Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Great Muslim Women Fatima alFihriyya Founder of the First University in the World (Qarawiyyin)

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The transcript discusses the history and contributions made by female Muslim members of the past to the past, including a program for sisters to discuss contributions made by female Muslim members of the past. The largest cities in North Africa, including FASS affairs, a new university in Morocco, and the largest university in the world, are also discussed. The conversation then touches on the history of the Caribbean, including the creation of a city in [unsure], the history associated with it, and the importance of fasting during bathing. The segment also touches on the use of wealth and sadaqa jobs, as well as the importance of fasting during bathing and the need for men to be a source of wealth.
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Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa

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salatu salam ala Sayidina more saline while earlier he was asked

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me about a cosa limiter Sleeman Cathedral in Iommi, Dean Amma bad.

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Several years ago I had the opportunity to go and visit

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Morocco and in particular the city of Fez which in Arabic is called

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PFASs. And it's a beautiful old city with a beautiful old Medina

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that still exist small small alleyways, old buildings and

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mashallah there around the center of the city you have this great

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huge masjid and University which is called Kirrawee in Jamia al

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Kirrawee. And so, I'd heard from before some of its history so

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today I thought that I will just recount some of its history

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because I think it's very relevant to our program today. Mashallah,

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this is a program for sisters. So I thought that we would discuss

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some of the outstanding contributions provided by our

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female Muslim members of the past. Maybe it'd be inshallah an

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inspiration, at least we give a shout out to these individuals who

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have accomplished so much and who have left these kinds of signs for

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us to take heat from. So this Jeremy alcara ween, which is in

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Fez, Fez is a very interesting city because it's one of the it

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was one of the more popular cities of North Africa of the time, after

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Cairo, one by one, which is in Tunisia, that is probably an older

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city. However, there was a mass migration that took place from

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Pedro, Juan Pedro, one is in Tunisia. And there was a mass

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migration that took place from Cairo one and many of its members,

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even some of the founding, even even some of the family of the

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founding members of Pedro, Juan, they had actually come over and

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move too fast, because there was a new leader, a new ruler of the

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area, which is known as Morocco today. And the Idris, the idrisi.

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Empire. And they were known to be very good. So they were family of

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Rasulullah, sallAllahu, alayhi wasallam, as well, so many people

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had had moved there. So that's why this particular these two cities

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called FASS affairs, and Pedro wine are very, very popular and

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very historical, old cities. The reason why Fez is called fast is

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because in Arabic, fast, fast means an axe and while they were

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digging the foundations of the city to establish its walls and

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everything else that one of the first things that they found,

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which was very notable was was an axe, and thus, for some reason,

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the city became known as fast, which means an axe or FERS in

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English.

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There is a a historian whose name is Allah ma Mohamed El Mundo

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Sybilla. Al Qahtani, again, a Moroccan The Captain is from

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Morocco. He says that first was the capital of the Idris in

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Empire. And the German oil Kirrawee in this famous university

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that sits there until today, is considered to be the oldest

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university in the world.

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It may have not had a proper University charter as is you can

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say, the Volgen in As is the tradition in the West to give a

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particular place of learning a charter. But it is the oldest

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surviving Institute which is acted as a university though it may not

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be formally, you know, the way you see other universities today,

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because it became officially recognized as a university in the

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1900s. But it was a madrasa in the traditional sense of the

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university, right from the early days is considered to be the

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oldest in the world. In fact, according to many historians, it's

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even earlier than zaytuna zaytuna, which is the university in which

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was the University in, in in Tunisia at the time of the early

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period. And it's also I'll give you the dates, but it's also

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earlier than the Azhar University of Ulster, which is considered to

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be the most famous today. So he's considered but the one in Tunisia,

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the Jeremy Tunis, the zaytuna zetonna, rather, that had ended

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and then it was it's there's a new university in that place that is

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in memory of the old one, it seems today, other is continuous until

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today. And so it's called a win is continuous until today, of course,

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it doesn't have the same maybe the former glory that he used to have,

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but it's still existing until today, and it's still in function.

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Many students from all around Africa come and study there. So

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when we visited, we got a good tour of the place and the director

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of the director of the curriculum. We were

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We he took us around and we spent some good time with him. So

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anyway,

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it's it's older than any of the European universities. And the

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reason I mentioned this is because the Kirrawee just to give you an

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idea of dates, it was established around 245 245 HD which is

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approximately 855 59 Gregorian 859 Gregorian that makes it over 1100

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years. That makes it over 1100. Year. So 900,000 2016 we're in

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right now. It's over 1100 years old. That's 859 That was

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established in zetonna came sometime after that, as her was

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founded in 970. So you got 859, and you got 970. That's over 100

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years afterwards. So over 100 years afterwards, 90 970 972 is

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when other is established by the fall team. It's right. In Cairo.

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Then in Europe donor, the first university is documented

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universities is considered to be the University of Bologna, which

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is in Italy, that was established in 1088. So that's about 90 years

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or so. That's actually you know, that's over now, another 100 years

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after us 110 years or so after us. So that's 202 130 years or so

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after the carabin. Right, that's the first university in Europe.

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And then you have the University of Salamanca, which is in Spain,

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where actually Oxford came before that. So Oxford is established

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around in some form, there was some teaching going on in Oxford

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around 1096, though, it's got it, it's official, it's official

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status in 1167. So you're gonna say 1096, that is after the

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University of Bologna 1088. Right. So and still 250 or 60 years after

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Halloween, then the University of Salamanca, which is in 1134,

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charter was granted in 1218. So Cambridge was then in 1209. So

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it's much, much later, right? Cambridge is much later than then

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then Oxford, about one and a half centuries after,

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or just over a century after, after Oxford, and Harvard was only

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in 1636. So much, much, much later. So only about 400 years

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ago. That's Harvard University. So that's why we have this Korean

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university being the oldest university in the world that

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continues until today. And it's played some very, very important

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role in the great important roles in the past, it's had the likes of

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ignore Khaldoon Al was zani numerous other numerous other

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people that have either taught there or that have either studied

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that it produced some really, really notable figures from our

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history, especially from the North African region, because that's

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where it's, that's where it's located. Now, this great, great

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institution, which has remained for so long as a beacon of light

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within the Muslim world. The most interesting thing about it that

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gives it another mark of distinction makes it very, very

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unique. Right, and very relevant to our today discussion today in

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this gathering here is that it was a woman that established this

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university. So it's a sister, it's a woman that establishes a

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university, which is the first of a kind, the first university in

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the world in this kind of shape. You know, this is not to say that

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there wasn't any teaching going on before this. What we mean by

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university is a place where students can come this organize

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lectures, right? There's maybe dorms or residents attached to it.

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So when all of this is together, that's what we're talking about

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university otherwise, of course, teaching because of the whole

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hokum of Ikara Bismillah. Because the Halacha, as Allah subhanaw

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taala says, In the Quran, that has been going on since our earliest

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days, were the first madrasa in Islam. Our first teaching

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institution in Islam, on some level was the Muslim mother, a set

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of sofa, which is the prophets, Allah Larson's mother dosa, and

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Abu Huraira, the Allahu anhu, and others, and all the other Sahaba

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were its students, they would come and go, as as they could come and

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as they could attend. So although teaching has been going on, this

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is the first kind of you know, you can say network of classes, and a

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kind of a structured organization that makes up this institution.

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And that was established by a woman what's the most interesting

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thing I found find here is that

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it's not even something she saw happening elsewhere. And she

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thought, Okay, let me do this. Let me replicate this here. Right.

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It's actually that this is an original idea to establish

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something of this nature that is attached to a masjid so the masjid

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was established the Caribbean that it's got a beautiful Masjid with

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it, and then the university that's associated with it. So it was a

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brand new idea, unique vision, and that's what makes this so

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wonderful. So inshallah we'll look at some of the lessons that we can

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from this later on, but

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Her name is Fatima. I've been to Mohammed. This university has been

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established by Fatima bin to Mohammed her father was a sheikh.

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I'll talk about him in a bit. Fatima been to Mohammed Al fevrier

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and Cora Shia. She is from the Qureshi tribe originally. And she,

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she is from the family of raka IGNOU Nafi aucuba iblue nerfed al

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Fairey al Qureshi, who was the conqueror, who was the conqueror

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of Tunisia, the conqueror of Tunisia, and he is the one who had

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established and laid the foundations founded the city of

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Pharaoh one in Cairo one, as I mentioned, is in Tunisia, and when

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the people had migrated from there to the city of Fez, the reason

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this university became known as Cara Wien, is because it's

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associated to the people that come from the migrators from Cairo one

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that's why it's called Kirrawee Yean.

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initiated to get confused about this Caribbean clear one because

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they all sound the same in the beginning, but it's just that that

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is where it originates from. And what she's done for the city of

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Fez is that she's actually put it into history. She is number one

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she's put into history. The fact that you know, this goes back to

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Cairo one in Tunisia. So there's a memory for that. Then the city of

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Fez in Morocco itself that it makes that very special because of

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that because of that, and then the whole history that's associated

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with that

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this was established during the rule in Morocco of Amelia ignore

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Mohammed Idris. So here's the second here's the second Hadith

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you can say or the second rule or other right of this is the famous

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Idris said Kelly. Idris said the rule in Morocco and which is

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mashallah quite quite wonderful because they will has any seeds,

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they will have any seeds from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam. This was established in Ramadan, they finished in this

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establishing Ramadan in 245 Hijiri, which as I mentioned, is

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about 859.

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So, her father, her father was a he was a jurist. He was a jurist,

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Abu Abdullah Mohammed Abdullah Abdullah Al Theorie, Abu Abdullah

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Mohammed Abdullah Abdullah, so his name is Mohammed his father's name

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is Abdullah and he is named himself Abu Abdullah though he had

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no sons. He didn't have any sons.

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Alpha hurry, okay. Rouhani. He was considered to be one of the

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integrators the MaHA Julian from Cairo one that came to fez in the

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earliest days of Imam Idris, Idris, the first who was one of

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the the rulers of mercury. So she was brought up under the in the

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tarbiyah. And she was nurtured by her father, the shakin fuckable

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Abdullah right Mohamed Ibni Abdullah theory and mashallah, one

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thing about him which was different from probably other

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shakes that we generally, you know, hear about is that he Masha

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Allah was very well positioned, he had lots of money is a very, very

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wealthy individual, the Marlon katharyn Ouattara, right, very,

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very wealthy individual in that sense, and he only had two

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children, and that was two daughters. So it was this Fatima,

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one daughter and his and her sister, Miriam. So Fatima and

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Miriam. And he, mashallah he did the tarbiyah. He really nurtured

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them. Well, he brought them up very well taught them very well

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until when they became older. After that she got married and

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mashallah her husband also after a lot of

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after a lot of hard work, he was also very wealthy. However, both

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her father and her husband died shortly afterwards. And she was

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left alone, right, she was left alone. And she she and her sister,

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her husband's brother also eventually passed away. So all of

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the wealth of her father and her husband, all of that came to her

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and her sister. Now the thing, it begins here, you've got these two

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women, you've got this woman who suddenly loses a husband loses her

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father has seems to have no other male figure in the family as well,

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you know, in the traditional kind of sense, we were looking at this,

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what would you do with that money? Unfortunately, in this case, what

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you would have is that many women would be taken, taken advantage of

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the people, many people coming to them asking for their hand in

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marriage or whatever trying to take this enormous amount of money

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that they have. However, both of them you know, her and her sister,

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her sister is muddy and bint Mohammed, Al Fahey, her title was

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Amal Qasim, her title titled become Omar Qasim, while the title

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of Fatima, our Fatima the one we're discussing is Amal baleen,

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the mother of many many children.

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So anyway, they both try to decide where they're going to use their

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money. So the whole folk

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This became how do we use this money to get the most out of it?

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Now think what you would do with a lot of wealth, what we do buy a

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few houses, maybe put them on rent in London, that's the thing to do

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these days, right? And then just basically insure yourself in that

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sense from, you know, having any problems in the future, maybe give

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it out to your children. But look at their thought process, they

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wondering how to get some sadaqa jariya out of this because they

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must have heard speculating here. They must have heard the hadith of

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam it says that either matter

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ignore them, When the Son of them when any child of Adam passes away

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in kata, or Emmylou, his deeds stop, they, your deeds stop in the

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you don't get the rewards from them in law into love, unless it's

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of three sources, three types of deeds. One is

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sadhaka to Nigeria, which is very important, a perpetual sadaqa

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something that you begin, you start, you initiate, and you

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establish, which then continues to run, and it postdates you, it

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continues to run after your death as well. So as long as that stays

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where they stays for 10 years after your death, or 100, or 1000

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years after your death, you will continue to get the reward

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accordingly. That's what you call a perpetual sadaqa. And then

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there's an element you interfer OBE knowledge through which

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benefit is derived after you leave a book, you leave a wonderful

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website, you leave I mean, I'm talking modern terms, right? You

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you leave a madrasah you leave you you educate several good teachers,

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right, you pay for their education, these are all ideas,

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right? You pay for several smart students, you get them, you pay

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for their good sacred education. And then after that everybody that

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they teach, and then everybody that's inspired by them, and then

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from them, and them and them and it will just magnify, and there is

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no risk to this business, you have to remember, there's no risk to

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this business, there is no possibility of this commodity of

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knowledge. I mean, if we say it's a commodity of knowledge that or

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inspiration or tarbiyah, or spirituality that's going to be

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spread from these individuals or from the madrasa you establish, or

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whatever it is, that is never, never going to disappear, because

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Sacred Knowledge will always be needed. And it's a lifeline for

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us. So you have to remember that this is a massive investment. So

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that's Elmo new interface, it will be a wallet on salejaw near the

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ruler, who are you live a beautiful child that will pray for

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you, that will pray for you that has the understanding to pray for

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you. We may leave any beautiful children, we may leave them very

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successful, we may leave them to be mashallah, you know, wonderful

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doctors making lots of money or engineers or whatever the case is.

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But will they pray for us is the question, will they pray for us.

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If we can leave our children to pray for us, that is the most

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wonderful thing that we can do. And in that regard, I'm going to

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take a bit of a digression here, I just want to mention one very,

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very interesting thing that we've just put into action. What

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happened is when I was in South Africa in Ramadan, recently, I met

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one of the brothers that were there helping out with the

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organization of the ethical program and so on. I was speaking

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to one then he is not an alum, but it's a very mashallah concerned

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individual organizing these things. And he said that what we

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do within our family, he's got a few brothers. And then he's got,

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you know, brother in laws and so on. He says, what we do is that I

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believe he said once a week, right, maybe every two weeks, but

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I think it was once a week, once a week, or once every two weeks,

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what we do is we finish the Quran off. So what we do is on WhatsApp

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or whatever, we just say, you know, we want to do a hum, so all

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the members of the family that are on this, okay, I'll take first,

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the first Jews, second, Jews third Sebata, for Sebata. And that way,

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it gets shared out very difficult for one person maybe to finish a

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Quran every week, not everybody can do that some people do, but

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this is they share it out in maybe 3040 members of the family, right,

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so a Quran gets finished. And then what they do with the reward of

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that, right, which is, you know, agreed upon contract majority of

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Scholars is that they send this to all of their families deceased,

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which means their mother and father who's passed away or the

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grandparents have passed away. wonderful way to remember your

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deceased and loved ones. So I just started that, you know, we just

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started that in our family. And I hope it continues. And I would

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recommend for all of you to this, you guys all all have these

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WhatsApp groups, family, WhatsApp groups and other groups. Well use

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it for this stuff, okay, we do a lot of chatting, we do a lot of

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maybe, you know, we may organize a family get togethers and all the

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rest of family outings and family restaurant, outings and all the

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rest of it. Well, let's do one of these things as well, because

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everybody's got people who've died. And we're always going to

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have people who will die and we're going to die one day. So if we

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start this tradition, right, if we start this tradition, then

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inshallah somebody after we die is also going to be including us in

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that reward that they sent. And it's just one I believe this is

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southern Nigeria, in that sense, and it's very easy to do because

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it's not burden any single person. It encourages people to read a bit

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of Quran, right? So insha Allah You know, I pray that Allah

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subhanaw taala accept

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From all of us, and allow us all to put this if this is one lesson

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from today, then you know, this is a very practical lesson, get on

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your whatsapp and use them for something useful, right get on

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your whatsapp and use it for something useful because Insha

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Allah, this will, you know, they say they'll come back to bite you,

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this will come back to benefit you, you will bask in his glory

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Inshallah, in the hereafter because of what you did, because

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you will also get the very first person to do this, you will

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actually get the reward of everybody who does this in your

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family, and then eventually you will also get the benefit of

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people praying and sending you the reward as well. So may Allah

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subhanaw taala accept that from us.

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So then, she's thinking, what should we do? So, they, they, if

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you look at this hadith, it talks about sadaqa, jariya, continuous

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charity, and then the knowledge from which benefit is always

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derived, and then well done sila, right, which is a pious child.

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Now, if I take, if we take sadaqa here as something you spend,

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right, then that would be different from knowledge, because

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knowledge and spending is different. However, if it takes

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other cause any act, which is to benefit somebody, as the profit or

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loss, I mentioned that every morning, when we get we get up our

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bodies, oh, a sadaqa. And then he said A smile is also a sadaqa. So

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in that extended sense of just being charitable, not just with

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wealth, but also with your behavior, your conduct, and

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everything else, then I believe that this L Manjunatha. Will be he

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is also what she managed to achieve. She's started a

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charitable institution that is perpetual. So she gets a sadaqa

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jariya. And she also gets Elmo new interfer. OB he she leaves behind

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knowledge from which were from the children, from which many, many

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people will continue to benefit. And then I would say that her

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title that she had an argument on Melbournian is a very apt title,

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because all of these people who will study here are like her

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children. Right? Because she is you can say the matron of this

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institute. So Amal bunny is the mother of many, many children to

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come everybody who is a graduate who has benefited from the

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indirectly benefited from their from anybody who's graduated from

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the then it's a word unsightly, who knows if they're going to have

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if they're going to be thankful and pray for the people who have

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established this university for them, then they will get the

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benefit of this. I think she's hit a jackpot, right in that regard.

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How does she plan for the building. So what she does is

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she's, they they are living in the section of Fez, fez has a river

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going in between. And there are two sections of Fez you can

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actually see today there's a river going in between. And there's two

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sections, the section she was living in was the marine section,

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which means the section of the people who had come from Pharaoh

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one. On the other hand, over the bank of the river, you had the

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undiluted people, that's called the undiluted section, because

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when the people of Spain of southern Spain and de Lucia had to

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escape from there, after the persecutions, they, they came and

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established themselves under the EU, but on the other hand, on the

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other part of the bank, so you had these two, these two sections,

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they're supposed to be a very, very thriving city of some of the

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you know, greatest people with all of the great civilization from

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under Lucia that couldn't have come and established themselves

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there. So she started herself in this section of the Cairo one is

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that had come along, right.

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And what she did was she purchased a piece of land which was being

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used as a quarry of lime, so it was a limestone land right all the

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white limestone in there and she used her money to bring in the

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laborers. Everybody to come in and to start building this Masjid the

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German because generally the universities were so like even as

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her you got a big masjid and then he's had a big sprawl afterwards

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you know with other buildings and so on. They started this in

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Ramadan 245 He right. So this started in the beginning of

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Ramadan turn 45 Hijiri. And this, this work continued for 18 years,

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it was finished in 263 Hijiri. So 245 to 263 Hijiri. And she was so

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particular that only Halal wealth be used. You see the more

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ceremony, the more ritual the more particular you are with any

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action, the more you will get out of it. That's why Imam Buhari his

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book, his collection is so valuable because for every Hadith

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among the 7000, something Hadith in it, he would do is the Hara.

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They say he would do a hospital he would you know, there was a

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special ceremony attached to inclusion of each Hadith calling

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Unto Allah invoking Allah subhanaw taala for each of that, one is you

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do one thing and you make a dua afterwards. But the other one is

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that you actually do offer every part of it, and you're particular

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about everything. So she was very particular about making sure every

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the source of the wealth that's being used here is all halal. And

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that's why what she

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She did not want to use anything from outside. So initially what

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she did was she managed to get them to excavate some of the

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better stone from the bottom that that could be used for the

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building. So she had, you know, all the special limestone etc, dug

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out of that same land.

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And she stood and supervise, a supervise this herself, what what

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she, what she does, the first thing that they did was they dug a

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well, so that the water could be used for the the workers to drink

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from, and also to use in their building process. So that was one

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of the first thing that she did. And for all of those 18 years, she

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stood there, and she directed the work.

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Another thing that she did, as I told you a part of this ceremony,

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right part of this, you know, particular

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attention given to the work is that from the start of the

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building process, she started fasting. And it says that we're

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not allowed to fester. And she made a vow that she will not stop

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fasting until the work is finished. So she remained like

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that, for the entire duration. It says, of the building and

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construction of this, of this building. And of this institution,

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she kept fasting until until the end. And as soon as it was built,

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the first thing that she did was she went and performed two records

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of solid inside. So she performed two records of solid sugar on

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dilla for the ingratitude, Allah subhanho wa taala. Now her sister,

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you know, she doesn't want to be left behind, she's got money as

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well, she went across the river to the other side, the andalusite.

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And she established the great Jami Al Andalus down there.

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Unfortunately, Jameel Andalus is not, doesn't remain the same as

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Kirrawee in today. In fact, they say that it's probably under the

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same old golf system now obviously. But that was supposed

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to be a separate university or madrasa on the other side. Right

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now we visited, it was just, it was just a masjid, there wasn't

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much of a madrasa or university in there at all. Whereas this one is

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a university of Caribbean is still a university. And then it was

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after about 20 years or so after the building of this Masjid that

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she passed away. She finally passed away, and she went to meet

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her Lord. Now the main thing is that

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what are the lessons that we can derive from this one is speaking

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about this wonderful story, which truly is wonderful. But what are

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the lessons that we learned from this? The first lesson we learned

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from here is that if last sincerity always pays off. And you

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can tell this from what she did fasting for the sake of Allah, and

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making sure it's pure wealth. And the other thing that you will find

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is that once when they were doing some excavation, to renovate parts

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of the masjid, they discovered because obviously over time, it's

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gone. You know, there's there's been, you know, a lot of

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renovation that's happened to it and so on. At that time, it was,

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you know, it had become eventually after some of the subsequent

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rulers added to it made it one of the biggest Masjid in Africa. It

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had become one of the biggest mustards in Africa at the time.

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I'm not sure if it's still one of the biggest mustards in Africa,

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but it is still very impressive and quite a quite a looming and

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impressive structure. So,

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at one time, when they did some excavation, they found a pluck a

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very, very old plug which had been written in this old African Coffee

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Script, right old African config scripts, right and what was

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written is booni and hudl. Masjid Fishersville Canada means sanity

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fella 13 was Salah Athena, when we attain the Mima Mr. Ravi Al Imam

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as the hula Tao Idris UPCA hula.

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This Masjid was built in the month of DeLuca in 63 Hijiri in 263 263

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Hijiri. It is among those which was commanded among those

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structures or messages which were commanded to be built by the Imam

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May Allah grant him might die would Idris aapke hula?

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May Allah subhanho wa Taala keep him keep him forever, right and

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preserve him. It was built by him. Now what's interesting is that

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everybody knows that it was actually built by Fatima omal

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benim. And not by him, though he may have added something to it or

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whatever the case is. But what we know from that time is that in

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those days, you instill Now in some cases, somebody would do

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something, they would produce a book, they would produce a

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building, they would, you know, construct something and they would

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dedicate it to the king. They were dedicated to the ruler. So maybe

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this is something that happened during that time, and that's why

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her name is there, not not on there. But what is

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Has that plug to do with anything today nobody even knows this

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individual this ruler of the time. But everybody knows about Fatima

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because of her class and her sincerity. Number two,

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the halal halal, which means that she was looking for Halal she was

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very particular. Right, she was very particular about making sure

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that it's all constructed with Halal only. Because Halal is

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something which is pure, and anything which is pure, it means

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it is of the highest class, and it will remain forever. That's why

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when you buy something, and it has some very good parts to it and

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components to it last forever, when it is part of the planned

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obsolescence manufacturing of today where it's supposed to break

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in a year or two years, or when the guarantee finishing, they've

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got it down, you know, very,

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very accurately in that regard, then it's not very pure. So this

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was purity, to get make sure that all the material that's used there

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is absolutely pure and taking it from the depths of the land that

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she had. They say that she brought some land around it as well, there

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was a farm or something like this, or whatever the case is. And she

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added that and took the best of the material from there. Number

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three is

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true faith doing this for the sake of Allah true faith and piety, a

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pious approach to these things, right, so did for the whole

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duration of building that Masjid from 245, to 60 263, she remains

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fasting. Now fasting is a very, very beloved state to Allah

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subhanaw taala. And Allah subhanho wa Taala season, as mentioned in

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the Hadith and could see, right al Hadith could see is that fasting

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is going to be for me, and hence, I will directly reward for that.

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So if somebody wants something accomplished, then if they fast in

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the process of that as well, then you are essentially asking Allah

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that I want you to reward me directly, and I'm fasting for this

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sake for this cause, And subhanAllah look at the benefit

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they get from that, right, there will be huge benefit. Fasting

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provides a huge amount of benefit for that. So if we have something

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major that we want to accomplish, it'd be a great idea to to fast

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during that time.

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Another thing that we get from here that we benefit and

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understand from here, another lesson to draw is the status of

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Muslim women. Right, the status of a woman in Islam. That's another

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thing that

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it's not just her, you had many people before and after her many

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women like Haruna, Rashid's wife and numerous others who have

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established these endowments who have established places like this,

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right. And this shows that a woman has the right to do this in her

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name, you know, you have the canal of Zuleika of Zubaydah, right,

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which is supposed to be mucker. Right? In, you know, the hedge

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areas, right? So you have a number of these things that they can have

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their names to these things, they this is from their wealth, they

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have the right to this, right, all of these things are very important

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for us to understand that women in Islam have always had the right to

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have their own wealth. And we know this from Khadija, the Allahu anha

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is not something which Europe gets recently, in the last 100 years or

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so. And then after they go overboard with it, because they

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haven't had it for several centuries, you know, for

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centuries, you know, as far back as you can remember, right. And

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then suddenly they get it and then they just go crazy with it. It's

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like giving a child a toy. Right? When they when they've been

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deprived for such a long time you're given time they go crazy

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with the sweets, right with the candy or whatever it is. So in

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this case, you've got something similar that's happening in the

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West have just gone crazy with this whole idea. There's no

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moderation and disregard. And they've gone so overboard and

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exaggerated in this regard, exaggerated in this regard, that

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they now criticizing Islam for something that Islam has always

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had. Right, and they think that they've surpassed Islam in this

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regard. Now, I know we have some bad egg, you know, bad apples

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within us who unfortunately do things that are an Islamic in that

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regard. But in general, this is a very good example that you have of

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a woman who has her own money and who makes those decisions. That's

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where Allah subhanaw taala says in the Quran in surah nisa in Surah

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Nisa, the chapter on women, verse 32. Literally god no Cebu, Mactan,

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Cebu, while in Nisa de Nasi, Mata Sabina. Now, it's not always in

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the Quran that Allah subhanaw taala mentioned something

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separately for women, because men and women are supposed to be alike

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in everything that's mentioned in the Quran in general, but here

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Allah says, that for men is a portion of what they earn and for

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women is a portion of what they earn. So they have it completely.

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In fact, what ignoble duel one of the one of you can say maybe the

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alumni is one of the alumnus of the this university, but

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definitely one of the greatest scholars that North Africa has

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produced and the founder of sociology, right the sounds

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science of sociology, if not alone says in his study for Annamma

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fucka anima nub but as email Mu kimberleigh mentioned this faulty

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ml failure, he mentioned that it is as though she has

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aroused the the aspirations she has aroused the inspirations of

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the rulers after her, that when they saw what she had done and

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what benefit that it had, it basically gave them room to also

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do something, and really encourage them. So this is a woman who is

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encouraged and in impressed, you can say, and influence so many

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people after her to do this.

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Now, in this regard, I just want to make one comment before I add

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some other lessons. And some other benefits from this is that

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if we, this is a bit of a personal comment, an observation that.

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So while this is a major accomplishment, and it's not

00:35:43 --> 00:35:46

something that even any man can do, right, you know, to establish

00:35:46 --> 00:35:49

a massive university, you know, big, big place like that. It's not

00:35:49 --> 00:35:57

what even every man can do. While not all men, right, perform such

00:35:57 --> 00:36:01

extraordinary accomplishments, right? They don't have them. They

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are generally if you look in history, and even look around us

00:36:04 --> 00:36:09

today, they're generally more men who are able to do this than men.

00:36:09 --> 00:36:15

So while not all men are able to do this, those who do do these big

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projects that generally men, generally speaking, right.

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So the reason for this, is that initially, I used to also think

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that all of these women who study in madrasahs, and become audio

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ones, and so on, they should, you know, really take the helm of

00:36:29 --> 00:36:32

these things. And they should sort out the community affairs of the

00:36:32 --> 00:36:35

women, and you know, they should do a lot of these things. But

00:36:35 --> 00:36:38

eventually, over time, what I've learned from, you know, the

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reality of the matter is that the function of a women that Allah

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subhanaw taala has provided one of the primary functions, so one of

00:36:45 --> 00:36:49

the primary functions of women, which they should be very proud

00:36:49 --> 00:36:53

of, and one thing that it's only them who can do this is child

00:36:54 --> 00:36:57

bringing up the next generation. Right, it's only women who can do

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this, and they do it. And that takes a lot lot from them.

00:37:02 --> 00:37:05

Every second, every moment spent behind their children, bringing

00:37:05 --> 00:37:09

them up, gives them reward. So for them, it's almost like they're put

00:37:09 --> 00:37:13

into a situation where as long as the intention is, right, right,

00:37:13 --> 00:37:15

they are just going to get reward for everything that they have to

00:37:15 --> 00:37:16

do anyway, right? In that sense.

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But because of this occupation, of feeding the children, bringing

00:37:22 --> 00:37:27

them up and bearing the child and all the rest of it, they are

00:37:27 --> 00:37:30

unable to do many of these external aspects. That's generally

00:37:30 --> 00:37:33

why you get more men, because men their work is outside, right, and

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

they're generally more enterprising. And then you can

00:37:35 --> 00:37:39

look at the emotional states of both genders, the women is a lot

00:37:39 --> 00:37:42

more soft, they're not as competitive as men are, you know,

00:37:42 --> 00:37:46

evolutionists will have theories of why this is the case, and all

00:37:46 --> 00:37:48

the rest of it, because we've been millions of years we've been, you

00:37:48 --> 00:37:50

know, this is what we've been doing. So even if you agree with

00:37:50 --> 00:37:54

this evolutionary theory thesis, you know, this idea that, you

00:37:54 --> 00:37:56

know, men have to be outside a lot more competitive, you know, and

00:37:56 --> 00:37:59

they want to spread this seed and they're going and they're going to

00:37:59 --> 00:38:03

do the work and everything else like that, then we generally see

00:38:03 --> 00:38:06

that women condors, so for somebody, for a woman to do

00:38:06 --> 00:38:10

something like this, she's obviously going to have to come

00:38:10 --> 00:38:13

out of all of that, in the sense that she's gonna have to rise

00:38:13 --> 00:38:16

above this, in a sense, she's gonna have to focus on this, but

00:38:17 --> 00:38:22

also to do this, because there's no point in women going behind

00:38:22 --> 00:38:25

their careers to such a degree that they don't produce the next

00:38:25 --> 00:38:30

generation. That's not the way of this world, whatever you somebody

00:38:30 --> 00:38:36

may think, however, if a woman is going to do this, where she's got

00:38:36 --> 00:38:41

a family, but she's also able to use her aspiration, or him or her,

00:38:41 --> 00:38:45

you know, good wisdom to also accomplish something else on top

00:38:45 --> 00:38:48

of that, then Subhanallah that is, but there's gonna be fewer

00:38:49 --> 00:38:52

obviously, compared to men in general, as history has shown us

00:38:52 --> 00:38:56

and as today, it shows us as well, that's just generally going to be

00:38:56 --> 00:38:59

so you're gonna have to be really somebody with a lot of

00:38:59 --> 00:39:03

enterprising ability to be able to do this beyond this, to do your,

00:39:03 --> 00:39:06

your one of your most primary functions of being a mother,

00:39:06 --> 00:39:10

right? Hi, Jerilyn salaam as your role model, and also do all of

00:39:10 --> 00:39:13

these things are women have been given some amazing ability, I

00:39:13 --> 00:39:13

mean, think about it.

00:39:15 --> 00:39:19

Women bear children, the pain of bearing children carrying

00:39:19 --> 00:39:22

something another soul in your body that gets larger and larger

00:39:22 --> 00:39:27

body has to adjust our, you know, the female body has to adjust to

00:39:27 --> 00:39:31

the child, the stomach, everything about she has to eat for to be

00:39:31 --> 00:39:34

careful of what she eats, taking the rest, all the rest of it,

00:39:34 --> 00:39:38

having the child the pain that they have to go through, you know,

00:39:38 --> 00:39:41

the pangs of childbirth. They're not easy they are you know, they

00:39:41 --> 00:39:45

are basically anecdotal in a sense that they are tough, they are

00:39:45 --> 00:39:49

painful. She doesn't want she does it again. A man if you have to go

00:39:49 --> 00:39:53

through this pain, what do you do it again? Right? Women they go

00:39:53 --> 00:39:57

through this they do it again. And then they do it three times. They

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do it five times. And mashallah Some do it.

00:40:00 --> 00:40:03

even more than that, they go through this for the sake, that is

00:40:03 --> 00:40:08

this, their selflessness to go through all of this pain, right?

00:40:08 --> 00:40:12

They are able to endure huge, huge amounts of difficulty, right,

00:40:12 --> 00:40:17

that's women for you, they're able to endure hugely, right because of

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

what Allah subhanaw taala has given them.

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So

00:40:21 --> 00:40:25

the one thing that she has to understand that what generally we

00:40:25 --> 00:40:30

all have to understand is that, while a woman does probably more

00:40:30 --> 00:40:34

than what a man does, because of the 24 hour system, you know, man,

00:40:34 --> 00:40:38

he goes to work from eight, or nine to five, and then he's

00:40:38 --> 00:40:41

finished, generally, right, some, they bring their work home, and so

00:40:41 --> 00:40:44

on some, some work and all the time from their phones. But

00:40:44 --> 00:40:46

generally speaking, they can come out of their work, they can leave

00:40:46 --> 00:40:50

the office, whereas when it comes to women, it's a whole different

00:40:50 --> 00:40:52

story, their office is their home, throughout the traditional mother

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I'm talking about right, which the majority of the world is still

00:40:56 --> 00:41:00

full of, and which are praised in Islam in general.

00:41:01 --> 00:41:04

And if she's doing a job on the side as well, then you can imagine

00:41:04 --> 00:41:08

she never gets a free day from these things. So she is probably

00:41:08 --> 00:41:10

doing more than men

00:41:11 --> 00:41:17

in a career that she cannot change, right. But she may not do

00:41:18 --> 00:41:19

what a man does,

00:41:20 --> 00:41:24

though her rewards are going to be greater in the form of the sadaqa

00:41:24 --> 00:41:26

jariya, for all the beautiful children that she will have

00:41:26 --> 00:41:31

produced, I believe that the woman has an ability to get more from

00:41:31 --> 00:41:35

her children than even the husband has, because she her investment in

00:41:35 --> 00:41:39

it is direct, the husband's investment is generally indirect,

00:41:39 --> 00:41:43

he's bringing the money, maybe he provides the discipline, maybe he

00:41:43 --> 00:41:46

provides them going to mothers and so on all the rest of it, and the

00:41:46 --> 00:41:52

school and all that. But the woman is a hands on direct connection

00:41:52 --> 00:41:55

with the with the baby, with with the with the child with the

00:41:55 --> 00:41:59

feeding with the carrying with the childbirth with everything. So I

00:41:59 --> 00:42:02

believe they have a more direct relationship with the and that's

00:42:02 --> 00:42:04

where Allah subhanaw taala has made them in the disposition that

00:42:04 --> 00:42:07

they have with the softness that they have, and with with this

00:42:07 --> 00:42:11

emotional connection, and with a lot of women who are out there

00:42:11 --> 00:42:16

working, because that is what their society and pushing our

00:42:16 --> 00:42:20

society as well demands from them, maybe because of the difficulties

00:42:20 --> 00:42:24

of living in certain places, maybe because of our way of spending our

00:42:24 --> 00:42:28

spending habits, but they are unhappy, many of them are unhappy,

00:42:28 --> 00:42:32

because they will, despite everything, they still get paid

00:42:32 --> 00:42:36

less generally speaking, right than men do. Right. And above all,

00:42:37 --> 00:42:41

they want to have a home in which they have children, because that

00:42:41 --> 00:42:44

is something that has been instilled into them. And it's just

00:42:44 --> 00:42:47

sad that they, they struggle in this regard.

00:42:49 --> 00:42:53

Just a few more few more things that the story tells us, it

00:42:53 --> 00:42:55

teaches us a few a few more things.

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The other thing it teaches us, especially our women, and men as

00:43:00 --> 00:43:04

well, in general, it teaches us how

00:43:05 --> 00:43:11

we can disassociate our love of this world. And for a greater for

00:43:11 --> 00:43:14

a greater objective, because that's exactly what she did,

00:43:14 --> 00:43:17

rather than take all of that money and go around, you know, on a, on

00:43:17 --> 00:43:20

a trip of the world, right on on some kind of holiday around the

00:43:20 --> 00:43:24

world or do something else. So whatever the case was, she spent

00:43:24 --> 00:43:28

it to help others in a charitable cause. Right? That's number one.

00:43:29 --> 00:43:30

Number two,

00:43:32 --> 00:43:32

her

00:43:33 --> 00:43:39

focus, her endurance in making sure she took this to the end, it

00:43:39 --> 00:43:43

took 18 years to build this. But she stood there she was there all

00:43:43 --> 00:43:48

along fasting, and look at that endurance, don't give up. That is

00:43:48 --> 00:43:52

the lesson that she teaches us. Don't give up. Even though nothing

00:43:52 --> 00:43:55

may be with you, you may be alone. And that takes us

00:43:56 --> 00:43:57

to

00:43:58 --> 00:44:00

another point, which is that.

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Remember, she is a woman who had lost her father, and she had lost

00:44:06 --> 00:44:11

her husband. She did not go into this prolonged depression. She did

00:44:11 --> 00:44:16

not go and become a recluse. She did not give up all hope. She did

00:44:16 --> 00:44:20

not become depressed. But no she went and she produced something

00:44:20 --> 00:44:24

that gave her the great recognition that she was

00:44:24 --> 00:44:29

definitely do. So this is another lesson that we learned from this.

00:44:30 --> 00:44:35

It tells us she The story also teaches us of how you can

00:44:36 --> 00:44:40

plant a seed. And then you let Allah subhanaw taala take care of

00:44:40 --> 00:44:41

the rest of it.

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And the university obviously became even better and went from

00:44:48 --> 00:44:52

strength to strength to the peak of its glory. In the centuries

00:44:52 --> 00:44:56

that followed her. She just had to start it off. Starting something

00:44:56 --> 00:45:00

is the most difficult. Continuing something is generally

00:45:00 --> 00:45:02

Easy because the processes are in place, you've got a place you've

00:45:02 --> 00:45:05

got a location, starting something is difficult.

00:45:06 --> 00:45:12

So what we can learn from this is that we can bring this story as a

00:45:12 --> 00:45:16

memory for us. Every time we feel depressed, every fee every time we

00:45:16 --> 00:45:21

feel a bit dejected. Every time we feel forsaken, maybe every time we

00:45:21 --> 00:45:26

feel a state of loss, and we feel that the world isn't going

00:45:26 --> 00:45:31

according isn't very favorable to us. We're not in a very favorable

00:45:31 --> 00:45:35

state. So then we remember this story that this is the story of a

00:45:35 --> 00:45:40

woman who lost her brother, who lost her father, who didn't have a

00:45:40 --> 00:45:43

brother, who lost her father who lost her husband, but then still

00:45:43 --> 00:45:48

managed to go against all odds, and to be able to make this

00:45:48 --> 00:45:53

extraordinary contribution that has illuminated millions

00:45:53 --> 00:45:57

throughout our history. So may Allah subhanahu wa taala grant a

00:45:57 --> 00:46:01

great reward that she is due for this. And may Allah subhanaw taala

00:46:01 --> 00:46:04

make her a true inspiration for all of us. And Allah give us all

00:46:04 --> 00:46:08

the Tofik to do something that is also great in this world before

00:46:08 --> 00:46:11

our death, and may Allah remove any kind of state of loss or

00:46:11 --> 00:46:15

depression from our hearts. And may Allah subhanaw taala accept us

00:46:15 --> 00:46:19

for the service of his Deen working with that runner annual

00:46:19 --> 00:46:20

Hamdu lillahi rabbil aalameen

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