158 – Jumuah
Channel: Faaik Gamieldien
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158. Oct. 21 2016
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la la la la la la la la sharika wanna shadow under Mohammad Abu or a solo salvaterra Biggie was Allahu alayhi wa early he was heavy woman da da what he did I have it in my bad blood brothers and sisters in Islam. Assalamu aleikum wa rahmatullah wa Taala Baraka. I said last week, I was going to speak on the architecture of the peran somehow i'd misplaced my notes. And
that was the end of that until I find it in sha Allah
make 12 pretty soon we will we'll give that that goodbye Charla. But today is actually an extension part from that.
hood bar, which we gave last week in relation to the unsolved and the Mojave rune. The rune as you all know, were the people who migrated from Makkah was nothing there to leave everything behind. Even some, some of them are to leave their families behind.
And they were welcomed by the answer of Medina and we know that allows pilota speaks very highly of both these troops. And Allah mentions the mahadji rune by name while alphacard Lil sakara al muhajir in Allah says and the poor of the muhajir own
the Lil sakara al muhajir in alladhina ocrelizumab Dr. Rahim Allah him Yeah, but the hoonah problem is Allah He or the water allows father says and the poor of the Mojave rune they're the first in line for the booty of the battle. Of which battle was it? No, it wasn't the battle. It was the Battle of haber. The way they overcame the Jews and they lots of money flowed into Medina and allows pandalam the Sahaba were concerned about what's going to happen to all the money was gonna get all the money and allows father assist Lila he
Oliveira soul, or the little corba bwalya thermowell Misaki urbanicity, Allah says, That man is for Allah and His Prophet, and for the poor people, meant for Allah, his prophet and for the poor. So let's settle the question of the booty at that particular time. Today, we're going to look at
the circle munafo, which is, which is the one of the shorter surah in the Quran only only has 11 verses. And we're going to particularly just look at two of those verses. And we're going to look at
through the lens of these two verses, we will look at the personality of the Navy, so lasala as a peacemaker,
as a peacemaker, how we dealt with situations where one would seem that things are going to blow out of proportion, and how the nobbies Islam calms down situations. And in this instance, it's going to deal with a situation between an Ansari and Mahajan,
one man from Ensenada and one man from the Baja Giroux.
Now, to introduce the topic,
when the Nabi sallallahu Sallam came
as a muhajir, himself, having made hegira
the Arabian Peninsula was
at a point where they wanted to destroy as I said last week,
the very foundation of Islam by destroying by trying to destroy the men around Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam. And a series of battles have taken place, namely his battle of brother. Then the Battle of offered the Battle of hunter which we spoke about last week.
And some of the tribes took advantage of this kind of situation and Ibiza sort of found himself in particularly after the Battle of
the tribes. Not all of them were against NaVi Sasselov not all of them were enemies of the navies of Salah, not all of them participated sometimes in the battles against enemies or some, but sometimes some of them saw an opportunity to exploit the weakness of the Muslims particularly after the Battle of it because now half the battle of boyhood, whenever Salaam was nearly dead in a loss, his life lost his tooth. And he was scarred in his face. And some some injuries he had he had quite a few injuries. And we know now Seba
lady by the name of nasima, who was on the battlefield
Making Jihad with the men she probably was a nurse. But I mean she, when the battle turned against the Muslims when the archers left the back defenses and Muslims are overwhelmed by the Quraysh
the first target the head was to kill the Navy salsa love and we know they came right up to the Navy solemn they came right to the Navy rsfsr and this harbor that men somehow, you know, men, when they see blood sometimes, you know, they they tend to faint in women also, but men also and sudden as men, the situations that may come handle
and it was this lady in a FIBA that actually took the swords from one of the Sahaba and stood in front of the Navy salon and defended the novelties of the salon. He was bleeding profusely, and she came in she defended him.
So it tells you
it gives you an indication of the role that we've been played in the time with an IV throw lasala they weren't only homemakers, they weren't only in the home, but they physically went out with the army to make Jihad with with his mother at hand that they were the nurses and they they and they were also the people who encouraged sang praises in praise of the of the Mujahideen and people making making the the jihad
in the part of our last panel. So after the Battle of offered, there was one tribe
by the name of the Baba mano Mr Lippe mano masala. Check this name as a salt in it a toy in it. And apart from that, so most Talia pop with a cough at the end.
All the difficult laters in in this word, that almost Olive was a tribe that lived the effect they they they live at the entrance to the city of Mecca.
So they were the tribe that always used to prevent the NaVi Salalah Solomon the Sahaba from coming to Makkah, because they were right at the entrance level between two mountains and you had to go by them before you could enter Makkah. So and they had a very close relationship with the Quraysh. And of course they were not Muslim. And after the Battle of offered, they
thought that if they attack Medina now, at that point, they would be able to overcome the Muslims. And they were not interested in overcoming the Muslims. That was not the objective. The objective was that they wanted to raid Medina. They wanted the wealth and the homes and the women and everything else that Medina had. So they decided that they were going to attack them to be arisa salam, of course, thinking that the Nabi salatu salam was at a low ebb, and he was injured also. And there was many moments as haba morale was very low, and so forth and so on. And
these tribes that lived in the Arabian Peninsula, they survived are robbing each other. That was their job.
They survived on robbing the caravans of each other, sometimes even amongst friends, because that's how they live that desert you have to survive. And sometimes to survive. You have to, you know, do things which normal people won't do. So, this was the mission above Marina, for example, the lottoland abora belong to a tribe called dos type of dos. Bonnie Benito, they lived.
We did that in that area next to the Red Sea. They live they and their job was to intercept all the caravans that come from Yemen going to Syria. That was the job they were what we go to the highway robbers in plain Africa, we call them this scoreless, you know, that kind of,
well, I don't have a better name than
so they went these highway robbers.
And Abu Raina was one of was a member of that tribe. Then we know that Abu huraira della clan,
whose initial name was Abu shoves his name his father gave him was the slave of the son. And when he
at the instigation of his tribal leader to fail, who became Muslim when he went with to fail to Makkah to meet and Ibiza la sala, and we asked him what his name was, and he said Abu Abu Shabaab and he said lamesa Sallam said, From the day or name of the Abdur Rahman
and he got the name Abdur Rahman. And of course, we only know him by Moreira. And the reason we know about Morena Oh, do you know the story that he loved kittens. He was a robber that loved kittens. These robbers have all kinds of
things that they do you know, some of the cats some of the dogs have all kinds of things. So he, he was a manual of kittens and Nagisa Salaam then gave him a nickname of Father of the kittens. So this was the lifestyle of the people of Arabia at that time. So the this tribe like the Abu dos thought that this will be easy for them, so they know that they were not really enemies of the Navy, Salah Salah they were more capitalists.
They saw more the the financial
advantages of attacking Medina. for them. It is not about Islam. It is about the economic advantages
by the enemy so Allah Salah being who he was,
he was always
one step ahead of his enemies.
And he had sent scouts
and spies to find out what the Arabs were up to afterward.
Remember they are under attack. This is an attack on Medina coming close to Medina. And he was told that the Banu masala was going to attack Medina
and then evisa La Silla preempted we attack of the vermouth, Ban almost Alec preempted meaning that he went out to them instead of them coming to him.
And this was always the tactic of the Nabi sallallahu Sallam except for the Battle of
the hand up. Then I didn't leave Medina, he left Medina 400 he left Medina for weather. By the weekend 200 he stayed in Medina
the reason he stayed in Medina was because the numbers were too overwhelming whelming for him to meet them outside of 10,000. Again 3000 was not going to do the job for the Navy. So 10,000 was an overwhelming number of soldiers to overcome. So then me Salah went out to meet the Abu Mr. Alec. And
because they were caught
off guard, the NaVi Salam
captured 100 of the soldiers captured the whole town of the bamboo stallion where they lived.
including capturing a lady by the name of joy Rhea, those of you who know the wives of the Navy salsa, love know that one of the one of them with jewelry actually was also a mohawk. She narrated many, many a Hadith of the Navy Salam she was captured in this battle. And there's a long story with Isaiah zero talana who said that she came to the she was captured and she was
the rules of war was women were captured and they were they became slaves. Or they were married off to the whoever captured them. And she came to the Navy salsa lamb with a request. And I shouldn't erase the hurry. I just says this lady came to knock on the door. And I should say when she came in by the door she immediately ated
ISIS one lady was really honestly
she's no reason either because she was so beautiful.
And she knew what was going to happen. So I should say she came to the nurses era. So Lola said, You know, I,
I you've captured 100 of our men.
what what do you require as a ransom for them to go back
to release them as prisoners of war. So now we saw someone said I will marry you and your dowry will be setting them free.
and of course, I shared this what I knew was going to happen that Jesus obviously saw that she was going to be a great Omen in her defense over the song. And then besides that, I'm saying these 100 men back and when they came back to the village where they came from, the people in the village were shocked you know, that way you know, you're in war, you're captured the suddenly home. This year, we had a wedding gift of joy area, NGO area was the daughter of the leader of the tribe SubhanAllah. So a lot of these marriages, ended in two wars to protect Islam was to protect Islamic which is quite obvious, and that is why the Navy, so Salah, married her.
So when these 100 men came back to LA boo boo metallic, the whole tribe became Muslim.
They said it must be a wonderful man. he marries the chief's daughter and he sets free all the prisoners of war.
You know, this is really a man that needs to be respected and we have to and they all became Muslim. The whole tribe became Muslim and tight I became Muslim.
So on the way back
within Ibiza, Salah was coming back from this battle, they stopped to the well,
and the soldiers of those with the Navy salsa lamb, but 700 of them.
They consisted of Mahajan and unser. And they were standing in queues
queuing in front of this well, in order to get water from the well.
And you're not easy when you stand in a queue for long waiting for water. There was one muhajir
his name was Joshua, for the strange name.
Adam, Joshua was his name. And he was standing behind an Ansari
whose name was Sinan in Nevada.
So the two of them got into an argument.
This is Mr. solemn, they were camping. Soldiers were now going to quench a thirst as well. And the two of them got into an argument about what Allah knows alone. But people get into arguments all the time, road rage and all kinds of arguments. So this is a little bit of a little bit of a well rage argument that took place here. And eventually what happened was
that the mohajir tjahaja Sinan the answer, he kicked it.
The people get out of hand they think
back out in the US the fastest guy just kicked out.
So they thought he was shocked when he when he saw them. He said oh, I could watch you. You You came to us and we you know we welcomed you with open arms you know, we said our food with you. We shared our homes with you. We shared our wealth with you when you're kicking me now. I mean JD This is the kind of behavior to expect from people who are immigrants living in our town and kicking us you know, so the I'm sorry, he shouted for assistance you know, I these are these when when two people have a thing between them wherever they are, you know, they try and get support from wherever they are so they raise their voices. So they aren't sorry, shouted Yamashina on top, you know, trying to
get the answer not to come around him. Of course in the modular that he shouted a shotgun. Yeah, my Masha. Allah Mahajan. Oh, people of Omaha Jerry, in other words, cowboy, you know, look at what this man is doing here, you know, is Ansari saying to his to his country folk, you know, this guy just kicked me in the Mirage says, Well, you know, in an argument, this is what he said to me. And you know, it made me angry and this is what happened. And
we now have it started between two single people. as normal the argument begins, and now the arguments for it to do it outright to both sides of the army.
Marine was part of the army and sansaar was part of the army.
the Navy sallallahu alayhi salatu salam
came to hear about this because it's going on outside. Now, what happens they raise their voices shouting you know, and let me tell us what is what is happening you know, he said, Well, Joshua Mahajan, he kicked the Ansari and ganzar want revenge Oh, they want you know, they want something something to be done about this project. So, whenever he says alarm Call, call them and say you know, cooler as you say today, please You know, this is not this is not this is not a Muslim should should react You know, this is not the way to react, you know, we are an army we are in battle dress. If the enemy should know that we are fighting amongst each other Subhanallah
this will be a very bad sign of the hub of Mohamed Salah Salah, forget about it. You know, it's an incident that happens. People kick each other, they snag each other they do, but don't let it overwhelm you. Don't let it get to get to you as they say.
But the interesting part of this was that these two persons didn't call Yaroslav, Medina, the guy from Medina didn't call the people of Medina nor did the margin call the people from Makkah. He called the Mojave rune. In other words, they saw themselves and this is what Islam does to you. When you when you accept the kalama
you lose your ethnicity.
You lose your tribalism.
stampante you become something else. And in this sense here, the muhajir rune and young Tsar was saying they were calling by those names, letting the others know that this is about contribution. The Ansari was saying, I'm calling you and
not people of Medina, because you are the answer. You are the helpers that help them Oh Ha Joon. This is what we did for them. In one word, he was telling them that you open your homes to them. And this is what they're doing to us. If the Mahajan was saying, our contribution is we sacrifice with an Ibiza settler, we defended him in Makkah, we've played out for him, out of love for him, out of love for Allah, out of Allah for Allah, Allah, Allah Allah. And this is where the two stood. Now, both of them were claiming that the other was
the more for Islam than the other one. This was the this was the claim that they had. So when the Navy Salam heard that this was how they called each other, now, you want to call it, leave it both of you and make great contributions to Islam.
And we don't need this now at this junction.
But you know, it is it's always murmurings everyone what the leader says, but you know, what is going to happen now? Can I just leave it like that? You know, and what about us, I'm sorry.
So this message, this altercation that happened in the wealth,
you reach the ears of another person
was also part of the arm. And his name was
he was the chief of the minority food. Abdullah in the obey Allah, that was his name. He was the chief of them enough.
So when he heard that the Mojave rakic
the I'm sorry.
He called all the answers together all the people of Medina in his in his 20s was a little bit away from the musallam and he called the answer to get any state
his intent was to use the incident to stir trouble to stir up trouble against the Navy Salalah we know him
and it's always something which I which which, which greatly affects me when I read about the life of the Navy, so Salim how he treated his enemies, not enemies outside of Islam, but enemies
who recited the Quran
and this is the reality which we must be aware of.
That sometimes even people who recite the Karima can be enemies of Muslims, when they recite the Kalima only with a mouth but the heart or not with Islam. And so, Abdullah in new Bay, though he was in the Army or even fighting Jihad with a Navy Salah, he was a monastic, he was the only monarchy, but he was the chief of the monarchy.
But the Navy system was was such a man. He was vigilant, we knew that he was an enemy from within. So he is very vigilant of Abdullayev new way and very forgiving him Abdullayev No way. Because nobody prayed behind him five times every day.
When with jihad, with him with Chad, to fight jihad, the father of laws.
Yet Allah father when he first appeared in the Quran, he says, Allah una una feed that kill us feminine love. The moon African will be in the lowest part of Jana, because they only outwardly they Muslim, but inwardly they're not Muslim, meaning inwardly, not that they don't make Salah they don't know they hate Islam inwardly. They hate it some sort of inwardly, or outwardly, they show all the trappings of being a good Muslim. And even when he died,
he said, son
came to the Navy, Sun City, Arizona law.
Because my father after all, he knew his father was the monofin he knew his father was the chief of them, not people. In fact, yeah, this battle of musalla. He asked, and he would kill his own father.
When I asked him that,
you know, why should you Why should you Why should you want to kill your father? He said, but he doesn't. He doesn't love me and so I know him. I live with him in the same house. He is a monastic.
I am sure I will love your must love him one of the two. There is a certain sense Sampson well we could you could we could get somebody else to claim he says no, no, no, no. I always thought the day and maybe today and we'll see why. You say to the novices animated baby today.
The day that you're going to ask somebody to kill my father and I want to offer my services first and then why do you want to kill your father? Why'd you allow somebody else? He said because if somebody else would kill him I will never be able to look in that person's face again and he would be my brother
I just for that I would I would do it to get a laugh people excellent look at the love that for the today we say no but as my dad my father you know Never mind what they might do. My dad is my father you know I have to just do what I have to do now. They for the Sahaba it was
that which inspired the decisions and motivated them was the love for love.
They would hate for the sake of Allah new love for the sake of almost parameter that was the life
so I'm gonna debate Oh, this is an opportunity call the answer together and say to them
oh people of Medina Look what the immigrants are doing. Well, you invited him to the into your homes. And you know those those days there were no three bedroom houses or four bedroom houses with a granny flat or a flat for the guests no 1000s of just one single room.
I mean, today's family comes to visit you know,
we don't even take visitors themselves anymore. They have to go visit and say no tallow in a bed and breakfast or whatever even if we have 10 rooms you know, people have become like that remain in those days in the early days when hotels you couldn't charge off white people. So whenever they were visitors in town, you know I was at lots of visitors sleeping in my dining room and you know we have our visa card meetings and all the guys from Durban and jobo is a sleeping mouse my wife used to make big pots of food you know today that camera is not there anymore today This one goes to say that hotel that one goes to say yeah, but in at that time the answer they wanted what was one room
homes and if somebody had to come and stay with him they just had to put up a curtain maybe you know and the person would sleep behind the curtain there's a few hours of a few days this for a long time these people came to stay there for a very long time shade the food for a very long time Allah spoke to what speaks about in last week is sort of a hush hush as I explained to you last week so he told the answer is
yeah you see
this is what you call biting the hand that feeds you your generosity for these
projects to kamya look are they doing the kicking you they physically kicking you? That's what they do. These people are beggars they got no culture
they are there you know how it is when you say people is a beggar because you giving you feel is superior to him. So we gave to them you know, they came here as big as came with nothing from Makkah you know
and then he said then he reminded them as he was now working himself up into a frenzy reminding them about the Arab saying with the Arab says you know if you feed a dog
and it becomes fatty by two
it says these are dogs referred he didn't you know suffer to the Mahajan. Subhana Allah his dogs. They said yeah, you make them fat in one day they know like today see the kick you know? So
he wanted to stir up hatred between the look we have it today. I mean, we have this you know, we have these from time to time we have you know, people attacking the muhajirs the immigrants coming here and you know, killing them and burning their businesses down and so forth and so on. And it's always the instigator. There's always an Abdullah newbay everyone every community so
what he didn't know was that in the 10 two way with making the speech there was a little boy sitting there.
Zaid was his name
and his boy heard this whole speech of
of Abdullah your way
and he went and he gave the speech verbatim you know children remember the bathroom he gave it to his uncle. And he said to his uncle This was Abdullah nobody said and Abdullah knew by by the way also said that I'm telling you what we should do is Abdullah and obey. When we get to Medina, we should expel these Mahajan from Medina and those that are closer than Ibiza, salaam don't give him any food don't give them any money. And I tell you what will happen he said if you don't give them food and money, they will leave Medina will be free of them.
Of course he's upset he went told his uncle, his uncle went to the Navy. So in
fact, these two eyes two eyes which I said I was going to speak about,
found me through that circumstance.
The first is yakko Luna line Raja Anna lol Medina regenda alas minha
other what Eliza to? Well era su li mini Joaquin El Manasa tienen la la allows wrong Allah says in the first ayah
and they said
this is what Allah Allah the first to the to Abdullah in obey and those of them who supported him, Allah says and they said when we go back to Medina, regional as Amina
the dignified and the culture one expel the biggest from Medina.
But that means the low life people you know that, you know you look down upon somebody that's nothing. That is the first verse. And the second verse. We are Los Angeles is what are called number nine de rasulillah hatay and subdue
us he said this in Arabic, Abdullah new way. He spoke Arabic of course but he said in his speech he said, Do not give any charity to these margerine
especially those who are close to Mohammed Salah Salah until they will leave Medina to bleach
will elaborate Allah Subhanallah sees what the life has, you know, has a new sama wati wa kinal Manasa Qin Allah.
Allah says, But what they don't know is they say we won't feed them. What they don't know is that the treasures of the heavens and the earth belongs to belongs to a mouse. so silly so stupid.
So this uncle went to speak to the NaVi Salaam, they they are Salalah
This is Abdullah newbay sang to stop travel between the answer in the big room
and he made this very poisonous speech and the Prophet prophet called him
but when the anger came to speak to the enemies of Salah
Amari Malhotra became as usual, became very angry and sad. So Allah I have a man for this job. His name is Amar
Amar is the man for this job. Susan, what are you talking about? This Amar. I can put 100% trust in him. He will go into the chain. He will walk slowly up top the lab nearby a nice steady state.
No, no no flesh alphabet no skin of my bed your bed and our model see that he disappeared?
There was a subject No, no, no, no, no, no. We don't do we don't do that. Can we not assassins. And the reason that we so seldom said to him that we don't do that kind of thing because people will say look at Muhammad Salam.
Not only does his followers kill each other, the in an army on the battlefield and they kill each other
which will be a very bad reflection on Muslims. And then he says I'll never ever allowed
to kill anybody because he felt the person was
so late in the outcome
maybe sasaram called Abdullah Mubarak.
Now, you can almost sense the kind of behavior that Abdullah inouye was now going to display in front of the Navy so awesome.
So as I was sitting outside the tent, the little boy 10 days about 1011 years old
Abdullah Newberry in his in his entourage came into the tent of the enemies of Allah. Let me say to him, yeah, Abdullah Did you say this?
Did you say this?
And he said, What? Did I say that? Who told you I said that was the made you believe somebody else above me? I'm a part of your yo yo, yo, Army. I fight with you.
Anyway, don't you know these you know, when people are confronted with a problem and you confront somebody, that person will just and he started screaming at the Navy Salaam raising his voice and what you know who is this person who lied about him? And so for this one, and you say Dr. Rasul Allah, will you take somebody else's word about my word?
What was the reaction of the newbies Hello, Lotus?
I would have said, well calm down. So the main role of the learner just calm down. Don't lose your temper. What I have here is a single question. Did you say this or did you not say this? No, I didn't bring the man bring the purse.
So now visa Salaam said. All right. You may leave
And we know that this is the base. I mean, this is an example of
what he did. And this is an example of what we should do. If you confront somebody with what he did,
and he raised his voice in this particular fashion, then you should not engage him. Because He's useless, engaging people on that day. I know. I mean, I've gone through life. So many people have, you know, shouted at me and screamed at me and insulted me and swore at me. And I used to just, you know, stand my man, you know, not allow people to do that and not realize that, you know, it's an unwinnable argument. And with the province of Ontario, fine. We didn't say that. Okay.
So those little 11 year old boys have a Hana, Lionel to thing that allows for Hannah tala who do this. So this little boy is sitting outside of the tent, and he said his name is Abdullah newbay come out with a smile on his face with his entourage and he sent himself
and he became so sad. He said to the Prophet, believe him because nothing has happened to him. He went in and he came out. Nothing happened to him. Subhana Allah says himself to the Prophet, believe me this Believe me. How's that possible? There's a problem could this believe me? And so he, he went to St. Anthony live and he was crying. And he was saying, you know, the NaVi Sol, Sol,
Sol, Sol, Sol, Sol, La sol, la casa de. So the coworker Giovanni kind of Prophet believed him. And the Prophet is really probably because I'm a kid. I'm just 11 years old. Why? Why would the Prophet believe me? Why should the Prophet not believe him?
And then allow song that reveals these two verses of Surah aduna
supanova. For an 11 year old boy, Allah responded to the 70 heavens, to establish the truth of Islam.
And the truth of man,
through the seven heavens, Allah is funded to a child of daily living his own panel.
One of the things Allah, you know, doesn't have any tax for children. You know, children are just children, you know, they
they're just kids. A lot of fun to cook very seriously.
extremely seriously, and allows for how I'm gonna send out revelation. in exactly the words that Abdullah Ivanova used when he gave his speech to his clan, they in the 10th hour use the same words, the same words that they came to report to the Navy Salam as to what Abdullah knew basic and those words were the akula and they said, Allah says, it says to the NaVi syrup and they said
Raja Illa Medina,
if we go back to Medina, we will expel we the dignified people will expel the local the local people from a dealer meaning the module and allows us to reveal the second verse, Latin koala manga to rely on.
And the second verse is our last one that says Abdullah in your base head and do not give them charity, the Mahajan
do not have them
turn them out of your homes, especially those that are close to Mohammed Salah lawless
Hata and stop do until they all leave Medina
and sometimes, you know we as human beings, we have these thoughts you don't give people money, then they leave you. Don't give them money. Don't give them charity. Because the more you give them charity, the more they'll worry you and trouble you
isn't it? Sometimes we think like that.
Sometimes we think like that. You know?
that people will say don't put food in the garden, because the rats will come.
Don't feed the birds you know they mess up your roof, whatever they do.
There's one Abdullayev nobody stop, don't give them food. Don't help them they leave.
So the Navy system coding code This boy is a 10 year old boy z.
And every Sallam said to him,
remember what he said? He said, this little boy said when he was when to stand to cry, he said prophets of Salaam believed Abdullah and evisa salaam didn't believe.
And you have an evisa salaam say to him. The Casa de la allows for hundreds confirmed your truth. You don't need confirmation from me allows for 100 said that whatever you told me in exactly the same words alone strongly agree
These two Ayat of surah two.
there are many lessons for us in this
how we deal with each other
how most of the time it's better to step back than to step forward
especially when it comes to your neighbors
the people who come to the masjid
the relationship between
the mom and the congregation
and I speak to you because I've gone through many things in my life being a new mom
sometimes I wonder why I'm still in the mom. But that's another question.
And I think any person in a in an authoritative position
even as a father allows one of the law says some of your wives and some of your children are enemies to
let me know if son was an enemy to him. And he was a prophet
and his son was the son of a prophet
and he turned against his father
and so it's important that we deal with these issues with a lot of wisdom
a lot of wisdom
and I think the only when we get older do we realize
all the opportunities that we missed in life for acting in a responsible way
So my message today is not to the people like myself was already made all the mistakes
my messages to the younger people
if you can plan something with somebody, if you can, if you want to confront somebody with what they said about you
You should be careful if it doesn't engage you to say look, I apologize because I said
to Joshua, the other one said why don't you just apologize to me kicked you so fine, you know? Let it go now pologize so the man smacked us what do you do? What do you do? You will get all your friends with six feet tall two feet wide you know
when to throw Petra Bob into his house or something like that? We Undertaker, you know,
back in smashes his windscreen in just because the men you know scratch your car may be a small little scratch
and we all like that and it's important for most of us to learn from the lesson of the Navy Seal of law doesn't especially when it comes to family
you know if you're if your cousin should snack you
and you know that you are right and he was wrong. It could lead to a family feud for the next 300 years.
It may pass the club CEPA it may pa club when was the 1949
model why why why just sort of taking them today? Because since 1949 that family split
completely the woman that way the other one went this way.
And that is why when it comes to family and I'm talking to you because I deal with lots of these issues today.
Especially when it comes to family
elders must have
the sense to step back.
Okay, so you smacked him Okay, so you owe him a million then he's not paying you.
issues need to be sorted out within the family parameters.
And when we speak about the issues we need to bring the example of muscle loss.
We will say this is what happened with them and
we will speak about Abdullayev new way we need to speak about our Naveen alsacian revelation about a small little boy
as soon small boy of 10 years of Allah saying the revelation
in the Quran. So now last one to give inshallah that we
Because you see today, the world has changed.
Maybe 50 years ago, the mom would not have spoken like this. Because there was so much respect in the community. There was so much love in the community.
There was so much
knowledge of the Navy sossalamander in the community, people lived this long.
children take the pain to court
in mind, beating them, children take their parents to quote
children evicted parents from their homes.
And I'm not talking about things which are not real thing.
Children don't speak to their parents.
Sons don't speak to their mothers don't even greet them on the delivery. The mothers
maybe sister was on offer
and he was gonna make
And he said
that allows for honorable not accept this.
if there is anyone in my in this congregation that is not speaking.
Who has a bad relationship with interviews, family members.
So what man got up and he walked away?
few hours later, he came back two hours finished.
Nobody saw him leaving.
Mr. Samson, why did you leave? Sierra? So like you said,
Allah will not accept your drive? Is anybody in the congregation who is got bad relations with his family?
Now these are some system what do you what is what is it? He said, I have an aunt
that I haven't spoken to for many, many years.
Because I was bad blood between our family and their family. And she's also our house. And I was looking for her. And I went to her then to ask math to her forgiveness pologize and I told her what you told me
so hard and so this is how we should deal with it. We should always tell people why am I doing this? If you have a brother or a sister or an aunt, or a close family member that you're not speaking to you pick up the phone if you don't want to go pick up the phone and say it to me and say I'm totally give because then I visa seller has asked me to phone you
and carrying out a command of you. Allah will not accept the offer from him he was Mohammed Sasson. Just an ordinary man.
If I wouldn't say these two are what about us?
Whether we make
and remember, family will remain family.
No matter where you turn, the weather how you turn, no matter where you go.
Blood will remain blank. With a Muslim, they have a problem with him. You will be surprised how long they're waiting for you to pick up that phone.
You'll be surprised how nice they will teach if you become debt free. And I know some of you will say sure you know my family.
But you see if your intention is to make sure Allah knows it like Allah knew that. What does he not have a 10 year old boy, Allah knows. He will say Yo Allah.
I've got a serious issue with this person.
Right now he is talking to us about him. I have a serious issue with my brother a very serious issue with my sister with my mother with my wherever it may be extremely serious we've been on for a long time you tell a lie is picked on you. I'm going to pick up the phone to this family member. I'm going to phone him or phone
and greet and I would apologize for whatever it may be, I may not be at fault. And I will do Yala. Because you can do all this work for you got a job to do God's work to do. Sorry to say it like that.
Your job is to make so our job is to do what to work with the hearts of men. Allah Allah these mocha libo kulu
when all our games is in Ibiza love to kill him.
And there's a habit around it the Navy sasaram to protect him.
What is the Navy say? And we said leave him
because they will get into because he was so he was a short he was drunk and he was sworn in and then he was coming to kill the navy seals.
But what did they know which
Allah worked with his heart allied work. The sword was in the hand
And the word was in his body but the heart was in his hand.
So there it may be inside that person but his heart is in Allah
and Allah can turn that heart
so we asked our last caller
to turn our hearts toward each other
that we must be the people and if the person puts the phone down and you say you're alive that might you
but 99 times if it's a long feud people wait for this
they wait for this especially all people they wait for the When is he coming? Where is he coming? When is he coming?
And when death comes it's too late.
I've seen it I've seen our people cry at the day when they did the day person lies they they will and they will speak aloud they will say forgive me I didn't know you're gonna die you know I was going to come you know I was gonna pay you for it. Please give me more please give me my tonight
so now I'm going to give that this lesson
and yeah, look at a be treated Abdullah he was a monastic the whole was so nice to
our family they just only people it's just a misunderstanding. Similar giving Charla that I love with our hearts. Allah bring love amongst us with our families particularly. And that we should
you know, it's I know it's difficult. I know it's difficult but the reward is so good. And the sweetness is even great. The sweetness, you know, to taste the sweetness of speaking to somebody haven't spoken for minutes. It brings a lot of joy in your heart.
It takes a burden off of you.
It makes you walk tall
and it makes you a happy person.
And even if the other party is not responding the way you want him to respond, it will still make you happy person. So May Allah grant shala that we follow in the footsteps of Mohamed Salah Bala Salam Salam aleikum, WA