Taimiyyah Zubair – Taleem al-Quran 2010 – Juz 23 – L243E

Taimiyyah Zubair

Az-Zumar 1-16 Tafsir 10-16

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The speakers discuss the difficulties of avoiding bad behavior and the importance of remaining firm in obedience to loss of time. They emphasize the need to make a promise to fulfill a loss of time and avoid wasting one's time. The speakers also touch on the negative impact of cyber security and the importance of fear and hesitation in the here after. They emphasize the importance of not letting fear control behavior and seek forgiveness.

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			yeah everybody Emma servants, with servants, and Medina, Allah know those people who believed last
pousadas addressing the believers over here, the
		
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			happier of your Lord. Just imagine a lot of panels out is setting us up for a book on fear your
Lord, have fear of Allah, meaning, refrain from disobeying him, do that which pleases Him.
		
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			Because what is the quantitative shield against the punishment of Allah? And how does the person do
that? By refraining from disobedience, and doing that which pleases Allah?
		
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			So if you have fear of your Lord, do something to save yourself levina Arsenal for those people who
do is turn the head hidden here in this dunya there is happiness, there is good. What does it mean
by the sentence levena. Sanofi has he dunia has an A, there are two ways of understanding that first
of all, for those people who do good
		
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			for those people who do axon, where do they do SM?
		
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			in which life we have eternia in this worldly life, for such people there is Hashanah when
		
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			in the Hereafter, meaning a great reward. Because Harris does that when you're standing in the
eastern? No, it's only offense. So they do Eastern Allah has for them has been in the hero.
		
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			Secondly, limousines Arsenal for the people who do
		
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			who do good. He has. Nia has an A, they will also get good in this dunya
		
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			that when a person does good, yes, there will be reward in the hereafter. But they will also be
reward in this dunya. See how the dunya Hazara
		
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			like for example,
		
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			what kind of reward is a person get in this dunya?
		
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			infection of the heart happiness? What else?
		
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			honor well being.
		
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			Okay, righteous offspring, what else?
		
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			What are the different forms of reward that Allah supposedly gives to his righteous servants in this
dunya.
		
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			Health, well being being saved from difficulties and calamities,
		
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			opportunity to do more good marriages have been?
		
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			What have children? Well, good provision.
		
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			contentment.
		
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			Sophie has he dunya has a it's a various types. So in this dunya, also, they will get good. So why
refrain from doing good?
		
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			When Allah subhanaw taala says it's broken, stay away from evil, out of the fear of Allah and do
good.
		
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			Because for those people who do good, there is good even in this dunya. So why stay away from doing
good.
		
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			It's an all profit, no loss investment.
		
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			When a person does something for the sake of Allah, when a person stays away from his disobedience,
it's an all profit, no loss investment in this dunya and in the hereafter. Medina, Sanofi herodias
dunya has an end if you find it difficult to have in a particular place. Because of the situation
that you're in, because of the circumstances that you're in, then that's not a reason to disobey.
		
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			That's not a reason to avoid good deeds.
		
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			Because what are the law he was
		
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			the earth of another land of Allah, it is worse there. It is huge. It is vast, it's spacious. So if
you find it difficult to obey Allah in one place, you can always go to another.
		
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			If you find it difficult to or they align a certain company, then you can always move to another
company, isn't it?
		
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			Because how many people are there in dystonia? So many? Is there a shortage of people in this dunya?
No. Is there a shortage of land in dystonia? No, what the line was there? It's huge. Its massive.
		
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			Just the other day I had gone out somewhere to this particular farm. And we were walking through the
fields picking the fruit. And I'm looking
		
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			It was huge.
		
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			Because the field where the plants were, it seems so far away from where we parked. We were walking
and walking and walking and walking and finally react to it. And I look back huge. I look in the
front huge. I look to the right huge, like endless for Obama. He was Sarah. And this is exactly what
came to my mind that this earth. It's huge. Its massive. We think it's so small, which is why we get
afraid of people. If somebody is doing something wrong before you
		
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			You always have the opportunity to go somewhere else, isn't it? You really have to go there. So you
don't,
		
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			you can always avoid it.
		
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			If you find it difficult to be obedient to a lot of certain company, is there a shortage of people
in this world? know, if they're saying evil words, don't sit with them, we're somewhere else. We'll
sit with other people were Obama who was here. So there is no reason to disobey.
		
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			no reason whatsoever, no excuse. Because the land of Allah is huge. with Obama, he was here. And
obviously, when a person has to leave a company goes somewhere else, when a person has to leave and
go somewhere else. He has to avoid certain places, then it's difficult, you have to do several.
		
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			For example, you want to go to a particular place to have certain foods. But you know, that at the
time, when you're going to go, that place is going to be crowded with
		
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			a lot of people who may be doing indecent things. So you avoid going. You avoid going and sitting
over there, you just take the food and leave. Are you ordered and have it delivered, for example,
don't you have to submit
		
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			doesn't require you curving that desert, you know that everybody goes there. And it's a Saturday
night, and you know, you should not go because you end up seeing a lot of wrong things, you end up
hearing a lot of wrong things.
		
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			So what should you do? Not go when you don't go? It requires trouble? What does Allah say, in the
manual for Fabio Luna as
		
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			she said, that indeed the father alone, they will be given their agent without any measure.
		
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			Without any measure,
		
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			anyone that will give them the reward, you will not go to the okay, because you're saddled with this
much it was 50% therefore, your award is 60%. No, the ratios are endless, without any measure.
		
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			Because Allah knows the difficulty that probably didn't go through in the my UFO for balloon agilon,
the radius and the lady herself is also understood without the hisab of their deeds, that alone will
not hold them accountable for their actions and instead you will give them reward. Why? Because
their whole nice they had to do
		
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			what happens with us, when we have to avoid going to a particular place, eating something, you know,
not going somewhere. When we have to go through these difficulties. We become very upset that why is
life so difficult?
		
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			especially young children, you tell them no, we can't eat this. We can't eat that. We can't go here,
then go there. What's the matter? Why is it so difficult? Why is religion so difficult, everybody
doesn't tell them at this time. In my office, Fabio natural behavior,
		
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			you do it over here for some time, only for some time for a few things. And Allah will give you a
measurable reward,
		
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			unlimited reward. Because this dunya is a prison for the lever.
		
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			And when you're in a prison, then your options are limited. Your freedom is limited, your choice is
limited.
		
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			So when you are in this prison,
		
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			you have protected yourself against all the things that are wrong, your choices are going to be
limited. And you have to do sub when you do not waste your reward in the manual for Fabiana, eduroam
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			is that as I was revealed before the hits are to hyper shut everything before the Muslims migrated.
		
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			And at that time, the persecution had gone to an extreme. For the believer. It seemed as though if
you were going to become a Muslim, then problems were going to fill up your life.
		
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			Your family was going to oppose you. Your friends are going to oppose you, your loved ones, we're
going to abandon you. So life became extremely difficult for those who had become Muslim. This is
why they had to migrate.
		
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			Now in these situations, what happens? You fall weak. My mother is telling me everybody's doing it.
Everybody's eating this. Everybody's going. If I say no, I don't want to go. You look like the bad
guy. You look like the person who does not want any fun, who is boring who ruins all the fun all the
time. This is what happens right? And people start condemning you that what good has this knowledge
brought to you? What good has this religion brought to you except boredom? That you have nothing
good to do in your life. You're boring and you make everybody else boring as well. This is what
people say. So what does a lot of parents always say over here in New York for sobre una eduroam
		
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			because just imagine the difficulty that I have I had to go through just imagine what's the Hello my
great job is in yet those who are persecuted a lot like Earth man of the land.
		
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			This imagine who stayed before Islam and what happened to him when he became a Muslim
		
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			His uncle would beat him. Just imagine his uncle, not your father, your uncle.
		
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			The opposition has gone to such an extent, the Sahaba, who in the time of Jamelia, they were loved
by their families, every wish of theirs was accepted. And now, nobody paid any attention to them,
except that they would oppose them. So it requires a lot of focus, that you remain firm on obedience
to a loss of time.
		
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			And you will also face this, that you learn about something, you make a promise, I'm going to do
this, I'm not going to do it. And what happens when you go back to your family?
		
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			When you go back home, the situation is not conducive at all.
		
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			It's very hostile.
		
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			And at that time is the test. What do you do?
		
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			If you do cyber, Allah promises in the mail, you will fulfill Bruna Angela home lady she's adopting
patients is very difficult. But the reward is massive. It's huge.
		
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			So if you have to face any difficulties in the wave of those worry,
		
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			because there's always other alternate, if Mako was getting tight for them difficult for them, there
was avicennia. And when the renter of the senior did not gain religious freedom, first they did.
		
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			They were able to worship and less pounds out of freedom over their evening. And then they can't
they migrated to Medina as well.
		
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			So what are the law he was here, and whatever difficulties you have to go through trouble will bring
a huge reward.
		
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			Just the other day somebody was mentioning to me about how they were thinking of moving from one
place to another, for the sake of their children.
		
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			That where they live, you know, the environment is such that the children, they get there's too much
money, and they keep getting distracted from the dean. And as far as that's affected everything
that's affected. So they were deciding that they will move from that place. So she mentioned it to
someone. And they said to her, aren't you going to miss your house,
		
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			your house that you made, and you got furnished and every single thing of your house, you chose
yourself, you selected yourself and children
		
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			and so many luxuries over the you know living in that country, you have servants and you have this
and you have that you have so many cars. And if you move to another place, you have to start from
scratch. And you will not want to miss all of that. She said to her May Allah never make me miss
that.
		
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			Because this is a step that I want to do for the sake of my deed. Yes, I know I love those things,
which is why I've accumulated all of them.
		
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			I love my house. I love this. I love that. However, this is more important to
		
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			think about
		
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			that you have brought yourself. The materials, the curtains, everything you bought yourself,
different colors, you chose yourself, you color coordinated everything and you're concerned about
dusting it and keeping it clean and keeping it perfect. And you're wasting all the spices in that
huge house. And all of a sudden you have to leave it
		
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			it's a big step.
		
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			A huge step. It requires a lot of cyber, but OLED is not waste their water bills.
		
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			He gives them without measure.
		
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			And this is true for when the person leaves something for the sake of Allah give him a replacement
and replacement that is much better.
		
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			Indeed, I have been commanded an hour the Lucha McMuffin then to worship Allah being sincere to him
in religion. I have no choice with regards to this. worshiping Allah sincerely, worshiping Allah
exclusively. This is an obligation.
		
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			This is a priority of my life. Because Allah has commanded me to do this.
		
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			And this is the purpose of my life. I have to worship Allah says it's difficult for me to worship
Allah in one place, then I have to move. If it's difficult for me to worship in an environment, then
I have to take a step and move elsewhere.
		
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			I have been commanded And who am I I am a slave and a slave does not have any choice.
		
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			I have been commanded an outward aloha Muslim.
		
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			And I have been commanded the an akuna are willing to see me that I should be the first amongst the
Muslims. The first of those who submit
		
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			the proper format which is basically been told over here, but this command is general as well. That
many times it's easy to or they are locked when everybody's away.
		
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			Isn't it's
		
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			very easy to follow the commands of the dean that are acceptable everybody does them. But when no
one else is doing
		
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			what you know should be done.
		
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			Then if you know, you should be the first one, don't hesitate just because you're the first one.
		
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			Because we're meant to leave an akuna, Irwin and muslimin, I have been commanded that I should be
the first of the Muslims.
		
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			Have you ever known as has submitted, I have to submit. Even if Madison's doing that I still have to
do it. I don't have to follow the majority. I'm supposed to follow the command of a law.
		
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			in me, indeed,
		
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			I see it in sort of be very self discipline, I learned, I have a human being the punishment, have a
great day.
		
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			I feel that if I disobey my Lord, there will be a punishment of a very great day. What is his great
day, the day of judgment arises called the Great day because what will happen in that day will be a
dream. Great things are going to happen on that day.
		
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			Now it's not that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was going to do something wrong.
		
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			In the essay to appear as every element of him, this is, in a way, showing us the severity of
disobedience.
		
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			That how severe it is to distribute unlockable glances commands.
		
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			It's not something small. It's something major, but also person goes against the commands of Allah.
Then there is punishment in the Hereafter, either Yeoman or ream, and it's not something small.
		
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			Allah, I worship the Houdini sincere to him in my religion.
		
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			This is what I do. The Prophet cinema Cinema Soto announces that I am supposed to worship Allah, how
not going to follow Houdini making sincere for him by worship. What does it mean by that?
		
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			That worshiping Allah alone,
		
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			giving him the highest priority, diverting my worship for him only
		
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			with a muchness on the Houdini, this is what I do.
		
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			And as for you will do my shit to me and
		
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			then go ahead and worship what ever you wish. Besides, I worship Allah, I have to obey Allah As for
you, your choice, go ahead and worship others if you want to go ahead and follow others if you want
to, but to remember to say in class syrena, indeed the loser
		
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			and Medina hospital and footer one meal will be those who have left themselves and their families on
the Day of Judgment. There are the losers.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because when they will lose themselves, their families, their wealth in the year after, they will
never meet them again. They will never see them again. And you see the loss of your loved ones, the
loss of your family members. That's the greatest loss.
		
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			If you've lost a lot of money, there is worth that you will get something else in return. Right?
		
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			You will find it even if you don't find it, maybe you will make the same amount of money in the near
future. Right.
		
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			But if you've left a family member,
		
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			can anyone else replace the
		
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			can and replace them? They cannot. For less of a left what is the greatest loss in the Holocene
alladhina Haku and posting him leave him Yokoyama.
		
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			There are those who will lose themselves and their families in the hereafter on the Day of Judgment.
And as Erica who will kasana will be the way that is the clear loss. If the evident loss. Clearly
this is a great loss. There is no doubt about it. No one can say that this is not lost. This is
perfectly fine. No, it's clearly a big loss.
		
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			When is the federal person or why is it that a person will lose his family and himself in the year
after?
		
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			That when he ends up in Hellfire
		
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			and his family is also in Hellfire or isn't?
		
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			When a person is in Hellfire that is he cut off from the family?
		
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			Of course he is. Even if they are in hellfire. His cell numbers are in house I can do anything to
help him whether it be at any kind of bonding between them. Any love any friendship between them.
No. Because the future of Hellfire, what will they do? They'll be fighting with one another cursing
one another in Nevada to hack the hospital and enough
		
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			the people have heard they will be fighting with one another, even if they were the best friends in
the dunya even if they were closest family members in the dunya.
		
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			So it's a huge loss. losing yourself, losing your family on the Day of Judgment for eternity. This
is a clear loss
		
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			and as we talked about it many times
		
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			In this dunya what happens? we compromise in the religion because of
		
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			a family member
		
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			because of our desires.
		
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			But what's the point that you give to your children? Every luxury of this dunya being negligent
about their?
		
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			What's the point
		
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			they will enjoy enjoy enjoyment the year after if you lose them, then what's the point? If you've
lost them, you've left them for everything.
		
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			So always the deen of Allah the worship of Allah must be given priority
		
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			because that is compromised.
		
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			Then when the relations are cut off in the year after, that is a great loss.
		
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			And there we go, who else was on will be that is the clear loss.
		
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			And it's a clear loss also, because the hangman Luna Lumina now, they will have canopies of fire
above the women in rural and below them canopies as well. In the hair fire the woman facing will a
woman is deployed of will and will no bread which gives room to a person that which gives shear to a
person. So what is it like an umbrella, a canopy attempt a cloud so they will be covered with fire
from above the lives of fire above them. Notice it's not roulette, but it is Rulon one layer on top
of the other.
		
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			A fire above them, when in fact the umbrellas and layers of fire beneath them.
		
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			that a person cannot escape. And he's been punished from every side. Then the law will be here he
better that is what a lot frighten the servants from
		
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			that is what Allah was his servants against you have with you, however you always put up with this
is to find someone to arouse fear in them.
		
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			This is the punishment that Allah wants you to fear that if you disobey a law, if you compromise in
this religion, if you don't make Deen sincere for him, if you don't make worship sincere for him,
then this is a great loss. There's a fire above and below the vehicle you call me for love over
here, Eva. verde for tacos are my servants. Fear me. Fear now. Fear Allah. Look at the little muscle
panels on his dressing
		
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			room over the Latina terminal.
		
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			And over here, you're invited
		
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			me
		
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			and we should have here have a lot of hands on. Because if you think about it, this is not something
small. The punishment of the Hereafter is not something small. Urban in Europe is not something
small.
		
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			If we learn about the consequences of doing something wrong in this dunya we become so careful.
		
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			If we find out that if you're sitting in the car and you don't wear a seatbelt and the police
officer finds you and He will give you a ticket for this much and you will lose these nine demerit
points, then what happens?
		
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			What happens? We've become so fearful
		
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			we're sitting and all of a sudden we remember and instantly we put on the seatbelt even if we don't
want to.
		
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			This is a fear that we have off. Police officers.
		
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			Yeah, buddy.
		
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			America deserves here.
		
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			This is not the last a few demerit points.
		
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			This is not the last of a few $100 this is not the back of your license for a week or two. No, this
is eternity. And this is fire our breath and below.
		
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			above and below.
		
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			In total arafa 41 we learn the home and Johanna mommy had one woman hoping will wash they will have
a bed and over them covering the fire a bed of fire and on top of that coverings of fire in Israel
is Johanna middle Cassidy in her free law. We have made the Hellfire a prison for the disbelievers a
prison so that they cannot escape from above from below from the sides from nowhere into the NBA 39
know your number levena cafaro in America funan would you even know when I'm touring him when I
don't if there is a disbelief but knew the time when they would not be able to remove the fire from
their faces or from their backs and they would not be aided
		
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			nanika who will who will be
		
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			so Allah subhanaw taala tell us about the punishment so that we become fearful
		
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			or whenever we learn about this punishment, what do we think of this believers mistaking but what is
the loss over here? Yeah, you birdie for
		
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			my servants, meaning my believing servants. You are so happy
		
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			because the one who doesn't
		
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			not obey Allah is Allah for him are severe consequences in the hereafter. That is the Prophet
sallallahu Sallam told over here that say, I fear that if I disobey Allah the punishment of a great
day, if the Prophet said another son was being told,
		
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			in certain desire one of us has, yeah, you have nerves.
		
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			So having fear of Allah is something essential, because that is the greatest motivational force.
		
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			Fear. It's the greatest motivational force.
		
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			When a person is a third of his, he's a third of the hellfire. He's a third of the split off, he's a
third of the punishment of the grave. He's afraid of seeing the angels of death, then what will
happen? When he's lying down, he will go up instantly.
		
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			When the time of foreigner comes in, he will get up instantly.
		
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			When an opportunity to do comes in, he gets it instantly. He doesn't say later. No, he gets up.
		
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			Fear drives him. Yes, there will be and in this way, even when a person is alone, and not telling
him get up and pray, get up and do this he will get up and pray. Why? Because who does he have fear
of loss.
		
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			Another reason behind his loss is what fear of
		
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			the world a person has fear of the more fluffy will have and how can a person develop fear of by
learning about the consequences of the hereafter?
		
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			The punishment, the accountability, the hisab because what is mentioned over here to arouse fear,
		
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			the punishment in the hellfire.
		
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			So whenever we learn about these punishments, don't just think of disbelievers disbelievers. No,
think about it yourself. What is it for me?
		
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			What is this except to me? Put yourself in that situation.
		
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			Like one of the scholars, he said that I imagined myself I pictured myself
		
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			that I was being punished, I was being given the spoon to eat and having to drink. And I asked
myself, What do you wish for?
		
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			And the only answer I had was that if only I could go back to the world and do good and seek
forgiveness. So I told myself, I am in the world. I am in the dunya now, so get up and do something,
seek forgiveness now. Don't wait until it's too late.
		
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			And he said that I pictured myself that I was in general
		
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			enjoying the blessings of Jenna. And I asked myself, what's your desire? What do you want? And he
said to himself, I wish I could go back to the knee and do more good. I could get more of these
blessings. So I told myself, I am.
		
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			I am in the dunya now, now is the time to do something. So the more conscious a person is of the
Hereafter, the more fearful years of the year after. That is what brings about a change.
		
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			Because that develops fear and fear motivates a person.
		
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			fear of Allah motivates a person when there's no one else to watch him. No one has to tell him.
		
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			Even when he's alone, he will do what is right.
		
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			Even when everybody's doing wrong, he will be the first one to do the right. Because he has fear of
Allah.
		
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			recitation.
		
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			Well, either Miss
		
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			Mooney been in the
		
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			loony bin
		
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			either.
		
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			lunacy
		
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			messy
		
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			semi,
		
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			down Bhiku freekeh Paulina Naka min.
		
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			Walk on
		
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			Yo
		
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			yo yo, moto
		
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			Medina.
		
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			Yeah, I
		
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			mean,
		
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			he had he
		
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			was
		
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			he was he
		
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			was
		
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			a joke
		
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			to
		
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			the
		
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			moon
		
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			simi
		
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			Houdini
		
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			Do you
		
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			think about losing yourself and your family in the hereafter? It's the clear loss. It's the most
evident loss. When does a person lose his family?
		
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			in the hereafter when?
		
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			When, when either he ends up in hellfire.
		
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			Right? Or him and they both end up in hellfire.
		
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			And in Brasilia, we're concerned about the appearance of our family members, the beauty of our
family members, children, for example, parents are so concerned, how would they dress to power the
look in his face clean do the smell. Girls is a license their hair, they're so concerned about
different image about their health, physical health. But when it comes to the dean, we think of
doesn't matter. They will learn how will they learn when you don't have a solid plan?
		
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			Or we keep allowing children? Yes, do this do that. It's okay, no big deal.
		
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			But remember that if you lose your family members in the Hereafter, if they're not abundant, then
that is the clearest loss, that most evident loss. There's no other loss that is clear than that.
		
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			It is linear. If a child is not distant to his parents,
		
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			he comes back, listen, sometimes, okay? At least you see his face. Sometimes he smiles. Sometimes
he's obedient. But in the year after one's gone, gone forever, forever, no coming back.
		
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			And it's unfortunate that out of left for our family members out of love for our children, we let
them do whatever they want.
		
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			But this lab will not benefit in the hereafter. If you really love them. If you're really sincere to
them, then be concerned about their healing.
		
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			Sometimes we are afraid. Don't say to them, praise Allah, because if you say to them, they will get
upset and when they get upset, and they will not comfort in it,
		
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			for example, but the thing is, if they get upset now, that's much better than losing them forever in
the hereafter.
		
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			Sometimes we are very concerned about ourselves, but we're not concerned about our family members.
We're not concerned about our responses. We're not concerned about our children. We're only
concerned about ourselves. We're getting there slipping away.
		
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			If you're concerned about yourself, should you not be concerned about them? You should be
		
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			if you're learning and the ignorant, you're learning and they don't have a clue. Is that fair? It's
not fair at all.
		
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			So if you're mad for your family members that should first you to tell them as well. To encourage
them as well. And never think that you're being unfair with them. No, this is not this is sincerity.
		
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			And if you allow them to disobey Allah in your presence because of you, that is injustice. That is
not love that is insincere or
		
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			anything like
		
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			that today that we need to stop it on this right if they're doing wrong. Yes, what is my you leave
them for a while, but it doesn't mean that you leave them forever? No.
		
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			Back again is another strategy. Look for some other timings when they are ready to listen, you can
meet them, you have to resolve it, because allows us to
		
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			save yourself and your families from the fight.
		
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			And we think we'll leave the children, give them a break, let them do whatever they want to. Because
the more you tell them, the more they will be averse to their religion. I mean, yes, take my should
be used in telling your family members and telling your children telling your spouses, however, it
doesn't mean that once you leave them, you leave them forever? No. If you concerned about saving
yourself, you have to be concerned about saving them.
		
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			And initially, they will not like it. But eventually, they will realize.
		
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			But if you give it right at the beginning, then is that fair? It's not fair at all.
		
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			I remember, when I was growing up, there were so many things that were that I did not like, why am I
not allowed to go here? Why do I have to wear this and why cannot go there. And all my friends in
school, they're doing whatever they, you know, their parents allow them. I remember when I was very
young, perhaps in grade five, you know, children, they're having birthday parties, and everybody's
giving out invitation cards.
		
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			This girl came to me and she said, I have a birthday party. But I'm not gonna invite you because I
know you're not gonna come so I'm not going to waste my card.
		
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			And it hurt me so much. And I remember I cried so much that Why does my mom not let me go?
		
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			Why does she not let me go? But now, I love her for that. That she did not let me go. Because if she
let me go to one party and the other party and see all of those wrong things and witnessed that I
would not dislike them.
		
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			So yes, your children might resent it at the beginning, they might dislike it. But later on, they
will realize you have to keep doing
		
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			and keep thinking I have to save myself and my family.
		
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			I cannot lose.
		
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			I cannot lose. And remember we learned during the children, our gift of a mother and a gift you're
supposed to preserve. You're supposed to say that you're supposed to look after it. You're supposed
to value it. Children are a gift. How can we let them do whatever they want to and incur the wrath
of Amazon themselves is that gratitude? Not at all.
		
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			The panic alarm will become bigger. The shadow will lay there he learned as
		
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			I said on morning