Funerals – Regulations And Exhortation 04

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Sheikh Hussain Yee speaks about the regulations and exhortations when it comes to funerals – Episode 4

February 01, 2017

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We begin our classroom the morning to similar Rahmani Raheem.

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hamdu lillahi, Rabbil alameen,

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Allahumma salli, ala Muhammad

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wa ala Muhammad,

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come on. So later on I brought him

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one and he brought him Ibrahim in naka hamidah Majeed

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Allahumma because banner or become Cena

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would become

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what became the mode? Where la can no short Miller Hill lady.

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Love your daughter. Oh, must me he she wouldn't be out of the one if it's Matt he was Samuel

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are the two Binda here of

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what Bill Islami Dena

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will be Mohammadi nebia

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Allahumma

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or is funded by Eva wire Milan Madame cumbre

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Allahumma pilin genetic watcher in Milan

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Deena fit dunya Hassan was in our karate Hashanah when Kenya keynote seven narrow or some a mohana Muhammad

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wa ala alihi wa sahbihi itema in 100 it may have been anime I mean your umbrella

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of race due to a lot of blood I mean for all his blessing, his guidance, His mercy, his forgiveness, his the risk that he had provide for all of us until today

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And may Allah will Allah min bless us with more risky insha Allah

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on behalf of the sisters and their Muslim brother from Karachi they convey their warm salam to all of us here

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and scholar who participate in our

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convention our conference organized by life Dean also convey the warm salon to our Gemma

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we also premium love for lucky for the scene of those family who passed away when we were there a month alohomora hammer home

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for

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the three person who passed away while we are in Karachi

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mellado balada mean

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give them a good place in alum barraza and also until all of us meet Allah in alum, Akira

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just

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to remind all of us that the conference that they have there is organized by youngsters and young people

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to reach out to the elite

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Muslim community

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those who are English speaking

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people not the Old English speaking

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families

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and handling

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they are showing a very very positive response

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that how successful we are in this life. We know at the end of the day we have to go back to Allah.

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So we have to balance whatever we do in this life before it's too late.

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And

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surprisingly do I was looking for a family who was with me when I was in Hong Kong in 1984.

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We met up

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this trip Mashallah

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is a good memory for all of us.

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And we do have some

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meeting between the elderly scholar,

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local advocate is color with the foreign speaker and the us because we need to engage the app

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This and the younger generation, the older speaking scholars and the English speaking scholar, they have to get together again to have a better understanding.

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The topic that they choose this year is seems to be a very interesting topic is about the man Fit Me, myself and I

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meaning a topic that I have to look into ourselves. How do we take care of a man when it comes to grammar?

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How do we secure our Eman? How do we strengthen our Eman

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because everything must start within ourselves first before we talk about others

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so mean a lot of what I mean except what

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on this call I have done to share with the young Muslim.

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Now what is important for all of us today is always remember that

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our life in this world is temporarily we all are aware of it.

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And Allah remind us would have had

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the eliakim

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we all must learn how to worship Allah get close to Allah, the obedient to Allah and try our best to do what Allah wants us to do. And stay away from what Allah is not pleased with.

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Why because

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death is very, very certain

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and nobody can escape death.

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And we all want to have a good ending our last pyre that we share with all of you last Wednesday, I just want to recite back this is

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where a laudable alameen who love us so much, who created us for a very noble purpose to worship Him, to know him to find peace with him. So that inshallah we will have a peaceful ending insha Allah

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now, he created all of us, guide us and remind us not just give us guidance, but he always remind us this is one of the reminder in Surah Moana

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Yeah, you haven't seen my last two Hey, come on welcome. Wanna our land to come?

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Might have zelicah Allah aka Houma, la casa de Rouen. One ficou mingma Rosa, la camino de ahead acumen mode, fire cooler a biloela tahani illa ajilon query

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for our Sadako koombana saly hain wahlen you Akira mahu enough sun is that agile will

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be Bhima

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surah Manasa. Khun is Surah after Sora Juma at the surah. Juma den surah. monatti. Upon

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comes in,

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Allah is telling us all you who believe that means all of us who believe in Allah, who believe in Islam, let not your properties your wealth,

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or your children, divert you from the remembrance of Allah.

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Why because it is very common when we are too busy with dunya. When dunya enter our heart, we may be very Hitler's we are not

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that sensitive about what is right and what is wrong. And that's why we see today, it's so easy for every one of us to be corrupted because of

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either

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we are corrupted because of money, we are corrupted because of power, these two corruption seems to be very common to all of us.

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The difference is just the level. How corrupted we are.

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countries in the world today also

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corrupted. The difference is just the level of corruption differ from one to another.

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So Allah is here to remind us let not the dounia your property.

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All your children that we love, we all love children we love property, die with us. From remembrance of law.

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remembrance Allah means remember what am I want us to do? And what Allah forbid? Yes, what is important? We have a responsibility. If Allah gave us children, it is our responsibility to save them, educate them, protect them, guide them, not just have beautiful children, healthy children, smart children, that we don't get them. We give them all the freedom to do what they want. We are going to destroy the future. That's why Allah say coup, de como de coonara save your soul. And then we must save our children, our family in

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the same go to our property. Our property can save us and can destroy us. The more you have, the more you do for Allah is save you from a lot of fitna, but the more you have the more you keep and become more stingy towards Allah,

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then that property cannot help us.

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That kind of wealth cannot help us that well that can help us is the route that we

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take care of it. And we spend it in the way that please Allah. Yes, why Allah subhanho wa Taala said, when my wife, Zadie Kapha hula aka hamanako serum meaning whoever allow the children do well

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to corrupt them.

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To make them forget Allah rubble and Amina do and adorn then they will end as a loose

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one Pico Mima Rosa, nah, come on. That's how Allah immediately remind us when you have property, and even you have children, you have to educate your children, make them understand that whatever is key that we have offer we have provide for them. It came from Allah, Allah is the provider. So we must also educate ourselves as father, mother, husband, wife, and also our children. That when Allah gives us something extra, don't forget to give back to Allah in the pub, donate, contribute Zakat and all this kind of righteous activities. Because by doing that, it will purify our income. And may Allah bless us because we are thankful to Allah Ameen. We are using his net ma to please Allah,

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Allah, Allah to help the poor and the needy. And that's why Allah say and span of deathwish we have provided you

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That means Allah is telling us whatever that we have is not ours. Allah is the one who provide for us. So we have to give back to him.

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When you are given the offered opportunity to do something good, don't

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delay, just grab the opportunity before death come to you. before Allah sent angel of death

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and a lot of what Allah means sit again, normally human, when they are facing this kind of ending, when they're coming towards the end, then they say oh god, oh Allah, if only you would delay me for a little while, give me some time. inshallah I will do, I will donate this or donate that give me some time

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allowed over an amine said he will answer to us by saying I should. Now this is what we say. If you give me more time, I should give sadaqa The first thing that we are going to tell Allah I want to give now.

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When

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you are soccer mom, then only you will know nothing can help you your property cannot help you and mail cannot save you anymore. So this is the template I want to give.

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You can give

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but it's a bit late.

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A bit late because SOHCAHTOA mt is a term that we just cannot control ourselves anymore. Prophet have reminded us

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That, in that mode the Saqqara

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when death come, it is not easy for us to think of dunia anymore. We are like, in a state of

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drama, we just cannot think straight anymore.

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So that's what we say to Allah. If you give me more time, I will give sadaqa and I will be among the righteous, I don't want to waste my time with people who are

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far from Allah, I will waste more time, spend more time with righteous people. No more left here and let them know more because I have no time to waste.

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But then a lot of will Allah mean is going to answer us by saying, when the time for us to go back to Allah, Allah has fixed the appointed terms, then Allah say there's no more delay. Like you. Okay, luckily enough son, Elijah Angelica, when the time come, allow will never delay. The only group of people that Allah will allow the Angel of Death to delay is only the prophets.

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Only prophets,

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no render time for them to die. Angel Gabriel will come to them and mass, Give them the signal.

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Time's up. If they say yes, then he can pull there. So if the prophecy, No, not today, the Angel of Death will just back off and go back

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and say that it is not ready yet.

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Now what happened to Moses?

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Then Allah sent back the Angel of Death to Moses, to say to Moses, Allah loves to see him now. Allah is waiting for Moses.

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So when Moses got the second message from angel of death, if Allah is waiting for me, how can I delay?

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It says that the king is waiting for us I don't think we will say give me half an hour not

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always normally we will be dead before the appointment time.

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So Allah is telling us when the time comes for us to go back we have to go except prophets. They have a special

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gift from a marble and I mean, now rests in death. when death overtakes us, we will find rest in it.

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Oh will other find rest in our departure

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I woke up bada bing Raja Raja Allahu anhu reported that a funeral passed by Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam and he said installatron Mustafa Minho? He arrests that or other rest that from him.

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Then he was asked, What do we mean by that? era cinema? resting arrested from him. So the Prophet replay Abdullah ministerie Manasa dunya while Abdullah faggy Is there a meaningful Lee bad while beloved? Were sajer odawa

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a believing servant of Allah ress from the worries of this life

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a believing soul they are ready so this dunya is God good a bother them anymore. They are not going to end their life by saying Where's my money? Where's my account? Where my goal where's my silver? Where's my car? No. They are believing man or woman. They don't think about that anymore. When you're coming close to them. They just want to get more prepared. Let Allah say Waltons are not so sama Ladin? Oh, you who believe in Allah, look into yourself, what have you prepared for your next life?

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So the believing so they are prepared.

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So there's no worry for them.

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But as for the corrupted people,

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the corrupted soul, the people land trees and any more rest from him. We understand this and

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yeah, we understand that. Good.

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Because he's a he's a troublemaker.

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He's a dictator,

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his oppressor

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So he's a very Tyron leader. So why do you like this? Like,

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at home? How do you feel if you have a very bad husband at home?

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I think

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that men die. The whole family theorist,

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children hamdulillah the wife, one and Hamdulillah, I know at least the burden is taken away.

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So the same thing goes to everything that the Prophet sons is telling us that not only the people, the land, the world, the earth, the tree, the animal, restaurant.

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Yeah.

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But we believe all of us do love each other for the sake of Allah. And we won in lb to be together.

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And they are time Allah Karim. Because we are so close to each other.

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And we pray, may Allah

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make us closer in the Day of Judgment,

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to the extent that after one day, the second will follow very, very fast.

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Among the family of a profit centers around

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the one who asked the prophet to pray for her is Fatima.

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The wife love the Prophet.

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But it so happened that none of the wife asked the prophet to pray for them.

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For what?

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For them to meet Allah as soon as possible. After the Prophet possibly, except Fatima

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Fatima say to his to her father, Hera Samba pray for me that I will be the closest to you.

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Meaning after you pass away

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may all the family that potty mouth will follow.

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And it's so true. Fatima passed away before all the other wives pass away. And

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but that is the only daughter of the Prophet that was alive at that time. Yeah, yeah. omocha foom or have passed away before Fatima before Prophet Mohammed Salah Salah.

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I don't know any one of us pray like this or not.

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If you have a good husband and good wife, normally we want to live together.

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And if possible, we want to die together.

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But normally, we can live together. But

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if you plan and Allah said no, it's up to him.

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Now some people claim that they wish for death and are ready for it.

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But is this a true claim? And can they maintain the claim when death approaches them?

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A lot of people element blame some people of the past who makes us claim by saying well, I couldn't have known that mountain and the toe who are able to move and tanzu you did indeed wish for death before you met it. Now you have seen it openly with your own eyes, meaning when death come to them, they are not ready.

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And it's not easy. It's not easy.

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We always hope and pray me en la la la la la de Hosni Cantina, a good ending. But to do that, to achieve good ending to all the system rather whatever we do from today,

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from today, we hope that the ending of what we are doing is obvious.

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If you are in the office, make sure that before you leave the office, we have done a good job. We have done your best. You don't want to delay anymore.

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Because what you want to do tomorrow we do not know that is tomorrow for you or not. We do not know.

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So anything that you were been trusted with Amanda, you have to fulfill that Amanda in the best manner. And

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like homework, you know, whatever homework you're doing.

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Don't go for the last minute in prepare. Now you're sitting for any

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exam, you also have to prepare yourself

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is easy to see that but that Prophet did mention in the Hadees one other sign of kiama is coming closer to every one of us kiama to all of us there to kiama Yama for you and may well be that there is our karma. When everything dies, there is the TMR Cobra

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then every living thing will die. But when we pass away one by one, this is our own karma. Our minor piano in

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the Prophet didn't mentioned that one of the sign that

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our karma is closed is we start to talk to Allah when we see somebody pass away will be passed by the graveyard we see how Yeah, good will be for me if I will be in the graveyard now. That means we like to die now. We prefer to die than to keep on living because of the fitna of the problem that is coming up from day to day that we have to face.

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There is not a good sign actually bigger as a believer, you want to do more.

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And what you have done so far we do not know whether is enough, but we need to do more.

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So you always hope that Allah will give you more opportunity to do more good deeds before you go back to him.

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This really indicates a lack of Eman in Allah and His promises that me you'll give up now you

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a true believer is ready for any kind of tests that may afflict him or her for the cons of Allah because of Allah. Unlike those whom Allah described as for the woman, the nurse, my Guru mandevilla for either ocfa ledger, Allah fitten at the NAS Casa Bella

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wala injure and Muslim Arabic, fire colon in ma

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la, la, la, la sama, Allahu Allah be our lamb ob Murphy. So during alameen

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they are among the people who say, we believe in Allah. But if they are hum, or they are tested, for the sake of Allah de consider the people's hum similar to a lot punishment.

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When a lot that is true, somebody

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will say that this is a last punishment.

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And if victory comes from Allah, they will say, very real on your site.

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We are only one good thing to happen anything bad. We are very negative. And we start to complain. We start to say why Allah allow these things to happen, allow that thing to happen, is not a love, best aware of what is within the breast of the people. Now, a lot is reminding us that he knows what is in our heart.

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What is inside us is in the knowledge of Allah roble and Ameen.

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So I would say brothers and sister, when you are still healthy, you don't ask for sickness. We are still young, you don't ask to get over yet. You have to get old sooner or later. But you do want to get old so fast. And that's when people ask you how old you are. You don't have to tell them and because you don't want to get old fast, you still want to do more.

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When you are alive, so that you want to do more. You don't just think I'm going to die. I'm gonna die. No, no, then you become very negative to yourself. You say I want to live longer insha Allah to do more good thing not to do that thing.

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That is important. That mean your thing positively Houston is on biLlahi to Allah. Allah, Allah Allah means say that that is one of the attitude of the believer that you don't find in the heart of the non believer, his host Nexon Bellavita. Allah we have good feeling good thoughts with a lot of Aladdin.

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We never give up. Mama, we never give for give up hope. We never

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no complaint with what Allah Allah mean. Yeah, dear upon all of us. We are learning we are learning and get ourselves closer and stronger.

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To Allah Rabbil aalameen

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the very important thing brothers and sisters, when Allah put all of us into a test, rule number one Be patient.

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So, in Allah Subhan Allah is very close to those who have subpar.

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Now important provisional from this slide let us then be sincere to ourselves and truthful with ourselves this life is but a test a marble and amine is testing on us. So let us leave it with this knowledge with this understanding and awareness and pick from it. What we need for our next live ama have remained an in Surah mulk was to allegedly helical monta will hire

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layup Lu comm or layup Lu welcome as

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well as jeans we'll go for the one who created death and life because we were not alive here earlier then Allah give us life. And of course he is going to take back our life like what Allah see in others. Instead of Baka una

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una De La Hoya quantum unwired and for item two to Miami to come from Morocco. He come from Georgia. How can you be so dis obedient to Allah?

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And how can you go for deny Allah when you do not exist before the I created you, I give life to you.

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And then I'm going to take you back and after taking you back I will give you live again in the next one.

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That mean Allah waterpolo soul to Angel of Death is not

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that we are dying is just Allah is transferring us to other world and after that there is no more death.

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You only experienced death here.

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The next life there is no more death. That's why Allah Singh a Tata Runa biLlahi Vokoun am word. But yeah, come to my yummy to come to my yo he come and you all will return back to Allah. Allah Allah.

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So Allah, Allah, Allah min here is telling us that we must remember the one who created death and life is Allah

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that He may pass all of us with, which of us is best indeed, will be tested by Allah. How do Allah tested by giving us more?

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Actually the mama give us the more test we are receiving from who are most tested by Allah is all the prophets or the Prophet was tested by Allah more than any one of us.

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Look how a lot tested in Adam Idris No, no I was tested that his children himself, his children didn't ignore the father's indication is not easy, where he can save some other people, but his immediately son in one of the Son, choose not to follow the Father.

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loot the wife choose not to follow.

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Abraham, the father chose not to follow

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prophets among prophets are so Allah tested them, our Prophet, the uncle, get so good to him and Batali. choose not to follow.

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It's not easy.

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A lower test us but look at the core ban of all the profits, Allahu Akbar, Ibrahim was tested by Allah

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to offer his only son added them that he loves so much

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as a sacrifice for Allah.

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None of us will be tested in that manner insha Allah

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so Allah said he passed us just to see which one of us better in our deeds is easy for yourself inshallah I will do this I will do that. When you don't have. When you have then there is a time Allah see whether you're doing it or not.

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When you don't have knowledge, you have nothing to say. When you have knowledge, what are you going to say?

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What are you going to say when you have not? Do you share the knowledge with your friend, your family? That's what you have to do. You are not going to use the knowledge to go and judge people and condemn people. No, no, you are using their knowledge to go and help them, educate them, remind them, but not to judge them.

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When you have more to give, are you giving all this is a testimonial.

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Frequent remembrance of death is something that Prophet encourages Omar that should just be a constant reminder for us, and a means of controlling our desires and restraining our greed. And as an and Abby Herrera rhodiola, who and Houma reported that Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam said you absolutely could have has the middle desert is that is in a mount frequently remember the destroyer of pleasure, there is

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the pleasure that we are having today because we still have our desire, we have the knifes but when that is coming close to us, all our knifes have been that's why we don't have the feeling to eat. We don't have the desire to drink, we don't have to desire to everything anymore.

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When that is coming very close one of the signs, you will see one by one all the desire we have is going to stop

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is going to stop. People prepare all the best what we just don't have the feeling it anymore.

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And sometimes when people come to us, we just don't have the desire to entertain what they want to say, we have, we are so tired, we are struggling within ourselves.

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We don't even want to open our eyes and then look at the people we just want to close our eyes we want to rest we want to read though in this document.

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And that's why the Prophet said when somebody passed away, the first thing that we should help is also to close the AI

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because the AI will follow where the soul is been pulled off the soul may come from the bottom from a also from out from the bottom but the I will follow.

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So most of the people die you see the eye open.

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They have to see allow one dead to see. Number one they will see Angel of Death. Number one

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we can see but the one who's dying, you can see the interrupt there barozzi for the local command about this in one of the hottest

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we will come to the hardest one day.

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And also for the believer at that point of time. Behind the Angel of Death you had the angel of mercy giving us that typing

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letter the cow wallet son

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Don't worry Don't fear because Allah love you

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so the person who want to die if he's a believer, when he got that kind of blood typing

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now he had the peace

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Southern death to us, but to them yeah even accident to Earth our value is a sudden death but to them they have to go through the Angel of Death also will communicate with Danbury Angel of Devon very close to all of us. You know we forget him always but he never forget this. He is just ready when Allah say Time's up.

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But you know that all of us have Angel of Death.

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Yeah, every one of us has been appointed by Allah, an angel of death.

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If you can see Him we will collapse

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because another heart attack.

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Yeah.

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But the proper is time as frequently remember the destroyer of pleasure, that is death. That means if you always remember that you are going to die you're gonna die. There's nothing wrong to remind yourself that we are not going to live forever.

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But then you must always make sure that you are doing something

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and not just give up. No

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I want to dive I want to dive into that one. Yes, you're gonna die. You don't have to worry about your debt because the debt will come to you. But you have to crap the opportunity. What have not been doing yet. What is the thing that I've done? Tanya, I quickly I want to do it before it's too late. You know what, remember it was in a tightness of living, but it will expand it for him and none will remember it was in an ease of living, but it will tighten it for him. Normally. No, we only feel we only feel

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because the desire is still very strong. But the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is reminding us in the time we get frustrated, then we think we have time that now we are tested, then we think that Oh, no.

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It's better for me to die is better for me to die.

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Normally, I think most of us

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do have that experience sometimes.

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When you are sick, is it I better die than to go to all this suffering.

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Then something happened. I want to die. So everybody want to die.

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But when you were in when you are okay, you'd never want to die. No.

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Those were in the hospital even asked them Sudan. No,

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don't worry about me. Let me go.

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But suddenly you are healthy you can get up and I don't go into the hospital again.

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There is life there is nothing.

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Remembering that remembering death maintain of a balanced wheel of life. You know, when you always remember that you're going to die and you are not going to bring everything with you or your well your children and everything is not going to follow you. The only thing that is going to be very loyal and faithful to you is your deeds, your Eman other than that.

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They are not going to follow you.

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Even your beloved husband said no, I love you from the bottom of my heart. No I live and die with you. The sun the moon the can be a witnesses, when you die is a masala nobody wants to follow you. Nobody wants to follow you that is reality.

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He would not go to the extreme of despair in the face of affliction. Nor would he go to the extreme of arrogant and callousness when they would buy an easy life. We are always ready to be thankful to Allah when we receive more, and we have more sabar when Allah tells us

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this is what the Prophet asked from Allah.

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And to be thankful when he

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was given the opportunity to pray, to fast, the very thankful

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and if something happened, something bad happened. May Allah increase sabar,

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to the Prophet sumosalad this word the Prophet always as sobor was sugar.

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We should call on a

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when we receive things, we forget to make sure go when we are able to give. Because if you are given the opportunity to do good deeds, you should be thankful.

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If you can praise or after this is the next month, you should be very thankful. That's why each time you're performing your prayer, you should also pay Allah then Allah give you another chance to pray as a whole. You may have gone back before

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and then answer come in. Now you're going to pray answer, Marcia, these are all a last blessing. And because before you want to pray, what you have to do,

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you have to take evolution and after taking evolution, and you recite Adam

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and Eve you die at that point of time, what is going to happen to you the proper sources, the gates of Paradise is open for you.

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Isn't that

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now the gate is closed now. Now because Zoho is not yet here.

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The fragile gate, the open now wait for Zoho again. When Zoho come in and you take evolution and you say shadow Allah Allah Allahu la sharika. Why shadow ana Muhammadan Abu aura. So just that you don't have a lot more

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than

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just the two Shahada and you die. The Gate of Paradise is open for you again.

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And when you pray again Allah knows the Prophet said there is a gate in paradise name like for the fasting rayyan for those who pray for dough there is another gate for them only those who die while praying they will enter through this

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is a net

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is a net

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so the believing people they are always waiting for this after one prayer They are waiting for the second one after the senate So the same thing after doing one thing good you are preparing to do another thing. And so you always plan you do not just so that I you know I have done something good after pajara and so I don't have to do anymore maybe next year

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No no, I'll give you a risky almost every day

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and that's why Alaska and Pico me maharatna wherever a lot man ever Allah give us something we must prepare to give back to Allah Allah mean

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Furthermore, when a person remember death while performing an act of worship, he would be more likely to perfect that particular act. And last reported that a profit and loss salon always say that remember that in your prayer? Very when a man remember death in history he is. Yeah, I've tried to perfect his brain his work to make sure that he will give the best prayer.

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That means you are more focused, more crucial.

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Then pray the prayer of a man who does not expect to pray another prayer.

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That's why they're saying something certain state smila sobre la cama De

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Luca, whether you like it or not, people will have to pray your funeral prayer for you.

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So pray the prayer of a man who does not expect to pray another prayer is that you must make sure that this is your last prayer. If you know that this is your last prayer.

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What do you think you will do?

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Mashallah, I think if you know that,

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after Zoho, pray, you're going to die. If you know after Zoho play, you will die. I don't think you want to stop.

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Yeah, bring Zoho your key on free as long as you like because you know endangers it. After a while you give Starla I'm going to pull your soul. I don't think any one of us want to be salame that fast.

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No, I think you're on a one hour schedule for one hour because you know after Salah you are gone

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now, just an example. Yeah.

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We have seen through our lifetime

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when we engage ourselves in doing all the good thing. And when we have been humiliated we've been tested who humiliate us who tests us today

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the one that is humiliating is what testing us most today is our own people

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meaning the Muslim is been very

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unkind

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and mercy towards animals. We are very nice to one another

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that allow

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it the not yet mostly

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declare us as the enemy We are ready for them.

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Because we know

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because we are in a different fate and so on. But when parallel Muslim is hard on Earth, human litters

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say they say that we are trying to follow the Quran and Sunnah. But now you have most of them say we have done a stray.

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For him sooner they say is wrong is extreme.

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How do you feel? Do you feel sad?

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When they are not following suit, they don't feel anything. And they are saying that people who follow suit is wrong.

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example we feel very sad.

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In our

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conference, when you have open q&a, a

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lot of people share the same

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problem

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they are complaining because they said what happened to us Muslim

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we have been very hard very mean we lie we cheat we corrupt

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no we want to be corrupted Muslim want to be corrupt

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I mean no corruption is so bad.

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We lie we cheat.

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We make promise.

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We have speaker came from UK they say the experiences if they talk to a not yet Muslim they say I want to rent your house

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and they have agreed

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is 1500 per month

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but if somebody is going to offer more they say no. Because I have promised a lover

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but can you imagine when Muslim doing business with Muslim

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they promise you you give them money in cash Arabia but you are not there yet. But if somebody will offer them more they will give you back your money they say I'm sorry.

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No

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no.

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And this do not just happen here. It happened even in the Holy Land.

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This is how bad we are today.

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No, Amana, everything back to Amana.

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We thought that money is everything No no. There's no more Baraka in life.

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And the Prophet remind us and stay away avoid every method that will require an apology. What is that?

00:52:04--> 00:52:05

What is that?

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What do we understand by this reminder from Prophet Mohammed Salah Salah

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when you do something wrong you say something wrong What should you do?

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You have to say sorry apology. So you don't you didn't do or say anything that is not right.

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So you must know how to control your tongue. That's where the profits in mankind a human being a human Okay. Hi, Ron. Alia Smith. Who ever believe in a one a day of judgment before you say anything you think? Is this good?

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But what can I do? No. fossati

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No, we like to let go and then later on, we regret don't why not? You just hold on Allah will reward you because of your patient in in chama.

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So you don't have to ask for apology.

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Because you don't do anything bad.

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Boy, there's nothing for you to ask for apology because you don't do anything bad.

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You respect your honor.

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You are trustworthy you know?

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You love

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the young and you respect the elders.

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You always try your best to please others for the sake of Allah there's nothing for you to ask for apology

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when we were there in Pakistan the organizer always see me and asked for an apology.

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They apologize please and I'm sorry in case and I say is okay my brother. But of course I'm upset for one.

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I'm upset because I know according to the itinerary. Now, I may have three

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sessions per day.

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But it's back to back.

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Now they say okay, now you can dress as sad to go and pick a dress. Then somebody would knock the door now have to go down again. Another option, another corner is waiting for us. I see I look at my itinerary is not here.

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But then, but they're waiting for you.

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malham Allah Allah give us help.

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Only we do have some coffee and then

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now if they have done everything, they don't have to apologize because they overlook the the pre prefers properly

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But normally some of the speaker We are ready for that we know

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now we know this somebody knows that you must stand firm you know, you just follow what is is been agreed upon as inshallah inshallah but I know they mean well they mean they're even we go to school is back to back back to back

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but I say as long as I'm healthy I don't mind but it's good for us to make sure that we breathe in on the speaker so that they are ready

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they want they do not want to cut by surprise salad and now they want to arrest you say no no no there's another program waiting for you Yeah, but may Allah reward them inshallah for the patient

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doing good things sometimes brothers and sisters is there's a lot of tests to

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come back we must always be ready to do more for the sake of alertable anime inshallah. But if that I said the prophecy avoid every method that would require an apology, but if you organize nicely, I think all agreed that you don't have to worry anymore, you know, because it's something that we have agreed upon.

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me a lot of ladonia except on our deeds insha Allah.

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The last thing that I like to share with all the good brother and sister beware of Dr waves, since that is a common factor to all of us. Whether Muslim or not yet mostly English were to die when they funeral practices and procedures are present in our own culture. Everyone had their own culture.

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Many of those practices are devised by people who do not feel alone

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have no concern about what peace or anger

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or derive their practices from pause and debate. Debate a religion that mean? A lot of people is going to make money from funerals and is happening

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Nowadays, there is a big business

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but the Muslim in general until today, they are the cheapest and hamdulillah

00:57:28--> 00:57:34

I have one of my friends asked me stuff. What do you think about we start the open death

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parlor and then tried to

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do business? Oh, this could be a No, no, the Chinese have never wanna hear Nirvana then. We also have to do say no, as the mostly. I said we don't do business. Yeah, from people's death. Now we should make things easier, we should help them and we should help them.

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I've seen this through my experiences that if you always make things easy for those who pass away the family members, you will see at the end of the day when something happened to us, allow it make it very easy.

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You make it easy for others alarming, easy for you.

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So don't follow other ways try to follow the way of the Prophet some of us and

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Chinese funeral is not cheap.

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So those Chinese who want to die, economically death

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make Shahada

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why you make sure that

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you save a lot.

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Maybe there's a good thing we need to worry about. Please make sure

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you make sure that everything okay? We don't mind. We don't mind the span on them if they make sure that we might. We will love to do all these things for them.

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If they just complete Islam, Allahu Akbar.

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We get everything ready for them. Maha.

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But what can we do and do today we don't even call them to Islam.

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That's the best time and people are not well, it's good for you to remind them about Islam.

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As foretold by Allah messenger, the prophet samosa many Muslims have the inclination to follow the footsteps of other people.

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When people use flour, we also flour when people have beautiful coffee and we want to spill tea because when people want marble, we also marble.

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We are not following the way Allah and the Prophet one has to do

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Even if that leads to a certain destruction This is very apparent in many other funeral rites today and practices. We certainly have pain that instead of following to the text of the Quran and Sunnah many Muslim to the import culture of practices from the nesara the hood and also from the media.

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culture that is said

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to the extent now we don't know that different now. Last time you can see the difference.

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There is a different pie you know the difference.

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Today, we are fully not they follow a dish for us but now we are following them. Now you look at the graveyard deeper selling flour, people are offering you marble grade one grade two grade three important local, they will ask you what you want, they have a list of products.

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Can you imagine that you don't do be do business even until when people die you still want to make money up from them.

01:01:11--> 01:01:23

But Alhamdulillah in the middle is they don't have this nonsense. Why? Because the caretaker of the graveyard scholars

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so they don't allow any an Islamic practices to come into the graveyard. If you start to bring a bottle of water, they'll just collect the water and throw it away.

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If you bring flour, they will take the flour either they put into call you to bring it back or they'll bring to your house or they put in the office here here any flour

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and they I can see the fragrant I can smell when deaf, the deaf they cannot benefit from the flower anymore. But you know, we are so emotional. No, how can you just leave your loved one like that without putting flowers.

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If I'm the Prophet said what flower then we will flow we don't want to we will we will plant a tree for them.

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You can do it.

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But they said the Prophet did

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break some branches of the tama tree. And then he just put it on degrade. Pick he had done that because of why he did not do that with a reason. Because the to grace, Allah permit the prophet to hear the punishment that Tommen

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integrate.

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And that's why he break the branch of the tama tree that's close by and he put in he pray, may Allah protect them is the punishment of the grave for this one and to graveyard because of the sin that they have committed.

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Only twice here he broke the branch of the Dhamma tree.

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Not all Sahaba

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have that kind of of funeral arrangement here.

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That also because a lot a lot the property here the terminal the grave. One is because the person who died like to gossip, so Allah tarnish that immediately.

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You don't have to wait until PMR from the COBOL because the punishment The second is a person who do not clean themselves when they call respond to the call of nature. They don't clean themselves.

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And because of that they have been punished so we must be very careful. Now this cleaning yourself our children is not being taught properly.

01:03:50--> 01:03:58

Our children if not been taught, when you have water then you must use water. When you don't have water then you can use

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either means the toilet paper, the toilet paper get the rough one not the soft one.

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Not the normal tissue. Rough type. You can still use it like a dry cleaning.

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But when there's water we must teach our children. So the mother dish the daughter, the father teach the son

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because sometimes we forgot we fisheye in Lima because this part of evader ablution cleanliness is part of the binder. We must educate our children to clean themselves properly, because they are going to perform prayer

01:04:42--> 01:04:59

in the falls of this book with some time What about practices that involve imitation the Buddha of the disbeliever what the display do? We are following them? Yes. However, every Muslim should work on developing a sense of identity

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The uniqueness and honor in regard to Islam we are Muslim, we are living as the Muslim we want to die as a Muslim. We want our burial to be Islamic.

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We want our graveyard to be Islamic.

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The Islamic graveyard is a graveyard is not a garden.

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You don't have to plant trees.

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We need space.

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We don't have to build extra shade and all these things you don't have to do them.

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A lot, Allah will give them the shade in the day of just one way there's no other shade except the shade of Allah.

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Not this kind of shade umbrella, a roof. This one can not help the disease.

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But the property of Sabbath who knows us the Luma Lufthansa Li yo mala zillah zillah seven groups of this oma will be under the shade of Allah in a day of judgment when there's no other shade except a loss.

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The shelter must come from Allah.

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That is what we want to do.

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But we may not be aware what kind of act or this then can qualify us to receive this shade from Allah robola and Ameen.

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So we must try and work on developing a sense of identity be proud of we as Muslim, the uniqueness in Islam and honor what Islam want us to do, not what other people want us to do not what our traditional want us to do, not what our friend wants us to do.

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He should be ever alert in regard to any action departing from the teaching of Prophet Muhammad samosa lambda sooner, and straying into the prohibited territory of imitating the kuffar.

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Today, from living to dying, we are following other people

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are eating Happy Drinking, adopt everything, our dressing, the way we talk, the way we do things, we don't care, we are not a Muslim as far as and sometimes they are better than us.

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Do we experience that that sometime people who are not yet Muslim better than us? Yeah, too bad? That is too bad? Because we had the best oma, they should follow us not we follow them the differences in funeral procedure between Muslim and non Muslim practical though they may be actually based on deep conceptual and faith based differences. Normally, number one is because our faith yeah different what is the purpose of a funeral service? In contrast to what we mentioned early in this chapter, and what will be re emphasized throughout this book looked at how a not yet Muslim answered this question.

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For those who are left behind a funeral provides a place for family and friends to gather and to reminisce, an opportunity to celebrate the life and accomplishment of a loved one a chance to say bye bye.

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And the focal point from which the healing process can begin. The funeral identifies that a person life has been

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lived not that a death has occurred. It is also important to notify the community that this person has died. There are people beyond the immediate family who have the right to grieve a death. For instance, what would have happened in the United States of any or any country if they had not been a funeral for the president? What is going to happen?

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Just imagine

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not just this he just quoting the writer just got about the president of America the it can be the president of any country No.

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Do you see in this

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any mention of Allah or the here after?

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Of course.

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Most of the time, when people dive if they are non believer, they won't have anything to do with Allah.

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Because they are not believe.

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Do you see any hint of lesson to be learned by the survivor to take heat and improve the way they conduct their life?

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Nobody is there to really remember

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Lately we have another issue in southern country, when they burry the Muslim who pass away, then they get one good Imam Alhamdulillah to come and do the final ritual. But sometime I've seen some thing that happened.

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The they use that time to really keeping all those who are present have very, very strong reminder.

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so strong

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that is like you are

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just like you are

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shouting at everybody who is alive who come to the graveyard.

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I don't think that should be that way you should can remind them

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so that they feel remorse. Your good friend is no more than one day we will follow suit. So we should try to recall the good thing. And whatever bad thing that we know we should try to change No. And we should forgive. But they use that place to keep a hot bar like hot bars, you

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know? Yeah.

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I think there is too much.

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Neither you can just be too happy or so if you can.

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I remember when my father passed away, I was still young. So we must follow the funeral.

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And then for a Chinese, if you a good son. And if the father is a good father, normally, the children will cry.

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The children must cry. If your children don't cry, then you know that the man is not a good man. So guess what? The children don't feel sad at all.

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I remember the my eldest sister is the one who cried the most.

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To the extent she got painted halfway. But for a Chinese culture is a good sign.

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I do not know how to cry at that time. We are still young. Then I cry because my anchor pinch me.

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I can see him he beat me so I have to cry. But today is Chinese funeral. Sometimes they will pay the group of people just for them to cry.

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No, there is no is good to feel remorse but to cry because you have been paid that mean is not from your heart. No, you cry because you love the person, even the Prophet a cry. And when a student pastor himself cried

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when Abraham the last son passed away, he shed tears.

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So some of the competitors look at the profit. Is it yours, your associate the SEC. If you don't have that kind of feeling. That means you have a very hard heart. Your heart is too hard.

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If you love somebody and the person you love pass away and you don't feel anything,

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you must be

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Superman.

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You must feel you because the people that you love, you have the kind of feeling you have the attachment.

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Do you see this in any of the leader who are non believer or mentioned a lot? Of course not very minded about it here after No. Do you see any hint of lesson to be learned by the survivor to take heat and improve the way they conduct their life? Neither they do that how then could the disbeliever practices be of any good for us to follow? We indeed praise our Lord Allah for being so merciful to us to get us to history but not only he gave us when we are alive. Let us from the day we are born until we die.

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How you want to show your gratitude towards Allah. When you have a newborn baby boy or girl, you do Africa, you have the honey, you have the you have the Halla and so on. Allah have been guiding us from the day we were born.

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And the day we die, what to do.

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If you really love the people that pass away your family member, then you have to do what allow you to do not what you like to do.

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So if people is offering you what kind of money

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Do you want to use? You know, what kind of stone? Do you tell them?

01:15:05--> 01:15:11

Thank you because you want to say no, they don't understand. And if you try to educate they say you

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wrong again? No, because they love the adult more than the religion.

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So you've become a big business they ask you what grass Do you want grass on, they're selling now.

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So you tell them, I want the graveyard grave to be like a cliff. Not to be a garden

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to be a grave.

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It's not easy. I know some of us you may be tested by Allah, you want to do that the other family members want to do others something you want to do in the photo. But now you have another family members coming out with all the different color and different flower.

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You don't want but some people are very emotional. They're coming up with flour. And with a jug of water again.

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You don't know what is going to happen. And normally we like that. Normally we like that to happen. Please if possible

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anything happened to us while children

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don't forget our own identity, our own uniqueness, our own value and even our Prophet

01:16:30--> 01:16:33

companions of the Prophet very very simple they no

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no when you die nothing can really benefit you except trees.

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So the cotton geria element fob and Walton solid yet

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so make sure you have left behind righteous children.

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You have done your setup, your walk off, if any.

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And whatever knowledge you have learned, you have shared with your loved one that's all you have to do.

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So be more prepared brother and sister me a little bit and I mean and make our ending an easy one insha Allah

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and not only when we die, we die following the Quran and Sunnah. We hope that after our death, the funeral will be done according to the Quran and Sunnah.

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That is very important.

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Yeah.

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So if there's any question on this now we open for the second part the q&a

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for the sister first now.

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Welcome Salama.

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The right of the Muslim

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okay.

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Correct.

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Okay.

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Good. I

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know.

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Yeah.

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Yeah. Sometimes there are times when a compelling us the profit, what is the basic right? Among fellow Muslim. So at one time, the prophet may say five. In another time, the prophet said six.

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Now, why the five here and then later on six, or later on, you said there will be seven, eight because when the Prophet wants to make it simple here to somebody who just focused on the basic

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example.

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above my head is a matter of

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when a Muslim pass away, you should follow and pay a visit.

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But now, bear with it to do what

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you do not just be present and don't participate in a prayer. And now the other hand is later on, we'll explain further, not just to be there to be around, but to participate in the funeral prayer. So now you pass you plus one more.

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Not the first one is Muslims funeral because they had this thing called Muslim Allah Muslim. Yeah, the right between para Muslim, they had this talk about the right upon fellow Muslim

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But for other funeral

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you can be there there's nothing wrong

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but only we cannot participate in the ritual your present you only can be around there so

01:20:19--> 01:20:23

the same go to give Salah giving Salam is what is not

01:20:25--> 01:20:28

giving Salam is pseudonym aka

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highly recommended but if you don't offer Salaam you do not commit a sin

01:20:36--> 01:20:39

but if a person who wants to poll the Islamic

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adapt when you don't give Salam I'd want to respond to you if you ask me I don't want to answer you talk to me I don't want to say anything I silent you cannot say it was Hmong No, no, no no.

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Because you do not start our

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relationship by offering a prayer Assalamualaikum because Salam is a prayer.

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We are here to bring peace to you.

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So we don't have the intention to come and create problems. We are here to pray for peace and we hope that you also accept me with peace.

01:21:21--> 01:21:23

But when person offer you

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is watch it for you to respond.

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The Prophet de se haka, Muslim, Allah Muslim and just call 6146 tune in as a Muslim six. is Allah theta hufa? Salim Allah when you meet each other, you're offering the Islamic greeting.

01:21:44--> 01:21:51

What is that the ARCA Jeep? Who and a person invite you for especially when they invite you for food?

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Food that they have. They have to pay that means like no hotel? No, they say they have booked 10 tables every day. 10 people per table they have to pay. Now, if you don't turn up is always at that time of invitation. When you say yes, I'm coming, you must go.

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If not, you are the cost of the bombas era. The base

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is at the ACA gene pool number two. Number three is at OSHA for having a lawful submit to the process. Nice. He said humla You said your honkala and he or she will respond Yeah, Big Mama.

01:22:34--> 01:22:42

What is an sahakar? ponsa when somebody come to you and ask for advice, give them away literally.

01:22:43--> 01:22:48

No. Random and here listen. You cannot say I'm sorry. I know.

01:22:50--> 01:22:56

I'm busy. I know how busy you are. When people come to your seat for some advice. They need

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some help. Just let them listen also is helping them solve the problem. You cannot say I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I don't know I can't help you. And leaders hit each other I'll pray for you.

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To say prayer is difficult. Yeah, man, you have patient first example number one now

01:23:24--> 01:23:27

44 at

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number one, if you meet each other you give Salah

01:23:37--> 01:23:49

when you are invited in especially for the US born when you sneeze you say Alhamdulillah and when you ask for advice, you give them advice. How many?

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Okay

01:23:54--> 01:23:59

then, is that fair is a Merida 402 when a person is sick

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visit Yeah.

01:24:05--> 01:24:34

But there's also adapt now please remember the visit the sick or so there has to adapt. If the doctor had advice you don't because he needs dress. More people come and visit him you'll get more time because the nurses also on off come and visit him or her to take the blood pressure, take blood again and all these things and then we come across again. So how can he or she dress when they need a lot of rest.

01:24:35--> 01:24:49

So there's an adapt that. If you feel that they need rest Don't disturb them. You only go to them when the hour for the visiting hour or you just call and then say we have prayed for you.

01:24:50--> 01:24:53

Take rest. Maybe after three days.

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You can start to pray. If they do need your present, bit and the three days

01:25:00--> 01:25:03

When they are better then you go and adapt

01:25:06--> 01:25:08

but there are people who really need you to be around

01:25:10--> 01:25:11

so you have to go

01:25:13--> 01:25:18

where you know that that particular person needs your present they need your moral support then you have to go

01:25:20--> 01:25:22

and the last one fight is a matter

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where a person die then you

01:25:27--> 01:25:29

follow the funeral

01:25:32--> 01:25:50

if you can pray you pray if you can you can follow to the grave you may have some sister can pray because you don't have you're not clean you can pray but you can still send a follow to the graveyard you get one period you don't get the first one you get the second period so you don't miss the pillar

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and some people say oh, if I can pray Why must I go to the graveyard because going to the graveyard also is a kind of moral support

01:26:01--> 01:26:03

and you get the word set to clear right now

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not a good way

01:26:22--> 01:26:23

not in good

01:26:27--> 01:26:28

yeah you must on

01:26:29--> 01:26:32

on his strike that no he don't want to see you

01:26:34--> 01:26:44

as he is right you know it's like the American today the the the precedent setting and they don't like the Muslim docum so is their country what

01:26:47--> 01:26:51

is their country and they say you don't have to come to Angola. So he goes

01:26:52--> 01:26:54

there right is their country

01:26:55--> 01:26:56

so

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Yella Amana there man and then then you must honor is also but then later on the one that he don't like maybe their family member have no problem number that the family members have no problem only that person have a problem. So then we should not go and then later on the habituates that kind of thing and then you can throw throw him down on the living no problem

01:27:34--> 01:27:34

there's nothing wrong

01:27:37--> 01:27:59

you cannot no treat him like an enemy because the one who passed away said he is my enemy you can do like that. Maybe they have a personnel problem. You just leave it to them he is gone. And now this person may also have remotes and changing so why not we have a Serato Rahim again. There's nothing wrong

01:28:01--> 01:28:03

members of the family know

01:28:05--> 01:28:08

this thing a very sensitive issue very very sensitive issue.

01:28:10--> 01:28:15

But we do for the sake of Allah the one who don't like you is no more here.

01:28:16--> 01:28:25

So so you cannot just prolong the hatred while consola maratona nom any other question from the sister now for the

01:28:27--> 01:28:27

salovaara

01:28:32--> 01:28:33

again

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adapt of visiting the graveyard.

01:28:49--> 01:28:54

Now we just do what the prophet recommend us to do. Because visiting the grave is

01:28:57--> 01:29:16

that the one thing that the Prophet said that we should do when we enter the graveyard give Salah first adapt. Salam aleikum, Allah dia, minion, one Muslim Meanwhile, in the insha Allah become law. If you memorize if you don't memorize, then you can give him the adjusted wa

01:29:17--> 01:29:26

salam, I think the Salama we all have memorized. You want to mention a Salam Allah. Allah dare me forget because Salam O Allah, Allah Allah

01:29:28--> 01:29:37

Allah cuckoo for everybody, not only for either your family member or your friend No, but you may go to that particular grave

01:29:38--> 01:29:50

to do some cleaning as but when you offer the salon you offer salon for every Muslim who's in the grace to show us that know when the Muslims are praying for another Muslim. They should pray for everybody.

01:29:52--> 01:29:55

There you go to the graveyard, that particular graveyard.

01:29:56--> 01:29:59

And maybe you want to sit there not really sit No. Did you

01:30:00--> 01:30:16

Don't have to for you to sit you just stand and show some respect here to the people who have passed away they need for you to show some respect that's why you don't go to this kind of place and do a lot of funny thing then you can

01:30:17--> 01:30:27

you have to show some respect and make to our deaths what the prophecy may do for them is clear to the people ask Allah to forgive their soul

01:30:30--> 01:30:35

the Quran was revealed as a guide and for those who are still living

01:30:36--> 01:30:40

for those who have passed away they can hear us anymore

01:30:41--> 01:30:48

because even Allah inform proper Mohamed Salah in Naka lab to snake oil mo

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when I Allah sake of proper mama indeed you Mohammed cannot make the date hear you anymore.

01:31:00--> 01:31:07

Amato face to do. And mama peekaboo and you cannot make those who are in the grave hear you anymore.

01:31:10--> 01:31:11

So there's no teaching

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for them anymore.

01:31:16--> 01:31:17

Making dough is

01:31:18--> 01:31:21

so you don't have to bring water.

01:31:22--> 01:31:24

You don't have to bring flour.

01:31:25--> 01:31:27

Just bring yourself and make

01:31:29--> 01:31:29

very practical

01:31:33--> 01:31:38

now and the last thing, last question from the all the girls and young girls that have any question?

01:31:40--> 01:31:40

No.

01:31:42--> 01:31:45

The brothers and the question from the brother side. Now

01:31:47--> 01:31:47

for Salama.

01:31:59--> 01:32:01

You mean voicing comarca

01:32:08--> 01:32:14

the prophets are Muslim through his swindler. When people are very ill very sick

01:32:15--> 01:32:20

socrata remote or now you call coma we do not know the doctor said No.

01:32:21--> 01:32:55

He's not conscious and so on. The minute you visit them, if possible touch body touch, you must touch them and go near to the ear. If you have the opposite, get close. And whisper. Remind him. Don't forget to say la ilaha illAllah. Because I've seen this through my experiences, he had somebody who was very sick, and then went into first coma. So the family call me I went to the hospital.

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So I keep on holding his hand, put pressure, calling him call his name. And I'm telling him that I am so and so because we will close. And I also say your wife your children is here. I mentioned the name.

01:33:16--> 01:33:18

People who are coma is like

01:33:19--> 01:33:22

it's like they're dreaming. They're lost somewhere.

01:33:23--> 01:33:34

So I'm calling him prices and I say La la la. After 10 minutes alaba he opened his eyes He came he came back

01:33:35--> 01:33:47

then we asked him Do you hear me calling you sit here is like I'm so lost. Like say Jelena so suddenly I hear a voice I'm pulling back the West now I'm back

01:33:49--> 01:33:53

Mashallah, we were so happy when we

01:33:55--> 01:33:57

experienced that kind of thing with him.

01:33:58--> 01:34:07

Then I say hamdulillah since you have memorized you hear the word la a llama. So he also have said like Mohammed, we feel so released. So I went home

01:34:08--> 01:34:13

after another maybe 45 minutes an hour, he went to another

01:34:14--> 01:34:15

coma.

01:34:17--> 01:34:19

So they called me I went again.

01:34:20--> 01:34:24

So I do the same thing. But luckily,

01:34:26--> 01:34:36

this time the second and after some time, more than half an hour. He opened his eyes and he said Illa Allah and then he go is gone.

01:34:38--> 01:34:46

I tell you is that feeling until today when I share this kind of story with any anyone? I can feel them

01:34:47--> 01:34:51

that he his soul is so blessed

01:34:52--> 01:34:56

because he managed to sit La ilaha illAllah before he passed away

01:34:59--> 01:35:00

the doctor

01:35:00--> 01:35:09

whole room is so peaceful, that in the why the children, nobody really feel bad, they feel so peaceful for the Father.

01:35:12--> 01:35:15

And I recall what happened to this man

01:35:16--> 01:35:18

is a very new student of mine.

01:35:22--> 01:35:23

Every time when I

01:35:25--> 01:35:27

passed them some knowledge,

01:35:28--> 01:35:37

he will never practice that particular knowledge until he come to me personally check with me, and then asked me for blessing

01:35:39--> 01:35:41

Minta is in

01:35:42--> 01:35:45

was that on to say Amal Elmo,

01:35:46--> 01:35:57

but he wants to confirm whether his understanding is correct. And then that is in of course. What when we give you the knowledge for you to practice, but they adapt, he had

01:35:59--> 01:36:25

no, they adapt, he come back to you reconfirm and ask you for permission because knowledge came from you. So they honor you, and they ask you for the permission is our last blessing Adamson, some people have certain adapt value in them, that allow make them have a very good ending. So we always try to do the best adapt also, it's important.

01:36:27--> 01:36:38

Yeah, this is something that I experienced with this. There are some people who, who when they socrata mode, we call them that nakoma. But the pain now

01:36:40--> 01:36:43

was so difficult for them, they said like, until the

01:36:47--> 01:36:51

Muslim Alhamdulillah we leave it to Allah to make the final judgement.

01:36:53--> 01:37:06

But when the one that I shared with you about those who went to coma, don't give up that's why the doctor knows it. No, they don't declare the idea. They can because some other organ is still functioning

01:37:09--> 01:37:11

until the doctor confirmed his date then.

01:37:12--> 01:37:31

But we don't give up. Anybody will come close to the person his coma, tried to go near to the ear and whispers in their ear in the mouth, call his name. Introduce yourself and say Jan Lopez de la ilaha illAllah there is the best thing to do

01:37:33--> 01:37:34

the rescue lifted to a lot of law

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and that's why the proper encourage you when you meet Shahada to raise one the index finger

01:37:43--> 01:37:54

me here as an eyeshadow Allah in no more than yourself when the Shahada eyeshadow, nama is the sooner the ratio finger

01:37:56--> 01:37:57

now if you are used to

01:37:58--> 01:38:15

when you are not well with all the cube here, maybe people is guiding you, but you are responding but they cannot hear you. Neither you can say clear from here because all the cube and so on, but by moving your finger

01:38:16--> 01:38:16

then

01:38:17--> 01:38:20

is a sign that you are responding

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there is a there is why is so not to do this. Get used to it when you hit the outside anyway. When there was a shadow Allah in llama.

01:38:33--> 01:38:37

Danny your response your body is responding to the oneness of Allah.

01:38:38--> 01:38:40

Yeah, do that. Yeah, always do that.

01:38:41--> 01:38:45

Then if you are guiding the person who is very sick and suddenly he moves his finger

01:38:47--> 01:38:48

then you know he's responding.

01:38:50--> 01:38:55

When he respond you don't keep on pressing him anymore. Then you get upset.

01:38:57--> 01:38:59

What you're trying to tell me No, I'd much rather

01:39:00--> 01:39:02

one day respond then you May Allah

01:39:04--> 01:39:05

give him a good ending Yama,

01:39:07--> 01:39:10

Alba, who at Aqaba, Allah Dini wala taught

01:39:13--> 01:39:17

me his hat step past that he will always remember you.

01:39:19--> 01:39:21

In Sharla last one,

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yes.

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No, normally when we fish, all the knowledge is Amanda from Allah to us. So when the student is there to listen to the knowledge, he is a blessing for us. Of course, we are giving it for all of you, but

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Sometimes they are different people have different extra adapt, that Allah will reward them for that extra. Now, there is a difference, you know, different people had different kind of value, that's why the in the Prophet 10 different Sahaba have different

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character, they have different value

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than the reason that I liked his way is what

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he would come and confirm with me first before he went to ama there was very, very good for him.

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No,

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he learned so fast enough because he wants to make sure that he had the right understanding and he will act accordingly. There is something very good but now you're learning

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what do you really understand I do not know to what level you're understanding neither I know.

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So if you follow up with reconfirmation, at least I know Oh, you got it wrong, it should be like this. Then

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we also have confident that you are not going to do it wrongly. And we are happy that you double check. And of course we are praying Allah make it easy for you.

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The recombination is good to make sure that we do not

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miss interpret

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what we have learned

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that is very important inshallah.

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So brother and sister inshallah, as I said, again, you don't have to come and ask me for permission, no need is enough. Just if you're not sure it's good for you to reconfirm. And then I will make sure that you have the right understanding, then it's easy for you to practice it. And it's easy for you to convey the knowledge to either because you have the right understanding. My URI de la Hobi Hi, Ronnie puppy who did the the prophecy, whoever Allah love to give him a lot of care, a lot of goodness, Allah will make him understand this thing. Now. Remember, sometimes understanding do not really come from us. It is a gift from Allah.

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When you are humble, you are sincere, inshallah you can understand, easier and better

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until we see you again inshallah. Next Wednesday, and for the sisters, for those who are free to join us every Saturday, Sunday class, you're all welcome here. If you have the time.

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You can bring your other family members so that we've learned together inshallah.

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inshallah Subhana Allah homophobia, Mika shadow law in South Africa. salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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How are you?