A Timeless Tale
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It is a well known fact that the beginning point of every human is total ignorance, while longhill arthralgia can mean Butoh neoma hottie comme la Ala Moana Shea and you exited the womb of your mother, Allah took you into this world Latta Allah Muna Shea, you knew absolutely nothing. So we all begin at a point of total ignorance. And furthermore, Allah reminds us that prior to death Holla Holla cocoon Allah created you from Mega tower Furqan. And ultimately he causes your death woman co mejorado, Isla de la Mora, and some amongs you are return to the wicked age to the evil age to the unpleasant age. Now the word return you're on do is suggestive of the fact that we previously were
llorando Allah says you'll be returned, meaning when we were born, and our faculties had not developed and evolved, and we didn't have all the abilities and resources, and many times Allah returns that condition to a person in the latter part of his life.
And then what does the Quran say Li k Allah Ya Allah ma Ba da Vinci, so that he knows nothing after having acquired a great deal of knowledge. So the beginning point was ignorance. The end in in many instances is a point of ignorance. In the La La Mancha de Allah concludes the verse it is the 16th chapter, verse 70. Verily, Allah is most knowledgeable and most mighty. The scholars of Tafseer tell us that wherever the attributes of the Almighty feature in the Koran, the translation remains the same, but the connotations differ.
So the translation of Allium is all knowing the translation of kadeer is all powerful, but the connotations in the context of which it appears differs. So in the context of the idea preceding This allows days prior to your death,
I can take away that knowledge from you and I have the knowledge hands I know why I do what I do. And I have the power that I could bring about that condition where a young man in his youth and his prime can lose his faculties and I also have the power that I could preserve it for old man despite his old age.
Imam Shafi Rahim Allah said the alum Felice Alma una de Lima, Weller is a horrible man mean come on, haha Hello. Get yourself acquainted to acquire in knowledge because no human is born learned. We're in a southern rural county in Ghana alima Kabir on either route that Ella Hill Mahaffey and I person might be Junior by age, but if he possesses knowledge, then at the time of crunch and challenge, you will realize that he is the actual senior despite the junior nature of his age.
So it is upon us that we constantly educate ourselves in English there's a very profound proverb. They say some people drink at the fountain of knowledge, and others only goggle.
Some people drink at the fountain of knowledge, and others only come and rinse their mouth. And today if you go on to social media, and this forum and that forum and connections and links by and large people
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that image shall be was asked me in aloka has a lie mccolo? How did you acquire all this knowledge? He said what four things benefiel ottima was say refill Bella.
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beanfield ottima The first thing I did was I stopped relying on people. This is the problem we have in life. Constant dependence on him on her on the on this one on that one. In fact many people say people don't disappoint us our hopes in them disappoint us.
We put in too many hopes how many of our marriages turbulent Why? There's no issues is just that you had raised the bar of hopes too high. That the day I get married, I will never be said I will never be depressed. I will never be distraught. All will be hunky dory. So you've raised expectation too much. We now feel a ottima I stopped relying on people was say refill belong and I travel because travel itself is a journey teaches you, it empowers you. It broadens your horizon and we can speak about that. You know as a separate dedicated topic was Sabrina. Hi, Mark heimer and the perseverance of a donkey. We're in every belly method ob sabriel heimer. Lisa, Brianna has fee that why has the
analogy being given with a donkey? A donkey would suffice on basic things. Nobody recognizes the presence of a donkey when you go on a safari, and then you see a predator or you see a leopard or you see a lion. people stop people pause you go to a safaris and see about it or you see the Great Migration in the Masai Mara and the crossing of the wild beast. It's a spectacular sight. But nobody says oh stop, stop there is a donkey.
In fact, if you spot it, it makes of wisdom that you silent about it.
So that's the nature you committed to your cause. Whether the spotlight is on you or not you committed you dedicated. May Allah give us that sincerity in our endeavors. Well, sobre la marovo buku real Rob
Serato iavi was sort of a to the hobby. It's known about the crow. it departs early, and it returns early. So for a learner and a seeker he has a timetable. He's committed, he's diligent. Mm hmm. Rahmatullah Allah has written and I'm just saying this is a foreword, and then inshallah address the aspect that I really want to speak on how we could empower our lives from any dose of the Quran. And that's the verse that I recited la kajioka nafi cos also he maryborough la katakana free, Casa z Mary Barra, indeed in the tails of the profits, there is great reflection and introspection. If you study the life of any prophet alayhi salatu min Allah He with this limit, it will bring a meaningful
reformation in your life and the Quran is replete with the tales of the prophets peace be upon them all amounts of material Allah has mentioned and recently I came across this and I was blown away and these were the great thinkers and these were the great scholars of the past. He said hum sophus Arlene fish savari loconet Phil kebari Mahara be him. Lacan Olia.
Children possess five amazing qualities. If the adults were to adopt these traits with the Lord, they would become the saints of the era.
What did your mom say you did Rama to lolly say, hum, so recyling fist silvar. The kid, the toddler, the child, the junior the juvenile, the youngster kids, they have five qualities. Lo graniteville Kibar if this five could be found in the seniors locker, no only are they would become a sage of the age.
Number one, the Mona berries.
You would find a kid who is never disturbed or concerned or perturbed, about the volatility of the market or the prediction of the economists, or how precarious the political climate is, or when would he increase and generate more revenue. A kid is not concerned about it, and the average human, some because of business stress have become Insomniac. They cannot sleep and others. They cannot get up.
Some are drowning their sorrow by sleeping extended hours sahira through you don't wanna mess up. You
sahira through you know, when I met Apple you know fi moved into Kono Ola taco No. Or if you know Arabic You know what I'm saying? Yeah, my brother really sahira through, you know, some eyes cannot sleep when I met, you know, and some eyes cannot get up. Fi Omar in Turku, Ola kuno fearing the instability of the market, it's volatile. It's precarious. It's uncertain.
federa Ilha man enough, see, just shrug your shoulders and take away that depression. And that anxiety and that stress and that concern in naraba and Kapha kabil mc makan Osijek free coffee rottenmeier kuno The Allah who has nurtured you and taken care of you till today? Do you think he will abandon you look at the child. Sometimes we want to teach a child life but the time teaches us a natural life. children live a free life. They live a pure life. They don't know boundaries and parameters and prejudice and all these other things. The first thing we learn from China ma'am So you said adopted and you will be the sage of the age you will be the saint of all times like the
Mona berries day. They don't concern themselves about sustenance and when will I eat and how will I eat
the Arabic poet said one minute delila lol Baba, he woke me he booked so lobby with the bronchial asthma tea.
Amongst the testimony that sustenance is decreed by the Almighty. Often in life you will find an unskilled man owning an empire and a competent skilled person looking for employment. That's the irony of life is that not allowed message that your intellect is not the sheer vehicle to generate revenue. Follow another Roku that the super is done lukan akula BB Miss locker Rooney if it was only intellect and how smart and how calculated and how methodical you are, and you know which buttons to press, then well, every wealthy man would have had an empire like Barun but the truth is otherwise. So that's the first thing the second quality of kids is either marry though learn your school I mean
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When kids are sick, you never you're them questioning the authority of a law. Why has a line flicked this condition upon them? Wow, really? I think I'm wise. I think I'm intelligent. A child is innocent, simple, naive teenager. But why has a lot tested me? Why is this falling in my lap law your school and I'm in Chanukah him. A child would never question the patience, the perseverance, the tolerance, the innocence of a child teaches us a great lesson of life.
Todd is sure Ray was one of the great judges in the annals of Islamic history. He was a judge even during the period of Sahaba rizwana Allahu taala. Allah him in somebody says, send me an email or a phone. What is the key? How many lists are the thing? I was complaining and I was moaning and groaning to one of my friends. The goings are tough. The challenges are tough. Social parties Sheree heard me he said a year ago where she qualified in law as our general lesson brother. How dare How dare you complain to anyone besides Allah? How dare you tell other people about your issues for in a mentor school lejano acuna Sadiq Khan our do one because the person to whom you complain is either a
ally or a foe is either a friend or an enemy for Amma Sadiq for tuxedo.
mellado for yashima tubig. If it's your friend, you're gonna bring grief to him because he's going to know that my friend is going through challenges in his life. And if it's your enemy is going to clap hands, probably is going to express condolences and empathy and sympathy, but behind your back is like good luck, you deserved it earlier.
And then he said, on zorrilla rainy Javi
he said, look at this, I have minds. What ashara illa de IE, and then he pointed to one of his eyes. He said ma absorbed to Bihar radula and voila return Mundo Hamza. ashrita Santa. wanna borrow to be ha ha done.
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for 15 years I have lost total vision in this eye. But I have never divulged this to any one in that 15 years but you and that is today to teach you a lesson. Don't complain about what Allah has put in your lap.
I often say it's perfectly fine to complain to Allah, but not to complain about Allah.
complain to Allah, that's fine. Oh my law. These are my issues. These are my challenges. A young man surrounded with temptation. I marvel at the choice of words of Armenian Abdullah tomini Allahumma inaka holla caetani be Emmerich accompany v Bala. Ha the dunya be mushy I take from Apple tally stumps a koala Kincaid for ystem sicko. ilam Thompson, below Africa, cobija methane. Really, this is a young boy at its best. Oh my Lord, You created me because you've decreed my existence. Then you subjected me to temptation by my nature, my anatomy. its intrinsic to me. I have so many inclinations and passions, and then you impressed upon me to restrain myself. I implore you, and I
asked you respectfully. If you're not going to hold me Oh my Lord, how am I going to resist temptation?
Imagine this dialogue of this young man with a law and that was the Mona john that the pious enjoyed Elahi k for the ruca we're announcing what a fella druker and the Karimloo Oh my Lord, I cannot muster the courage to supplicate you given my son's and at the same time, I cannot forego the opportunities to supplicate you, given your clemency
given your pattern. So that's the second amazing quality of kids. The first thing is
they don't concern themselves. They move on with life. They love naturally. The second thing is what Eva Marie do when they say law school. I mean holla to him, they don't complain to the Almighty. The third thing about children, Kaduna, Mojito marine. Hakuna Matata marine children eat together, they share what they have. They not in seclusion. They're not in isolation. They don't hold their hearts are too clean. There was a friend of mines. His son was admitted a child in a pediatric ward in a hospital. The parents came to visit the mum hugs the child kisses the child as she's about to leave the child from the rear holds on to Mum, mum but that's not fair. Why my baby you need to kiss all
the children in this Ward are really Whoa. When I grow up, I only kiss my color. I only salute my ethnicity. I only pay tribute to my own nationality. But the charge teaches me there's no color there's no boundary. There's no limits. Yeah Guna magenta marine children eat together openly. They don't have issues they don't have gripes. The Sahaba complained to the Prophet sallallahu somehow food is running short. The messengers Eliasson didn't ask which port you cooking in? What spices you using? Perhaps you eat in individually landlocked akuna Matata Are
you eating individually it collectively set together and eat back in the days the entire family would sit together eat from a common platter. Those days are gone. today. People don't eat on a common time. The Times have delivered just for the entire family to assemble on a common time. Sometimes like you sit in an after gym and you're eating and it almost feels like unique. Oh wow. Why? Because everybody has their own schedule. homes have become like hotels, not in its palatial nature, but everybody checks in and checks out at their own time. You don't know what's happening to the neighbor next door in your hotel. He comes in at this time and he leaves
and that is what has happened with us.
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kids. were either hanfu Jarrett or you know when Domo. When they fear they tear.
When they fear they tear. Kids are innocent, they cry. Allah loves crying, my brother, my sister, when last Did you cry in your supplication? You and I have to cry over the fact that we cannot cry.
We need to cry that we cannot cry. Look at the carnage happening around the globe. Look at the catastrophe that has rocked the planet. Look at the appalling status. Look at the poverty in the Muslim world. You can just see and it can be
Prior to Ramadan, I was gone on the borders of Turkey and Syria to give out some aid to some orphans.
And we giving out some basic rice a day prior to Ramadan. And as we reach out to this little house and this mom who had come across and had to flee her native land by circumstances, she stands out, we offer the bag of rice, it's given to me as I'm the guest of the organization. And she comes out with her 10 year old son, oh man, he just pierces the sword in my heart. And the little boy comes forward and the mom takes the bag of rice. She acknowledges us and she says laughter a moment can I have a word and I'm like fine pieces to talk. And so is the host, that is part of you know, organizing the entire arrangement in the term. And the mum then indicates to us that the boy has the
prosthetic right hand and an artificial left leg. And I'm seeing this with my own eyes in front of me. And my son is busy on his gadget is busy on his fidget spinner. He's busy perusing the wrong things, His hands are roaming around, she then takes out the prosthetic hand, and she explains that he's grown now. So it needs to be modified for functionality to be restored. And the same applies to his foot. And I couldn't hold myself and I just break down in tears. And I hug the young boy and I comfort him the details were taken. And obviously it was communicated. I visited a house, a team an orphanage. And what's the name of this orphanage?
Halima sadiya orphanage is a methodical Muslim eyes, they would say in Arabic, you know, the name lives up to the situation. And then I'm presented with a young child no more than six to seven months old. The mum is upstairs and I hold the kid. And I'm told that this child was in the womb of her mother when a drone struck, and her father died. She was an unborn child. And the mum lost her leg. And this child was born after the death of a father in this catastrophe that had hit their home. I'm saying what this that's happening around the globe and I cannot cry. Really, there's something wrong. Look at the child. When they fear they tear. When they fear they tear a lot
describes in the Quran. There are so many verses that the pious are those when they recite Quran they tear and really tearing will happen when the heart is free of sin. Jessica
Alba nanofiller Iboga Edna cathedra has made mention of this year in the 22nd Jews in Surah to Sabah. Some have referred it to say Nally Ravi Alon whose opinion others have said it's the quotation of someone else, in essence, just Mercia the retribution, the repercussion, the consequences of virus is Alva nanofiller Hi bada you become lethargic in worship.
You become sluggish in worship. There's no drive, there's no passion. There's no inclination, you don't enjoy your worship. Crime is synonymous to those who read Koran. Sally Mussolini said I seen the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in a dream. And then he told me to read Koran and I read Quran and he said yes, Allah had the hill Cara final book. Outside, you read the Quran, but recitation and tearing is synonymous. You've read the Quran, there's no tearing. When would that day come? Really these eyes and ears and organs and limbs that Allah has given us? If we don't use it objectively, then what is the benefit? reflect for a moment in the 23rd Jews? Allah speaks about the
galaxy of Umbria. And what does Allah say?
In the last one behala slot in the QRadar was good or bad Anna is Mariela. What is hot and mentioned to them? Our servants is my email and the different prophets only ad Well, those are only ad when a bizarre, a literal verbatim translation. They were people with hands and eyes, meaning they were people with strength and vision. But the scholars say the form adopted by Allah release is a gentle hint that only those who possess organs who use it objectively.
Allah referred to the galaxy of prophets only Lulu is the plural of the word zoo, meaning possessor. ad is the plural of the word yet, which means the hands amongst other translations. episod is the plural of the word buzzer. They were people with hands and eyes vision and strength. But Allah says it is only those who apply
organs objectively in the eyes of the Almighty that really have organs, otherwise its presence and its absence is the same. So that's the fourth quality of children.
And number five, what is at the heart some sorrow elicited, hey,
what is that the heart, the sorrow eliphalet when kids quarrel, and they have an altercation, and they bicker amongst themselves, then they reconcile before the sunsets.
They reconsider before the sunset, they were having a go at each other that a blow at each other. But before nighttime, they make peace. That is why a wise parent would not embroil himself in the fields of children. Because these are things that are ongoing today, they have a fight tomorrow is nobody else in the neighborhood is going to go back then play that. He's got to go there. So that's how clean the hands of kids are. So as human we are social creatures, and we have to defer. So argumentation is inevitable that that's the reality. But the thing about kids, which is so amazing is that what is at the heart of Mutasa are so high, that they have their arguments, and that's human
and that's natural. But they hasten to reconciliation. While unfortunately the average adult it's below his dignity to apologize. And the hostility continues. Nay, he advocates the continuation of the hostility. How dare you speak to that man? And don't ask me why. Anyway, that was just a foreword, and just a teaser to what I really want to say. But like I said, that our beginning point is ignorance. And we continue to learn, may Allah make us amongst those people who can imbibe this, who can take it to heart who can execute it, who can walk the talk. So today, I want to share with you I read in one book very beautifully, different aspects that can empower our life. And it's a
very holistic package. You know, today, it's a common thing, you go over the counter, and you ask for immune boosters, right, because the immunity is low, we susceptible to so many illnesses and diseases and bacteria. So you try and get an all encompassing package or a capsule that has everything that's just going to increase your immunity and make you more resilient and less susceptible to the melodies and the sicknesses that are out there. So from the life of use of a Salatu was salam, we look at some amazing salient features, which are so relevant and so contemporary, yet so profound, and each one of us needs to listen and learn from it. The first
amazing quality we learn from the life of use of alayhi salatu was Salam Alaikum Anisha.
He lived a bashful life, he lived a modest life. He lived a chaste life what they say in English, it's more important to be faithful than famous.
It's more important to be faithful than famous. Don't feed your eye. What that can do is study the ingredients before you give it to your eye.
In the Lucha de Allah, Allah columella aka Baraka, Buffy, Malacca, instead of the most of I came across this, Allah created the angels and Allah endowed them with intellect wahala tell him wakaba Fie him a Shahada. And Allah created the animals and Allah entrenched within them base and carnal desires. So I really have an eye for wildlife because I travel and I see in an eye it really intrigues me, it fascinates me, just to appreciate, you know, the, the the system of align wildlife and that's the I have a believer, you know, you could be intrigued into zoology into so many other different sizes. But if you just channel it with the spiritual eye, it becomes a reflection over the
the code rather than the might of the Almighty.
So Allah created the animals and a lion trench within them based desires. So you would find an animal would satisfy itself. What the female
creature when when they are hunters when they are viewers when there are people around because that's how Allah has made an animal. Allah has entrenched within the desire wahala kabani Adam wakaba Fie him Allah, Allah was Shahada and Allah created man and endowed men with intellect and instilled within man based desires as well.
who Allah shall what he for who Allah Amina lamella, aka woman Hala Basha to whom Allah actually he for who at the nominal Baha him and the one whose intellect governs his desire overpowers his desire, so the intellect reign supreme in dictating it
shaping and navigating his life. Then he even surpasses the celestial creation of angels, woman, Robert Shahada who Allah actually he and the one who's based desire dominates and overpowers his intellect, then he ranks even lower than the bees and the animals. And today that's what the world is all about. Just do it for the fun for the thrill for the cake, you lose your intact totally.
So so you deny our use of alayhis salaam. His first amazing salient feature was alive for two Anisha. Now you know how amazing it was my brother and my sister,
the woman of the neighborhood in which use of alayhis, salaam love, they all said ma alumna, highlighting him in so we cannot blemish him in any way. When it comes to morality, this man is par excellence. He is right on the top. That's how clean his government is not soiled in any way. Imagine the testimony of the woman of your neighborhood, they will you live the longest period for them to say it doesn't end there. Then the very woman who seduced him, even ultimately, she said anara what to who I never see he were in no lemina slide the thing, the truth be told, I seduced him and he is innocent.
That's the second testimony.
the testimony of Allah to the nobility of use of kadalai kaleena sharifah. I know so well for sha Allah said when sin was approached in use of we diverted descended from use of, there's a big difference between moving the child from the fire and moving the fire from the child. In the letter, the level of protection is greater than the former. If I move the child away from the fire, it's a level of protection. But if I move the fire away from the child, the level of protection is even greater. And Allah has used that phrase I diverted the evil away from use of
notwithstanding all these accolades and testimonies, what they say then our use of say mama Oba una FC in enough Salah Mr. Ratan de su illa rahima. Robbie, I do not exonerate myself. I do not say I'm free of blame. The human ego by nature is provocative towards sin. You know, acknowledge Josie has made mention of this amazing incident that they lived in Makkah, a woman who was of exceptional beauty. So one day she said to her husband uttara had Yamaha the Lucha stetina be hit? Oh my hubby, do you think there is a man who would see my beauty and he won't be infatuated? Do you think there is a man who would see my beauty and he will not be infatuated? So she said yes, I know of someone
is by the name of robear dibner male.
So she said, then Lee Fela effect Tina noho. Give me a chance. I want to beguile him. I want to seduce him. And I want to cast
a spell of temptation before him. I want to dangle the candy before him as they say. So she said he said Okay, go. So he comes to his private gathering. He was in the Heron and this was back in the years they've been with Josie has mentioned it that way I read it for at that hook Elmo Stefania. So she came under the pretext of a questioner to ask a ruling
for Hala Mahaffey now. So they step aside. And for as far as I know what he ha, she's about to pose the question and she unveiled herself, and suddenly her beauty dawns upon him, so he drops his gaze. See, Islam is a very pragmatic religion. Islam is very amazing. When you study our Deen and you appreciate the wholesome nature. Islam is us a friendly Islam was never dated for it to be outdated. Islam doesn't say you cannot interact. Allah told the spouses of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that your house will be frequented by strange men. It's the house of Prophet would follow a taco bar and a bill totally fell at a bar and a bill coli Fatima Allah de calbee hemara
wakulla Nicola maroof that when you interact and allama Nassif in Madeira Catonsville, I just marvel at how he writes this. He said he has an MA Guney he has shinan
let your speech Be polite when speaking to strange men, but let not your tone be seductive.
So Islam doesn't advocate that you must be harsh in your speech you speaking keep it platonic, as they say platonic.
Let your speech be codea. courteous, polite, but let not your tone be inviting. That not your tone be inviting. And Hakeem will Omar writes in his ears is blown away by this. He said, Follow Barnaby Cole, does not mean that a woman should not sweet in her voice. That's a given. That's obvious. That's known. It means don't speak in your natural voice because that itself is attractive.
So how would a man speak to a child? It's a respectful voice and a polite voice is not an inviting voice.
So let it be Husson. And that's the beauty of Islam keep the relationship platonic. Let the speech Be polite but let not the tone let not the undertone be inviting and seducing for us for Anwar g Ha. She unveiled herself.
So he says yeah, amatola Oh, sister, would you please veil yourself.
So she says in ni 14 to be the truth be told I am infatuated over you share and I really cannot resist my temptation.
So he said to her, I'm going to ask you something for in Contessa dakini number two fee Emmerich. I'll ask you a question. few questions. If you are honest, transparent and candid to me, then I would look at what you have to request was a polite, respectful, euphemistic response, but he didn't entertain it in any way just to have the record clear.
He said to her low attacchi melaku Malakal mode, Leah be the rule hockey Akana, your suit rookie and need for the two Harlock Oh, my sister just pause for a moment. And let's just fast forward life. And imagine is the Angel of Death knocking on your door and it's time to leave this world? Would you be happy that in your records you have the crime of Xena in your account?
Allahu Allah. No. Okay, second question. Your Life has moved on to jelly stiffy cabrach you've been seated in your grave. A turkey Malecon the two angels have come to pose the question to you. Would you be happy to know that you have violated your law? No. It's the day of the AMA and the book of deeds have been flung. Taco yourself. It's been thrown out.
A Torah Akita Baca Kapha BNF sycl jamoma la kaha Seba read your own book and decide for yourself what your fate and your destiny is. At that time, would you be happy? No. Yeah. amatola in Allahabad, an AMA la ke o SR stop. Allah has favored you. Allah has been kind to you desist from this practice of yours. And it is said the manner in which he said it to her it jolted her when he got back.
Her husband asked her what happened.
So she said under batal wanna know Bertha loon you waste in your life and I'm wasting my life. Today I met a man with piety. He's taken me out of the deceptive look of temporary pleasure. And he's introduced me into spiritual ecstasy. And from that day onwards, the woman was a different woman altogether.
alive for two Anisha What if you live in a life? I know of many men and May Allah guide one in all who spend lavishly on their spouses, not because of a generous hand, but to appease the guilt of infidelity that haunts them at the late hours of night.
So you know what you're doing in your private hours in your travel and that bothers you and it owns you. And you cannot look your wife in her eyes and you know what you're up to and how long are you going to run this race and how long you're going to play this game My brother is going to catch up it has to end and really you need to draw the line. There's nothing like gradually and slowly and I will try now you got to leave it cold turkey. That's a done and dusted. It's over
Booyah marathon runner. We are on the long run, who had a relationship with a woman pre Islam. And then he reverted to Islam. And then she came and invited him Come, let's have the relationship and he said, No, I've closed that chapter and I've moved on. And he said, okay, she said, Let's get married. And then he asked the prophets Allah isn't Listen, I knew this woman and we had feelings and emotions and we had relations can I marry her? And Allah revealed the verse, Allah 10 keyhole musharaka
Amina wala Amato Minato Hiram, emotionally catahoula Shabbat calm, and you cannot wet the polytheist until she does not revert to Islam. And he said, Okay, listen, my faith has told me it's not permissible and that's it. They moved on.
omnicell Maria Lana's tale tells us a great story of loyalty, fidelity, honesty, integrity in a world where promiscuity has just dominated the scene.
And so the tail is very long. When abou Selma and Selma will live in Mocambo Carolina and they will perform in the hedgerows. And they put the child on the camera and off they leave. And as they are on the outskirts of mocha mocha Rama they intercepted, intercepted by who intercepted by the family, the tribe of Miss Alma. And they say to Abu Salma in Kuta Halyburton Allah nepsac former balou mo Attica de where he had been tuna. Listen, you're a man of your choice, and you have a free will, you can go but your wife belongs to our tribe, and we're not going to allow her to leave. So they separate me from my husband
wama en la toma zoji. And when my husband's tried to see that my tribe separated me, they come to intervene and they say, Listen, you can have your daughter but that child is our blood, we want that child.
So I often went on the journey of Amara with colleagues, I narrate the stage to them, I say, this journey and this pathway is riddled with challenges like this. For us, it's a four hour drive in a GMC and that's about it.
A con and we there quickly, but this is what this journey of history tells us.
Zainab Ravi alamanda, the eldest daughter of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. She leaves my karma karma unbearable so it was not a Muslim at that time. He said, Isn't that the daughter of Mohammed Salah ism said yes. Okay, how can we allow her to go without her resina that's a sign of weakness. So he advances and he strikes a with a dagger and a spear, piercing through her belly and piercing through the animal. Some narrations suggest that she was on the family way and she had conceived causing her to collapse and for her to abort the child was you know to miscarry the child.
Her health became so sick she was returned to Makkah. The prophets, Allah ism is in anticipation of zenobia la mana, the migration is put on a hole due to the infliction of a bourbon as well.
And then at some degree, when she stabilizes, she is brought into Medina, but ultimately she never recovers from the wound sustaining the journey of Hendra and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, Hi Ravana to see but fear, my great daughter, my beloved daughter, she suffered greatly in my cause. And when the conquest of Makkah took place, and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, had given general amnesty in general pardon, but he said few people will not be pardoned, and amongst them was a barbin password, and rightfully so the perpetrator of killing the daughter of Muhammad, the grandchild of the Prophet sallallahu, wasallam, and inflicting a wound which ultimately with the
passage of time, but ultimately, sometimes a person meets up in an accident. And then he gets back to work, but he never recovers totally, that injury, you know, what keeps with him till the end of time, he's back his soul for the rest of his life, and yet comes in her body, Vanessa, and the rabbits, Allison said, there's no pattern for him. And the Sahaba was sitting and her bar walks in, and the Sahaba unsheath their swords, so don't be over la bar, and a visa Laurie Simpson, okay, give him a moment. Let's see what he has to say, Oh, wow. Really? And then you want to throw me what presidential pardon?
And you want to tell me that's great. Really. Words cannot explain the bosom of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam if somebody is insulted my child and you say what can you listen to now? I don't want to listen, I just don't want to deal with I don't want to entertain and the province allows him said okay, let's hear what he has to say. And he says, oh, Mohamed Salah is some I've committed a crime I'm not proud about and I know I've made a mistake, and I've made a blunder in my life. And then I've heard about how great you are and how amazing you are and how truthful Islam is. And I've come here to ask you please forgive me. And the messenger sallallahu Sallam unconditionally says, I
have pardon him. Don't Don't him.
Really my brother?
Where are we from the mark anyway just to move on an expert idea. So long story short, that tribe of oma Salma, take her aside the tribe of her husband, they pulled the China side. So she says, For rabine ouabain Ebony visa, we were traveling as a family of three and in a minute we were all divided. And that's life. Things can change at any time. Things can change at any time. Nobody is anchored permanently. Nobody feels should feel safe and sound. I'm sitting soft and all these good things can change at any time. We ask Allah to keep his bounties and favors upon us.
She said Mecca to Allah Delica Santa arriba mean Santa a good year pass by I would cry in anticipation of my child anticipation of my husband and then one of my family members passed and they put me and they said please man, you know what? unite this woman with her child and let her go. So finally they give me my child I hop onto my conveyance I put my child and off I leave my car, and I barely get to 10 rrim where we go to renew and do our ombre from Mama in Bella to tener cream hasta la Tito Osman Othman Ivana Taha and I met offline Edna talhah. And he wasn't a Muslim at that time, he was the custodian of the carbine, the key. And he said he had been discharged Iraq as a
father was known as the rocket that means provision rocket for the traveler. So it was a very generous man, that if you travel with him, you don't have to take expenses for the road. You know, some people if you're traveling with them, they're so generous. You don't have to worry. And some people if you travel with them, you must take extra
because you know, he's he's his wallet always forgotten, his cards are always depleted. So some people if they traveling with you, you need to take extra that's the sad reality. But some people Subhanallah such if you travel with them, they and I've traveled and I've seen people, I promise you a generous man is a happy man. He's a happy man. He is beloved to the creation of Allah and most importantly, his beloved to Allah. And a person who Mises is a miserable man is a depressed man at night is restless. And the worst thing of it all, Allah despises such an individual, may Allah make us among those that are generous.
May Allah make us May Allah give us that. May Allah make us generous, not by monetary definition by spirit.
Some people are generous by monetary but not by spirit. Let me unpack what I'm saying. They can spend a lot but they cannot praise one person.
They cannot praise No, no. A proud man feels violated when others are praised. Be generous. Acknowledge others compliment others spend on others. You will be a happy man you'll be a peaceful man. You'll sleep and sigh with relief you'll see the goodness
awesome and if Natasha came and said me You have to set I'm going to maka America had nobody was you Maria de la la toma buena yada nobody only Allah in the skin. These are the words of earthman have an apple Hi, can you imagine the that that society? What did he What did the automatic Natal ha say? Well, la Hila rookie had Tableau de la Medina says I will not leave you till you reach Medina. And then Selma says masahito Rajan, Amina Larabee Tato Akram wala Ashraf Mina, Othman. I've never seen a more measured respectful, dignified, chaste man than Earth Martina talhah
Guna Isabella Manzella middlemen as an alphabet really, some yesterday Ronnie Hata is unable to unbundle he was the way to add a lot of the whenever we would hold, he would put the camera down, then he would move aside then I would dismount. Then he would take the camera to a tree, tie the leash around, allow the animal to have some fodder. He would sit at another tree, eat his food, I would have my meal. When it's time to resume he would come drop the camera down, move aside. I would hop on he would hold the reins and walk and he did this unabated for weeks on end until we reach Medina falam My beloved el Medina when we read reached Medina, he said xojo he had the hill Perea
for the holy ha insha Allah, Sister, I think your husband would be in this place. You may enter may Allah be with you. He didn't wait for recognition. He never made any advancements. He never made any lustful relationship. I often say in a home. The best thing to show our children as parents is our love and not our lust.
It makes us a good parent that we show the best thing you can do.
For your children is to love their mother. And the best thing you can do my sister for your children is love their father, show our children our love, not our last. Today we don't show love and we act in lust. That's what the world is all about. That the child doesn't know where to put his head and how to behave. Because there's no morals and values. We've just lost the whole thing. Show your children love not last the prophets Allah is some would kiss the hand of Fatima whenever she came. And wherever the Prophet sallallahu wasallam went to Fatima she would kiss his hand. He would vacate his seat she would vacate her seat, cabinet mushiya to her laptop to and machete Rasulullah
sallallahu wasallam her walk was a replica of the work of the prophets of Allah it was an inch by inch that is love and that's what we ought to display.
I gave a talk in Australia to some kids in a school. I said how many of your kids kiss your parents?
Okay, how many boys have kissed girls?
How does the chef know?
Right? The kids are not kissing their parents will lie he was values.
That is like intrinsic it's part of your nature. Allah is my witness till today I kiss my parents feet. Not metaphorically, literally. Literally I kiss their toes in their feet.
In the books of FIFA and Hadith you will hear the Hadith teaches us way to case
to kiss the hand of a pious person when Jose five ninja man went to Rome, and it was intercepted by the Romans at that time.
And then the Roman Emperor said deny Allah and I will give you my empire
and Jose five nehama and set the alarm on who
if you were to give me what you own, and then tie your will owns
so that I must forsake my Dean for a moment Martha alto I won't do it. You offering me half your kingdom? If you were to give me what the whole world owns.
And you asked me to leave my faith for one moment I won't.
He said okay, well then I'm going to kill you is that I never stopped you.
I never stopped you.
Is that okay? Come and kiss me on my forehead. No. Some people you have to massage the ego. Some people are such you need to inflate them you have to make them feel important. That's how some people are That's a lotta 30 min Nobel Kelvin lava kisara hoatzin totally like this Arabic proverb sometimes a barking dog The only way you can appease it you got to throw bread at it all the time. That's the only way otherwise the dog is gonna bark so just just buy the bread might cost you a loaf lesson is going to cost you a love or you amazing you brilliant you phenomenal you grade the plot outside one cemetery inside this graveyard are many people who thought the world won't function
without them. If any The world is doing much better.
Inside Yeah, there are many people who thought they indispensable. They indispensable or the world is a better place without them.
Okay, kiss me on my forehead.
So how are they find a man said if I kiss you on your forehead? Would you release me and all my my colleagues SRL release everyone. So he looked in his heart. When the heart is clean and you consult then Allah will give you an answer instantly. But when the heart is polluted, then you can you know Shaka mechanist hora for one month but no luck is like talking to the girl. Okay, okay, now I can talk to you now I'm going to do is taharah We'll talk tomorrow. And then you go into on your prayer mat and you make an STR and you want a vision? Like Really?
Really? Are you serious about the whole thing. You chatting away the whole day and then you want to get a bit serious two hours before retiring to bed because now you like a bit spiritual. So I need a vision from the Almighty. So listen, we're not talking now. We both said let's just wait till we get an answer like really, and he looked in his heart and he kind of had the, you know, feeling the intuition and the feeling that go for it. So he goes and kisses him, kisses him just to appease him, but basically to secure the release. So all are released and they come back to Medina they bounce off the tail to say Narmada the alano and Amara Delano says Hakuna Allah Kula Muslim, Bella rasa
Abdullah Abdullah. Okay, listen, now we're going to gather the entire Medina and everybody is going to pay tribute and kiss this man on his forehead. And I know how much
nahata we'll start off by kissing him first.
We don't even know about that case we never heard of it. We blowing kisses over the air.
What they say in English Don't let the fool kiss you and don't let the kiss fool you.
Don't let the kiss fool you and don't let the fool kiss you. Yeah. Well, I hope the answers are hearing me. Like I was blown away brother. My word man. Whoa, okay, they're sisters in a musty let me be a
and so osmani Blackwell has said, almost Selma said the man was dignified, platonic, respectful, not crossing the bashful line. And how did Allah compensate him? This morality of is a Laplacian with emotion. And can there be a greater compensation for a virtue other than been endowed with human and can there be a greater retribution for any wise other than deprivation of Eman?
Okay, let's move on. That's just the first quality right time is running out. So that's the first thing May Allah make us modest really, we need to work on ourselves we need to become you know conscious. That is a beautiful quotation I read in one kitayama quoted it's like in Arabic Ordo and are translated they say either met us there another coffee in a he costs there other men never sorry.
Adam a pasta nazzer it's insufficient to say I did not intend to roll my gaze. You need to intend not to run your gaze.
hope I'm not being too intricate here. I exited my house and Oh, I didn't realize it I didn't mean to look but I was exposed. So I look it's a no no, no, no, no, no. You need to consciously mean not to look before exiting.
So you can't just pre expose yourself to a situation and then say I was off guard. No. You know you're going into a corporate environment. You're at an airport, you are at a hotel. You are traveling. You need to keep your gaze modest. You need to consciously keep yourself May Allah bless us all with modesty. I promise you that's the greatest gift the husband can give to his wife and the wife can give to her husband is a life of fidelity, loyalty and morality. And in today's time, it's so rare. The second amazing quality in the life of Satan I use of alayhi salaatu wa Salaam was
was the only female very he was she the two females the
balance. Life is all about balance to strike the fine line where to be gentle and where to be stern.
Let's just look at the nature and the importance of balance in life.
As a five near Monrovia learners said Lisa Thiago calm and Latina yet una de La La La La Nina through Kunal after Ali dunya when Akina Latina Yahoo, Donna mean ha de bois de, usually are not the best of Allah creation, who forsake this word in its entirety, to secure the afra. And no, are you the best, who forsake the latter to secure this world, but rather the best amongst you are those who can strike the fine balance, getting married, nobody said abandon your mother. But now you need to strike the balance between mum and spouse, become empires, nobody said give up recreation. Recreation is part of the Prophet sallallahu some Sahaba if you read how much uma and benta there
was in their lives, you will be blown away. Can we get a better hona bill?
They used to hurl melon pills at one another and play.
They say one of the greatest attraction to the dose of Muhammad urbanicity in was can either set the Doha nzlr Allah so called Basra when it was met de he used to go to the marketplace and greet the people where you might as the whom it would have a chuckle with this one, he would have a smile with that one. What they say in English, as smile confuses an approach in frown.
You know the person's like and you smile is like doesn't know which way to go with the smile. What is frown. So when you smile it confuses that frown and scowl that's coming. He wants to be stern and all you know straight and rigid and this way and you smile you confusing that man? And by the way, scientifically, they say you must smile because when you frown, you exert more facial muscles.
So you put in more stress on your on your face, so it's cheaper to smile.
What's the definition of a smile, the only curve that puts things
The only girl smile smile. It's a it's a Sunnah the prophet SAW us and taught us. Whenever he entered the house. There was a miswak in his mouth and he was smiling. I shouted, Ilana said and by Allah I say this. When the Prophet of Allah got up in the morning, his blessing teeth were more fragrant than your and then our teeth after we brush it.
When the Prophet of Allah got up in the morning, his blessing teeth were more fragrant prior to using miswak, than our teeth are after we use it. That is our pure he was his life was so pure and noble yet, but he entered he was using them as well to teach us oral hygiene. oral hygiene is so important.
I mean, sometimes we have habits and because of that, can we imagine we compromise the intimacy with our spouse and our partner, because when we meet in that partner is exposed to a foul smell and a stench, we need to be sensitive, we need to be cognizant, we need to take this into consideration that at the point of intimate we inflicting inadvertently if you choose to say so although we could argue otherwise, because it's a habit that we have formed.
So the whole thing is about balance in life. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam had paid Sahaba Maha. And among them he had paired salmaan with da da de la mano. So salmaan comes to visit the house of a Buddha for our own metadata immutable data so he finds that metadata is dressed very shabby the Hadith is in Buhari very shabby. So he says no matter why you like this, you dress so shabby, modestly, of course. So she says, A hokey ahuka about Dada Lisa who has a terrific dunya your brother Buddhadharma husband's got no inclinations no interest. I said I'm going to dress myself adorn myself. I just got no interest. He said nothing. Then Ilana came home Santa Armani prepared
food, and he told salmaan Kool Aid. So salamandre Jelani said join me sitting beside him I'm fasting. So salamander the Alanna said I won't eat till you eat so a fella McCann Elaine when it was time to ignite the hub Alia Kumi Sara Kelsey usermod I'm going to offer nightly prayer nocturnal prayer. So sarmento delana said go to your wife and sleep. So he went and slept again. He got upset. Amanda said go back and sleep. Our Deen is complete. Our faith is awesome. Our religion has a full package in it. There's laughter there's humor, there's banter, there's recreation. There's excitement. There's close moments. There's exciting moments. I shall have the Alanna said the entire
life of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam whenever we ate from a common vessel or from a common utensil, Kenyatta or Moses.
Whenever he would take the glass, he would say I shall. Where did you put your lips? I want to put my lips there. Cana Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Jakub below if Danny said he was in tomato, Huck. I saw a lot and said the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to kiss one of his spouses even while he was fasting, then she used to blush.
Then she used to blush out of modesty because the reference was herself. So she wouldn't say but he said a lot he was selling while he was fasting. While he was fasting. He wouldn't leave the house without kissing.
That's warmness that's love
my head or the Prophet Sessoms head was in my lap during the cycle of the month where I was impure and he was reciting Quran MST what am nawawi has did us in his shadow of Muslim under this Hadith, it's very academic in juristic but so much deductions over this Hadith, but that was the bond that was the relationship. The Sahaba were gone out in a campaign and then they return in and the pendant of eyeshadow delana gets missing. So I said of Yolanda starts looking for it. And because of her nobody saw some stops and because of nobody saw some the whole group stops and why it's one pendant and how they anybody tells the provinces anything so they go to Abu Bakar and they tell Abubakar
Alanna please you need to tell your daughter you need to be real really man, you can't put a hole to everyone because of a pendant
at the time of Salah while a sewer Allah will do in LA sama who my own, they don't have water and they didn't perform ablution and now the delay is getting on an eyeshadow delana cannot find it. And the Prophet Sessoms just waited. Oh my word Oh my word he's still alive. He was the lamb that that someone to be really, really, you know, somebody said an amazing thing. You will find an atheist and an agnostic who choose to deny the existence of Allah. And we don't condone it because everything is a testimony to Allah. But how do you choose and deny a man
who inhabited the planet and lived amongst us? How do you deny it? Like like really? He was a human. He was a mortal, and he lives such a pure and wholesome life.
And then Abu Bakr radi, Allahu comes to Isola. And he nudges and he says, Listen now can we leave this pendant and move and people are waiting. And she says mama Annie, I'm unable to move because let me set some headings on my lap. And just then the verses have to mama reveals. So we'll say dibner says mahiya be overly bureaucratic on your abubaker abubaker you are an amazed person, you and your family, even when we suffer a snag or a setback or a hiccup with you and your family in that hiccup. Also Allah creates a concession for the oma so your your wife rather your long run how the honorable concert of the province blossom is looking for it. And because of that everybody is
delayed and is the time of salah and through that the revelation of the young man comes down and in that the Omega concession Delta Yama, yeah yo holla Xena Amano era quantum a la sala de Falco cielo junocam are at a con el El Mirage at 100 se como de la Camille elecampane We're in kuntum General wenford panaro. We're in Canton Mirada olsr I don't mean come in Allah. Allah Mr. manisa Phelim TJ Duma Fatah yamamo. Sorry, then Tony Benn, Sam Safra will be will join econ widecombe. Allah give the whole explanation. Finally, when they stand up, the independent was beneath the foot of the camel. You know, looking everywhere in India, be it as it may. So then someone tells you go spend time with
your wife. And when it's the latter part of the night, he says, Now stand up now you pray. And then the alarm goes to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And so this is what Solomon has told me and nobody says some said sada Solomon, Solomon spoke the truth. And in one narration salmaan has a better understanding than you. So accept what he told you. So that's our faith balance. And I think today we lose the balance, we don't have it. So this is very important, when to be gentle, when to be stern. So how we contextualize it and that's the second thing in life. Am I being too stern with my kids? Or am I being too soft? Am I being balanced? Do I have the fine line? have I taken my
health, you know, consciousness to a level of obsession? Or am I too lazy about it? balance.
So when I say that our user is on the throne of age, and things have moved on, and so these brothers walk in, and then he asked them that Listen, don't you have another brother? Yeah, we have a brother, but he lost his brothers. Our dad keeps him but they don't realize they're talking to the man himself. Right. And they refer him to Binyamin and usually Sam is fine in to see that brother. So what does he say the balance Allah Tarragona Annie, oh, Phil, Kayla Anna. Hi, Romans Elaine. A Tony B Attila comin Abby, GM Alan Tarragona Annie. Oh, Phil Kayla Anna, Romans 11 for Elantra Tony Biggie Fela Kayla lacustrine de la la Takara bone. Listen The next time you come for grain please
bring that brother on. Bring him along and around. Don't you see? Don't you realize Annie Oh Phil kale, I give measure in full I give grain in full one a three year old man zilean and I'm probably one of the best of hosts you can ever get. polite, gentle, motivating, encouraging. And comes out of sternness because he's pining to see his brother.
Tony be he Fela, k la la COVID-19. De but let me sound A word of caution. While I asked you and implore you and request you to bring your brother, they are unaware that the brother is the man himself. You're talking of use of himself on the throne. So please bring that other brother of yours. I want to meet him and I'll give you an additional common load. but less than if you don't bring him I'm afraid fella Kayla Kumar in the den leave alone. He won't get anything, you won't get anything. Voila, qaboun. And do yourself a favor, don't even come here to me.
I said my son, I love you. You've performed your prayer. I appreciate that. And I will acknowledge you thank you spent on you. But if you're going to persist on a mat in your prayer, then you have to forget about the favors and the perks you enjoy. And I think one of the most great challenges today raising children is the youth of today after this urbane Allah or anything, they don't want consequences. How do you accept that I always grapple with this and I say to my kids, that that's the system there is consequences. That's men. He wants to do.
wrong but he doesn't want them to speak any consequences. No, it doesn't work like that. If I do wrong there are consequences. So that's the second quality May Allah give us balance in life. Imagine the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is Sharia law says he would hop into bed and I just marvel at this. He would hop into bed hatherleigh superjail to be God is blessing skin with touch my skin. Can you imagine this honor? You say you want to dine with a celebrity you want to sit with the star you meeting with this Prime Minister you met with this head of state? I inserted a Lana says skin to skin with the paragon of Allah's creation with the greatest of humans that he said Allison
would say yeah, I shatta gibreel Yakov Aliki Salam I this is gibreel he is greeting you. Yama, de la Cabrera. Mohammed they fell by to Beatty. Well, maka no makani. In the Jose Starla Nisa a Mohammed in BC fertin nama Ronnie was subaqua to hoonah illa Elphaba illegally ha for server Posada de Waal arena norina ni mehriban bu Amata Bina Tara, eBay fell Yomi Yomi was the man who Zamani zoji rossano la isla de la zona de la Sol de la isla maraviroc Allahu wa Gianni bhiwani. Taguchi burrito Lamine ob surah t
inara. Honey and a big crew Lazaro NDC ru who was the G roofie menzi li Tama Ronnie watercolor mala who loved the movie for jetty wa t. v. maka, mill qurani. Allahu wa bahaman Radha Tanaka say if can all my word if I go into this couplets it just gets me too emotional. I don't have words to tell you. I Shara the the poet impersonates and speaks on behalf of Sharia law. He says the one who despise as our Isha don't come to the grave of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam because that's my house, and that's my abode. And he passed away in my lab, and Allah gave me a virtue that he gave to no one else. I'm his only spouse that was wedded to him and I wasn't wedded to anyone else.
gibreel came to him while he was in seclusion with me and alarm Lem bested and Allah attacked those people in the Quran categorically, who attacked my honor Allah who was bahaman arada Tanaka see if can or sub baja nafsa houfy, Shani and Allah said regarding me. So baja naka de butano, Navin sobre Hanukkah, I was actually driving in one day, and I overheard this couplets on a radio station, Alliance, my witness and as I started hearing it, I started crying uncontrollably. I've just given you a just I've just paraphrase. I've given you a loose translation. But if you appreciate the honor and the status and the position of eyeshadow de la mahana, a captured in these couplets, you will
know precisely what I'm alluding to it as it may I shadow the Alanna says the prophet SAW some would come home, he would hop into the bed, he would talk to me chat with me. And then when he would satisfy me and he would see that I'm now getting tired to sleep, then he would excuse himself, really my brother, I deny my wife that moment of privacy and closeness and proximity because I'm with friends, and the Prophet of Allah didn't deny his wife that moment, despite wanting to spend the night in Salah, but he would come hop into bed give her her time and when I'm about to sleep, then he came out there it was him and his Lord and the night.
Then Then you want to read a book on marriage and you want to read this and that like the hadith of Muslim he would get up early. He would offer his prayer for in consumerist at Latin color money, and then he would see it wouldn't disturb me after he offered his prayer. If I was up, you wouldn't have a word with Aisha, how are you? Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar. So May Allah give us balance in our life, say I mean
the third quality in the life of Satan, I use a very solemn and I'm gonna try and move a little faster now so that we can absorb this and we can digest it because time is taken, you know quite a bit. I'll help him. He was a tolerant person, the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, Jimmy O'Shea and Elijah in Amsterdam in Helmand. illa illman. You can marry two qualities but they cannot be a combination of any two qualities greater then knowledge paired up with tolerance. That is just amazing. To me, I show you on Isla Shay in accent amin Helman Ella. I mean, if a person is for barent he's taller
aren't any has knowledge now? There's the whole incident mentioned and you know if we know and we read Quran and we understand it will appreciate it. But anyway, the vessel of use of a Salaam of the king is put in the luggage of Binyamin and then they are implicated that you people are thieves. And the easiest answer to this whole aspect is karateka Kadena the use of gallica Kadena the use of maca and Alia aboda woofie de Natal Malik Allah said dusted we plan for use of and once Allah allows or approved, then there is no issue pertaining to impermissibility. So anyway, when the vessel was found in the belongings of Binyamin, the other brothers dropped their heads down and they said to
the king, although he has a
whole loom in a server Hi, yo, Sophie Neff. See he welcome you, buddy. Holla home. They said to him, Your Excellency, Your Majesty forgive us. Today this boy has stolen actually he had a brother by the name of use of men use of was also a thief.
Lo and behold you saying it to the man on the throne, clueless that this is the man. But the beauty of his forbearance was he was composed, he was calculated. He didn't reveal anything you have in a family meeting. And she's saying he's like this. He's saying she's like this and back and forward and mudslinging and Family Feud. And then there's a blatant accusation that is hurled at one person, which one of you has the muscle to behave and become and calculated? No, no, no, that's accusing me that's accusing my family, how they how nasty how wicked are evil, and then there's just no limit to the vulgarity that's thrown out. I often say some people can speak one language, but they can sway
in three languages.
Some people they speak only one language. But when it comes to vulgar, they know five languages. They can sway in vernacular, they can sway in English, they can sway in a foreign language, they can sway in many languages. That's the sad reality only when it comes to vulgarity then really switching and changing from language to language.
Look at the verse of the Quran and look at the beauty of the Quran. Allah is addressing the prophets a lot, isn't it?
La Camila. Big, La Ilaha Illa who are the Bharani mushrikeen while OSHA Allah Houma shako wa Jana Cali him happy ba mama and Tara Lee him beaverkill Follow me you hear a revelation that came to you, what are the pineal mushrikeen and turn away from the polytheist what they are saying towards you, etc. And then Allah says Allah does so bowl has in their own I mean, do Neela Allah switches from a singular phrase to a plural? Allah says and don't swear don't abuse don't use vulgarity against those dieties that are worshipped besides Allah, then you say Islam is not tolerant for you. So Paula had one because then you will set the precedent for them to abuse Allah, so don't abuse
anybody else's God or deity. So the scholars say how amazing when Allah said follow revelation Allah use a single phrase, when Allah said obey Allah use a single, but when it came to the aspect of don't swear or use vulgar Allah use a plural because that is not applicable to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam because he never used vulgar that applies to you and the Prophet sasm was never ever vulgar in his entire life. One who use the lab fella
the Sahaba said that the Prophet of Allah two things are amazing and no who yells lip fella Yeah, but one who you
lie upon LTV Hamid al Kalam, that the Prophet of Allah when is victorious, he's never proud. And when somebody overpowers him is never vulgar.
Or did you ever see a losing team respectful and dignified one of the issues of the occupants of health in Nevada Kala hacohen Taha, Sumo emaline are occupants of hell because they the losers, may Allah protect us there is going to be this fighting. So the Quran says, apart from the affliction and their punishment, and they tow men to add salt to injury, there is going to be fights amongst them, so that you know, like, the flight is grounded, or the flight is delayed, and now it's hot and the acorns are not working and the children are having a fight.
You know, it just makes it so much more unpleasant.
So this is going to be torture to the occupants of hell. Then psychological torture. May Allah protect us. gallica Yuri him. Allahu Allah. Hassan, Tina la him waman Bihari Jean Amina na
psychological torture Okay, so what we were saying is that tolerance they seem to use of he they don't know us forgive us men you know these days he had a brother by the name of use of men his brother was a big thief man for use of use of capital secret in his heart when a mule de holla whom he said nothing in his heart, he said and don't share Rama Khan or you are much more evil what which tongue do you speak? You know, you find some person is doing certain bad dealings in business and he's operating on a big scale. And then he says, No, no, we must name and shame these people who are stealing. That's right but who's talking? I'm like really? What which? What what phase are you
talking? I understand what is wrong is wrong. But I mean, think about your own self. your closet is not clean. your closet is not clean.
So you accusing him and saying his brother You stole that use of an abductor from his father.
So tolerance, my brother the single most needed ingredient in your marriage is tolerance. The single most needed ingredient Let me tell you why Allah loves tolerance the most. Are we fresh? are we are we over? Can we have a show by hands? Are we still okay for me to run? The fresh 123
realizes that hand down or up?
I know sisters are focused in Sharla brothers are we good? Okay. shokran I'm relaxed. I hope you relaxed. We learn in my brother we learn in I have no knowledge while others is Quran. This is Quran and Hadith. Our Deen is beautiful. When you immerse yourself into it, you will just swim in its waves and in its ocean, and you can just cry how many times a lie is my witness. It's late hours I'm studying at home. And then I read a verse I read the Hadith and the tears just trickle down and I just cry and I say oh my lord, how do I begin thanking you for for blessing me with this Deen my Allah where do I start? Where do I start my a lot like what a dean you've given me my a lot of
guidance in every aspect of my life in every most minute detail, that how I live respectful. I always say show me one religion on this earth that teaches you how to behave with a fellow passenger. The Koran used as such a universal phrase that Allah impresses upon us the rules. If there is a person sitting next to us in a train in a coach in a plane in a queue. Standing at any place was sahibi Belgium
labuda long hawala Toshi Coby he Shane, or bill Wiley Dini, son will be the Aruba, one, Nia Tama one Misaki. While gyri, the core roba Jerry Jones was so high BB jump, and be kind to the person standing next to you. We are occupying a common place for two minutes you want to coach to get to the flight to board the aircraft, how I behave with him, my faith is so complete that it even governs my relationship with the humans standing next to me for a minute.
Then you want to go with begging bowls to others and ask them for cultures and guidance.
Like we're running short of ideas.
So I said the single most needed ingredient is tolerance. So here's an incident in the Quran. Just briefly, some woman and children had denied their spouses from participating impair fathers in the different expeditions with the Prophet sallahu wa sallam no stay back, you cannot go you cannot join them. So the Sahaba stayed behind and they obliged to the requests and the imposition of their spouses and their children. So Aladdin sounded a word of caution. Yeah, you
know, in Naaman as well as a con, una de con, I do well come home. Oh, you believe some of your spouse's and your children or your enemies, so be careful, the internal enemy. So then they started keeping them aloof and they kept them at a distance, said no, Allah said that you are enemies the way you behave. So Allah then revealed the verse And Allah said what they did was wrong, but the approach you have adopted doesn't help the situation. I'm paraphrasing. And the scholars say in the Quran, Allah has used at times, fu n times Allah said first, but this is one place in the Quran where Allah has I'm going into the linguistics and the semantics. Allah has brought together all the
terminologies that encourage you to forgive or in a fool
What does swallow What does zero for in Allah for Rahim, what they did was wrong but forgive, overlook, pardon, embrace and Allah will forgive you. Hence Allah loves that we forgive, but the most tolerance is required in our homes. And I say that with the cap of a father. And I say that with the cap of a husband. So I'm not talking on sheer theory, but like I always say, I love speaking on marriage issues when I'm away from home.
Right? Because that's the easiest part. Because otherwise I come home and my kids are like, oh boy, you said this, but you I didn't see you do. Right. That's besides what happens when you get in the bedroom.
So I always say if I can only speak on what I practice, my topics are exhausted. Because I'm a sinner myself and I am a fallible mortal myself, may Allah guide one in all and protect us, but do we say intolerance? Remember we spoke about Lyrica, we spoke about yesterday. Then we spoke about the balance between sternness and harshness. Then we spoke now about tolerance. Now the fourth thing
what's the fourth amazing quality fifth to have enough confidence we live in in a world with low self confidence? Our children are living there's no confidence. They don't have muscle. In English. They say a bad decision is better than no decision.
They cannot make a decision how many youngsters phone boys go down and get married? Yeah, but I'm not sure but I don't know. But I think so. But maybe but who knows? Really, really, really? You're going in circles you're just going on and make a decision. Sometimes somebody is in fatally ill they are on a ventilator you need to pull it out. You need to be able to take a decision in life.
I said generation isn't higher to Sahaba when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam passed away is that ihlara bukata baton was Robin nifa This is amazing.
The Arabs became renegades many of them. hypocrisy reared its ugly head
Sora as harbor Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam can no more can no Mirza moto euro feel a Latin moto euro be our they must be ah oh man these amazing words. I shadow the Alanna said many of the companions appear to be rather your long run home like wet sheep on a rainy night in a forest infested with predators.
So the situation outside was wonderful. People just want the two pounds.
One la helipad NASA lobby Abby mylonas ella Bella Bella Rosa de la Ha ha ha. But the oma owes that gratitude to my dad for his confidence for how he asserted himself for how he took control over the situation, how he rescued the crisis, while lahemaa della foofy nocta in LA Tara Abebe heartily ha ha Well, firstly Now, whenever the companions debated or discussed or differed on an issue, my dad had the confidence to rise for the moment make a decisive decision and steer the people that people like giants intellectual giants like honor the Atlanta said Abu Bakar let's go but slow if people are lax would get in the car. It's volatile. Now let's play our cards safe. And what did say the now
Abubakar say a Jabbar and Phil Julio hawan, Phil Islam Raja nostra duck, Omar, I didn't expect that from you my brother. I need you on my side. Find him to anila Hi Sarah. Hi Sandra be back. When I realized Abubakar was on a mission the man had confidence in what he was doing. After Lebanon was fruit said let the goon Emma. Emma, this is the number one reason Hayato sababa dilepton Massaro, don't be in MA. So people said what is a map, he actually coined this word. He coined this phrase from the word map, and I'm a nurse enough to go with the flow. If people aren't guidance, I'll go with them. If they deviate, I will deviate. But anchor yourself in the right values where the people
move with you or choose to leave you
have confidence. Don't be arrogant. Don't be overconfident, but you need confidence. So when when say that our use of and here's the context when he was in the jail, and then innocently was incarcerated, and then came up the whole issue of the dream and the vision and then the king heard about the dream. So he said Oh, well I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. So usually Sam said a doll Niala Casa
de huffy, Luna Holly give you the know how to run the affairs make me in charge. I will show you what to do. Today there are a lot of people our brother you're not doing a good job. So you can no No, no, not me, not me. No, no, no, I really, really don't know how to carry on carry on you. So we have
A lot of people who will criticize from the back, but put them in the driving seat, I'm afraid. They don't know how to press the buttons. They know nothing, no confidence, no knowledge, no idea and just to blurt and condemn and criticize. So we need a level of confidence. Our youth today are living in a world cyber world constantly comparing low self esteem low self esteem, constantly in psychology. Today we talk he suffers the low self esteem suffers an inferior complex because of that feels betrayed and violated and he feels offended. We need to motivate the prophets of Allah ism, we must never say things that will make negative influence on a child. There was that Sahabi by the
name of Zaha, he was simple. He was you know, easy by nature. You will stay on the outskirts of Medina he would come and the province Allison would spend time with him Cana Rajan and Jemima, he was not attractive in his appearance. So people didn't give him much recognition. The profits are some came from the rear one day hugging from the back man yesterday has a lab I'm auctioning the man anybody interested to buy? And there's a prophet of Allah and then he feels the palms and he realized wow, there's going to be of Allah. So it looks at the messenger sallallaahu Selim and as a smile, he said even today, Danny will learn he can see that you're going to auction me but I'd be so
cheap, how much you're going to get out of me. And the province a lot is some said lucky nine the law he listed because said, but in the eyes of Allah, you are the most expensive You are the most valuable. Can you imagine what that would boost his morale and his self esteem. But if society causes the child to drop out in a black sheep and a delinquent, and we endorse the statements in the comments of society, we drop the esteem of the child, we need to create a generation that has confidence that knows their values, whose footing is anchored in the right things, who can rise to the moment and deliver the first thing in the life of use of a solemn over to the camera at this
amazing intellect at this amazing sharp mine.
He had a memory like no other image Shafi Rahim Allah said before the age of 10, I had memorized the Quran. Soon after that I had memorized the entire matava Malik and then I had memorize 10,000 couplets of only the who they will tribe.
And what did Mr. Malik say to me in Allah Allah Allah tala Baker neuron fella, who Bill masliah Allah has blessed you with a divine light. Allah has blessed you with a divine light. Don't extinguish that light with sin. The the formula, the formula to good intellect and preserve in your faculty and enhancing your memory is to stay away from sin May Allah free us all from sin. So that was that amazing ability in the life of use of it. Some years have moved on, things have evolved, decades have passed, the brothers walk in for arafa home wahama homayoun charoen. He recognizes them and says Oh, these are the same ones. But he doesn't say anything. He moves on the next quality in
the life of usevery. Some and I'm just basically running through it in point form shabaka to Allah,
kindness towards the weak and the feeble and the vulnerable in society. So when he was incarcerated innocently, and like many innocent souls are languishing in jails and May Allah grant them freedom and emancipation and deliverance. While he was there in that jail. He found these two people who were accused of poisoning the Kings food and the case was under investigation. And he said them he gave them time he was close to them. He respected the fellow inmates in the prison yassa CBC Jenny arroba bomb Mata Farah Puna hi Ron amila.
The whole tale in the 12 Jews Allah speaks in cages them reach out to the poor reach out to the weak reach out to the feeble side now mercy in a non Muslim begging in Medina who was only an age he said via Anak Ma and Sapna we as the Muslims we have failed you you live in under our rule and in your old age you have to beg you sit at home and I remember if nahata will give you your allowance every month in your house. That was the recognition for the old and the elderly in Islam and that is outside now Omar gave in them he lived in LA he tala amongst honoring the name of Allah is honor the man who carries the Quran of Allah and honor the man who is aged in Islam. So that's the other
quality in the life of useability salat wa salam, then Allah for Mark qudra. We touched on it, but this is a categorical reference to it to forgive at the time of ability and authority. Right you sitting on the throne and the brothers have walked in, and it's the time to take all the revenge. And do you know how he forgave unimaginable, inconceivable, unprecedented? He said to them, when they got together, he said, Ah well or Yeah, I mean, this is the vision I seen before. Khadija Allah ha Robbie haka, my Lord made it a reality. If we say Mashallah, your dream came true. We like Yeah, but you know how long it took
You don't even know what I went through Easy for you to say it happened is finally came to fruition asked me what happened now. He He took himself out of the equation My Lord made it a reality then Then came the issue between him and his brothers. So look at how he nipped it in the bud. Look at how he nipped it in the bud. What did he say? Khadija Holla Holla be happy haka waka Sana be rajani, Mina sage. And Allah has been very kind when he released me from the jail. The scholars say he highlighted the release from the jail, but he didn't highlight the release from the well, whereas the tail actually evolved from there simply because he had pardon his brothers. And he didn't want
to reference the well in any capacity.
Because that's a thorny issue. Don't start with a well story that just, you know what it's, it's, it gives off. And so he didn't want to make mention of it at all.
What are the aksana be rajani so Allah for makuta to forgive when we have the ability, then the other quality, economical asherah to bring the entire family together. When he gets on the throne, it's not like I'm done in finish. He said, what Tony be alikum edmontonian covering the entire family. There were 70 at number, and he took care of all of them. How many of us grow and evolve and from my second house to my third and from a third to my fourth, and my sister is still renting an apartment. Really? How do we reconcile? How do we balance the act out? I'm growing, I'm planning for my unborn grandchild. For my unborn grandchild, I'm taking out the policy. And my mindset. my
nephews and nieces don't have basic education. So I'm not even expounding on these things, then the next quality in the life of UCLA salatu salam was that of
Fatah eloquence to be articulate?
I'm flying the other day my wife was with me. And we're standing in the queue. And these are like highfliers professional individuals aristocratic and
selling them to Syrian vulgar looking and how dare you look deeper than that? Because like Becca, who you tell me you know, it's each one for himself. And you realize that today people's language is just you know what contaminated with vulgar for so many people. valka is the regular language. For so many use slang is the actual language they cannot see or speak otherwise, so many can only speak one language there is an article that speaks about the IQ of a child who speaks of vernacular, traditional language and the language of the country. his intellect is much more greater and higher to Sahaba in the fourth volume in kuttabul. Ella Marina taze says, can eliminate Zubair Mia to
Harlem, even those who were 100 slaves, yet akella mokulua haddenham Beluga dinorah for Cana even knows where you can live mocha la vida minimum Beluga t 100 slaves they spoke 100 languages after Latin is where Master 100 languages.
Once I was in America, we went to a place it's called Mystery Spot, because they say the whole system of gravity is haywire. But the tour guide was a bigger mystery than the spot.
The place was called Mystery Spot. It was mysterious, you know, a ball rolls upwards no fly zone and you have this in few places. But the tour guide was a bigger mystery. He could greet people thank people acknowledge people in 100 languages. And that stuck with me. Anyway, facade has learned to be articulate learn language when satana musala salaam was sent to Pharaoh. He said oh my lord, I will go What are the haruno afsa hominy Lisa lisanna but my brother Harun, he can speak he's got the gift of the gab he's articulate, can he join me over law and on the request of musar given the articulate nature of Harun Allah accepted his requests and he was crowned with profit word and so both they
went to Pharaoh. So the next quality we learn from the life of mu so we need to impress upon our children we need to learn language we need to appreciate it master Arabic You can just learn and learn for Lama Lama who are in Nakayama Latina Maki you know me when you suffer Assam spoke to the king. He said, Wow, we've got talent like this in the jail. This man needs to come into the throne and the last quality and we conclude we learn from the life of Yusuf Ali Salam was personally to be good planning. We have no plans in place. We have no succession plans in place. Right? When Yusuf Ali Salaam spelt out the destiny of Egypt from the dream is that less than seven years of drought
and seven years of prosperity. I read a book somebody gave it to me studying and he wrote the whole thesis on an Islamic economy in an ideal situation. I didn't read it I just had a cursory glance at it, and snippets of it and in Islamic economy based on this verse of the Quran correlators una Sabanci de nada about like 200 pages he wrote on this half a page of the Quran.
pharma Hassan, don't further rule
hoping some bullet he said seven years there's going to be prosperity and seven years there's going to be drought. Now look at the planning of use of a salami said during the seven years of prosperity, you don't devour it, you don't eat it up, you don't consume it. And then you have nothing when you have as your crops, you leave it in the air. In doing so you extend its life today you freeze it and you extend life, we have refrigeration and you extend life and animal in law and while that's its period, in in captivity, it will live longer, etc, etc. So the planning of use of a Salaam you keep it in the ear, those that are farmers and into agriculture will appreciate the
sentiments here more further. Whoo hoo. In doing so you're protected against bacteria that will destroy the crops, and you can extend its life over the seven years of difficulty has noted to be the Prophet sallallahu. Some said la calacatta db, there are many acts of intelligence, but there's no greater act of intelligence better than good planning. We ask the Almighty Allah subhanho wa Taala to accept our assembly together. And I'm grateful to the masjid and the management and of course the lovely brothers that have hosted me and today being the second talk and tomorrow we have in the final again, but we asked a lot to accept our get together. May Allah give us the ability to
reflect over the advises that were given. May we internalize it and imbibe it, or banner Athena for dunya Hashanah, Hoefler for the Hasina. What another banner?
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