
		
00:53:11 --> 00:53:15
			know, because they might see It is less
		
00:53:15 --> 00:53:17
			harmful I don't know what is their justification
		
00:53:17 --> 00:53:22
			of those Hanabilah that say this Because it
		
00:53:22 --> 00:53:24
			is Najis, and it is harmful to the
		
00:53:24 --> 00:53:27
			human being Unless if a person needs it
		
00:53:27 --> 00:53:30
			They might see it as less harmful than
		
00:53:30 --> 00:53:34
			this It doesn't take the Aqal, it can
		
00:53:34 --> 00:53:37
			harm the person if he doesn't need it
		
00:53:38 --> 00:53:42
			But if it is going to work If
		
00:53:42 --> 00:53:44
			it is going to work, because this one
		
00:53:44 --> 00:53:45
			will go with the Aqal of a person
		
00:53:45 --> 00:53:49
			That is really dangerous You have to keep
		
00:53:49 --> 00:53:52
			it in a place first to recover The
		
00:53:52 --> 00:53:57
			urine guy might give some anti-poison His
		
00:53:57 --> 00:54:00
			Aqal is still there And usually if there
		
00:54:00 --> 00:54:03
			is a Darura, these things don't affect the
		
00:54:03 --> 00:54:11
			person That is why Majnoon Majnoon takes rotten
		
00:54:11 --> 00:54:15
			things And you see them with muscles They
		
00:54:15 --> 00:54:18
			are insane people, they eat anything And how
		
00:54:18 --> 00:54:19
			do you see him?
		
00:54:20 --> 00:54:25
			Well built up If you try to do
		
00:54:25 --> 00:54:28
			what they do Maybe that is the end
		
00:54:28 --> 00:54:33
			of your life So Allah SWT is protecting
		
00:54:33 --> 00:54:36
			him because of No Aqal, he doesn't have
		
00:54:36 --> 00:54:39
			Aqal So when you are in a state
		
00:54:39 --> 00:54:44
			of Darura, usually the negative Effect of something
		
00:54:44 --> 00:54:47
			is being removed So that you can make
		
00:54:47 --> 00:54:51
			use of it and survive Right after you
		
00:54:51 --> 00:54:53
			are out of the Darura, it goes back
		
00:54:53 --> 00:54:56
			again Here one of our contemporary scholars he
		
00:54:56 --> 00:55:02
			said When they put them in jail And
		
00:55:02 --> 00:55:07
			they They don't give them enough food So
		
00:55:07 --> 00:55:09
			they have oranges, he said they used to
		
00:55:09 --> 00:55:12
			cut oranges and eat with their skin And
		
00:55:12 --> 00:55:16
			it was so sweet, very sweet The day
		
00:55:16 --> 00:55:19
			he went out of jail One day he
		
00:55:19 --> 00:55:21
			was with his mother or grandmother, they were
		
00:55:21 --> 00:55:24
			eating oranges And he told them, you guys
		
00:55:24 --> 00:55:26
			are wasting oranges They were peeling the oranges,
		
00:55:27 --> 00:55:29
			he told them you are wasting oranges They
		
00:55:29 --> 00:55:30
			said what do you mean?
		
00:55:32 --> 00:55:37
			They thought maybe being in jail Caused him
		
00:55:37 --> 00:55:41
			to lose his Aqal Because in jail Allah
		
00:55:41 --> 00:55:49
			protects us So one of them was in
		
00:55:49 --> 00:55:54
			jail Because of the pressure It's like he's
		
00:55:54 --> 00:55:55
			not in dunya He says
		
00:55:55 --> 00:56:07
			we
		
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			left dunya and we are still people of
		
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			the dunya He's describing the jail they put
		
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			them in He says we are people of
		
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			dunya, still in the dunya but we left
		
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			the dunya When the security came to us
		
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			He said we used to be amazed of
		
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			somebody from the dunya visiting us So he
		
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			thought maybe something happened to him because of
		
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			the jail So he said no we used
		
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			to eat it in jail and there is
		
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			nothing It was so sweet, he said son
		
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			take No wasting time, with all the confidence
		
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			He forgot he's not in jail anymore, he
		
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			put it in his mouth, he couldn't chew
		
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			it He threw it away That was something
		
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			given to them because they were in need
		
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			This type of things exist, it doesn't only
		
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			exist in the past, up to date When
		
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			somebody is pressured for the sake of Allah
		
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			SWT, found himself in these circumstances He will
		
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			get support, subhanallah, in a very amazing way
		
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			By Allah SWT, we have heard a lot
		
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			of stories Which to the narrators are facts
		
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			Of things like this taking place with some
		
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			people Lagrant is good If it is confirmed
		
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			that it works, then the person will go
		
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			with it Because they use wine I think
		
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			because it's so powerful, so strong Lagrant is
		
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			good I have a question, so in the
		
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			past they used alcohol to make a person
		
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			drunk so they could operate on him Would
		
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			he have to make up his salah with
		
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			other prayers?
		
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			He has to, whatever prayer he did not
		
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			do, he has to pray again Right after
		
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			that That's the only question